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H. James Anderson

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H. James Anderson, 46, of Legion Drive, Vernon, died Sunday, (April 13, 2003) in Ellington, as the result of an automobile accident. He was born in Manchester, the son of John and Patricia Anderson. James was a Vietnam War U.S. Army veteran. He was a painter and owner of Jeremy & Brothers Painting, and a member of Grace Episcopal Church in Stafford Springs. James is survived by his loving wife of 22 years of marriage, Elizabeth "Betty" (Schwanda) Anderson; four loving children, Jeremy, Sarah, Jonathan, and Jordan, all of Vernon; his parents John and Patricia (O'Reilly) Anderson of Enfield; two brothers and a sister-in-law, Eric Anderson of Connecticut, John and Betty Anderson; a sister and brother-in-law, Linda and Jerry Hutkin; a godson, Timothy Hutkin, all of New Jersey; and several aunts, uncles, nieces, nephews, cousins, and friends. A funeral service will be held Thursday, April 17, at 10 a.m. at Introvigne Funeral Home, Inc., 51 East Main Street, Stafford Springs, CT with Fr. Thomas Beck officiating. Burial will be at the convenience of the family. Calling hours are Wednesday, 6-8 p.m. at the funeral home. Memorial donations may be made to the Anderson Children Education Fund, Stafford Savings Bank, c/o Rose Roszczewski, P.O. Box 25, Stafford Springs, CT 06076.

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Published by Hartford Courant on Apr. 15, 2003.

Memories and Condolences
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19 Entries

Scott and Mary Fishman

May 12, 2003

We met Jim when he painted our deck two years ago. He was a very nice and friendly man. We are very sorry for your loss and we send our condolences.

Sincerely,

Scott and Mary Fishman

Beth Courtney

April 19, 2003

Betty: So sorry to hear about Jim. Saw the notice in the paper and remembered living next to you all in Somers. Love to the kids. Pat, Beth, Joe, Shannon, Erin and Kaylin

Justin Eric D. Case

April 19, 2003

I didn't hear until yesterday but wanted to offer my deepest sympathies and condolences to the family. I was friends with Jim for a couple years but he will definitely be missed. I'll keep him, and you all in my prayers.

Delia Vogel

April 18, 2003

When I heard that Jim had died, the first thing I thought of was how much he loved Betty and his children. The next thing that flashed through my mind was his wonderful smile.

I am very saddened by his death.

Joseph Poche

April 18, 2003

My deepest sympathies to you Betty and your children. I will really miss Jim. He was a good friend and a great guy.

jopo

Kip Parker

April 18, 2003

Dear Betty, Jeremy. Sarah, Jonathan, and Jordan

Truly Jim was one of the most remarkable people I have ever met in my life. His great compassion and boundlees energy in making the life of others happy and better will be a lasting legacy to the family he loved so dearly. Just knowing him and the high ideals he stood for has made me a better person and compels me to continue his mission of helping others and making the world a better place. May God bless you all. Kip

Helene Vaulding

April 17, 2003

Dear Betty, I was so saddened to hear of Jim's passing. I'm so sorry I was unable to attend the wake, but I just heard today. My sincere sympathy to you, your children and your family. My thoughts and prayers are with you.

Fondly,

Helene (Waskiewicz) Vaulding

Wim Visser

April 17, 2003

My condolances to the family of Jim.

First contact 03/14/2002 through the internet. 153 emails.

Last contact 04/05/2003.

In my thoughts he will always be the nicest man I ever met.

I'll never forget.

Wim

Kathy Dixon

April 16, 2003

Betty, We are so sorry to hear of Jim's death. I remember when I took a cream pie in the face for him at the Jr. Volunteer party many years ago. He was a warm and fun guy. Love to you and your family. Kathy and Bob Dixon

Bret Kidder

April 16, 2003

Betty,

I'm truly sorry for your loss, Jim was truly a remakable man, during a very bumpy time in my life, he did nothing but offer support. I came to learn, thats just the way he was. He was truly turning into the father I have always wanted, I will miss him.

David and Olga MacNeil

April 16, 2003

Betty,our condolence to you and your family.Our thoughts are with you and your family.

Jesse Fonda

April 15, 2003

Jim will be sorely missed by all his extended family in the chat room.

Barbara Reynolds(Vlk)

April 15, 2003

Betty and Family,

Our thoughts are with you at this time, even though there are many miles between us.

Love,

Barb,Tom,Christi,Tommy and Jerry Vlk

Jerry,Linda,Tim&Heather Hutkin

April 15, 2003

Thinking of you in your time of sorrow. Remember we love you.

Bob and Birgit Rocconella and Family

April 15, 2003

Our heartfelt condolences to the family.

Patricia DiNallo

April 15, 2003

Betty,

My heartfelt condolences to you and your family. You are in my thoughts and prayers.

Pat DiNallo

Donna Bagnall

April 15, 2003

Betty,

You are in my thoughts and prayers,

My deepest sympathy,

Donna Bagnall

Jeff and Mary and John and Suzanne Carlson

April 15, 2003

We are very sorry.

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