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HENRY STERN Obituary

STERN, Henry G. Age 61, passed away Thursday, September 3, 2020. Beloved husband of 38 years, to Gail Stern nee Roman, devoted father, of Sarah (Deran) Stern and Hannah Stern, loving brother, of the late Joyce Ferreiro and brother-in-law, to Jorge Ferreiro, loving brother-in-law, to Denis Roman, Robert (Brenda) Roman, Jill (Chris) Anderson; and dear uncle, to Elle Ferreiro, Thom (Virginia) Anderson, Ryan (Brooke) Anderson, Scott (Eliza) Roman, Lance (fiancé Isabelle Haas) Roman and Brad Anderson. Private graveside services were held at the convenience of the family. In lieu of flowers, memorial contributions to Northern Hills Synagogue or the charity of one's choice would be appreciated.

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Published by Dayton Daily News on Sep. 6, 2020.

Memories and Condolences
for HENRY STERN

24 Entries

Pamela James

September 12, 2025

Gill ,I am so sorry to hear about Henry I called to talk to him and found out he had passed. I've known Henry oh probably 40 years he used to come to our office all the time. I knew every time you were pregnant I swear Henry had the same symptoms he would gain weight when you gained weight , he would be sick to his stomach if you were sick to your stomach. He talked to me all the time about his girls and how lucky they were that they got to celebrate every holiday, because he was Jewish and you were catholic. I'm going to miss that laugh of his, he was always so happy and chipper when he was around us. Again so sorry to hear about Henry.

bob

August 31, 2025

I can't believe it has been 5 years since you left this world. Gail and I have kept in touch and she visited us about a month ago. That was hard on both of us but she needed a chance to unburden what she has carried in her heart. You are missed by many.

Russ Frame

April 5, 2024

Went to school with Hank at Miami Valley. There couldn´t be a nicer human being.

Russ

Bob Vineyard

September 4, 2023

I still can't believe it has been 3 years since Hank left us. We met via an online consumer bulletin board perhaps a dozen years ago, maybe longer. We only met once in person but developed a strong bond. I considered Hank to be my best friend.

Over the years we shared and discussed many things on a wide range of topics. Most of our conversations were work related but many were things we both found humorous. Hank had a wonderful, quirky sense of humor that revealed itself when you least expected it.

There are still times when I wish I could send him an email, text or just pick up the phone and call. There is a void in my life that will never be replaced. Our time together on this earth was only a few years but for Gail it was decades and for Hannah and Sarah, it was a lifetime.

Time can heal wounds but the scar will always be there.

Vicky Leavitt

August 31, 2023

Still so shocking to remember this passing. Henry was married to a wonderful lady & dear cousin of mine. I just thought of him yesterday when I met the cutest puppy named Hank!!

John Ford

June 6, 2023

I´ve never met Henry but he and I knew each other through our blogs. In a previous life I was the California Medicine Man and he was a frequent commenter. He and I agreed on most things and I used to read his blog religiously as I´ve had an interest in all things related to Health Insurance and he was an expert.

I fondly remember the emails we exchanged and the conversations we had in various comments sections. I was recently thinking about him and came across this sad obituary.

I´ve thought about Henry often and warmly and will always think of him as a friend.

My (belated) condolences to Henry´s family and friends.

John Ford

Michael & Betsy Scheffler

September 28, 2020

I’ve never met, nor will I again, a more friendly, outgoing and all around nice guy. I will think of him and miss him forever.

Sue Daniels Levy-Bodine

September 13, 2020

Hank and I were friends when we were children. When we were in 5th grade he was instrumental in planting a tree at the cemetery in memory of my father. He was always upbeat and encouraging. My thoughts and prayers are with his family.

Frank & Sally Gilland

September 13, 2020

Sally and I were saddened to hear of Hank's passing. He was a great neighbor, friend, and past client. He would always stop and chat, either from his car window or walking his dog. We would always laugh and exchange wits with each other. His happy, jovial mood was always refreshing. He will be sorely missed. God rest his soul!

Greg Fann

September 13, 2020

Very sorry to learn of Henry's passing. We frequently communicated on Twitter. I learned a lot from him, as did others.
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Robert Graboyes

September 13, 2020

Sometime -- maybe 12-13 years ago, I discovered Hank's writings on public policy or he discovered mine. I don't recall who found whom. I was in Washington, trying to navigate the raging debate over health insurance. I understood things from an inside-the-beltway, 40,000-foot view. Hank (and his InsureBlog colleagues) patiently walked me through the ground-level perspective of how the laws and regulations really worked in practice. He was a kind, patient, hysterically funny teacher. And I had the privilege of playing a similar role with Hank--sharing the DC perspective. Over the years, in my view, we became good friends--though we were only in the same room one time. Our banter was very public--mostly on Twitter. He was always thoughtful and gracious and willing to change his mind when the evidence contradicted his beliefs. I can't begin to say how much I'm going to miss Hank and how glad I am that we enjoyed quite a number of years together. Shalom, chaver. -- Bob Graboyes

Daniel Rego

September 12, 2020

We met on an online blog some years ago, though I am saddened that we'll never be able to meet in person. We supported each other's blogs and he even guest posted on mine. He will be missed.

Vicky Leavitt

September 10, 2020

Dear Gail, I was so surprised to hear about the passing of Hank. Just shocked and wish I lived closer to you. Thank goodness for your girls to help carry you along. Still remembering your mom and all the fun vacations we spent together. And Grandma Roman, who I loved dearly & I know loved you. Praying for peace and acceptance for you. Love, Vicky Leavitt

Vicki Cook

September 9, 2020

Hank was a man with a heart of gold and I enjoyed working with him the four years I was at Centerville Insurance Agency. His smile, laugh and bear hugs are unforgettable and I will miss him greatly!!

Beth Davisson

September 9, 2020

Gail, I just heard about Hank's passing. I'm at a loss. He has been a part of my Cornerstone life for 20 years. I always enjoyed Hank on a business and personal level. We shared stories and tragedies together. I will miss his laugh and his conversation. My prayers are always with you and the girls.

David Adler

September 8, 2020

I was in town with my family checking on my mother after the loss of my father. Words can not express how deeply sorry I am for your loss. I have not thought specifically about Mr. Stern for a number of years although I do remember the life lessons that he taught at Temple Beth OR. I can't do anything to ease the family's pain but can say that Hank made an impact in this young man's life. Hank had a quirkiness about him that allowed him to connect with the children. I now use one of Mr. Stern's old jokes today with my kids: " Two wrongs don't make a right but two (W)right's make a plane.Peace be within you.

Mr & Mrs Tom Skelley

September 7, 2020

We will miss Hank’s stories and laugh. Our sympathies to Gail, Hannah, Sarah and the extended family. Tom and Sharon Skelley

Diane Zodikoff

September 7, 2020

Deepest sympathy. Hank had always been so kind to me. I saw him comfort his Mother when I visited their home, decades ago. I went to his Miami Valley School graduation. I wish I’d visited more often.

Maria Masons

September 7, 2020

Gail, Sarah and Hannah,

I grieve your loss. Hank was a friend to all and family to many. I will miss his joy, his laugh and energy.

I am truly at a loss over him not in this world.

Love all the Stern ladies,
Maria Mason

Debbie Cade

September 6, 2020

Hank will be dearly missed by his work family at Centerville Insurance Agency where he had a long career as our Life and Health Agent. He was a true professional and respected by many in his field. Hank treated his clients with compassion and caring guidance. As his coworker I had the pleasure to observe this on a daily basis. Rest in Peace Hank, you will always be a part of us.

Jeff Milne

September 6, 2020

I do not know the angst and anguish you endured, but I wish you had called. I will cherish our conversations regardless of the topic...of which there were many.

BOB VINEYARD

September 6, 2020

Hank was my friend, my mentor and an all around good guy. The world is a sadder place without his presence.

Pamela Zambenini

September 6, 2020

I'm so very sorry to hear of Henry's passing. You all will be in my prayers.

Jeff Bassin

September 6, 2020

Just the nicest, friendliest guy ever. I will never forget his smile, his hug, his handshake. He will be deeply and profoundly missed. I can't believe he is gone.

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