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Jay STELZER

1965 - 2020

Jay STELZER obituary, 1965-2020, Dayton, OH

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1965

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2020

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Jay STELZER Obituary

STELZER, Jay Michael

Age 55, of Park Hills, Kentucky, and formerly of Perrysburg and Dayton, Ohio, passed away

October 29, 2020, surrounded by his family. Jay was born June 15, 1965, in Springfield, Ohio. His family and friends will always remember Jay

as the most wonderful son, brother, partner, step-father, "PawPaw," and friend. Jay brought so much light, love, and laughter to everyone in his life. His big, booming laugh filled any room with joy. Jay loved spending time with his family and friends, who adored him for his kindness, sense of humor, and generous spirit. He loved sports and he was an encyclopedia of sports, movie, and pop culture trivia. One of Jay's greatest joys was his love for his beautiful granddaughters. He graduated from Bowling Green State University and built successful careers with Cincinnati Bell and Procter & Gamble. Jay is survived by his father, Bob Stelzer of Dayton; sister, Cathy (Stelzer) Petersen; brother, Paul Stelzer; the love of his life, Laura Reuss; stepchildren,

Jennifer (Erik) Kruze, Christopher Reuss, and Kyle Reuss; granddaughters, Ella and Reese Kruze; his loving godmother and aunt, Melissa Ivers of Chicago; dear friends, Nick Esber, Hugh Hillix, Tom Irwin, Mark Mikolajewski (Ski); countless

Sigma Nu brothers; and many aunts, uncles, cousins, and friends. Jay was preceded in death by his adoring mother, Marilyn (Ivers) Stelzer, and his grandparents. In the spirit of his selfless heart, Jay made the courageous decision to be an organ donor. His gifts will bring joy and life to families in desperate need. A private funeral service will be held for Jay and his immediate family at Morton & Whetstone Funeral Home in Vandalia, Ohio. A celebration of Jay's life will be planned for the summer of 2021. In lieu of flowers, the family requests that you consider donations to the Juvenile Diabetes Research Foundation or the Life Center of Cincinnati.

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Published by Dayton Daily News on Nov. 1, 2020.

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Debby Davis Fightmaster

November 7, 2020

Laura, I’m so sorry! You are in my thoughts and prayers❣

Neil Kocianic

November 6, 2020

Right now Jay is in Room 208 at Sigma Nu with Tip and he is having some cold Old Milwaukee's and getting ready to eat a Myles garlic bread while watching Cheers. He's wearing his #33 Larry Bird jersey with his safari hat. It's 1985 again & all is right with the world; we have a Tea tomorrow with the Chi Omegas. The gang will all be there; Tip, Nick, Ski, Tracy, Monty, McClure, Marshall, North, Malburg, Slupecki, Dilgard, Barr, Plotnick, Cooper, Gnepper, Duncan. Thanks Jay for being a good fraternity brother; we will miss you. Neil Kocianic, EX 896 Dallas, Texas

Scott Becker

November 3, 2020

So very sorry for your lose. Jay will be missed by so many. We had some wonderful times together and I will truly miss his friendship.

Kristin Shawhan

November 3, 2020

We are so very sorry for your loss. Thinking of his family and friends and remembering Jay with great joy. God bless.
Kristin & Tom Shawhan

Mary Ann Cherry

November 1, 2020

Bob we are so sorry to hear the loss of your son!
Love, thoughts and prayers are with you and your family!

John & Mary Ann Cherry

November 1, 2020

Bob we are so sorry to hear the loss of your son!
Love, thoughts, and prayers are with you and your family.

John and Mary Ann Cherry

November 1, 2020

Bob,we are so sorry to hear the loss of your son!
Thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.

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