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James XARHOULACOS Obituary

XARHOULACOS, James "Jim"
Age 84, of Dayton, passed away Monday, February 8, 2021, at The Hospice of Dayton. Jim was born in Krokeai, Greece, and came to the United States in 1950. Jim was the co-owner of Mr. Steak, Scotch and Steak, Xar's Greek Deli, and the Moraine Embassy Restaurant for 35 years. He was a longtime member of The Annunciation Greek Orthodox Church, Ahepa, and Krokeai Society. Jim was also a proud U.S. Army Veteran and member of American Legion Post 598. Jim was a loving husband, proud father, and adoring papou "grandfather". He was preceded in death by his parents, Theodore and Athena Xarhoulacos; Connie's parents, Tom and Despo Sarantakos; brothers, Bill and Tom Xarhoulacos; sisters, Toula Xarhoulacos; Mary Metro and her husband, William. Jim is survived by his beloved wife of 58 years, Constance "Connie"; daughter, Athena Lobdell & her fiancé, Marcel Bugler of MI; son, Tom Xarlacos of NC; grandsons, Dayne and Deacon Lobdell, Jaco and Joseph Xarlacos; sister-in-law, Donna Pack of Beavercreek; nephew, Ted Metro of Columbus and his family, cousin Harry Trafalis and wife Donna of FL; other relatives and many friends. Private funeral services were held at The Annunciation Greek Orthodox Church with Father Joseph Gingrich officiating. Entombment Woodland Mausoleum. If desired, memorial contributions may be made to The Annunciation Greek Orthodox Church, The Hospice of Dayton or the charity of your choice in Jim's memory. Funeral arrangements entrusted to Marker & Heller Funeral Homes, North Main St. Chapel.

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Published by Dayton Daily News from Feb. 12 to Feb. 14, 2021.

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Kyle "Smiley" and Diane Bowling

February 6, 2022

We looked forward to the good food and company at the Scotch and Steak. Jimmy made everything even better with his presence.
Our hearts go out to his wonderful wife, Connie, and their children.
Connie, we will always remember you and Jimmy as special people.

Gary Tabler

December 5, 2021

I'm so sorry to hear about Jim's passing. It's been nearly 50 years since I last saw him. He was a really good person. I have fond memories of Jim, as well as his brothers Bill and Tom. My dad, Clark Tabler thought of them as "family". When he was not working he was in the Embassy. He called it his living room. They brightened my dad's days and made his life better until he passed away in 1979. Connie, I remember meeting you and Jim for drinks on a visit you made to Miami back in the early 70's.
Gary Tabler

Anne Andrianos Bulcher

February 13, 2021

Our deepest condolences on Jim’s passing. May his memory eternal.
Jerry and Anne Andrianos Bulcher

Anne mantia

February 13, 2021

Connie I am so sorry for your loss ..jim was a wonderful friend for many years .may he rest in peace . And may his memory bring joy to that knew and loved him..

George Briwn

February 12, 2021

This notice brings much sadness to my heart. RIP my friend. I know your memory will be eternal.

Kyle & Diane Bowling

February 12, 2021

We are so sad to hear of Jim's passing. He was a good, good man. We send our sincere condolences to Jimmy's beloved wife, Connie, and his family.

Amy Mann

February 12, 2021

Oh Jim you and your family were so good to me! You were a great boss when I worked for you in the Arcade and a wonderful "boyfriend's Dad" for 5 years beyond that...you and Connie treated me as your own.
So sad to hear of your passing...

Joe Wimsatt

February 12, 2021

To the Xarhoulacos Family, I am so sorry to hear of Jim's passing. My first "real" job was at Xar's in the 80's. I worked for Jim for four years in the Arcade. I enjoyed my time there and Jim was a really good man to work for. May the sorrow of your loss be overshadowed by your memories of all the good times you had. My condolences, Joe Wimsatt

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