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2021

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Mary Rutkowski Obituary

RUTKOWSKI, Mary L.

Age 83 of Centerville, passed away on July 30, 2021. She was born in St. Mary's, Ohio, to the late Wilbur and A. Ruth Steva Huckeriede. She is also preceded in death by brothers Robert and James Huckeriede and a son, Brent Rutkowski. Mary is survived by her husband, the love of her life, Robert "Bob" Rutkowski, whom she met at WPAFB in 1957. They were

married for 63 years. Mary is

also survived by a daughter, Cathleen (Steve) Davis and granddaughters, Christina Davis and Hannah Davis; a son, Craig (Penni) Rutkowski and grandson, Landen Rutkowski; a daughter-in-law Janine Turgeon Rutkowski and granddaughter, Sara Rutkowski; sisters-in-law, Shirley Huckeriede and Cindy Huckeriede; and numerous nieces and nephews. Mary also leaves behind many special friends, including Bridge partners and neighbors, and her labradoodle puppy, Willow, who brought her much joy, liveliness, and laughter during the

pandemic. Mary retired from Wright State University. She was a devout Catholic and member of the Church of the Incarnation for the past 23 years and former member of Mary Help of Christians Church. She and Bob loved to travel together and spent many winters at the Florida coast, a fun gathering spot for their family where they shared many fond memories. Family and friends enjoyed many good meals and happy times with Mary and Bob as Mary loved to entertain and make

people feel welcome in their home. Mary was an eternal

optimist who always had a kind word and an open heart. A Gathering of Family and Friends will take place 2-4 pm,

Sunday, August 15, 2021, at Tobias Funeral Home, Far Hills Chapel. A Funeral Mass will be held at 10:30 am, on Monday, August 16th at the Church of the Incarnation, 7415 Far Hills Ave. In lieu of flowers, donations may be made to Ohio's

Hospice of Dayton, 324 Wilmington Pike, Dayton, OH 45420. Online condolences may be sent to


www.tobiasfuneralhome.com

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by Dayton Daily News on Aug. 8, 2021.

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Wright State Retirees

August 18, 2021

The Wright State University Retirees Association extends our condolences to the family of Mary Rutkowski. We also wish to acknowledge her years of service to our University and her contributions to the Retirees Association. We have fond memories of Mary.

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Wavi Sammons

August 2, 2021

I played bridge with Mary and am so sorry to hear about her passing. Sure going to miss her.

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15

Memorial Gathering

2:00 p.m.

Tobias Funeral Home - Far Hills Chapel

5471 Far Hills Ave, Dayton, OH 45429

Aug

16

Funeral Mass

10:30 a.m.

Church of the Incarnation

7415 Far Hills Ave, OH

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