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Barbara Kokot Obituary

Kokot, Barbara

Barbara (O'Neal) Kokot of West Carrollton passed away peacefully on February 3, 2024. She was born May 9, 1944, to the late Byron and Marjorie (Hoerrt) O'Neal of Dayton. Barb's father was killed the same year that she was born while serving in WWII. Her mother later remarried Carl Thomas so many may remember her as Barbara Thomas. She was preceded in death by Steve Kokot, her high school sweetheart and husband for over 57 years, and granddaughter Shelby Bowling. Barb was a 1962 graduate from West Carrollton. She began her professional journey as a private secretary at United Aircraft Products before embracing her role as a devoted mother to her four children. Later in life, she found fulfillment as a medical receptionist and transcriptionist at Southview Hospital. She is survived by her children Carey (Susan Claudy), Velvet (Jeff) Schiller, Angel (Curtis) Montgomery, and Heidi (Steve) Bowling. Cherished Nana to Jake Bowling, Matthew and Jack Schiller, and Allison and Carson Montgomery, her sister, Tammye (Troy) Kaper and several nieces and nephews. Barb's life was enriched by a wide circle of cherished friendships, spanning from her school days at Saint Anthony's to her West Carrollton classmates. She cherished these bonds, filling her weeks with luncheons and outings with her girlfriends, as well as lively card games at the VFW. At home, Barb's warm presence brought joy and laughter to the Kokot household. Her family will remember her as a beacon of love, kindness, and unwavering support. Barb's endearing qualities, including her loyalty, trustworthiness, and sense of humor, left a lasting impression on all who knew her. If you knew Barb you were a lucky person. Barb will be fondly remembered and deeply missed by her family, friends, and all who had the pleasure of crossing paths with her. Barb's wishes were for no public service. There will be a celebration of her life at a later date. For those who would like to make a donation in Barb's name please consider the Humane Society. Because of Barb's love of animals the Kokot household was rarely without a pet, or two, or three. Arrangements in care of Sanner Funeral Home, West Carrollton

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Published by Dayton Daily News on Feb. 11, 2024.

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Sally Warlaumont

March 9, 2024

My heartfelt condolences to all Barb´s family. I will always remember Barbie´s infectious laughter and her sense of humor.
RIP my dear friend. I love you and will remember you always.

Carole Lewis Parlette

February 14, 2024

Words can not express how deeply sorry I was when I heard of Barb´s passing. As I write this today, Valentines Day, I am reminded that Barb is no longer in pain and not tiring. I am sure that wonderful smile is even brighter. She was a great friend and we had so much fun over the years, traveling, playing games and just talking. My prayers are with her family.

Susan Shumaker

February 14, 2024

Barb, I will miss you so terribly much. We had so many wonderful times frequently over the years. The pandemic didn't help things here in the end, but I will miss you. Carey, Velvet, Angel and Heide and families, there are no words to tell you how sorry I am. I pray she's no longer in pain and sipping on a Fireball drink.

Janet Heckman Stiglicz

February 12, 2024

Barb was my very close cousin and less than 3 months younger than me. We played dolls together and had a fun childhood together. We used to dress alike at the St. Joseph Orphan´s picnic and a few people thought we were twins. I double dated with Barb and Steve at West Carrollton´s Senior Reception. I was in her wedding and she was in mine. After my husband, Stephen and I got married we continued getting together with Barb and Steve. Our kids were close in age. We eventually moved to Atlanta and kind of lost touch. We have still been in contact through Facebook and Christmas cards. So many wonderful memories of Barb! My "bestest" cousin!

Monica Sheridan Johnson

February 11, 2024

Velvet and family, I am so sorry for your loss. Sending prayers of comfort and peace to you. I love your Mom´s beautiful smile in this photo, it´s just like yours!
Monica Sheridan Johnson (Karmelkorn co-worker)

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