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DERBY - Cox, PFC Ryan, 19, died Sunday, June 15, 2003, near An Najaf, Iraq. Visitation 10 a.m. to 8 p.m. Tuesday, Smith Mortuary, Derby, and 10 a.m. to noon Wednesday, Belle Plaine High School Gymnasium. Funeral service 2 p.m. Wednesday, Belle Plaine High School Gymnasium. Survivors: mother and stepfather, Robin and Jeff Hamilton of Wellington; father and stepmother, Alan and Debbie Cox of Derby; sister, Chelsea Cox of Wellington; step sister, Lindsey Norris, step brother, Matt Norris, both of Derby; grandparents, Donna DeLano of Belle Plaine, Barbara Reys of Sedalia, MO, Jerry Cox of Gouverneur, NY. The family requests memorial contributions to the PFC Ryan Cox Memorial Scholarship Fund, c/o Panhandle Federal Credit Union, 403 N. Washington Ave., Wellington, KS 67152 in lieu of flowers.To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.
Memories and Condolences
for Ryan Cox
C. Briggs
September 13, 2018
Ryan was one of my best friends through boot camp and infantry school. I will always have him in my heart.
Peggy Childers
June 15, 2013
To the family and friends of Pfc. Ryan R. Cox:
It has truly been my honor to sign Ryan's guest book these past few years. Unfortunately, due to complications from my Multiple Sclerosis, this may be the last message I'm able to write. Please forgive me and know that Ryan will always be remembered in my home.
With love and respect ~ Peggy
November 4, 2012
In memory of Ryan Cox. Never Forgotten.
Peggy Childers
June 17, 2012
June 15, 2012
To the family and friends of Pfc. Ryan R. Cox:
Always remembering Ryan. "Some gave all."
Leslie Archibald
March 3, 2012
I still think about Ryan after all this time. He was a very nice person in high school and I kept the articles in the paper following his death. I'll always remember his kindness in class and his example. Thank you Ryan.
Leslie Archibald
Peggy Childers
June 15, 2011
To the family and friends of Pfc. Ryan R. Cox:
Please accept my remembrance of Ryan on the anniversary of his passing and know that he will never be forgotten.
Peggy Childers
June 15, 2010
To the family and friends of Pfc. Ryan R. Cox:
Remembering Ryan on the anniversary of his passing. May our fallen heroes never be forgotten!
Peggy Childers
"Don't Let The Memory Of Them Drift Away"
www.IraqWarHeroes.org
Kenna Larra
February 26, 2010
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Peggy Childers
June 15, 2009
To the family of Pfc. Ryan R. Cox:
Ryan gave the ultimate sacrifice and will be held in the hearts of Americans forever. I cannot and will not let our fallen heroes be forgotten. My deepest sympathy to you. "Some gave all."
Peggy Childers
"Don't Let The Memory Of Them Drift Away"
www.IraqWarHeroes.org
Amanda Soria
April 23, 2009
My thoughts and prayers are still to Ryan this day!... I remember it like it was yesterday. his sister and i was talking to him on the phone like 3 months before it happend.. it was a horrible thing that happend and i remember the phone call that i got from her the next day. i miss him so much.. i Luv you RYAN!!
Randall Slusser
January 18, 2009
My sympathy to the family of Ryan Cox. I have created a profile of my Marine brother Ryan and would like anyone to feel free to view it. If anyone has info on how I can obtain newspaper pictures and articles of Ryan I would very much like to here from them.
View Ryan's profile at;
http://marines.togetherweserved.com/profile/165659
The Neal family
June 17, 2008
To the family of Pfc. Cox,
Please know that just as your loved one will remain in your hearts and minds, his sacrifice and that of your family, will remain with the people he died defending. Words cannot express the gratitude we feel for his bravery and selflessness, or the heartache we feel for your loss. God grant you the peace that passes all understanding.
In Memory of Ryan Robert ~ (Debra Estep)
June 15, 2008
Holding you all in my thoughts and prayers.
The Wind on The Downs
“I like to think of you as brown and tall,
As strong and living as you used to be,
In khaki tunic, Sam Brown belt and all,
And standing there and laughing down at me.
Because they tell me, dear, that you are dead,
Because I can no longer see your face,
You have not died, it is not true, instead
You seek adventure in some other place.
That you are round about me, I believe;
I hear you laughing as you used to do,
Yet loving all the things I think of you;
And knowing you are happy, should I grieve?
You follow and are watchful where I go.”
(Written by Marian Allen during World War l )
Two lines that I wish you to keep near your heart…….
“You seek adventure in some other place.
That you are round about me, I believe”
I did not know Ryan but I am remembering
his service. He is my hero. !
~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~
The Other Side
i'm over on the other side
where life and death softly divide.
left my skin and bones behind
now i'm over on the other side.
can you feel me there with you?
my breath is gone but i'm not through.
loved you then and i still do
from over on the other side.
i can fly. really fly.
below the earth ... all through the sky.
tell em all i did not die.
i'm just over on the other side.
it's good here on the other side.
the sweetest songs...the bluest skies.
thank you for the tears you cried
but it's good here on the other side.
i can fly. really fly. below the earth...all through the sky.
tell em all i did not die.
i'm just over on the other side
the world is smaller than a needle's eye.
where life and death softly divide.
when you leave your skin and bones behind
i'll be waiting on the other side.
i can fly. really fly. below the earth ... all through the sky.
go tell em all i did not die.
i'm just over on the other side.
Song lyrics by Don Conoscenti
C Desert Muse/SESAC
www.donconoscenti.com
(Used with permission)
“I hope it brings great comfort to any and all.
Peace on you. DonCon” 4-2008
The Other Side –
http://tinyurl.com/3o8gol
Sincerely,
Deb Estep ~ Ohio
Proud Air Force Mom and MIL
Remembering The Fallen – Blog
http://tinyurl.com/3z8p55
Angel and soldier drawing I have shared here.
http://tinyurl.com/6gey8b
Mark Coager
June 5, 2008
I have bought a truck with a remembrance sticker in the window to PFC Ryan Cox. It has been on my mind as to who he was. Last night my step sons came over and asked why the the sticker was still on the truck. I just explained that it is a MARINE THING! I am a former Marine and will present and honor the sticker! God Bless you my fallen brother. Sember Fi!!!
November 16, 2007
You are remembered and respected. Thank you Pfc Cox!
Althea B
July 24, 2007
I want to thank you for your courage and bravery in standing up for what you believe in. May you soul rest in peace
July 6, 2007
Thank you for the sacrifice made by Pfc Cox and the sacrifice made by everyone who loves him and misses him! May God bless all of you!!
Aunt of a Marine
Garnet Jenkins
June 14, 2007
In Remembrance of your Fine Young Marine, Pfc. Ryan R. Cox, with so much gratitude for his Courage, Dedication and Service to our Country and for Freedom.
May Ryan rest safely in God's Care and know that he is a True American hero, that shall Never Be Forgotten.
May the Peace of the Lord continue to be with the Cox family.
There will Never Be Enough Ways, to Humbly Thank these Young Heroes, for their Sacrifices, my brother among them. Killed in action in Vietnam in 1967.
"And God shall wipe away every tear from their eyes,
there shall be no more death, nor sorrow, nor crying,
there shall be no more pain.
For the former things have have passed away."
Revelations 21:4
May you find peace in knowing the love and memories you have, will remain in your heart forever and that this Grateful Country Remembers Ryan's Sacrifice.
I am So Deeply Sorry for your loss
Missy Cropp
March 28, 2007
To a very dear friend, I will always remember all the memories from High School. You were always there for me and I will miss you always. With Love Missy
Gary Allain
January 2, 2007
Pfc. Ryan R. Cox
you are my hero
may god keep you in his arms forever.
Tom Gugliuzza-Smith
October 15, 2006
My heartfelt sympathy to the Cox family in the loss of Ryan. I did not know Ryan, but my heart is broken and I am saddened for your loss of such a fine young person and hero. May God bring you peace in your heart as you reflect on all the wonderful memories you hold so close. Please know that you are in my heart and prayers. My heart was touched by the many wonderful/beautiful things written about you. Ryan it has been over 3 years since you were taken please know that you are my hero and you will NEVER be forgotten.
I send each of you a hug from the most inner part of my heart.
Love and Peace
Tom
To live in the hearts
of those you leave behind
is never to die"
~Robert Orr~
justine kapanpour
August 21, 2005
i did not know ryan but i have a 18 yr old son and i am feeling your pain. dont know what it would be like to lose him.you are in my thoughts and prayers. god bless
Kristy (Ebersole) Meierotto
August 3, 2005
I just happened to be looking up something on the Internet and saw the war heros site, which brought me to this link. I was one of Ryan's teachers at Derby, and was so disappointed that I couldn't make it back to his service b/c I had just moved to Kansas City. I think of Ryan and his sacrifice often...he is not forgotten. God Bless.
SGT C E Drake
May 30, 2005
May God bless your son.
Ricky kimbrell
May 30, 2005
I never had the opportunity to meet your son but if anything like his father I know he was a heck of a great kid. May God be with you in this difficult time. May we never forget the sacrifice that your Son made to keep our country Free.
Semper Fidelis
Rick, Ronna, Shane, and Jacob Kimbrell (U.S.M.C. 1990-2000)
Mac & Susan Orsbon
May 29, 2005
Pfc. Cox made the ultimate sacrifice to ensure our freedom and the freedom of unborn generations of Americans. Our family will honor his sacrifice and his memory on this and every Memorial Day and we will remember him in our prayers. Our prayers are also with his family.
Mary Childers
May 29, 2005
I did not have the pleasure of meeting or knowing your son. Just wanted to let you know that your family will be in our prayers. We remain loyal to all our young men serving in the armed forces. Be Blessed.
Malinda Simpson
May 27, 2005
I knew Ryan when he was a child I use to babysit him. He was such a good kid!! I have three children of my own now and can't imagine something like that happening. My heart goes out to Robin and the family and I pray for you everyday
Melinda Holsworth
May 27, 2005
Robin,
I am sorry for the loss of Ryan. As memorial day approaches let us not get too busy to remember our heroes. I have family in the service and pray often for their protection. I hope that you are finding peace and will continue to turn to God on the days that his memories hit the hardest. God Bless you.
Melinda Holsworth
PAM POYNOR
April 30, 2005
HI,I DON'T KOW YOU,BUT I FEEL YOUR PAIN.I HAVE 3 GROWN CHILDREN,AD CAN'T IMAGINE LOOSING ONE OF THEM,BUT IF GOD DECIDED IT WAS THEIR TIME,I WOULD BE HONORED FOR THEM TO BE TAKE FROM ME A HERO AS YOUR SON WAS.GOD BLESS YOU AND YOURS
Megan Jones
April 29, 2005
To the family of Ryan Cox:
May god be with you in this hard time. Ryan was a brave young man and a hero! He will forever be in our hearts.
GOD BLESS!!
mary ann gosnell
April 28, 2005
with deepest sympathy.sorry for thr lose of a family member.
Angie Bledsoe
March 2, 2005
Ryan was such an amazing person. He lit up a room when he walked in and made everyone he met laugh. He was such a caring and loving person. There will never be another person like him.
Brian Viola
June 27, 2003
Ryan was a good guy and there are alot of good memories and only a few bad but now hes gone and thats all we have left, everyone will miss him because he was the kind of guy that everyone got along with, he helped with problems and he was a lot of fun to hang out with well now that he is gone we will have to look back to all the good times and bad times that everyone had....
DEBI WEIR
June 26, 2003
SORRY I WAS UNABLE TO COME TO THE SERVICE.JUST WANTED TO LET YOU ALL KNOW THAT RYAN WAS A TRUE SOLDIER.HE FOUGHT FOR HIS COUNTRY AND DIED FOR HIS COUNTRY.I DIDNT GET TO SPEND MUCH TIME WITH HIM BUT THE TIMES I DID WILL ALLWAYS BE WITH ME.MY HEART GOES OUT TO HIS MOTHER AND SISTER.AND WAYNE I WANT YOU TO KNOW I AM TRULEY SORRY FOR YOUR LOSS.I LOVE YOU .YOUR SISTER DEBI.....
Amy
June 25, 2003
My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family during this tough time. I received this link from a friend and I wanted to extend my condolences. I wish I could bring him back for you.
Renee Pickering
June 25, 2003
Ryan brought joy to all the lives he touched and will be missed terribly. It was an honor and a privilage to have known such a wonderful young man. Our thoughts and prayers are with your family, and our memories will last forever!
Todd, Ann, Coy, Jake Anderson
June 25, 2003
Todd and I did not have the pleasure to know Ryan personally, but my oldest son, Coy, graduated with Ryan and was very shocked to learn of your loss. Coy will be joining the ranks of the US Army as a Calvary Scout on Sept. 16th and his hope is to continue the efforts overseas for our peace and freedom as did Ryan. I know that no words can heal the pain and grief you are experiencing at this time, but someday these words and prayers will help to easy them. We will continue to pray for your family and all the young men and women who are serving our country.
God Bless you and protect you as you continue through life.
Debbie Tiede
June 25, 2003
May God bless you and your family. My prays will be with you.
Daysha Beardsley
June 25, 2003
I just wanted to express my gratitude for your son's courage to do what he did. I am so grateful to have these men and women protecting my life and freedom. My heart goes out to you and your family and you will remain in my thoughts and prayers.
Carrie Stinnett
June 25, 2003
I feel for your loss. I did not know Ryan first hand, but the stories that my mother said that Robin shared with her are enough for me to say he was a great kid.
Carrie Stinnett
Debra & Jeff McGregor
June 25, 2003
May God be with you in this difficult time. May we never forget the sacrifice that your Son made along with so many others to keep our country FREE. "God Bless the U.S.A."
Eric and Cathy Page
June 24, 2003
Dear Robin and Chelsea,
We always liked Ryan so much. We are grieving with you during this time of loss. Thank you for supporting Ryan in his dream to protect our freedom. Ryan is our hero, and we are proud to have known him. Our prayers are with you.
SFC Eric and Cathy Page
Keith and Karen Lawless
June 24, 2003
Dear Robin and Family. Our prayers
go out to you and your extended
family. Ryan made the extreme sacrifice. We know that you are so
proud of him. May God continue to
be with you, now and in the coming days.
Craig and Susan Harms
June 24, 2003
Words cannot express how sorry we are for your loss. May god bless you all and help you through this very difficult time. We also thank you for his service to our freedom and our country.
Your in our prayers.
Rachel and Jeff Gaskill
June 24, 2003
To The Family Of Ryan Cox:
Your son, along with so many other heroes, has made the ultimate sacrifice for our country, and we are tremendously grateful. May God give you peace in your hearts at this difficult time.
Valerie Ledesma
June 24, 2003
Our deepest sympathies we extend to you and your family. You are in our thoughts and prayers.
Valerie & Chris Ledesma and family
Susan and Jay Treft
June 23, 2003
Our deepest sympathy to the entire family.
Dwight Fortney
June 23, 2003
You dont know me but I am Patrick Fortney's father. I cant even begin to imagine what you are going through. I know that just like Patrick, Ryan was proud to be a Marine and loved what he was doing. Patrick was told in boot camp that Marines dont really die they live on in other Marines. My deepest sympathy and gratitude for your son's sacrifice for this country got out to you and your family.
God bless you
Dwight Fortney
Paula Reader
June 23, 2003
Robin, I was so sorry to hear about your son. Although I did not know him personally, I knew of him through you. I know you are very proud of him. I will be keeping you & your family in my thoughts & prayers. Let me know if there is anything I can do for you.
Jim and Carol Howard
June 20, 2003
Our deepest sympathy to the entire family from Ryan's friend and fellow Marine Lnc. Cpl. Brian Gallagher-Howard, and Jim and Carol Howard
Richard & Jane Sparks
June 20, 2003
Our thoughts and prayers are with you. May you find the peace and comfort in knowing that serving for our county makes the true heros, and you have all the reasons to be so proud of your son.
Tracey McGovern
June 20, 2003
My heart and prayers are with your family. I want to thank you for the sacrifice your son and family has made to keep us all free. Ryan is the ultimate hero. God Bless
Wanda Coker
June 20, 2003
I know you are so proud of Ryan and the rest of the U S A are also .My prayers goes out to you in your loss.He might be gone but not forgotten.I had a brother lost in the Korean War and still think about him so much He was 22
LAURIE TREFT
June 20, 2003
OUR THOUGHTS AND PRAYERS ARE WITH ALL OF YOU.
DEEPEST SYMPHATHY,
JEFF, LAURIE, HEATHER, AMANDA & RAYLEE.
Traci Wiens
June 20, 2003
I am a stranger to you & your family but I wanted you to know just how much I appreciate your sacrifice not only for our country's freedom & safety but for my freedom & safety. Please know that my thoughts & prayers are with you. THANK YOU! And may God watch over you & keep you.
Mrs. Blevins
June 20, 2003
We are so Blessed for our young ones willing to serve and protect. May God Bless all your loved ones and give them peace at such a sad time as this
Ron Roots
June 20, 2003
My sincere condolences on your loss.
I hope that knowing that Ryan served our country and paid the ultimate sacrifice may be a comfort to you as you remember his life.
May God Bless you.
Ron Roots (Major, USMC 1972 - 1980)
tim &janette parmley
June 20, 2003
ANOTHER YOUNG LIFE.........I DIDN'T KNOW RYAN BUT HE HAD TO BE A GREAT YOUNG MAN TO BE SERVING HIS COUNTRY! OUR THOUGHTS AND PRAYERS ARE WITH YOU AND WE ONLY HOPE YOU FEEL PROUD OF YOUR SON. GOD BLESS YOU THE FAMILY AND GOD BLESS YOU RYAN FOR SERVING YOUR COUNTRY THE GREAT U.S.A.! YOU WILL BE MISSED BY MANY.... BUT NOT FORGOTTEN!
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