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Betty Doughty Obituary
Elmira: Age 69, beloved wife, mother, sister, grandmother, aunt and friend, passed away at home with her loving family by her side, following a long, courageous battle with lung cancer, on Friday, June 10, 2011. Betty was born on August 21, 1941, in Dushore, PA, daughter of the late Archie E. (1986) and Beatrice A. Brown (1995). She is also predeceased by her infant sister, Diane Lynn (1956) and mother-in-law, Betty Doughty (2008) and father-in-law, Frank Doughty (1987). Betty is lovingly remembered and survived by her loving husband of 50 years (April 15, 2011), Frank Doughty, III; children, Jacqueline (James) Pryslak and Thomas (Dorothy) Doughty of Elmira, NY, and Timothy (Stephanie) Doughty of Corning, NY; grandchildren, Gregory, Andrew, Joseph and Erik Pryslak, Kelly, Kimberly, Keegan, Karter, Kaden and Kooper Doughty; siblings, Edward Brown, Robert Brown (Jan Halstead) and Darlene (Donald) Hill, all of Elmira, NY; brother-in-law Robert (Lori) Doughty of Corning, NY, and sister-in-law Carol (Merlin) Russell of Tallahassee, FL; several special nieces, nephews and cousins including the Brown, Hill, Villard, and Doughty families; also many special friends, including Wilda Brusso and Helen Bohlayer. Betty was a 1959 graduate of Southside High School. She was employed for many years by Hills Department Store and as a bus aide for the Elmira City School District. She was an avid bird watcher, animal lover, gardener, casino gambler, cow collector, and Elmira Jackals fan. She was known for her delicious homemade fudge and macaroni and cheese, crocheted family pillows, and, for making special birthday cakes for her grandchildren. Betty was caring, generous, supportive, loving and loyal. She enjoyed attending her grandchildren's many school and social functions, going to breakfast and/or dinner with "the girls" and shopping with "Martha". She will be greatly missed by all who knew and loved her. Family and friends are invited to Caywood's Funeral Home & Gardens, 1126 Broadway, Elmira, NY, on Wednesday, June 15, 2011, from 6-8 PM. A memorial service will follow. Betty's family extends a special thanks to the entire staff at the Falck Cancer Center, staff on 2B & 4B at AOMC, special angel Cynthia Kilbury, and Southern Tier Hospice (Kate and Patsy), as well as, Dr. Marianne Everett. The family will provide flowers. Donations in Betty's memory may be made to Southern Tier Hospice, 11751 East Corning Rd., Corning, NY, 14830; The Falck Cancer Center, 600 Roe Avenue, Elmira, NY, 14901; or the SPCA, 2435 State Route 352, Elmira, NY, 14903.
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Rich and Donna Crozier
June 17, 2011
Frank and family,
We are so sorry to hear of BJ's passing. I'm sure she will be greatly missed. I hope you find strength in your memories of her and in each other. Our families had some great times back in the day. BJ was sweet enough to put up with our antics and the all night poker games. Take care, we're thinking of you all.
June 16, 2011
we are so sorry for your loss. she was a great ladyand your best friend uncle frank.i'm sorry i can't come to the funeral as i've just had total knee surgery. you all take care and keep happy memories. love debbie loll bryan
Lisa Iffert
June 16, 2011
So sorry to hear of your loss.BJ was a great person and loving mother..Frank,Jackie,Tim and Tom if there is anything that we can do for you please let us know..It was an honor living next door to all of you..She will truely be missed..She touched so many lives,and she will be in all of our Hearts.
Lisa Iffert
Melissa Fruitt
June 14, 2011
May BJ rest in peace. She is no longer in pain, but is now one of God's angels. She was a special mom and friend to many.Frank, Jackie, Tom, Tim and families~ You are all in my thoughts and prayers. She will continue to watch over you all and will be smiling at all you do and proud of all your accomplishments.My sympathies and condolances. Jackie, anything you need,please let me know.
Melissa
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Kathy Lunduski
June 14, 2011
My sympathies to the family of BJ. I know she was so special to all of you and will be greatly missed.
Kevin Loll
June 14, 2011
Our thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.
June 14, 2011
Jackie I am so sorry to hear of your mother's passing you are in my thoughts and prayers Kate Smith
Allington Family
June 14, 2011
Dear Pryslaks..thinking of you during this difficult time. If there is anything we can do; please call on us. The Allingtons, Dale, Mary Ellen & Nick
June 14, 2011
Frank and family, My deepest sympathy goes out to you. Many fond memories. May all your memories sustain you.
Sandy Dildine-Bennett and Tom Bennett
June 14, 2011
Frank and family, we are so very sorry for your loss, you and BJ are in our thoughts and prayers. Glenn & Linda Pulleyn
June 13, 2011
Frank,
Joan and I are aware of your loss and are keeping you in our thoughts and prayers as you and your family go through the griefing process. We will continue to keep you in our thoughts and prayers in the months ahead through this most difficult time.
Neil & Joan Smith
Karen Dean Phillips
June 13, 2011
Mr. Doughty, Tim and family,
Sorry for the lose of your wife, mother it is an unbelievable sorrow to lose a parent. Soon may your memories bring smiles to your faces. You are in our thoughts and prayers. Karen Dean Phillips and girls
June 13, 2011
Frank and family: i am sorry for your loss. I loved working with Betty at Hills. she was a very sweet lady.
Nancy benjamin
Bob Brown
June 13, 2011
Frank, Iam so sorry, as the days and week pass and as you return to life routine,may you continue to feel comforted by the love and support of familys and friends.
Fran and Pam Hollon
June 13, 2011
Frank and family we are so sorry to hear about Betty Jane, we will keep you in our thoughts and prayers. Our deepest sympathies to you and your family.
Penny (Clark) Kastenhuber
June 13, 2011
Frank and family,
Sorry to hear of BJ's passing. I worked with her at Hills Department Store many moons ago. Boy those were the days when all the "old gang" worked there. I will cherish those memories of her. It is never easy losing a loved one but God has her now and she is no longer in pain and you have a guarding angel at your side to keep you safe. Your family is in our thoughts and prayers.
John Taft
June 13, 2011
We will keep your family in our thoughts and prayers during this sad time.
John and Marge Taft
Renee Torrence
June 12, 2011
Frank, and family,
I was so shocked to hear of B.J's passing. She was a very special person, and I know you are all suffering a great loss! Hang on to the great memories, and I know there are too many to ever forget! You are all in my prayers, and I feel very privilaged and blessed to be able to say I knew her!!! God bless you B.J. you will be missed!!!
Renee (Wallace) & Rick Torrence
Stephanie Doughty
June 12, 2011
Beej, you were truely one of a kind, you were loved by many and will be greatly missed!! Frank, Tim, Tom and Jackie, I'm so sorry for you loss, I love you all!!!
Kathy, Rod, Mark & Michelle
June 12, 2011
May your hearts soon be filled with wonderful memories of joyful times together as you celebrate a life well lived.
June 12, 2011
Frank, so sorry to hear of BJ's passing. We have wonderful memories of Duchore and parties with the villards. We think of you guys often. You and your family will be in our thoughts and prayers.
The Shirley's John,Ann,Patti-Jo and Scott, Lexington S.C.and New York
June 12, 2011
Frank, Tim and family,
Our sincerest condolences on the loss of BJ. I hope your memories continue to bring you comfort through this difficult time.
Mike and Phyllis Lares and family
June 12, 2011
Frank and Timmy,
My sympathies are with you and your family. She will always be in your hearts.
Love,
Colleen (Keenan) Lynch
Elizabeth Tuten
June 12, 2011
I will miss you lots Aunt Beej
Connie Besley
June 12, 2011
Jackie & Family
I am so sorry to hear of your loss..keep the memories alive and you will get through this terrible time..you are all in my thoughts.
Julie McNaney Parnussie
June 12, 2011
Frank, Tim and Family. I am very sorry to hear of Betty's passing. Our thoughts and prayers are with you at this time.
Julie McNaney Parnussie.
Rck Clark
June 12, 2011
Frank, Jackie, Tommy and Timmy.
Your wife-your mother was one of the kindest people I have ever met. BJ should have been a world ambassador for kindness. She will truly be missed. Our deepest sympathies for your loss.
Theron&Lynne Andrews
June 12, 2011
May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.
June 12, 2011
Frank my deepest sympathy to you & your family in the passing of your wife. Love & prayers Doris Thomas Brooksville Fl.
June 12, 2011
Miss you Beej - bob and lori
Dar Hill
June 12, 2011
I only pray to be as good of a mother, grandmother, aunt, friend, as my sister. So many great memories. We love and miss you Martha.
Sherry Besley
June 12, 2011
Frank, Jackie, Tom, Tim and families
I am very sorry for your loss. Beej is and will be missed by all who know her. You all have many memories of the lives you shared with her to carry with you in the days forward. Your hearts are heavy, and we all share in your grief and sadness now. Know that we are all here beside you through this difficult time.
Maria and Paul Scrimale
June 12, 2011
B.J. was a wonderful individual. The years that we worked with her at Hill's Dept. Store bring back fond memories. We know that she will be missed by everyone who had the pleasure of knowing her. She had such a great love and devotion to her family. Our deepest sympathies for your loss.
Evan and Florence Iffert
June 12, 2011
Beej will be dearly missed.She was a very loving and caring person.
Deanna Acly
June 12, 2011
Beej will be sadly missed. She was sweet & funny & caring. Of all of my friends Mom's, she was my very favorite. Frank, Jackie, Tom, Tim and families, you are in my thoughts & prayers. Hold strong in your heart the memories of such a beloved woman. Deanna
June 12, 2011
Frank,Jackie,Tom and Tim,
We are so sorry to hear of BJ passing. Please know are thought and prayers are with you.
Rick and Roxanne Corey
Pat Manns
June 12, 2011
Rest in Peace my friend. You will be missed by many.
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