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Ruth Downs Obituary

Downs, Ruth M. SLINGERLANDS Ruth M. Downs of Slingerlands entered into eternal life June 16, 2013 surrounded by her loving family. Born June 17, 1919 in Johnson City, N.Y. to Francis P. and Mary Sullivan Gilroy, Ruth was a graduate of Johnson City High School and Lowell's Business School. While working in Binghamton, she met Francis "Frank" Downs. They married in 1943 and raised their family in Great Neck, Binghamton and Delmar. Ruth was a devoted wife, mother, sister, aunt, grandmother, great-grandmother and a dear friend. She loved bridge, golf, reading, crafts, cooking and entertaining, but most of all spending time with family and friends. Her deep faith in God, interest in others, humor and strength guided her long and blessed life. She was a communicant of St. Thomas the Apostle Church and served its Altar Rosary Society for over forty years. She was a member of Normanside Country Club, the Bethlehem Progress Club and was a board of elections volunteer. Ruth was predeceased by her parents; sister, Rita Hawley and husband of 56 years, Frank. She is survived by her sister, Catherine Kocich of Johnson City; children, James F. Downs (Barbara McGovern) of Cohoes, Mary Ellen (Edward) Kuta of Delmar, Anita (Richard) Dunn of Saratoga Springs, Joanne (Neil) O'Brien of Delmar, John Downs M.D. of Baltimore, Md. And Betsy (Walter) Lohmann of Alexandria, Va.; adoring grandchildren, Colleen (Christina) and Brian (Jen) Dunn, Allison and John (Valerie) Kuta, Andrew, Reid and Kathleen O'Brien and Eileen, Emily and Walter Lohmann; and great-grandchildren, Wesleigh and Frances Dunn and Jack and Thomas Kuta. She is also survived by thirty nieces and nephews and a host of good friends. The family would like to extend deep appreciation to her loving friends and staff at the Terrace at Beverwyck and to the nursing staff at St. Peter's Hospital 4 Nolan and the Community Hospice Inn. Calling hours will be Thursday 4 - 8 p.m. at Durant Funeral Home, 741 Delaware Avenue, Delmar. A Mass of Christian Burial will be celebrated at 9:30 a.m. Friday at St. Thomas the Apostle Church, Delmar. Burial will follow at Calvary Cemetery in Johnson City. In lieu of flowers, donations may be sent to St. Thomas Church, 90 Adams Place, Delmar NY 12054.

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Published by Albany Times Union from Jun. 19 to Jun. 20, 2013.

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Sue Tiffany

June 21, 2013

So sorry for your loss

Jeremy Walston

June 21, 2013

Our family has gotten to know Mrs. Downs over the years during her frequent visits to Baltimore. She was a lovely, lively, and intelligent woman who dearly loved her family and friends. She will be greatly missed by all. Our deepest condolences to her family.

Bonny Shelby

June 21, 2013

My prayers are with you and your family.

Patricia Rector-Hollomon

June 21, 2013

May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.

Barbara Lapham

June 21, 2013

To the family - I frequently spoke with Mrs. Downs at The Beverwyck (as recently as 2 wks. ago), while visiting with my own mom. The two of them spoke often of their ties to the Binghamton area . . . my mom graduated from North High & your loved one from Johnson City, I discovered. They enjoyed reminiscing about the "old days" in Binghamton. I found Mrs. Downs to be just DELIGHTFUL . . . sweet, friendly, always smiling! Was VERY saddened to learn of her passing. I will, indeed, miss chatting with her on my future visits to The Beverwyck.

Barbara Lapham

John Kuta

June 20, 2013

Grandma was a true lady to all who knew her. A wife, mother, sister, grandmother, and above all devoted friend, she always showed genuine and loving interest in all those around her. From the high seas, rest easy Grandma. We love you. Much Love, John

Lisa Brownson

June 20, 2013

I met Ruth at the Terrace, where she brightened my mother's life, and mine, with her warmth, humor, and affection. I'm grateful to have known her.

Ruth

June 20, 2013

I am so sorry to hear of the loss of your loved one. May our Heavenly Father provide strength and comfort to the family during this time of grief. For he is near to those broken at heart. Ps 34:17,18

Patty Skojec

June 19, 2013

The memories of Aunt Ruth will always be special. She was so caring-always wanting to know about everyone in the family. Find comfort in knowing that she was thought about often.

Tim and Lainie Hawley

June 19, 2013

To the family....Your loss is shared by many. May happier memories bless you with peace and comfort during this difficult time.

June 19, 2013

Anita/Rick - you were blessed to have such a Mother! She was a twin of my own Mother.
Let me know if there's anything I can do to help at this time of transition.
When you're talking with your Mother at her new address, ask her to put in a plug for this old priest, if she has the time, that I make the right decision re impending sprinal surgery. Peace, Thanks, & God Bless,
john d. kirwin

Steve and Nancy Rice

June 19, 2013

It was our honor and pleasure to have known Ruth, so warm, kind and caring, with a wonderful sense of humor that is carried on by her loving family. They all are, and will be, in or thoughts and prayers.

John Day

June 19, 2013

Ruth was a terrific person! Always spreading happiness around the neighborhood!!
My condolences to you all. Sincerely, John Day, former neighbor, 439-5264, [email protected]

Karen

June 19, 2013

Beautiful Ruth, with that loving and caring smile, she will be missed. My thoughts and prayers go out to the entire family. Love, Karen

June 19, 2013

So sorry to hear the news about Aunt Ruth. Our thoughts and prayers are with her family at this time.

Cousin Jerry & Sharon Hawley
Roanoke, Va.

Allison

June 19, 2013

Grandma, You had such a long and interesting life. You are an example of living a rich, balanced, loving and caring life. You had an extremely sharp mind and were so much fun to be around. You will never be forgotten and have so many people that love you. Rest in peace with God.

George and Dowse Dowse

June 19, 2013

Our thoughts and prayers go out to Ruth's family -

Walt & Jane Sweeney

June 18, 2013

All the Downs family. Frank & Ruth were
such wonderful friends for a whole life-time. We are saddened.

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