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NEARY, James Phillip

James Phillip Neary went to be with the Lord on November 6, 2020, after a brief illness. Known affectionately as Jim to his beloved wife, friends and colleagues, Dad to his sons and daughters, and Papa to his grandchildren and great-grandchildren. To those who knew him well, he was deeply loved and simply viewed as a wonderful and generous person, always endeavoring to support his family, friends, and the calling of public service. Jim was preceded in death by his father William Neary and his mother Josephine (Patrocia), as well as his sister Kathryn and brother William. He was also preceded in death by two infant sons, Joseph and Jeffrey.

Jim was born on September 22, 1936, in Dayton, OH. Jim graduated from Chaminade High School where he was a standout athlete, including a linebacker on the football team. He declined college football scholarships and instead selflessly served his country by joining the United States Navy. Jim predominately served as an anti-submarine specialist on K-class blimps and PBY Catalina aircraft, patrolling for Soviet submarines by flying between Guantanamo Bay Naval Base, Elizabeth City, NC, Naval Station Argentina, Newfoundland, the Azores, Naval Air Station Port Lyautey, Morocco and then back to

Cuba. After his honorable discharge from the United States Navy as a Petty Officer Second class, he remained in the Naval Reserve and studied art at the Dayton Art Institute and the University of Dayton. With his growing family, he took a job with Dubois Chemical Company earning national salesman of the year in 1976. He left Dubois to take an administrative role at Children's Medical Center of Dayton for 22 years, retiring in 1998. Following his retirement from Children's, he worked as the Safety Director for the City of Kettering. Consistent with his dedication to public service, he served as a volunteer firefighter with the City of Kettering Fire Department for 35 years, rising to the position of Deputy Chief.

He is survived by his wife of 61 years, Marilyn (Meyers); five children: John (Donna) of Asheville, NC, Geralyn (Brad) of West Carrollton, OH, Noreen (Mark) of Burton, OH, Brian (Melissa) of Xenia, OH, Christopher of Kettering, OH; 10 grandchildren: John (Kerri) of Alexandria, VA, James (Meghan) of Canton, OH, Nicholas (Rebecca) of Xenia, OH,

Jacob (Arianna) of Washington, DC, Alexander (Audrey) of Xenia, OH, Madeline of Kettering, OH, Marisa of West Carrollton, OH, Maclain of Kettering, OH, Jackson of Xenia OH, Weston of Kettering, OH; and 7 great-grandchildren: William, Bennett, James, Theodore, Grant, Wells and Aila. He is also survived by his sisters Deloris (Leo) of Clayton, OH and Patricia (Jack) of Tijeras, NM; and 2 sisters-in-law Shirley Meyers and Joan Neary.

Due to the ongoing concerns with the pandemic, there will not be a visitation. There will be a Mass held on Saturday

November 14, 2020, at 10:00 am at Emanuel Catholic Church, 149 Franklin Street, Dayton, OH. Interment for immediate family only will be at Cavalry Cemetery with a naval honor guard. Please maintain social distancing at the funeral mass to protect others. In lieu of flowers, the family requests that you make a donation to the Association for Glycogen Storage

Disease, P.O. Box 896, Durant, IA 52747. Website: www.agsdus.org. This organization funds research for a cure to the disease that claimed two of Jim's sons. The family will hold a celebration of Jim's life next year and Jim's family will release such details at a later date. Arrangements in care of Sanner Funeral Home, West Carrollton.

Do not let your heart be troubled. You believe in God. Believe in me also. In my Father's house, there are many dwelling places. If there were not, I would have told you. For I go to prepare a place for you. And if I go and prepare a place for you, I will return again, and then I will take you to myself, so that where I am, you also may be. And you know where I am going. And you know the way. John 14:1-3

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Published by Dayton Daily News on Nov. 8, 2020.

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Joyce Connell

December 12, 2020

I still remember Mr. Neary as a loving and gentle man, strong, standing tall, with dark hairI don’t know if I have picture of him but I have enough pictures of the Romer’s playing games, outside, with the Neary gang. The Neary family is close to the Romer’s hearts. Mrs. Neary took care of us, just as she took care of her own children. We Love You Guys!
Joyce

Rick Blackstone

November 30, 2020

I met Jim when I worked in Human Resources at Children's Medical Center in the early 1980's. I ran into Jim a couple times over the years as I live in Kettering as well. Jim is the kind of person you never forget. I will never forget how down to earth and friendly he was to all. He was a kind and gentle soul with a big heart. My prayers and thoughts go to all his family.

Mike Neary Oetzel

November 10, 2020

Jim was a loving brother, husband, father, grandfather, and great grandfather - he will be missed by so many. I'm so happy my remaining sibs and our spouses could be all together with our families, one last time in the summer of 2019! rest in peace, brother! love, mike

Randall Borgert

November 10, 2020

Jim Neary was a soft spoken man I first met during his time at Children's, Dayton. His work at Children's Medical Ctr., and for the City of Kettering marked him as a man of service and dedication to his chosen pursuits, and he pursued them in his understated way. Years later, he delighted my family as Santa during at-least one Christmas gathering, doing the same for others around town as well. I regret I've not spoken to him in some time, but often think of him while driving near his home. His service to community and cause, no doubt, stands prominently in the memory of those who knew him. God Bless You Jim.

Jean and David Milthaler

November 9, 2020

Will miss a wonderful person whom we as family loved very much. Our prayers are with the family.
Jean and David Milthaler

Jean and David Milthaler

November 9, 2020

In loving memory of a wonderful person. We will love you and miss you always.

Christopher yount

November 8, 2020

I remember when I moved to kettering in 1986, Both of my parents were divorced and I hadn't made any friends ,so one day I stop by the firehouse on shorter and Jim told me all about the firehouse and about my grades. I was an honorary member of station 5 Jim will be missed

Lynn M Frost

November 8, 2020

Our families have been connected since I was a little girl. We were bonded by the Kettering Fire Department volunteer firefighters family. There is a bond between firefighters like no other. Jim Neary and my dad, Jim Shank always had each others back. The Neary's were a source of support for my family when both my parents were ill. Our hearts understand the void that is now in the your family. Jim will always be a part of the Shank family❣
With love and prayer Lynn and David Shank

Cindy and Tim Fairchild

November 8, 2020

Marilyn & family..What a beautiful written obituary about Jim. It says it all. We always thought so much of Jim and yourself. You and your family will be in our thoughts and prayers in the coming days. Please take care of yourself.

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