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Peter Stelling Obituary

STELLING, Peter J.

Peter J. Stelling of Smyrna passed away on Sunday, July 25, 2021 at the age of 78. A proud father and grandfather, he is survived by daughter Mary Ellen Hays, son Jonathan Stelling, 4 grandchildren, and his sweetheart companion Jody Collins Weatherly.

A lifelong Atlantan, Stelling was a member of Sigma Chi Fraternity and a graduate of the Westminster Schools, Washington and Lee University and Grady College of the University of Georgia. Stelling shared a passion for classical music with his father, Peter John Stelling, and was an ardent supporter of the Atlanta Symphony Orchestra and the Atlanta Opera. He was a board member of the Georgia Opera, a precursor of the present Atlanta Opera, serving one term as President. One of his most memorable work experiences was serving as road manager for the Atlanta Symphony Orchestra during the early years of Robert Shaw's tenure as Music Director. A gifted writer, he co-authored A Place to Call Home - a family memoir - with his mother, Mary Ellen Stelling. More recently, he authored Music in the Dark - a novel and screenplay on the life and works of composer Richard Strauss. He was an active and committed member of Trinity Presbyterian Church.

A memorial service will be held at Trinity Presbyterian Church on Monday, August 9th at 11 AM. In remembrance of Peter's life, the family asks that any memorial tributes be made to the Atlanta Symphony.

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Published by Atlanta Journal-Constitution on Jul. 30, 2021.

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Stephen J. Colvin

August 6, 2021

Best Friends for Life.

Deedee and Marc Hamburger

August 4, 2021

Please accept our heartfelt condolences. Peter was such a special person...supremely knowledgeable, personable, witty and a tremendous asset to the world of music.

Cathy Baker Ramsay

August 3, 2021

I´m so sorry to hear about the passing of Peter! I babysat Peter´s grandkids and what I remember most about Peter is that he loved his grandchildren and he loved his dog! Peter will be greatly missed!

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Daniel Laufer

July 31, 2021

My deepest condolences to the whole family. I met Peter many years ago when I joined the Atlanta Symphony Orchestra. He was always well dressed! We belonged to the same health club off of Windy Hill (Sporting Club) where we would catch up on his thoughts about artists and concerts he really enjoyed. I am shocked and saddened to hear of his passing and hope his memory will live on among all who knew him.

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Gillian Greer

July 30, 2021

So many memories of my dear friend, Pietro. Peter introduced me to the Opera and took me to many Symphony performances. He was a member of The Breakfast Club at the Vinings Club and brightened our mornings there every day, He was such an elegant man and will be very missed. I will always remember and treasure my long friendship with Peter. My condolences to his family.

Ron Antinori

July 30, 2021

I offer my condolences to all of Peter's family. I knew him because of our mutual interest in the musical scene in Atlanta. He always had something important to say and I will miss seeing him in the future. Ron

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