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Brian Stephan Obituary

Stephan, Brian L.

Brian L. Stephan, age 46, of Xenia, passed away unexpectedly Wednesday, October 11, 2023 at Miami Valley Hospital. He was born in Guam, the son of Peter D. and Ingrid Lundberg Stephan, on September 13, 1977.

In addition to his parents, Brian is survived by Stephanie Stephan and their two boys, Gunnar A. and Gage D. Stephan; sister: Astrid S. (Edward) Kapfhammer; Aunts: Marianne P. Stephan, Kristin L. (Dan) Searle and Lisa L. (Kent) Anderson; his in-laws: Timothy G. and Sandra L. Bograkos; brother-in-law: Timothy E. (Jessica) Bograkos; grandmother-in-law: Vera M. "YiaYia" Bograkos; nieces and nephews: Ella, Ava and Trent Kapfhammer and Tyler and Olivia Bograkos; as well as many cousins and numerous friends.

Brian graduated from Xenia High School, Class of 1996, where he had been an All State Football player. He attended Michigan State University on a football scholarship, graduating with a degree in Financial Planning from the Eli Broad College of Business in 2000. He continued his affiliation with the university being a member of the Varsity S Club and the Alumni Football Association. Brian was one of the founders of Silver Arrow Financial in Xenia. He was always willing to serve his community and help wherever needed. He was proud to have been the President of Rotary International, in Xenia, an office his family held for three generations. He was also past President of the Xenia Chamber of Commerce. Brian had been inducted into the Xenia Hall of Honor and was slated to be inducted into the Xenia Athletic Hall of Fame this fall. He especially loved coaching his boys and watching them excel in athletics, coaching the Wee Bucs Football teams and Xenia Elite Basketball. He also was instrumental in the success of several school board levies, chairing on multiple boards. Brian had a great sense of adventure, loved to travel and had been to six of the seven continents. Brian had a big smile and even bigger heart and his dedication to his community will be missed tremendously. Knowing Brian's enormous capacity to give, his family chose to honor Brian's life by allowing him to be an organ donor.

In keeping with Brian's love of football, the family wishes that in lieu of flowers, donations be made to the Doug Adams Trust, c/o Greene Giving, 941 W. Second St., Xenia in Brian's memory.

A gathering for the community will be held 10 AM Wednesday, October 18th at Faith Community Church, 100 Country Club Drive, Xenia with a celebration of his life beginning at 1 PM. Burial will follow in the family lot at Woodland Cemetery, Xenia. McColaugh Massie Funeral Home has been entrusted with the arrangements.

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Published by Dayton Daily News on Oct. 15, 2023.

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Carmina Beedle

June 16, 2025

I am so very sorry to hear about Brian´s passing. We were in the same graduating class and I remember him as always kind and having a smile for everyone. He also became good friends with my father through a working relationship. He will certainly be missed and I hope that his memory brings peace and blessings to his family and friends.

Lawrence W. Gordon

December 18, 2024

He was a wonderful man and friend. I miss him! Larry Gordon

LAWRENCE W. GORDON

October 9, 2024

Brian was more to me than a business associate, he was a friend and GREAT AMERICAN. I truly miss him.

TC

October 18, 2023

Brian taught our kids more than how to play football. He taught them sportsmanship, respect, and gave them confidence. He earned their respect, never demanded it. This is a huge loss for our community.

Cassanio Family

October 18, 2023

Compassion; Perseverance; Confidence; Respect; Will-power; Grit. He was their Coach. He taught them. I will forever be thankful.

Tracy Buchanan

October 16, 2023

As a customer of Silver Arrow (and its predecessor) Brian was such a joy to work. He was a tremendous help to me when my aging parents moved to an assisted living facility as he (and his staff) patiently guided me through the process of making sure all of their financial affairs were in order. With the help of Brian and his staff, my parents, thankfully, did not run out of money. I could not have achieved this without the help of Brian and his staff. I will miss his smile and his infectious laugh. May he rest in peace.

Bob and Kathy Geyer

October 16, 2023

Our sincere condolences to the Stephan family on your loss. Brian will be missed by all who knew him. A great loss to the community. RIP Brian.

Brett Kilner

October 14, 2023

A personal and close friend to my wife and I as well as a Christian with a massive heart for anyone who ever knew him. The most unselfish and giving person we had the privilege of knowing. He will be very much missed !!! Brett and Tammy Kilner

Luann McHarg

October 14, 2023

Brian was one of the most gentle, kind. and considerate fifth grade students I ever had the pleasure of teaching.
My sincere and heartfelt condolences.

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10:00 a.m. - 1:00 p.m.

Faith Community United Methodist Church

100 Country Club Drive, Xenia, OH 45385

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Faith Community United Methodist Church

100 Country Club Drive, Xenia, OH 45385

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