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1936
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2024
Barbara Cutko Obituary
Yarmouth, ME - Barbara Totman Cutko, 87, died of Alzheimer's dementia in Yarmouth Maine on March 17. Born in Conway, MA Barbara earned a B.A. in education from UMASS Amherst and Master's degrees in special education and in social work. A quiet but determined activist for social and environmental causes, she had a long career in Baltimore MD public schools. Barbara was predeceased by her husband Frank, her brother Leland Totman, and her son-in-law Terence Bayler. She is survived by brother Conrad Totman (Hamden CT), sister Gail Totman Moskow (Wilton CT), daughter Valerie Cutko (London UK), son and dt-in-law Andy and Kate Cutko (Bowdoinham ME), and grandchildren Haven and Olena Cutko. Memorial donations may be sent to The Fund for Educational Excellence, https://ffee.org
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Tim Shea
April 1, 2024
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Jean Shea
April 1, 2024
so many wonderful memories of Barbara and the family. Like Marsha, my dad Bud was cousin to the Totmans and my childhood memories include much of the family. My sincere condolences to the entire family. She had a well lived life......
(Sylvia) Jean Shea Lapinski
Marsha Drew Bittner
March 30, 2024
Barbara I knew her from a very young girl! Safe to say baby!!
She was a cousin to my Dad Sid and one of the many Totman family that had a wonderful influence with my growing up!!
Connie and Gail I send you both much love and oh so many fond memories!
Love, Marsha
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