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Jay T. Sweeney

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Jay T. Sweeney obituary, 1959-2024, Lyman, ME

BORN

1959

DIED

2024

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Cote Funeral Home

87 James St

Saco, Maine

Jay Sweeney Obituary

Jay T. Sweeney

Lyman, ME - Jay T. Sweeney, 64, of Lyman Maine, Passed away unexpectedly on Tuesday, February 20, 2024.

He was born in Concord, NH on October 13, 1959, son of John and Donna Cozzi, Sweeney. He graduated from Concord High school, Class of 1977. Jay Lettered in cross country running and skiing.

Jay was a proud veteran and served from 1978-1996. First joining the NH army national guard and later activated as a U.S. Army Lieutenant for Operation Dessert Storm. He was honorably discharged at the rank of Captain.

He's survived by his father John Sweeney, his aunt Jean Sweeney, his wife of 25 years Debra Sweeney, his sister Sarah Bean, his children and their families, Amalia, Shane (Kerri), and Andrea (John), as well as seven grandchildren, his nephew Stephen (Suzy), niece Susan (Ben), great nieces and great nephews, and the countless friends he considered family.

He was predeceased by his mother Donna Sweeney.

A Graveside Service with military honors will be held at NH State Veteran's Cemetary in Boscawen, NH April 29, 2024 at Noon.

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Published by Concord Monitor on Apr. 23, 2024.

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Joan Plodzik

May 5, 2024

John, Jean and Sarah my thoughts and prayers are with you at this very sad time. I know that Jay will live on in precious memories, and in your heart forever.

Tracy Carleton

April 26, 2024

Jay was a good friend, school mate and neighbor. He always had a smile and was a kind person! Sincere condolences to the Sweeney family!
Tracy - CHS Class of 1977

Randy Whitehead, SFC, Ret

April 24, 2024

To the Sweeney Family
Very saddened to hear of Jay's passing. I remember him as a great guy with a smile that would light up a room. It was an honor to serve with him. My thoughts and prayers are with you.

Mary Ann Cooper

April 23, 2024

Sarah, My heartfelt condolences to you on the loss of your dear brother. Hold your cherished memories close. Wishing you God's peace and grace at this difficult time.

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Graveside service

12:00 p.m.

NH State Veteran's Cemetary

Boscawen, NH

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Cote Funeral Home

87 James St, Saco, ME 04072

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