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Carl Aven Obituary
In memory of a man whose zest for life was matched only by his generosity and creativity. Our beloved husband, father, grandfather, and great-grandfather, Carl Aven, has departed from us just ten minutes shy of his 89th birthday.
He is survived by his devoted wife of 67 years, Bonna Lee Metzger Aven; and their eight children, Kelly Oberg, Paula Allen, Patricia Russell, Julie Aven, Carla Aven Breakwell, Leigh-Ann Stewart, Laura Brooks, and James Aven. He is also remembered fondly by his sister, Joyce Vermilyea; and leaves behind a legacy cherished by numerous grandchildren and great-grandchildren.
Born in San Diego, he was one of three children in a Navy household, experiencing the transient life of post-Great War America before his family eventually settled in Minneapolis, MN. He pursued his education at the University of St. Thomas in St. Paul, MN.
After marrying the love of his life, Bonna, he relocated south to Lake Park, Florida. There, he co-founded the Grator Gator on Singer Island and Big Dollar in Jupiter, while also serving as town commissioner.
A devout Catholic and known for his quick wit and infectious laughter, Carl was a jokester who greeted everyone with a smile, leaving a lasting impression on those who crossed his path. His involvement with his childrens' sports was more than just coaching; it was a passion that made him an indelible figure in the sports community. Through years of mentoring and coaching, he touched countless lives, leaving behind a legacy of sportsmanship and camaraderie.
Resourceful and practical, there wasn't a problem that couldn't be solved with a little ingenuity and a roll of duct tape.
His impact extended beyond Florida to Roswell, GA, where he was actively involved in the community. Retired from Merril Lynch after a 40 year career as a VP. He was a proud member of the Knights of Columbus, lent his voice as a football announcer for the Hornets on Friday nights, and served as a dedicated school bus driver for 10 years.
Though he may no longer walk among us, his spirit will continue to inspire and uplift us, reminding us to approach life with humor, kindness, and an unwavering determination to overcome any obstacle.
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Memories and Condolences
for Carl Aven
Hunter Groton
July 14, 2024
I have incredibly fond memories of working with Carl when I was a rookie at Merrill Lynch. His great sense of humor and incredible capacity for fun and friendship were a bright spot in my early career. I´ll never forget piling into the back of his Cadillac with the troops for a fun meal at the Varsity. What a guy! I´ll always miss him. May God bless him and his family. Sincerely, Hunter Groton
Ron Hershberger
June 20, 2024
My heart is saddened to learn of Carl's passing. He was a dear friend over many years from our work together at Grator Gator in Florida to the visits with family. My sincere sympathy to Bonna, his children and sister Joy, along with my prayers for God's comfort and strength in the weeks to follow. I will await our meeting again in a better place and time. Rest in peace, my friend.
Deacon Don
April 30, 2024
My prayers go out to Carl's family. I am so grateful for the wonderful memories of our Saturday morning breakfast meeting. Carl filled us with an abundance of his love and knowledge. I will pray for the repose of his soul. Safe journey home my friend.
Deacon Don
Jerry Sery
April 30, 2024
Carl was the best of the best and we miss him.
Michelle Price
April 29, 2024
Thoughts and prayers with the Aven family. May the beautiful memories you have of your Dad give you comfort. Mr. Aven was a wonderful man! Was fortunate to have had him as a coach! What a great example he was for all of us.
Neighbor
April 29, 2024
My thoughts and prayers are with the Aven family in this time of grief. May the memories shared help you cope through this difficult time.
Jane Leonard
April 29, 2024
The Ford family sends are deepest sympathies to the Aven family, most particularly Aunt Bonna. Last night , we reminisced about all of the fun we had with all when you still lived in Lake Park. All of us remembered your dad´s kindness. Much love, George, Marty, Dan, Catherine, Tom, and Jane Ford.
Theresa
April 28, 2024
I am so very sorry for your loss!! Love ya Carla sweets !!
Tim & Kay Mcfarlin
April 28, 2024
Remarkable man, father and friend who had left us a lifetime of wonderful memories. Roswell Hornet Football will always be indebted. Love and condolences to the family. Tim & Kay McFarlin
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