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Brenda Silver Obituary
Webster, NH - Brenda (Blanchette) Silver, a lifelong Webster, New Hampshire resident, passed away unexpectedly on January 15th. Born in Concord on July 11th, 1960, to Harry and Pauline Blanchette, she grew up in Webster, the community she proudly called home. In 1983, Brenda married Leslie (Les) Silver, and soon after bought their family home on Route 127.
Brenda was working at Mellen Company (Webster, NH) when she decided to stay home and raise her girls. In 2004, she returned to the workforce, taking a position at Webster Elementary School, where she managed the school lunch program. Brenda loved this job and was an inspiration to many children in her 15+ years there. Additionally, for many years, she served as a ski coordinator for the WES Ski Program at Pats Peak.
A pillar of the Webster community, she served nearly 20 years as cemetery commissioner and Old Home Day chairwoman, dedicating countless hours volunteering to help make Webster a great community. Through these roles, her kindness, strength, and unwavering support left a lasting impact on all who knew her.
Brenda was a beach bum at heart. Long Sands Beach in York, Maine, was her favorite place. She loved hunting for sand dollars and enjoying the sun with her girls and friends. When not at the beach, she tended her flower beds, added new plants-usually peonies-took her Jeep for an off-road adventure, and enjoyed fires at the "bum-drum" with loved ones.
Known as the heart and soul of her family, Brenda brought people together and made everyone feel welcome. She often said, "I always cook extra (at dinner) because you never know who's gonna show up."
She is survived by her daughters, Aime Silver (Steve) and Ashley Coulombe (Matt); siblings Glen Blanchette (Marj), Elaine Lary, Darlene Cummings (Rick), and Harold Blanchette (Kris); and many nieces, nephews, and friends.
Brenda was predeceased by her husband of 40 years, Leslie Silver; her parents, Harry Blanchette and Pauline Kienia; her grandparents, Harry and Mabel Blanchette, Phillip and Evelyn Blanchette; and her parents-in-law, Stanley and Doris Silver.
Graveside services will be held on June 5th, 2026, at the Courser Hill Cemetery in Webster, NH, with a celebration of life to follow at her home, 713 Battle Street, Webster. Brenda's memory will live on in the hearts of her family, friends, and the community she touched so deeply.
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Judith ODonnell
February 2, 2026
In loving memory of Brenda. She was so kind, thoughtful and loving. Always there as a true friend. With sympathy, Judy and Bill ODonnell
Ari
January 29, 2026
Thoughts and prayers to family and friends of Brenda. I am so sorry for your loss.
Reardon Family
January 26, 2026
She never failed to say hello. She never forgot to wave as she saw us on the road. A great smile with a joyous laugh. In our little town , full of stars, she did shine very bright for our family. To Amie and Ashley and Brenda's big family- our hearts ache with yours.
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Allan & Judy Jones
January 24, 2026
To Aime and Asley and Brenda's entire family our hearts are broken for your loss! She was a rock to lean on and always shared herself with so many people. Her door was always open and she was so generous in so many ways. She was always willing to go above and beyond to help all who asked. May she rest in peace! Hugs, Allan & Judy Jones
Gerry Gagne
January 24, 2026
So sorry for your loss. Brenda was a giving and sharing person. Loved the Old Home Day dances i performed at. Brenda will be greatly missed
Dona Hoar
January 23, 2026
Ashley and Aime and all your extended family you have my deepest sympathy for your loss. Brenda was a good friend to many and will be deeply missed. Hold your memories close.
Kenny Kendall
January 23, 2026
My most sincere condolences to Brenda's loved ones.
Beau and Jackie Mellen
January 23, 2026
Sending our sincere condolences to Aime and Ashley and their family. Brenda was a force to be reckoned with, but always with a smile and a laugh. We knew her at the Mellen Company as she kept things in order with Faith and as a friend as we got married and started a family. We were fortunate to have known her and to enjoy the wisdom and happiness she gave all. May your good memories sustain you in this time of sadness. Shine on...
Michelle Laramee
January 23, 2026
Amie and Ashley I am heartbroken . That your mom passed away. She was always so sweet kind. And after auntie Pauline passed she always came to visit my mom. She will be missed deeply in the community. I didn't know she was involved in those things. Many blessings for the family. Love Michelle and family
Daniela & Jon Mellen
January 23, 2026
We met Brenda many years ago at work and she was kind hearted and always quick with a smile and laugh. We kept in touch through the years and I still remember her infectious laugh! She always shared kind words and brightened any group that was fortunate to have her presence. Sending condolences to her family.
Denny and Kathy
January 23, 2026
Our sincerest sympathies to Brenda's family. So unexpected to lose such a young, good friend.
Donna
January 23, 2026
I went to High School with Brenda and graduated with her in 1978. A very good friend and family member and wife and mother. Brenda will be missed by all.
Dr. Bruce Trivellini
January 23, 2026
The passing of my friend deeply saddens me. Only recently have we come to know each other and bonded over our shared love of gardening and food.
"Every happening, great or small is a parable by which God speaks to us, and the art of life is to get the message." (Malcolm Muggeridge)
My friend Brenda understood the message!
The Staff of Zis-Sweeney Funeral Home
January 23, 2026
We wish to extend our deepest sympathies at this difficult time.
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