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John Burruto

1938 - 2026

John Burruto obituary, 1938-2026, Amherst, MA

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1938

DIED

2026

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Amherst, Massachusetts

John Burruto Obituary

John Burruto

Amherst, MA - Mark Antony's funeral oration from Julius Caesar begins:

"Friends, Romans, countrymen, lend me your ears…

With those words, recited entirely from memory, our father, John Burruto, secured his position as principal of Amherst Regional Junior High School in 1974. During his job interview, a student on the panel asked about his background in theater and what he most loved to perform. Without hesitation, he answered: Shakespeare.

Then he delivered Mark Antony's funeral speech.

The performance, and the conviction behind it, helped win him the job.

At the time, John was a young husband and father from Rochester, New York, still early in his career in public education. Amherst was seeking someone to bring order and vision to a struggling junior high school. Shakespeare, and an actor's memory, helped bring him there.

That moment began a 52-year life in Amherst, Massachusetts, where John and his wife Sylvia raised their two sons, Justin and David, built enduring friendships, and became woven into the civic life of the college town.

For more than two decades as principal of the Amherst Regional Junior High School, John helped educate thousands of students. Many remained in touch with him long after they left the school, seeking advice, sharing news of their lives, or simply enjoying his company. He believed deeply in public education and in the responsibility to guide young people toward lives of purpose.

John loved the work of building a school where students could thrive - safe, challenged, and supported. More than once he made extraordinary efforts to change the course of a student's life for the better. Investing in young people was the central mission of his life.

His own path had been unlikely. Born in 1938 and raised on the wrong side of the tracks in Rochester, he developed a lifelong hunger for knowledge and an enthusiasm for widely varied pursuits. In high school he was a championship football player and wrestler, but also a dedicated actor and singer.

At seventeen, immediately after graduating in 1956, he enlisted in the United States Marine Corps. In the Marines, John competed in football and wrestling on regimental teams at Camp Lejeune and served on a Mediterranean tour, including deployment during Operation Blue Bat in Beirut, Lebanon in 1958. Even then, theater remained close to his heart. He performed in community theater productions while in service-and, as family lore suggests, perhaps to impress a young woman.

After his discharge, he returned to Rochester and enrolled at the University of Rochester, where he earned both bachelor's and master's degrees and met the love of his life, Sylvia. They married in 1963.

Adventure soon called and in 1965 John and Sylvia moved to Los Angeles, where he pursued acting while teaching English in the Los Angeles Unified School District in the Watts neighborhood. He appeared in plays and commercials and embraced the creative energy of Southern California. Their first son, Justin, was born there in 1967.

Family obligations eventually brought them back to Rochester, where John continued working with at-risk youth. Their second son, David, was born there in 1973.

Soon afterward John sought new opportunities-and Amherst answered.

Beginning in 1974 he served 22 years as principal of the Amherst Regional Junior High School, becoming known as a stern but deeply engaged disciplinarian, a gifted storyteller, and one of the town's most recognizable public servants.

Beyond the schoolhouse, John's curiosity and energy rarely rested. He explored the rivers and streams of New England by canoe and was an avid fly fisherman, delighting in the analytical challenge of observing the water, the insects, and how best to land the trout. He developed a fascination with the flora and fauna of New England, even endeavoring in owling on some winter nights, quietly listening for them in area forests.

In 1987, John was awarded a National Endowment for the Humanities fellowship to study the life of St. Francis of Assisi and medieval culture at the University of Siena in Italy under Professor William Cook of SUNY Geneseo. For six weeks, he and his colleagues traveled through Umbria and Tuscany studying the saint's life and the era he transformed. It was fitting that John chose Francis-a figure who sought to reform and renew the institution he served.

John brought that same reformist energy to his next challenge when he became principal of Haverhill High School in Haverhill, Massachusetts in 1996. There he strengthened academic and athletic programs, fought for long-neglected facilities, improved financial controls, and worked to hire talented teachers and staff.

A Marine always, he also founded the Haverhill High School U.S. Marine Corps Junior ROTC program, which continues today and has grown into one of the most respected programs in the country. In 2022 John returned to Haverhill as the program's honored guest for the Marine Corps birthday celebration.

After leaving Haverhill in 2000, John continued contributing to education, working with school districts in Windsor, Connecticut and Nashua, New Hampshire. Even in retirement, he returned to the classroom serving as an adjunct professor at American International College in Springfield, Massachusetts, where he taught professional development courses for educators.

He was also active in community life as a member of the Rotary Club of Amherst and as a founder of Circolo Italiano, an organization dedicated to celebrating and sharing Italian culture in western Massachusetts.

He was preceded in death by Sylvia, his wife of many decades and the love of his life. He is survived by his sons Justin and David, their spouses Michael and Star, and his granddaughter Daisy, all of whom will miss his boisterous laugh and amused smile during a particularly good story.

There are countless stories about John Burruto-some factual, some exaggerated, many improved in the retelling as he would have preferred. He was a Marine, a teacher, a principal, a fisherman, a scholar, a performer, and above all, a devoted husband, father, and friend. But for now, to borrow once more from Mark Antony:

Our hearts are in the coffin there with Caesar, and we must pause till they come back to us.

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by Daily Hampshire Gazette on Mar. 21, 2026.

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Anne Mathieson

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John...my leader, my friend. I'll always remember that first day I met John. He had his suit bag slung over his should and asked directions to the men's locker room. He quickly began taking care of issues that had arisen due to lack of adequate leadership. He became my respected "Boss', fearless leader and good friend. He helped me get a "pop corn machine so my ski club could raise money for ski trips. We had many discussions over coffee...from politics to school affairs and family issues. Rest in peace my friend .

Anne Mathieson

Jon Mangion

March 23, 2026

John was my Principal at Haverhill High School. During his tenure he developed a Night School Program for struggling students, the ROTC Program which is one of the most respected JROTC Programs in the area. He expected and demanded the best from students as well as staff.
John was a mentor and a friend who encouraged me to become an administrator. I enjoyed working with him and learned so much from him about leadership, empathy as well as raising the bar first and foremost for myself.
He will be missed.
Rest well Marine!

Jeff orr

March 22, 2026

RIP John. Such a multi talented man. I am glad for the conversations we had over the last years. I appreciate all I learned from you. Godspeed your back with your soulmate in heaven.
Jeff Orr

Joann Griswold

March 22, 2026

He came. He looked, listened, and assessed. He identified problems, and worked to correct them. He was fair in his addressing student issues. To John Barruto, educator, and U.S.Marine, " Fair winds.and folowing seas......"

Jim Heffley

March 22, 2026

Our father, Jack Heffley, worked with Mr. Burruto in the Amherst school system for many years. Running a middle school is a tough task and our dad always admired John´s skills as an educator and his dedication to the students. Our thoughts are with you.
- Pauline Heffley, Jim Heffley, Kim (Heffley) McOsker

Bob McAllister

March 22, 2026

John was always such a character. Loved spending coffee time with him at Kelly's. He brought order to Amherst Jr/Sr High school, at a time it was so badly needed. He really cared about "his kids". My thoughts and prayers go out to David, Justin and families. RIP JB. Job well done.
Bob McAllister

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Charlene Lawrence-Ryan

March 21, 2026

I will always cherish the times we had together. So many memories!
He and my cousin, Sylvia, were really special.
Love to all of you
Charlene Lawrence-Ryan

Peter keyser

March 21, 2026

Semper Fi John

Richard Ahlfeld

March 21, 2026

Sending condolences to you David, Star and Daisy and the rest of your family as you remember this extraordinary life.

Joyce

March 21, 2026

Together forever Sylvia and John RIP.

George E Forman

March 21, 2026

John was a charter member of friends who gathered at Kelly's cafe every Tuesday. We would listen to his conservative views, actually with great admiration at his reasons. He would come almost prepared for debate with infomation from recent articles in the news. In our "reality is an option" city of Amherst I was grateful to have John, in his Richard Burton voice, give us perspective. Thank you John. Take your place in heaven.

Jamison Koehler

March 21, 2026

My mother Gene Koehler worked for Mr. Burruto for many years as an English teacher at Amherst Junior High School. She always spoke so highly of him. She said he was great with the students. He was also very supportive of the teachers: She felt that he really had their backs.

Jon Hite

March 21, 2026

To see John holding court at a table at Kelly's was always a treat. His opinions were strongly held and boldly transmitted. He will be missed.

Charlie Paulin

March 21, 2026

Just last week, I was planning to rejoin Planet Fitness and hoping to see John again. I first met John negotiating an administrators contract. I saw him often at school committee meetings. We overlapped many times at the gym where we would chat about my youngest son, a career Marine. I last saw him at Mindy's barbershop. It was an honor to call him friend.

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