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Rich Stern
June 12, 2024
I hadn't looked at this website for a while and noticed several newer entries. Please accept the gratitude of the Stern Family for your acknowledgements and anecdotes. We miss Andy every day and take some solace knowing that he has not been forgotten. Thank you...Rich Stern (Dad).
P.S. Andy "lives on" in many ways. The most profound for me are the nine young men and women whose names are (partial) tributes to him. Among them are three of our grandchildren whose middle names are lasting tributes. Too, we are grateful to the many folks who visit Andy at Arlington National Cemetery (Gravesite 60-7999 in Section 60). Andy is at rest there with thousands of heroes, many in Section 60 who fought for our Nation in Iraq and Afghanistan. They, too, are not and will not be forgotten.
Charlie Gili
December 11, 2021
To add to our previous message...US Hockey Players Support Our Troops has made a small donation to the Lt. Andrew K. Stern Scholarship Fund at the Culver Military Academy School to honor and remember his memory. Respectfully submitted by Charlie Gili & Family
Kinta Noble
October 30, 2021
Eileen, thinking of you today and just wanted you to know what an amazing friend you were to me when we taught at HHS. Although I never met your amazing son I felt as I knew him through you and your amazing love for him. Please let me hear from you...Love, Kinta. [email protected]. 901-737-2845
Charlie Gili
October 29, 2021
Hello,
We apologize for being so late in expressing our deepest condolences to you and your family. We want you to know that we will be sending Care Packages to deployed troops this holiday season and several of these will be dedicated to your loved one. Each package will carry the name, photo, service branch, rank and hometown of Andrew K. Stern US Marine 1st Lieutenant .
We realize that this is a small tribute, but we do this with all respect and sincerity and we want you to know that it is made possible by thousands of like-minded individuals from across the American youth hockey community, their families, friends and others who support our mission.
We will not forget. May God Bless you and keep you safe and strong.
Sincerely,
Charlie Gili & Family
On Behalf of our US Hockey Players Support Our Troops Campaign
Michelle
December 30, 2020
Thinking about Andy today (as I do often). Rich & Eileen, I know Andy has given you signs in the past and something compelled me to write in this guest book today (instead of just going about my day). I'm so grateful I met your son and for the time we got to spend together. His determination has inspired me throughout my life and I do my best to live life to its fullest. Semper Fi.
Kinta
September 19, 2020
Although I never knew Andrew I had the honor to teach with his lovely mother. Through Eileen I felt I did get to know and honor Andrew. Andrew, I thank you for your sacrifice for our great country. Much love to your family.
Kinta Noble. [email protected]
Mary Smith
September 17, 2020
Dear Senora Stern, you were my Spanish teacher in high school. You told me what happened to your son and you always wore a band on your arm marking the dates of his life. I never met him. Its been 10 years since I had you as a teacher, but every 9/16 I think about you, your son, and family. I come from a military family myself and know one of the greatest fears after losing someone is that everyone will forget. I haven't seen you in 10 years, but I remember Andy every Sept 16. I will never forget him or you. Blessings to you and your family
November 13, 2014
Bryant Smith MSgt, USMC (retired)
November 13, 2014
Lt Stern was my Platoon Commander in Fallujah. I still think of that day often. Andy was a great guy, an outstanding Marine, and an inspiring leader.
Semper Fi.
Kinta Noble
September 16, 2012
Andrew, I did not know you personally, but do know you through your mother. I know how proud you are of her. I teach with your mother and not only is she one of the best high school Spanish Teachers in the U.S., but she is a wonderful example to our students of what a wife, mother and teacher truly means. I thank her for being your mom and thank you for giving the U.S. the ultimate gift. May your and your mother's example of what life should and can be continue to shine bright.
Kinta Noble
Brandon Daws
May 30, 2012
To the family of 1Lt. Stern,
I did not know 1Lt. Stern personally, but I was with him the day he passed. His tank patrol was pulling security for us while we were building a bypass road for Fallujah. I sustained injuries in the same blast that took his life. I believe that his actions helped to save my life and the lives of many others that were present that day. My condolences to the family and friends of 1Lt. Stern's.
May 30, 2012
Thank you for your service, Andrew. You seemed like a really awesome guy.
Paul Webb
March 12, 2012
I had the honor of serving with LT Stern I was with him over in Iraq he was my Plt Cammander for 3rd Plt Bravo company I remember that day in sept you know the marines lost a really really great marine. Just having him as a leader is what got us home I thank you LT Stern Semiper fi
Peggy Childers
September 16, 2011
To the family and friends of 1st Lt. Andrew K. Stern:
Please accept my remembrance of Andrew on the anniversary of his passing and know that he will never be forgotten.
james rodriguez
May 30, 2011
For the family of Lt.Stern I want to tell you that your son was a great leader he was my Plt. Leader . I was with him everyday in iraq up til the end I would like to let you know he was not alone in the end. He told us that He would get us back safe . He did that for me I thank him everyday for the life I have now . He always pushed me to be a better marine and I also became a better man because of him . Thank you and good bless. Sgt.J Rodriguez USMC
Peggy Childers
September 16, 2010
To the family and friends of 1st Lt. Andrew K. Stern:
Remembering Andrew on the anniversary of his passing. May our fallen heroes never be forgotten!
Peggy Childers
"Don't Let The Memory Of Them Drift Away"
www.IraqWarHeroes.org
October 6, 2009
October 6, 2009
Bret Elam
September 23, 2009
It's been over 5 years now and we will never forget the sacrifice that Andy made for our nation. He was an inspiration to us all and I think about the lessons he taught us often. He was a true hero in every sense of the word and we miss him.
Harvey Kabaker
September 22, 2009
The other day I happened by Andrew Karl Stern's gravesite at Arlington National Cemetery and saw the display created for the 5th anniversary of his death. I want to share it. I'm not sure how it will look. Contact me if you want a copy.
Peggy Childers
September 16, 2009
To the family of 1st Lt. Andrew K. Stern:
Andrew gave the ultimate sacrifice and will be held in the hearts of Americans forever. I cannot and will not let our fallen heroes be forgotten. My deepest sympathy to you. "Some gave all."
Peggy Childers
"Don't Let The Memory Of Them Drift Away"
www.IraqWarHeroes.org
September 16, 2009
Thinking about Andy and his family today and many other days. I went to see his grave last year, giving me peace of mind. Rest in Peace.
Kenna Larra
September 10, 2009
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Sincerely and Respectfully,
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Project Compassion
P.O. Box 153
Manti, Utah 84642
Ron and Karen Hurley
September 2, 2009
Rich, Eileen and Family,
It is hard to believe that five years has passed since Andy's death. We would like to remember him this year on his birthday with a donation to Culver Academies. Please know that we will never forget the sacrifice your family made for us. The Hurley Family
Breeanna Purcell
August 24, 2009
Dear Stern Family,
My husband attended The Basic School with Andy in 2003. He though very highly of Andy. He took Andy's death very hard. We lost another friend named Andy around the same time as your Andy's death. When our son was born in 2005 we named him Andrew to honor your son, Andrew Stern, and our other friend Andrew Bruno.
Recently one of my friends lost their child. My friend told me she was worried that her child would be forgotten. I felt compelled to tell you that your son is not forgotten. We are reminded of him often.
You are in my thoughts and prayers.
Sincerely, Breeanna Purcell
Sgt Havey
July 17, 2009
Stern Family,
Its been awhile since I've talked to you, but seeing how I was next to Lt. Stern when this happend an the only one who knows what actually happend. Your son will always be in my family and I's prayers. Lt. Stern you will always be remembered, and never forgotten
Tammy Bass
May 31, 2009
Please know that your sacrifice will not be forgotten. On Saturday May 23 I was honored to read the names of Tennessee's fallen in the Iraq and Afghanistan wars at a ceremony in Washington DC at the WWII Memorial. USMC 1st Lt. Andrew Stern is remembered.
Tammy Bass
Proud Mother of USMC Cpl. David Bass
4/23/85 - 4/2/06
William Orr
May 25, 2009
I'm dedicating today's activities with my family to Andrew. I had the disinct pleasure of serving with him during his short career, but his legacy continues in all the Marines he led. Rest in peace, Marine.
Thomas Miller
May 22, 2009
Andy I still find myself thinking about you as the days go by. On this weekend we should all be thankful for the service and sacrifice you gave to us and this country. Thank you Andy
Thomas D. Miller
CMA 99 (your friend and roomate)
Bret Elam
September 20, 2008
It's been over 4 years and we all still remember everything you taught us. We miss you Andy, and we'll never forget.
Rest in Peace.
In Memory of Andrew ~ (Debra Estep)
September 16, 2008
Holding you all in my thoughts and prayers.
The Wind on The Downs
“I like to think of you as brown and tall,
As strong and living as you used to be,
In khaki tunic, Sam Brown belt and all,
And standing there and laughing down at me.
Because they tell me, dear, that you are dead,
Because I can no longer see your face,
You have not died, it is not true, instead
You seek adventure in some other place.
That you are round about me, I believe;
I hear you laughing as you used to do,
Yet loving all the things I think of you;
And knowing you are happy, should I grieve?
You follow and are watchful where I go.”
(Written by Marian Allen during World War l )
Two lines that I wish you to keep near your heart…….
“You seek adventure in some other place.
That you are round about me, I believe”
I did not know Andrew, but I am remembering
his service. He is my hero. !
~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~
The Other Side
i'm over on the other side
where life and death softly divide.
left my skin and bones behind
now i'm over on the other side.
can you feel me there with you?
my breath is gone but i'm not through.
loved you then and i still do
from over on the other side.
i can fly. really fly.
below the earth ... all through the sky.
tell em all i did not die.
i'm just over on the other side.
it's good here on the other side.
the sweetest songs...the bluest skies.
thank you for the tears you cried
but it's good here on the other side.
i can fly. really fly. below the earth...all through the sky.
tell em all i did not die.
i'm just over on the other side
the world is smaller than a needle's eye.
where life and death softly divide.
when you leave your skin and bones behind
i'll be waiting on the other side.
i can fly. really fly. below the earth ... all through the sky.
go tell em all i did not die.
i'm just over on the other side.
Song lyrics by Don Conoscenti
C Desert Muse/SESAC
www.donconoscenti.com
(Used with permission)
“I hope it brings great comfort to any and all.
Peace on you. DonCon” 4-2008
The Other Side –
(To hear the song)
http://tinyurl.com/3o8gol
Sincerely,
Deb Estep ~ Ohio
Proud Air Force Mom SSgt Vince – Lackland AFB
Proud Air Force MIL SrA Dana – Randolph AFB
Remembering The Fallen – Blog
http://tinyurl.com/3z8p55
Angel and soldier drawing I have shared here.
http://tinyurl.com/6gey8b
Grace
June 11, 2008
To the family and friends of 1st Lt. Andrew Stern: On Saturday, June 14th (Flag Day) there will be an event in Topeka, KS called The Reading. Volunteers will be reading the names of the fallen from Iraq and Afghanistan. I'll be Reading 1st Lt. Andrew Stern's name. Each Reader is given a page of 50 names - first name, middle initial, last name, date of death and home state. After each name a bell will toll. The event is expected to take approximately 6 hours to complete. It's important to me the family know of this event in memory of their loved one. Your loved one and friend has not been forgotten. My condolences to his family and friends.
www.thereading.us
http://www.cjonline.com/stories/052
408/opi_282377601.shtml
April 19, 2008
You are remembered and respected. Thank you 1st Lt Stern!
Heather Weist
April 3, 2008
I worked at Copper Cellar in Knoxville with Andy while we both attended college. Andy became everyone's favorite server in the restaurant almost as soon as he started. One of the best memories I have of Andy was talking him into being the "hot" server at my bachelorette party we had at the Cellar. He was so proud of being a marine and serving our country. He will forever be missed by those who were fortunate enough to have known him, even if only for a moment.
Ralph Mannel
November 29, 2007
I was very sorry to read about your son. Your family will remain in my prayers. God bless and protect your family.
Thomas Miller
October 1, 2007
To the Stern Family:
I was Andrews roommate at Culver my sophmore year, and am the Class Agent for CMA 99'. I attended his ceremony in Arlington, and just wanted to let you know that he and you will always be in my thoughts. Please don't hesitate to contact me if there is anything I can help you with.
John Lewis
September 15, 2007
Dear Mr. and Mrs. Stern,
My name is John Lewis. I am a 3rd classman at Culver Military Academy and a 2nd year rower on the Culver Crew Team. Today at the Academies we remembered your son, with the rowing of the crew boat named in his honor, and celebrated his life the in the beauty of life procession. I was on the Culver Color Gaurd, in the position of left rifle, gaurding your sons golden star on the legion flag to my right. I would like to tell you that I wouldn't have wanted to stand anywhere else on this Saturday the 15th of September 2007, then right next to the star that honors your son. And even though I or any of the current crew members never knew your son in person and weren't even in his generation, every student who has rowed in his boat, feels as if we have rowed with him ourselves. Your son's presence watches over Culver, your family, and our country always. I am sorry for your loss.
Sincerly,
John Lewis CMA '10
sheila
August 23, 2007
I am so sorry for this loss. May his family find comfort remembering his wonderful life. Rest in peace.
Patsy Jo Reed Sircy
August 14, 2007
Sincere sympathy and love, Pat - R.N.
August 13, 2007
There is nothing that I can say or do to take away the pain or bring you peace in your time of sorrow, but I will offer you and your family my heart felt condolences. I also offer you my prayers that in time the pain will easy and the memories of your HERO will carry you through each day and night. I want to thank your HERO, for his/her selfless act of becoming a member of the armed forces, his/her willingness to defend the United States of America, all that we hold sacred and for the sacrifice that will forever be etched in the memories of all those who knew him/her. Though tears can never bring him/her back, we hope that our tears express our gratitude for the sacrifice that he/she made and our sorrow at his/her passing. I believe for every fallen HERO there is a star shining brightly up above to remind us of the precious gift we were given.
Your mission on earth is complete and you are now a member of GOD’’s Heavenly armed forces. Stand down brave warrior and take your rightful place in Heaven with all the HEROES who have passed before.
I made a special promise to LE RON A. WILSON, a dear family friend (KIA on 07/06/07) on the day he was laid to rest as I touched his coffin, that I would never forget him nor would I forget those that gave their lives for our country before him, with him and after him and so when I came across www.legacy.com, I thought what a great way to keep my promise to Le Ron, so I will continue to leave tributes in each guest book until the day there is no longer the need to leave these tributes to a FALLEN HERO.
REST IN PEACE, HERO, YOU WILL NEVER BE FORGOTTEN!!
PROUD MOTHER OF A U.S. SOLDIER
Althea Barrett(Queens, NY)
July 12, 2007
Thank you for the sacrifice made by 1st Lt Stern and the sacrifice made by everyone who loves and misses him! May God bless all of you!!
Bret Elam
May 30, 2007
Andy we will never forget. Your bracelet reminds me always of the lessons you taught me and so many others. You taught us never to give up the good fight and you lived by that priniciple always.
Love you man and miss you.
Capt Davis
May 29, 2007
I miss you man.
alex ziskind
March 28, 2007
I can't believe it has been three years after andy's death, it seems like just yesterday when our families went on a cruise together...andy brought light, smiles, and laughter to every situation he was in. I look at his bracelet everyday and he motivates me to become a better person, student, friend, sister, daughter, everything. Not one day goes by that I don't think of him and wish that he was still here. I love you Andy.
Henry Kelly
March 21, 2007
Rest in the peace of God. You are our country's best.
Brian Wells
February 2, 2007
To the Stern Family
My name Sgt Wells I served with your son at 1st Tank Bn. We were deployed together in Iraq in 2004
My deepest regrets and apoligys.
Lt. Stern had a very strong presents that he projected always a competetor and an insperation. I will never forget him. Semper Fidelis
Karen Hickman
January 31, 2007
On behalf of "Gold Star Siblings" Please accept our heartfelt condolences.
Garnet Jenkins
September 16, 2006
In Rememberance of 1st Lt. Andrew K. Stern, on the anniversary of the day he gave his life for our Country.
May Andrew rest in the Mighty Hands of God and know that he is a True American hero, that shall NEVER BE FORGOTTEN.
I Pray that God's Loving Grace and Comfort will continue to be with the Stern family.
There will never be enough ways,
to humbly thank these Heroes,
for their Supreme Sacrifice,
my brother among them. KIA-Vietnam 1967.
"There will always be comfort for every sorrow." - Anne Frank
May the memories of your loved one live in your heart always.
Tom Gugliuzza-Smith
May 7, 2006
My heartfelt sympathy to the Stern family in the loss of Andrew. I did not know Andrew, but my heart is broken and I am saddened for your loss of such a fine young person and hero. May God bring you peace in your heart as you reflect on all the wonderful memories you hold so close. Please know that you are in my heart and prayers. Andrew it has been 19 months since you were taken. My heart was touched by the many wonderful/beautiful things written about you. You are a hero and you will never be forgotten.
I send each of you a hug from the most inner part of my heart.
Love and Peace
Tom
To live in the hearts
of those you leave behind
is never to die"
~Robert Orr~
rachel cato
May 3, 2006
Mr & Mrs stern i'am sorry for your loss and i just what to let you know that both of you and your family is all was in my prayers
Bret Elam
January 11, 2006
Dear Mr. and Mrs. Stern,
I rowed with Andy for 2 years and then took over coaching after he left for Iraq. Not a day goes by that I don't look at the bracelet we had made in his honor that I wear always on my right wrist. I am still coaching a crew up here in Baltimore and I still abide by your son's ever enduring method of motivating....yelling...loudly. He was the most motivational person I have ever met and I will never forget the lessons he taught us both on and off the water. If anyone else is interested in getting one of the bracelets please email me and I'll let you know where I got mine and what it says.
Andy...we'll never forget.
Take care all.
Sincerely,
Bret Elam
Vangi & McKaLyne Lunsford
January 10, 2006
Psalm 23
1
The LORD is my shepherd, I shall not be in want.
2
He makes me lie down in green pastures, he leads me beside quiet waters,
3
He restores my soul. He guides me in paths of righteousness for his name's sake.
4
Even though I walk through the valley of the shadow of death, I will fear no evil, for you are with me; your rod and your staff, they comfort me.
5
You prepare a table before me in the presence of my enemies. You anoint my head with oil; my cup overflows.
6
Surely goodness and love will follow me all the days of my life, and I will dwell in the house of the LORD forever.
This is a verse that I have found to be comforting to me during my husbands death. Remember that when it seems that no one else is round, God is still there with you! And he will be your rock!
My daughter,McKaLyne, and I send our heartfelt sympathy for your loss! God Bless this warrior, God Bless those whom serve freedom's cause! They are our true HERO's!!!!
If you need anything, please feel free to contact me!!!
Wife & Daughter of the Late
Sgt. Audrey Daron Lunsford
KIA May 23, 2005
Steven Karras
December 4, 2005
Though I never had the opportunity to meet Andrew, I heard great things about him from his very proud grandfather, Otto who had told me that his grandson was serving in Iraq. Needless to say I am so very saddened about the Stern family's loss and I wanted to offer them my most profound condolences.
Zach Stern
November 2, 2005
Thank you everyone. Your thoughts are truly appreciated.
William Smith
September 28, 2005
Hello,
I am a former Sgt in the Marine Corps, and serving with Marines like 1st Lt. Stern makes me proud to have been a Marine. While stationed at Fort Knox Ky., I had the honor of meeting (at the time) 2nd Lt. Stern. While at Fort Knox, I assisted officers while they attended Armor Officer Basic instruction. I can honestly say that of all the officers I worked with 1st Lt. Stern was one of the most professional. I have yet to recover from the shock of hearing of his death. I would like to extend my condolences to not only to the family of Lt. Stern, but to all those who knew his as he was a great person, and a great Marine.
Sincerely,
William Smith
Mr./Mrs. H.Kaufman
September 5, 2005
Our condolences to the family and friends.
Bret Elam
August 16, 2005
Dear Mr. and Mrs. Stern,
Your son is the reason I became a rowing coach. He was the inspiration to myself and so many others on that team. He coached me for 2 years then left for training and I took over the novice men. I saw him at OCS and I know he was an an inspiration there as well. I know he was an inspiration to those troops in the field. He lived the life he wanted on his own terms and wouldn't have it any other way. If there were more people like him around this country and this world would be better off. I know I am a better person for getting to know him and I thank God every day for putting someone like him in my life. He taught me how to be a leader and how to lead a team to success. His influence on others will never be forgotten and the Rowing Team at UT will never be the same. They will race his namesake boat with pride and always remember it was Andy that taught us to race harder and faster....always.
Truly grateful,
Charles Bret Elam
Fellow Officer Candidate and Crew Coach
Andrew M. Stern
July 31, 2005
Dear Stern Family,
We are connected by name and the fact that when young, I fought as a Marine in Vietnam. I send you my hugs and warm wishes that you find peace. I believe that God's loving hand is near you. I was seriously wounded in the war that I fought. I know how my own parents would have responded if I had not recovered. May God always bless you.
Tiffany & Drew Dominowski
June 1, 2005
There isn't a day that goes by that we don't think of Andy. We are so proud, honored and grateful that we were able to know him, be firends with him, honor him, and cherish him. He was such a strong, caring, loving and funny individual. What he did for us and our country is irreplaceable. We miss him everyday and think of his family often.
With Love,
Drew & Tiffany Dominowski
(Friends from College)
Marianne Muehlenbrock
May 29, 2005
To the family of 1st Lt. Andrew K. Stern:
Dear family,
I am so sorry for your loss. I just can't imagine your loss. My son is deployed in Iraq. It is very hard. I pray for you and that God will give you peace.
Marianne Muehlenbrock
Hart Knight
May 5, 2005
Dear Stern Family,
My condolences to you. I went to the University of Tennessee and remember Andrew's face, although I never knew him. I am proud of what he stood for and thankful that he fought for me and my family.
Don Hess
February 28, 2005
Jesus Wept! I am an army veteran of the vietnam era. I am so sorry about your loss. I have a son and can't even imagine him dying under similar conditions. I believe that Andrew is still alive and can assure you that he will be resurrected and that you will see him again, in a better place, where there is no war and peace and love will rule.
Jacquelyn Holmes
February 28, 2005
To the family of 1st Lt. Andrew K. Stern;
My condolences to you and my appreciation for your son's service to and for his country. Being from Memphis, this has hit very close to home. He gave his all for peace. God Bless you in this time of sorrow. You will see each other again. God promised this. God Bless America.
Debby Levy
September 29, 2004
Our condolences to your entire family on the loss of your son Andrew. You are all in our thoughts and prayers.
Debby, Scott and Todd Levy
Leslie Graubart-Mattenson
September 25, 2004
Dear Eileen,Rich and boys,
We are so sorry to hear about Andy.
Our prayers and thoughts are with you and your family at this time.
It seems like yesterday that Rich was outside throwing the ball around with the kids. Please accept our heartfelt condolences.
Leslie, Jeffrey and David Graubart
Sheila Kidder
September 24, 2004
Eileen,Rich,Justin,Kyle and Zach,
We're so sad and heartbroken for you. Please know you're in our thoughts and our hearts are with you.
Sheila and Richard Kidder
Heidi Huck
September 23, 2004
Dear Eileen and the Stern family,
We only worked together for a few years at Rolling Meadows High School, but I still remember the love with which you spoke about your wonderful family. Our thoughts and prayers are with you as you celebrate Andrew's life.
lesa meyer
September 23, 2004
Eileen, Lucas just emailed me the news about Andrew. I am so sorry. My brother-in-law is serving in Baghdad right now and we consider ourselves really lucky everytime we hear from him. Know that you and your family are in the hearts and prayers of the the people at RMHS.
William Lucas
September 22, 2004
Eileen, My wife and I were fortunate enough to have attended Andy's Bar Mitvah. We send our sympathy and prayers to you and your family. Those who taught with you at Rolling Meadows also send their prayers.
Eileen Manno
September 22, 2004
I am so sad to hear of the death of your son. Please know that we at Saint Viator are thinking of you and your family.
KERRY FRIEDMAN
September 21, 2004
THE SHOCK AND SADNESS THAT WE FEEL WHEN WE HEARD ABOUT ANDY CANNOT BE EXPRESSED. MANY YEARS HAVE PASSED SINCE THOSE DAYS OF LITTLE LEAGUE WHEN OUR CHILDREN PLAYED TOGETHER. IT SOUNDS LIKE ANDY GREW UP TO BE A STRONG LEADER AND SOMEONE TO BE PROUD OF.
OUR DEEPEST CONDOLENCES FROM OUR FAMILY TO YOURS.
KERRY,JUDY,JEREMY,JENNIFER,BRYA N AND MICHAEL FRIEDMAN
Susan Peyrot
September 21, 2004
Dear Eileen and family, I was so very sorry to hear about Andy's death in Iraq. You must have been so proud of all his accomplishments he made in his short life.My deepest thoughts are with you and your family. Susie Peyrot
Tom Cole
September 21, 2004
Eileen my heart is with you and your family. I remember you and your boys travelling with George and I to deliver Christmas gifts in Chicago. Was Andrew in the group that day? Words are so feeble at these moments, but know that you are all in my prayers.
MARY ANN MELLEMA
September 21, 2004
Some students come into our lives and we never forget them. I remember that Andy sat in Row 5 in the last seat by the window. Why do I remember that...... because of his enchanting smile and his energetic personality! He daily gave me that smile upon leaving the room. Thank you Andy for serving our country. May you rest in peace!
Former Cooper Teacher,
Mary Ann Mellema
a
Bill Faltinoski (St. Viator H.S.)
September 21, 2004
Eileen and family,
My deepest sympathies on the loss of your son. All of us at St. Viator were saddened to learn of his death. Please know all of us are keeping him and your family in our prayers.
Patti Shuma
September 20, 2004
Eileen, Rich, Justin, Zach & Kyle,
We are so sorry to hear of your loss. I hope he knew how much we as Americans appreciate his duties in defending our freedom. We will always remember his heroism and be ever so grateful. It has been a long time since we saw you all.
Sincerely,
The Shuma's(your old neighbor's)
Patti, Dick, Rich, Tim & Kelly
Bert Rosenberg
September 20, 2004
Dear Richard,Eileen, Justin, Kyle and Zach:
Sandi and I were deeply saddened by the news of your loss. We think back on the days when our sons were playing sports and attending Longfellow and Cooper schools together. It was just a couple of years ago that we saw you at Portillo's restaurant in Ridge Plaza.
I am offering a moment of silence at the Arlington Heights Village Board meeting tonight for Andy. Our heartfelt thoughts and prayers go out to all of you and your family.
Bert, Sandi, Michael and Jonathan Rosenberg
Sue Zissman
September 20, 2004
We are shocked and deeply saddened to hear of Andy's tragic death. He will always hold a special place in our hearts.
Our thoughts and prayers are with you always.
Fondly,
The Zissman Family
Michael, Sue, Scott and Mark
Laura Westcott
September 20, 2004
Dear Stern Family,
I am saddened to hear of Andy's death. While it has been over 10 years since Barrington High School Spanish class, Sra. Stern, I remember vividly hearing your stories of Andy and his brothers and seeing your face light up as you spoke. Andy no doubt was a great man; he served his country well and we are all proud. May God continue to uphold you with His right hand, and give you peace and comfort at this time of great loss.
Le ruego acepte mi mas sentido pesame.
Laura
BHS class of '94
Kitty and Terry and Family
September 19, 2004
Rich,Eileen, Justin, Kyle and Zachary-
Each of us is searching for the "right" thing to say...and after struggling to come up with the words, we realize that there is nothing, nothing that can ever articulate our sadness, shock and grief over Andy's loss. And certainly,no words can describe the loss you are feeling. Please know, that even though the words may not be there, we are there for all of you. We are here to support you, to offer our love and affection, our ear, our shoulder...We cherish the memories of Andy and are incredibly proud of the wonderful man that he became.
With much love and with much sadness--
Kitty, Terry, Alyssa, Andy, David and Zach
Alyssa Stern
September 19, 2004
I am so sorry for your loss. We will remember him as a hero.
Ellen Levy
September 19, 2004
Dear Stern family,
I was so sorry to learn about Andy's death. I remember him as a quick-witted, energetic, involved Cooper student who added laughter to our classroom discussions. I always felt Andy would be a successful, productive citizen, and I have no doubt that he probably lifted the spirits of his colleagues with his sense of humor whenever he could. I'm very saddened by his loss. Please know that my warm thoughts are with you all.
Sincerely,
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