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Specialist Rafael A. "TJ" Carrillo Jr. Specialist Rafael A. "TJ" Carrillo Jr., was born November 24, 1983 at Hill AFB, Utah, and was killed in action by an apparent IED attack in Baghdad, Iraq June 28, 2005. He proudly served with HHC 1-64 Battalion, 2nd Brigade Team, 3rd Infantry Division, Mortar Platoon, as the gunner on an M1114 armored Humvee, and was conducting an area security mission at a critically important road junction. SPC Carrillo was 21 years old. TJ joined the Army out of Austin, Texas in August 2002. He attended Basic Training and AIT at Fort Benning, Georgia where he successfully completed all training including earning his "jump wings" at Jump School. He was then assigned to the 3rd Infantry Division at Fort Stewart, Georgia in January 2003. Upon arrival at Fort Stewart, he was immediately deployed to Kuwait and Iraq for Operation Desert Spring and Operation Iraqi Freedom - 1 until August 2003. After earning his Combat Infantryman's Badge at the age of 19, he redeployed with the rest of the Desert Rogues and went directly into a year-long train-up, which took him to the National Training Center in California, and the Joint Readiness Training Center in Louisiana, in a six-month period. Captain Sherman Powell, of the 1-64 Armor Battalion, 3rd Infantry Division in Iraq wrote the following in a memorial tribute: "Specialist Rafael "TJ" Carrillo was the kind of guy who was always ready for anything. He lived his life in a way that brought humor and joy to the people around him every minute of every day. It was his special gift. No matter how bad the situation might look, he was able to find the right words, the right joke, to lift everyone's spirits and get them through the day. He's going to keep inspiring us, and keep motivating us, to complete the mission for which he, and his family, have paid such a high price, and we will see him again." TJ is survived by his mother and step-father Amy and Jess Tippie, sister Julia Carrillo and step-brother Brice Tippie all of Austin, Tex.; father Tony Carrillo of Austin, Tex.; grandparents James "Whitey" and Gail White, Pampa, Tex.; great- grandmother Edna Chisum, Pampa, Tex.; numerous aunts, uncles and other relatives, friends and family from Cal Farley's Boys Ranch, and his brothers in arms of the Desert Rogues. The family will receive friends 5:00 to 7:00 p.m., Sunday, July 10, 2005, at Harrell Funeral Home, Austin, Tex. Memorial service will be at Harrell Funeral Home Chapel, on Monday, July 11, 2005 at 10:00 a.m., with burial following at Forest Oaks Memorial Park. In lieu of flowers, memorial contributions may be made to Cal Farley's Boys Ranch, P.O. Box 1890, Amarillo, TX 79174 or www.calfarley.org. Arrangements with Harrell Funeral Home, 4435 Frontier Trail, Austin, TX (512) 443-1366.
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Memories and Condolences
for Rafael Carrillo
MSG Perre Echolz
April 25, 2025
It´s been a while happened to come across your page... I remember hearing the mortar then them rushing you to the mash and taking you off the vehicle... Horrible day... Seems like yesterday... You could impersonate anyone you were gifted... Hope you´re in a good place!!
Stanley Falcon
May 29, 2023
Amy and Tony. It's been years and my deepest condolences. I know Tony has passed as well but GOD Bless TJ n his father.
Always Stan & Maria Falcon
John Deltoro
June 29, 2021
Hey buddy! Another year has passed and yet another year I have not forgotten about my friend! You are loved and remembered daily as I still wear the bracelet bearing your name! Will never forget you my friend! Until we see each other again! Keep resting in peace....
Ashley Davis
June 28, 2021
16 years and it still feels like it just happened. I´m eternally grateful that I knew you. I am so proud of you for following your dreams and passions. The world is a better place because you were in it. I remember the last call vividly and I treasure that. You truly were one of my best friends. I´ll never forget you or your love for our great nation.
Rest In Peace, Teejay.
Charlie Gili
May 2, 2021
Hello,
We realize that we are very late to express our deepest condolences, but we wanted to let you and your family and friends know that we have made a small donation to Cal Farley's Boys Ranch to honor and remember Rafael A. "TJ" Carrillo Jr. US Army Specialist. We recognize that this is a humble tribute, but we wanted you to know that it is heartfelt and made possible by thousands of like-minded individuals across the American youth hockey community and beyond. We will not forget. May God Bless you and keep you safe and strong.
Sincerely,
Charlie Gili & Family
On Behalf of our US Hockey Players Support Our Troops Campaign
John deltoro
May 28, 2019
Another Memorial Day has past and you are not forgotten my friend...
Olivia Close
May 28, 2019
Thank you for giving you all. May you be rejoicing with the Lord!
Rafael along with another Mortar-Medic rocking some sweet shades that came in the mail. Kuwait desert a couple of weeks before the start of the war..
Christian Nelson
May 27, 2019
SPC Carillo's welcome by the Mortar Platoon in Kuwait in Camp New York on his 1st Deployment
Christian Nelson
May 27, 2019
Kara Burnett
November 11, 2016
I miss you.....I'll always miss you.... I love you my teeeejaaay lol God I wish you were here
Madaline & Troy Dunn
July 3, 2015
It I hard to believe it's been ten long years.
We think of him and miss him so much. Love him and you all.
July 1, 2015
Thinking about Rafael on the 10th anniversary of his passing. We will always be proud of the man he became and his service & sacrifice for our country. Blessings are wished for his family.
Nykki Davis
August 31, 2012
Seven years gone and I still have nights when it's almost impossible to believe you are gone. I love you and miss you soooo much!! <3
Olivia Close
June 28, 2012
Rest in peace with our Lord. god bless you always, and those who love and miss you.
John Deltoro
June 28, 2012
Still thinking about you, RIP my brother
June 27, 2012
On the 7th anniversary to Spc. Rafael Carrillo's passing, I offer my eternal gratitude for his military service.
Christi Zwolinski
February 13, 2012
It will be 7 years this year:( Still can't believe your gone... I still smirk when I think of you.... You even make me smile looking down on me... I know you do.
Shannon Talley
December 12, 2011
Hello to all again. on 10 December 2011 I went to the Wreath for Warriors ceremony at Fort Stewart, Ga. Placing a Wreath on TJ's Tree was very important for me. He will always have a place in my heart.
Nykki Davis
June 30, 2011
Six whole years. I can't believe it's been that long. I really, really miss you. I wish I could be expecting a call for no reason. I wish I could rewind time.. just for 5 minutes. You're still and always will be my hero. :)
Xoxo.
Peggy Childers
June 29, 2011
June 28, 2011
To the family and friends of Spc. Rafael A. Carrillo:
Please accept my remembrance of Rafael on the anniversary of his passing and know that he will never be forgotten.
Nykki Davis
May 11, 2011
Magz and I are getting tattoos in your honor soon. I never thought I'd do that for anyone. You had a huge impact on us. We miss you; I miss you ALOT. I miss the random calls of literally nothing we use to have. I miss coming in the door and you being right on schedule with a call. One day I'll see you again, but until then konw that you'll never leave my thoughts. You're my hero, Teej. I love you always! <3
Olivia Close
December 21, 2010
TJ, it is good to see you've made an impact on people in your service of our country...thank you for your ultimate sacrifice. May you rest in peace and may the Lord bring peace, comfort and understanding to your loving family this Christmas, as I know you are very missed.
justin wakefield
December 20, 2010
just want to say that i went to skool with tj and the 28th is my birthday. i was devastated by the news and enlisted myself. i will always miss the "batman".
Sheila
December 1, 2010
Another birthday has passed. Another Christmas season is here. And there he is still in our hearts and on our minds.
October 22, 2010
So sorry.
to let you know that rafael is remembered.
Peggy Childers
June 28, 2010
To the family and friends of Spc. Rafael A. Carrillo:
Remembering Rafael on the anniversary of his passing. May our fallen heroes never be forgotten!
Peggy Childers
"Don't Let The Memory Of Them Drift Away"
www.IraqWarHeroes.org
shannon talley
April 24, 2010
I am writing on this book again because we are almost at the 5 year mark of when TJ was taken away from us. There is never a day that I do not reflect back on that mission in 2005. I am now in Iraq again and it just is not the same. A new platoon, a new group of guys.... everything is different. I guess some things will never be the same. I have learned to control my thoughts to a point. So I am able to continue my job. I love my country and I love my fellow soldiers. We as soldiers build a brother hood among ourselves. One that is never broken, not even by the ultimate sacrafice. We as soldiers have to make sacrafices everyday. I now have a 3 year old daughter that will be 4 year years old this year. I have only been able to be with her for one birthday. I have been married since 2007 and have only been home for one aniversary. I have not been able to spend a birthday with my family since 2003. I am still waiting to finally be able to spend a birthday with my wife and daughter. The point I am getting at is people need to be thankful for what they have in life and be greatful for those who serve their country so those people who have many luxaries are able to continue with their daily routine. We pay with our LIFE......
April 23, 2010
I just happened to click on this....my son was name tj.....i lost him to asthma ..july 2nd 2007......he was not only...my son...he was my only son...he was 26 yo..my son was not a soldier...but he was my best friend and looked so much like me...i miss him dearly ..it's so unbearable..loosing a child ..and we will never be the same ..my prayers to tj mom.....as i am tj mother...in another family in another world...
Peggy Childers
June 30, 2009
To the family of Spc. Rafael A. Carrillo:
Rafael gave the ultimate sacrifice and will be held in the hearts of Americans forever. I cannot and will not let our fallen heroes be forgotten. My deepest sympathy to you. "Some gave all."
Peggy Childers
"Don't Let The Memory Of Them Drift Away"
www.IraqWarHeroes.org
Amy Tippie
June 28, 2009
Today we honor you and remember you. Forever my hero, forever holding my heart.
Do not stand at my grave and weep
I am not there; I do not sleep.
I am a thousand winds that blow,
I am the diamond glints on snow,
I am the sun on ripened grain,
I am the gentle autumn rain.
When you awaken in the morning's hush
I am the swift uplifting rush
Of quiet birds in circling flight.
I am the soft starlight at night.
Do not stand at my grave and cry,
I am not there; I did not die.
I love you! Mom
SGT. SHANNON TALLEY
February 4, 2009
I served with T.J. in Iraq in 2005. I was on that mission when god took T.J. from us. I still remember today seeing the explosion. That day runs through my head every time i look in the mirror and see his name. I remember rushing back to the FOB and help carry him into the medics area. He was so strong that he did not want to leave us. His heart was so big that he fought and didn't go easily. I was so angry, confused, sad, and depressed that day. They had to escort me and SSG. Genes from the bed. I guess I have never really been able to get all of this off my chest. Me and Carrillo used to go to Savannah to clubs or one time he met this girl off the internet and she had a friend that i was supposed to keep occupied while he was with her. lol it was so funny. Or when he ran around n the barrak's with his under armor underwear on and a cape, knocking on doors like a super hero. He always put a smile on every ones face. Or even when he complained about his roommate Sutton he was hillarious. well i guess i will go now. I will be headed back over seas but to Afghanistan his time. I know he will watch over me. God Bless to All. MORTARS ARE HUNG.
Amy Tippie
November 24, 2008
You would be 25 years old today - a quarter of a century! I miss you more and more every day. As always, you are my hero and will live on in my heart forever. I love you.
Terry Henderson
August 20, 2008
August 20, 2008
Dear Family and Friends of SPC TJ Carrillo. I wanted you to know that today I ran a mile in memory of TJ. While running I held you up in my prayers that your memories of TJ may be sweet and that your comfort and peace grow with each passing day.
I look forward to the day when all of us will have the chance to be with and hug our loved ones again in heaven.
God Bless and keep you,
No Worries,
Terry Henderson
mom, CW2 Miles Henderson
KIA 06 Nov 06 Balad Iraq
Phil 4:6-10
Amy Tippie
June 28, 2008
Three years ago today I met two soldiers at the front door who were there to deliver the news to me... I have played that day over again and again in my mind... each time trying to grasp the words they told me and pray that a mistake had been made. At the same time, because of the silence, I know there was no mistake.
Today and always, I honor and miss TJ and all soldiers who continue to bravely serve, and those who have made the ultimate sacrifice.
May we always honor and never forget!
In Memory of 'TJ' - Rafael Antonio ~ (Debra Estep)
June 28, 2008
Holding you all in my thoughts and prayers.
The Wind on The Downs
“I like to think of you as brown and tall,
As strong and living as you used to be,
In khaki tunic, Sam Brown belt and all,
And standing there and laughing down at me.
Because they tell me, dear, that you are dead,
Because I can no longer see your face,
You have not died, it is not true, instead
You seek adventure in some other place.
That you are round about me, I believe;
I hear you laughing as you used to do,
Yet loving all the things I think of you;
And knowing you are happy, should I grieve?
You follow and are watchful where I go.”
(Written by Marian Allen during World War l )
Two lines that I wish you to keep near your heart…….
“You seek adventure in some other place.
That you are round about me, I believe”
I did not know 'TJ' , but I am remembering
his service. He is my hero. !
~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~
The Other Side
i'm over on the other side
where life and death softly divide.
left my skin and bones behind
now i'm over on the other side.
can you feel me there with you?
my breath is gone but i'm not through.
loved you then and i still do
from over on the other side.
i can fly. really fly.
below the earth ... all through the sky.
tell em all i did not die.
i'm just over on the other side.
it's good here on the other side.
the sweetest songs...the bluest skies.
thank you for the tears you cried
but it's good here on the other side.
i can fly. really fly. below the earth...all through the sky.
tell em all i did not die.
i'm just over on the other side
the world is smaller than a needle's eye.
where life and death softly divide.
when you leave your skin and bones behind
i'll be waiting on the other side.
i can fly. really fly. below the earth ... all through the sky.
go tell em all i did not die.
i'm just over on the other side.
Song lyrics by Don Conoscenti
C Desert Muse/SESAC
www.donconoscenti.com
(Used with permission)
“I hope it brings great comfort to any and all.
Peace on you. DonCon” 4-2008
The Other Side –
http://tinyurl.com/3o8gol
Sincerely,
Deb Estep ~ Ohio
Proud Air Force Mom SSgt Vince – Lackland AFB
Proud Air Force MIL SrA Dana – Randolph AFB
Remembering The Fallen – Blog
http://tinyurl.com/3z8p55
Angel and soldier drawing I have shared here.
http://tinyurl.com/6gey8b
Christi Zwolinski
June 28, 2008
It's been three years today, and I still think of you every day. You were a joy to be around, and to talk to. One of the happiest person I ever met. You could put a smile on everyones face. I am faced with the army every day, and it always remindes me of you. I miss you TEEJAY!
December 10, 2007
Amy Tippie
November 24, 2007
Today is your day... my love for you will never fade. You are my hero! I love you TJ!
August 19, 2007
There is nothing that I can say or do to take away the pain or bring you peace in your time of sorrow, but I will offer you and your family my heart felt condolences. I also offer you my prayers that in time the pain will easy and the memories of your HERO will carry you through each day and night. I want to thank your HERO, for his/her selfless act of becoming a member of the armed forces, his/her willingness to defend the United States of America, all that we hold sacred and for the sacrifice that will forever be etched in the memories of all those who knew him/her. Though tears can never bring him/her back, we hope that our tears express our gratitude for the sacrifice that he/she made and our sorrow at his/her passing. I believe for every fallen HERO there is a star shining brightly up above to remind us of the precious gift we were given.
Your mission on earth is complete and you are now a member of GOD’s Heavenly armed forces. Stand down brave warrior and take your rightful place in Heaven with all the HEROES who have passed before.
I made a special promise to LE RON A. WILSON, a dear family friend who joined the Army with three other friends, one of whom is my son (Le Ron was killed in action on 07/06/07 at the age of 18) on the day he was laid to rest as I touched his coffin, that I would never forget him nor would I forget those that gave their lives for our country before him, with him and after him and so when I came across www.legacy.com, I thought what a great way to keep my promise to Le Ron, so I will continue to leave tributes in each guest book until the day there is no longer the need to leave these tributes to a FALLEN HERO.
REST IN PEACE, HERO, YOU WILL NEVER BE FORGOTTEN!!
PROUD MOTHER OF A U.S. SOLDIER
Currently stationed in Germany
Althea Barrett(Queens, NY)
Olivia Close
June 30, 2007
TJ, remembering your two year anniversary of you going to your eternal home. It is so nice to read all the wonderful entries here, from family and friends...you were a fine young man, that is remembered and missed by many. I hope one day to meet you on the other side of the gates of heaven. May you forever rest in eternal peace with the Lord. May God bless you and your family that love and miss you so much, until you meet with them again, rest well.
Always remembered, Olivia
John DelToro
June 29, 2007
I signed this book 2 short years ago. the phone call i recieved is still fresh in my mind.you are not forgotten brother and the braclet i wear bearing your name will never leave my wrist.people ask me all the time what the braclet is all about, i sum it up in a few words..that carrillo is a true american hero. you will never be forgotten my brother. love you man, DelToro
Amanda Fleming
June 29, 2007
I would have never imagined that the second anniversary would be as hard as the first time I heard. I miss you so much. I constantly find myself doing random things and I just fall out laughing because I remember something you did or said. You always made me laugh. A bunch of us got together last night and just had some TJ time. The stories we all have from you are unreal. You were a character and one thing we all had in common last night was the fact that we were all blessed to know you. There isnt a day that goes by that I dont think of you and question so many things. You meant the world to me and Im so sad you missed out on so much but Im so glad I was there with you for some fun times. I love you and miss you terribly!
Amy Tippie
June 28, 2007
It's been two years, but seems only yesterday you were calling and telling me how things were going... sending pictures and talking about coming home on leave. I miss you so much... but please know that Julie, Jess and all of your friends from the mortar platoon have done a great job looking after everything. Keep a watchful eye on us... I love you! Mom
Travis Willhelm
June 28, 2007
I have known about this site for awhile, but two years have passed now and im still not sure what to say. Sometimes its easier to keep your feelings to yourself. This month has always been hard on me because it was alittle over two years ago today that my older brother was killed by a hit and run back in the states. I remember the last time that i saw Carrillo i was leaving the barracks and heading toward the TAC to be flown out the next day. He was sitting up in his turret and cleaning his 240 for an upcoming mission when he yelled out "The Bear, Roarrr" He always made me smile when he did that!!! i turned and we both waved and smiled. As i continued on toward the TAC i felt pulled in both directions. Sure i wanted to go home to support my family and say goodbye to my brother, but i also did not want to leave my other brothers. In that enviroment you develop strong ties,you become family...anyone whos been there knows what im talking about. After returning back from the states, i quickly learned that in fact i had lost two brothers that month. the feeling is still here. the hardest part was not getting to say goodbye, by that time the memorial service was over and the missions had to continue. So i hold on to that precious memory of two brothers smiling and waving outside the barracks. Months after we had returned to the states we were all in the armory cleaning weapons when someone came up from behind me and yelled "The Bear, Roarrr" Carrillo was the only one who ever said that and as i turned around it was Freedle coming out to sit next to me. Im sure i was smiling on the outside, but inside i was really smiling because it was at that point that i realized that Carrillo never left us, his spirit continues on and lives in each and every one of us. I miss you very much brother,love you always...your friend, Travis. "Mortars are Hung"
Madaline Dunn
May 25, 2007
Dear Amy and Family,
We never saw this before. It will soon be 2 years! TJ remains in our heart and minds daily, we miss him and he will never be forgotten. We keep you in our prayers. We have so many young men over there still, so our prayer list is long. I wish they could all come home, but they all feel that we need to stay. We feel such pride for TJ and all of them. We are so thankful that he is in heaven.
Our love and prayers to you all.
Love, Madaline and Troy
Robert Dunkerson
May 25, 2007
I had the honor of helping raise T.J. by being his houseparent at Cal Farley's Boys Ranch for 5 years. T.J. was a joy and often a surprise. His knickname was Batman and he used his special powers to attempt to fly through a closed window. He always kept things intersting!!! He was always up to something, sometimes good sometimes not so good, but he had a big heart especially for the children while serving in Iraq. I am truly proud of T.J. and he was truly proud to serve his country. He is truly a hero in my heart and is missed very much. Me and the Johnson home family at Boys Ranch often talk about T.J. and what a joy it was to have him be a part of our lives.
May Keesee
April 29, 2007
Hey old friend. My God be with you and your family. Now you are in hevean blessing every child that needs it. Love ya and miss ya.
PV2 Keesee,May Lynn US Army
Olivia Close
November 2, 2006
TJ~ Remembering you today. Rest in eternal peace with our Lord. Blessings to your family.
Christi Rowe
October 5, 2006
To TJ and Family.
TJ you ment to the world to me, and it is still heavy on my heart that I didn't get to speak to you when you called the day before you died... I know your watching me, I remember your silly jokes, and your laugh... You always brighten my day, and I know you are in a better place. You died doing what you loved
SGT Amanda Westfall
September 10, 2006
My
heart continues to go out to TJ's entire family, it's been well over a
year now and I still cry for him sometimes. TJ was one of my closer
Army friends and I used to send him junk food and all that stuff while
I was in Germany, right before my own unit deployed. I still have his
picture framed in my room, not a day goes by that I don't think of him.
ROBYN GARSIDE
July 28, 2006
MAY GOD BLESS YOU AND YOURS. I HAVE JUST LEARNED OF YOUR GREAT LOSS AND WISH TO EXPRESS MY DEEPEST SYMPATHIES. PLEASE KNOW THAT THERE ARE PEOPLE OUT HERE WHO DO CARE AND YOUR HERO WILL NEVER BE FORGOTTEN. HOLD TIGHT TO YOUR TREASURED MEMORIES THAT HIS SPECIAL SMILE MAY CONTINUE TO SHINE ON FOR YOU. I PRAY THAT PEACE WILL FIND YOU ALL SOMEDAY. STAY STRONG AND GODSPEED. SEMPER FI
A PROUD MARINE MOM
Rafael G. Carrillo P.
July 16, 2006
Sorry for your loss. I have two sons and I cant imagine going thru this. I know first hand what is to be liberated by the american soldiers, when the U.S. invaded Panama in 1989. Thanks to the lifes of many american soldiers, people like me have a better life. I am sure your son death wont be in vane.
Cindy Joy
July 6, 2006
I'm sorry that I did not have the privilege of knowing your brave son T.J.. After seeing T.J.'s pictures and reading about his life, I know that he must have been a kind, and loyal soldier. I want to thank you for raising such a self-sacrificing young man. T.J will not be forgotten. A true hero is one who makes a sacrifice for others.
TJ will always be my Hero.
There are times when words are just not enough so I pray that God's eternal promises and everlasting love surround you.
I am with thee . . . I will strengthen thee.
Isaiah 41:10
Rebecca
July 6, 2006
In memory of your son. You and yours are all in my thoughts and prayers. He will not be forgotten.
Kathy Sidebottom
July 6, 2006
My thoughts and prayers are with the family and friends of Spc. Rafael A. Carrillo.
Susan Studds
July 6, 2006
My heart goes out to your family and friends.We just lost a fine young solider in Afganastan on June 25th 2006.The pain is very heavy my prayers are also with you. He is now in his Kingdom.
Mary Morris
July 6, 2006
To Rafael, You paid the ultimate and will never ever be forgotten. Not by your family or by people like me that everyday pray for you and the others that paid the price. And we continue to pray for and care about the men and women still over there fighting and sacrifcing everyday. I have family there. You are loved and honored for eternity. Keep a watch on things and as each hero comes home. We know u r there to let them in. THANK YOU....
Henryk Zaleski (USN-Ret)
July 6, 2006
Rest in peace at your last post in paradise.
M Meador
July 5, 2006
God bless Rafael and his family. The world is a better place for his having been here. Thank you.
libby lawrence
June 29, 2006
Tj, I miss you!! I can't believe it has been a year... you were an awesome friend/person. You will forever be in my heart. Miss you LOTS.....Libby
Garnet Jenkins
June 28, 2006
Remembering this Young Hero on the anniversary of the day he gave his Life for our country.
You will never be forgotten.
Please know that you are loved and missed.
I am the sister of such a young hero, who made the Ultimate Sacrifice in Vietnam, many years ago.
Revelations 21:4
Tom Gugliuzza-Smith
June 28, 2006
Rafael a year ago today you were taken. Know that you are my hero and that you will NEVER be forgotten. Continue to care for the little ones in heaven for you are so special.
Spc Terry Mendes
June 19, 2006
To lost but not forgten member of the Airborn 4 you are missed and thought of every day and my god bless your family.
MORTARS "R" HUNG
Julia Malave
May 28, 2006
I just wanted to tell you how remembered T.J. was. I'm from Boys Ranch and was out there when he was, however, I was much younger and don't remember him much. We found out about his death when we were at church camp. They called us out at the end of the sermon and they told us about it. We prayed for his family to heal from the loss. I don't know if you might recognize these names but these were some of the people who knew him and prayed for him that night(I don't remember who exactly was there): Callie Gonzalez, Anna Pierce, Kara Jones,Micah Wilson, Donald Eatinger, and several others who go to Boys Ranch. Sorry I didn't email you guys sooner.
Love Always, Julia Malave
Tom Gugliuzza-Smith
February 27, 2006
My heartfelt sympathy to the Carrillo family in the loss of Rafael. I did not know Rafael, but my heart is broken and I am saddened for your loss of such a fine young person and hero. May God bring you peace in your heart as you reflect on all the wonderful memories you hold so close. Please know that you are in my heart and prayers. Rafael you turned your life around. Rafael take care of the little ones in heaven they need you. You are a hero and you will never be forgotten.
I send each of you a hug from the most inner part of my heart.
Love and Peace
Tom
To live in the hearts
of those you leave behind
is never to die"
~Robert Orr~
SPC Steele
October 24, 2005
I would like to say to the family of Spc Carrillo:I am very sorry for your loss.I am sure that you are very proud of your son but yet very angry.I wanted to pay my respects for fellow comrades who have fallen. I have just returned from a year long deployment and they are not easy.Hang in there and may GOD BLESS!
Krystal Sterling
October 24, 2005
i would just like to say thank you to all the soldiers who are fighting or have fought in the war.you are very brave men and women and you make us proud.i would like to remember Spc.Rafael A. Carrillo who was an extremely bave man who lost his life fighting in a war many are even scared to think about.he was a very special man and he will be remembered by all.thank you
DIANE LARSEN
October 23, 2005
TO THE FAMILY OF RAFAEL CARRILLO,
SO SORRY TO HEAR OF HIS PASSING AWAY! GOD BE WITH YOU IN THIS YOUR TIME OF NEED! I WILL KEEP PRAYING FOR YOU ALL !HE DID A GOOD JOB FOR THE PEOPLE IN THIS AREA!! GOD BLESS YOU ALL!!!
Clifford and Michelle Culwell
October 22, 2005
No higher calling does a man have than to serve his country.
Jose` Valles
October 22, 2005
To the family of Spc. R.A. Carrillo. I am sorry for your lose. I too have a son in Iraq right now and would be devistated if he were to die. Just remember, they are over there because that is what they chose to do. My prayers and thoughts are with you all.
Melissa Kulp
October 20, 2005
To the familey of Spc.Rafael Carrillo, My deepest symothy for your loss. I can not imagine how sad yet proud you are of your son. I have a 5 year old son and we thank the soldiers every day. Thank you so much for provding my son with a future that is bright, we will never forget... not one man. thank you- Mommy and Cj Kulp
Celeste Olson
October 20, 2005
My heart and prays are with you and your family.....my son is serving in Iraq. Your son and soldier is a hero. My family and friends say thank you for the ultimate sacrific any human could make. It was selfless in that he was there to protect his country and all who live here.
KATE KIERNAN
October 20, 2005
OUR PRAYERS AND HEARTS GO OUT TO YOUR FAMILY. AS AN AMERICAN I TREASURE WHAT WE HAVE, AND KNOW THAT WITHOUT OUR PROTECTORS, WE WOULD HAVE NOTHING. GOD BLESS OUR BRAVE MEN AND WOMEN THAT SERVE OUR COUNTRY. THIS WILL NOT BE THE FORGOTTEN GENERATION, ALL OUR LOVE AND RESPECT; THE KIERNAN FAMILY
Stephanie Drewniak
October 20, 2005
My deepist sympothy is with family and friends i'm doing ur son brother friend and family member for a fallen hero project because in my eyes he is a REAL hero
WITH LOVE AND SYMPITHY
STEPHANIE DREWNIAK AGE 13
Vicki Zeigler
October 18, 2005
My son PFC Kenneth Zeigler II served with Rafael and was killed on May 12, 2005. They are both up there now watching over us. May GOD give you the strength, guidance and love to see you through this tragedy.
To Rafael.....GOD bless you and may he keep you safe in his loving arms!!! You and all the rest of the guys are the real HEROES OF THIS WORLD!!!!
Diomaris Neris
October 18, 2005
My heart goes out to your family for losing you. Thank you for the sacrifice you made at such a young age. I know you have made your parents proud as we all are.
Astevia Willett
October 18, 2005
God Bless You. Your sacrifice will never be forgotten. You have a very especial place in heaven.
Fatin Yýlmaz
October 18, 2005
You sacrifised your life at your 21 to bring democracy to the area , to safe kurds from the dictators.
Especially on behalf of Kurds I pray for you , be in peace and god blesst you
shawnee
October 17, 2005
Rest in Peace American hero. God bless you and thank you. We will never forget our heros.
Philip Porter
October 17, 2005
Every baby born into freedom in this country should be given a list of names to Honor for their Freedoms. This would make people understand that Freedom is not Free. Your family is in our Prayers. God keep you in His Pease.
Jamie Graves
October 16, 2005
God Bless ( Jamie,Navy wife)
DAPHNE RODRIGUEZ
October 8, 2005
YOU SPC. RAFAEL A. CARRILLO ARE A GREAT MAN.THANK YOU FOR YOUR CIVIC DUTY. I KNOW YOUR ARE IN HEAVEN ALONG WITH YOUR COMRADES. WE SALUTE YOU WITH GREAT HONOR. MAY GOD BLESS YOUR MOMMA ALWAYS, MY HEARTFELT PRAYERS GO OUT TO HER. I AM ALSO A MILITARY MOM IT'S HARD TO GO THROUGH BUT A VERY "PROUD" FEELING. AND I KNOW YOUR MOMMA'S PROUD....... MS. RODRIGUEZ
Olivia Close
September 18, 2005
Dear Mrs. Tippie:
I read your son's tribute in "The Roundup." Even though I didn't know him personally it was very moving to read about him and see the picture of him with the little iraqi boy. It so apparent that he loved life and people and wanted to make a difference. I hope somehow it is comforting to know that many people...strangers in fact share in you great loss. I extend my heartfelt sympathy to you and your family. He is now with our Savior, with Glory forever, you will meet again.
Love and peace be with you,
Mandy Sanders
September 14, 2005
Ms Tippie,
I am so sorry for your loss. For the short time that my family and I got to know him he was full of life.He is MISSED. I knew him through my sister Libby. God Bless you!!!
Danny O'Grady
August 30, 2005
Mrs. Tippie and Family,
I read today about your son, TJ, in the August 2005 issue of Cal Farley's The Roundup. The account of TJ's heroic service in Iraq and his life at Boy's Ranch filled me with emotion, sorrow and enormous gratitude to TJ, you and your family. TJ is an example of all that is good in the U.S. and of the potential of those who live their dream. I write this note through tears that cannot begin to compare to those shed by you who knew and loved TJ. Thank you for TJ, his outstanding example, his service to our country and his ultimate sacrifice for all of us at home. God bless TJ, you and your family
Libby Lawrence
August 26, 2005
Ms. Tippie I am soo sorry for your loss! TJ was very special to me and he still is! He was an awesome person and ALOT of fun to be around! I sent u a letter a few weeks back i hope it got to you!! Thank u for sharing ur son with all of us. any one who knew TJ is a better person for the experience!
libby
Monica Mendoza
August 2, 2005
Carillo Family,know that you are in our prayers.It Deeply Saddens My Family to know that your son has lost his life fighting for our Freedom.A Privilege that so many take for granted.We Are Thankful to him & all the other soldiers for what they are doing.I have a brother stationed in Iraq right now,so it pains me greatly hear about your loss.Take Comfort In Knowing That Now He Will Be In The Lords Army.May God Bless You All.
Sincerely,Abel & Monica Mendoza
Yolanda Valdez
July 30, 2005
To the Carrillo Family,
Words cannot express what you are feeling (I know). My prayer are with the family. yvaldez
Proud Marine Mom
(LCpl Nicholas S. Perez - KIA 9-3-04 - Anbar province, Iraq)
Sheila Mize
July 29, 2005
I'll miss my little "soldier buddy". He was always welcome in our home and we always enjoyed his visits. We were able to see Iraq through his eyes. He shared his pictures and experiences with us. He was proud to be a soldier and a soldier he was. It wasn't a job to him, it was a calling. It was who he was inside. Iraq is where he had to be. He called my daughter every week and sometimes popped up on her messenger. Now, there's an empty space in our hearts but TJ left us with fond memories that are deeply treasured. He has left his mark on our lives and given his all for those he loved and for his country and for the Iraqi people. My little solider buddy walked tall and he made us all proud. It was a privilege and a blessing to have known him. I am Amanda's Mom and I'm grateful to her for sharing her precious friend TJ with me.
juanita aguilar
July 28, 2005
My prayers are with with all the family.Thank you spec carillo.God bless your family.
Amy Tippie
July 27, 2005
To all that have signed this guest book, on behalf of my family, I want to extend our deepest and heartfelt appreciation.
There is no way I can express the depths of our loss. TJ was a wonderful person, full of life, always ready with a joke, a man of a thousdand voices, and a man who was willing to give everything he had to his friends and loved ones.
We have lost our special TJ to a cause that he cared very deeply about. He will never be forgotten, but will live on in our hearts and minds forever. God Bless us all... from TJ's mom.
Amanda Fleming
July 27, 2005
Im so sorry to hear about our loss. I knew it had been too long since I heard from him but I know he wanted to be in Iraq. He was doing what he believed in. I will miss him tremendously and am so sad that Im not going to hear his voice again. To TJ's family, you are in my prayers and I am truely sorry.
Oscar James
July 25, 2005
Dear Family, Your loss is our loss and our admiration of this fallen hero is unbounded. Our son is in Iraq and his attitude is as your beloved son's." Where do we get these young men?",has been asked. I say from a loving God and loving parents. May God bless you and yours.(Semper Fi)
July 22, 2005
Susan Carrillo Lee
July 22, 2005
Many, many thanks to those of you who posted such kind words about T.J. and warm, caring thoughts for the family. I'm going to let his parents and the rest of the family know about this web site and guest book. T.J. was my nephew and I have great memories of him, both as a young boy (very curious and full of energy) and as a man when he returned from his first tour in Iraq. We are so proud of him and of his fellow soldiers.
Daniel Brink
July 16, 2005
I am on here to pay my respects to my fallen brother, his family and friends. Carrillo meant so much to this platoon and is missed deeply each and everyday. He was a soldier and a friend that you wanted by your side because you knew he would give his all no matter what the price. These past couple of weeks have not been the same without him and there isn't a day that goes by that I don't miss him calling me Brinkavich. He will always hold a special place in my heart and his memory will never fade from my mind. I want his mother to know that her son was a wonderful man and a son that any mom would be proud to call her own. Thank you for blessing us with his presence and know that my thoughts and prayers are with you daily. God bless you and may God give you comfort during this time of mourning.
" Mortars Are Hung"
Grace
July 15, 2005
My deepest sympathy goes out to the Carrillo family. I didn't know your son/brother as the many other fallen soldiers that American's have lost. I do appreciate their sacrifices they've made so that you and I can have a better life.
My prayers go out to all the families of the father's, mother's, son's, daughter,s brother's, sister's, husband's, wives, and best friends whose lives were lost.
God Bless Us ALL...
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