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James J. Stoddard

James Stoddard Obituary

SFC James J. Stoddard SFC James J. Stoddard, age 29, died September 30, 2005 in a vehicle accident while serving proudly in support of Operation Enduring Freedom in Afghanistan. SFC James J. Stoddard was a proud member of his home town community, Crofton, Md. SFC James J. Stoddard attended Arundel Senior High School Gambrills, Md. An accomplished athlete, James was a member of the Gambrills Odenton Recreation Council football and baseball teams and his high school junior varsity and varsity football and baseball teams. James was also part of the 1993 National High School Baseball Championship Team. He attended Anne Arundel Community College and Salisbury State University. In 1998, SFC James J. Stoddard became a member of the All American family as a Paratrooper in the 82nd Airborne Division, Ft. Bragg, N.C. In 2002 he was assigned to the White Devils, Alpha Company, 2-504th Parachute Infantry Regiment were he served proudly as a member supporting the Global War on Terrorism in Afghanistan (2) and Iraq. SFC James J. Stoddard Jr. has been awarded and earned the following decorations during his time of service: Ranger Tab, Senior Rated Jumpmaster wings, member of the Audie Murphy Club, Expert Infantrymen Badge, Combat Infantrymen Badge, Bronze Star Medal, Army Commendation Medal, Army Achievement Medal, Good Conduct Medal, and Service Ribbons for The Global War on Terrorism. He is survived by his wife Amy M. Stoddard, formerly of Weyers Cave, Va., whom he married July 10, 1999; his two daughters, Megan E. Conley, 13 and Makenzie E. Stoddard, 1; his son, James J. Stoddard, III, 4; his mother, Kathleen Stoddard of Crofton Md.; his two sisters, Bridgett Stoddard of Crofton, Md. and Katherine Hoffman of Erie, Pa.; his maternal grandmother Patricia Kearney of Crofton, Md.; son of the late James J. Stoddard, Sr.; grandson of the late C. James and Elizabeth F. Stoddard. He is also survived by Aunts, Uncles, Cousins and a Niece. Family and friends may call at the Beall Funeral Home, 6512 NW Crain Hwy. (Rt. 3-South) Bowie, Md. on Thursday, October 6, 2005 from 2-4 and 7-9 p.m. Mass of Christian Burial, Friday at 10:00 a.m., at St. Joseph’s Catholic Church, 1283 Odenton Rd., Odenton, Md. Interment Arlington National Cemetery, Friday at 2:00 p.m. Memorial donations may be made to: SFC Stoddard’s childrens’ Educational Fund, c/o Bank of America.

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Published by Erie Times-News on Oct. 5, 2005.

Memories and Condolences
for James Stoddard

59 Entries

Charlie Gili

April 27, 2020

Hello,
We realize that we are very late to express our deepest condolences, but we wanted to let your family and friends know that we will be sending Care Packages to deployed troops this week and several of these will be dedicated to your loved one. Each package will carry the name, photo and hometown of James J. Stoddard
US Army Sergeant 1st Class.

We realize that this is a small tribute, but we do this with all respect and sincerity and we want you to know that it is made possible by thousands of like-minded individuals from across the American youth hockey community, their families and friends and others who support our mission.

We will not forget. May God Bless you and keep you safe and strong.

Sincerely,
Charlie Gili & Family
On Behalf of our US Hockey Players Support Our Troops Campaign

Cheri Haga

September 30, 2015

Remembering you today, sweet Jaime.

Amanda O'Shea

September 17, 2015

Cousin of Jamie.
We will not forget!

Peggy Childers

September 30, 2011

To the family and friends of Sgt. 1st Class James Stoddard, Jr.:
Please accept my remembrance of James on the anniversary of his passing and know that he will never be forgotten.

Peggy Childers

September 30, 2010

To the family and friends of Sgt. 1st Class James Stoddard, Jr.:
Remembering James on the anniversary of his passing. May our fallen heroes never be forgotten!
Peggy Childers
"Don't Let The Memory Of Them Drift Away"
www.IraqWarHeroes.org

Peggy Childers

September 30, 2009

To the family of Sgt. 1st Class James Stoddard, Jr.:
James gave the ultimate sacrifice and will be held in the hearts of Americans forever. I cannot and will not let our fallen heroes be forgotten. My deepest sympathy to you. "Some gave all."
Peggy Childers
"Don't Let The Memory Of Them Drift Away"
www.IraqWarHeroes.org

L. Nevins

June 24, 2009

RLTW. I hope you can see how many people you have touched. I live a better, more fulfilling life because of you. Thank you for all that you have taught me. I will never forget.

Pedro Manriquez

June 4, 2009

I remember the first time that I met Jamie back in May of 2002. He was leading a 6 mile run down Ardennes street back in Fort Bragg, NC. I have to be honest, my first impression of Jamie is that he was a hell of a runner. He came to our platoon later on that summer. As I got to know him better I understood that he was a regular person with tremendous ambitions and aspirations. After deploying to Afghanistan and Iraq I got assigned to his platoon where he made me his squad leader. I was very excited and anxious to work with him since I had previously seen his leadership style. When we left for Afghanistan in March of 2005 we became very close and shared many stories and experiences. I still remember September 30, 2005 like it was yesterday. After a long day of patrolling we made a security halt on our way to a patrol base location for the next day's mission. While we were at the security halt we shared some jokes and talked about the route and grid coordinates. I also remember that he gave me some lemonade mix because he had some extra. The lemonade mix would not be the last thing he gave me, to this day I am still inspired by his fortitude and character. The last words we shared that day was that he was going to try to get me a GPS from supply. He was always taking care of me and making sure that the platoon was ok. To this day I still have not said good bye to Jamie and I dont think I will ever do. Jamie lives within me in my memories and I believe he watches over me and still takes care of me....

Sincerely,

Pedro D. Manriquez

Kenna Larra

June 2, 2009

”Honor and Remember” - “Project Compassion” We love our Soldiers! We love our country and we cannot express enough love and compassion to the families of our fallen heroes. War does not discriminate – It breaks our hearts to see the faces of the fallen. We want to give this gift to you. We are a 501c3 nonprofit organization! Over 1,450 portraits have been completed and shipped to the parents and or spouse - at no cost as this is a gift from one American to another!
Contact us directly at [email protected] or go to www.heropaintings.com . If you have already had a portrait completed, we pray that you are enjoying the portrait and God Bless You.
Sincerely and Respectfully,
Kenna

In Memory of James ~ (Debra Estep)

September 30, 2008

Holding you all in my thoughts and prayers.

The Wind on The Downs

“I like to think of you as brown and tall,
As strong and living as you used to be,
In khaki tunic, Sam Brown belt and all,
And standing there and laughing down at me.
Because they tell me, dear, that you are dead,
Because I can no longer see your face,
You have not died, it is not true, instead
You seek adventure in some other place.
That you are round about me, I believe;
I hear you laughing as you used to do,
Yet loving all the things I think of you;
And knowing you are happy, should I grieve?
You follow and are watchful where I go.”

(Written by Marian Allen during World War l )

Two lines that I wish you to keep near your heart…….

“You seek adventure in some other place.
That you are round about me, I believe”

I did not know James, but I am remembering
his service. He is my hero. !

~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~

The Other Side

i'm over on the other side
where life and death softly divide.
left my skin and bones behind
now i'm over on the other side.

can you feel me there with you?
my breath is gone but i'm not through.
loved you then and i still do
from over on the other side.

i can fly. really fly.
below the earth ... all through the sky.
tell em all i did not die.
i'm just over on the other side.

it's good here on the other side.
the sweetest songs...the bluest skies.
thank you for the tears you cried
but it's good here on the other side.

i can fly. really fly. below the earth...all through the sky.
tell em all i did not die.
i'm just over on the other side

the world is smaller than a needle's eye.
where life and death softly divide.
when you leave your skin and bones behind
i'll be waiting on the other side.

i can fly. really fly. below the earth ... all through the sky.
go tell em all i did not die.
i'm just over on the other side.

Song lyrics by Don Conoscenti
C Desert Muse/SESAC
www.donconoscenti.com
(Used with permission)

“I hope it brings great comfort to any and all.
Peace on you. DonCon” 4-2008

The Other Side –
(To hear the song)
http://tinyurl.com/3o8gol

Sincerely,

Deb Estep ~ Ohio
Proud Air Force Mom SSgt Vince – Lackland AFB
Proud Air Force MIL SrA Dana – Randolph AFB

Remembering The Fallen – Blog
http://tinyurl.com/3z8p55

Angel and soldier drawing I have shared here.
http://tinyurl.com/6gey8b

May 9, 2008

You are remembered and respected. Thank you Sgt 1st Class Stoddard!

August 14, 2007

There is nothing that I can say or do to take away the pain or bring you peace in your time of sorrow, but I will offer you and your family my heart felt condolences. I also offer you my prayers that in time the pain will easy and the memories of your HERO will carry you through each day and night. I want to thank your HERO, for his/her selfless act of becoming a member of the armed forces, his/her willingness to defend the United States of America, all that we hold sacred and for the sacrifice that will forever be etched in the memories of all those who knew him/her. Though tears can never bring him/her back, we hope that our tears express our gratitude for the sacrifice that he/she made and our sorrow at his/her passing. I believe for every fallen HERO there is a star shining brightly up above to remind us of the precious gift we were given.

Your mission on earth is complete and you are now a member of GOD’s Heavenly armed forces. Stand down brave warrior and take your rightful place in Heaven with all the HEROES who have passed before.

I made a special promise to LE RON A. WILSON, a dear family friend who joined the Army with three other friends, one of whom is my son (Le Ron was killed in action on 07/06/07 at the age of 18) on the day he was laid to rest as I touched his coffin, that I would never forget him nor would I forget those that gave their lives for our country before him, with him and after him and so when I came across www.legacy.com, I thought what a great way to keep my promise to Le Ron, so I will continue to leave tributes in each guest book until the day there is no longer the need to leave these tributes to a FALLEN HERO.

REST IN PEACE, HERO, YOU WILL NEVER BE FORGOTTEN!!

PROUD MOTHER OF A U.S. SOLDIER
Currently stationed in Germany
Althea Barrett(Queens, NY)

Mom Stoddard

July 25, 2007

It has been almost two years that Jamie was taken from our family. Two horrible years of not having that smile, the laugh, the hugs, the gentle loving man. We miss him so much that sometimes the pain is so hard to bear. His sisters Bridgett and Kate are at a loss for where to put their pain. Life with out their brother is like the beach without the sun. His wife and children have to live each day with out his love and caring. His children will never feel the hugs and love of a father again. His little girl will never know her Daddy.Only in pictures, how sad. His neices will never know the love of an Uncle who was so proud of his little sister and her children. His brother-in-law will never know how Jamie's love of him and respect for him brought him a brother he never had.His older sister who watched over her bother and sister now only has one sibling to watch over. The Three Muskateers are now two. His Aunts and Uncles miss him. They remember the child and how a man that made them so proud is gone.His cousins that he grew up with and loved like brother and sisters are grieving the loss of their cousin.
His Nonnie can't cry because it hurts too much.His family will never be the same without him. And his mother lives a life void of her Son, Her Ace! The only thought that keeps her moving is that Jamie and His Dad are togther watching over all of us, as they have always done. Life will never be the same without Jamie. A ray of sushine in our lives was stamped out. I have two beautiful daughters and five glorious grandchildren and a wonderful Daughter-in-law. With out them I don't know if I would still be here. The last two years have been hard on us all and I will never be the same. I have lost a child. And any Mother will tell you it doesn't make any difference what child, but a child! One that we raised, loved from the moment we concieved, through sleepless nights, colds, kindergarten, grammer school, High School,jobs, learning to drive a car. The Christmases, the Easters, the birthdays. The 10614 days of his life. The joys of him that were so much a part of us.
I miss my son, his hugs, his teasing, His voice,"Hi Mama" he would say. I want to scream out in pain, in anger at how unjust this is to have lost him. He did what he loved best and that is why I am so proud of him. He was a good boy, a good son, a good brother, a good husband and a wonderful father. But he died being a Great Soldier. I hope the Americans of the country realize that the sacrifice he and all of them make each and every day are for them. They don't get millions to do this job and they are working everyday of the year.
I am proud of my Son, James J. Stoddard Jr. He rests in Arlington now but I know that he runs the clouds of Heaven with his Father, GrandFather and His Cranma. Some day I will join him and his father and wait for the rest of you. And then we will have a Great Big Family Reunion. I love you my son.I love you my daughters. Mom is trying, give me time.And remember that I love you all.

July 23, 2007

Thank you for the sacrifice made by Sgt 1st Class Stoddard and the sacrifice made by everyone who loves and misses him! May God bless all of you!!

Erin Stoddard

January 31, 2007

It has been over a year, and the time passes without you. How unfair it seems to me that you miss out on all of this life going on around us. I had a baby boy in November and I tell him about you every day, his cousin, the hero. I know you watch over us all, but I would much rather have you here to hug. I miss you Jamie, everyday! It is with great pride that I speak your name. We are helping your Mom, your wife and your little ones. It isn't easy to live without you, but we are trying.

Tom Gugliuzza-Smith

November 17, 2006

James it has been a little over a year since you were taken. You are my hero and you will never be forgotten. To the Stoddard family; I previously signed James's guest book. I live close to ARLINGTON NATIONAL CEMETERY and I visit there two or three times a week. Each time I am at ANC I always visit/honor James. From the most inner part of my heart I am so sorry he was taken from you.

Garnet Jenkins

September 30, 2006

Paying tribute to this Fine Young Soldier, Sgt. 1st Class James Stoddard Jr., on the anniversary of the day, he gave his life for our Country and for Freedom.
A Multitude of Thanks, for his Courage, Dedication and Service.
Rest In Peace James, in God's Loving Care and may God's Loving Grace and Comfort continue to be with the Stoddard family.
Those who Made the Ultimate Sacrifice, So Many and So Young, shall NEVER BE FORGOTTEN.
My brother among them. KIA-Vietnam 1967.

"I will lift up my eyes to the hills-
from whence comes my help?
My help comes from the Lord,
Who made heaven and earth."
Psalm 121:1-2

Sincerely hoping that you continue to feel the thoughts of caring and support that surround you each day, as this Country remembers with you, someone very precious to you, who is a Hero to all of us.
I am deeply sorry for your loss.

SSGT ROYER......USAF

June 6, 2006

GODSPEED SOLDIER!! You have not given you life in vane. May the angels in heven watch over your family. Your service has been to all of mankind....WE WILL NEVER FORGET YOUR SACRIFICE!!!!! God Bless and may you find eternal peace forever.

ROBYN GARSIDE

June 4, 2006

MAY GOD BLESS YOU AND YOURS. I HAVE JUST LEARNED OF YOUR GREAT LOSS AND WISH TO EXPRESS MY DEEPEST SYMPATHIES. PLEASE KNOW THAT THERE ARE PEOPLE OUT HERE WHO DO CARE AND YOUR HERO WILL NEVER BE FORGOTTEN. HOLD TIGHT TO YOUR TREASURED MEMORIES THAT HIS SPECIAL SMILE MAY CONTINUE TO SHINE ON FOR YOUR LITTLE ONES. I PRAY THAT PEACE WILL FIND YOU ALL SOMEDAY. STAY STRONG AND GODSPEED. SEMPER FI

A PROUD MARINE MOM

Kim (McConnell) Parker

May 8, 2006

To hear all these months later seems surreal....Jamie, you truely were a great guy and even better friend. Always smiling and able to make those around you do the same.....I pray for your family; they have lost a very special man.

Tom Gugliuzza-Smith

February 25, 2006

My heartfelt sympathy to the Stoddard family in the loss of James. I did not know James, but my heart is broken and I am saddened for your loss of such a fine young person and hero. May God bring you peace in your heart as you reflect on all the wonderful memories you hold so close. Please know that you are in my heart and prayers. You are a hero and you will never be forgotten.

I send each of you a hug from the most inner part of my heart.

Love and Peace

Tom

To live in the hearts

of those you leave behind

is never to die"

~Robert Orr~

Erin Kearney

January 12, 2006

Our family will never be the same due to this loss. One of us is gone now and none of us know how to live without him. My sister is broken and she will never heal. My family hurts for this boy that we all love so much. What pains me the most is that his children will never really know what it meant to be loved by Jamie. To feel that hug. To see that smile. We have lost one of the good guys, and we must all keep his memory alive.

I will carry you in my heart J.

Alanna Messimore

December 21, 2005

Amy-

I love you and always will. You know that he will be missed by all especially his military family.

Always-

acm

Christine (Plumb) Crawford

November 22, 2005

Jamie was one of my best friends and I will always remember all of the special times we shared together. Jamie was always there for me in good and bad. His smile could light up a room. I knew everytime I saw him I would get a big hug that just made you feel so happy that you had a friend who truly cared about you. I will miss him terribly and will help to keep his memory alive.

Annie Thomas

October 30, 2005

I love you with all of my heart and i miss you an unbelievable amount! your my hero!

I love you

Annie

Annie Thomas

October 29, 2005

I miss you and love you so much. I will always remeber you!

*Love* you

Annie

Kate Hoffman

October 27, 2005

There are some bonds that cannot be broken and this is one. I love you and will miss you always. My brother, my hero, my friend. Love Tatter

Respiratory therapy dept

October 19, 2005

we are sorry for your loss/our loss of a good man. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family

Gary Gregory

October 14, 2005

To the stoddard Family,

I just wanted you to know that I am here for you. Jamie was a hero and I am blessed to have known a true soldier. He was one of my best friends and I am truly going to miss him. Thanks Jamie!!!

Roxanna Howdyshell

October 13, 2005

DEAR AMY,

I WAS SO SADDENED TO HEAR ABOUT JAMES ACCIDENT.IT SEEMS IT WASN'T THAT LONG AGO THAT I WAS PLAYING THE ORGAN FOR YOUR WEDDING.I WANTED TO LET YOU KNOW THAT YOU ARE IN MY THOUGHTS AND PRAYERS.THE WHOLE

CHURCH HAS BEEN PRAYING FOR YOU AND YOUR FAMILY.

SINCERELY,

ROXIE

Rhonda Nethen

October 13, 2005

To the family of Jaime, I had the pleasure of working with Jaime at Kaufmann's. He was a wonderful and very hard working young man. I shall miss the times he teased me and called me "Old Woman". Even then Jaime was a protector. He would insist on carrying heavy trays for me. I shall keep him and your family in my prayers. He will be greatly missed.

Stacy (Ebert) Moore

October 11, 2005

Jamie had such a warm spirit, that he will never be forgotten. I still see his huge smile in my mind, and that makes me smile. You will be missed greatly, Jamie.

Danielle Kraft

October 11, 2005

To Jamie's Family

My deepest sympathy and prayers to you. I am blessed to have had Jamie as a friend to my family and as a co-worker. Jamie I will always remember your smile and unselfish attidude.

You are a true Hero. God Bless.

Jennifer Gross

October 10, 2005

We were blessed to have our lives so touched, by this rock of strength, with a hug on the side. To his family: Thank you for sharing him with us. To Jamie: Thank you for being a true hero.

John Kraft

October 10, 2005

Thank you James for your bravery to defend our country.

I send my deepest sympathy and prayers to the entire family.

James you were a great friend with a huge heart of gold and I will always remember the life lessons you’ve taught me.

Thanks for the memories.

Ray & Ellen Smith

October 10, 2005

Amy,

You and your family are in our thoughts and prayers.

Ray & Ellen Smith (Tiffany's parents)

Susan

October 8, 2005

Thank you braves oldier for your selfless sacrifice for the freedom of others. I am profoundly humbled and deeply grateful for your service to our country. May God bless your family and bring them peace.

Adele Richardson

October 8, 2005

Amy and Family... my heartfelt sympathy goes out to you. You are in my prayers.

From a co-worker at University Specialty - 2F and Crofton neighbor.

Adele Richardson, RN

Jamie Graves

October 7, 2005

God Bless ( Jamie,Navy wife)

Ronda Starks

October 7, 2005

Dear Mr. & Mrs Stoddard

My deepest sympathy and prayers are with you and your family. There are no words to describe my sympathy for you, but know that God will comfort you, and James will be forever remembered. God Bless

Dan & Gwen Kraft

October 6, 2005

To Jamie's Family

I will miss that smile. Jamie had a purpose on earth to protect everyone, his family and friends and his country. I know that he will still watch over us.

Jan Martinez

October 6, 2005

Bridget and family, my most sincere condolences. My prayers are with you and your family. Amanda and I have you and family in our thought.

Stacey Lawrence-Stover

October 6, 2005

I am very sorry to hear about this tragic accident. Jamie was truly a great guy and will be remembered that way always. Take care.

Brent Alfalla

October 6, 2005

My deepest sympathies to Jamie's family. Jamie will be greatly missed. I am glad to have known him and remember great times playing baseball together in High School.

Sherelle Giles

October 6, 2005

I never new how it felt to lose a love until one year ago. I would like to take this time to tell you that my prayers are with you. God Bless you and your family at this time.

Gary Moore

October 6, 2005

May God bless you and your family

at this time in your lives. Stay

strong as a family.

Carla clemons

October 6, 2005

Dear Amy and family, I am so very sorry for your loss.My prayers are with you during this very difficult time.

Cindy Nicholas

October 6, 2005

To the Stoddard Family. My prayers are with you and your family as you go through your grieving. Words can never express what one feels, but be sure that there are people who share your pain and sorrow today. I pray that God will heal your pain soon.

Cindy Nicholas of the Human Resources Department at University Specialty Hospital.

Elizabeth Lanning

October 6, 2005

All true Americans thank you James for your service to our Great Country. You are a true HERO! God bless you and your family at this very sad time.(My son is 29 and in the Air Force.) Sincerely, The Lanning Family

Tina Salatti Appel

October 6, 2005

To Jamie's Family:

My heartfelt sympathies go out to you for your loss. Remembering all the laughter filled days of working with Jamie will remain a truly fond memory. My thoughts and prayers are with you.

Julie Williams

October 6, 2005

Jamie will be greatly missed.I'm am just thankful for knowing Jamie and all the funny memories we shared together.

Aditi Dorawala

October 6, 2005

To the family of our beloved Jamie:

I am so sorry for your loss. Jamie's smiling face will always be in my heart. And I am so proud to have known such a hero. My love to all of you and may God bless you always.

Tom Morin

October 5, 2005

To The Family of Sgt. Stoddard,

My sympathy to all of you. My son served with James in the 2-504. He describes James as a good friend, mentor and brother in arms. He will be missed and always remembered. God Bless all our service men and women, and especially the brotherhood of the 2-504.

Harold and Virginia Williams

October 5, 2005

To the family of Sgt. 1st Class Stoddard,

May God bless you in a very special way, as He took a very special person from this world to be with Him. I thank God every day for men like your son who are willing to fight for our freedom and the freedom of oppressed nations. I know James has made a difference in every life he has touched. God bless everyone in his family

Lord, hold our troops in your loving hands. Protect them as they

protect us. Bless them and their families for the selfless acts they

perform for us in our time of need. I ask this in the name of Jesus,

our Lord and Savior. Amen.

Jamie Graves

October 5, 2005

God Bless ( Jamie,Navy wife)

Jamie Graves

October 5, 2005

God Bless( Jamie,Navy wife)

Kathleen DuCharme

October 5, 2005

My thoughts and prayers are with you. My son is also 2-504th in Afghanistan and attended the service there. May God Bless him and your family.

Melissa

October 4, 2005

Rest in Peace SFC Stoddard.