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Kenneth James Butler LANDIS - Lance Cpl. Kenneth James "Cowboy" Butler, 19, of the United States Marine Corps, was killed in action Friday, Oct. 21, 2005, by an Improvised Explosive Device while proudly serving our country in Iraq. The son of Rudy and Cynthia Holloway of Landis, he was the big brother of Lucas and Wesley Holloway of Landis and younger brother of Carl Butler and wife Nina of Rock Hill, S.C. A 2004 graduate of South Rowan High School, "Jay" loved the FFA, horses and bull riding at Stan Stegall 's. He worked a few months at McCabes Restaurant before joining the Marine Corps in July 2004. Trained at Parris Island, S.C., he was stationed at Camp Lejeune following recruit graduation. From there he went to Falluja, Iraq, where he served proudly as a machine gunner until he was killed in action. Survivors, in addition to his parents and siblings, include grandparents James and Bobbi Leopard, "Nana and Papa," of Harrisburg and Carlton and Cynthia Butler of Rock Hill, S.C.; several aunts, uncles, cousins and a host of other family members; and girlfriend of almost four years Sara Murphy of China Grove. Visitation : Visitation will be held 6-9 tonight at Whitley 's Funeral Home in Kannapolis. Service : 12:30 Wednesday at Whitley 's Funeral Home with the Rev. Fred Archer officiating, followed by a military burial at the National Cemetery in Salisbury. Memorials : In lieu of flowers, please send donations to the FFA at South Rowan High School through Wachovia Bank, 1501 S. Cannon Blvd., Kannapolis, NC 28083. The family gives special thanks to Capt. Eric Jones of the United States Marine Corps for his help through this tough time.

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Published by Salisbury Post on Nov. 1, 2005.

Memories and Condolences
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David A. Soule

September 20, 2024

I still think about Kenneth often. We were rack mates in boot camp and infantry school, he was a really good guy. I still remember when I was in Baghdad and someone told me they got hit and Butler didn't make it, it was a hard pill for me to swallow. It's been 20 years since we met now but I still consider him a missing brother. Thanks for the time we had together brother.

Casey

October 22, 2019

Still haven't forgotten.

October 21, 2019

Semper Fi Marine. You are not forgotten.

Anna

July 6, 2017

I still think of you often. I have every letter you've sent me and can't bare to get rid of them.

Mom and Dad

December 25, 2015

It's been 10 Christmas seasons without you son......missing you terribly.
We love you,
Mom, Dad, Luke and Wes.

johnny burra

May 26, 2013

Miss you buddy. Thinking of you this memorial weekend. Thinking about our time as rack mates in boot, to the warlords and then on to karma. Peace be with you.

Shirlee Love

October 23, 2012

You will never be forgotten. RIP

Ross Casey

October 22, 2012

I was there the day Butler Died. I have not forgotten. Nor will I ever.

Ross Casey

October 22, 2012

I have not forgotten. Nor will I ever. Semper Fi.

robin long

December 5, 2011

you will never be forgotten kenny, love you...Robin

Peggy Childers

October 21, 2011

To the family and friends of Lance Cpl. Kenneth J. Butler:
Please accept my remembrance of Kenneth on the anniversary of his passing and know that he will never be forgotten.

Dad , Mom, Luke and Wes

December 25, 2010

Jay,
Thinking about you son. It has been five years now since we have seen your handsome face. Oh, how we miss you!!
Christmas just isn't the same anymore, never will be without you here.
We love you and miss you very, very much!
Merry Christmas Cowboy!
Mom, Dad, Luke and Wes.

Shirlee Love

October 26, 2010

You will never be forgotten.

Peggy Childers

October 21, 2010

To the family and friends of Lance Cpl. Kenneth J. Butler:
Remembering Kenneth on the anniversary of his passing. May our fallen heroes never be forgotten!
Peggy Childers
"Don't Let The Memory Of Them Drift Away"
www.IraqWarHeroes.org

Bobbie Leopard

October 21, 2010

Mays...Today being the 5th anniversary of your trip to heaven I am thinking alot about you and the wonderful guy that you were, wondering how your life would be now. Wondering if you would be married with children of your own? Just thinking about you makes me so sad but I know that you are watching over us just as you did when you were fighting for our country. So I will try to smile and remember the times when we were together because I know that you would not want us to be sad. That is the kind of guy that you were. I love you and miss you so much.
My love always,
Your Nana

Lindsey M.

October 12, 2010

I had no idea that this guest book was here for Jay. I met Jay when I was in middle school when I first went to Circle M. I remember he had long hair and I thought he was so cool because of it lol.
Even though we lost touch, right before he left, we got in contact with each other. Even when he was overseas I can remember getting a phone call while I was at Bojangles, from a very strange phone number. I answered and it was Jay, calling me from a satellite phone :)
Now everytime my daughter sees pictures of him, I tell her all about our memories and how great of a person he was and still is.

Jay will never be forgotten! We love him and miss him so much.

We love you JAY! I know you are looking down on us and smiling.

Bobbie Leopard

May 31, 2010

You are forever in our hearts and forever on our minds. We love and miss you so much. Thanks for everything you ever did in your short life and thank you for protecting your country.

Shirlee Love

May 28, 2010

James, Memorial Day is approaching and I'm hope everybody takes a break from their activities to remember the fallen. You will forever be remembered as the most gentle, kindest, loving, caring, compassionate young man I have ever had the pleasure of knowing. You are forever in my heart.

May 27, 2010

THANK YOU FOR YOUR SERVICE AND DEDICATION DURING YOUR YEARS.... WE CANNOT REPAY WHAT YOU HAVE GIVEN FOR OUR FREEDOM... YOU WILL NOT BE FORGOTTEN......

Ann Rozmaryn
May 27, 2010
for Memorial Day 2010

barb whitehead

May 25, 2010

The NC Run for the Fallen will honor fallen troops from North Carolina at a Memorial Run on Saturday, May 29th, 8:30am, Ayden Grifton High School track, Hwy 11 S. Ayden NC. Each troop will be honored by a runner/walker who carries a flag in his memory for one mile. Please come join us in honoring our fallen troops. For more information contact Kathy Moore at 252-746-3435 after 5:00pm or email at [email protected]

Carl & Nina Butler

February 10, 2010

Just thinking about you and wanted to let you know how much we miss you down here. Jazzy knows all about you and I told her you, her uncle T and grandma Tammy sent the snow that fell on her birthday down from heaven. I hate to have lost another member of our family but am glad that you gained another angel and know the 3 of you will be waiting when we're called home. Forever in our hearts! We love you!

Bobbie Leopard

November 11, 2009

Mays
Thinking of you especially today. I wanted to come visit you but the weather is so bad I am going to stay home. As I look outside at the flag blowing in the wind I remember all that you have given to your country and I am so very proud. I will miss you forever. I love you !
Love
Nana

October 21, 2009

Mays

You have been gone from us for four years today and I am thinking about you today as I do everyday. I will be out to visit you this afternoon. I miss you and love you so much.

Nana

shirlee love

August 1, 2009

James, I think about you every single day. You will never be forgotton.

Kenna Larra

May 25, 2009

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Sincerely and Respectfully,
Kenna

Wayne Morgan

March 1, 2009

Your in my prayers,Semper Fidelis.

Nina Butler

February 18, 2009

I have been thinking a lot about you lately and just wanted you to know that you are still so fresh in our hearts and we miss you terribly. Your memory and scarifice will never be forgotten. I know you would have been a great uncle and I wish you were still here with us. Even though she never got to meet you, at least I know that Jazzy has 2 of the best guardian angels a girl can ask for (you and her uncle T)who were taken way too soon. I know you guys are watching over her and I thank you for that. I just really wish she could know you. She has a bear that is dressed in marine blues with cowboy boots in your honor. I know that we will all be together again one day but until then, please know how much we love and miss you.

Bobbie Leopard

November 5, 2008

Three years ago today we said our final goodbyes to our precious "Hero".Thanks for guarding us and our country from above. You and your fellow Marines make us all feel so much safer.
We love and miss you with all of our hearts.
Your Nana

Peggy Childers

October 23, 2008

To the family of Lance Cpl. Kenneth J. Butler:
Kenneth gave the ultimate sacrifice and will be held in the hearts of Americans forever. I cannot and will not let our fallen heroes be forgotten. My deepest sympathy to you. "Some gave all."
Peggy Childers
"Don't Let The Memory Of Them Drift Away"
www.IraqWarHeroes.org

In Memory of Kenneth ~ (Debra Estep)

October 21, 2008

Holding you all in my thoughts and prayers.


The Wind on The Downs

“I like to think of you as brown and tall,
As strong and living as you used to be,
In khaki tunic, Sam Brown belt and all,
And standing there and laughing down at me.
Because they tell me, dear, that you are dead,
Because I can no longer see your face,
You have not died, it is not true, instead
You seek adventure in some other place.
That you are round about me, I believe;
I hear you laughing as you used to do,
Yet loving all the things I think of you;
And knowing you are happy, should I grieve?
You follow and are watchful where I go.”

(Written by Marian Allen during World War l )

Two lines that I wish you to keep near your heart…….

“You seek adventure in some other place.
That you are round about me, I believe”


I did not know Kenneth, but I am remembering
his service and sacrifice. He is my hero. !

~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~

The Other Side

i'm over on the other side
where life and death softly divide.
left my skin and bones behind
now i'm over on the other side.

can you feel me there with you?
my breath is gone but i'm not through.
loved you then and i still do
from over on the other side.

i can fly. really fly.
below the earth ... all through the sky.
tell em all i did not die.
i'm just over on the other side.

it's good here on the other side.
the sweetest songs...the bluest skies.
thank you for the tears you cried
but it's good here on the other side.

i can fly. really fly. below the earth...all through the sky.
tell em all i did not die.
i'm just over on the other side

the world is smaller than a needle's eye.
where life and death softly divide.
when you leave your skin and bones behind
i'll be waiting on the other side.

i can fly. really fly. below the earth ... all through the sky.
go tell em all i did not die.
i'm just over on the other side.

Song lyrics by Don Conoscenti
C Desert Muse/SESAC
www.donconoscenti.com
(Used with permission)

“I hope it brings great comfort to any and all.
Peace on you. DonCon” 4-2008


The Other Side –
(To hear the song)
http://tinyurl.com/3o8gol



Sincerely,

Deb Estep ~ Ohio
Proud Air Force Mom SSgt Vince – Lackland AFB
Proud Air Force MIL SrA Dana – Randolph AFB

Remembering The Fallen – Blog
http://tinyurl.com/3z8p55

Angel and soldier drawing I have shared here.
http://tinyurl.com/6gey8b

TAMERA BUTLER

October 13, 2008

Hi Baby Boy. We went to visit your grave yesterday and also to a memorial for you. It made me hunt so bad inside. The kids looked so good yesterday. (Jazzy and River) One day Jazzy will understand and River kind of does now. I wish that we could have moverd closer to us. You and Timmy could be closer or side by side. I hope you and Timmy are speding lots of time together. He is there being your big brother since we have your bug brother her with us for now. (He is really being a good dad, You and Timmy would be so pround of him) Well tomorrow is Timmy's birthday. I hope you two thow a big party and watch out for all the girls in heaven!! We do love both of you and again your daddy and Ineed to know things are alright with you both. As for here we will get by even with all the things people do wrong. You were a very good soldier and we are both proud of you. Love you both! Take care cowboy!! Ride all the horses in heaven!!

Angelina

July 3, 2008

Peace to you and thank you.

Craig F

July 1, 2008

May you rest in peace Lance Cpl. Butler. Your sacrifice will be remembered. My heart goes out to the family.

Anna

June 30, 2008

I still love you.

Mark Cantrell

June 30, 2008

Thank you Marine, may God bless you and all who served and serve. May He bless and strenghten your family.

Sgt. Ross Casey

June 30, 2008

As you can see by the sudden surge of entries in Butlers book. He has not been forgotten. I will continue to do as I have done since The day he died, remind people who the good ones are, and what they had to give.

Kevin Barksdale

June 29, 2008

I thank God for giving us men such as Kenneth Butler, who are men of unselfish strength, and integrity. And I pray that God watches over and blesses the family this man left behind.

LCpl Victor I, Corral

June 28, 2008

We are taught about heroes, legends , and those who give the ultimate sacrifice to our country and countrymen. He is a perfect example of that and I am proud to be amongst his rank and tradition!

Semper Fidelis.

Raychel Fitzgerald

June 28, 2008

taken far too young, his bravery and honor will not be forgotten, here's to the heroes, your family is in my prayers. God Bless.

Janae Larsen

June 28, 2008

My heartfelt sympathy goes out to you and your family for your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you, as I share in your sorrow. Please know that Kenneth's courage and valor are not overlooked and will never be forgotten.

Ronnie S

June 28, 2008

A hero I would have never known the name of had it not been brought to my attention. For your valor and bravery, thank you seems so insignificant. May you continue to guard the streets of Heaven as you did the streets down here.

Sarah F.

June 27, 2008

You gave your all, and made the ultimate sacrifice for your country, you are a true American Hero, and you will be missed by so many. May you rest in Peace Lance Cpl Butler.

Cynthia Mann

June 27, 2008

May God comfort you and guide through the hard days. Your son served this country with honor and for that I am grateful I will remember him often.

Paula La

June 27, 2008

Someone took it upon themselves to ensure you would be remembered and you always will be now. I am so sorry for how you left this world and how soon it was but I thank you so much for serving, for giving your all for our nation. You left a lasting impression on more people than I think you ever would have known. You will live on in our memories. Thank you and may God bless your family, may you rest in peace.

Candy Bounds

June 27, 2008

Thank you Lance Cpl. Butler for giving us your all. True heroes are not forgotten. Thank you for my freedom.

Millie

June 27, 2008

My condolences for the lose of such a fine young man. I am so grateful that such men are willing to step forward to serve all of us. Such men and women make me proud to be an American. I did not know him, but he is a hero to me.

Tronia Gibson

June 24, 2008

God bless the heroes who sacrificed their lives that freedom may prevail. Lance Cpl. Butler was a hero.

Dawn Campbell

June 12, 2008

I didn't know Lance Cpl. Butler but I know people who did and they've never had anything but good things to say about "Cowboy".
I'd like to offer my condolences to the family for your loss and thank you for raising an honorable man willing to make the ultimate sacrifice for his country. You will be in our thoughts and prayers,

Diane Awbrey

May 27, 2008

Chick and I just recently learned of your loss. I am so sorry, please let us know if you need anything.

crystal leopard

May 26, 2008

On this Memorial Day, we embrace your memory. Thank you for your sacrifice. We love and miss you!

Crystal, Emilee and Abby

Sandy Daniel

May 16, 2008

I want to thank the family of Lance Cpl. Kenneth J. Butler for the sacrifice they have made, but also to tell them how much the citizens of the United States of America owe to their loved one and to them. Lance Cpl. Kenneth Butler paid for our freedoms and liberties in a most unselfish way and the Bible says he is blessed for laying his life down for a friend - I think we are all blessed for this Hero's sacrifice for us - people he did not know but felt a keen sense of responsibility to protect us. Thank you Lance Cpl. Kenneth Butler.
Sandy Daniel

Marlynn Burns

May 15, 2008

As Memorial Day approaches, let us please take into our heart the memory of our guardians of liberty, and always hold thier family close in prayer. Let us strive to not only hold these dear ones close on Memorial Day, but also to remember them and honor thier gift to us every day.
I pray the gentle healing of our loving Heavenly Father for this young man's family.

May 11, 2008

You are remembered and respected. Thank you Lance Cpl Butler!

Angie

March 31, 2008

Kenny, I miss you and think of you often. Love you always and forever.

Debbie,,Kenny Coffey

September 2, 2007

A hero is and shall NEVER be forgotten.Our thoughts are always with your family.Rest well brother for that star spangled banner WILL forever wave.Your name stamped in steel forever clutched in the tallons.And your spirit shall FOREVER soar in the symbol of our great nation..

August 6, 2007

I don't pretend to know what to say or do that would bring you peace in your time of sorrow, but I will offer my heart felt condolences. I also offer you my prayers that in time the pain will easy and the memories of your HERO will carry you through each day and night. I want to thank your HERO, for his/her selfless act of becoming a member of the armed forces, his/her willingness to defend the United States of America, all that we hold sacred and for the sacrifice that will forever be etched in the memories of all those who knew him/her. Though tears can never bring him/her back, we hope that our tears express our gratitude for the sacrifice that he/she made and our sorrow at his/her passing. I believe for every fallen HERO there is a star shining brightly up above to remind us of the precious gift we were given.

Your mission on earth is complete and you are now a member of GOD’s Heavenly armed forces. Stand down brave warrior and take your rightful place in Heaven with all the HEROES who have passed before.

I made a special promise to LE RON A. WILSON (KIA on 07/06/07) on the day he was laid to rest as I touched his coffin, that I would never forget him nor would I forget those that gave their lives for our country before him, with him and after him and so when I came across www.legacy.com, I thought what a great way to keep my promise to Le Ron, so I will continue to leave tributes in each guest book until the day there is no longer the need to leave these tributes to a FALLEN HERO.

REST IN PEACE, HERO, YOU WILL NEVER BE FORGOTTEN!!

PROUD MOTHER OF A U.S. SOLDIER
Althea Barrett(Queens, NY)

July 23, 2007

Thank you for the sacrifice made by Lance Cpl Butler and the sacrifice made by everyone who loves and misses him! May God bless all of you!!
Aunt of a Lance Cpl deploying soon

Edwin Martinez

May 28, 2007

Semper Fi, to the parents of LCpl Butler. May God bring you peace knowing your son did you proud against all odds. SSgt EDM, Landis, NC

crystal leopard

May 28, 2007

We are thinking of you today as we do everyday! We miss you!! The girls are going to send you some ballons and we hope it brings a smile to your face!! We Love You!!

Crystal, Emilee and Abby

Bobbie Leopard

May 27, 2007

Thinking of on this special Memorial Day weekend as I do everyday. Miss you so much
Love
Your Nana

Linda Clifton

March 7, 2007

I did not know Kenneth but just wanted to express my deepest appreciation for his services to our country. I pray that time will heal your broken heart and you will be able to reflect back on many wonderful memories of a soldier who gave up everything in helpng others. A TRUE HERO!!! GOD BLESS

Carol Cline

March 6, 2007

As the days and weeks pass, and as you return to life’s routine, may you continue to feel comforted by the love and support of family and friends.

Ross Casey

February 12, 2007

My brother
I was there when you fell 20 meters away. I will not forget you, nor will I let anyone else.
Cpl. Casey

Jay Hutchison

February 10, 2007

Kenneth
I never knew you personally but as a retired servicemember and veteran of the first persian golf war i am honored to to call you brother. To your wife and your newborn son i say thank you and i am sorry and i am grateful. It is hard to explain to people the sense of comitment that servicemen and women feel and what happens once we take that oath. For reasons beyond normal peoples perceptions we seem to feel a rwal sense of duty and honor, and for this i thank you as you have given the ultimate sacrifice.

Anna

January 18, 2007

Jay,
I went and saw you over my Christmas break. That's the first time I've been able to go out there. I miss you so much but I'm not upset anymore. Seeing you has helped. I don't cry at night anymore. I guess I just know now that your always there. Your my Angel, my Hero and my Cowboy!
Always Yours,
Anna

October 23, 2006

Jay,

I just saw on the news that one of your fellow Marine's from Rowan County was called home on the one year anniversary of your death. I am sure you were there to welcome him with open arms. Please let him know both he and his family are in our thoughts and prayers. We miss you and are extremely proud of you!!

Our Hero FOREVER!!!

Crystal

Tom Gugliuzza-Smith

October 23, 2006

Kenneth, it has been a year since you were taken. Please know that you are my hero and that you will NEVER be forgotten. To the Butler family. I previously signed Kenneth's guest book. Please know from the most inner part of my heart I am so sorry Kenneth was taken from you.

Your Rockhill Family

October 21, 2006

Kenny,
I love you! It been a hard year without you. I caught myself thinking of you offen. I will sit and stare at the sky and remember the warm and kind smile that you gave. I wish you were here.
One thing for sure now that you and you brother Timmy are together again.

October 21, 2006

James,

I can't believe it's been a year since we lost you. Time passes so quickly, however not a day goes by that we don't think of you and miss you. We are so proud of you and the sacrifice you made. Today we will honor and remember you for the brave marine you are!! Emilee and Abby have written messages and attached them to patrotic balloons and we will be sending them to you soon. They are so proud to be doing this for you!! We hope you embrace these messages and remember how much we love you!

Semper Fi Jay!!

We Love You!
Jimmy, Crystal, Emilee & Abby

Garnet Jenkins

October 21, 2006

Paying tribute to this Fine Young Marine, Lance Cpl. Kenneth J. Butler, on this first anniversary of the day he gave his life for our country, with a Great Amount of Thanks for his courage, service and dedication to our Country and for Freedom.
May Kenneth rest, in the Loving Care of God and know that he Truly is an American Hero.
May God's Grace and Comfort continue to be with the Butler family.
Those who Made the Ultimate Sacrifice, So Many and So Young, shall NEVER BE FORGOTTEN.
My brother among them. KIA-Vietnam 1967.

Hoping you continue to feel the thoughts of caring and support that surround you each day, as this Country remembers someone very precious to you, who is a Hero to all of us.
I am deeply sorry for your loss.

Bobbie Leopard

October 21, 2006

Dear Jay
Today is your first heavenly birthday and I wanted to let you know that I and your whole family miss you so much. We think of you today as we think about you everyday. Please tell all of the men that died with you that day that we are thinking of them and their families also. We will be looking for you standing tall and proud at the pearly gates when it is our time . I love you very much and wish you a happy first heavenly birthday.
Missing you
Your Nana

Bobbie Leopard

September 14, 2006

Hi Jay

I just saw in the paper about the passing of one of your "Brother Marines". It brings back memories of October 21st whenever I see such tragic news. I am sure that you have welcomed him as you have all the others that have followed you the the Heavenly gates. I am proud to know that we have the finest protecting this country and also looking out for us from above. I love and miss you Jay and will see you again someday.

Your loving Nana

Linda Flannery

June 12, 2006

I did not know Lance Cpl Butler, but as a mom of 2 Marines, I wanted to extend my sympathy to his family and friends.

May you find comfort in your memories of your son, and know that he is remembered!

My flag flies in his honor.

ROBYN GARSIDE

May 30, 2006

MAY GOD BLESS YOU AND YOURS. I HAVE JUST LEARNED OF YOUR GREAT LOSS AND WISH TO EXPRESS MY DEEPEST SYMPATHIES. PLEASE KNOW THAT YOUR HERO WILL NEVER BE FORGOTTEN. HOLD TIGHT TO YOUR TREASURED MEMORIES THAT HIS SPECIAL SMILE MAY CONTINUE TO SHINE ON FOR YOU. I PRAY THAT PEACE WILL FIND YOU ALL SOMEDAY. STAY STRONG AND GODSPEED. SEMPER FI



A PROUD MARINE MOM

Jesse Brown

May 26, 2006

im sorry for what happened but its the price we pay as soilders im terry browns brother i was at the memorial service in my brother's stead but cowboy was a great friend of mine also and i wish that i could do something to change what happened but i cant if there is anything i can ever do anything for you all let me know

Anna

April 27, 2006

Jay,

Every day I think about you and every day it seems that what happened was just a dream. Meeting you and knowing you and finding out what a wonderful person you are, were and will forever be has made me so much different than what I was before you. I'm not sure anymore how my life will turn out but I now know that what I thought it would be and what I want it to be is so different. Thank you for being my Hero and thank you for showing so much more than i was willing to see. I will never meet anyone else like you as long as I live and I will never love anyone as I loved you. I'm so proud of you and still picturing you that night we met a The Wheel. You were my dream come true.

Yours Truly,

Anna

Bobbie Leopard

April 24, 2006

Hi Mays,

I wanted to let you know that your Aunt Shirlee and I, your Mom and Dad and the boys attended a memorial service for you and all of your fellow fallen angels last Friday. We felt as if you were right there with us. It was very emotional and very awe inspiring. We met your Lt. and the driver of the humvee you were on. They thought the world of you as everyone you have ever met does. They are some wonderful people and I felt like they wanted to help us feel some closure with all the information that they shared with us. I really never knew how much of a bond there was with the Marines but I know now.

We had a wonderful time and will always remember it.

I love you Mays and miss you so much

Bobbie Leopard

April 13, 2006

Mays,

Happy Birthday! I hope you liked the flowers I left for you. I miss you today and everyday,

Ilove you so much.

Nana

Crystal Leopard

April 12, 2006

Happy Birthday James!!

We Love You!



Crystal, Emilee and Abby

crystal leopard

March 30, 2006

James,

Been thinking about you alot lately. Just the other week someone I have never met came to visit. His mom had told him about you. I was shocked to walk out and see a marine in this dress blues. He just wanted all of your family to know how sorry he was and

that even though he had never met you, he was your "brother". I was so touched. We think of you daily. We Love and Miss you!!

Edwin Martinez

March 4, 2006

Today, Saturday, as we the marines of Det 1096 meet we are reminded of your early departure from our Marine Corps. Semper Fidelis from us to you, our young brother in arms.

Angie MFEMFE

March 1, 2006

Today, I show a black cowboy hat and it reminded me of you wearing Papa MFEMFEMF cowboy hat. I miss you.



Love you always,

Bobbie Leopard

February 14, 2006

Hi Mays..I saw in the paper today that your fellow Marines have come home. I just wish that you could have come home with them but that was not to be. We will forever think about you. Happy Valentines day to the sweetest valentine of all



Proud Nana

Bobbie Leopard

February 9, 2006

Hi Mays....We think about you everyday and always will. Until we meet again.



Love,

Nana and Papa

Nancy Szwydek

January 29, 2006

To the family of LcPL Kenneth Butler,

Our heartfelt sympathy on the loss of Kenneth. We too lost our son, LcPL Steven Szwydek on 10/20/05. His body now rests at Arlington, but his spirit is safe in heaven with other fallen heros. Thank you Crystal for your words on Steven's Guest Book site. It is so comforting to know that others share in our sorrow and pride. May you too find comfort in knowing that we care and are praying for you.

Nancy

crystal leopard

January 27, 2006

Thinking of you James! Love and Miss you!!!

Kasey Kennedy

January 23, 2006

even though it may not seem fair to some people i think and believe the reason Cowboy (Kenneth) went home to be with the Lord was so he could watch over our boys.. there is a certain group of guys.. some of his closet friends over there right now and i know his is watching over them...that was his purpose/reason

Josh and April Morales

January 11, 2006

To Kenneth's family and friends-

My family and I are praying for you and your family during this difficult time. We send our deepest empathy as we lost our Marine on 11/30/05 in Fallujah. We are comforted to know that our Marines are serving their country with such honor and bravery. We are so proud of our Marines and all of our other service men and women for all that they have done and continue to do to keep us safe and to give us the freedom we have that so many take for granted.

They are true Heroes and need to always be remembered for their selflessness and sacrifice to better our world. We will forever be united in the loss of our heros. We are so sorry for your loss and hope our words will ease some of the pain, and maybe fill some of your emptiness.

Yesterday, Today, Forever – Semper Fi - Marines!

Our sincerest gratitude for their bravery-

The family of Cpl. William "Billy" Taylor

2/6 WPNS

KIA outside of Fallujah 11/30/05

Joseph Cannon Jr.

January 10, 2006

Sincere regrets to the family from the members of VFW Post 8989 in Kannapolis.

Bobbie Leopard

December 30, 2005

Hi Mays......It's your Nana here. I hope you liked the Christmas tree. I just wanted to let you know that I think of you everyday and I miss you. Papa and your Daddy put up an American flag in the yard for you on Christmas day. It is in memory of you and all that you gave to our family and our country. I will fly it proudly all the days of my life. I love you



Proud Nana of a US Marine

crystal leopard

December 24, 2005

Jay, thank-you for the wonderful gift you left for Emilee and Abby. They will always know who you were and what you did for them. You continue to be in our thoughts daily. We miss you so much!!! I know that this will be a wonderful Christmas for you in heaven. We love you !!!

Jeff Lambert

December 22, 2005

Rudi and Family,hope that Peace be with you at this time.Sorry Rudi, did not know about this till you told me but memories are never forgotten,Love to all,Jeff,Coaches Office.

Tom Gugliuzzas-Smith

December 19, 2005

My heartfelt sympathy to the Butler family in the loss of Kenneth. I did not know Kenneth, but my heart is broken and I am sadden for your loss of such a young man. May God bring you peace in your heart as you reflect on all the wonderful memories you hold so close. Please know that you are in my heart and prayers.

I send each of you a hug from my heart.

Love and Peace

Tom



To live in the hearts

of those you leave behind

is never to die"

~Robert Orr~

Harmonie Mullins

December 14, 2005

James was one of the nicest people ever. I remember all of the fun times we had together when we were little. I will never forget him. I miss him more than I ever realized I would. My thoughts are with you Aunt Cynthia, Rudy, Carl, Nina,Luke, and Wes. I know he meant a lot to me and I know he meant even more to you guys. I love you all! He was a great person!

We love you and will always remember you James! Your cousin, Harmonie and Danny

December 14, 2005

bobbie leopard

December 7, 2005

Christmas will not be the same without you James. I hope you have a really great one up there in heaven with Jesus. We will think of you on that day as we do everyday. I love you so much

Proud Nana of a US Marine

crystal leopard

December 6, 2005

Merry Christmas Jay!! We Love and Miss You!!!

Your Proud Aunt Shirlee

November 25, 2005

They say it takes a special person to become a Marine. Well they surely found that to be true when James enlisted. His desire to become a Marine when his life could have led him anywhere was a true show of love and care for his country. His love of family, friends and life was evident in all that he did. He was a very brave young man who was taken away from us way too soon. God must have needed him for a very special "detail". He will ALWAYS be missed, loved and NEVER, EVER forgotten. I wish we could all live in peace for only in peace will all things live.

Michael Clontz

November 24, 2005

Dear Uncle Buster, Aunt Tammy,Carl, Nina and other family members;

Kenneth is not only my cousin but my role model. One day I hope to grow up to be a man like him, one of honor,and respect. Kenneth and I got to talk alot at Carl and Nina's wedding and he was truely proud to be your son and a US Marine. I pray that God will give you peace and knownledge that Kenneth love you!



He told me to always reach for my dreams and follow my heart. His heart lead him back to you, Uncle Buster and cousin Carl.



He will be missed by all his family that loved him. His legacy will live on in our hearts and history. For he was one of many that gave all that he was so we can live in peace and freedom.



God Bless.

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