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for Ryan McCurdy
Charlie Gili
April 22, 2025
Hello,
We wanted to let your family and friends know that we are sending Care Packages to deployed troops this week and some of these will be dedicated to your loved one. Each package will carry the name, photo and hometown of Ryan S. McCurdy US Marine Lance Corporal.
We realize that this is a small tribute, but we do this with all respect and sincerity and we want you to know that it is made possible by thousands of like-minded individuals from across the American youth hockey community, their families and friends and others who support our mission.
We will not forget. May God Bless you and keep you safe and strong.
Sincerely,
Charlie Gili & Family
On Behalf of our US Hockey Players Support Our Troops Campaign
Peggy Childers
January 5, 2013
To the family and friends of Lance Cpl. Ryan S. McCurdy:
It has truly been my honor to sign Ryan's guest book these past few years. Unfortunately, due to complications from my Multiple Sclerosis, this may be the last message I'm able to write. Please forgive me and know that Ryan will always be remembered in my home.
With love and respect ~ Peggy
Ryan in our 4th Grade class picture.
Zachary Calhoun
May 27, 2012
Dear Ryan,
I am remembering you most this Veteran's Day, and wanted to say that you really were one of the best friends I ever had as a boy. Thanks for all the late night raids in the woods, and awesome years in baseball. I joined the USMC and did four honorable years in your memory, Brother. You are always with me in spirit. Semper Fidelis.
-CPL. Zachary H. Calhoun
Peggy Childers
January 6, 2012
January 5, 2012
To the family and friends of Lance Cpl. Ryan S. McCurdy:
Always remembering Ryan. "Some gave all."
Peggy Childers
January 6, 2011
To the family and friends of Lance Cpl. Ryan S. McCurdy:
Please accept my remembrance of Ryan on the anniversary of his passing and know that he will never be forgotten.
Peggy Childers
www.IraqWarHeroes.org
Daphne Crawford
January 6, 2011
God bless you and your fellow Marines, Ryan "Dirty" "Blue Shoes" McCurdy. We are forever indebted to you.
Jan, always in my heart.
Matt Holley
January 5, 2011
Ryan, thinking of you today. Semper Fi, Brother.
Jan, my thoughts and prayers are with you.
sandra stewart
October 17, 2010
Dear Jan,
I'm Sandra Stewart, mother of Cpl. David S. "Bear" Stewart who was killed in Haditha, August 3, 2005. You and I have met on a couple of occasions. I heard you went to the cemetery at dawn the other day. I often go to the cemetery at dusk. I share your grief for your beloved Ryan and for the bewildered feeling that our beautiful sons were here and then in an instant they were snatched away. Grief and remembrance never end. We just learn to function with all the agony inside. I wish blessings and comfort for you. I will never forget your beloved Ryan. Sandra Stewart, Gold Star Mother of Cpl. David S."Bear" Stewart, USMC
Vonnie Tapia
October 15, 2010
Thinking of Ryan today. Jan-It is such an Honor to get to know him though you.
Laurie
October 15, 2010
Thinking of you and your beautiful son on this day. What a hero! I pray that God comforts you by letting you feel the love that is surrounding Ryan at every moment. My son is a new Marine, and I think he may have met Grant out at an LSU party. He said he met a guy who was wearing his brother's dog tags.Praying for you all on this day.
Carlla
October 15, 2010
Jan, prayers are with you and your family today. Happy earthly birthday today.
June Strain
October 15, 2010
Thinking of you today, Ryan, on this your special day. And thinking of your family and friends who cherish their memories of you.
Pam Okker-Rice
October 15, 2010
Happy Birthday Ryan. Keeping your mom and brother close to my heart always.
Beverly Gisclair
October 15, 2010
Remembering your Birthday today Ryan as you celebrate in Heaven.
Daphne Crawford
October 15, 2010
Thinking about you today, Ryan, as we remember your birthday here on earth. I know you are ok, but I know your family misses you terribly. I keep your mom and Grant in my heart.
Peggy Childers
January 5, 2010
To the family and friends of Lance Cpl. Ryan S. McCurdy:
Remembering Ryan on the anniverary of his passing. May our fallen heroes never be forgotten!
Peggy Childers
"Don't Let The Memory Of Them Drift Away"
www.IraqWarHeroes.org
Daphne Crawford
January 5, 2010
Remembering this amazing young man and the contributions he has made to this world, even after his death. God bless you, Ryan, as you soar high above us
Kenna Larra
May 5, 2009
”Honor and Remember” - “Project Compassion” We love our Soldiers! We love our country and we cannot express enough love and compassion to the families of our fallen heroes. War does not discriminate – It breaks our hearts to see the faces of the fallen. We want to give this gift to you. We are a 501c3 nonprofit organization! Over 1,450 portraits have been completed and shipped to the parents and or spouse - at no cost as this is a gift from one American to another!
Contact us directly at [email protected] or go to www.heropaintings.com . If you have already had a portrait completed, we pray that you are enjoying the portrait and God Bless You.
Sincerely and Respectfully,
Kenna
In Memory of Ryan ~ (Debra Estep)
January 8, 2009
Holding you all in my thoughts and prayers.
The Wind on The Downs
“I like to think of you as brown and tall,
As strong and living as you used to be,
In khaki tunic, Sam Brown belt and all,
And standing there and laughing down at me.
Because they tell me, dear, that you are dead,
Because I can no longer see your face,
You have not died, it is not true, instead
You seek adventure in some other place.
That you are round about me, I believe;
I hear you laughing as you used to do,
Yet loving all the things I think of you;
And knowing you are happy, should I grieve?
You follow and are watchful where I go.”
(Written by Marian Allen during World War l )
Two lines that I wish you to keep near your heart…….
“You seek adventure in some other place.
That you are round about me, I believe”
I did not know Ryan, but I am remembering
his service and sacrifice. He is my hero. !
~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~
The Other Side
i'm over on the other side
where life and death softly divide.
left my skin and bones behind
now i'm over on the other side.
can you feel me there with you?
my breath is gone but i'm not through.
loved you then and i still do
from over on the other side.
i can fly. really fly.
below the earth ... all through the sky.
tell em all i did not die.
i'm just over on the other side.
it's good here on the other side.
the sweetest songs...the bluest skies.
thank you for the tears you cried
but it's good here on the other side.
i can fly. really fly. below the earth...all through the sky.
tell em all i did not die.
i'm just over on the other side
the world is smaller than a needle's eye.
where life and death softly divide.
when you leave your skin and bones behind
i'll be waiting on the other side.
i can fly. really fly. below the earth ... all through the sky.
go tell em all i did not die.
i'm just over on the other side.
Song lyrics by Don Conoscenti
C Desert Muse/SESAC
www.donconoscenti.com
(Used with permission)
“I hope it brings great comfort to any and all.
Peace on you. DonCon” 4-2008
The Other Side –
(To hear the song)
http://tinyurl.com/3o8gol
Sincerely,
Deb Estep ~ Ohio
Proud Air Force Mom SSgt Vince – Lackland AFB
Proud Air Force MIL SrA Dana – Randolph AFB
Remembering The Fallen – Blog
http://tinyurl.com/3z8p55
Angel and soldier drawing I have shared here.
http://tinyurl.com/6gey8b
Peggy Childers
January 5, 2009
To the family of Lance Cpl. Ryan S. McCurdy:
Ryan gave the ultimate sacrifice and will be held in the hearts of Americans forever. I cannot and will not let our fallen heroes be forgotten. My deepest sympathy to you. "Some gave all."
Peggy Childers
"Don't Let The Memory Of Them Drift Away"
www.IraqWarHeroes.org
Lou McCurdy
December 12, 2008
Thank you for your service. I enlisted to finish up my best friend's tour, LCpl Billy D. Brixey Jr. (motor-t) from Ferriday. He fell in Afghanistan on Jan. 27, 2006. I wish I could've met and served with you.
CPL Louis M. "Dirty" McCurdy
TFMP 1/12 D Co S-2
COP Heider, Ninewa Province Iraq
Marshall Menou
November 10, 2008
This is LCpl. Menou, Marshall W. i knew Ryan because we went through MEPS, bootcamp and SOI (school of infantry) he was a great guy and when i found out that he had passed it hurt me hard and all of the guys that new him from his first unit (1st Batallion 8th Marines) he is still missed to this day and tomorrow on veterans day he will be honored by the best of us. Semper Fidelis LCpl. McCurdy you are missed. OOHH RAH DEVIL DOG Rest in Peace brother.
May 18, 2008
You are remembered and respected. Thank you Lance Cpl McCurdy!
August 2, 2007
If this person can stand in battle to ensure my freedom, then I will stand in grief with his/her family to honor him/her. For every fallen HERO there is a bright star that shines in the evening sky to remind us of the cherished gift we were given – even if for too short a time.
My heart breaks again as I sign yet another guest book of another courageous young soldier who gave their life so selflessly. I wish I never found myself in a position to have to sign another guest book for the rest of my life, but I promised LE RON A. WILSON (a dear friend KIA 7/6/07, 18yrs old) that neither he nor any like him would be forgotten and so I will continue until the day there is no longer the need.
PROUD MOTHER OF A U.S. SOLDIER
Althea Barrett(Queens, NY)
July 25, 2007
Thank you for the sacrifice made by Lance Cpl McCurdy and the sacrifice made by everyone who loves and misses him! May God bless all of you!!
Aunt of a Lance Cpl deploying soon
Garnet Jenkins
January 5, 2007
In Remembrance of Lance Cpl. Ryan S. McCurdy, on the first anniversary of the day, he gave his life for our Country, with a Multitude of Thanks, for his Courage, Dedication and Service to our Country and for Freedom.
Rest In Peace Young Hero, in God's Loving Care and may the Peace of God be with the McCurdy family.
Those who Made the Ultimate Sacrifice, So Many and So Young, shall Never Be Forgotten, my brother among them. KIA-Vietnam 1967.
"I will lift up my eyes to the hills-
from whence comes my help?
My help comes from the Lord,
Who made heaven and earth."
~ Psalm 121:1-2 ~
I am sincerely hoping that you continue to feel the thoughts of caring and support that surround you each day, as this Country remembers someone very precious to you, who is a Hero to all of us.
I am so deeply sorry for your loss.
Brett Mixon
November 1, 2006
McCurdy Family,
I have just found this page. I think about Ryan daily. I served with him throughout boot camp and the School of Infantry, and 1/8. My friends and I always laugh about how McCurdy would come into our squadbay at SOI and scream "get on line 2nd platoon" and that loud rolling voice of his. At the time it made all of us mad because it seemed like he was the only one motivated to train. I was near him that day in January and we stood post together shortly before that day. He's truly my hero and his attitude left a lasting impression on my friends and I. He sure was a loving brother, he always talked about his brother who also serves. I hope you liked the memorial and those crazy blue shower shoes we had on that plaque. If there is anything that any of us can do for you now or in the future feel free to give us a call and you'll be taken care of very well.
Cpl Mixon
Stephanie Barfield
October 30, 2006
Be Still
Be still like the grass on a melancholy summer day
Be still like desert shrub.
Be calm and you will hear your loved one speak, in the stillness, in the calm, their love resounds.
If you are still this promise I make, you will hear the voice of your loved one helping you along your way.
May God Bless your family during this time. I Lost my brother 9/1/05
in Iraq (Ssgt. George R. Drauhn Jr.) I promise the days will get easier!
matthew thrift
October 27, 2006
I did meet Ryan, he was a great guy.
Happy-go-lucky is the best way I can think to describe him.
Just wanted his family to know they raised a hero. I'm proud to have served with him.
-Cpl Thrift
pfc.lee houston
October 26, 2006
the baton rouge young marines wish you luck in every thing
Joy Foster
July 8, 2006
Dear Mrs. Jan and Grant,
I don't exactly know what you are going through but i do know something quite close. I lost my grandfather several years ago when i was on vacation in Flordia. In the middle of the night i woke up in a motor home and my whole family was crying i didn't realize what had happened until my mom said Joy "Papaw died last night". Those words were like a heart attack to me. I didn't know what to do. I do know that if you pray and trust God he will make the bad turn into good. Ryan would always play with me at the webb's house. He would swim and play cards with us and he would always be smiling when he did it. When Ryan came to see my dad he stood up gave him a firm hand shake and said good to see you coach and that is when my dad said Ryan is a soldier. Ryan was very beloved to my family and i. But now he is in a better place not worrying about death. And we will all see him again. Just think about this Mrs, Jan and Grant he may have died but it is a new beggining!!
God Bless,
Joy Foster
Liz Knazs
June 22, 2006
Dear Jan, Stan and Grant,
I cannot express how sad I am for your loss. I remember Ryan as a young boy that we would laugh together and play. I hope that you know you are in my prayers and thoughts. Take care of each other. Love, Liz Knazs
Sheila Ellis
May 21, 2006
I want to say that I am very proud of this young man and I'm so very sorry to hear of your loss.I am very proud of each of our servicemen and women. I have a nephew right now serving in Iraq and I worry every day for him. May God Bless you in many ways.
Scotty Ogden
May 15, 2006
To the McCurdy family:
As a friend and teammate of Ryan, i spent lots of time with him on and off the baseball field, and i know that although he was honestly one of the happiest people i have ever played with or been around, the happiness he shared with everyone here cannot compare to the happiness he is experiencing now. My prayers go out to your family and all the other Marines protecting us.
God Bless
Courtney Winner
May 9, 2006
Whenever I saw Ryan at church or school i would never see him without a smile on his face. It seemed like he was never sad or hurt. He would always kick the soccer ball around with me after church. It was fun. Love you Ryan, Ms.Jan, and Grant.
R GARSIDE
May 7, 2006
MAY GOD BLESS YOU AND YOURS. I HAVE JUST LEARNED OF YOUR GREAT LOSS AND WISH TO EXPRESS MY DEEPEST SYMPATHIES. PLEASE KNOW THAT THERE ARE PEOPLE OUT HERE WHO DO CARE AND YOUR HERO WILL NEVER BE FORGOTTEN. HOLD TIGHT TO YOUR TREASURED MEMORIES THAT HIS SPECIAL SMILE MAY CONTINUE TO SHINE. I PRAY THAT PEACE WILL FIND YOU ALL. STAY STRONG AND GODSPEED. SEMPER FI
A MARINE MOM
Dailey Joy Foster
May 7, 2006
Dear McCurdy Family,
Your family is in my prayers and in all of my thoughts. If Ryan was still alive i don't think that i would care about him as much as i do now. Mrs Jan and Grant I love you so much. Ryan, I know your reading this and is your not im sure God will tell you too. I love you Ryan and you will always have a place in my heart.
Love your future secrtary,
Dailey Foster
Brittany Burnham
March 2, 2006
Dear McCurdy Family-
As a former student at CLA, I vaguely knew Ryan, and I just want you to know that I'm praying for you and that God is still there for you. You probably don't know me, but know that I think about you and pray for you every day.
Jennifer Dawson
February 17, 2006
To the McCurdy family,
My thoughts and prayers are with you during this grieving time. I did not get the chance to know Ryan personally, but I feel like I do. Lori & Mike speak so highly of him. May you always know that you now have a very special angel at your side comforting you as you go through any trials in life. Take care and God Bless.
Tom Gugliuzza-Smith
February 4, 2006
My heartfelt sympathy to the McCurdy family in the loss of Ryan. I did not know Ryan, but my heart is broken and I am sadden for your loss of such a fine young man and hero. May God bring you peace in your heart as you reflect on all the wonderful memories you hold so close. Please know that you are in my heart and prayers.
I send each of you a hug from the most inner part of my heart.
Love and Peace
Tom
To live in the hearts
of those you leave behind
is never to die"
~Robert Orr~
Judy and Warren Joerndt
February 1, 2006
To the McCurdy family, our sincere prayers, TEARS and thoughts continue to be with all of you. Our son was serving with Ryan in Fallujah so Ryan's death has touched us personally. There are no words that can express how we feel. May God help you through this difficult time.
Kristine Balsiger-Ranieri
January 30, 2006
Jan: My prayers are with you. Deepest sympathy, Kristine Balsiger-Ranieri, RHS Classmate
Beth Crawford
January 19, 2006
Dearest Jan and Grant,
You wanted to honor Ryan. What a beautiful job you did! I am so very proud of both of you! Grant, you gave the most wonderful tribute to your brother that I have ever heard. Ryan would be so very proud of you! He always looked up to you and you did him proud! Sweet Jan, Ryan loved you so very much. He died committed to Jesue, loving what he did and brave 'till the end. What a beautiful legacy, Jan, you know how very much I love you. Please ask if you need anything. I've stayed away since the funeral so you and Grant could spend this precious time together, but know that you are in my heart, thoughts and prayers. Love, Beth Bush Crawford
7th grade lousiburg middle school
January 19, 2006
we care and share your sorrow
Norman Eger
January 17, 2006
To the McCurdy Family,
Although me and Ryan weren't best friends, we basically grew up together. I remember Ryan playing little league baseball and then highschool football with me. People like Ryan are hard to come by. No matter what situation he was in, he was always cheerful and joking around. It seemed as if nothing ever bothered him and always met opposition with a smile. Ryan is what makes this country great and is a hero. I am proud to say I knew Ryan and hope that I will be half the man he was. My condolences go out to your family.
Norman Eger
margie daugherty
January 17, 2006
to the family of ryan i offer you my deepest sympathy may god be with you in this hard
ryan may you rest in peace
Tammy Bagwell
January 16, 2006
Dear Stan and Jan,
I pray for you the Peace that passes all understanding. Having lost a child, I understand the pain that you are going through. However, I also know that God will carry you through this and you will be able to minister through your loss and pain.
Your son is a HERO as are all of our military who fight for our freedoms. Your family paid the ultimate price in order that my family may be safe and free. For that, I say THANK YOU.
You will be in my prayers through the days ahead. I am living proof of just how Faithful God truly is!
Tammy Bagwell
Jeff and Greg Newburn
January 15, 2006
Dear McCurdy Family,
My brother Greg and I went to school with Ryan at CLA. We were very saddened to learn of his death. Our hearts and prayers go out to you and your family. We know how horrible it is to lose a family member as we lost our mother last year in an automobile accident.
God bless you all.
Ryan is truly an American hero.
Sincerely,
Jeff and Greg Newburn
Dave and Cindy Cooper
January 15, 2006
Stan and Family,
May God's peace be with you through this difficult time. Continue to put your trust in "HIM" and he will give you peace.
It is always difficult to understand, but when we see our sons in heaven, we will understand.
Gary and Janice Osborne
January 14, 2006
Our love and prayers are with you during this time.
Philippians 4:19 says that God will meet all of your needs according to His riches in glory by Christ Jesus. Praise His Name.
We love you guys.
Joy Foster
January 14, 2006
Mrs.Jan
I have helped you in the office to answer phones and we have had many conversations. I knew Ryan because i would always go out to the Webb's house and me and Jadyn would always play cards with Ryan. Ryan once stopped Jadyn from jumping in the pool in his underwear when it was 32 degrees out side. When i found out that that all would not happen again i lost it. if i knew Ryan just a little better i might be able to say that he was like a brother to me. I love you Mrs.Jan and even thought i don't know Grant i love him to.I loved Ryan. Now that he is gone it shows how much i really did care about him.GOD BLESS!!
Love
Joy
ps. u have a future secretary
Tonja Kinchen
January 13, 2006
Jan,
As I listen to the news about Ryan and I hear the McCurdy last name, I immediately knew it must be one of your precious children.
I know all to well the pain that you are having right now. Jan, God has given you so many challenges in the past several years. You have over come all of them. You will always miss your "Sweet" Ryan but he will live in memory forever.
I Salute Ryan for fighting for our freedom. He really became a handsome young man.
Please if you would ever just like to talk, get in touch with me. We now have yet another Angel watching over us.
Sleep Well Ryan and know that I pray not only for you but for your entire family, especially your mom.
Matthew Yankowsky
January 13, 2006
I am sorry for the loss of such a great person. I will continue to remember Grant, Ryan, and the entire McCurdy family in my prayers.
ILENE BRASHIER
January 13, 2006
McCurdy Family,
My heart goes out to you and your entire family. My son's grad. from CLA in 1989 and in 1998. I think my youngest, Heath Brashier and his wife Jill (Goetzman)know your oldest son. We are all sadden by your loss. Thank God for young men like Ryan. I know your heart must be breaking, but you must also be so proud. As a former CLA parent, I feel we have lost one of our own. May God Bless you and hold you in the palm of his hand as you go through this most diffcult time. My prayers are with you.
Stephanie
January 13, 2006
I can't imagine what your family is going through. I was going about my day and saw the funeral procession for your son. I had no idea who the funeral was for but when I noticed the officers stopped at traffic lights all standing at attention I realized what was going on. You should be proud of your son. We as Americans have many freedoms that cost us dearly and it's not until we see something like this do we realize what the true cost is. Thank you.
Rhonda Kernion Hilliard
January 13, 2006
Dear McCurdy family, I want you to know I am praying for God to give you his peace at this difficult time. Thank you, Ryan, for your sacrifice and love for God, your country and your family. I am so honored to have a fellow alumni as an absolute hero. Sincerely, Rhonda, Christian Life Academy, class of 1986.
Brandon & Amanda Stewart
January 13, 2006
Brandon and I will keep you and your family in our thoughts and prayers. Brandon and Ryan were teammates at Christian Life and he will be missed. We thank God for his life and allowing him to be a part of ours. God Bless you and your family.
Cliff Yarbrough
January 13, 2006
Dearest McCurdys,It is 11:07a.m. as I am writing this up here in Downtown Baton Rouge. Your beloved Lance Corporal McCurdy's service has probably begun. You are in my thoughts and prayers as are ALL of our Brave Troops,those in Iraq and Afghanistan,and serving all over the world to protect our freedom and that of all people. I am most touched by the notes from families of other Brave Marines and Troops,especially those killed in action. My dear friends' son,Lance Cpl.Ben Ory,USMC, is on his third tour in Iraq;and my best friend's brother served in Iraq for over a year with Army Cavalry. He was burned in an attack on his Bradley Fighting Vehicle which killed their driver but has recovered. In fact,Staff Sgt. Jeremy Smith,refused the chance to go back to Germany to recover and rejoin his platoon as soon as possible. I have long been touched by sacrifice and courage as shown by Ryan as ours has been a military family. My second cousin in the Army died in Viet Nam. Dad served in World War II along with his younger brother. The youngest brother was in Korea,their Dad in World War I. My heart and prayers go out to you. I add encouragement and prayers for you too, Lance Cpl. Grant McCurdy. I am only too sad that I never got to know this Gallant Young Hero in person! I salute you,Lance Cpl. Ryan McCurdy...May God Bless and Keep You along with your Family!
Patrick Dennis
January 12, 2006
My thoughts are with you Jan, Grant and all of the McCurdy family during this incredibly difficult time. I will pray that God sends you strength and peace to add to the intense pride you must feel. While I did not know Ryan, I have tremendous respect for what he stood for and his bravery to put that conviction into action. God bless you and your family and the many other Marines and soldiers bravely going in harm's way for all of us. And...God Bless America.
Kathryn Smith
January 12, 2006
Dear McCurdy family,
I do not know you, nor do I know either of your sons. However, my daughter Summer attended CLA with your older son.
We just wanted you to know that this entire community is proud of what your sons have accomplished, and we cry with you for your loss.
"Do not let your hearts be troubled. Trust in God; trust also in me. In my Father's house are many rooms; if it were not so, I would have told you. I am going there to prepare a place for you, I will come back and take you to be with me that you also may be where I am."
John 14: 1-3
We pray God's peace fills your heart in this difficult time.
Mr. and Mrs. Lynne R. Smith
Summer Bankston
Rhonda Pilcher
January 12, 2006
Thank you for your sacrifice. I can’t imagine the pain of your loss. I pray that God will comfort your family. Ronald Reagan said it best, “Some people spend an entire lifetime wondering if they made a difference. The Marines don’t have that problem”. Although his life was entirely too short, please know he made a difference. May God bless you all.
Semper Fi
Proud Marine Mom –
Cpl Jaim W. Bourg presently serving in Iraq
Susan Autrey
January 12, 2006
Mother and Son
Having a son is such a special blessing from God. When you hold that tiny baby boy for the first time, your heart melts. You have so many dreams for your son. He's perfect in your eyes. Then he grows into a little boy. And the phrase "Boys will be boys" becomes so real. As your son grows, so do you. As he goes through his teenage years you learn what unconditional love really means. And your dreams for your son become a little clearer than when he was first born. Your most important dream is for your son to believe in God and to serve Him. Then you want your son to be proud of who he has become.
By: Susan Autrey a mother of two sons.
Jan,
Ryan fulfilled both of these dreams. And I know you're extremely proud of him. I remember one day Ryan and I were talking about what he was going to do after he graduated. He told me he was going into the service. When I asked him which one. He answered by making a fist with his right hand and putting it over his heart and said "I'm going to be the best, a Marine! And I will make it." He did make it and I'm so proud of him.
Jan, just about everyday of Ryan's jr. and sr. year he would stick his head in my classroom and with a big smile he would say "Hi, Mrs. Autrey." No matter what kind of day I was having he always made it brighter. I miss that! I'm sure he brightened so many lives in Iraq with that wonderful smile too. Ryan will be missed by all that knew him. I guess God needed a really great Marine.
Susan Autrey
Dwan Mizell & Family
January 12, 2006
Thank you for the sacifice that Ryan chose by serving our country as a U.S. Marine, he was a honorable man.
My son, Benjamin Boeneke is also 20 yrs old & a Lance Corporal in the U. S. Marines. Ben and Ryan met while both of them were in boot camp in Parris Island, SC. In 1 of Ben's letters, he wrote about meeting Ryan.
When my nephew (Jared Mizell) heard that Ryan was killed, his dad called us, because they knew Ben and Ryan knew each other.
Over the past week, your family has been on my mind alot. Our family sends you our deepest sympathy. Please know as a mom and family of a U. S. Marine, we stand in prayer with you that God will continue to strength you & your family during this difficult time.
God Bless
Debbie Frank
January 12, 2006
to the McCurdy Family,
My heart goes out to you, I am a mother of 2 marines, one is currently serving in Iraq, my worst fear has become a reality for you, I can't say I know how you are feeling right now, because I don't, I can only imagine. I pray that God comforts you and that somehow you will find peace. Ryan was truly a Hero who gave the ultimate sacrifice, for that, we will always be greatful. God Bless you.
Charles White
January 12, 2006
I am a veteran of Afghanistan and a member of the Patriot Riders Group that will show up tomorrow. You have my deepest sympathy and respect for your family.
Eddie & Vicki Hager
January 12, 2006
Our son, Marine LCPL.Anthony Hager, was serving with Ryan at the Mayor's Compound in Fallujah. Ryan's death has hit Tony extremely hard, as they were very close friends and Marine brothers. Our thoughts and prayers go out to the McCurdy family. GOD BLESS & SEMPER FI
Jeanette Purvis
January 11, 2006
With deepest sympathy.
Mother of U.S Army soldier serving in Afghanistan.
I will remember your family in my prayers.
Karen Cicero
January 11, 2006
Psalm 56:8 (NLT)
" You keep track of all my sorrows.
You have collected all my tears in your bottle.
You have recorded each one in your book."
Jan and Grant, God will turn your mourning into joy; You WILL be reunited with Ryan one day.
Our thoughts and prayers are with you during this saddest of times.
We are so thankful to Ryan for serving our country. I think of him when I'm doing even the smallest of things, thinking, "But for those willing to fight for freedom, what little freedom we would have." His memory is precious indeed!
Stand firm, stand tall; Ryan is watching from a far greater vantage point than we could ever imagine.
We love you,
Joe and Karen
randy richter
January 11, 2006
may the Lord comfort you at this time, know that many people that never had the honor of knowing your son are saddened by your loss.
member of the "Patriot Guard Riders"
randy richter
Josh and April Morales
January 11, 2006
To Ryan's family and friends-
My family and I are praying for you and your family during this difficult time. We send our deepest empathy as we lost our Marine on 11/30/05 in Fallujah. We are comforted to know that our Marines are serving their country with such honor and bravery. We are so proud of our Marines and all of our other service men and women for all that they have done and continue to do to keep us safe and to give us the freedom we have that so many take for granted.
They are true Heroes and need to always be remembered for their selflessness and sacrifice to better our world. We will forever be united in the loss of our heros. We are so sorry for your loss and hope our words will ease some of the pain, and maybe fill some of your emptiness.
Yesterday, Today, Forever – Semper Fi - Marines!
Our sincerest gratitude for their bravery-
The family of Cpl. William "Billy" Taylor
2/6 WPNS
KIA outside of Fallujah 11/30/05
Dana Courville
January 11, 2006
Dear Mrs. McCurdy,
My son Chase played soccer with Ryan at CLA, and I was fortunate enough to know him while I coached him those few years. I always loved his spirit. He was a respectful and happy young man. I know he must have been a very good soldier, and is a great loss to our community and country. Thank you for raising someone so willing to give so much for the cost of freedom.
God bless you!
LCPL Joseph Frazier
January 11, 2006
I can't believe it. You will be missed back at the barracks. See you on the other side brother. Semper Fi.
Lamendola/Lebleu Family
January 11, 2006
To the McCurdy Family,
Our thoughts and prayers are with you-from one Marine Family to another. May God Bless you.
theresa cook and reab simoneaux jr
January 11, 2006
Our hearts go out to you your family.We like you have lost a loved one that we miss so much.But the confort that we get is knowing that Ryan and Sgt David Murray fought the fight till the end.We or so proud of them all and what they have given done .Life is preious but love and memories never leave us.God has so many young men and women that he took home early in life,and that only meens he has big plans for them to help us here on his earth.May god be with you all at this time ,We will continue to keep you and all the familys of the heros that or still here and gone in our prayers.
Daphne Crawford
January 11, 2006
Dear Jan, Stan, and LCpl Grant McCurdy,
Once again a distant bugle sounds and our nation mourns the loss of one of our own. Ryan died doing what he wanted to do, but I know that does not make his loss any easier for you. As a mom my heart breaks for you. As an American I'm grateful for young men like Ryan. Jan, thank you for raising, not one, but two, fine young men. We are proud of them both. Ryan will not be forgotten. His name will be etched into monuments, and written across our hearts.
Grant, our prayers will continue for you and your Marine brothers as you carry on your service. Semper Fi! Well done, son...You will be missed by so many.
Proud Marine Mom of Cpl Mason Crawford
Deborah Farrell
January 11, 2006
Dear Jan, l will always hold dear the memories of Ryan sitting in my fifth grade class thumping his pencil while grinning at me and saying,"Hey, Mrs. Farrell, now what do you want me to do?" Contrast that to 10 years later-" Hey, Mrs. Farrell I'm a Marine and I'm loving it." I"ll cherish all those trips he made to C.L.A. to say "Hi!" Death is a little easier when you know someone died doing what they wanted to do.God Bless you. I love you. D. Farrell
Amy
January 11, 2006
While I did not know Ryan, he did not know many of the people he was fighting for, but still served his country with such bravery and courage! He is such a hero, and I pray for you and your family. He was every American's brother and son and we will miss me and cherish the life he gave for our freedom. May God bless you and your heroic son.
January 11, 2006
Another Fallen Hero -- no one can understand what you are experiencing and feeling. My deepest condolences, sympathy and prayers go out to your entire family.
To: Ryan - Thanks for fighting for all of us. You will not be forgotten. Thank you. May you rest in peace!
Beverly, Mark & Evan Theriot
January 11, 2006
Mrs. McCurdy and Family,
Our son, Evan, is a student at CLA so we feel as if we have lost one of our family members. We are praying for you and for your family. Please let us know if there is anything we can do to help. God bless you and keep you. "Blessed are they that mourn; for they shall be comforted." Matthew 5:4
Sheila Adams
January 11, 2006
Please know that our Marine family have you in our thoughts and prayers. Ryan will always be a hero!
Both of our sons are in the Corp, having served in Iraq in 2003. We truly appreciate all of our Marines!
Ronnie and Sheila
Patty Rounds
January 11, 2006
My heart goes out to your family for the loss of your precious Ryan. My son is a Marine (5/11 Camp Pendelton - now IRR) who served time in Iraq, but is now home. Thank you for raising such a brave young man. I will be praying for your family. May the peace of the Lord be with you.
Christian Basinger
January 11, 2006
The McCurdy Family:
Peace, I leave with you. My Peace I give you-Jesus
Praying the Lord will comfort you with his peace, surround you with his love and encourage you with his presence.
How comforting it is to know that God will give you strength for the needs you face today.
Your son and brother is an American Hero. Please know he will never be forgotton.
With Deepest Sympathy and Prayers
Christian Basinger
Kim Ware
January 11, 2006
I did not know Ryan but he was a true HERO. Thank God for him and all the other soldiers that are fighting for our country. To the family, I will remember you in my prayers. Just know that you will meet Ryan on the other side. What a day of rejoicing that will be.
Kim Ware
RAPHAEL DIXON
January 11, 2006
MRS. JAN I LOVE YOU AND I'M SO SORRY ABOUT OUR LOST. RYAN WAS A GREAT FRIEND AND A GOOD PERSON.I LOVE YOU.
RAPHAEL
Barbara Corkern
January 11, 2006
My Heart goes out to you. i just spent a year of waiting afraid that I would get that call. My son just returned from iraq. Ryan will be in our heart for always and NEVER FORGOTTEN. I will be On Quail Drive Friday in Honor of a Hero. God Bless you and Thank You. And To his brother I send my love and Support.
Billy & Edie Blount
January 11, 2006
Sorry for your loss. Ryan is a hero. We will keep the family in our prayers. God bless you and God bless America.
Billy Blount
U S Army
1969 to 1971
Regina Courtney
January 11, 2006
My heart breaks for you.Although I did not know your son,I know my son who is a naval corpman in Fallujah did and I know from the tone of his letter that all the men and women there are deeply distresed by his loss. My prayers are for you,Ryan's family. Sincerely Regina Courtney
Rene Robinson Armatta
January 10, 2006
Dear Jan and Grant , I’m so sorry I cannot be there with you to cry with you. Your many friends will help you shoulder this heavy burden. I pray that your knowledge of Ryan’s relationship with our Lord and Savior Jesus Christ will create in you a deep sense of peace, knowing that you will definitely see him again. Much,much love,
Our Hero, Ryan McCurdy
January 10, 2006
Marie Shirah
January 10, 2006
Hi....my name is Marie Shirah. I attended Christian Life when Ryan went there. Though we weren't that close, one thing I knew was that he wanted nothing more in this world than to serve for his country. I am sincerly sorry for your loss. I will keep your entire family in my prayers, along with Ryan's brother. God Bless you!
Fred Jones
January 10, 2006
Jan:
I can only imagine what you are going through and hurt with you. May our Lord and Saviour Jesus Christ continue to give you grace and strength.
Vangi & McKaLyne Lunsford
January 10, 2006
Psalm 23
1
The LORD is my shepherd, I shall not be in want.
2
He makes me lie down in green pastures, he leads me beside quiet waters,
3
He restores my soul. He guides me in paths of righteousness for his name's sake.
4
Even though I walk through the valley of the shadow of death, I will fear no evil, for you are with me; your rod and your staff, they comfort me.
5
You prepare a table before me in the presence of my enemies. You anoint my head with oil; my cup overflows.
6
Surely goodness and love will follow me all the days of my life, and I will dwell in the house of the LORD forever.
This is a verse that I have found to be comforting to me during my husbands death. Remember that when it seems that no one else is round, God is still there with you! And he will be your rock!
My daughter,McKaLyne, and I send our heartfelt sympathy for your loss! God Bless this warrior, God Bless those whom serve freedom's cause! They are our true HERO's!!!!
If you need anything, please feel free to contact me!!!
Wife & Daughter of the Late
Sgt. Audrey Daron Lunsford
KIA May 23, 2005
Pamela Okker-Rice
January 10, 2006
With loving memory for one of my "sons". My thoughts and prayers are with Ryan's family and friends in this trying time. I am so proud of all my Marines.
Proud Marine Mom of
Lcpl Aaron J. Mammarelli stationed at Camp Lejeune, NC preparing to return to Iraq this year.
Lynda Hinton
January 10, 2006
Jan, I can't think of anything worse than losing a child...I have seen you on the television news, and you look so strong...but I know you must be hurting like crazy. Love you...Lynda
Susan Buquoi
January 10, 2006
Jan,
There are no words that one can say at this time but my prayers, thoughts and love go out to you and your family. Memories of Ryan will light the way that so many of his friends and family will follow and for that you have much to be proud of. I didn't know Ryan personally but I do know that he is a Hero for standing up for what he believed in and giving his life for his fellow man. May you be strenghtened with God's love and peace that surpasses all understanding. Love, Susan
Laura Burton Kaufman
January 10, 2006
Jan,
I am sorry to hear about your loss. May God comfort you now and always.
Laura
(former CLA family)
Pam Adams
January 10, 2006
Lance Cpl. Ryan S. McCurdy - another fallen HERO. Having just lost our son to this war, I know there are no words to say that will ease your pain. Just know you are in my heart, thoughts and prayers and may God grant you peace and strength to get through this. These young men and women are giving their lives so selflessly may they rest in peace. They will NOT be forgotten.
Pam Adams (SFC Brent Adams KIA 12/1/05)
Yolanda Valdez
January 10, 2006
Another Fallen Hero -- I understand what you are experiencing and feeling. My deepest condolences, sympathy and prayers go out to your entire family.
Ryan - My family and I are thankful for the Service, Courage, Bravery and Determinination to fight for our country, (our freedom) from you, my son and all the others in our armed forces. You all will not be forgotten. Thank you. May you rest in peace!
Yesterday, Today, Forever – Semper Fi - Marines!
Very Proud Marine Mom
(LCpl. Nicholas S. Perez – KIA 9-3-04 – Al Anbar Province, Iraq)
Ronda and Matt Martello
January 9, 2006
Wow, Jan, this is one huge needle topping the haystack of all your family has gone through. I can't imagine the pain of losing a child. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. We love you.
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