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for Bobby Mendez
Donna Dixon
May 28, 2021
Bobby and I served together. I met him in ANCOC in 2000 and again in Tikrit Iraq 2003. We were in the last chalk to come home from Kuwait in 2004. Good NCO, great person, always with a smile and took great care of troops. RIP. CW3 Phelps- NKA Donna Dixon
Michael T Newcomb
August 8, 2020
Just thinking of you, RIP
W P
September 10, 2017
One of the best men that I have ever known.top Soldier - proven time and again in word and deed. A man we all looked up to and to this day in 2017 all measure ourself against - I was the commander when we lost this great man and I will live with his loss for al of my life. My heart is with his family - his kids would make him proud --- what a great man, great example and great Soldier!
Jose Ramirez
April 17, 2015
Then SGT. Mendez and I served together in A Co, 302 MI in Heidelberg Germany in the mid 90s. He was a great NCO and friend.
April 21, 2012
Im Melanie Mendez, bobbie was my cousin; we grew up in brooklyn, those are the memories I have of bobbie. My heart goes out to his Wife & Kids.
Peggy Childers
April 27, 2011
To the family and friends of 1st Sgt. Bobby Mendez:
Please accept my remembrance of Bobby on the anniversary of his passing and know that he will never be forgotten.
Peggy Childers
www.IraqWarHeroes.org
L Neal
April 7, 2011
To the family of 1st Sgt. Bobby Mendez:
Please know that just as your loved one remains in your hearts and minds; his sacrifice, and that of your family, remains with the people he died defending. Words cannot express the gratitude we feel for his bravery and selflessness, or the heartache we feel for your loss. God bless and keep you always.
Chris Bryan
December 31, 2010
I won't ever forget Bobby Mendez. We were in Korea together, and then when he was assigned to Fort Hood he stayed with my family until he got settled. He was like a brother to me. I miss him.
Michael Newcomb
May 31, 2010
Thinking of Bobby and his family. RIP. We remember!!
Carla Bruce
May 28, 2010
I will never forget Bobby Mendez. He was a friend and mentor to both my husband and I. I had the pleasure and honor of serving with him in Iraq in 2003-2004. After we redeployed, he kept in contact with me and was always willing to give sound and thoughtful advice. He told me that I was a good NCO and that he believed I could be better and run my own unit one day. He wanted the best for all his Soldiers and any one he met. He always made time to listen and help if needed. He was funny as all get out too...lol. I remember we were playing spades in Iraq one night and a mouse ran past our make-shift table. I jumped up onto a chair because I hate mice and I had never seen Bobby run so fast before. He was out of the room in no time. When he peaked his head back into the room, I asked him if he was afraid of mice and he said that he didn't even see it. He just saw me jump and the other players ran, so he ran. He always made me laugh. I smile just at the memory of what a great man, NCO, and friend he was. To his family and friends, I hope you take extra time to remember Bobby this Memorial Day. Bobby, you could never be forgotten. I cherish the memories of a HERO that paid the ultimate sacrifice. You are missed.
Peggy Childers
April 28, 2010
To the family and friends of 1st Sgt. Bobby Mendez:
Remembering Bobby on the anniversary of his passing. May our fallen heroes never be forgotten!
Peggy Childers
"Don't Let The Memory Of Them Drift Away"
www.IraqWarHeroes.org
Chad Robbins
October 12, 2009
Some of my favorite memories of Iraq- if there were any- were of 1SG Mendez hanging out with us. Our platoon did SIGINT collection missions 24/7 and he always found time to come in and spend time with his soldiers. It was often just small talk but he made us laugh and relax a bit in a place where it was hard to do. I still think about him often. He was truly the best 1SG I had the priveledge of serving with.
DJ and Amy Baars
May 25, 2009
We are keeping you in our prayers and thoughts this Memorial Day and everyday!
Chevontae Gibson
April 30, 2009
u were the best 1sg that i had the pleasure of serving with. When times were tough for me u would always tell me 2 smile. Thank you for your courage and ur sacrifice. Thank you for everything 1sgt. We miss u deeply.
Peggy Childers
April 27, 2009
To the family of 1st Sgt. Bobby Mendez:
Bobby gave the ultimate sacrifice and will be held in the hearts of Americans forever. I cannot and will not let our fallen heroes be forgotten. My deepest sympathy to you. "Some gave all."
Peggy Childers
"Don't Let The Memory Of Them Drift Away"
www.IraqWarHeroes.org
Kenna Larra
April 20, 2009
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Sincerely,
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charlie gili
February 8, 2009
Hello,
We honor the sacrifice made by 1st Sgt. Bobby Mendez. Our family has a gift for his children. Please do contact us. God bless you and may the Mendez family be granted peace and wonderful memories of their 1st Sergeant.
Sincerely,
Charlie Gili & Family (Brooklyn, NY)
On Behalf of NYS Hockey Players Support Our Troops!
RFM
December 15, 2008
God Bless fellow Brooklynite -- thank you for your sacrifice and our freedom...
May 28, 2008
You are remembered and respected. Thank you 1st Sgt Mendez!
In Memory of Bobby ( Debra Estep )
April 27, 2008
Holding you all in my thoughts and prayers today.
The Wind on The Downs
“I like to think of you as brown and tall,
As strong and living as you used to be,
In khaki tunic, Sam Brown belt and all,
And standing there and laughing down at me.
Because they tell me, dear, that you are dead,
Because I can no longer see your face,
You have not died, it is not true, instead
You seek adventure in some other place.
That you are round about me, I believe;
I hear you laughing as you used to do,
Yet loving all the things I think of you;
And knowing you are happy, should I grieve?
You follow and are watchful where I go.”
(Written by Marian Allen during World War l )
Two lines that I wish you to keep near your heart…….
“You seek adventure in some other place.
That you are round about me, I believe”
I did not know Bobby, but I am remembering on
this day he gave his all.
He is my hero.
~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~
The Other Side
i'm over on the other side
where life and death softly divide.
left my skin and bones behind
now i'm over on the other side.
can you feel me there with you?
my breath is gone but i'm not through.
loved you then and i still do
from over on the other side.
i can fly. really fly.
below the earth ... all through the sky.
tell em all i did not die.
i'm just over on the other side.
it's good here on the other side.
the sweetest songs...the bluest skies.
thank you for the tears you cried
but it's good here on the other side.
i can fly. really fly. below the earth...all through the sky.
tell em all i did not die.
i'm just over on the other side
the world is smaller than a needle's eye.
where life and death softly divide.
when you leave your skin and bones behind
i'll be waiting on the other side.
i can fly. really fly. below the earth ... all through the sky.
go tell em all i did not die.
i'm just over on the other side.
Song lyrics by Don Conoscenti
C Desert Muse/SESAC
www.donconoscenti.com
(Used with permission)
Sincerely,
Deb Estep ~ Ohio
Proud Air Force Mom and MIL
Remembering The Fallen – Blog
http://tinyurl.com/3z8p55
The Other Side
http://tinyurl.com/3o8gol
April 14, 2008
Bobby is not forgotten. He is missed, may he rest in peace.
Michael Newcomb
December 20, 2007
"Rob" was a true hero! He was a leader among men. I served with him in Iraq. I saw his strength, will, and character that led his solders to be the best. He was the glue of his unit, and an example for all to respect and emulate. In combat you see the real character of a person. While I spoke to him nearly daily during the six months we worked together at FOB Kalsu, he left a lasting impression on me that I will never forget. I am proud to have known him even for such a brief time. I wish his family, especially his children all the best in this world. Losing a father, husband, or son is tramatic. I shall miss him. If I can ever help please let me know.
Esther Kabalkin
September 23, 2007
To the family and friends,
I am so so very sorry for you loss. There are no words to express how hard this must be. I wanted to let you know about a memorial I am working on to honor the soldiers from the New York City Area. I am creating a quilt with a panel for each fallen soldier. I am trying to contact the families to invite them to create their loved one's panel. If you are interested please contact me at [email protected]
August 7, 2007
I don't pretend to know what to say or do that would bring you peace in your time of sorrow, but I will offer my heart felt condolences. I also offer you my prayers that in time the pain will easy and the memories of your HERO will carry you through each day and night. I want to thank your HERO, for his/her selfless act of becoming a member of the armed forces, his/her willingness to defend the United States of America, all that we hold sacred and for the sacrifice that will forever be etched in the memories of all those who knew him/her. Though tears can never bring him/her back, we hope that our tears express our gratitude for the sacrifice that he/she made and our sorrow at his/her passing. I believe for every fallen HERO there is a star shining brightly up above to remind us of the precious gift we were given.
Your mission on earth is complete and you are now a member of GOD’s Heavenly armed forces. Stand down brave warrior and take your rightful place in Heaven with all the HEROES who have passed before.
I made a special promise to LE RON A. WILSON (KIA on 07/06/07) on the day he was laid to rest as I touched his coffin, that I would never forget him nor would I forget those that gave their lives for our country before him, with him and after him and so when I came across www.legacy.com, I thought what a great way to keep my promise to Le Ron, so I will continue to leave tributes in each guest book until the day there is no longer the need to leave these tributes to a FALLEN HERO.
REST IN PEACE, HERO, YOU WILL NEVER BE FORGOTTEN!!
PROUD MOTHER OF A U.S. SOLDIER
Althea Barrett(Queens, NY)
July 27, 2007
Thank you for the sacrifice made by 1st Sgt Mendez and the sacrifice made by everyone who loves and misses him! May God bless all of you!!
David Burroughs
July 27, 2007
I Had the honor of being in the same batallion as first sergent mendez. even though i was not one of his soldiers he had inspired the loyalty of more troops that he could have ever realized. had i been in his company i would have been willing to follow him to the gates of hell.first sergent you may be lost but NEVER forgotten. FIRST IN , LONESTARS.
LaNita Herlem
July 9, 2007
To 1SGT Bobby Mendez:
I will never have the honor of meeting you, but I feel as if I know you. You were killed the day before my husband and his gunner, SFC Bryant A. Herlem and SGT Jose Gomez. When I was told of their deaths, I knew in my heart that they would always be linked together, but I did not know that you would be a part of that link. At memorials and on lists, your name stands beside my husband's. On the Central Texas Fallen Soldiers Memorial, the soldiers names are listed alphabetically, rather than chronologically. I found my husband's name but yours was not there as it always was before. I had to search and find yours too. It just did not seem right for you not to be there.
No, I do not know you personally and I never will, but I will always look for you. And I will always remember.
Alicia Cruz
April 28, 2007
May the love of friends and family carry you through your grief.My heart & prayers go out to Gladys, Ivette and his wife and children. Bobby was one of those exceptional people. Growing up with Bobby in Brooklyn, was a part of my life that I will always cherish. He is flyng with the angels God Bless him.
Garnet Jenkins
April 26, 2007
A Multitude of Thanks, to this Brave Soldier, 1st Sgt. Bobby Mendez, who gave his life for our Country and for Freedom. Thank you for your Courage, and your unselfish Dedication and Service.
Rest In Peace Bobby, in God's Loving Care and may the Peace of God continue to be with the Mendez family.
Those who Made the Ultimate Sacrifice, So Many and So Young, shall Never Be Forgotten, my brother among them. Killed in action in Vietnam in 1967.
Treasure this hero Lord, in Your Garden of Rest,
for while here on earth, he was one of our best.
I am sincerely hoping that you continue to feel the thoughts of caring and support that surround you each day, as this Country remembers someone very precious to you, who is a Hero to all of us.
I am so deeply sorry for your loss.
Sami Shepherd
April 13, 2007
I remember I was new to Fort Hood getting switched to yet another company. Then I found out 1st Sgt Mendez would be my 1st Sgt. I had met him previously from ACE 104 MI BN. I needed to go to court in San Antonio on the first day I was supposed to in-process into Bravo 104 MI BN. He said take care of what you have to and don't even worry about it Shepherd. He then again helped me out in Iraq when I felt no one would. Again he said to me, don't worry I got everything handled. That was the last thing he said to me. He has always been there for his soldiers, worked with us, guided us, and became our friend and role model. Thank you 1sg Mendez.
Michael "Tha Golden Child" Castro
December 1, 2006
I remember the first day I met Bobby, he was an E-7 and new to the 104th MI BN. I was the MITT NCOIC at the time, and he was coming in to replace the ACE NCOIC. He was a genuine NCO and friend, never letting you settle for less than your worth. I was deployed with him into Iraq, and man did we have some fun times in midst of all the bad. I remember getting thrown from a moving Humvee in Tikrit, I was hurt, and confused, and he was there when I regained conscienceness. I'll never forget how much he made fun of me for that. We used to sit in front of Saddam's blown up palaces, puffin on a newport talkin about anything that could take our mind off of being there. Mostly we talked about his children, his wife, and music. He loved his children very much, and you could hear it in his voice. I will remember Bobby Mendez, not because he is no longer with us, but because he is a Hero and a great friend. The world truly suffer a great loss.
My thoughts and prayers go out to the entire Mendez Family.
Daphne, Casey, & Miriam Mendez
October 31, 2006
Bobby,
You will forever be in our hearts and memories as the loving individual you were. We love you so much and miss you dearly, but we are sure you are in a better place. You proudly died for our country, and for that we shall all be grateful. Although we miss you so, we know that you are living through you're beautiful children Thyiena, Quentin, and Chayanne. They will carry on you're legacy in everything they chose to do. Uncle Bobby, you are lost, but most definately never forgotten. We LOVE you so much and will MISS you FOREVER. May you rest in peace.
grateful
September 22, 2006
Remembering Bobby- may he rest in peace.
Christopher Bray
June 26, 2006
My name is Christopher Bray I did not know your son,but I'm serving currently in Iraq w/ 4th ID 2bct and still have four months left. I'm with 1-10 cav. and serve as a cavalry scout. It takes a while for me to get newspapers out here and my mother sent me the paper (Bellville Times) and he really seemed like not only a great leader, but a great rounded person and I send my condolences. I stand behind all my fellow NCO's and even though I did not know him personally, there is no doubt I would have had great pleasure in working w/ him. I myself have lost people over here as well it hurts, but knowing your over here protecting and defending freedom for loved ones is a gift in itself. Im form Ft.Hood ,Tx as well and reside out of N.J with both of my parents from Belleville. Again I send my condolences god bless you all.
Renee Sigler
June 25, 2006
To the family of 1SG Mendez, my thoughts and prayers are with you. I served with Bobby in Iraq during OIF1 (April 2003-March 2004), and I feel honored to have had such a leader in my chain of command. He was fun to be around, and he would always make us laugh, even in the worst of times. Many of my memories of Bobby are of him and SFC Ed Tower, and they never failed to make all of us laugh. The funniest memory I have of Bobby is when we were all sitting around at work, and SPC Aguilera didn't understand a certain slang word, and nobody had the guts to tell him what it meant. We told Bobby to explain it to him, and when he did, he said it so matter-of-factly that I started choking on my drink and it came shooting out my nose. He was one of the funniest people I ever knew, but he was also one of the greatest leaders I ever had in the Army. He never made us feel like we weren't important if we weren't high up in the ranks, and he was always willing to help us if we had problems. Bobby Mendez will never be forgotten, and will forever be a personal hero to me. To his family, God Bless you and take comfort in knowing that you will all be reunited again one day.
Thomas Ramsey
June 16, 2006
I knew Bobby. When he first arrived at 104th MI at FT. Hood TX we clicked right away. I always thought that the two coolest Guys I knew were Bobby Mendez and Ed Tower. Even Though I was a Spc and Later a SGT they never made me feel like I was a lower enlisted Joe. I depoloyed with both Bobby and Ed to Iraq in 2003 and given enough space here I would like to relate one of the many stories Ed, Bobby and I shared. I had just thrown Ed Tower into the lake next to the Place where we were all living at that time, and as I was walking back, I saw Bobby laughing so I went and picked him up to throw him in the lake as well. I knew that I would pay later but it would be worth it. Bobby told me that if I threw him into the lake when he got out he would be forced to beat me half to death. I asked him why and he said that he could not swim. I grew up in Florida so almost everyone I know can swim. Bobby could not. He then went on to tell me that he had tried out for special forces and that as part of that he would have to swim a pool to the end and back with his boots and uniform on. As Bobby could not swim he walked there and back and completed the exercise in the required time. He said as he pulled himself from the pool that there were two guys from special forces laughing at him. He said that believe it or not they had seen that before but that it was the fastest they had ever seen it done. Then they went on to tell him that he would need to learn how to swim if he was going to become part of S.F. He said that he would. Well needless to say as he still could not swim when we were in Iraq, he never went S.F. I believe if memory serves that he and his wife discussed it and they decided not to. Thats How Bobby was, Unwilling to quit even when the task seemed impossible, and loving enough to let his wife take part in important decisions that some would have done without ever giving their loved ones a choice. He is one of the Models I use of how a man should be, And I will miss him.
Theresa Mendez
June 6, 2006
Jennifer,Thyiena,Quentin and Chyanne:
Bobby was an extraordinary person. People like him truly are few and far between. Talk about him often and celebrate his life. When someone you love becomes a memory, that memory becomes a treasure. Hold on to them and keep them with you always.
You kids are your father's legacy. He lives on each and every day inside you. He is a part of every smile, laugh and tear you shed. He will always be with you and will always be a part of you. I know you all will make him very proud.
I love you all,
Theresa
Thomas & Diana Tillitson (Mother and Father in law)
May 31, 2006
I would like to first start outt by saying thanks to all the people that have taken the time to come and visit our son-in-law's Guest Book. His loss has affected us all and he will never be forgotten. Rob was more then a son-in-law to us, he more like a son. He was always ther for us when he was needed. He was a good father and a husband. As parents we could not have asked for a better husband for their daughter.
He died doing what he was good at and that was being a 150% Solider. He was always ther for those under him watching and caring for them. He would not have them do anything that he wouldn't do first. I remember his mother telling me, when we were there for the Memorial Service, that he was going to join the Army and make her proud to have a son like him and he kept his promise to the very end.
Rosie Rivera
May 30, 2006
To the Mendez Family:
I am so sorry for your loss. I grew up next door to Bobby he was one of my deerest friends and I will miss him dearly. I was very fortunate to meet his wonderful wife and his children. Jennifer my heart and love are with you and the kids. To my other MOM Gladys..I miss you very much and I love you. How I wish I could have been there just to hold your hand in your time of sorrow. One of my fondest memories with Bobby was the time a bunch of us went to Battery Park for the fourth of July. Bobby you are my brother at heart and my Angel in spirit. I will keep you in my heart forever. Rosie Castillo-Rivera
Edmund & Jennifer Etimani
May 22, 2006
I met Rob in 1988. I went to high school with his wife, Jennifer. And when I got married, I was glad that my husband and Rob got along so well. Rob was a very unique person. So funny, crazy smart and a lot of fun to be around. He told a story like no one I know. I just can't beleive hs's gone. The one thing that keeps going through my mind is how much more life he had to live. Rob was capable of a great many things. There is no telling what he could have become after his military career. It breaks my heart to think of all the memories he will not make with his children; all their accomplishments that he will not witness firsthand. It is a great loss and I will miss him terribly.
Jennifer Mendez
May 22, 2006
I would like to thank everyone for the stories and comments left. We just got back from Fort Hood where they had a memorial service for 17 soldiers that died within 3 weeks. It was our final good bye.
I have 3 wonderful children that Bobby lives on in. Quentin looks exactly like his daddy. Quentin has a tough road ahead of him, Bobby died on his birthday April 27th.
We would love to hear more stories about Bobby.
There is no tomorrow, live for today. Tell your loved ones that you love them, you might not have the chance tomorrow...LIVE, LAUGH AND LOVE
Jennifer, Thyiena, Quentin and Chyanne Mendez
Derik Gendron
May 18, 2006
My thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. I served with 1SG Bobby Mendez in Iraq (2003-2004), and I will never forget what he taught me while I was over there. I will never forget such a great NCO, and such a great friend.
Dave Nixon
May 18, 2006
Steve & Theresa,
I hope the extra money I was able to raise made your trip a little easier, especially under the circumstance. Although I did not have the privilege of meeting Bobby, I admire what he did with his life for all of us.
With deep sympathy,
Anita and Bernadette Miles
May 18, 2006
To all the family and loved ones of Bobby Mendez: Though words can never soothe the pain you feel over this loss, please know that Bobby has not died in vain. He has laid down his life to keep us all free. His courage and spirit is an inspiration to our family and a reminder how precious liberty truly is. Please know that we will always remember Bobby and all his loved ones in our daily family rosary. May Our Lady, Queen of the Holy Rosary hold you close to Her heart and intercede with Her Son to comfort, strengthen and richly bless all of you.
Anthony Sisto
May 16, 2006
Anyone who is willing to fight and die for this country deserves nothing but respect. Bobby Mendez was truly a hero for being one of the many brave men and women who are out there defending ALL OF US in this country. To the entire Mendez family, I would like to extend my deepest sympathies for your loss, and you all should take comfort in the fact that Bobby Mendez has taken his rightful place in heaven.
Ludella Weeks
May 16, 2006
My heart goes out to you at this time and in the days ahead.
Debbie Nelson
May 15, 2006
Hello my name is Debbie Nelson,i didnt know your son, but im touched by what has happened.I am a army wife,my husband is a 3rd ID soldier he got back from fighting the war for a second time on Dec 31 of this year ,and everynight and day i would pray that he would come back to me and our two children,but for you to get that knock on the door,just upsets me I could never imagin dealing with that and im truly sorry,My thoughts and prayers are with you,may god bless you through these hard times...bye bye
Israel Vazquez Jr
May 12, 2006
Bobby your courage and devotion has always been a plus in your life I am proud of the decsion you have made to serve your country because of you I am able to live and partake in the crazy enviorment your a true soldier an you will always live in my heart I say at this time we shall meet again Tino however the world you leave behind is truly at war your world Bobby is now the reality world we are all wondering and wanting to live, the lord be with you.
Anthony E. Hall (USMC-ret)
May 12, 2006
To the Mendez Family,
I knew Bobby from Brooklyn, NY. We were in Junior High School together and went to separate High Schools. I was shocked then saddened when I recignized his name on the list of fallen heroes. I still remeber his smile, energy and spirit. My prayers go out to all of you during this time.
Kelli Shafer
May 10, 2006
I do not personally know Sgt Mendez.But my brother was traveling with him that fatal day. I am sorry for your loss and the family is in my thoughts everyday.
ANGEL VALENTIN
May 9, 2006
MY THOUGHS AND PRAYERS GO OUT TO HIS MOTHER GLADYS HIS SISTER IVETTE AND HIS TWO BROTRHERS, RICHIE AND STEVEN. "TINO" AS WE CALLED HIM WHEN HE WAS SIX,HE WAS A BROTHER TO ME IN MORE WAYS THAN ONE,BECAUSE HE GREW UP IN THE SAME BUILDING AT SOUTH 10TH STREET IN BROOKLYN AND WE WERE ALSO BROTHERS IN ARMS.MY BROTHER MADE THE LAST SACRIFICE, THERE FORE HE WILL ALWAYS BE IN MY HEART AND MY PRAYERS, I'M GOING TO MISS HIM DEARLY. GOODBYE MY BROTHER AND MAY THE LORD KEEP YOU UNDER HIS WINGS.......
Dianne Werner
May 8, 2006
To the Family of 1st Sgt. Bobby Mendez-I am very sorry for your loss. "I will turn their mourning into gladness; I will give them comfort and joy instead of sorrow." declares the Lord. Jeremiah 31:13
A Proud 172 Stryker Mom
Carlos & Anna Gonzalez
May 8, 2006
To the Mendez family, we would like to extend our deepest sympathy on your loss. We recently loss our son Cpl. Carlos M. Gonzalez on March 16 and we understand what you are going through, the grief is overwhelming at times. As the days and weeks pass take comfort in knowing that you are not alone. We share in your grief. Sgt. Bobby Mendez was one of my son's "BROTHER'S" and as such he was also our "SON". Please know we are just an e-mail way if you ever need to talk. Though no one can take away your pain and sorrow please know those we love don’t go away, they walk beside us everyday.
May God bring you peace in your heart as you reflect on all the wonderful memories you hold so close. God Bless you and your family.
(Proud parents of Cpl. Carlos M. Gonzalez, KIA 03/16/06 Tikrit, Iraq)
Ellie Ramirez
May 8, 2006
I did not personally know 1SGT Bobby Mendez nor his family, but he was a hero. I felt compel to at least pay my respects to this fallen hero.
Jennifer may God give you the strength to go over the bumpy roads ahead of you. He may be gone, but certainly not forgotten.
Please accept my deepest condolences and may God grant you peace.
I live in Sierra Vista and if there is anything I can do for you, please do not hesitate to e-mail me.
Elena Mendez
May 8, 2006
TO THE MENDEZ FAMILY,
Although we can not be with you during this time of grief our hearts and thoughts of love are being sent. Memories of gtowing up in Brooklyn are being shared by my brothers and sisters and myself. Thank you to Bobby for representing the Mendez Family in the Armed Forces and letting us feel alittle safer here in the US. Love to his parents, siblings, wife and children.
Love your cousin,
Tony & Elena Mendez & sons
SGT Raymond Rivera Jr.
May 6, 2006
To the family of 1SG Bobby Mendez, my prayers and condolences for your loss. 1SG Mendez was my 1SG for 6 short months prior to me changing stations. He was the greatest Noncommissioned Officer and First Sergeant I have ever met. His dedication to the soldiers that served under his leadership is truly a great loss and will be missed. As a man he was exemplary, an excellent role model. He is definitely one of three men I look up to in my life. I did not have the honor to serve on deployment with him, however, when I return, I will carry all I lerned from him with me. I will pass it on to all those who serve under my leadership, and I pray that his hard work and dedication live on in myself and all those he has touched with his life.
Debbie Sabatini
May 5, 2006
So many mixed emotions during a time like this- our loved ones who have passed are truly heroes in every sense of the word, yet it certainly may not ease the pain. I don't know you Bobby, but thank you for the sacrifice that you have made and may God bless your family in their time of grief. You and so many others have made alot of people very proud!
Phyllis Schuster
May 5, 2006
We did not have the privilege of knowing Bobby Mendez. But we are familiar with the great pain and sacrifice that put his name in this book. For each of us, memory reaches unfailingly to bring our loved one back to us, as if it were only a moment ago. Some day it will be, but meanwhile we struggle along, sometimes bravely, sometimes lost. We lost our son and brother Benjamin Schuster, in Ar Ramadi Iraq, on February 25, 2006. We are on your journey. We care how you feel, and we honor your Bobby and his life, as we do our own fallen warrior. Many, many people care, both those who know where to tell you, and those who don't. Our thoughts and prayers are with you as you live these unliveable days with us.
Anita Zapata
May 4, 2006
To the family of 1st Sgt. Bobby Mendez
My name is Anita Zapata. I have never met Bobby Mendez, but I do know the pain his family is going through. My nephew, Pfc. Chase Edwards, was killed in Al Anbar on April 6, 2006. I am very grateful for the ultimate sacrifce your son made for all of our freedom. May God Bless you and lift your family up during your time of need.
seaside_hiker
May 4, 2006
To the Mendez Family:
My prayers are with you during this difficult time and will be with you in the days to come. Bobby is a national treasure, as are his fellow warriors; and he decorates our history with his personal sacrifices. While I am saddened by his death, I am honored to be a recipient of the safety and promise he helped to provide our country. Knowing that he gave his time, energy, and talent for our country even before his death, I will remember him and value his good name.
I also extend my sympathy to his fellows-in-arms back in Iraq. I am sure that they miss his smile and his antics, and that they feel his absence sharply .
Seaside_hiker, USA
Fellow AnySoldier Family Member
anna Makin
May 4, 2006
To The Mendez Family,
I am so sorry for your lose , my Prays are with you , hold on to the memories of your angel , may god help us all threw our sorrow i too Have lost a love one Jose Gomez, God Bless you all for what you done for this country
Henryk Zaleski (USN-Ret)
May 4, 2006
Rest in peace at your last post in paradise.
Clyde Bowden & family
May 3, 2006
The loss of someone so close is difficult to bear. We share your grief.
J.P. Lawson & family
May 3, 2006
We were so sorry to hear of your loss. The thoughts of many are with you at this time of sorrow.
Phyllis Bowden
May 3, 2006
My thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.
Veronica Roberts
May 3, 2006
This story shall the good man tell his son! We will not forget your sacrifice Bobby. We will pray for your loved ones.
The Family of FF Michael Edward Roberts, Eng 214, WTC 9/11/2001
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ROBYN GARSIDE
May 3, 2006
MAY GOD BLESS YOU AND YOURS. PLEASE ACCEPT MY DEEPEST SYMPATHIES FOR YOUR GREAT LOSS. KNOW THAT THERE ARE PEOPLE OUT HERE WHO DO CARE AND YOUR HERO WILL NEVER BE FORGOTTEN. THERE JUST AREN'T ENOUGH WORDS HERE ON EARTH TO EASE YOUR PAIN I KNOW. HOLD TIGHT TO YOUR TREASURED MEMORIES THAT HIS SPECIAL SMILE MAY CONTINUE TO SHINE. I PRAY THAT PEACE WILL FIND YOU ALL SOMEDAY. GODSPEED. SEMPER FI
MARINE MOM
Pat Canfall
May 3, 2006
My condolences to the Mendez family.
Bobby may you rest in peace. Thank you for making the ultimate sacrifice in the name of freedom. You have earned your golden halo and wings. May you continue to soar in the heavenly clouds up above.
Margie Lawrence
May 3, 2006
To the Mendez family:
I offer my deepest sympathy and prayers in your time of loss.
Let your memories of the good times help carry you through the sad days ahead.
Jennifer, you and the kids are in my thoughts and prayers. I hope you are comforted by knowing there are so many who appreciate Rob's commitment to his country.
May 3, 2006
To the Family of 1st Sgt. Bobby Mendez:
My heart breaks again as I sign yet another guest book of another courgeous young soldier who gave their life so selflessly. I wish I never found myself in a position to have to sign another guestbook for the rest of my life. We lost a son 12/1/05.
I know first hand there are no words right now that will bring you the comfort and peace you need. Just know that you are not alone. My heart, thoughts, and prayers are with you all as you mourn this loss. We don't know each other, will probably never meet, but will forever be united in the loss of our Heroes. We have, unfortunately joined a group none of us wanted to join, an ever-growing group of families in this situation. May God grant you peace and strength to get through this and be able once again to smile at a memory rather than have only the tears that flow so easily now. To be so proud of your loved one and so saddened at the same time is a mix of emotions very difficult to deal with. I am sorry that I never knew your soldier personally, but none of these courageous men and women will be forgotten. They will never be able to be replaced, but sometime, someday your loving memories will help to sustain you. This courageous soldier will forever now be your Angel watching over you all for the rest of your lives. It's what brings me some measure of peace and comfort and I hope it will you as well. To his family and friends in pain, I offer this comfort. When you find yourself in that dark sorrowful place, think not only of how you will miss him, but instead recall the years, days, hours and minutes gifted to you by his presence. If you ever want to talk, I'm only an e:mail away and would love for you to tell me more about your Hero. God Bless this courageous soldier and family.
Pam Adams (SFC Brent Adams, KIA 12/1/05 Ramadi, Iraq)
[email protected]
(Millersville, PA )
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