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Curtis Mehrer Obituary
Cpl. Curtis Robert Mehrer, 21, Bismarck, was killed in action in eastern Afghanistan, June 6, 2006. He was conducting combat security operations when a roadside explosion destroyed his vehicle. Services will be held at 1 p.m. Thursday, June 15, at Zion Lutheran Church, Bismarck, with the Rev. Thomas R. Marcis Jr. officiating. Burial will be in the North Dakota Veterans Cemetery, Mandan.
Visitation will be held from 2 to 8 p.m. Wednesday at Bismarck Funeral Home, where a prayer service will be held at 6 p.m. Visitation will continue one hour prior to the service at the church.
Curtis was born Feb. 6, 1985, in Bismarck, the son of Kevin and Joyce (Palenberg) Mehrer. He was raised and educated in Bismarck. He graduated from Bismarck High School in 2003. On Nov. 20, 2003, he enlisted into the North Dakota Army National Guard as a private into E Battery of the First of the 188th Air Defense Artillery Battalion as a Man-Portable Air Defense System Crew member. From March 24, 2004 to July 16, 2004, he completed training at Fort Bliss, Texas. On June 18, 2005, he finished the Avenger Crew Member Course. He became a specialist (E4) on Oct. 1, 2005.
On Dec. 1, 2005, he was mobilized to deploy with the 1-188th Air Defense Artillery N.D. Army National Guard, Grand Forks, in support of Operation Enduring Freedom. He went to Fort Lewis, Wash., to prepare for overseas deployment. He arrived in Afghanistan on March 22, 2006. He was promoted to the rank of corporal on June 6, 2006. His goal when returning home was to become a helicopter pilot. He was planning on becoming engaged to Crystal Schmidt in October. Before deployment, he was employed by S&B Landscaping. Curtis loved life. He was fearless and lived for the moment.
He believed in what he was fighting for, "freedom," free from terrorism.
He is survived by his parents; twin brother, Alan, his fiancee, Amber Will and daughter, Hailee McCormick; his grandfather, CW4 Robert Mehrer, Bismarck; his grandmother, Alice (Schaner) Palenberg, Bismarck; his great-grandmothers, Alpha Mehrer and Ella Bickel, both of Bismarck; and many aunts, uncles, cousins and friends.
He was preceded in death by his grandfather, Cpl. Donald Palenberg; and grandmother, Alice (Bickel) Mehrer.
He will be greatly missed.
In lieu of flowers, memorials preferred to the Curtis Mehrer Memorial Fund. Donations can be made at any of the Capitol Credit Union locations in Bismarck. The memorials will be used towards helping military families.
To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.
Memories and Condolences
for Curtis Mehrer
Charlie Gili
November 11, 2014
Hello,
We would like to express our deepest condolences and to also let the Mehrer Family know that we recently sent Care Packages to American troops in the war zones. Each box carried a dedication sheet that includes the name, service information and a photo of your loved one, Curtis R. Mehrer US Army Specialist. We recognize that this is a humble tribute, but we wanted you to know that it is heartfelt and made possible by thousands of like-minded individuals in the youth hockey community and beyond. We will not forget. May God Bless you and keep you strong.
Sincerely,
Charlie Gili & Family
On Behalf of the US Hockey Players Support Our Troops Campaign
Leila Campbell
May 1, 2013
To the family of Spc. Curtis Mehrer:
The Fort Snelling Memorial Chapel Foundation will be honoring your loved one at the non-denominational Christian Memorial Day Remembrance worship service at 11:00 a.m. on Sunday, 26 May 2013. We will remember the casualties of the Global War on Terrorism from Minnesota … and the bordering states of Iowa, North Dakota, South Dakota and Wisconsin. Outside of the historic Fort Snelling Veterans Memorial Chapel will be a “Memorial Garden” filled with some 300 white crosses bearing the names of the war dead … including your loved one.
The Memorial Garden will be encircled with larger white crosses representing all of the wars of our nation's history and give honor to all who have served in the United States Armed Forces and made the ultimate sacrifice for the freedoms we enjoy today. Wreaths will be placed at the foot of each 8-foot cross bearing the number of U.S. Service Members killed in each of America's conflicts.
I would like to extend to your family an invitation to honor us with your presence at worship as we pay tribute to the sacrifice made by your service member and family. Our pastor, Kenneth L. Beale, Jr., will preach a message entitled, “Freedom:Free, but Costly.” At the conclusion of the worship hour, all of the congregation will be invited to silently pay their respects at the garden and there place poppies at each of the crosses. A Memorial Rifle Squad of the Fort Snelling National Cemetery will fire vollies as the US flag is lowered to half-staff and Taps is played. Following your visit to the Memorial Garden, your family is invited to attend an informal reception (weather permitting) outside of the Chapel. The Memorial Garden will remain until 5:00 p.m. on Monday, 27 May (Memorial Day).
As this Christian worship service has traditionally been well attended, we would be happy to reserve seating for you and yours. To do so, kindly call (651/286-7296) and leave a voice message indicating your veterans' name and the number of persons attending. For more information about the Foundation or driving directions to the historic chapel at Fort Snelling, visit our website at: www.fortsnellingmcf.org Special rates for nearby hotels will be available. For more information call (651/286-7296) or email the office ([email protected]) and leave your name and contact information.
Also, beginning at dusk (8:30 p.m.) on Saturday 25 May through dawn (6:30 a.m.) on Sunday, 26 May, a “Prayer Vigil for Peace” will be held in the sanctuary of the Chapel. You are invited to stop by, light a candle and place it at the foot of your loved one's cross in the Memorial Garden … and then enter the Chapel for prayer.
If you are not able to attend, we pray that you would find comfort in knowing that our prayers are with you and all of the fallen heroes.
Respectfully,
Leila Campbell
Office Manager
Fort Snelling Memorial Chapel Foundation
email:[email protected]
web site:www.fortsnellingmcf.org
Peggy Childers
June 6, 2012
To the family and friends of Spc. Curtis Mehrer:
Always remembering Curtis. "Some gave all."
May 2, 2012
To the family of Spc. Curtis Mehrer:
The Fort Snelling Memorial Chapel Foundation will be honoring your loved one at the non-denominational Christian Memorial Day Remembrance worship service at 11:00 a.m. on Sunday 27 May 2012. We will remember the casualties of the Global War on Terrorism from Minnesota … and the bordering states of Iowa, North Dakota, South Dakota and Wisconsin. Outside of the historic Fort Snelling Veterans Memorial Chapel will be a “Memorial Garden” filled with some 300 white crosses bearing the names of the war dead … including your loved one.
The Memorial Garden will be encircled with larger white crosses representing all of the wars of our nation's history and give honor to all who have served the United States and made the ultimate sacrifice for the freedoms we enjoy today. Wreaths will be placed at the foot of each cross bearing the number of U.S. Service Members killed in each of America's conflicts.
I would like to extend to your family an invitation to honor us with your presence at worship as we pay tribute to the sacrifice made by your service member and family. Our pastor, U.S. Army Chaplain Col. Kenneth L. Beale, Jr., will preach a message entitled, “Lest We Forget Freedom's Cost.” At the conclusion of the worship hour, all of the congregation will be invited to silently pay their respects at the garden and place poppies at each of the crosses. A Memorial Rifle Squad of the Fort Snelling National Cemetery will fire vollies as the US flag is lowered to half-staff and Taps is played. Following your visit to the Memorial Garden, your family is invited to attend an informal reception (weather permitting) outside of the Chapel.
As this Christian worship service has traditionally been well attended, we would be happy to reserve seating for you and yours. To do so, kindly call (651/456-4410) and leave a voice message indicating your veterans' name and the number of persons attending. For more information about the Foundation or driving directions to the historic chapel at Fort Snelling, visit our website at: www.fortsnellingmcf.org Special rates for nearby hotels will be available. For more information call (651/456-4410) or email ([email protected]) the office, and leave your name and contact information.
Also, beginning at dusk (8:30 p.m.) on Saturday 26 May through dawn (6:30 a.m.) on Sunday 27 May, a “Prayer Vigil for Peace” will be held in the sanctuary of the Chapel. You are invited to stop by, light a candle and place it at the foot of your loved one's cross in the Memorial Garden … and then enter the Chapel for prayer.
If you are not able to attend, we pray that you would find comfort in knowing that our prayers are with you and all of the fallen heroes.
Respectfully,
Leila Campbell
Office Manager
Fort Snelling Memorial Chapel Foundation
email:[email protected]
web site:www.fortsnellingmcf.org
Peggy Childers
June 6, 2011
To the family and friends of Spc. Curtis Mehrer:
Please accept my remembrance of Curtis on the anniversary of his passing and know that he will never be forgotten.
May 2, 2011
To the family of Spc Curtis Mehrer:
The Fort Snelling Memorial Chapel Foundation will be honoring your loved one at the non-denominational Memorial Day Sunday worship service at 11:00 a.m. on 29 May 2011. We will remember the casualties of the Global War on Terrorism from Minnesota … and the neighboring states of Iowa, North Dakota, South Dakota and Wisconsin. Outside of the historic Fort Snelling Veterans Memorial Chapel will be a “Memorial Garden” filled with some 200 white crosses bearing the names of the war dead … including your loved one. The Memorial Garden’s perimeter will be manned by members of the Patriot Guard and a honor guard from AMVETS Post #1 of Mendota will be posted at the entrance.
The Memorial Garden will be encircled with larger white crosses representing all of the wars in United States history and give honor to all who have served their country and made the ultimate sacrifice for the freedoms we enjoy today. Wreaths will be placed at the foot of each cross bearing the number of U.S. Service Members killed in each of our nation’s wars.
I would like to extend to your family an invitation to honor us with your presence at worship as we pay tribute to the sacrifice made by your service member and family. Our pastor, U.S. Army Chaplain Col. Kenneth L. Beale, Jr., will preach a message entitled, “A Believer’s Look at War.” At the conclusion of the worship hour, all of the congregation will be invited to silently pay their respects at the garden and place poppies at each of the crosses. A Memorial Rifle Squad of Fort Snelling National Cemetery will fire vollies as the US flag is lowered to half-staff and Taps is played. Following your visit to the memorial garden, your family is invited to attend an informal reception (weather permitting) outside of the Chapel.
As this Christian worship service has traditionally been well attended, we would be happy to reserve seating for you and yours. To do so, kindly call (651/456-4410) and leave a voice message indicating your veterans’ name and the number of persons attending. For more information about the Foundation or driving directions to the historic chapel at Fort Snelling, visit our website at: www.fortsnellingmcf.org Special rates for nearby hotels will be available. For more information call (651/456-4410) or email ([email protected]) the office and leave your name and contact information.
Also, beginning at dusk (8:30 p.m.) on Sat 28 May through dawn (6:30 a.m.) on Sun 29 May, a “Prayer Vigil for Peace” will be held in the sanctuary of the Chapel. You are invited to stop by, light a candle and place it at the foot of your loved one’s cross in the Memorial Garden … and then enter the Chapel for prayer.
If you are not able to attend, we pray that you would find comfort in knowing that our prayers are with you and all of the fallen heroes.
Respectfully,
Leila Campbell
Office Manager
Fort Snelling Memorial Chapel Foundation
email:[email protected]
web site:www.fortsnellingmcf.org
Peggy Childers
June 6, 2010
To the family and friends of Spc. Curtis Mehrer:
Remembering Curtis on the anniversary of his passing. May our fallen heroes never be forgotten!
Peggy Childers
"Don't Let The Memory Of Them Drift Away"
www.IraqWarHeroes.org
April 24, 2010
To the family of Spc. Curtis Mehrer:
The Fort Snelling Memorial Chapel Foundation will be honoring your loved one at the non-denominational Memorial Day Sunday worship service at 11:00 a.m. on 30 May 2010. We will remember the casualties of the Global War on Terrorism from Minnesota … and the neighboring states of Iowa, North Dakota, South Dakota and Wisconsin. Outside of the historic Fort Snelling Veterans Memorial Chapel will be a “Memorial Garden” filled with white crosses bearing the names of the war dead … including your loved one.
The Memorial Garden will be encircled with larger white crosses to represent all of the wars in United States history and give honor to all who have served their country and made the ultimate sacrifice for the freedoms we enjoy today.
I would like to extend to your family an invitation to honor us with your presence at worship as we pay tribute to the sacrifice made by your service member and family. Our pastor, U.S. Army Chaplain Col. Kenneth L. Beale, Jr., will preach a message entitled “A Day of Remembrance.” At the conclusion of the worship hour, all of the congregation will be invited to silently pay their respects at the garden and place poppies at each of the crosses. An honor guard squad will be on hand to fire vollies as the US flag is lowered to half-staff and Taps is played. Following your visit to the memorial garden, your family is invited to attend an informal reception; weather permitting will be outside of the Chapel.
As this Christian worship service has traditionally been well attended, we would be happy to reserve seating for you and yours. To do so, kindly call (612/970-7866) and leave a voice message indicating your veterans’ name and the number of persons attending. For more information about the Foundation or driving directions to the historic chapel at Fort Snelling, visit our website at: www.fortsnellingmcf.org Special rates for nearby hotels will be available. For more information call (612/970-7866) or email ([email protected]) the office and leave your name and contact information.
Also, beginning at dusk (8:30 p.m.) on Sat 29 May through dawn (6:30 a.m.) on Sun 30 May, a “Prayer Vigil for Peace” will be held in the sanctuary of the Chapel. You are invited to stop by, light a candle and place it at the foot of your loved one’s cross in the Memorial Garden … and then enter the Chapel for prayer.
If you are not able to attend, we pray that you would find comfort in knowing that our prayers are with you and all of the fallen heroes.
Respectfully,
Leila Campbell
Office Manager
Fort Snelling Memorial Chapel Foundation
email:[email protected]
web site:www.fortsnellingmcf.org
Peggy Childers
June 6, 2009
To the family of Spc. Curtis Mehrer:
Curtis gave the ultimate sacrifice and will be held in the hearts of Americans forever. I cannot and will not let our fallen heroes be forgotten. My deepest sympathy to you. "Some gave all."
Peggy Childers
"Don't Let The Memory Of Them Drift Away"
www.IraqWarHeroes.org
Leila Campbell
May 1, 2009
To the family of Spc. Curtis Mehrer:
The Fort Snelling Memorial Chapel Foundation will be honoring your loved one at the non-denominational Memorial Day Sunday worship service at 11:00 a.m. on 24 May 2009. We will remember the casualties of the Global War on Terrorism from Minnesota … and the neighboring states of Iowa, North Dakota, South Dakota and Wisconsin. Outside of the historic Fort Snelling Veterans Memorial Chapel will be a “Memorial Garden” filled with white crosses bearing the names of the war dead … including your loved one.
I would like to extend to your family an invitation to honor us with your presence at worship as we pay tribute to the sacrifice made by your service member and family. Our pastor, U.S. Army Chaplain Col. Kenneth L. Beale, Jr., will preach a message entitled “Answering the Highest Call.” At the conclusion of the worship hour, all of the congregation will be invited to silently pay their respects at the garden and place poppies at each of the crosses. An honor guard squad will be on hand to fire vollies as the US flag is lowered to half-staff and Taps is played. Following your visit to the memorial garden, your family is invited to attend an informal reception in the Chapel’s Fellowship Hall.
As this Christian worship service has traditionally been well attended, we would be happy to reserve seating for you and yours. To do so, kindly call (612/970-7866) and leave a voice message indicating your veterans’ name and the number of persons attending. For more information about the Foundation or driving directions to the historic chapel at Fort Snelling, visit our website at: www.fortsnellingmcf.org Special rates for nearby hotels will be available. For more information call (612/970-7866) or email ([email protected]) the office and leave your name and contact information.
Also, beginning at dusk (8:30 p.m.) on Sat 23 May through dawn (6:30 a.m.) on Sun 24 May, a “Prayer Vigil for Peace” will be held in the sanctuary of the Chapel. You are invited to stop by, light a candle and place it at the foot of your loved one’s cross in the Memorial Garden … and then enter the Chapel for prayer.
If you are not able to attend, we pray that you would find comfort in knowing that our prayers are with you and all of the fallen heroes.
Respectfully,
Leila Campbell
Office Manager
Fort Snelling Memorial Chapel Foundation
email:[email protected]
web site:www.fortsnellingmcf.org
Kenna Larra
April 7, 2009
”Honor and Remember” - “Project Compassion” We love our Soldiers! We love our country and we cannot express enough love and compassion to the families of our fallen heroes. War does not discriminate – It breaks our hearts to see the faces of the fallen. We want to give this gift to you. We are a 501c3 nonprofit organization! Over 1,450 portraits have been completed and shipped to the parents and or spouse - at no cost as this is a gift from one American to another!
Contact us directly at [email protected] or go to www.heropaintings.com . If you have already had a portrait completed, we pray that you are enjoying the portrait and God Bless You.
Sincerely,
Kenna
Linda Mehrer
September 7, 2008
I also have a son named Curtis Mehrer and was very surprised to see another. I will pray for you and your loss; I can't imagine the pain I would feel in losing our Curtis. I also wonder about him. What was he like? Did he "fit" his name? kind? considerate? gentle? I hope your memories of him are pleasant and good and I grieve with you in his death.
In Memory of Curtis Robert ~ (Debra Estep)
June 6, 2008
Holding you all in my thoughts and prayers.
The Wind on The Downs
“I like to think of you as brown and tall,
As strong and living as you used to be,
In khaki tunic, Sam Brown belt and all,
And standing there and laughing down at me.
Because they tell me, dear, that you are dead,
Because I can no longer see your face,
You have not died, it is not true, instead
You seek adventure in some other place.
That you are round about me, I believe;
I hear you laughing as you used to do,
Yet loving all the things I think of you;
And knowing you are happy, should I grieve?
You follow and are watchful where I go.”
(Written by Marian Allen during World War l )
Two lines that I wish you to keep near your heart…….
“You seek adventure in some other place.
That you are round about me, I believe”
I did not know Curtis, but I am remembering
his service. He is my hero. !
~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~
The Other Side
i'm over on the other side
where life and death softly divide.
left my skin and bones behind
now i'm over on the other side.
can you feel me there with you?
my breath is gone but i'm not through.
loved you then and i still do
from over on the other side.
i can fly. really fly.
below the earth ... all through the sky.
tell em all i did not die.
i'm just over on the other side.
it's good here on the other side.
the sweetest songs...the bluest skies.
thank you for the tears you cried
but it's good here on the other side.
i can fly. really fly. below the earth...all through the sky.
tell em all i did not die.
i'm just over on the other side
the world is smaller than a needle's eye.
where life and death softly divide.
when you leave your skin and bones behind
i'll be waiting on the other side.
i can fly. really fly. below the earth ... all through the sky.
go tell em all i did not die.
i'm just over on the other side.
Song lyrics by Don Conoscenti
C Desert Muse/SESAC
www.donconoscenti.com
(Used with permission)
“I hope it brings great comfort to any and all.
Peace on you. DonCon” 4-2008
The Other Side –
http://tinyurl.com/3o8gol
Sincerely,
Deb Estep ~ Ohio
Proud Air Force Mom and MIL
Remembering The Fallen – Blog
http://tinyurl.com/3z8p55
Angel and soldier drawing I have shared here.
http://tinyurl.com/6gey8b
May 29, 2008
You are remembered and respected. Thank you Spc Mehrer!
Leila Campbell
April 19, 2008
To the family of Spc. Curtis Mehrer:
The Fort Snelling Memorial Chapel Foundation will be honoring your loved one at the non-denominational Memorial Day Sunday worship service at 11:00 a.m. on 25 May, 2008. We will remember the casualties of the Global War on Terrorism from Minnesota … and the neighboring states of Iowa, North Dakota, South Dakota and Wisconsin. Outside of the historic Fort Snelling Veterans Memorial Chapel will be a “Memorial Garden” filled with white crosses bearing the names of the war dead … including your loved one.
I would like to extend to your family an invitation to honor us with your presence at worship as we pay tribute to the sacrifice made by your service member and family. Our pastor, U.S. Army Chaplain, LTC Kenneth L. Beale, Jr. will preach a message entitled “The Price of Freedom” At the conclusion of the worship hour, all of the congregation will be invited to silently pay their respects at the garden and place poppies at each of the crosses. An honor guard squad will be on hand to fire vollies as the US flag is lowered to half-staff and Taps is played.
As this Christian worship service has traditionally been well attended, we would be happy to reserve seating for you and yours. To do so, kindly call (612/970-7866) and leave a voice message indicating your veterans’ name and the number of persons attending. For more information about the Foundation or driving directions to the historic chapel at Fort Snelling, visit our website at: www.fortsnellingmcf.org
Also, beginning at dusk (8:30 p.m.) on Sat. 24 May through dawn (6:30 a.m.) on Sun. 25 May, a “PrayerVigil for Peace” will be held. You are invited to stop by and light a candle and place it at the foot of your loved one’s cross in the Memorial Garden, then enter the Chapel for prayer.
If you are not able to attend, we pray that you would find comfort in knowing that our prayers are with you and all of the fallen heroes.
Respectfully,
Leila Campbell
Administrative Assistant
Fort Snelling Memorial Chapel Foundation
email:[email protected]
web site:www.fortsnellingmcf.org
August 15, 2007
There is nothing that I can say or do to take away the pain or bring you peace in your time of sorrow, but I will offer you and your family my heart felt condolences. I also offer you my prayers that in time the pain will easy and the memories of your HERO will carry you through each day and night. I want to thank your HERO, for his/her selfless act of becoming a member of the armed forces, his/her willingness to defend the United States of America, all that we hold sacred and for the sacrifice that will forever be etched in the memories of all those who knew him/her. Though tears can never bring him/her back, we hope that our tears express our gratitude for the sacrifice that he/she made and our sorrow at his/her passing. I believe for every fallen HERO there is a star shining brightly up above to remind us of the precious gift we were given.
Your mission on earth is complete and you are now a member of GOD’s Heavenly armed forces. Stand down brave warrior and take your rightful place in Heaven with all the HEROES who have passed before.
I made a special promise to LE RON A. WILSON, a dear family friend who joined the Army with three other friends, one of whom is my son (Le Ron was killed in action on 07/06/07 at the age of 18) on the day he was laid to rest as I touched his coffin, that I would never forget him nor would I forget those that gave their lives for our country before him, with him and after him and so when I came across www.legacy.com, I thought what a great way to keep my promise to Le Ron, so I will continue to leave tributes in each guest book until the day there is no longer the need to leave these tributes to a FALLEN HERO.
REST IN PEACE, HERO, YOU WILL NEVER BE FORGOTTEN!!
PROUD MOTHER OF A U.S. SOLDIER
Currently stationed in Germany
Althea Barrett(Queens, NY)
July 30, 2007
Thank you for the sacrifice made by Spc Mehrer and the sacrifice made by everyone who loves and misses him! May God bless all of you!!
Leila Campbell
May 2, 2007
To the family of Spc. Curtis Mehrer:
The Fort Snelling Memorial Chapel Foundation will be honoring your loved one at the non-denominational Memorial Day Sunday worship service at 11:00 a.m. on 27 May, 2007. We will remember the casualties of the Global War on Terrorism from Minnesota … and the neighboring states of Iowa, North Dakota, South Dakota and Wisconsin. Outside of the historic Fort Snelling Veterans Memorial Chapel will be a “Memorial Garden” filled with white crosses bearing the names of the war dead … including your loved one.
I would like to extend to your family an invitation to honor us with your presence at worship as we pay tribute to the sacrifice made by your service member and family. Our pastor, U.S. Army Chaplain, LTC Kenneth L. Beale, Jr. will preach a message entitled “Remembering” At the conclusion of the worship hour, all of the congregation will be invited to silently pay their respects at the garden and place poppies at each of the crosses. An honor guard squad will be on hand to fire vollies as the US flag is lowered to half-staff and Taps is played.
As this Christian worship service has traditionally been well attended, we would be happy to reserve seating for you and yours. To do so, kindly call (612/970-7866) and leave a voice message indicating your veterans’ name and the number of persons attending. For more information about the Foundation or driving directions to the historic chapel at Fort Snelling, visit our website at: www.fortsnellingmcf.org
If you are not able to attend, we pray that you would find comfort in knowing that our prayers are with you and all of the fallen heroes.
Respectfully,
Leila Campbell
Administrative Assistant
Fort Snelling Memorial Chapel Foundation
email:[email protected]
web site:www.fortsnellingmcf.org
Garnet Jenkins
August 31, 2006
My deepest sympathy to the Mehrer family regarding the recent loss of Cpl. Curtis Mehrer, with a Multitude of Thanks for this Young Hero's Courage, Service and Dedication to our Country and for Freedom.
May Curtis Rest Safely, in God's Mighty Hands and know that he shall NEVER BE FORGOTTEN.
May God's Loving Grace and Comfort continue to be with the Mehrer family.
I am the Sister of such a young hero, who made the Ultimate Sacrifice in Vietnam, many years ago.
Please know that there continues to be, thoughts of caring and support that surround you each day, as this Country mourns with you, for someone very precious to you, who is a Hero to all of us.
You are in my prayers.
Cast thy burden upon the Lord, and He shall sustain thee.
Psalm 55:22
Lane Pietrylo
July 4, 2006
Dear Mehrer Family,
I am sorry to learn of Curtis' death, but I wish to express my gratitude for his efforts in the Army. He began serving America and sacrificing for each one of us long before he was called upon to make the ultimate sacrifice. He is worthy of our honor and continued appreciation.
Thank you for sharing him with us.
From a grateful Floridian,
CW4 Joseph (Charlotte ) Heiser (ret)
June 27, 2006
My Deepest sympathy for your loss.
My tears are with you. Remember he is Honored by his sacrifice for all of us. I met him only shortly, but he was very special. I offered up my prayers and Masses during your time of need. My sons are also serveing. God Bless You.
ROBYN GARSIDE
June 23, 2006
MAY GOD BLESS YOU AND YOURS. PLEASE ACCEPT MY DEEPEST CONDOLENCES FOR YOUR GREAT LOSS. KNOW THAT THERE ARE PEOPLE OUT HERE WHO DO CARE AND YOUR HERO WILL NEVER BE FORGOTTEN. HOLD TIGHT TO YOUR TREASURED MEMORIES THAT HIS SPECIAL SMILE MAY CONTINUE TO SHINE ON FOR YOU. I PRAY THAT PEACE WILL FIND YOU ALL SOMEDAY. GODSPEED AND SEMPER FI.
A PROUD MARINE MOM
Dan Johnson
June 22, 2006
May our Lord Jesus Christ grant you comfort and peace during this incredibly difficult time. Please know that Curtis is watching over you from Heaven for eternity. This brave young man gave the ultimate sacrifice to ensure freedom and liberty, for Americans and for foreigners as well. He will be deeply missed, but never forgotten. Thank you, Curtis, for your service and sacrifice. And thank you, Kevin and Joyce, for the honor of being invited to pay respects to a true American hero.
Lee Sirotnak
June 20, 2006
Please accept our heartfelt sympathy for your loss. We will be always grateful the sacrifice that your soldier made. God bless you and your family with comfort and peace. We will not forget.
Family of Spc. Michael Hermanson KIA - Operation Iraq Freedon 05-23-06
June 19, 2006
The loss of someone so close is difficult to bear. We share your grief.
Tom Gugliuzza-Smith
June 19, 2006
My heartfelt sympathy to the Mehrer family in the loss of Curtis. I did not know Curtis, but my heart is broken and I am saddened for your loss of such a fine young person and hero. May God bring you peace in your heart as you reflect on all the wonderful memories you hold so close. Please know that you are in my heart and prayers. Curtis you are my hero and you will NEVER be forgotten.
I send each of you a hug from the most inner part of my heart.
Love and Peace
Tom
To live in the hearts
of those you leave behind
is never to die"
~Robert Orr~
Megan Moyer
June 18, 2006
I only knew him for a short time before he left. As i met him through the boys of the 188th...he will be greatly missed. We are all so proud to have known him and send our love to your family.
Andrew Kerzmann
June 17, 2006
I've known Curtis, Alan, and their parents since we attended elementary school. I have fond memories of Curtis and pray for his family. He is a true hero and I respect his sacrifice for all of us. I will miss him and hope the rest of our troops will come home safely.
Shelly Leingang
June 17, 2006
May God bless you during this difficult time. I am truely grateful for his ultimate sacrifice he gave to his country. Thank you for the gift of your son.
Sherlyn Meiers
June 16, 2006
May God Bless you and keep you strong through this difficult time. You will remain in my thoughts and prayers.
From another 188th ADA Mom
Proud to be an American
June 16, 2006
Thank you for the gift of your son. He gave the the ultimate sacrifice so the rest of us can continue to live in freedom. Words can not express how grateful I am and how my heart aches for your loss. You will continue to be in my thoughts and prayers.
June 16, 2006
My deepest condolances and prayers go to you for the sacrifice you have been asked to carry. The loss of your son effects our lives too. God bless you.
June 15, 2006
I did not have the pleasure of meeting either Curtis or Travis, but was on the same flight which brought them home. I watched the ceremony from a distance and my heart broke for all of you. My deepest sympathies go out to you at this time.
chris cadotte
June 15, 2006
to the family of curtis-
my thoughts amd prayers are with you. curtis will be missed by all who knew him and he will never be forgotten he was and is a hero from the time i spent with him he was a great guy and a good friend
SFC Jane Walth
June 15, 2006
Our deepest sympathy for the loss of a great hero Curtis, for serving our great ND National Guard and country. We will never forget our fallen family member of military service. SFC Jane & Corey Walth
RaeAnn Boehm
June 15, 2006
with deepest sympathy for the loss of your son. god bless our heroes
Ronda Fetch
June 15, 2006
There are no words I can say to ease your pain and sufferings, but
I would like to express my deepest heartfelt appreciation for all that have served and that have given their lives so I can live mine.
God bless all of you and God bless America.
Mikayla Jablonski
June 15, 2006
My sympathy goes out to the family and friends of Curtis. I know he was a wonderful person and I know he has touched the lives of many people. Be proud of him, as I am. He served his country well and he will never be forgotten. God bless!
June 15, 2006
To the Family of Spc. Curtis Mehrer:
My heart breaks again as I sign yet another guest book of another courgeous young soldier who gave their life so selflessly. I wish I never found myself in a position to have to sign another guestbook for the rest of my life. We lost a son 12/1/05 and it seems like yesterday.
I know first hand there are no words right now that will bring you the comfort and peace you need. Just know that you are not alone. My heart, thoughts, and prayers are with you all as you mourn this loss. We don't know each other, will probably never meet, but will forever be united in the loss of our Heroes. We have, unfortunately joined a group none of us wanted to join, an ever-growing group of families in this situation. May God grant you peace and strength to get through this and be able once again to smile at a memory rather than have only the tears that flow so easily now. To be so proud of your loved one and so saddened at the same time is a mix of emotions very difficult to deal with. I am sorry that I never knew your soldier personally, but none of these courageous men and women will be forgotten. They will never be able to be replaced, but sometime, someday your loving memories will help to sustain you. This courageous soldier will forever now be your Angel watching over you all for the rest of your lives. It's what brings me some measure of peace and comfort and I hope it will you as well. To his family and friends in pain, I offer this comfort: When you find yourself in that dark sorrowful place, think not only of how you will miss him, but instead recall the years, days, hours and minutes gifted to you by his presence. The one thing that cannot be taken from you is those wonderful memories that now will mean more than ever. If you ever want to talk, I'm only an e:mail away and would love for you to tell me more about your Hero. God Bless this courageous soldier and family.
Pam Adams (SFC Brent Adams, KIA 12/1/05 Ramadi, Iraq)
[email protected]
(Millersville, PA )
Rachel D.
June 14, 2006
God Bless the family of Curtis Mehrer...He is a hero and always will be.
Berny Kilzer
June 14, 2006
Kevin,Joyce and Alan....our family's thoughts and prayers are with you. No words can express the feelings we hope to convey. Know that you are not alone in this time of sorrow and we were fortunate to have known this young man, Curtis...may he rest in peace! The Kilzer family, Jamestown,ND
Ryan Voss
June 14, 2006
To the Family of Curtis:
I worked with Curtis and as I grew to know him, I found that he was a great individual. He was always willing to lend a hand. Curtis will never be forgotten. You will be in my prayers.
Lana and Bryan Sleeper
June 14, 2006
To the Curtis Mehrer Family and Crystal Schmidt,
Curtis Gave All
Remembering our Fallen Hero with Love
Within the sight of sorrow
Our hearts are worn with grief
For Curtis brave and mighty
He never knew defeat
No grave can hold a spirit
That fought with bravery
In times of greatest honor
His name a homily
His legacy continues
In every one that stands
With hands held in saluting
The glory of their land
He gave his life for freedom
In silent tears we weep
Within this saddest mourning
Our soldier's memory keeps
And so in life we know this
He stood so brave and tall
In honor of his country
He gave his life - His all
No greater love is given
No greater hero made
Than one who knows the meaning
Of freedom's love engraved.
Words can not express the sadness in our hearts.I am glad to have known this great hero. You all should be very proud of Curtis. He will not be forgotten.Deepest Symphathy.
Krystal McLellan
June 14, 2006
Family of Curtis,
Curtis was the one of the nicest friends a girl could ever ask for. He was always out to help and if he thought he couldn't he'd find a way. I will never forget that great Smile because it was always a different smile for when he was happy, sad, mad, or just being goofy!
S Ziemann
June 14, 2006
Dear Mehrer family, I did not know Curtis, but my sister did and has nothing but the most positive of things to say about this young man. I know that times are tough right now but you can be proud that you raised a strong, proud, dedicated, respectable young man. He will be in our thoughts and prayers as all of the men and women serving our country are. My husband was in that unit for many years so no matter how things come out knowing Curtis or not he still in my husband’s eyes was a brother who will be truly missed. Thank you for the strength that you have given us Curtis you will be truly missed.
God Bless all of you.
June 14, 2006
JOYCE AND FAMILY,
WISHING YOU OUR DEEPEST SYMPATHY DURING THIS DIFFICULT TIME! OUR THOUGHTS AND PRAYERS ARE WITH YOU!
DAN AND LOANN CORY AND RYAN GETZ
Dick Thomas
June 14, 2006
Bob, What a shock to hear about your grandson. Know that he served his county and his God well. Our prayers are with you and your family.
Dick Thomas ('49)
Marie A. Vogel
June 14, 2006
To the family of Curtis Mehrer:
our thoughts & prayers go out to all
of you at this diffcult time. What a
courageous young man to go & fight for our country. We thank you, Curtis. We are also blessed for our great grand-daughter Hailee. You will definitely be missed, Curtis.
Marie A. Vogel & Sam Mitzel
Tammy Jo
June 14, 2006
Everyone who knew Curtis was touched by his love of life and adventure. I will miss him everyday of my life. Thank you Joyce for raising a fine young man whom we can all be proud of.
Curt, Missy, Michaela & Katelynn Rebenitsch
June 13, 2006
Be Still
Be still like the grass on a melancholy summer day
Be still like desert shrub.
Be calm and you will hear your loved one speak, in the stillness, in the calm, their love resounds.
If you are still this promise I make, you will hear the voice of your loved one helping you along your way.
Missy Rebenitsch
June 13, 2006
To the family of Curtis and Crystal: I met Curtis just once and he was a terrific guy. My deepest sympathies go out to all of you. Curtis has gone to a different place to protect all of us, he will be well taken care of where he is going. God Bless all of you in this time of loss. Crystal, if you need anything always remember I am always here.
DEBBIE BRIDE
June 13, 2006
THANK YOU FOR HELPING THE UNITED STATES. YOU WILL NOT BE FORGOTTEN. GOD BLESS THE MEHRER FAMILY
Brenda Wahlman
June 13, 2006
Joyce-
I wanted you to know you and your family are in my thoughts and prayers. I remember getting together after Volleyball and listening to all of the stories you have told about your boys.
God bless you during this difficult time.
MSgt (retired) USAF
June 13, 2006
Corporal Mehrer thank you for your service and your sacrifice. My deepest sympathy to your family and friends.
Jody Randall
June 13, 2006
Mehrer Family, I have just come to know your son by reading his obituary in the Grand Forks paper and just wanted to send our thoughts and prayers to your family. Your son made the ultimate sacrifice for his country and how do we ever say thank-you for all he did so that we could live in a free country. May God bless you through this difficult time
Pat Canfall
June 13, 2006
My condolences to the Mehrer family.
Curtis may you rest in peace. Thank you for making the ultimate sacrifice in the name of freedom. You have earned your golden halo and wings. May you continue to soar in the heavenly clouds up above.
Cindi Getz (Lapp)
June 13, 2006
May the love of friends and family carry you through your grief.
HEATHER WILLIAMS
June 13, 2006
FAMILY OF CURTIS
YOU ARE IN MY THOUGHTS AND PRAYERS. CURTIS WAS A VERY CARING, LOVING MAN AND SHOULD BE REMEMERED THIS WAY. I STILL REMEMBER BABYSITTING FOR CURTIS AND ALAN WHEN THEY WERE LITTLE. YOU COULDN'T HAVE ASKED FOR CUTER LITTLE BOYS.I AM VERY SORRY FOR YOUR LOSS. GOD BLESS CURTIS FOR FIGHTING FOR WHAT HE BELIEVED IN AND FOR OUR FREEDOM. HE WILL NEVER BE FORGOTTEN.
C. Schmidt
June 11, 2006
To the family who lost such a wonderfull young man. I worked with Curtis and saw him before he left for his mission. He was a fun loving, outgoing, get the job done type of guy. I know he was very excited to go and I will remember him always. You raise a very caring determined young man and I am very proud to have known him. I can not believe he is gone. My prayers and thoughts will always be with you and your family.
D SMITH
June 10, 2006
WE ARE SO SORRY FOR YOU LOSS. WE PRAY FOR ALL OUR MILITARY MEN/WOMEN, AND THEIR FAMILIES EVERYDAY. WE WILL HAVE A SPECIAL PRAYER FOR YOU. WE JUST WANT YOU TO KNOW, WE K N O W OUR FREEDOM IS NOT FREE, AND YOU GAVE THE ULTIMATE SACFRICE. I KNOW "GOD" HAS SPECIAL BLESSINGS FOR MEN/WOMEN WHO GIVE THEIR LIVES FOR US TO BE FREE. GOD BLESS YOU, MAY HE GIVE YOU GRACE AND COMFORT IS OUR PRAYERS.
Phyllis Schuster
June 9, 2006
I did not know Curtis, but I know who goes into the military, and who serves in places like Afghanistan. He was a young man of service and optimism, committing himself to making a difference. And he has. It may seem his sacrifice overshadows all, but his life is the real lesson for the rest of us, showing us how to live what time we have to the full. My son Benjamin Schuster died in Ramadi Iraq on February 25,2006, so I know what sacrifice means. And yet in their short times with us, they made such a difference in our worlds. I hope when the time comes, you can celebrate Curt's life with as much feeling as you mourn his death. Our thoughts and prayers are with you all.
June 9, 2006
To the Family of Spc. Curtis Mehrer;
My heart breaks again as I sign yet another guest book of another courgeous young soldier who gave their life so selflessly. I wish I never found myself in a position to have to sign another guestbook for the rest of my life. We lost a son 12/1/05 and it seems like yesterday.
I know first hand there are no words right now that will bring you the comfort and peace you need. Just know that you are not alone. My heart, thoughts, and prayers are with you all as you mourn this loss. We don't know each other, will probably never meet, but will forever be united in the loss of our Heroes. We have, unfortunately joined a group none of us wanted to join, an ever-growing group of families in this situation. May God grant you peace and strength to get through this and be able once again to smile at a memory rather than have only the tears that flow so easily now. To be so proud of your loved one and so saddened at the same time is a mix of emotions very difficult to deal with. I am sorry that I never knew your soldier personally, but none of these courageous men and women will be forgotten. They will never be able to be replaced, but sometime, someday your loving memories will help to sustain you. This courageous soldier will forever now be your Angel watching over you all for the rest of your lives. It's what brings me some measure of peace and comfort and I hope it will you as well. To his family and friends in pain, I offer this comfort: When you find yourself in that dark sorrowful place, think not only of how you will miss him, but instead recall the years, days, hours and minutes gifted to you by his presence. The one thing that cannot be taken from you is those wonderful memories that now will mean more than ever. If you ever want to talk, I'm only an e:mail away and would love for you to tell me more about your Hero. God Bless this courageous soldier and family.
Pam Adams (SFC Brent Adams, KIA 12/1/05 Ramadi, Iraq)
[email protected]
(Millersville, PA )
Linda Flannery
June 9, 2006
To the family of Curtis Mehrer
Please accept my deepest sympathies on the loss of Spc Mehrer.
He lives on in the spirit of America.
I know words cannot comfort you at this time, but hopefully you can find peace and comfort in your memories of Curtis.
He is our Hero. May he rest in Peace.
My flag flies in honor of Curtis and all of our Soldiers and Marines.
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