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Geofrey Cayer Obituary
He was born on Feb. 15, 1986, in San Juan, Puerto Rico, the second of four children of Robert N. and Joan M. (Saulnier) Cayer. He came to Fitchburg as an infant when his family returned from his father’s business assignment in late 1986. He graduated from Julie Country Day School in Leominster in 2000 and Fitchburg High School in 2004.
As a child, he enjoyed local team sports, including soccer and Pop Warner football. As a teen, he focused his athletic interests in football and tennis, enjoying varsity play on his high school teams. He was a member of St. Joseph’s Parish.
Geofrey was a kind, quiet, yet pensive young man. In addition to his sport interests, he enjoyed reading and movies. His friends describe him as soft-spoken, with a dry and subtle wit, a modest person and loyal friend.
After high school graduation, Geofrey enlisted in the U.S. Marine Corp. He completed his basic training in April of 2005 at Parris Island, S.C., and his infantry training at Camp Le Jeune, N.C. He received his special training in communications at 29 Palms, Calif., before being stationed at Camp Pendleton, Calif. Geofrey’s Iraq tour began in January of 2006. He was scheduled to conclude his tour at the end of this month. His letters to family described a confident young man committed to his role as a U.S. Marine with a goal of securing a better world for his country, community and family.
Besides his parents, he leaves two brothers, Charles “Chase” Cayer, of Sacramento, Calif. and Alexander “Alex” Cayer of Fitchburg; one sister, Abbigail “Abby” Cayer of Fitchburg; his paternal grandparents, Norman R. and Claire F. Cayer of Mattapoisett; and several uncles, aunts and cousins. He was predeceased by his maternal grandparents, Dr. Mark A. and Christine (Lucas) Saulnier of Fitchburg.
CAYER -- On July 18, U.S. Marine Corp. Lance Corporal Geofrey Robert Cayer, 20, of Fitchburg. A Full Military Funeral will be held Wednesday, July 26, with a Mass at 11 a.m. in St. Joseph’s Church, 49 Woodland St., Fitchburg. Burial will be at a later date in Arlington National Cemetery, Arlington, Va. His wake will be held Tuesday, July 25, from 3 to 7 p.m. in the auditorium of Fitchburg High School, 140 Arn-How Farm Road, Fitchburg. The family requests to please omit flowers, and ask that memorial contributions be made to the Lance Cpl. Geofrey R. Cayer Memorial Fund, c/p Beth Slattery, I.C. Federal Credit Union, 300 Bemis Road, Fitchburg, MA 01420. The Smith-Mallahy-Masciarelli Funeral Home, 243 Water St., Fitchburg, is directing arrangements. See www.masciarellifamilyfuneralhomes.net for information.
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Memories and Condolences
for Geofrey Cayer
Perry Edholm
May 26, 2024
I went to Boot Camp with Cayer in 2005. I remember him pretty well. I was in Iraq at the time in 2006 when I read he was KIA. I am so sorry for your loss and not sure why I am thinking about this now but I know he is in a better place.
Christian A
November 11, 2020
I never knew Geofrey but for the past couple of years I have chosen a fallen US hero to research every day. Geofrey looks to be a hard working, proud, smart, and brave marine. I offer my condolences to the family of Mr Cayer and anyone who knew him in life. Geofrey Cayers actions reflect great credit upon himself and were in keeping with the highest traditions of the US Naval Service.
September 14, 2012
God bless this fellow Massachusetts resident. He is still missed greatly.
Peggy Childers
July 18, 2011
To the family and friends of Lance Cpl. Geofrey R. Cayer:
Please accept my remembrance of Geofrey on the anniversary of his passing and know that he will never be forgotten.
Sandy Graham
July 18, 2011
Dear family of Lance Cpl. Geofrey Cayer:
This precious fallen hero will always be remembered for his service to our country. May you feel the loving arms of our Heavenly Father especially today.
Peggy Childers
July 18, 2010
To the family and friends of Lance Cpl. Geofrey R. Cayer:
Remembering Geofrey on the anniversary of his passing. May our fallen heroes never be forgotten!
Peggy Childers
"Don't Let The Memory Of Them Drift Away"
www.IraqWarHeroes.org
Peggy Childers
July 18, 2009
To the family of Lance Cpl. Geofrey R. Cayer:
Geofrey gave the ultimate sacrifice and will be held in the hearts of Americans forever. I cannot and will not let our fallen heroes be forgotten. My deepest sympathy to you. "Some gave all."
Peggy Childers
"Don't Let The Memory Of Them Drift Away"
www.IraqWarHeroes.org
Kenna Larra
March 30, 2009
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Sincerely,
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In Memory of Geofrey ~ (Debra Estep)
July 18, 2008
Holding you all in my thoughts and prayers.
The Wind on The Downs
“I like to think of you as brown and tall,
As strong and living as you used to be,
In khaki tunic, Sam Brown belt and all,
And standing there and laughing down at me.
Because they tell me, dear, that you are dead,
Because I can no longer see your face,
You have not died, it is not true, instead
You seek adventure in some other place.
That you are round about me, I believe;
I hear you laughing as you used to do,
Yet loving all the things I think of you;
And knowing you are happy, should I grieve?
You follow and are watchful where I go.”
(Written by Marian Allen during World War l )
Two lines that I wish you to keep near your heart…….
“You seek adventure in some other place.
That you are round about me, I believe”
I did not know Geofrey, but I am remembering
his service. He is my hero. !
~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~
The Other Side
i'm over on the other side
where life and death softly divide.
left my skin and bones behind
now i'm over on the other side.
can you feel me there with you?
my breath is gone but i'm not through.
loved you then and i still do
from over on the other side.
i can fly. really fly.
below the earth ... all through the sky.
tell em all i did not die.
i'm just over on the other side.
it's good here on the other side.
the sweetest songs...the bluest skies.
thank you for the tears you cried
but it's good here on the other side.
i can fly. really fly. below the earth...all through the sky.
tell em all i did not die.
i'm just over on the other side
the world is smaller than a needle's eye.
where life and death softly divide.
when you leave your skin and bones behind
i'll be waiting on the other side.
i can fly. really fly. below the earth ... all through the sky.
go tell em all i did not die.
i'm just over on the other side.
Song lyrics by Don Conoscenti
C Desert Muse/SESAC
www.donconoscenti.com
(Used with permission)
“I hope it brings great comfort to any and all.
Peace on you. DonCon” 4-2008
The Other Side –
(To hear the song)
http://tinyurl.com/3o8gol
Sincerely,
Deb Estep ~ Ohio
Proud Air Force Mom SSgt Vince – Lackland AFB
Proud Air Force MIL SrA Dana – Randolph AFB
Remembering The Fallen – Blog
http://tinyurl.com/3z8p55
Angel and soldier drawing I have shared here.
http://tinyurl.com/6gey8b
May 31, 2008
You are remembered and respected. Thank you Lance Cpl Cayer!
mary ellen Peloquin
March 2, 2008
To the Family of Geof Cayer,
Just wanted to tell you I remember Geof so well. He often came to my daughters home to be with my Grandson, Zachary. They always enjoyed each others company & I in return want to thank you for raising such a "great young man".
The two of them had many wonderful
years together (although short lived). Geof will always be remembered by all of us. May you find peace & comfort in knowing that others really care & also miss Geof. May God bless all your family & thanks to your son, Geof we can sleep well & safely in our homes because of the supreme sacrifice he & our other brave young men have made.
Geof, we thank you for coming into our lives & sharing some great memories --we're proud of you & say thanks for a "Job Well Done" Rest in peace Geofrey until we all meet again.
Love, Zachs Meme'
August 19, 2007
There is nothing that I can say or do to take away the pain or bring you peace in your time of sorrow, but I will offer you and your family my heart felt condolences. I also offer you my prayers that in time the pain will easy and the memories of your HERO will carry you through each day and night. I want to thank your HERO, for his/her selfless act of becoming a member of the armed forces, his/her willingness to defend the United States of America, all that we hold sacred and for the sacrifice that will forever be etched in the memories of all those who knew him/her. Though tears can never bring him/her back, we hope that our tears express our gratitude for the sacrifice that he/she made and our sorrow at his/her passing. I believe for every fallen HERO there is a star shining brightly up above to remind us of the precious gift we were given.
Your mission on earth is complete and you are now a member of GOD’s Heavenly armed forces. Stand down brave warrior and take your rightful place in Heaven with all the HEROES who have passed before.
I made a special promise to LE RON A. WILSON, a dear family friend who joined the Army with three other friends, one of whom is my son (Le Ron was killed in action on 07/06/07 at the age of 18) on the day he was laid to rest as I touched his coffin, that I would never forget him nor would I forget those that gave their lives for our country before him, with him and after him and so when I came across www.legacy.com, I thought what a great way to keep my promise to Le Ron, so I will continue to leave tributes in each guest book until the day there is no longer the need to leave these tributes to a FALLEN HERO.
REST IN PEACE, HERO, YOU WILL NEVER BE FORGOTTEN!!
PROUD MOTHER OF A U.S. SOLDIER
Currently stationed in Germany
Althea Barrett(Queens, NY)
July 30, 2007
Thank you for the sacrifice made by Lance Cpl Cayer and the sacrifice made by everyone who loves and misses him! May God bless all of you!!
Aunt of a Lance Cpl deploying soon
Glen Nevogt
January 15, 2007
“Paid in Full”
To Honor The Service of Fallen and Injured Marines
Marines through and through, they paid the price
Six thousand miles away, we live the life
For which they paid with their blood, spirits and bodies
We will never forget what they paid in full
We hope and we pray that somehow their loved ones find comfort
In God, in the flag, in the memory of their loved ones’ bravery
They’re gone now but we see them still…proud, strong, willing
Covering each other’s backs… courageous, moving forward
What kind of love did they have for us to be willing
To give it all for the Black, White, Jew, Christian, Muslim?
We don’t comprehend but we honor you now and forever
You are Our Marines…some living…some not
Forever in our hearts we will cherish your lives
Lives too short yet immortal they’ll be
Highest brotherhood of the Few, the Proud
They stand at attention, and we gaze with awe
Some know their names not, but our admiration for them
Flows limitless within us, between us
They sacrificed their limbs or their lives
Freedom still rings, a soft sound across the miles
It tolls slowly; all of creation takes note
Of the lives that were lost for people unknown
Out of sight but not lost; forever among us
The starched blues marching straight
Toward the place where we will meet them
Many years from now…how we loved them…
Well done beloved Brothers and Sisters…You’ve paid it in full
Always Faithful Marines, You Have Paid it in Full
Pat Magee
October 31, 2006
My hopes and prayers are witht he cayer family in hope tht they are doing well and hope to see them when i come back to MA for thanksgiving.
Tom Gugliuzza-Smith
August 20, 2006
My heartfelt sympathy to the Cayer family in the loss of Geofrey. I did not know Geofrey, but my heart is broken and I am saddened for your loss of such a fine young person and hero. May God bring you peace in your heart as you reflect on all the wonderful memories you hold so close. Please know that you are in my heart and prayers. Geofrey you are my hero and you will NEVER be forgotten. My heart was touched by the many wonderful/beautiful things written about you.
I send each of you a hug from the most inner part of my heart.
Love and Peace
Tom
To live in the hearts
of those you leave behind
is never to die"
~Robert Orr~
seth letarte
August 11, 2006
sorry for your loss
Claire Zawistowski
August 6, 2006
Dear Cayer Family,
Even though we have never met, I feel as if we are part of a family. My daughter's fiancee was killed in Iraq by an IED on Oct. 3, 2005. It is my prayer that you will feel God holding you as close to His heart as He has held my family these past months. May you know His comfort as you travel down this difficult road.
Evelyn Ferrin
July 29, 2006
My deepest sympathy to you and yours. My thoughs and prayers are with you all. Geoffrey will never be forgotten, he will be always one of our American heroes. God Bless him and you all. Sincerely, Evelyn Ferrin & Kevin Techera
Margy Bons
July 28, 2006
The pain is tremendous when you join the ranks of Gold Star Parent. But, it is with honor that you know, and the rest of the country know, that your son gave the ultimate sacrifice for all. They are a tough bunch of men, those Marines and we, as their mothers, must continue their legacy. They will never be forgotten.
Gold Star and Proud USMC mom of Sgt. Michael Marzano KIA 5/7/05 Haditha Iraq,,Semper Fi and OOHRAH
Kayla Madsen
July 28, 2006
mrs. cayer,
I too have read every comment posted here. I hope that the outpouring of support has comforted you all. I cannot begin to express my deepest sympathy and concern for you and your family. Please know that I have wondered how you were and that reading your posting has brought me comfort.
My father is a former marine and he is always proud of those who serve our country. Though he did not say so directly I know he is proud of Geof.
In the coming days take comfort in the Lord and know that Geof is always with you. Most importantly hold Chase, Alex, and Abby close!
God bless you,
Kayla Madsen
FHS class of 2000
Tammy Delle
July 28, 2006
There are no words to heal but my heart goes out to the friends and family of Geofrey Cayer. My son, Marine Cpl. David Bass, died in Iraq on April 2, 2006. If there is anything I can do for you, please let me know.
A Proud Marine Mom
Joan Cayer
July 27, 2006
I would like to thank each and every one of you who have written in to express your thoughts and feelings about Geof. Please know that I have read each and every comment and I cannot thank you enough. We, in this country, are so fortunate that Geof graced us with his presence and I am so proud that I was blessed to be his mom. He stood for everything that is positive in life, and while I shall miss him dearly, I know his spirt will live forever. Thank you all so much for your beautiful notes and words of inspiration. Fondly, Joan Cayer
Tim Powers
July 27, 2006
Marines cry too.Geofrey was a great American Hero. God Bless Geofrey.Kilo 3/5 1969
sandy massalski
July 27, 2006
AT this time there are no words to express the sadness that your family is feeling My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. Geofrey will always be in your mind and heart.
Proud mother of an USMC
A M
July 27, 2006
I'm so sorry about your son, I went to school with him and he was a wonderful guy who will always live on in the hearts of those who knew him best...
Brandi Niemi
July 27, 2006
To the Cayer Family,
I know there are no words that I can say to make this easier for all of you. Know that Amber and I are here for all of you and are so sorry. Geof was such a kind, responsible man and we are so proud of him and his service to our Country. I will always remember Geof at Thanksgiving and how great he was with my disabled son Ben, they clicked that day. It just shows what a gentle person he was.
God Bless
Brandi Niemi
Amber Ciriello
Ronald Viger
July 27, 2006
To the Cayer Family, I never knew Geof. He never knew me. But just this morning on the local NPR station I heard a deeply moving tribute to your son, your brother, your nephew, your friend. I was moved to tears to hear of the loss of such a wonderful young man. My heartfelt sympathy goes out to everyone who knew him and loved him. May your grief be born up by prayers, may your loss be eased with time, may your memories hold him forever close to you and may God in His infinite mercy be with you now when you need it most. You will be in my thoughts and prayers, as well as Geof, who I am sure is in the warm and loving embrace of God. If there is anything I may do for you I offer that small token to you now. God Bless you. Ron Viger; Boston, MA 02108
Fred Cayer
July 26, 2006
WITH DEEPEST SYMPATHY
Susan Blanchard
July 26, 2006
Dear Cayer Family;
It is with deep gratitude that I send these heartfelt condolences. How brave of your son and brother to become a Marine so that we may live in peace.
My son PFC Seth Blanchard is serving with the U.S. Army Medics in Fort Bragg, NC, soon to be deployed to help save the lives of brave military personnel like Geofrey.
May God Bless the United States of America.
Proud Mother of a US Soldier
July 26, 2006
My heart is breaking for your family. Knowing the fear that I lived with every day for thirteen months while my son served in Iraq, I can only imagine the grief that you are now having to endure. Please know that Geofrey is a true hero and will never be forgotten.
Lisa LaDue
July 26, 2006
Although I never knew Geof my heart goes out to his family & friends. There are no words that can offer the comfort to fill the emptiness that you feel. My brother was killed in a car accident on 10/3/05. The memories of our childhood, his laugh & smile remind me of just how lucky I was to be his sister. I know, in time, your memories will comfort you as well. My heart goes out to you and your family. Rest in Peace Geof, you will always a hero.
Holly Gammel
July 25, 2006
May God give this family peace and comfort during their time of grief. He is a soldier that will never be forgotten. One of "Fitchburg's soldiers"
Denise Albert
July 25, 2006
To The Cayer Family,
My deepest sympathy in the loss of your son.
Joan, my heart goes out to you, the loss of the child is so hard to overcome.
Prayers are with you
Denise Albert (Former Soccer coach for Chase
gary allain
July 25, 2006
All gave some your son gave all..
let freedome reign forever
thank you sir you are my hero
god bless you and keep you forever.
Adam Vivier
July 25, 2006
Geofrey,
You are a true Hero.I want to thank you for keeping me and my Family safe. To your family my thoughts and prayers are with you.
Danny Alvarado
July 25, 2006
To the family of my fallen conrad
This country is a better place to live due to the ultimate sacrifice of your son, Lance Cpl. Geofrey Cayer. I would like to say thank you and may you rest in peace.
Danny Alvarado
U.S.M.C.
Lee Ann Miller
July 25, 2006
Geofrey,
I thank you for your courage and fortitude while defending our country. Every freedom that we enjoy is due to the bravery and dedication from men and women like yourself. I will remember you and your family forever in my prayers.
SPC Patrick Gentry
July 25, 2006
Geofrey was a good person, I remember playing tennis with him back at FHS, and cathcing rides home from Mrs. Cayer. His loss is tragic and the world has lost a excelent human being. May he rest in peace, and his sacrifice will never be forgotten.
Bill & Lisa Roach
July 24, 2006
To Geofrey's family
Our thoughts and prayers are with you for your son gave the ultimate sacrifice for our country. May God be with him.
Wanda Alvarado
July 24, 2006
To The Geofrey Family
Our sincere condolences are with each and every one of you, May the love of God give comfort to your pain and sorrow I will not say bye I will say thanks for a being a true
MARINE, Rest In Peace
ROBYN GARSIDE
July 24, 2006
MAY GOD BLESS YOU AND YOURS. PLEASE ACCEPT MY DEEPEST SYMPATHIES FOR YOUR GREAT LOSS. KNOW THAT THERE ARE PEOPLE OUT HERE WHO DO CARE. HOLD TIGHT TO YOUR TREASURED MEMORIES THAT HIS SPECIAL SMILE MAY CONTINUE TO SHINE ON FOR YOU. I PRAY THAT PEACE WILL FIND YOU ALL SOMEDAY. STAY STRONG AND GODSPEED. SEMPER FI
A PROUD MARINE MOM
Tom Gugliuzza-Smith
July 24, 2006
My heartfelt sympathy to the Cayer family in the loss of Geofrey. I did not know Geofrey, but my heart is broken and I am saddened for your loss of such a fine young person and hero. May God bring you peace in your heart as you reflect on all the wonderful memories you hold so close. Please know that you are in my heart and prayers. Geforey you are my hero and you will NEVER be forgotten. I live close to ARLINGTON NATIONAL CEMETERY and I visit there weekly. I will be there this Thursday and Friday and I promise each time I am there I will visit/honor you.
I send each of you a hug from the most inner part of my heart.
Love and Peace
Tom
To live in the hearts
of those you leave behind
is never to die"
~Robert Orr~
Elsie Studley
July 24, 2006
Joan and family,
I was so shocked and sad to read about Geofrey's passing when I pulled the sentinel up on line in Maine. He was always such a quiet kid when he was in my class. I am glad he made the decision to serve his country, especially during a time of war. You should be very proud of him for that decision. Keep the great memories close to your heart. My sincere sympathy to you and your family.
July 24, 2006
Cayer Family,
My thoughts & prayers are with you all.
Marine Mom
Patricia Noval
July 24, 2006
My thoughts and prayers go out to the family of Geofrey Cayer. I also had a nephew who made the ultimate scarifice. May it comfort you to know that they are at peace. God rest their young souls.
Heidi
July 24, 2006
To the Cayer Family,
Although I didn't know your son, I would like to express my sympathies. It's people like your son who make the ultimate sacrafice that make us feel safe and give us the freedom that we have. My heart goes out to you and your family. R.I.P., Geoff, a hero who will never be forgotten!
John Horne
July 24, 2006
Very sorry to hear about Geoffrey, I truly understand a loss of a loved one who has defended our country, know that his passing will be an example of heroism and patriotic duty. My thoughts and prayers are with you and Geoffrey, it was a sincere pleasure knowing him and his loving family,......God Bless.
Peter Caruso
July 24, 2006
Dear Joan, Bob, and Family,
Words cannot properly express our deepest sympathies and our sincerest gratitude. We live well thanks to the sacrifice of your family and your brave son, Geofrey.
Love, Peter and Kate Caruso and Family
Patrick Roach
July 24, 2006
No bond is as great as that between a parent and child. My deepest condolences are with you as you grieve.
Susan Steinbrecher
July 24, 2006
To Geofrey's family:
My thoughts and prayers are with you. Having had two sons serve in the war, and often wondering whether they would come home safe, I feel for your family. I still have an adopted son who is serving over there and I pray everyday that no more of our children should perish. Please accept my condolences and sympathy but know too that your son died serving one of the best countries in the world. Without the men and women who help us to preserve our freedoms, we would not have them.
God bless!
Sincerely,
Susan Steinbrecher
Monica Siart
July 24, 2006
I'm sorry for your lost. Your family is in our thoughts and prayers. We did not know your son. But we would like thank Geofrey for the sacrifice he made for our freedom and our country.
God Bless
Siart Family
Carolyn Poirier
July 24, 2006
To the Cayer Family,
My heart goes out to you......you should be so proud of your son and his accomplishments. He chose to defend his country...and he died trying. I did not have the privilege of knowing him, but I am very proud of our "Fitchburg Marine"!
Sincerely,
A proud parent of a U.S. Marine
July 24, 2006
To the Family of Lance Cpl. Geofrey R. Cayer:
My heart breaks again as I sign yet another guest book of another courgeous young soldier who gave their life so selflessly. I wish I never found myself in a position to have to sign another guestbook for the rest of my life. We lost a son 12/1/05 and it seems like yesterday.
I know first hand there are no words right now that will bring you the comfort and peace you need. Just know that you are not alone. My heart, thoughts, and prayers are with you all as you mourn this loss. We don't know each other, will probably never meet, but will forever be united in the loss of our Heroes. We have, unfortunately joined a group none of us wanted to join, an ever-growing group of families in this situation. May God grant you peace and strength to get through this and be able once again to smile at a memory rather than have only the tears that flow so easily now. To be so proud of your loved one and so saddened at the same time is a mix of emotions very difficult to deal with. I am sorry that I never knew your soldier personally, but none of these courageous men and women will be forgotten. They will never be able to be replaced, but sometime, someday your loving memories will help to sustain you. This courageous soldier will forever now be your Angel watching over you all for the rest of your lives. It's what brings me some measure of peace and comfort and I hope it will you as well. To his family and friends in pain, I offer this comfort: When you find yourself in that dark sorrowful place, think not only of how you will miss him, but instead recall the years, days, hours and minutes gifted to you by his presence. The one thing that cannot be taken from you is those wonderful memories that now will mean more than ever. If you ever want to talk, I'm only an e:mail away and would love for you to tell me more about your Hero. God Bless this courageous soldier and family.
Pam Adams (SFC Brent Adams, KIA 12/1/05 Ramadi, Iraq)
[email protected]
(Millersville, PA )
Katie Follett
July 24, 2006
To Geof's family...we are so sorry to hear of your loss, we can't imagine the pain and therfore I dont know what to say, thank you to geof for his bravery and the protection he provided us by serving his country.
with love,
Katie
Betty
Abbey
Charlie
Cpl. Matt Follett
CYNTHIA fontaine
July 23, 2006
I just don't what to say to you and your family. I truly want to thank
geof for serving our country. What a HERO!!!!!. May God bless you and your family. I dont't know Geof, but if I could, I would go to his wake. GOD BLESS YOU ALL.
Timothy Stewart
July 23, 2006
My deepest sympathy to you and yours
Geoff will be forever in our hearts
Lee Sirotnak
July 23, 2006
Please accept the condolences of this Marine family. We will honor Geofrey and his sacrifice by remembering him in our prayers of thanksgiving, and will keep his loved ones in our prayers that you find peace and comfort in the Lord. Semper Fi.
Kayla Madsen
July 23, 2006
To The Cayer family,
I am so sorry to hear of your loss. You are in my prayers. God bless you all and keep you in His comfort always.
Christine Gabriel
July 23, 2006
My deepest sympathy and prayers go out to the family and friends of Geofrey Cayer. I am a Marine Mom from California, but was born and raised in Lunenburg. Always be proud of your loved one and know that he was one of those "that gave all." His sacrifice was not in vain. May Peace be with you all.
Chris
PMM Sgt. Christopher-Miramar
Nicole Ghilardi
July 23, 2006
Our family would like to offer our condolences to all of you at this terrible time of loss. Please know that although we have never met your son or brother, my children will always remember him as a true hero, someone who gave his life putting his country above himself. We thank your son or brother for giving us the freedoms that we often take for granted...you will be in our thoughts and prayers always. May God bless you all, and send you his peace and comfort in knowing that your loved one is with Him in his eternal light.
DONALD SIMONDS
July 23, 2006
SEMPER FI
Amnamaria Lucia DiVito
July 22, 2006
To the Cayer family,
My thoughts and prayers are with you during this time of sorrow.
GySgt.DiBlasi U.S.M.C Security Forces
July 22, 2006
Our thoughts are with you during this difficult time.
Semper Fi.
Tami Green
July 22, 2006
Your family are in our prayers. We, in the city of Fitchburg are truly proud of your son. May God bring you comfort in this time of sadness, please keep precious memories close to your heart.
God Bless, Mark, Tami, Ashley and Michael Green
John, Celeste, Kevin & Alaina Gordon
July 22, 2006
Our thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.
Heidi
July 22, 2006
On behalf of our Marine Corps Family, I offer my sincere condolences with the loss of your son. Please know that he will forever be known as a hero, locally and nationally, as he helped to rewrite history.
My thoughts and prayers are with you
Heidi Kalinowski
Key Volunteer Coordinator
TOW Platoon, 25th Marines
Kristine Golden
July 22, 2006
You are all in our thoughts and prayers.
David, Susan and Natalie Horne
July 22, 2006
Our prayers and thoughts are with the family during this very difficult time. We thank Geofrey for the sacrifice he made serving our country.
karen pedersen
July 22, 2006
To my dearest family, some things I'd like to say...
but first of all, to let you know, that I arrived okay.
I'm writing this from heaven. Here I dwell with God above.
Here, there's no more tears of sadness; here is just eternal love.
Please do not be unhappy just because I'm out of sight.
Remember that I'm with you every morning, noon and night.
That day I had to leave you when my life on earth was through,
God picked me up and hugged me and He said, "I welcome you."
It's good to have you back again; you were missed while you were gone.
As for your dearest family, they'll be here later on.
I need you here badly; you're part of my plan.
There's so much that we have to do, to help our mortal man."
God gave me a list of things, that he wished for me to do.
And foremost on the list, was to watch and care for you.
And when you lie in bed at night, the day's chores put to flight.
God and I are closest to you....in the middle of the night.
When you think of my life on earth, and all those loving years
because you are only human, they are bound to bring you tears.
But do not be afraid to cry; it does relieve the pain.
Remember there would be no flowers, unless there was some rain.
I wish that I could tell you all that God has planned.
But if I were to tell you, you wouldn't understand.
But one thing is for certain, though my life on earth is o'er.
I'm closer to you now, than I ever was before.
There are many rocky roads ahead of you and many hills to climb;
but together we can do it by taking one day at a time.
It was always my philosophy and I'd like it for you too...
that as you give unto the world, the world will give to you.
If you can help somebody who's in sorrow and pain,
then you can say to God at night......"My day was not in vain."
And now I am contented....that my life has been worthwhile,
knowing as I passed along the way, I made somebody smile.
So if you meet somebody who is sad and feeling low,
just lend a hand to pick him up, as on your way you go.
When you're walking down the street, and you've got me on your mind;
I'm walking in your footsteps only half a step behind.
And when it's time for you to go.... from that body to be free,
remember you're not going.....you're coming here to me.
Ruth Ann Mahaffey (author)
©Copyright 1998-2006
Susan McNeill Spuhler
July 22, 2006
Please know you are in our prayers.
JCD Class of 1977
Yolanda Valdez
July 22, 2006
I understand what you are experiencing and feeling. No amount of words can ease the pain of your loss. We know firsthand there are no words of comfort at this time. We lost our son on 9-3-2004. Just know that there are Marine families across the USA who is experiencing your loss and pain.
Geofrey - My family and I are thankful for the Bravery, Courage, Determinination and Service to fight for our country, (our freedom) from you ---, my son and all the others in our armed forces for the sacrifice made for us. You all will not be forgotten.
May he rest in peace knowing that he was loved and remembered by those who knew him as well as strangers who admired his courage and sacrifice? My deepest condolences, sympathy and prayers go out to the entire family. May God grant you peace, strength and comfort? I will keep your family in my prayers along with all the families of our American Hero’s. Another Fallen Hero --Thank you.
Once a Marine, Always a Marine!
Yesterday, Today, Forever – Semper Fi - Marines!
Proud Marine Mom
(LCpl. Nicholas S. Perez – KIA 9-3-04 – Al Anbar Province, Iraq)
Edna Rosado
July 22, 2006
Please acept my most sincere condolences. I know the pain of loosing a child. May the peace and love of God be with you.
Henryk Zaleski (USN-Ret)
July 22, 2006
Rest in peace at your last post in paradise.
Joshua and April Morales
July 21, 2006
To Geofrey's family and friends-
My family and I are praying for you and your family during this difficult time. We send our deepest empathy as we lost our Marine on 11/30/05 in Fallujah. We are comforted to know that our Marines are serving their country with such honor and bravery. We are so proud of our Marines and all of our other service men and women for all that they have done and continue to do to keep us safe and to give us the freedom we have that so many take for granted.
They are true Heroes and need to always be remembered for their selflessness and sacrifice to better our world. We will forever be united in the loss of our heros. We are so sorry for your loss and hope our words will ease some of the pain, and maybe fill some of your emptiness.
Yesterday, Today, Forever – Semper Fi - Marines!
Our sincerest gratitude for their bravery-
The family of Cpl. William "Billy" Taylor
2/6 WPNS
KIA outside of Fallujah 11/30/05
Phyllis Schuster
July 21, 2006
There are no words that can truly reach the friend or survivor of a soldier killed on duty. It's only the love that you will feel from so many others who have been there before you, and know the shock and pain. We lost our son Benjamin Schuster in Ar Ramadi Iraq on February 25, 2006, and do really know. Our thoughts and prayers are with you, now and in the future as this difficult time journeys on. Thank you, Geofrey.
miguel cortez
July 21, 2006
Lance Cpl. Geofrey R. Cayer...Your country thanks you for your service and I for this ultimate sacrifice. May God keep you at His side and that peace and strength come to your family. Family, remember the joy this young man brought into your lives. Blessings.
Ryan Christian
July 21, 2006
one of my most favorite memories of Geofrey was when we were in our algebra 2 class geof and I would joke around. trying to make each other laugh. Geoff your a good man. In my mind and I am sure in many others you are a hero. you will be missed by all.
Garnet Jenkins
July 21, 2006
Please know that I am deeply sorry for the loss of Lance Cpl. Geofrey R. Cayer.
May God's comfort and blessings be with the Cayer family.
I am the sister of such a young hero, who made the Ultimate Sacrifice in Vietnam, many years ago.
Surely He hath borne our grief, and carried our sorrow.
Isaiah 53:4
With each new day, may the Lord restore your soul and, through His love, give you the strength to go on.
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