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for Ralph Porras
Big “A”
February 23, 2024
Brother if people knew half the stuff you and I know about our adventures when we were kids Not a day goes by that I don’t think of you
Ann
September 3, 2021
We are so very proud of you and miss you everyday.
Until we meet again big brother.
Ivana
September 3, 2021
Ivana
September 3, 2021
Ivana
September 3, 2021
Ivana
September 3, 2021
Ivana
September 3, 2021
Ivana
September 3, 2021
Ivana
September 3, 2021
Missing you today and everyday!!
Ivan Castro & Red Falcons
September 2, 2021
Today is 15 years since we last served together and this morning I was blessed to do PT with the men of 1st Battalion, 325th Airborne Infantry Regiment, 82nd Airborne Division, Red Falcons.
We spoke about Bravery, Courage, Leadership, Teamwork, Love, Resilience, Service and the actions that took place 15 years ago. We spoke of the men who gave their lives for our freedom. In doing so we had to look no further than Sergeant Ralph Porras.
Your history will live on forever and you will not be forgotten.
Ivan Castro
September 2, 2021
Ralph,
Today marks 15 years since we last shared a smile. There is not a day, week or month which goes by that I don´t think about you and the events of September 2, 2006. I have spent numerous hours thinking of what I could have, should have and would have done differently. I have lived with the pain of survivors´ guilt ....and many times the thought of trading places with you has come through my mind. It was a pleasure and an honor to have been your platoon leader, team mate and friend. We had some great times at Bragg and while deployed to Afghanistan. I rarely use the word "Warrior" or "Hero", yet you are the epitome of both.
When I think of you so many images go through my mind. The image that keeps repeating is of your smile. It seems to defy physics how a heart as big as yours could fit inside your body.
There is so much more I would love to say but the tears and the words are not passing through my lips and fingers ...because the pain in my throat and chest are too immense.
You will never be forgotten. Your spirit and your action in battle will be talked about as long as I live. I will ensure that my children and grandchildren know what a great father, husband, team mate and soldier you were.
I love you My Brother.
I love you.
Ivan
Traub
November 7, 2019
When the guys you grew up with get together from time to time and talk about the old days, you're still included (how could you not be). So proud to read how you've had such a positive impact on others in your soldier life like you did us in your civilian life growing up.
Never forgotten Ralphy.
Ivana Malic
October 7, 2017
Dear Ralph not a day goes by that I don't think of you and miss you. Xoxo
Love you always ❤❤❤
Charlie Gili
October 6, 2017
Hello,
We would like to express our deepest condolences and also let the Porras Family and friends know that we will be sending Care Packages to deployed troops this week and we'll be dedicating several of these to your loved one. Each package will carry the name, photo and the hometown of Ralph N. Porras US Army Sergeant. We realize that this is a small tribute, but we do this with all respect and sincerity and we want you to know that it is made possible by thousands of like-minded individuals from across the American youth hockey community. We will not forget. May God Bless you and keep you safe and strong.
Sincerely,
Charlie Gili & Family
On Behalf of the US Hockey Players Support Our Troops Campaign
J Dow Covey
May 3, 2017
I clearly remember meeting Ralph in Baghdad 2003 during the first deployment for both of us. Ralph made a strong impression on me though we only spoke briefly. We bonded because we both had quit our civilian careers at an older age to join up after 9/11. What really impressed me was that after 9/11, Ralph had originally planned to go to Afghanistan on his own dime as a civilian to join up with Afghans opposing those who attacked America. I was told his battle buddies were very upset at the loss of him and his fellow Soldier when they passed away. Ralph was a selfless, dedicated man and his actions, not words, demonstrated he was the finest example of an American Patriot.
JB
September 2, 2015
We remember... always in our hearts
Sarrah Goudreau
April 2, 2015
Ralph, I still miss you to this day! I follow your son on social media and you would be so proud! We love and miss you! Sarrah-Jordan-Chad and Noah the one I was pregnant with when we lost you! Love you!
November 10, 2014
Ralph,
I didn't realize you were fallen until our high school twenty year reunion. I think of you often and remember what an inspiration you were to so many. Everyone was drawn to your energy. Even though we were serving in the same Army, we never talked about our service. I wish I had known you were in. It was chaos those early GWOT years. I am still serving 19 years later. God bless you my friend. You will never be forgotten. I have told many a Soldier and my sons about you and will continue throughout the days of my life on earth. Godspeed...LTC D.GREEN
Ann
September 3, 2014
Love you and miss you
Annie
October 15, 2013
Those question marks prior are suppose to be hearts in honor of my brother not question marks
Annie
October 13, 2013
We love and miss you every day brother??
Annie
October 13, 2013
We miss you everyday brother ??
Ivana Malic
September 16, 2013
I wish Heaven had a phone so I could hear your voice again, I thought of you today, but that is nothing new, I thought about you yesterday and days before that too, I think about you in silence, I often speak your name. All I have are memories and a picture in a frame. Your memory is a keep sake, from which I will never part. God has you in his arms, I have you in my heart.
aj
August 30, 2013
Not forgotten
June 14, 2013
I can't believe it's been almost 7 years... I'm getting ready to send my youngest to Ft. Benning. Please watch over him like you did my oldest. You never knew my sons but they know about you, I think about you all the time when I talk to my sons about the Army.
RIH Ralphy
Scott
April 16, 2013
Unfortunately I only knew Ralph for roughly three months. I was newly attached to support D CO. I didn't know anybody and Ralph took it upon himself to integrate me into things and make me feel comfortable. We talked a lot during the long missions in Yusufiyah and elsewhere during those months. I thank him for that and wish I could do more to honor him. I think about him quite a bit and wish he knew how much I appreciate what he did for me.
Daniel Herzberg
September 9, 2012
I'm thinking of you every day brother!
Ivana Malic
September 8, 2012
not a day goes by that i don't miss you, think of you and wish that you were still here, you will always be my hero. love you always
Achterberg
September 3, 2012
I think of you every day brother.
Chris DeFiori
September 1, 2012
RIP brother...you are not forgotten.
C Malstrom
June 17, 2012
Miss you Brother!
C 1/50 at Benning was were our journey began. You were a rock for us as I know you were for your family. Keep watch over us...
May 28, 2012
You will always live in our hearts and prayers.
Ivana Malic
September 4, 2011
I can't believe its been 5 yrs that you've been gone, I miss you so much my dearest friend. The heart that truely loves never forgets. You will always be in my heart and mind. Take care of Fate and Fury.
September 3, 2011
Words can't express how much I wish I had been able to meet you. Your family misses you so much. I get to hear stories of you often. You have remained in their hearts throughout the years. You haven't been forgotten.
Peggy Childers
September 2, 2011
To the family and friends of Sgt. Ralph N. Porras:
Please accept my remembrance of Ralph on the anniversary of his passing and know that he will never be forgotten.
Joshua Keatts
May 30, 2011
Ralph,
I remember the first day I showed up to D Co. and had no idea what I was doing as a brand new Soldier. You were the first to friend me and the first to help me. There's not a week that goes by that I don't think of you and who you were to me and our brothers. I remember watching you jump out of a truck in Afghanistan and racing into the woods after the man you thought tried blowing our truck up. I remember the long conversations we had in the guard towers at night and the dreams and goals we talked about accomplishing. Ralph, I'm now an Infantry Captain about to take command in the 173rd and to some degree you helped set an example and influence me to follow my dreams. I miss you and honor you and your family for your sacrifices. With love. Josh
September 10, 2010
Ralph,
I will never be able repay what you did for me. I think it was your plan, I brought everyone else home. God bless you, always. Ock
Ivana Malic
September 3, 2010
To my one true love, If tears could build a stairwell and memories were a lane, I would walk right up to Heaven and bring you home again. No farewell words were spoken, no time to say good-bye. You were gone before I knew it, and only God knows why. My heart still aches in sadness and secret tears still flow, What it means to lose you no one will ever know. Me and Fate miss you.
Peggy Childers
September 2, 2010
To the family and friends of Sgt. Ralph N. Porras:
Remembering Ralph on the anniversary of his passing. May our fallen heroes never be forgotten!
Peggy Childers
"Don't Let The Memory Of Them Drift Away"
www.IraqWarHeroes.org
Justin Ricketts
October 8, 2009
Miss you bro.
You were my right hand man. My god be with your family.
SSG Ricketts
Vickie
September 24, 2009
To the family of Sgt. Porras,
Your sacrifice, and that of your son, can never be repaid. I, too have a son and a daughter-in-law serving in the military. It is an exceptional individual who can step forward and put their country and all that it stands for ahead of their own lives. I thank God for each and every one of them. They are the reason we have this way of life.
Thank you
John
September 8, 2009
A good man that will never be forgotten. If only everyone knew the sacrifices that Ralph made in the days prior to his death.
Michelle (Weber)Buchinger
September 5, 2009
Ralphy-I can't believe it's been 3 yrs already. I remember the call from my sister telling me what happened. I cried almost all day as I packed to goto Ft. Sill to see my son, John, graduate from Basic Training. I remember the 1st time Aunt Bev & Uncle Dave seen him- they held on so tight to him and cried more than I had ever seen them cry, ever. I remember Uncle Dave sitting in the chair crying when John was getting ready to goto S. Korea. Now, I get ready to deploy that same son to Iraq. I will live day to day knowing that, even though you didn't know my John, you will be watching over him.
September 2, 2009
I can't believe that its been 3 yrs that you 've been gone I keep thinking and wishing that it was all a bad dream and that you'll walk through the door again and smile and it will all be ok. A heart that truly loves never forgets. I think of you every single day and thank god that i was lucky enough to have known you in such a close way. I will always love you as long as i live. miss you
Peggy Childers
September 2, 2009
To the family of Sgt. Ralph N. Porras:
Ralph gave the ultimate sacrifice and will be held in the hearts of Americans forever. I cannot and will not let our fallen heroes be forgotten. My deepest sympathy to you. "Some gave all."
Peggy Childers
"Don't Let The Memory Of Them Drift Away"
www.IraqWarHeroes.org
Kristina Cupp
May 25, 2009
Ralph was one of the best friends anyone could ask for, he always made us laugh, always knew the right thing to say he was just an all around great friend. I am proud to have had the opportunity to have met Ralph and have him as a friend. We will always love and miss you RALPH see you some day on the other side.
Ben Logan
April 22, 2009
Hello,
First, I want to thank Ralph for making the ultimate sacrifice for our country. I didn't know him, but I do know one of his close friends from Iraq, Capt. Ivan Castro. Ivan was severely injured and rendered blind in the tragic event that took Ralph's life. Ivan wears a bracelet with Ralph's name on it to honor his friend. I am trying to contact Ralph's wife Christine, I believe, to ask her some questions and get permission to honor Ralph in a special way. If anyone can please forward her contact information it would be greatly appreciated. Send any info to [email protected]
Kenna Larra
March 20, 2009
We love our Soldiers! We love our country and we cannot express enough love and compassion to the families of our fallen heroes. War does not discriminate – It breaks our hearts to see the faces of the fallen. We want to give this gift to you. We are a 501c3 nonprofit organization! Over 1,450 portraits have been completed and shipped to the parents and or spouse - at no cost as this is a gift from one American to another!
Contact us directly at [email protected] or go to www.heropaintings.com. If you have already had a portrait completed, we pray that you are enjoying the portrait and God Bless You.
Sincerely,
Kenna
Cozette Haggerty
February 12, 2009
Hello,
I represent PRAYER SHAWLS 4 FALLEN SOLDIERS (PS4FS), an organization that since October 2007 has sent over 2,700 prayer shawls to military families who have lost a loved one. We are an organization of over 238 groups from all over the country. We make every effort to reach families even when post cards are returned after they have moved. Would you kindly send me a contact email/address so that we may send a prayer shawl to the family? Thank you!
Cozette Haggerty, Prayer Shawls 4 Fallen Soldiers
Email: [email protected]
Website Address: http://webpages.charter.net/ps4fs/shawls
Sarah Reimer
December 25, 2008
Ralph -
You are missed and thought of this Christmas. Your laughter and stories around the holiday table...will never be forgotten. Your nephews love and respect you although they barely had the chance to know you. We speak of you often, they know how brave you are and they love the country you bled for. You are loved and missed so much. All our love,
Sarah & JJ & Boys
Hero
September 2, 2008
In Memory of Ralph ~ (Debra Estep)
September 2, 2008
Holding you all in my thoughts and prayers.
The Wind on The Downs
“I like to think of you as brown and tall,
As strong and living as you used to be,
In khaki tunic, Sam Brown belt and all,
And standing there and laughing down at me.
Because they tell me, dear, that you are dead,
Because I can no longer see your face,
You have not died, it is not true, instead
You seek adventure in some other place.
That you are round about me, I believe;
I hear you laughing as you used to do,
Yet loving all the things I think of you;
And knowing you are happy, should I grieve?
You follow and are watchful where I go.”
(Written by Marian Allen during World War l )
Two lines that I wish you to keep near your heart…….
“You seek adventure in some other place.
That you are round about me, I believe”
I did not know Ralph, but I am remembering
his service. He is my hero. !
~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~
The Other Side
i'm over on the other side
where life and death softly divide.
left my skin and bones behind
now i'm over on the other side.
can you feel me there with you?
my breath is gone but i'm not through.
loved you then and i still do
from over on the other side.
i can fly. really fly.
below the earth ... all through the sky.
tell em all i did not die.
i'm just over on the other side.
it's good here on the other side.
the sweetest songs...the bluest skies.
thank you for the tears you cried
but it's good here on the other side.
i can fly. really fly. below the earth...all through the sky.
tell em all i did not die.
i'm just over on the other side
the world is smaller than a needle's eye.
where life and death softly divide.
when you leave your skin and bones behind
i'll be waiting on the other side.
i can fly. really fly. below the earth ... all through the sky.
go tell em all i did not die.
i'm just over on the other side.
Song lyrics by Don Conoscenti
C Desert Muse/SESAC
www.donconoscenti.com
(Used with permission)
“I hope it brings great comfort to any and all.
Peace on you. DonCon” 4-2008
The Other Side –
(To hear the song)
http://tinyurl.com/3o8gol
Sincerely,
Deb Estep ~ Ohio
Proud Air Force Mom SSgt Vince – Lackland AFB
Proud Air Force MIL SrA Dana – Randolph AFB
Remembering The Fallen – Blog
http://tinyurl.com/3z8p55
Angel and soldier drawing I have shared here.
http://tinyurl.com/6gey8b
J Caspersen
July 10, 2008
I went to the 82nd and then on to Iraq with Ralph, we were separated into different companies there. Him to Delta, myself to Bravo, but remained friends for the next 3 years until I got out. RIP brother, I'm sorry I didnt hear about you sooner. You were without exaggeration the best of the best, and I wish you nothing but blue skies, airborne.
June 1, 2008
You are remembered and respected. Thank you Sgt Porras!
January 4, 2008
Ralph is and always will be the most special and endearing person whom I ever met. He always made me laugh, always cared, and always was the "angel" in my life. I will never be the same, either will alot of people, now that I can no longer hear your voice. I see you in my dreams, in my prayers and in my heart FOREVER! You are dearly missed and there are no words that can ever express what you mean to me (us). Someday I will see you my friend, and I know that you always look down on us too. You are safe now, and we are the ones asking "why"????. Dear Ralph, we are with you ALWAYS!
Betty Nielsen
September 30, 2007
To the family of Sgt Ralph Porras my deepest sympathy for the loss of a great man someone that will be forever remember for being a hero and a true man that not only cared for his family but his country also. he wanted to make it safe for all of us so we didn't have to worry about our freedom or another 9/11 he was truly a man of honor and I hope that when you get to receive the quilts I am making for you that you will find comfort in knowing that he hasn't been forgotten. We hope you can use the quilt to wrap yourself in it and feel all the love that took to make your quilt. Yes we want you to feel like you will never be alone and that our prayers will alway go your way as our good thougths. It isn't easy for this is a pain that will stay with you until the day you meet up with Ralph. Know that he would want you to live life take it one day at a time but do not worry about him because he is now one of God soldiers in heaven. He did what he needed to do here on earth and now he is in heaven with the Lord watching over you with love. My email if you ever wish to contact me is [email protected] and my website is www.freedomquilts.net My prayers are with you always.
Ivana Malic
August 31, 2007
It's been almost a year since you've passed and not a day goes by that i don't think of you and wish that you were here. I would give anything to be able to just hear your voice and see you smile again.I know that you are home and hanging with your baby boy (fury) as you watch over your family and friends. I look forward to one day seing your smile again and being able to hang out and talk about old times. Miss you my friend. You are forever in my heart. Life is just not the same without you. Fate sends her love.
August 17, 2007
There is nothing that I can say or do to take away the pain or bring you peace in your time of sorrow, but I will offer you and your family my heart felt condolences. I also offer you my prayers that in time the pain will easy and the memories of your HERO will carry you through each day and night. I want to thank your HERO, for his/her selfless act of becoming a member of the armed forces, his/her willingness to defend the United States of America, all that we hold sacred and for the sacrifice that will forever be etched in the memories of all those who knew him/her. Though tears can never bring him/her back, we hope that our tears express our gratitude for the sacrifice that he/she made and our sorrow at his/her passing. I believe for every fallen HERO there is a star shining brightly up above to remind us of the precious gift we were given.
Your mission on earth is complete and you are now a member of GOD’s Heavenly armed forces. Stand down brave warrior and take your rightful place in Heaven with all the HEROES who have passed before.
I made a special promise to LE RON A. WILSON, a dear family friend who joined the Army with three other friends, one of whom is my son (Le Ron was killed in action on 07/06/07 at the age of 18) on the day he was laid to rest as I touched his coffin, that I would never forget him nor would I forget those that gave their lives for our country before him, with him and after him and so when I came across www.legacy.com, I thought what a great way to keep my promise to Le Ron, so I will continue to leave tributes in each guest book until the day there is no longer the need to leave these tributes to a FALLEN HERO.
REST IN PEACE, HERO, YOU WILL NEVER BE FORGOTTEN!!
PROUD MOTHER OF A U.S. SOLDIER
Currently stationed in Germany
Althea Barrett(Queens, NY)
Sonya Porras
August 6, 2007
I am sorry for your loss.
Camp Arifjan, Kuwait
July 31, 2007
Thank you for the sacrifice made by Sgt Porras and the sacrifice made by everyone who loves and misses him! May God bless all of you!!
Glen
February 2, 2007
“Soldier”
Written to Honor the Service of Our Fallen Soldiers
Soldiers write history, we pay the price
Many miles distant, you live the life
Entered the Battle of our own free will
Out of Duty for Country, and we’d do it still
We hope and pray that all will find peace
In God, in the flag, in memories of valor
Gone now, our pride and courage you see
“An Army of One” our motto forever
Willing to risk all for love of our Brothers
We’re still Your Soldiers…and we showed the way
Our Lives too short, now pray for the others
Lived free died Heroes in lands far away
Deep within souls all cherished our Service
We’ll always have what some never know
Courage and Honor, our names forever
Lived life with purpose…just our time to go
We march in the Heavens with Honor and Glory
Missions accomplished we fought the Good Fight
Many years from now…we’ll tell the full story
Until that Day we will live in the Light
Our lives we laid down in a land far away
Still watching o’er you this night and by day
No need to talk…just know we are with you
There in your hearts and we hear what you pray
Yes we are your soldiers
Our lives we laid down
Still We guard o’er you
Still Duty bound
Entered the Battle of our own free will
Out of Duty for Country, and we’d do it still
We’ll always have what some never know
Lived life with purpose…it was our time to go
Brad Graham Kirner
October 27, 2006
A Terrible loss and shame of one of the last Unique Characters of this world - Our friendship was unique and I will never forget our time we had together as many of the stories still come up today.What an Incredible Soul Storm was - once you met him you never forget and he will be inpossible to replace in our hearts and Minds.We will never forget the Laugh, the Smile , the Energy and the Charisma of one of the most Incredible People I've met in My Life. God Bless I will Miss You my Friend.
Brad graham Kirner
David Herzberg
October 18, 2006
To a great friend and a very wonderful person. We had alot of good times together and did some pretty wild things but Ralph was a very nice individual who always made a bad day a wonderful one with his presence and up beat personality. He will be missed by many. Ralph gave his life for a good cause because this war is making this world a much safer place. He gave his life and that takes alot of courage to fight for the freedom we often take for granted. My prayers go out to his family and the ones that were closest to him. God Bless him and one day we will meet again. Love ya buddy and you will be missed by myself and many others.
Long Time Friend
Dave Herzberg
herbert
October 16, 2006
To the family of Sgt. Porras:
No words can truly express the deep sympathy I share in the loss of your loved one. Cast your cares on the Lord, He cares for you. Be strong and of good courage.
Michael Mewherter
October 16, 2006
My deepest sympathy goes out to Ralph and his family. I will never forget Ralph's never ending smile and infectious can-do attitude. You will truly be missed by anyone that you life has touched.
Tom Gugliuzza-Smith
October 8, 2006
My heartfelt sympathy to the Porras family in the loss of Ralph. I did not know Ralph, but my heart is broken and I am saddened for your loss of such a fine young person and hero. May God bring you peace in your heart as you reflect on all the wonderful memories you hold so close. Please know that you are in my heart and prayers. My heart was touched by the many wonderful/beautiful things written about you. Ralph you are my hero and you will NEVER be forgotten.
I send each of you a hug from the most inner part of my heart.
Love and Peace
Tom
To live in the hearts
of those you leave behind
is never to die"
~Robert Orr~
Daniel Herzberg
October 6, 2006
I was deeply saddened to hear the news about the sudden death of Ralph. My thoughts are with you and your family during this difficult time. We are all in a state of shock. Ralph was such a funny, entertaining and supportive person to be around. He was always a bright spot in all his friends’ day. I remember when Ralph and I had a boy’s night out. He was always the center of attention and had the ability to draw the crowd to him. I know everyone will miss Ralph greatly. During this difficult time, I know you will draw upon your own strength and the strength of loved ones that hold you in their thoughts. You have my deepest sympathy. Remember the 1st Battalion, 325th Airborne Infantry Regiment, 2nd Brigade Combat Team, 8 is filled with people who care about you and are thinking about you in this difficult time of sorrow.
PETER MAZZA
October 4, 2006
MY CONDOLENSES OLD FRIEND OF RALPH FROM WINDSOR PETER
Damon Gutshall
October 2, 2006
To the Family of Sgt. Porras,
Condolences on your tremendous loss.
Like Ralph, I joined the Army after September 11 as an "older" soldier. We met during his first deployment to Iraq with D Co. but really got to know each other back at Ft. Bragg. No situation could bring him down. There were many times when hours were long and morale waned but Ralph always helped everyone around him get through it. "Cannot" is a word that Sgt. Porras did not know the meaning of. He was a genuinely nice guy with integrity and compassion for his fellow soldiers. Our prayers are with you and I am sure that Ralph is smiling down on all of us right now.
Ivana Malic
September 28, 2006
Storm,
You will ALWAYS be in my heart. I am so sad that this has happened and I can't function sometimes knowing that you are gone. I know you will be watching over your family and they will be blessed for it.
Fate sends her love. You made such a HUGE difference in my life and you will NEVER EVER be forgotten. A piece of me is missing now and I hope to meet you again in Heaven.
Jill Weakland
September 28, 2006
I just wanted to let you know how deeply sorry I am for your loss. My son is over in Iraq, and is so saddened by the events that have happened. Sgt. Porras was also in Afghanistan with my son, and he told me that he learned alot from Sgt Porras and how much he is going to miss him. Prayers are Airborne for you and your family.
Jiri Dolejs
September 27, 2006
It struck me very hard when I found out about Ralph’s death. I had to take couple of days to put my self back together to be able to write this.
I had the honor to know Ralph back in the 90’s and I can describe him as a person who stood for honesty, integrity and perseverance. I always enjoy his cheerful company it was fun to have him around. I’m glad I have met him in this lifetime. His indomitable worrier spirit will live among us forever.
On behalf of all his friends from the club in Windsor Ontario, so long buddy we’ll miss you.
Pannell
September 27, 2006
Thinking about Sgt. Porras, I'll never forget the laughter and his genuine sincerity towards other people. When it came to loving life, he was the real deal. The good of this world misses you Ralph Porras. Our prayers go out to you and your family.
miroslav ragus
September 26, 2006
thanks storm for being so nice to me and my brother and my sister and my whole family we all love u so muuch and we will miss u so much and think about u each and every day u were the best person and good friend ill miss u storm tell fury i love him aswell from mike ragus
Lorie Zeleniuk
September 23, 2006
Storm,
Its been a long time since I've seen you but, we will meet again someday. Your picture is right what an unforgetable smile. You were a great friend, & will be missed very much. What a hero you are, to leave your family and serve our country so bravely. I will never forget you.
skipp kipping
September 22, 2006
thanks storm, you made me feel like your little brother even if it was for a short while, you took the time when you didnt have to miss u bud ..
Tera Kipping
September 19, 2006
I just learned today of Ralph's passing and I am deeply saddened. He was one man I will NEVER forget. He had a contagious smile and a hilarious sense of humor. He loved his dog(especially Fury)and was an all around wonderful guy. You couldn't help but to love him as soon as you met him. I will miss you. You died defending your country and doing what you always wanted to do.You were a brave man and a cherished friend.
September 19, 2006
To the Family of Sgt. Ralph N. Porras:
My heart breaks again as I sign yet another guest book of another courgeous young soldier who gave their life so selflessly. I wish I never found myself in a position to have to sign another guestbook for the rest of my life. We lost a son 12/1/05 and it seems like yesterday.
I know first hand there are no words right now that will bring you the comfort and peace you need. Just know that you are not alone. My heart, thoughts, and prayers are with you all as you mourn this loss. We don't know each other, will probably never meet, but will forever be united in the loss of our Heroes. We have, unfortunately joined a group none of us wanted to join, an ever-growing group of families in this situation. May God grant you peace and strength to get through this and be able once again to smile at a memory rather than have only the tears that flow so easily now. To be so proud of your loved one and so saddened at the same time is a mix of emotions very difficult to deal with. I am sorry that I never knew your soldier personally, but none of these courageous men and women will be forgotten. They will never be able to be replaced, but sometime, someday your loving memories will help to sustain you. This courageous soldier will forever now be your Angel watching over you all for the rest of your lives. It's what brings me some measure of peace and comfort and I hope it will you as well. To his family and friends in pain, I offer this comfort: When you find yourself in that dark sorrowful place, think not only of how you will miss him, but instead recall the years, days, hours and minutes gifted to you by his presence. The one thing that cannot be taken from you is those wonderful memories that now will mean more than ever. If you ever want to talk, I'm only an e:mail away and would love for you to tell me more about your Hero. God Bless this courageous soldier and family.
Pam Adams (SFC Brent Adams, KIA 12/1/05 Ramadi, Iraq)
[email protected]
(Millersville, PA )
ROBYN GARSIDE
September 19, 2006
MAY GOD BLESS YOU AND YOURS. PLEASE ACCEPT MY DEEPEST CONDOLENCES FOR YOUR GREAT LOSS. KNOW THAT THERE ARE PEOPLE OUT HERE WHO DO CARE AND YOUR HERO WILL NEVER BE FORGOTTEN. HOLD TIGHT TO YOUR TREASURED MEMORIES THAT HIS SPECIAL SMILE MAY CONTINUE TO SHINE ON FOR YOUR LITTLE ONE. I PRAY THAT PEACE WILL FIND YOU ALL SOMEDAY. STAY STRONG AND GODSPEED. SEMPER FI
A PROUD MARINE MOM
Kate Muse
September 18, 2006
You were my big brother, and uncle Ralph to my boys. There aren't enough words to describe the kind of man you are, and to say you are missed is an understatement. We love ya sweetie, and I'll see you on Green Ramp.
Love, Kate Muse
Carolyn & Wes Dreese
September 18, 2006
Christine Porras and family:
Our hearts go out to you during this difficult time. Our 21 year old son, Justin W. Dreese, died along with your beloved husband, Ralph, during that fateful mission in Yusifyah. The grief is overbearing and they tell us time will heal. We have lost two tremendous men who were the bravest. May God be with you.
Wesley and Carolyn Dreese, Freeburg, PA 17827
Kollette Bordeaux-Borruso
September 15, 2006
Dear Tom,
I just learned of your brother's passing late last night and am deeply saddened and shocked by the news. My heart goes out to you and your family during this very difficult time. I can remember back to when we were teen-agers what charisma he had, and how his smile lit up an entire room. I am sure he will be greatly missed by so many people. What a true hero! My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
Michelle Buchinger (Weber)
September 15, 2006
I remember Ralphy as a kid. We played together at Aunt Bev & Uncle Dave's house, and at his Grandma & Grandpa Kowalski's- for some reason I keep remembering Ralphy & Davey chasing me and the other kids- really for no reason- just to play. I also remember how cute we look in the picture from Aunt Bev & Uncle Dave's wedding! As we grew, we really didn't see each other- but I remember seeing him again, at Aunt Bev & Uncle Dave's house, probably in the mid 90's. I met his wife and son and thought how "like father like son" held true. We were out back sitting, watching all the kids chase each other-for no reason- and laughed when his son and my son started chasing each other around. We just kinda looked at each other and remembered when it was us. My deepest sympathy goes out to everyone that fortunate to know Ralph. I know he turned out to be a great husband, father, son, brother, grandson, nephew, cousin, soldier, man; but to me he'll always be the little Ralphy that chased me around the yard.
Cindy (Bell) Seeburger
September 14, 2006
Chrissy - I learned of the loss of your husband from my mom, Beth Bell and was immediately saddened by the news. Your husband is a true hero in every sense of the word. I thank God regularly for the men and women in our military and pray for their safety as they work to defend the freedoms we Americans enjoy on a daily basis and sometimes take for granted. I am hopeful that your memories of happier times and knowing that you have the love and support of many others will sustain and comfort you during this time. You will be in my thoughts and prayers and I wish God's peace to you and your son.
Jason Killingsworth
September 13, 2006
I miss you so bad, thanks for being a friend.
Jerry Waterman
September 13, 2006
We were really saddened by Ralph's passing. I will always remember my daughter Amy walking down the street with his python wrapped around her neck.We are very proud of him and may God bless you..The Waterman's
Ryan Miller
September 13, 2006
Christine,
Words can not express the sorrow and shock I felt when I heard of Ralph's untimely passing. Please accept my deepest sympathies.
I know that Ralph always wanted to be in the service and when I was home on leave he would always talk about it- always after talking about his family. He is a great man and I will always remember him with as a caring man with a smile and spoke well of everybody he knew. Again, I am so sorry for your loss.
Amy Gale
September 12, 2006
To Christine, Storm, Marilyn, Tom and Annie: Words could never express the loss we all feel. Ralph was one of the most amazing men GOD placed on earth. He was a leader as we all grew up together and demonstrated that up until the end. The special bond that Ralph had with us will be kept close to my heart always. All the hugs and prayers to your family from ours. With love, Derek, Amy, Storm, Chase and Arabela Gale
Ryan Marsh
September 12, 2006
Rest in peace warrior. You were a great man. Thanks for encouraging me to make it through Basic Training and Airborne School.
Karen, David, Lindsay and Morgan Malott
September 12, 2006
Dear Porras Family,
Our deepest sympathy to your family. We remember Ralph when we lived at the Apartments. He used to babysit Lindsay and Morgan and Markesa and Christina. Ralph was a great guy and a lot of fun. We thank him for the ultimate sacrifice for our country's freedom. He will be dearly missed. All our prayers to your family.
Big"A"
September 12, 2006
Ralph was/is a true friend , we grew up together , he will be greatly missed , but never forgotten.
He had dreamed of being in the military since we were kids ,so it was no suprise when he went ,he got to do what he always wanted to do .
Michelle Podgorski
September 12, 2006
Christine, I was very sorry to hear the sad news. Although it has been many years, I think of you often and will continue to keep you and Storm in my thoughts and prayers, Michelle Podgorski
David and Sarah Anderson
September 11, 2006
Our Hearts and our prayers are with you. Ralph was a great human beinging and I was honored to serve with him. He had a commpassionate heart and soul and was dedicated to his country. The world is a lesser place because of his sacrifice.
Christine Bank
September 11, 2006
To the Porras Family. My thoughts are with all of you during this time and beyond. Ralph was someone that could always make you laugh. He'll be dearly missed. Keep all of your memories of him close to your hearts now and forever.
September 11, 2006
Rest in peace brave warrior, thank you for your courage and patriotism. May your memory always burn bright in the hearts and minds of those dear ones who love you so much. Our condolences to the family; God be with you and comfort you all!
Proud Family of Msgt. Anthony Yost KIA, Mosul 10/19/05
Michelle (Duranso) Smith
September 11, 2006
I went to Swan Valley with Ralph and he was the best guy there. Even after he left Swan Valley when I would run into him at the store he would always stop and say hi and chat for a minute. He was a real person that you just loved to be around because he was genuine and very polite. I am so sorry for your loss and my prayers are with you and you rfamily. May god bless you and your family. He was brought up to be a wonderful man, his parents did a wondrful job rasing him.. He is very special.
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