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Ross Clevenger Obituary

Sgt. Ross Aaron Clevenger, 21, was killed Feb. 8, 2007 while serving in Iraq with the 321st Engineering Battalion. Born April 11, 1985 in Nampa, Idaho, Ross grew up in the Treasure Valley and graduated from Marsing High School in 2003. He joined the Army Reserves during high school and after basic training enrolled in Boise State University. He earned his CNA certificate in 2005 and was continuing his education. He was called to active duty in early 2006 and deployed to Iraq in September. Ross will be remembered for the genuine love of his family, his positive attitude, and his goofy grin which always brightened the room. One of Ross passions was snowboarding; he had a season pass to Bogus Basin every year since graduating high school. While Ross was on leave from Iraq in January 2007 he spent a week at Tamarack snowboarding with family and friends. During high school he discovered his love of writing and continued to do so in his spare time. Ross also loved to watch movies and play video games and his movie/video collection was one of his prized possessions. Ross spent weekends fishing, hiking and skateboarding with his siblings. Ross was preceded in death by his brother Blake. Ross is survived by his mother Abby (Reese) Bradshaw of Marsing, Idaho, his father Loren (Nancy) Clevenger of Kennewick, Wash., his siblings David (Debbie), Paul (Diana), Debbie (Mike), Melissa (Rick), Brent (Summer), Brett (Christine), Jenny (Dax), Angie (Chris), Kara (Wade), Matt, Ben (Lisa), Julie (Tim), Brandon (Shanda), Charli, Robert, and Morgan. He is also survived by his loving fiancee, Staff Sgt. Brandie Brown, still serving in Iraq. Funeral services will be held at 2 p.m. Saturday, Feb. 17, 2007, in the Marsing High School Gymnasium, 800 Main Street, Marsing, Idaho. Interment will follow in the Hillcrest Memorial Gardens, Caldwell, Idaho. In lieu of flowers, contribution may be made at any branch of U.S. Bank to educational scholarships for children of military families. Local arrangements are being provided by Zeyer Funeral Chapel., 83 North Midland Blvd. Nampa. 467-7300.

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Published by Idaho Statesman on Feb. 16, 2007.

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Gabriela Ruiz Meza

May 25, 2023

Today I thought of you Ross. I remember the day we met at Starbucks. You were always a gentleman, caring and overall sweet. You had this smile that would just light up a room.
I'm sorry it has taken me this long, but know that I have always thought of you during Memorial Day. I always make sure to see your picture and think of you and how big of an influence you had on anyone that met you. Today as I was teaching about Memorial Day to my students I pulled up a picture of you, I couldn't help it but tried to hold back tears. You were taken too soon my friend. I will continue to show your picture and talk to my students about the ultimate sacrifice you gave for us.
We love you and will forever be grateful.
Nancy Ruiz

Scott Lynch

February 6, 2022

While I did not know Ross personally, I was there the day he passed and I can say with absolute certainty that his sacrifice potentially spared my life, the lives of my teammates, and the lives within every vehicle to follow. I think about him and his crew often, as I remain forever indebted to their sacrifice. Family/friends - I am sorry for your loss. He and his team will be forever remember for their courage in the face of certain danger.

Robert Magill

October 23, 2020

Ross and Family -

A decade ago I received this hero bracelet to wear as part of a fundraiser for vets. Since then, I have worn his name and shared his story with many among my travels. A decade past, but never forgotten. Rest easy Ross.

Capt Robert Magill, USAF

Charlie Gili

November 3, 2018

Hello,
We realize that we are very late to express our deepest condolences, but we wanted to let your family and friends know that we will be sending Care Packages to deployed troops this holiday season and several of these will be dedicated to your loved one. Each package will carry the name, photo and hometown of Ross A. Clevenger US Army Specialist.

We realize that this is a small tribute, but we do this with all respect and sincerity and we want you to know that it is made possible by thousands of like-minded individuals from across the American youth hockey community, their families and friends and others who support our mission.

We will not forget. May God Bless you and keep you safe and strong.

Sincerely,
Charlie Gili & Family
On Behalf of our US Hockey Players Support Our Troops Campaign

Taylor Rae

November 6, 2014

Dear Ross and Family,

Today I participated in a memorial ruck march, and shared Ross's story with my comrades. I shared how I met Ross working for an agency providing services to individuals with disabilities, and how Ross was also in school for nursing at that time, and in the Idaho National Guard; a full life of service at 21 years old. I shared how his life of service, and his passing - lit a fire inside of me, and inspired me to serve also. And in honor of him, I am doing just that. I am currently stationed at Schofield Barracks, Hawaii, serving as a Brigade Social Worker. I have the privilege of serving those who serve, and being an instrument of healing. I want you all to know that I still remember Ross, I remember his sacrifice. It was not in vain. Today we all remembered him, and walked in his honor.

I still think of you, and keep you in my prayers.

With Love,

CPT Taylor Rae

Megan Mattocks

February 7, 2014

Missing you more and more as the years go on. You are so truly missed. I'd give anything to spend 5 more minutes with you and hear your contagious laugh. We love you. We miss you, forever and always. All gave some.. Some gave all.

Jesse Kelsch

July 14, 2013

Think of you every day.

John Webb

May 26, 2013

RIP SGT Clevenger you will never be forgotten, SFC John Webb, 25th Inf Div, Cu Chi, RVN 1966-1967. Melba, ID

Peggy Childers

February 9, 2013

To the family and friends of Spc. Ross A. Clevenger:
It has truly been my honor to sign Ross' guest book these past few years. Unfortunately, due to complications from my Multiple Sclerosis, this may be the last message I'm able to write. Please forgive me and know that Ross will always be remembered in my home.
With love and respect ~ Peggy

August 7, 2012

Our family would like to offer our eternal gratitude for Spc. Ross Clevenger for his dedication to this country evident through his service to this country. God Bless His Family Too.

l b

June 28, 2012

I wish i could have met Ross. He seems like a really good person and im glad he served for our country.

Jenny

May 28, 2012

I miss you little brother, especially our friendship.

Carol

May 28, 2012

Memorial Day 2012. I can't help but automatically think of Ross on Memorial Day, he was a remarkable and memorable young man. Five years later, it's still sad to think that we'll never hear that raspy voice or see his smiling face again. Mere words are entirely insufficient.

Brandie Smith

February 18, 2012

Dearest Ross, as you already know I am back in theater and this time, Afghanistan. This month has been the hardest, but I know you are watching over me, as you are always with me and in my heart. You are missed dearly by so many people. We love you, Always remembering, never ever forgotten

Peggy Childers

February 10, 2012

February 8, 2012
To the family and friends of Spc. Ross A. Clevenger:
Always remembering Ross. "Some gave all."

Abby Bradshaw

October 24, 2011

I remember how you used to stay up about 60 hours and then crash. The kids would try to beat your locked door down to play and sure enough you would chase them around the yard. We could use some chase and play, missing your precense today
I love you

Mike Fisher

May 26, 2011

I remember sitting with you at WLC, helping you study for Drill in Ceremony. You weren't much of a marcher or a cadence caller, and watching you attempt to use the buffer was probably one of the most hysterical sights I ever saw, but, you were one hell of soldier. It's a shame how things turn out, but knowing you and your selflessness... well, yeah, you know. Anyways bud, Hope you're buffing the floors alright up there. Now, when it thunders, I'll think of you losing control of the buffer slamming into everything, and when it rains, It'll be everyone up there watching, laughing themselves to tears... just like we all used to do.

Take care man. Keep em laughing.

Peggy Childers

February 8, 2011

To the family and friends of Spc. Ross A. Clevenger:
Please accept my remembrance of Ross on the anniversary of his passing and know that he will never be forgotten.
Peggy Childers
www.IraqWarHeroes.org

Megan Mattocks

February 8, 2011

I love you and I miss you more than ever. I cant believe its been 4 years.

My favorite photo of you..

Megan Mattocks

February 6, 2011

As I sit here thinking about how another year has gone past, I can't stop the tears from streaming down my face. Looking back at your photos, thinking of the memories, thinking of your wonderful family.. it's all so overwhelming. Words will never be able to describe the pain and emptiness I still feel in my heart with you not being around. I think back to our camping trip with Jenny, Dax, Ruby & Matt.. I think about our argument over which Big and Rich song was better, which I still think I won! I remember waking up after jaw surgery and seeing you and KJ in my room with my favorite smoothie for me. It's amazing how there is something every single day that happens in my life that brings me back to thoughts of you. I found my old journal I had from years ago, and found one entry that I completely think represents how I really felt about you. I was seeing someone at the time that I was complaining about in my journal, and I noted the fact that you had stopped by to bring me that smoothie and how my boyfriend at the time hadn't even called to see how I was doing. In my journal I wrote "Why can't all guys be perfect, like Ross?" I simply adore you Ross. I will never forget that smile, that laugh, how you always smelt like coffee, how you were always down for anything. I miss you. I love you.

Camille Cram-Scott

January 7, 2011

As a child Ross was such a kind and polite little boy. As an adult he had so much courage and he always gave a helping hand to everyone. We miss him.

Abby

January 6, 2011

Another Christmas has passed. We went to a movie to remember you this year. always sad

Michelle

August 13, 2010

Abby,
It will always be my honor to have run in memory of Ross. For someone I never had the chance to meet, I will always remember him and think of your family.
Wishing you every kindness,
Michelle

Our angels...

August 7, 2010

Rocco looks so much like you! He is wearing jeans today in 100 degree weather, sound familiar??

August 7, 2010

Ross and his proud Mom!

August 7, 2010

Cheers to you Bro, I miss you!!!

August 7, 2010

Really young Ross

August 7, 2010

Young Ross

August 7, 2010

Ross chilin' in the Mountains.

August 7, 2010

Abby Bradshaw

March 9, 2010

To my son, on his soon 25 birthday, I will sing, I will remember the birthdays I missed and the ones we celebrated, I would give everything to talk to you or see you,
you have inspired many, with love
humility and kindness, and that comes from you, Ross. They come to visit and write to me, Thank you for being
my son, I love you, Mom

Peggy Childers

February 8, 2010

To the family and friends of Spc. Ross A. Clevenger:
Remembering Ross on the anniversary of his passing. May our fallen heroes never be forgotten!
Peggy Childers
"Don't Let The Memory Of Them Drift Away"
www.IraqWarHeroes.org

Pat Milner

August 29, 2009

I served with "clevenger" in Iraq. i lived in the same barracks and worked on his vehicle. everyone new him it seemed like, he befriended all it. It was a terrible day for everyone and i pray for all the families that has lost someone.

Diane Everett

May 24, 2009

Our thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time. Heroes never die; they remain in our hearts forever.
Please know there are many thinking of you and caring.

Megan

April 4, 2009

Words will never be able to explain my heartbreak when I think of you and how your not here with us. I love you now, I loved you then. I'll never forget you and your wonderful family. Happy early birthday... I'll make that god-awful cake again for you :)

Love
Megan M

Kenna Larra

February 13, 2009

We love our Soldiers! We love our country and we cannot express enough love and compassion to the families. War does not discriminate – It breaks my heart to see the faces of the fallen. We want to give this gift to you. We are a 501c3 nonprofit organization! Over 1,400 portraits have been completed and shipped to the parents and or spouse - at no cost as this is a gift from one American to another!
Contact us directly at [email protected] or go to www.heropaintings.com. If you have already had a portrait completed, we pray that you are enjoying the portrait and God Bless You.
Sincerely,
Kenna

Josh Schafer

February 9, 2009

I Miss my friend very much, and evry morning when i wake up i think about the coffee we shared together..... we both loved coffee. I miss and love you my friend, we celebrated your heroism tonight. i hope your saving a place for me! there are alot of sad people tonight missing there friend Ross. I love and miss you. Schafer

Peggy Childers

February 8, 2009

To the family of Spc. Ross A. Clevenger:
Ross gave the ultimate sacrifice and will be held in the hearts of Americans forever. I cannot and will not let our fallen heroes be forgotten. My deepest sympathy to you. "Some gave all."
Peggy Childers
"Don't Let The Memory Of Them Drift Away"
www.IraqWarHeroes.org

abby clevenger

December 27, 2008

TO ALL WHOM HAVE SENT ENTRIES TO MY
SON'S GUESTBOOK, I APPRECIATE YOUR
KINDNESS, I LOVE READING ALL THE THINGS YOU HAVE SAID ABOUT ROSS.

TO MY SON ROSS, YOU ARE MORE THAN
MY HERO, YOU ARE ALL THE GOOD THINGS. YOU ROSE ABOVE CRITICISM
TO TREAT ALL WITH KINDNESS. YOU WERE A LIGHT AND COMFORT TO ALL
WHO KNEW YOU.
ANOTHER CHRISTMAS HAS PASSED AND
I MISS YOU MORE THAN EVER. PLEASE
TAKE CARE OF YOUR BROTHER, BLAKE.
MISSING YOU AND MY HEART ACHES,
LOVE, MOM

Michelle

August 24, 2008

Dear Mr and Mrs. Clevenger,
My name is Michelle and I work for the American Red Cross in Iraq. Today was the Run for the Fallen in which one mile is run for every servicemember who has lost their life in OIF. Although I never had the honor of knowing your son, when I was asked to write down the name of a solider who I would run for, I chose Ross. I wanted to let you know that he was remembered today and I hope I did him proud. I am wishing the very best for your family.
With kindest regards,
Michelle

June 20, 2008

You are remembered and respected. Thank you Spc Clevenger!

Taylor Nicholas

April 27, 2008

I feel the need to share my story and experiences here; not because I think they are great or important, but because it might make a difference for someone else somehow.

Family and Friends of Ross,
Ross’s passing away had a great impact on my life. I’d like to share the story of how Ross’s life and passing has changed my life, and will go on to impact many others.
For years, I had managed to push the war out of my mind. I didn’t think about it, I didn’t watch the news. I didn’t think about the thousands of brave men and women serving our country, or their loved ones here at home.
I worked with Ross at a developmental disabilities agency. I have always been passionate about social work. It wasn’t until Ross passed away that reality struck me. Having someone I knew and admired and appreciated loose his life in service to our country -hit very close to my heart. It was like I could no longer shut out this war; I could no longer ignore that fact that so many men and women are out there in harm’s way serving our country, for us. And I thought about all the mothers, fathers, sisters, brothers, husbands, wives, children and all the friends and loved ones of these brave warriors. What an impact that had on me.
On the afternoon that I returned home from Ross’s funeral I encountered and article from the Washington Post online. It was announcing the neglect that soldiers were facing at Walter Reed Army Medical Center in Washington, DC. I read all 18 pages of the article and my heart went out to these soldiers and their families. Though I read news with a discriminating eye, I couldn’t help but feel for these people, and I felt an urgent need to GO THERE! I didn’t know what I would have to offer there, or how I would get there, but I knew I must go there!
The first thing I did was tell my social work professor, who has been a mentor to me, and has many contacts in the community. He asked me to share my ambition with our social work class. I did, and I asked if anyone else would be interested in going with me. One classmate was up for the adventure. I immediately began making phone calls to see if someone would let us in and give us tour. I talked to about 20 different people, usually getting the run-around, and getting passed from person to person. I felt like they thought I was trying to add to the negative press and reveal some scandal. My motives were purely for educational purposes. I wanted to meet a social worker there and learn about military social work. I was determined to make it.
Finally, after about three weeks of phone calls and emails every day, I came in contact with a social worker who was willing to let us in, give an interview, and give us a tour of the facility. We made the trip during spring break of 2007.
I had never been to Washington, DC before. I felt it to be a very exciting place with a unique energy. One of my favorite places to visit was Arlington National Cemetery. I enjoyed being a tourist for a few days, but was reeling inside thinking of the day we would visit Walter Reed. In my heart, I felt like something huge was happening inside of me; something bigger than me. I didn’t know what it was, but it felt right.
On the afternoon which we were scheduled to meet the social worker, on our way to the hospital we met three soldiers at a bagel shop nearby. I was so excited to see them, knowing that we must be close. We spoke with them and found out that they worked at Walter Reed and were on their way back there now. They offered to give us a ride, as we were on foot. Of course we accepted. We rode onto the hospital compound easily with the soldiers. One of them took us right to the social worker’s office. Everything seemed so meant to be, like fate was leading me right where I needed to be.
The social worker was amazing. She was very dedicated to her job and service to soldiers, very much loved and appreciated by the soldiers and staff there at the hospital. She spent four hours with us, answering all of our questions about military social work and showing us some of the amazing things that go on at the hospital, like the making of prosthetics and the physical and occupational therapy sites. She introduced us to several soldiers who were patients there. I felt lucky to be there, and fortunate to be able to meet these people. I felt so inspired and felt this thing happening inside of me; it was like a revelation: this is what I’m supposed to do – use my social work ambition to serve soldiers!
I had an incredible week in DC, and felt changed when I returned home. I felt like I had purpose, and a goal, and I couldn’t stop thinking about the military. I wanted to learn more about soldiers and military life so that I could serve them some day as a social worker. When classes resumed, I went to the ROTC department at BSU to see how I could learn more about military life. Of course the first person I talked to was a recruiter, who told me about a camp I could go to over the summer. There would be no commitment afterward, and I would be able to learn basic soldiering skills, and live on an Army base for a month. It was definitely out of my realm of comfort; I had never done anything like this before, or even thought of it – but I wanted to now. And I did.
I spent 28 days at Ft. Knox at Leader’s Training Course. It was fun and challenging. I met some very amazing and inspiring people there and I gained a very deep respect for soldiers and their service. And every day while I was there I thought about whether I wanted to join or not. I knew I wanted to be a social worker, but up until this point I assumed I would be doing social work as a civilian. After I graduated from LTC and came home, I still had not decided whether I would join or not.
One week after returning home from Ft. Knox I had another opportunity to visit Washington, DC. Again, I visited one of the places that had the deepest impact on me: Arlington Cemetery. I watched the changing of the guard ceremony at the Tomb of the Unknown Soldier. It’s hard to describe the feeling I got being there, and watching that. It made me want to be a part of it. Later that afternoon, I decided within myself that this is what I would do: I would join ROTC when I got home, get my social work degree, and serve soldiers and their families. I felt great about the decision, and also very humbled, that I had an opportunity to be a part of this institution of the Army, and that I would be able to offer something to the people who have offered everything in service to our country.
When I got home I told my husband about my decision, who was completely supportive. And I spoke with my recruiter, and we schedule a date for me to contract. Now, I am currently enrolled in ROTC and am a year away from graduating. Many things are uncertain at this point; it was a huge leap of faith to join the Army, I feel, but I also feel that my desires and ambitions to serve those who serve our country could not be ignored. There is no way to be certain what my future holds, as is the case with so many other soldiers and service men and women. I feel good about being a part of the Army and am excited to see where it will take me. I hope to be able to make a positive difference in the lives of others, directly or indirectly.
While Ross’s passing was a tragedy for many, and no doubt disheartening, it has changed my life in ways I never imagined. I feel honored to have known him and am proud of his service. I am thankful for all people in the military and am in awe at their selfless service and sacrifice.
Ross’s life and service to others has been such an inspiration to me. It makes me want to act. I am thankful for his presence in my life and hope to be able to inspire others by my own life some day they way that he inspires mine.

Safely Home

Michael Iezzi

April 11, 2008

Ross,
Happy Birthday in Heaven.

David Holtom

December 25, 2007

Thinking of you today Mrs. Clevenger. And Your son Ross. They were all great guys and we sure miss them. I actually enjoy reading the articles about them - all the nice things people had to say about Ross, Ray and Jim. Today I'm thankful for THE Son, but I'm also thankful for your son, Ross Clevenger.

God Bless

August 17, 2007

There is nothing that I can say or do to take away the pain or bring you peace in your time of sorrow, but I will offer you and your family my heart felt condolences. I also offer you my prayers that in time the pain will easy and the memories of your HERO will carry you through each day and night. I want to thank your HERO, for his/her selfless act of becoming a member of the armed forces, his/her willingness to defend the United States of America, all that we hold sacred and for the sacrifice that will forever be etched in the memories of all those who knew him/her. Though tears can never bring him/her back, we hope that our tears express our gratitude for the sacrifice that he/she made and our sorrow at his/her passing. I believe for every fallen HERO there is a star shining brightly up above to remind us of the precious gift we were given.

Your mission on earth is complete and you are now a member of GOD’s Heavenly armed forces. Stand down brave warrior and take your rightful place in Heaven with all the HEROES who have passed before.

I made a special promise to LE RON A. WILSON, a dear family friend who joined the Army with three other friends, one of whom is my son (Le Ron was killed in action on 07/06/07 at the age of 18) on the day he was laid to rest as I touched his coffin, that I would never forget him nor would I forget those that gave their lives for our country before him, with him and after him and so when I came across www.legacy.com, I thought what a great way to keep my promise to Le Ron, so I will continue to leave tributes in each guest book until the day there is no longer the need to leave these tributes to a FALLEN HERO.

REST IN PEACE, HERO, YOU WILL NEVER BE FORGOTTEN!!

PROUD MOTHER OF A U.S. SOLDIER
Currently stationed in Germany
Althea Barrett(Queens, NY)

August 8, 2007

Thank you for the sacrifice made by Spc Clevenger and the sacrifice made by everyone who loves and misses him! May God bless all of you!!

ROBYN Garside

May 4, 2007

MAY GOD BLESS YOU AND YOURS. I HAVE JUST LEARNED OF YOUR GREAT LOSS AND WISH TO EXPRESS MY DEEPEST SYMPATHIES. PLEASE KNOW THAT THERE ARE PEOPLE OUT HERE WHO DO CARE AND YOUR HERO WILL NEVER BE FORGOTTEN. HOLD TIGHT TO YOUR TREASURED MEMORIES THAT HIS SPECIAL SMILE MAY CONTINUE TO SHINE ON. I PRAY THAT PEACE WILL FIND YOU ALL SOMEDAY. GODSPEED AND SEMPER FI.

A PROUD MARINE MOM

Sandy Bonesteel

April 16, 2007

As the mother of a son (my only child) who is enlisted in the Army, I want to send my condolences.

Michael Iezzi

April 11, 2007

Ross,
Happy Birthday in Heaven. May God hold you in the palm of His hand. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.

Christina Clevenger

April 2, 2007

Dear Dad (Loren);
I wish we could have been there for you and the family. I never got to talk to you but wanted you to know how sorry I am for the loss of your son. He was a great person and we'll miss him greatly. We just wish we could have seen him the last time we came to visit. God bless you and your family! We love you!
Love,
Christina Clevenger and Brett

Shanda Handley

March 19, 2007

I am so sorry that this had to happen! Ross was amazing in his own goofy way. He will be greatly missed and we will always have him in our hearts and in our thoughts and prayers! You were my brother-in-law and I will miss you tons! We love you Ross!

Michael Iezzi

March 15, 2007

Father we entrust our brother Ross to your mercy. You loved him greatly in this life: now that he is freed from all its cares, give him happiness and peace forever. Welcome him now into paradise where there will be no more sorrow, no more weeping or pain, but only peace and joy with Jesus your Son, and the Holy Spirit forever and ever.
May God hold Ross in the palm of His hand. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. My deepest sympathy.

Trudy Lowe

March 12, 2007

My heartfelt sympathies to your family. My heart breaks with each new name added to this list, and I am saddened by your loss. Know that you are surrounded by prayers, grace and the deep gratitude of all who live in freedom. My God hold you in his arms and grant you peace. Please find joy in the memories of your loved one and comfort knowing so many are holding you in their hearts.

Karen Hickman

March 5, 2007

On behalf of Gold Star Siblings, please accept our heartfelt condolences.

Tom Gugliuzza-Smith

March 4, 2007

My heartfelt sympathy to the Clevenger family in the loss of Ross. I did not know Ross, but my heart is broken and I am saddened for your loss of such a fine young person and hero. May God bring you peace in your heart as you reflect on all the wonderful memories you hold so close. Please know that you are in my heart and prayers. My heart was touched by the many wonderful/beautiful things written about you. Ross you are my hero and you will NEVER be forgotten.
I send each of you a hug from the most inner part of my heart.
Love and Peace
Tom

"To live in the hearts
of those you leave behind
is never to die"
~Robert Orr~

Glen

March 3, 2007

“Soldier”
Written to Honor the Service of Our Fallen Soldiers

Soldiers write history…they pay the price
Many miles distant, you live the life
Entered the Battle of our own free will
Out of Duty for Country, and we’d do it still

We hope and pray that all will find peace
In God, in the flag, in memories of valor
Gone now, our pride and courage you see
“An Army of One” our motto forever

Willing to risk all for love of our Brothers
We’re still Your Soldiers…and we showed the way
Our Lives too short, now pray for the others
Lived free died Heroes in lands far away

Deep within souls all cherished our Service
We’ll always have what some never know
Courage and Honor, our names forever
Lived life with purpose…just our time to go

We march in the Heavens with Honor and Glory
Missions accomplished we fought the Good Fight
Many years from now…we’ll tell the full story
Until that Day we will live in the Light

Our lives we laid down in a land far away
Still watching o’er you this night and by day
No need to talk…just know we are with you
There in your hearts and we hear what you pray

Yes we are your soldiers
Our lives we laid down
Still We guard o’er you
Still Duty bound

Entered the Battle of our own free will
Out of Duty for Country, and we’d do it still
We’ll always have what some never know
Lived life with purpose…it was our time to go

Lee Sirotnak

March 3, 2007

Please accept our heartfelt sympathy for your loss. We will be always grateful for the sacrifice that your Soldier, Ross, made. God bless you and your family with comfort and peace. We will not forget.

Christina Maier

February 27, 2007

Dearest Abby,
Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family at this tragic time in your life. We did'nt know Ross, But we respected him .
much love, the Maiers

Denise Gardner

February 26, 2007

As the days and weeks pass, and as you return to life’s routine, may you continue to feel comforted by the love and support of family and friends. I am the granddaughter of Eva Robison. Please accept my sincere condolences

Tim M

February 24, 2007

On behalf of Abby, Ross' mother, and the rest of the family I would like to thank everyone for their support.

Marnie Bernard

February 23, 2007

I did not know your son but had the
privilege of attending his service with many of our military wives and mothers of deployed soldiers from Idaho. He was truly a cut above the average person. What a wonderful son, brother and soldier. I am deeply sorrowed at your loss.

Tom Gugliuzza-Smith

February 23, 2007

My heartfelt sympathy to the Clevenger family in the loss of Ross. I did not know Ross, but my heart is broken and I am saddened for your loss of such a fine young person and hero. May God bring you peace in your heart as you reflect on all the wonderful memories you hold so close. Please know that you are in my heart and prayers. My heart was touched by the many wonderful/beautiful things written about you. Ross you are my hero and you will NEVER be forgotten.
I send each of you a hug from the most inner part of my heart.
Love and Peace
Tom

"To live in the hearts
of those you leave behind
is never to die"
~Robert Orr~

Gabriela Salinas

February 21, 2007

I feel your pain in the loss of your son. May God bless you and yiur family at a time like this. It hit very close to home when I had heard he had passed away. My prayers are with you and your family.


SPC Salinas

Paz Family

February 20, 2007

Please accept our deepest sympathy. May God be with all of you during this time of sorrow.

Amanda Christianson

February 20, 2007

Ross: you will be dearly missed by us all. Cant wait till we can meet again in Heaven. May God bless and keep you in His loving arms!

February 20, 2007

For all those who were friends & family of Ross Clevenger our thoughts & prayers are with you. We did not know Ross but wanted to express our gratitude to a soldier who fought to give us the freedoms we still have today. The United States of America is the greatest nation and it will continue to be a great nation because of soldiers like this who pay the ultimate price. We pray that God would comfort all those who are left behind that have been affected by Ross's death.

Cindi LaSpada

February 20, 2007

I "adopted" Ross through Adoptaplatoon.I corresponded through letters,email and packages.I have never gotten a bigger joy out of any of my adoptees. I knew when he had received something sent because there was an email. He emailed photos and letters. I know more about Idaho then I will ever need to know. He was so excited about the
job he was doing but couldn't wait to get home.When I first wrote I said that i only have daughters and what fun it was to have a "son". He emailed back to say he was grateful for the suport and boys were much more interesting than girls.I was worried that his family and girlfriend would be upset that a married woman from New Jersey was sending him things. he told me not to worry-he shared what I sent with others that didn't get anything and that no one can have to many friends.Though he was my "son" for just a little while I am proud of him and know heaven is a better place with him there.I offer my deepest thoughts and prayers to his family.

February 20, 2007

Although a distant cousin I did not know Ross personally. As an old soldier I am proud of his service to our country and I understand the sacrifice the family now bears. May each of you experience the comfort and presence of the Lord during this difficult time.

Richard Blaine Robison
Lieutenant Colonel
U.S. Army Retired

Ron Robison

February 19, 2007

Thank you Ross for all you were and all you gave. May God Bless you and your family. Our thoughts are with them and your fellow troopers still in harms way.

Semper Fi from an old Marine
Ron Robison
(I have just learned that Ross is my 1st Cousin, twice removed. My Aunt Gwen was married to Albert) Clevenger.

R S

February 19, 2007

Ross will be missed dearly! He was very special to many people! He is in the prayers and thoughts of many! God bless him and his family! I have known Ross for about 17 years! He was an amazing person!!!

Lynn I.

February 19, 2007

Julie, Tim and Natalie,

So sorry for your loss. We are all heartbroken for you here in Salem. We hope that you can find some wonderful memories to give you strength through this hard time, our prayers are with you all. If you need anything let us know. The design team of OBDP is thinking about you.

Anonymous Please

February 18, 2007

May the Lord above grant this dear man's family the peace that surpasses all understanding.

Mariah Hudson

February 18, 2007

I didn't know Ross but my husband did. They were pretty good friends. They served together fighting for the same thing. I'm glad to know that my husband knew A great man. My husbands name is PFC Johnny Hudson. 321st. My greatest Sympothy and love,
Mariah Hudson

Linda Rhodes

February 16, 2007

Heaven's Call

Heaven called and you were taken
So young to go, to young to know

The call of heaven did not wait
Your time here a short stay
You were called away
To be part of God’s everlasting garden

Borrowed seed from the Master
A small little bud that graced us with your beauty
Now returned upon heaven’s call

A finely chosen rose
Taken before it bloomed
Before your beauty had time to unfold

He is the Gardner and you his prize winning bud
Perhaps He seen a storm that you could not with stand
So he picked you before the wind would fall

The memories forever etched in our hearts
Our little bud now blooms
With the angels up on high

Some of Ross's Friends

February 16, 2007

Ross was an awesome guy I grew up with him in Marsing and he makes up a lot of memories for us all. Every time someone tells a story about Ross around here it always gets a smile. I know he'd like that. We wish his family the best.

B C

February 16, 2007

My deepest sympathy to the family of Spc. Clevenger, and to his fiancee, Staff Sgt. Brown. You have all made the ultimate sacrifice for our country and our freedom. Thank you. I pray God will ease your pain.

The Birmingham Family

February 16, 2007

Charlie, Abby and Family:

Ross was a great inspiration to Daniel by teaching him skateboarding and a love for writing. They didn't spend large amounts of time together but Daniel respects Ross greatly. I just want you to know that you have friends just down Birmingham road if or when you need anything. Our thoughts are with you during this difficult time. Ross will always be with us spiratually.

Konnie (Clements) Book

February 16, 2007

Ross is my 3rd cousin. Even though I had never met Ross, from what I have heard, he was a great guy. He lost his life protecting our country so that we can continue to have freedom. My thoughts and prayers are with his family.

Allie Knight

February 15, 2007

Ross was like our brother! he worked with my disabled brother for about 2 years! taking him shopping, to get tattoos, to concerts an many other things! my brother dearly misses him! our whole family misses him deeply! there was not a day that went by that we didnt wonder or think about him! he practically lived at our house! he was an awesome person and he never let anything get him down!!! we all looked up to him for his awesome personality and his well-being!he is a TRUE HERO! i truely believe he was a gift from god! and boy o boy did he love his movies! him an my brother would sit in his room for a whole entire day watching movies on the surround sound! we didnt even have to ask when ross was there we new by how much noise was coming from the room and house! my brother domi has cerebral palsy and ross was like his brother, not only his best friend... they loved to go to coffee and buy c.d.z! ROSS WILL ALWAYZ BE MISSED AND LOVED DEEPLY!!! you will alwayz be in our thoughts and prayers!!!

February 15, 2007

To the Family and Friends of this Soldier:
I will stand in grief with this soldier's family to honor him. For every fallen HERO there is a bright star that shines in the evening sky to remind us of the cherished gift we were given – even if for too short a time.
My heart breaks again as I sign yet another guest book of another courageous young soldier who gave their life so selflessly. I wish I never found myself in a position to have to sign another guestbook for the rest of my life, but I promised Brent that neither he nor any like him would be forgotten and so I will continue until the day there is no longer the need.
We lost our son SFC Brent A. Adams on 12/1/05 and it seems like yesterday. I wish so badly there were things I could say to you right now to make the pain you are feeling go away, but I know first hand there simply are no words that will bring you the comfort and peace your heart aches for. Just know that you are not alone. My heart, thoughts, and prayers are with you all as you go through this tragedy moment by moment and as you mourn this loss.
We don't know each other, will probably never meet, but will forever be united in the loss of our Heroes. We have, unfortunately joined a group none of us wanted to join, an ever-growing group of families in this situation. May God grant you peace and strength to get through this and be able once again to smile at a memory rather than have only the tears that flow so easily now. To be so proud of your loved one and so saddened at the same time is a mix of emotions very difficult to deal with as our hearts both burst with pride and pain together.
I am sorry that I never knew your soldier personally. While they can never be replaced, neither will they ever be forgotten. You must trust that sometime, someday the loving memories you have will help to sustain you and help you go on. This courageous soldier will forever be your Angel watching over you all for the rest of your lives. It's what brings me some measure of peace and comfort and I hope it will you as well.
To his family and friends in pain, I offer this comfort: When you find yourself in that dark sorrowful place, think not only of how you will miss him, but instead recall the years, days, hours and minutes gifted to you by his presence. The one thing that cannot be taken from you is your wonderful memories that now will mean more than ever.
If you ever want to talk, I'm only an e:mail away and would love for you to tell me more about your Hero.
God Bless this soldier and family who gave all and God Bless legacy.com for setting up this site where families can so quickly share their condolences and prayers with others like themselves.
Proud Parents of SFC Brent A. Adams, KIA, 12/1/05, Ramadi, Iraq
Pam and Bill Adams, Lancaster, PA

wanda McGuire

February 15, 2007

Abby you are the most amazing and strongest person I know you have been through more then your share of losses,Ross was just like you, loveing,careing and funny. He is now shareing with blake in heven the stories of his wonderful family
i know he will be gratley missed,but your memories of ROSS will be with you forever,until you meet again . please take care I will see you soon. with all my love wanda,john,jason McGuire

Albert Poulson

February 14, 2007

My thoughts and prayers go out to you in this time of need. My brother is serving in the 321st and knew Ross well. He says Ross was a good man and one of his best friends to him over there. Thank your sacrifice and may God bless.

Dennis & Pam Robertson

February 14, 2007

We are saddened to hear of the loss of yet another young soldier, a hero. May God comfort and embrace you during this time of great sorrow. You are in our thoughts and prayers.
Uncle & Aunt of Lance Cpl James R. Davenport KIA 11/22/06

Erin Fromm

February 14, 2007

Ross was a caring young man. He will missed by many.

Megan Mattocks

February 14, 2007

Ross was one of the best people I have ever known. He always had a smile on his face and was always bursting with energy. He loved the outdoors very much and we would often find ourselves somewhere in the mountains under his direction. He was extremely thoughtful and outgoing. He will be missed very much. God bless his family and friends. You're extremely loved Ross.

The Scott Family

February 14, 2007

Ross was a very caring man and will aways be in our hearts. He will be missed by lots of people who he touched.

Gloria Beutler

February 13, 2007

My
thoughts and prayers are with you. My nephew is in the 321st. serving
time in the war on terror. I would like to express my thanks to all of
our millitary people and their families for their sacrifices to keep
our country free. God Bless

jeff stott

February 13, 2007

ross was a good freidn and an even better soldier we will miss him I am not able to attend the funeral because of where I am at however I will miss him still the same always Jeff class of 2003

Michelle Hicks

February 13, 2007

Thank you for your service to our country. Our hearts and prayers to your family.

God Speed,
John and Michelle Hicks
Emmett, Idaho

Tom black

February 13, 2007

Ross is a fine Soldier and he will be greatly missed within A Co. He was a true Badger and will remain with us always.

Mourning Star

February 13, 2007

Thank you for your service to our country. May your family be granted the peace that surpasses all understanding.

Lucio Morales

February 13, 2007

Ross was the most memorable employee that I hired. His attitude and passion for life were unmatched. He became a favorite by both his supervisors and families he worked for. Ross had charisma that was infectious. He will certainly be forever in my thoughts and in the thoughts of the many lives he enhanced. Thanks for being a part of our lives. God Bless you Ross.

Chuck and Tonia Kingston

February 13, 2007

We were very saddened to hear about the loss of your son. Our son PFC Christopher Kingston was serving with Ross and they flew home together in January. Our hearts ached with yours and still does. I know how proud you are of your son and we recognize the ultimate sacrifice that he has made for our country. God Bless you and all that were close to him and God Bless America.

Karen Hickman

February 13, 2007

On behalf of "Gold Star Siblings" Please accept our heartfelt condolences.

Mike & Barb DiGiovanni- Norton

February 13, 2007

All our thoughts and prayers are with you. We knew Ross through Inclusions, he took our nephew Domi out in the community for coffee and fun. He will be greatly missed.

Garnet Jenkins

February 13, 2007

Please know how Deeply Sorry I am to learn of the loss of Spc. Ross A. Clevenger,
The Price this Brave Young Soldier and his family have paid for this country and for freedom, Will Never Be Forgotten.

May Ross rest safely in the Loving Care of God and may the Grace and Comfort of the Lord be with the Clevenger family.
There will Never Be Enough Ways to Humbly Thank these Heroes for their Supreme Sacrifice, my brother among them. KIA~Vietnam, 1967.

"I consider that our present sufferings.
are not worth comparing with the glory
that shall be revealed in us."
Romans 8:18

May the Peace of God and your memories of Ross, remain in your heart always and give you strength through the difficult days ahead.
Softly and slowly, time heals.

taylor nicholas

February 13, 2007

My thoughts and prayers are with Ross and all of those who love him. I feel honored to have been able to work with him at Inclusion, Inc. He had an amazing ability to maintain positivity and he truly put his heart into his work. He will be greatly missed.

J C

February 13, 2007

Our hearts and prayers to your family. We are forever grateful for all our service men and women who put their lifes on the line so others can live.
God Bless You Always.

Gary Allain

February 12, 2007

you are my hero
may god keep you in his arms forever.

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