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Patsy
November 17, 2022
I will always love you. I hope you're making God laugh as much as you did me.
Charlie Gili
November 3, 2018
Hello,
We realize that we are very late to express our deepest condolences, but we wanted to let your family and friends know that we will be sending Care Packages to deployed troops this holiday season and several of these will be dedicated to your loved one. Each package will carry the name, photo and hometown of Raymond Mitchell Werner US Army Private.
We realize that this is a small tribute, but we do this with all respect and sincerity and we want you to know that it is made possible by thousands of like-minded individuals from across the American youth hockey community, their families and friends and others who support our mission.
We will not forget. May God Bless you and keep you safe and strong.
Sincerely,
Charlie Gili & Family
On Behalf of our US Hockey Players Support Our Troops Campaign
Gramma
October 17, 2014
Ray you are so missed and loved.Im so proud to call you my gr son you touched the lives of many ppl.You had a great future ahead of you but God needed an angel so he called you home.I miss you so much a day doesn't go by that I don't think of you and how proud of you I am.I was such a lucky gramma that I got you as a gr son no gramma could have asked for a more wonderful respectable gr son.You are the light of my life you just lit up a room when you walked in.Ppl noticed you becuz of the proud way you held ur head up high and that great smile of urs.May you rest in peace and I love you and I will see you again someday sweetie.
Peggy Childers
February 8, 2013
To the family and friends of Pvt. Raymond M. Werner:
It has truly been my honor to sign Raymond's guest book these past few years. Unfortunately, due to complications from my Multiple Sclerosis, this may be the last message I'm able to write. Please forgive me and know that Raymond will always be remembered in my home.
With love and respect ~ Peggy
May 14, 2012
miss you
Peggy Childers
February 8, 2012
To the family and friends of Pvt. Raymond M. Werner:
Always remembering Raymond. "Some gave all."
Janice Werner
April 13, 2011
Till we meet in heaven...
Peggy Childers
February 8, 2011
To the family and friends of Pvt. Raymond M. Werner:
Please accept my remembrance of Raymond on the anniversary of his passing and know that he will never be forgotten.
Peggy Childers
www.IraqWarHeroes.org
Patsy Schmidt
February 9, 2010
Ray, you are never far from my thoughts. Every day something reminds me of you. And I smile. Keep making God laugh.
Peggy Childers
February 8, 2010
To the family and friends of Pvt. Raymond M. Werner:
Remembering Raymond on the anniversary of his passing. May our fallen heroes never be forgotten!
Peggy Childers
"Don't Let The Memory Of Them Drift Away"
www.IraqWarHeroes.org
james gallo
November 12, 2009
raymond ill never forget what you did for us its sad that this had to happen to you my thoughts and prayers go out to your familly it has been a long time since i seen you last when we were young kid's but since i moved away i always heard good things about you from my dad ill never forget how good of a friend you were to me and i never got a chance to meet your familly but my prayers are with all of you
Kenna Larra
February 17, 2009
We love our Soldiers! We love our country and we cannot express enough love and compassion to the families. War does not discriminate – It breaks my heart to see the faces of the fallen. We want to give this gift to you. We are a 501c3 nonprofit organization! Over 1,400 portraits have been completed and shipped to the parents and or spouse - at no cost as this is a gift from one American to another!
Contact us directly at [email protected] or go to www.heropaintings.com. If you have already had a portrait completed, we pray that you are enjoying the portrait and God Bless You.
Sincerely,
Kenna
Peggy Childers
February 8, 2009
To the family of Pvt. Raymond M. Werner:
Raymond gave the ultimate sacrifice and will be held in the hearts of Americans forever. I cannot and will not let our fallen heroes be forgotten. My deepest sympathy to you. "Some gave all."
Peggy Childers
"Don't Let The Memory Of Them Drift Away"
www.IraqWarHeroes.org
ABBY CLEvenger
December 27, 2008
ANOTHER CHRISTMAS HAS PASSED AND I
COULDN'T HELP BUT THINK OF RAY, ROSS,
AND JIM AND HOW WE ALL MISS THEM TERRIBLY. I SEND YOU HOPE THAT
ALL IS GOING WELL AND I THINK OF YOU AND JIM'S FAMILY OFTEN. TIME IS NOT DIMINISHING
THE GREATNESS OF OUR SONS AND YOUR HUSBAND. LOVE, ABBY (ROSS'S
MOTHER)
Hollee
July 24, 2008
...you will always be remembered.
June 20, 2008
You are remembered and respected. Thank you Pvt Werner!
Patrick Novesky
June 13, 2008
I have taken part in a program through my wife's employer that will raise money for the Fallen Heros Memorial. As part of that program I recieved one of the black bracelets with the name of a "Fallen Hero" & PVT. Werner is the one that I recieved. I am a conservation warden (or what most states call a Fish & Game Officer) that is responsible for patrolling the nothern Nicolet National Forest in WI near the Upper Michigan Border for fish and game poachers, this bracelet is now part of my uniform and will be with me on my own "tour of duty". Although I am a lifelong resident of WI, when I was in my late teens & early 20's I was a forest fire fighter and spent a couple weeks in Idaho fighting the Lowman Fire back in 1989, and spent some time at the fire center in Boise. From that day I have nothing but positive memories of the landscape and people I met through that experience. By reading this page and getting to know the kind of person that Raymond was I am honored to have the opportunity to show my support for what he has done as a soldier, as well as a person.
Grayson Wolf
December 18, 2007
Raymond IS a friend no he was more than a friend.
August 15, 2007
There is nothing that I can say or do to take away the pain or bring you peace in your time of sorrow, but I will offer you and your family my heart felt condolences. I also offer you my prayers that in time the pain will easy and the memories of your HERO will carry you through each day and night. I want to thank your HERO, for his/her selfless act of becoming a member of the armed forces, his/her willingness to defend the United States of America, all that we hold sacred and for the sacrifice that will forever be etched in the memories of all those who knew him/her. Though tears can never bring him/her back, we hope that our tears express our gratitude for the sacrifice that he/she made and our sorrow at his/her passing. I believe for every fallen HERO there is a star shining brightly up above to remind us of the precious gift we were given.
Your mission on earth is complete and you are now a member of GOD’s Heavenly armed forces. Stand down brave warrior and take your rightful place in Heaven with all the HEROES who have passed before.
I made a special promise to LE RON A. WILSON, a dear family friend who joined the Army with three other friends, one of whom is my son (Le Ron was killed in action on 07/06/07 at the age of 18) on the day he was laid to rest as I touched his coffin, that I would never forget him nor would I forget those that gave their lives for our country before him, with him and after him and so when I came across www.legacy.com, I thought what a great way to keep my promise to Le Ron, so I will continue to leave tributes in each guest book until the day there is no longer the need to leave these tributes to a FALLEN HERO.
REST IN PEACE, HERO, YOU WILL NEVER BE FORGOTTEN!!
PROUD MOTHER OF A U.S. SOLDIER
Currently stationed in Germany
Althea Barrett(Queens, NY)
Hollee Leighton
August 12, 2007
Ray,
Life has changed so much since you have been gone. You were the best friend I could ever ask for and so it is so hard to imagine life without you. My only hope and strength is remembering that someday I will get to see you again. Words cant describe how much I miss you, or how much you mean to me. Always know that I love you!
--Hollee Leighton
August 8, 2007
Thank you for the sacrifice made by Pvt Werner and the sacrifice made by everyone who loves and misses him! May God bless all of you!!
June 28th, 2006
August 5, 2007
Ray and Lacey in Missouri
August 5, 2007
Our wedding
August 5, 2007
Josh and Ray
August 5, 2007
Raymond Mitchell Werner
August 5, 2007
Lacey and Ray
August 5, 2007
Ray and best friend Garrett
August 5, 2007
Man and Wife
August 5, 2007
Ray BBQing
August 5, 2007
Ray and Lacey
August 5, 2007
True brothers
August 5, 2007
The best day of our lives
August 5, 2007
Thank you Ray
August 5, 2007
Ray's wife lacey, myself, and Ray in Missourri for his Millitary graduation
Ivy Hemenway
July 26, 2007
Ray*
I miss you all the time and think of you so often. I was so blessed to have had you in my life. I learned so much from you, more than you ever realized. I miss your smile, your jokes, and especially your laugh that came along with them. I can't wait until the day when we meet again. I love you and you will always be family to me.
Ray was a great person who always found happiness; I know he still is.
Teressa Wright
June 22, 2007
Ray! Wow is all I can say. I know that we lost contact after I left Idaho and came to North Carolina but I never forgot about you. I can't believe that you are not here with me anymore. You were like my little brother and one of my best friends. I am glad to hear that you have become a wonderful husband and role model for everyone. I want to THANK YOU for your time in the service to protect our wonderful Country. I will see you soon in Heaven. I love you.
Gavin Whitney
May 28, 2007
Ray, we didn't know each other that well but i am glad i got to know you a little bit. You are a true hero man, and i'm so glad you were associated with my friends, they are good people because of you. You truly left this world a better place that it was when you came in, we can't thank you enough for your sacrafice.
ROBYN Garside
May 3, 2007
MAY GOD BLESS YOU AND YOURS. I HAVE JUST LEARNED OF YOUR GREAT LOSS AND WISH TO EXPRESS MY DEEPEST SYMPATHIES. PLEASE KNOW THAT THERE ARE PEOPLE OUT HERE WHO DO CARE AND YOUR HERO WILL NEVER BE FORGOTTEN. HOLD TIGHT TO YOUR TREASURED MEMORIES THAT HIS SPECIAL SMILE MAY CONTINUE TO SHINE. I PRAY THAT PEACE WILL FIND YOU ALL SOMEDAY. GODSPEED AND SEMPER FI.
A PROUD MARINE MOM
Sandy Bonesteel
April 16, 2007
As the mother of a son (my only child) who is enlisted in the Army, I want to send my condolences.
Jessica Knowtlon
March 25, 2007
I got to know the greatest man when i met Ray. He was fun, honest, and an all around amazing person. Anyone who was in his life was blessed!
Taylor Ankenman
March 12, 2007
hey ray ray. i never knew you went into the army. i wish i could of said goodbye. you were like a brother to me. keep an eye out for lacey and put in a good word with the big man for me. my prayers are with lacey and your family, and as lacey said its only goodbye for now. ill see you when i get up there till then take care.
Love
Taylor
Trudy Lowe
March 12, 2007
My heartfelt sympathies to your family. My heart breaks with each new name added to this list, and I am saddened by your loss. Know that you are surrounded by prayers, grace and the deep gratitude of all who live in freedom. My God hold you in his arms and grant you peace. Please find joy in the memories of your loved one and comfort knowing so many are holding you in their hearts.
Cori Smith-Lovotti
March 8, 2007
Ray~
I don't think there will ever come a day that i won't miss you with my whole heart. I can't wait for the day when i will see you in heaven. You really were my brother, Ray- it's always been that way.
Karen Hickman
March 5, 2007
On behalf of Gold Star Siblings, please accept our heartfelt condolences.
Sarah Johnson
March 4, 2007
Raymond.....i am sad to say i never met you,but you seemed to have been a wonderful man of God. I am just SO grateful for all you have done for us.for our nation.you are a true hero,and what you have done will never be forgotten. i know that because of you,lives will be forever changed.....
i look forward to meeting you one day.....
Tom Gugliuzza-Smith
March 4, 2007
My heartfelt sympathy to the Werner family in the loss of Raymond. I did not know Raymond, but my heart is broken and I am saddened for your loss of such a fine young person and hero. May God bring you peace in your heart as you reflect on all the wonderful memories you hold so close. Please know that you are in my heart and prayers. My heart was touched by the many wonderful/beautiful things written about you. Raymond you are my hero and you will NEVER be forgotten.
I send each of you a hug from the most inner part of my heart.
Love and Peace
Tom
"To live in the hearts
of those you leave behind
is never to die"
~Robert Orr~
Glen
March 3, 2007
“Soldier”
Written to Honor the Service of Our Fallen Soldiers
Soldiers write history…they pay the price
Many miles distant, you live the life
Entered the Battle of our own free will
Out of Duty for Country, and we’d do it still
We hope and pray that all will find peace
In God, in the flag, in memories of valor
Gone now, our pride and courage you see
“An Army of One” our motto forever
Willing to risk all for love of our Brothers
We’re still Your Soldiers…and we showed the way
Our Lives too short, now pray for the others
Lived free died Heroes in lands far away
Deep within souls all cherished our Service
We’ll always have what some never know
Courage and Honor, our names forever
Lived life with purpose…just our time to go
We march in the Heavens with Honor and Glory
Missions accomplished we fought the Good Fight
Many years from now…we’ll tell the full story
Until that Day we will live in the Light
Our lives we laid down in a land far away
Still watching o’er you this night and by day
No need to talk…just know we are with you
There in your hearts and we hear what you pray
Yes we are your soldiers
Our lives we laid down
Still We guard o’er you
Still Duty bound
Entered the Battle of our own free will
Out of Duty for Country, and we’d do it still
We’ll always have what some never know
Lived life with purpose…it was our time to go
Lee Sirotnak
March 3, 2007
Please accept our condolences for your loss. You will be in our prayers, that the Lord provide you comfort and peace. We are grateful for the work, and sacrifice, of your Soldier, Raymond, a true American hero. God Bless.
Beatrice Guajardo
February 26, 2007
Lacy sweety, Our prayers our with you and all of Ray's family. May god give you strength and comfort through this difficult time. If you need anything please call.
Derrick and Beatrice Hayhurst
Amanda Nelson
February 25, 2007
Ray.... Its been a long time. I will miss you and love you forever. You were like a brother to me. I will never forget all the good times we all had hangin out in the good old trailer court. I will see you soon in our fathers house. Thank you for everything you did.
Josh Fogleman
February 23, 2007
Ray, I love you. I will miss you, and i can't wait to see you again. Kathy and Rodger I love you and will be there for you in all ways possible, if you need anything please let me know. To all the soldiers, stay strong and sharp. Live life to the fullest and with love. Lacy you are a very lucky woman, and should be proud of you husband, please do not ever forget that. Be happy and have fun.
Erlinda Hiles
February 23, 2007
You are indeed a true hero. The contribution to freedom is high, and your unselfish act makes you a true hero. Your family is indeed proud and sad by their loss as am I.
Nick and Julie Steinbach
February 22, 2007
Thank you for your sacrifice....We will never forget! To the family we are sorry for your loss and pray that the Lord will comfort you with each passing moment.
"But they that wait upon the Lord shall renew their strength; they shall mount up with wings as eagles, they shall run, and not be weary; and they shall walk; and not faint." (Isaiah 40:31)
Roger Spencer
February 22, 2007
Raymond you are my hero big brother. I will always remember you as long as i live. I grieve everyday in my loss because it seems imposible to me. I love you Big brother, I will see you soon, we will walk the gates of heaven together someday. I miss you bro. See you soon.
Kristen Fields
February 22, 2007
Ray -
Wow - it's been too long. I'm sorry we lost contact, but I am so glad to hear the things you've done and the man you've become. I wish it were under different circumstances that you came back into my life, but I am proud of you. Thank you for making the sacrifice you did. I thought of you like a younger brother during the year of youth group together. I look forward to seeing you again in Heaven. Thank you for making life on earth better for everyone you knew and came into contact with.
Barbara McWilliams
February 21, 2007
Our prayers are with you Lacy and all of his family. Ray is truly a hero for our country. He will always be remembered in our hearts for his kindness, humor, and respect he had for others. I will always remember how he always would come to the car and greet us with a warm friendly smile as I dropped my daughter off at Cole Valley Christian High School. He always cheered me up just to see him in the mornings. He not only was a soldier for our country, but also a good soldier for our Lord. 2 Tim 4:7; I have fought a good fight, I have finished my course, I have kept the faith.
Jennifer McWillaams
February 21, 2007
Ray,
You were my best friend and like a brother to me in high school. We had so many good memories together. You always made me laugh and as well as others. You gave your all for everyone and every thing. You are our hero in our community and in our hearts. I know you are in a better place and making everyone laugh because that was your gift. I miss you and will never forget you. I tell everyone about my hero and the scarific that you made for me and everyone. I wish I could have told you and thank you in person.
Rest in peace, Ray and I look forward to seeing you when we are called home.
Jennifer McWilliams
Terresa Spear
February 21, 2007
You have always been such a wonderful person and inspiration. I will see you again in Heaven my friend.
w
February 21, 2007
You are a true hero. You were a real man.....
Ken Whitmire
February 21, 2007
Raymond "RAINMAN",
I loved you like a Son. It was trully my pleasure to watch you become a man. I'm so proud of you. Our time spent in Gods country I'll treasure forever. You must know I grieve for my loss not yours.
Paz Family
February 20, 2007
Please accept our deepest sympathy.
May God be with all of you during this difficult times.
Raymond Metchell Werner died a HERO.
Patsy Schmidt
February 19, 2007
Raymond, you were my best friend and confidante. I will always have a special place in my heart reserved especially for you. No one else made me laugh the way you did. You will never be forgotten, and I cannot wait to see you in heaven very soon! "All who call upon the name of the Lord will be saved."
R
February 19, 2007
God bless! He is a hero and i am sure he will be missed!
Dale Schmidt
February 19, 2007
"We believe that Jesus died and rose again and so we believe that God will bring with Jesus those who have fallen asleep in him... And so we will be with the Lord forever. Therefore encourage each other with these words". I Thess. 4:14-18 We are looking forward to laughing and worshipping with you again. Dale, Debbie & Patsy
Brittany Elledge
February 19, 2007
Thank you Ray, i never met you but i heard so much about you. i was told that you were able to light up a room even if it was so full of darkness and hate. thank you ray you are my hero and the whole families, i will help Roger and i will help your mom, we will stand as a strong family. god bless dear cousin.
Raymond Mitchell Werner, You are a son, husband, brother, cousin, and most of all you are our Hero God Bless!
CAMY WALTER
February 19, 2007
RAYMOND, You made your mother proud and well as all of us you were defending.. GOD WILL WATCH OVER YOUR LOVED ONES. Thank you, you are a hero.
Derick Andrew
February 18, 2007
I will miss Ray until the day the Father decides to take me home. My best friend since the 6th grade. The closest thing I ever have or will have to a brother. I loved everything about him with all that I am. I'm proud to say that we spent many days together. I would not take one single minute back. We had times of fun and laughter and also had times of crying on each others shoulders.
"We are confident, yes, well pleased rather to be absent from the body and to be present with the Lord." 2 Corinthians 5:8
I love you kid and always will
Rachel Robertson
February 18, 2007
God bless you and your family. He died a hero. I will always have the fullest support for our boys and hope this all can end soon.
Linda Rhodes
February 16, 2007
Heaven's Call
Heaven called and you were taken
So young to go, to young to know
The call of heaven did not wait
Your time here a short stay
You were called away
To be part of God’s everlasting garden
Borrowed seed from the Master
A small little bud that graced us with your beauty
Now returned upon heaven’s call
A finely chosen rose
Taken before it bloomed
Before your beauty had time to unfold
He is the Gardner and you his prize winning bud
Perhaps He seen a storm that you could not with stand
So he picked you before the wind would fall
The memories forever etched in our hearts
Our little bud now blooms
With the angels up on high
B C
February 16, 2007
Thank you Pvt. Werner. The bravery and sacrifice of this young hero will not be forgotten. May God surround your family with love and strength.
February 15, 2007
To the Family and Friends of this Soldier:
I will stand in grief with this soldier's family to honor him. For every fallen HERO there is a bright star that shines in the evening sky to remind us of the cherished gift we were given – even if for too short a time.
My heart breaks again as I sign yet another guest book of another courageous young soldier who gave their life so selflessly. I wish I never found myself in a position to have to sign another guestbook for the rest of my life, but I promised Brent that neither he nor any like him would be forgotten and so I will continue until the day there is no longer the need.
We lost our son SFC Brent A. Adams on 12/1/05 and it seems like yesterday. I wish so badly there were things I could say to you right now to make the pain you are feeling go away, but I know first hand there simply are no words that will bring you the comfort and peace your heart aches for. Just know that you are not alone. My heart, thoughts, and prayers are with you all as you go through this tragedy moment by moment and as you mourn this loss.
We don't know each other, will probably never meet, but will forever be united in the loss of our Heroes. We have, unfortunately joined a group none of us wanted to join, an ever-growing group of families in this situation. May God grant you peace and strength to get through this and be able once again to smile at a memory rather than have only the tears that flow so easily now. To be so proud of your loved one and so saddened at the same time is a mix of emotions very difficult to deal with as our hearts both burst with pride and pain together.
I am sorry that I never knew your soldier personally. While they can never be replaced, neither will they ever be forgotten. You must trust that sometime, someday the loving memories you have will help to sustain you and help you go on. This courageous soldier will forever be your Angel watching over you all for the rest of your lives. It's what brings me some measure of peace and comfort and I hope it will you as well.
To his family and friends in pain, I offer this comfort: When you find yourself in that dark sorrowful place, think not only of how you will miss him, but instead recall the years, days, hours and minutes gifted to you by his presence. The one thing that cannot be taken from you is your wonderful memories that now will mean more than ever.
If you ever want to talk, I'm only an e:mail away and would love for you to tell me more about your Hero.
God Bless this soldier and family who gave all and God Bless legacy.com for setting up this site where families can so quickly share their condolences and prayers with others like themselves.
Proud Parents of SFC Brent A. Adams, KIA, 12/1/05, Ramadi, Iraq
Pam and Bill Adams, Lancaster, PA
Dennis & Pam Robertson
February 14, 2007
We are saddened to hear of the loss of another young soldier, a hero. May God comfort and embrace you during this time of great sorrow. Your are in our thoughts and prayers.
Uncle & Aunt of Lance Cpl James R. Davenport KIA 11/22/06
Corrie Gaither
February 13, 2007
Be Still
Be still like the grass on a melancholy summer day
Be still like desert shrub.
Be calm and you will hear your loved one speak, in the stillness, in the calm, their love resounds.
If you are still this promise I make, you will hear the voice of your loved one helping you along your way.
Karen Hickman
February 13, 2007
On behalf of "Gold Star Siblings" Please accept our heartfelt condolences.
Garnet Jenkins
February 13, 2007
My Deepest and Most Heartfelt Sympathy goes out to the family of Pvt. Raymond M. Werner, with a Multitude of Thanks for this Brave Young Hero's Courage, Dedication and Service to our Country and for Freedom.
The price Raymond and his family have paid, Will Never Be Forgotten.
May he Rest Safely, in God's Care and may God's Loving Peace and Comfort be with the Werner family.
I am the Sister of such a young hero, who made the Ultimate Sacrifice in Vietnam, many years ago
"Surely He hath borne our grief,
and carried our sorrows."
Isaiah 53:4
May you find comfort and strength, in the beautiful memories of times spent with Raymond.
Quietly and gently, may healing come, with each new day.
You are in my thoughts and my prayers.
Gary Allain
February 12, 2007
you are my hero
may god keep you in his arms forever.
SHIRLEY DONEY
February 11, 2007
GOD BLESS YOU MY FRIEND YOU HAVE EARNED YOUR WINGS IN HEAVEN TO YOUR FAMILY AND FRIENDS HOLD CLOSE TO YOUR HEART ALL THE MEMORIES MAY THEY BRING YOU COMFORT
Henryk Zaleski (USN-Ret)
February 11, 2007
No one said you had to and yet when the time came you gave your all.That is what heros are made of. May you rest in peace.
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