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for Richard Ford
just beginning
February 20, 2016
What to say...I should be in Arlington today but self pity has gotten the better of me. You would think 9 years would dull the pain but all it's done is made me miss you more.
Toasting you with strawberry milk and pixie stix...
Still
Joseph Haney
May 23, 2014
Rich - I will stand tall this weekend, marching in your honor at the Simsbury Parade, just as we did together in the Enfield Parade more than a decade ago as members of CTARNG G104th Aviation. You were an outstanding Seargent and an outstanding friend, thank you for everything.
Alicia
April 2, 2014
Richard, its been 7 long years since you've been gone and your birthday is in 2 days. Your time here was to short but who are we to questions what GODS plans are for our lives. He called you home without notice, HE wanted you to be with HIM, by HIS side. How I only wish that you were still here with us, especially for our son. It's been a tough roller coster ride for Michael and it still is. He tries so hard to move on but yet, is so difficult for him. I miss the days of wathching the 2 of you together. The bond between you, a father and your son is a precious gift to experience. You will always have a place in my heart. I will always remember the time that we had together but I know life still must go on. You may be gone but you will never be forgotten. I know your resting in haven with our LORD. GOD BLESS you, untill we meet again.
Pat Reed and Allison Good-Letson
Pat Hartley Reed
May 25, 2013
Richard had a noble and loving heart.
Carmen Tollin
May 23, 2013
Eternal Lord God we pray for the peace of the world. Especially e commend to your mercy the homeless and refugees; those who have been dispossessed and have lost their employment; those whose families have been disrupted and who mourn the loss of loved ones. Grant that the sane and selfless councils may prevail in these places, and wherever there is warfare. For Jesus Christ's sake. Amen
our heart was broken
without a warning no words spoken
you were taken away
someone said you could not stay
empty and lonely is what we are
we lost a precious shining star
our family torn apart
your world began with a promising start
life is unfair
this difficult cross we must bear
strength and courage we will find
our special child always in our mind
a place in heaven is where you sit
looking at that star you lit
in our thoughts forever you will be
never knowing why someone set you free
Krists Guest
February 21, 2013
Hi, Richard. How's heaven? I miss you and just wanted to let you know I will never forget. Love you, my friend.
February 20, 2013
Rich,
It's been 6 years today that you left us. You will never know how much your Auntie misses you and your beautiful smile. You were like my son instead of my nephew.Your photo is on my nightstand and I tell you good night each night. In the morning I wish you a great day in Heaven. Know that you are loved and missed by your family. God is so lucky - he gets to be with you now and enjoy your beautiful smile. I will always and forever love you.
Auntie Arlene
Leslie Vandergrift
January 7, 2013
Hey Angel!! Not a day goes by where I am not looking to the heavens in search of you...and I never have to look long because you are always with me. Lately, bub I have been thinking about you even MORE than usual. Tonight I realized you and I have been frozen in time. My memories of all those years We were besties and inseparable only when.either one of us had a date....LOL. And even THAT was a challenge for us because each of us was so rigid in our standards for whom should be allowed to date the other one. So many memories...so many good times and soooo many arguments. I remember whenever I was mad at you, you were always quiet at work and Everyone knew the two best friends were fighting, and we, together, always set the tone for Everyone else, LOL. When We lost touch after my wedding and having my daughter, I hope you know...and I HAVE told you that my heart was frozen and those years with you were safe...right then...right as We left them...IN MY HEART!! When you found me years and years later, I never cried so much in my life....until I lost you again!!!! Something We both swore would never happen again. Our conversations picked up right where We left off because my heart thawed out to let the memories of us live again, although because of ME, We never did get to see each other before I lost you again. Richard I miss you so damn much. I want you to know how Sorry I am for having not made the time to see you as you SO often asked me too. I still remember the conversation We had when you offered me to come stay with you to get out of the place I was in. I will always love you for who WE were, and the memories WE created. One of my favs is how I was forever jealous of anyone who you danced with besides me whenever We Hung out with our crowd because WE danced the best together..I will be forever grateful for that .and I look forward to being your dance partner and showing Everyone up again at the dance parties in heaven. Our memories are safeguarded again.....frozen in time just as my love is for you...my friend...my angel. I love you...and miss you unbelievably. No worries....I always can tell when you are with me ...and every time you KNOW I'm gonna be alright, I can feel you move on to another loved one. I know you...and I know you shake your head at me sometimes with that BEAUTIFUL SMILE of yours..but u never let me down. All I have to do is look up....and you appear...one way or another. Love you, my friend...always!, Tearfully yours.....Leslie.
Cheyenne Gibson
December 27, 2012
Hey cuz miss you like crazy!! not a day goes by that i don't think about you .Saying go head boo or the other name you used to say which i can't put up here.but your in a better place now.know your looking down on us and i look to heaven to see you.LOVE YOU ALWAYS&FOR EVER!!!! LOVE ALWAYS BOO AKA CHEY
Gene Daily
September 28, 2012
I worked with SGT Ford for a short time as a Mil Tech for CTARNG and also in Aco 143rd FSB and he was a true soldier.
Krista Guest
March 13, 2012
I was just thinking about you today and the last time I talked with you. It was Feb 4th and I had recently gotten a new car. I said I was coming to visit and you told me I would have to drive to Iraq. It felt so good that you would actually think to call me even from over there. I will always treasure that. I miss you my friend and I will never forget you.
Peggy Childers
February 21, 2012
February 20, 2012
To the family and friends of Sgt. Richard L. Ford:
Always remembering Richard. "Some gave all."
Jackie Bean
February 20, 2012
Still~
frank shim
May 30, 2011
Saluting your veteran this Memorial Day.
Peggy Childers
February 20, 2011
To the family and friends of Sgt. Richard L. Ford:
Please accept my remembrance of Richard on the anniversary of his passing and know that he will never be forgotten.
Peggy Childers
www.IraqWarHeroes.org
February 20, 2011
Richard. It's been 4 years as of today since we lost you, and although I can still feel you when you are with me every now and then...I so miss your physical presence on this earth. We've known each other for 24 years now and I love you just as much now as I did when our lives became intertwined, Thank you for watching over me. Not a day goes by where I dont think about you. I love you....but you already know that :) Leslie.
Krista Guest
March 5, 2010
Thinking of you always....
Lyrics to Address In The Stars
I stumbled across your picture today, I could barely breathe.
The moment stopped me cold and grabbed me like a theif.
I dialed your number but you wouldn't be there.
I knew the whole time, but it's still not fair.
I just wanted to hear your voice, I just needed to hear your voice.
What do I do with all I need to say,
So much I wanna tell you everyday.
Oh, it breaks my heart,
I cry these tears in the dark.
I write these letters to you,
But they get lost in the blue.
Cause, there's no address in the stars.
Now I'm driving through the pitch black dark.
I'm screaming at the sky,
Oh, cause it hurts so bad.
Everybody tells me that all I need is time.
Then the mornin' rolls in, and it hits me again,
And that ain't nothin but a lie.
What do I do with all I need to say,
So much I wanna tell you everyday.
Oh, it breaks my heart,
I cry these tears in the dark.
I write these letters to you,
But they get lost in the blue.
Cause, there's no address in the stars.
Without you here with me,
Don't know what to do
I'd give anything just to talk to you.
Oh, it breaks my heart.
Oh it breaks my heart.
All I can do is write these letters to you.
But there's no address in the stars.
Peggy Childers
February 20, 2010
To the family and friends of Sgt. Richard L. Ford:
Remembering Richard on the anniversary of his passing. May our fallen heroes never be forgotten!
Peggy Childers
"Don't Let The Memory Of Them Drift Away"
www.IraqWarHeroes.org
Krista Guest
August 11, 2009
Well, it's been quit a while since you've been gone. I still miss you and think about you often. You will always have a special place in my heart..
missy napolitano
April 5, 2009
My thoughts are with you. Richard will always be a "HERO". Thank You Richard, for all you have done and the person you were. We need more like you. You will never be forgotten. Always in our hearts. Thank You for keeping us safe.
April 3, 2009
4/4/66-HAPPY BIRTHDAY RICH I MISS YOU SO MUCH
Michael Tardie
April 2, 2009
To the family of my fallen friend:
He is the person who I looked to for advice on anything. He helped me be the NCO I am today. For the short time that I have known him he was a good friend and teacher. He was my first teamleader in the Army. If it was not for what he taught me I might not be here today. I thank all of you from the bottom of my heart and also to my friend may he rest in peace.
Fallen But Not Forgotten
Kat Morgia
February 20, 2009
It is so hard to believe, that it has already been 2 years
They say time is supposed to heal, But it never stops the tears.
Since the day we met, you were my best friend
The man I always turned to, the man I knew would be there til the end.
Whenever I needed advice, I came straight to you
But now when I need help, I dont know what to do.
When things happen in my life, And Im feeling all alone
I look to the sky and speak to you, Because I cant pick up the phone.
Even 2 years later, I know that you're in a better place
But its still hard to accept, that i'll never see your face.
Until the day we meet again in heaven - To the man that was always so true
You are my hero and my best friend, And I will always miss and love you.
Peggy Childers
February 19, 2009
To the family of Sgt. Richard L. Ford:
Richard gave the ultimate sacrifice and will be held in the hearts of Americans forever. I cannot and will not let our fallen heroes be forgotten. My deepest sympathy to you. "Some gave all."
Peggy Childers
"Don't Let The Memory Of Them Drift Away"
www.IraqWarHeroes.org
Troy Frederick
November 16, 2008
What a guy. Rich I miss you so much man. I know you are looking down on us. We miss you. You always made us laugh and cry at the same time. Your smile made our day each day. I know God needed you more in his garden and I know he has plans for you there. We will all meet again one day until then thanks for looking and watching over us.
Caskielena LaBelle
November 14, 2008
To the Ford Family:
I am deeply sorry for your loss. Richard and I spent alot of time together what seems like a million years ago he was a very important part of my life for a long time and I will never forget him and what he stood for. God Bless You Richard
All My Love Cassie
casey austin
November 4, 2008
Thankyou for your sacrifice and service from a fellow Falcon Airborne
barbara ahlquist
August 25, 2008
Dear Ford Family:
My heartfelt sympathies go out to the family of this wonderful soldier and American hero. He gave his life defending our freedoms as did my son, Sgt. Clinton W. Ahlquist, USMC. Clint was killed on the same day as Sgt. Ford, Feb. 20, 2007, in Ramadi, Iraq. Unfortunately, we share this tremendous loss but also know that Clint and Rich are wrapped lovingly in the arms of our Heavenly Father and protecting the gates of Heaven and smiling down on us. Rest in peace Sgt. Ford
Barbara Ahlquist
Bethany & Gaige (my youngest son)
Bethany Blair
August 13, 2008
OMG! My heart is breaking. I knew Richard a very long time ago. My friend Caskielena and I were very good friends w/ him while he worked in W. Springfield , Ma as a security guard. He made sure that since we were the closers that we got to a car safely etc. He took good care of us. He ended up being our "friend!" He had a smile to knock you over...his friendship was true blue. It saddens me to see such an amazing man go to this war. But it was also his passion. He would have saved the whole world if he could have...I'm so sorry for the loss...I'm so sorry for his family who must miss him so much. I love you Richard and always will...
Randall Padilla
August 2, 2008
As a citizen of this great country, I can look but in awe and tremendous pride to know that there are others who would lay down their lives to secure our freedoms here. Rich will forever be included in the ranks of those who gave the ultimate sacrifice, an honored a proud stance... I am humbled by all the comments and memories that Richs' life has brought to this lone page. Thank you for the ad and I will always do what I can to keep his memory alive.
June 20, 2008
You are remembered and respected. Thank you Sgt Ford!
SFC Jon Cobb
June 15, 2008
I had the absolute HONOR of serving as Richard's Platoon Sergeant from the day he arrived at 2-325 until the completion of his second deployment in 2006. Were it not for his fierce determination and his unwaivering bravery, especially in Mosul, several members of our platoon might not be here today to honor his legacy. It was his fine balance between quiet professionalism and relentless aggression towards those who would do us harm that made him the kind of Noncommissioned Officer others can only aspire to be. Though I've not had the honor of meeting his family, I find comfort in the fact that we raise our children to be better than we are. If that is the case, then I know his son is destined to be a man of unequaled character, and for that the world is a better place.
Those who have not served will never know. Those who are too afraid, rely on men like Richard.
Krista Guest
May 9, 2008
Well, it's been about a year since I wrote my last message here but I think of you often. I still have the last picture you sent to me and when I feel down I look at it and it lifts my heart to see your smile. I miss you more than I can put into words but I can feel you looking down at us all and I can still hear your voice. Thank you for being a part of my life.
David Edghill
May 8, 2008
Though i do not know you, I am inspired to be like you. You loved this country and you bravely stood up and fought for us. My prares go out to you and your family for the suffering they have been through. GOD BLESS!!
Krista Colletta
April 9, 2008
Vanessa,
There isn't a day that goes by that I don't feel Rich's hug and see his smile. I am so grateful he visited for Christmas. You have been so strong. Rich keeps telling me that there is a closet in heaven that is waiting....(hope you are smiling right now).
~Krista (Rich and Vanessa's childhood friend)
Maureen Vertefeuille
March 22, 2008
Richard was a true hero. I had not seen him in a few years, but always talked about him coming to my house one thanksgiving. I asked him if he would like to take a piece of my home-made apple pie home with him. He looked over at my kitchen counter and saw that i had several made and said " i will take one of your whole pies, please " He was at my house several times and i truly liked him alot. he was a gentleman in every sense of the word. My husband and i attended his services and were completely devastated by his death. May God bless each and every one of his family members. Maureen Vertefeuille Windham, Ct. ( Leslie Vandergrift's mom )
Leslie Vandergrift
March 22, 2008
Richard,
It has been over a year now since you've left us. I still miss you with all my heart and soul. I have not written an entry here since last year, and that is because I find myself talking to you all the time anyway. I know that you are with me at the times in my life where you would be there for me when you were here. Funny how you and I always called each other at the right time..always when one of us needed the right words from the other...even if it wasn't what we wanted to hear..but it was always the truth. I know I have told you this before, but I know what you have had a part in, in recent events in my life,and I love you for it. I can always feel when you are with me. Even when I can't feel you, it is still comforting to know you are taking care of someone else who meant something in your life. That is who you are. When I think back to last year and the first 6 months after you left us, I can feel how unbelievably distraught I was. I remember telling everyone that the pain would never go away, and that I would never get over losing you, and the guilt I had over it. I know you know what I am talking about. I am now comforted by the thought that you are at peace, as well as relieved that your pupose here with us has been fulfilled. It has been said, and many people believe that when we dream of a loved one that has passed...that it is their way of making contact with us...I am one of the believers, and I thank you for that too. I know that you already know how much I love and miss you..because I tell you all the time..BUT... I love you and miss you baby! You are TRULY an angel!!!!
SHERRY LYNCH/MITCHELL
February 21, 2008
IT IS SO GREAT TO SEE HOW MANY LIVES RICHARD HAS TOUCHED. HIS SMILE WAS WORTH A THOUSAND WORDS. RICH, THERE IS NOT A DAY THAT GOES BYE THAT I DON'T THINK OF YOU. CARTER I THINK IS GONNA BE LIKE YOU EVERY DAY HE WANTS TO PUT ON SOMETHING WITH THE ARMY PATTERN HE CALLS THEM HIS SOLDIER CLOTHES. I KNOW U ARE WATCHING OVER US. I CANNOT EXPRESS HOW MUCH I LOVE BEING PART OF THE FORD FAMILY. THANK YOU RICHARD FOR MAKING THE ULTIMATE SACRIFICE FOR ALL OF US. WE LOVE AND MISS U DEARLY.LOVE ALWAYS YOUR COUSINS, SHERRY,REUBEN,AND LITTLE CARTER.
SHERRY (cousin of Richards) LYNCH
February 21, 2008
IT IS SO GREAT TO SEE HOW MANY LIVES RICHARD HAS TOUCHED. HIS SMILE WAS WORTH A THOUSAND WORDS. RICH, THERE IS NOT A DAY THAT GOES BYE THAT I DON'T THINK OF YOU. CARTER I THINK IS GONNA BE LIKE YOU EVERY DAY HE WANTS TO PUT ON SOMETHING WITH THE ARMY PATTERN HE CALLS THEM HIS SOLDIER CLOTHES. I KNOW U ARE WATCHING OVER US. I CANNOT EXPRESS HOW MUCH I LOVE BEING PART OF THE FORD FAMILY. THANK YOU RICHARD FOR MAKING THE ULTIMATE SACRIFICE FOR ALL OF US. I LOVE AND MISS U DEARLY.
JASON BERNARD
February 20, 2008
it's been a year now and even though i know your gone there are days where i think i'm gonna get an email from you or a call. it's hard to believe that your gone. i really miss you rich.
in your honor rich--this is for you
FRONT LEANING REST POSITION!!
MOVE!!
IN CADENCE!!
EXERCISE!!
1 2 3
ONE!
1 2 3
TWO!
1 2 3
THREE!
1 2 3
FOUR!
1 2 3
FIVE!
1 2 3
SIX!
1 2 3
SEVEN!
1 2 3
EIGHT!
1 2 3
NINE!
1 2 3
TEN!
POSITION OF ATTENTION!!
MOVE!!
AND YES I DID THEM ALL-LOL
love you Rich-miss you
Robert Reed
February 20, 2008
All
It's been a year now. We are getting ready to leave next month. We leave behind not just the last 15 months but part of our hearts and souls. Every time I come to this country I leave something behind. Friends, family, sweat and blood. Now we leave without a big part of us. A part that will forever be irreplaceable. Rich, you are now and will always be missed. God Bless.
Barbara Pepin
January 4, 2008
To Vanessa and family,
I was proud to have had Rich as part of my platoon while he was in G126th AVN. He left us to go active duty. This was truly the path his heart led him. We stayed in contact and emailed often during his deployments and mine. Rich was a honorable soldier and a warm, caring and wonderful man. May time heal your sorrow and bring you peace in your memories. I am fully aware that this takes time (as I have yet to be able to delete any of Rich's emails). He was loved by so many. I hope that brings you some small comfort.
Rich, You will always be a part of my heart. I will always smile at the thought of you doing pushups that day you were late to formation, even after I told you that you did not have to do them. That was how deep your dedication as a soldier and NCO ran. You set the standard for all others!
Jeanie Tasi
December 21, 2007
I had known Rich for a little over two years and I still can't believe he is gone. As I read through other entries in the guestbook it is clear I am not alone in the honour I feel for knowing such a wonderful man.
Although we were so far apart and most of our contact was via email or over the phone I will always count him as a true friend. Rich always had time to listen and whenever our conversations were over my cheeks always hurt from smiling. He had that ability, to make you smile.
You are sadly missed my friend.
jonny briggs
December 1, 2007
im sorry to hear of ur loss im 16 years old my name is jonny briggs and i wanted to let u no that i appreciate everything he has done for me cuz with out him i would not be free to do as i
thank you
jonathan briggs
ruth dobbs
November 30, 2007
im sorry for your loss,we all lost a hero. he will never be forgotten,my prayers are with you now and always
Starla (Ruth 1:16) Tsosie
November 30, 2007
I recently accepted a friend request to be added to Rich's memorial page at MySpace. I just want you, his family and friends, to know how deeply his sacrifice is appreciated. No greater love is there for any man than to lay down his life for a friend. I can tell from everything I have read on his page he was an honorable man and wore his uniform with pride and dignity. Thank you from the bottom of my heart for the greatest sacrifice of all. With deepest respect and Christian love.
Sherry Wheeler
November 16, 2007
I send my condolences to the Ford family and Kat. I didn't know Richard but he will be remembered for the sacrifice he made. Thank you..
Michael Johnson
November 6, 2007
My heart goes out to Sgt. Richard L. Ford. I don't know him but he will be miss.
Robert Reed
September 24, 2007
Rich,
I watched the Dallas Cowboys play this morning and wished that you were here to enjoy it with me.
Everyone here at the 2nd Brigade, 82nd Airborne Division wishes your family the best. You were the best of us. Your absence is painful. I know that you are watching over us all and keeping our canopies full.
God Bless
Rob
Troy Frederick
September 24, 2007
A real friend. Very close. Gonna miss you my brother
Bliven Family
August 17, 2007
Dear Ford Family,
I realize there is NOTHING that could be said to you that could ever ease the loss that your family has endured... I wouldn't even begin to try.
I simply felt the need to convey my deepest, heart felt condolences, to those that lived nearest me...
I SIMPLY HAD TO reach out to those that lived closest to me and let their families know that the sacrifice that their SONS & DAUGHTERS have made ARE NOT, and WILL NOT be forgotten, and were not made in vain!
We gladly add your beloved son to our prayers, along with ALL of our other fallen Sons & Daughters!
God Bless YOU and YOUR FAMILY, and "MAY THE PEACE OF THE LORD BE WITH YOU!"
PROUD UNCLE OF THREE (3) "CURRENTLY SERVING" U.S. SOLDIERS
James A. (U.S. Army)
Justin B. (U.S. Army)
Charles C. (U.S. Air Force)
.
August 16, 2007
August 15, 2007
There is nothing that I can say or do to take away the pain or bring you peace in your time of sorrow, but I will offer you and your family my heart felt condolences. I also offer you my prayers that in time the pain will easy and the memories of your HERO will carry you through each day and night. I want to thank your HERO, for his/her selfless act of becoming a member of the armed forces, his/her willingness to defend the United States of America, all that we hold sacred and for the sacrifice that will forever be etched in the memories of all those who knew him/her. Though tears can never bring him/her back, we hope that our tears express our gratitude for the sacrifice that he/she made and our sorrow at his/her passing. I believe for every fallen HERO there is a star shining brightly up above to remind us of the precious gift we were given.
Your mission on earth is complete and you are now a member of GOD’s Heavenly armed forces. Stand down brave warrior and take your rightful place in Heaven with all the HEROES who have passed before.
I made a special promise to LE RON A. WILSON, a dear family friend who joined the Army with three other friends, one of whom is my son (Le Ron was killed in action on 07/06/07 at the age of 18) on the day he was laid to rest as I touched his coffin, that I would never forget him nor would I forget those that gave their lives for our country before him, with him and after him and so when I came across www.legacy.com, I thought what a great way to keep my promise to Le Ron, so I will continue to leave tributes in each guest book until the day there is no longer the need to leave these tributes to a FALLEN HERO.
REST IN PEACE, HERO, YOU WILL NEVER BE FORGOTTEN!!
PROUD MOTHER OF A U.S. SOLDIER
Currently stationed in Germany
Althea Barrett(Queens, NY)
August 9, 2007
Thank you for the sacrifice made by Sgt Ford and the sacrifice made by everyone who loves and misses him! May God bless all of you!!
Patricia Hartley Reed
June 3, 2007
Please see Doonesbury Cartoon Strip June 2, 2007. Richard L. Ford has been immortalized by Trudeau along with others who gave their lives for our country in what I hope is the last war I and my children and my children's children will ever know.
Krista Guest
May 31, 2007
This is the closest I can get to you for now, Richard. I still miss you and I think about you everyday. You have alott of people here who love you and I've had the pleasure of speaking with Kat and Vanessa. Thanks for giving me someone to share your memory with. I will always love you old man...lol. Thank you for always being a great friend. I miss you.
Christina McMyne (Lathe)
May 30, 2007
Vanessa,
My condolences go out to you. Your brother was one of a kind. He was truly funny & caring. My heart goes out to you and your family.
He will be missed.
Kathy Morgia
May 28, 2007
I had to stop by again. I havent stopped thinking about my old man all day today. It seems I keep missing him more and more every day. I went to dinner tonight at the same restaurant we went to together before he left. I looked at the booth we sat in and almost started crying. I miss those days of laughing with him. I still cant believe he is gone. I miss u so much old man and I love u!
Here is another one I wrote...
Letting go is impossible,
I couldnt even say goodbye
My life is not the same,
without you by my side.
I can still hear your laugh,
And your I hate you too's
Always trying to be funnier than me,
but the only one who thought that was you.
I lay in bed every night,
And all I do is cry
Why did you have to leave me,
Why did you have to die?
You are my rock, my hero,
And my best friend
I am left with a lonely heart and soul,
that are impossible to mend.
I will never stop missing you,
No matter how much time has passed
You will forever be my best friend,
And thats a love that will always last.
Kat Morgia
May 16, 2007
I thought time would heal my pain but I was wrong...I dont think anything ever will. A huge part of my life is missing ever since u left. U will be my best friend for life old man. I love u!
I just wanted to come thru again and leave this for everyone to read. I thought I had put it on here before but I hadnt. I wanted to read it at the services but I was too hysterical to do so. This one is for my old man...I miss u so much.
ONE MORE DAY 2/24/07
If I had a wish for one more day
I would make time stand still
But you're time here has run short
Because this was God's will.
Everytime I close my eyes
U r all thats on my mind
Thinking of the times we've shared
And all you've left behind.
There was no doubt in my mind
You know how much I love u
But u had so much more life to live
And so much more to do
I will take you with me
Next to me is where you'll stand
I will never have to walk alone
We'll finally walk hand in hand.
I dont know what I will do without you
This is not going to be good
Because noone will ever replace you
Noone could or ever would.
You have been my best friend
For the past 2 years
I never wanted it to end
With so much sadness and fear.
Fear of the future
A future without you
It just doesnt seem possible
I dont know what to do.
I picture your face
Framed within my mind
Of all the memories we've had
And all the love you left behind.
I will treasure my time with you
Every minute that we've shared
They will be locked within me
Hidden beneath my tears.
How could you leave me behind
There was so much more I wanted to say
I didnt have a chance to say goodbye
God, please give me one more day.
I sit here all alone
And all I do is cry
Knowing that I didnt have a chance
To say my final goodbyes.
So now is my last chance
To say what I have to say
I love you old man with all of my heart
And I'll miss you until my dying day.
Tiffany Torza
May 9, 2007
hey just thinking about how we first met and how the whole emmitt thing got started. We were at the softball game and i was a little dork (lol) and the first thing you said to me was make sure you dont cross the bats the people back here think its bad luck. And ever since then you were my emmitt. Well just wanted to talk. LOVE YOU AND MISS YOU SOOOOO MUCH. I will be back to talk later YOUR MY ANGEL.
oh and emmitt i moved back to NY Aint that something cant stay away like you onced told me.
ROBYN Garside
May 8, 2007
MAY GOD BLESS YOU AND YOURS. I HAVE JUST LEARNED OF YOUR GREAT LOSS AND WISH TO EXPRESS MY DEEPEST CONDOLENCES. PLEASE KNOW THAT THERE ARE PEOPLE OUT HERE WHO DO CARE AND YOUR HERO WILL NEVER BE FORGOTTEN. HOLD TIGHT TO YOUR TREASURED MEMORIES THAT HIS SPECIAL SMILE MAY CONTINUE TO SHINE ON FOR HIS SON. I PRAY THAT PEACE WILL FIND YOU ALL SOMEDAY. GODSPEED AND SEMPER FI.
A PROUD MARINE MOM
Krista Guest
May 4, 2007
Just me....thinking about you. I miss you!!!
Mary Ghaney
May 4, 2007
May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.
Latonio Fields
April 29, 2007
Ford, Man I miss you already. I know you looking over me, thanks for all you have done. Love You
Krista Guest
April 19, 2007
Hello....My deepest heartfelt sympathies go out to Richard's family and friends. I have spoken to Richard on and off for about the last 2 yrs. I found out about his passing yesterday. He was a terrific man and I feel honored to have known him. God bless you all....he will be deeply missed.
April 18, 2007
April 16, 2007
Please accept our condolences in the loss of your loved one.
May God bless you with comfort and peace. Thank you for your sacrifice.
In loving memory of our nephew
Spec Philip Cody Ford
C Co 3rd/509th Geronimos
Ft Richardson AK.
KIA Baghdad 10-Dec-2006
Ron and Kim Baker
Sandy Bonesteel
April 15, 2007
As the mother of a son (my only child) who is enlisted in the Army, I want to send my condolences.
Jennifer Day
April 12, 2007
My son is Sgt. Justin Holt, DCO2/325 AIR, based in Camp Taji, Iraq along with Richard (I understand some know him as Emmett) Justin speaks SO highly of Sgt. Ford...and is ineffably sad over his death. But when he told me about it over the phone he said, "Mama, we ALL fought bravely and well...and...we are living one day at a time and trying to live thru this."
Bless you all. I pray every day for you and all the families...mamas and daddys, wives and husbands, children....who have loved ones in that godless country who are giving their ALL for what they are called to do...in the service to their country and what they feel personally that they need to do. That's the only thing that would give me comfort if Justin got killed, is that he died doing what he wanted to do and what he thought he HAD to do.
Thank you for your sacrifice...only wish that your Sgt Ford didnt' have to be. I know that he was a FINE young man and I wish i had been privileged enough to know him.
My thoughts and prayers aare with you.
Jennifer Day
Proud Mother of Sgt. Justin Holt
325 AIR 82nd ABN
Heather Wilson
April 8, 2007
I knew Richard as Emmitt. He was a wonderful man with such a purpose in life. It is very sad to know that his purpose had ended. And although we do not understand why, we have to look to God for those answers. It was quite an honor meeting all of Richard's family, and i am so sorry that we all met under such conditions. My dearest sympathies are with you all. He will always live on in our memories and will be greatly missed.
Kelly Brewer
April 4, 2007
Happy Birthday Emmitt! We miss You!
Tom Gugliuzza-Smith
March 29, 2007
My heartfelt sympathy to the Ford family in the loss of Richard. I did not know Richard, but my heart is broken and I am saddened for your loss of such a fine young person and hero. May God bring you peace in your heart as you reflect on all the wonderful memories you hold so close. Please know that you are in my heart and prayers. My heart was touched by the many wonderful/beautiful things written about you. Richard you are my hero and you will NEVER be forgotten. I live close to ARLINGTON NATIONAL CEMETERY and I visit there three to five days a week. I promise each time I am at ANC I will visit/honor Richard.
I send each of you a hug from the most inner part of my heart.
Love and Peace
Tom
"To live in the hearts
of those you leave behind
is never to die"
~Robert Orr~
Kat Morgia
March 28, 2007
I had the pleasure of being in Richards (aka my old man) life for the past 2 years. He is my best friend and I couldnt have asked for a better man to come into my life and take on that role. He was my rock and was there for me thru thick and thin. He was the one man in life that I trusted with my everything and never doubted him. No matter the situation, he always put a smile on my face. We had a crazy friendship, one that could never be described to its fullest. My old man is and always will be my best friend. Noone will ever take his place in my life. I cannot even begin to describe how much he meant to me and how much he is missed. I ask myself every day how I am going to go on without him. He is a big part of my life and will continue to be.
To Vanessa and the rest of his family...I am very sorry for your loss. He is my hero and I know he is a hero to many others. We were all truly blessed to have such a wonderful man in our lives.
Trudy Lowe
March 28, 2007
My heartfelt sympathies to your family. My heart breaks with each new name added to this list, and I am saddened by your loss. Know that you are surrounded by prayers, grace and the deep gratitude of all who live in freedom. My God hold you in his arms and grant you peace. Please find joy in the memories of your loved one and comfort knowing so many are holding you in their hearts.
JoAnn Blake
March 26, 2007
Richard and family members,
We thank you for the service you gave for the security of the people of this country. You gave the ultimate gift a man can give for his friends. JoAnn and I extend our sincere condolecences to your immediate family members.
Respectfully,
JoAnn Arlene Williamson-Blake
and spouse, Richard Blake
JASON BERNARD
March 24, 2007
Rich you are a true friend. you went out of your way to help a person. Whenever I needed you you were right there no matter how big or small the situation was I could always count on you to be there. I remember when you first joined the military and the moment we met we were good friends. You always brought the best out of a person and no matter how bad my day was you had the right words to make me laugh and feel bettere. And knowing you like I do you're probably up in heaven right now having all the angels doing push-ups-lol- I love you and I will never forget you. I'll miss you.
The smile we all love...
March 23, 2007
"CJ" Jackie Bean
March 23, 2007
To my new "sis" Vanessa and the entire family-
Signing this book is the hardest thing I have ever done. I do it out of love for "LL" and to Thank all of you.
I was not as fortunate as many of you were to have Richard (LL) in my life for very long but he changed it just the same.
He said I was the reason for him being in Fayetteville. "His Mission"...so to speak, he believed things happen for a reason and he never gave up on me. I hope he knows he was successful in that "mission" and even if we had been given another 40yrs I doubt he could have touched my heart any deeper.
He truly is my Hero and I miss him more every day.
I am so thankful to all of you for allowing me to be there when he came home and sharing in saying "Good bye".
You have been so gracious and I am sorry we did not meet under different circumstances.
Vanessa, you are my rock and I am always here for you. Thank you
Since Heaven has become your home
I sometimes feel I'm so alone;
and though we now are far apart
you still hold a piece of my heart.
I never knew how much I'd grieve
when it was time for you to leave,
or just how much my heart would ache
from that one fragment you would take.
God lets this tender hole remain
reminding me we'll meet again,
and one day all the pain will cease
when He restores this missing piece
Still waiting L...
Fred (USMC Ret.)
March 16, 2007
It is with deep sadness that I honor the memory of another fallen Warrior. I ask the family and friends of Sgt. Richard Ford to accept the offer of my most sincere and heart felt condolences. I hope that you know that your loss is shared by a grateful America. Most of whom you have not met and in all probability will never meet. Our nation sincerely appreciates the sacrifices of your patriot.
Freedom is not free; it is paid for by our heroes, and for those who fight for it, Freedom has a flavor the protected will never know! This Trooper fought and made the ultimate sacrifice for our freedom.
I know the pain parents feel when they loose a child. I lost a son 19 years ago. It is a pain that defies description. It is a pain that never goes away. It is a pain that will never end. It is a pain that is all consuming.
I will keep you in my thoughts and prayers.
May God Bless and keep you today, tomorrow and forever!
Rest in Peace Brave Warrior; you did your duty with great honor, dedication and in the highest Airborne tradition.
Semper Fidelis
kim reeves
March 13, 2007
We are sorry we could not be there for you physically, our prayers are with you every step of the way.
God Bless all of you!
Kim and Edan Reeves
Nancy and Henry Markiewicz
March 9, 2007
Mason and family.
We were very sorry to hear about your loss. Our thoughts, prayers and good wishes at this time. Maybe your memories of those great moments with your son will be of comfort and help.
All the best.
March 8, 2007
It hurts to lose a love one.We don't know how much pain Richard was in. God knew he had fought a good fight for his country & it was time to take a rest. He is still with us in our memories.
Aunt Mary & Uncle Larry
Kim Gillette
March 7, 2007
Dear Family and friends of Sgt. Ford. I was with his cousin David the night he heard the news. I was touched by his stories of them as kids, Richard playing Superman, and the love that he has for his cousin. I was honored to be able to attend the service and look forward to hearing many more stories of their youth.
Karen Hickman
March 5, 2007
On behalf of Gold Star Siblings, please accept our heartfelt condolences.
Calvin Fletcher
March 5, 2007
Mason, Arlene, Virginia and Gerry:
On behalf of the Fletcher Family (Calvin, Donnie, Brenda, Jeffrey and Jacky)we'd like to express our deepest sympathy to you and your entire family on your lost of Richard. He is truly a HERO to us all.
The Fletcher Family
Linda Clifton
March 5, 2007
I wanted to express my sincerest gratitude for the services of this Fallen Hero to our country. I know these are difficult times right now and I pray that God will get you through. God Bless.
Tanya Torza
March 4, 2007
I would like to send my deepest sympathy to the family of Sgt Richard Ford (EMMITT) He will never be forgotten and will always hold a very special place in my heart. God bless you and your family.
Lee Sirotnak
March 3, 2007
Please accept our condolences for your loss. May God ease your pain and give you strength in this difficult time. We will keep you in our prayers, that you find comfort in God’s love and joy in the memory of your Soldier, Richard. We are ever thankful for his work and for his sacrifice. God Bless.
Raymond and Cherilyn Plouffe
March 3, 2007
Sorry to hear of your lost and you are in our prayers. Wish we could be there for you.
Leslie Vandergrift
March 3, 2007
To the family of Richard (especially Jackie)..I know with the exception of Jackie, most of you don't remember me.
I was Richard's roommate back in the late 80's-early 90's when he made his FIRST move to East Hartford,(with me)from Columbia. We both worked at a restaurant together and became very close. For 3 years we were almost inseparable...until I met my (now ex) husband and had a baby. Richard was very supportive throughout my pregnancy, but we lost touch (my fault)due to "life". Exactly 2 years ago there was a message from him on Classmates. I had looked for him a year before that but had no luck. He found me and emailed me while he was on his first tour in Iraq. I was ecstatic, and it was a very emotional time for both of us. We had many years to catch up on. It only took a few emails and calls for our friendship to get right back to the way it was all those years ago, with the exception of a 10 hour drive between us.Over and over we tried to make plans to meet up but it was usually MY schedule that got in the way. I always told him I was afraid that now that he was back in my life, that I would lose him to this horrible war. The last time I spoke with him was a few days before christmas, and he was getting ready to go up to Ct. again for a leave, and when he got back I was to go up to his apt. for the weekend. I never got that call. I know how painful it was for ME to get the news, so my heart goes out to you all!!! He talked about all of you with such love!! I live in Florida, but came up for the services. I am so sorry for your devastating loss. Richard was an angel on earth to all of us that were close to him, so I guess it was time for him to acquire yet another set of wings! Jackie, I think about you every day now....I know that Richard is still with you and Michael! I feel I took it for granted that he, being one of the most important people in my life, would always be there....and I am now sorry for that. We always made the plans, but I never got to see him again, and that devastated me. The most important thing we can learn from this is to never take the ones we love for granted.
Theresa Scott
March 3, 2007
Mason and Vanessa,
I am so sorry to hear of your loss. May you find comfort in knowing that he is now back in the loving arms of Thelma.
Kim Smith
March 2, 2007
Family of Richard,
Please accept my deepest sympathies. Richard was not only a Soldier/Brother/Son/Hero but a very dear friend to me. You have made the ultimate sacriface to our country and I thank you. I loved him very much and I will miss him. May God Bless your family and help you stay strong.
Cathy Hartley
March 2, 2007
My heartfelt sympathy and prayer goes out to all of Richard's family and friends. I have been hearing of his death in the news and my heart always skips beats when I hear of another one of our U.S. soldiers being killed. Thank you from the bottom of my heart Richard, for your service to our Country. My daughter is Sgt. Kelley Pearson. She grew up in East Hartford, is stationed in Fort Bragg, Fayetteville and is also of the 82nd Airborne Division. Though my heart always breaks when I hear of a soldiers death, I always catch my breath for my daughter, who will be serving her second tour of duty in Iraq this coming June. After seeing the news broadcast the story last night of his Funeral Mass at St. Andrew's, I wanted to know Richard a little better so am thankful that this Guest Book is available so that we have the opportunity to write our thoughts. The 7+ pages of people who have entered something in this online guest book showed me what an honorable, good man Richard was. The poems I read brought tears to my eyes. Many of the stories brought tears to my eyes. I wish I could hug all of his loved ones. I 'take my hat off' to whoever raised him as it's clear to see you did a beautiful job. To his son, my heart is breaking for you honey, and I will certainly keep you in my prayers to be able to get through this heartbreak. Lean on God for comfort, understanding and peace in your heart. The words and stories that people used to describe your father were so beautiful. Anyone that knew him must hold on to the wonderful memories and beauty of his heart and soul. The memories of those we love never leave our heart. I will keep you all in my prayers. God bless you; God bless America.
Rosalia Bernard
March 2, 2007
Rich was an amazing person he always went out of his way for others, had a beautiful smile that no one can ever forget. I met Rich a little over 5 years ago through my husband Jason Bernard. They met in the military in the beggining of Rich's career and started a friendship that became like family. It was a great pleasure to have known Rich. We miss him VERY much and are EXTREMELY proud of him. He is truly a hero. May god bless us all in this time of grief and help us cope with our loss.
John & Barbara Martinez
March 2, 2007
Our thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.
Carol Cline
March 2, 2007
As the days and weeks pass, and as you return to life’s routine, may you continue to feel comforted by the love and support of family and friends.
Danny Tollin
March 2, 2007
A Friend Like You
You are one of the best friends that I've ever had.
For the past 21 years, you've known everything about me,
My secrets, my lies, my faults, my triumphs, my joys and my fears.
You know me inside and out; like the back of your hand.
I've never been as honest with anyone as I have been with you.
When I was weak, you were strong.
When I stumbled, you led the way.
When I was blind, you could see.
When I was silent, you spoke.
When I needed advice, you were there.
When I needed a shoulder to cry on, you were there.
When I needed someone to cheer me up, you were there.
When I needed a friend the most, you were there.
You've always been able to bring a smile to my face and make me laugh.
Through thick and thin, you've always been there for me.
Whenever I'm with you, I have a good time.
It seems like you always understand my feelings and identify with my thoughts.
When I first met you, I thought we'd be friends for life.
But now, something has happened.
I still don't understand it, really.
All I know is that you're slowly slipping away.
And soon, you'll be gone.
And there's nothing I can do about it.
Except hope and pray that
You'll somehow come back.
Please,
Don't leave me here all alone,
In this world full of hatred.
I fear so much, and confront so little.
I need you and your strength,
To be with me always.
Please,
Don't leave me here all alone:
Without a true friend, a real friend, a friend like you.
Richard my friend, my brother, my hero...rest in peace, for one day we will meet again.
o-n-e
Debora Marvin Howard
March 2, 2007
Mason
Words can not express my sympathy at the loss of your son. Rich was on the track team with my son Terry and we have fond memories of him. Are prayers are with you and your whole family
Deboarh Marvin Howard
Flora Pizzoferrato
March 2, 2007
THANK YOU SGT. RICHARD L. FORD! YOUR SACRIFICE WILL NEVER BE FORGOTTEN. MAY THE GOOD LORD PROVIDE COMFORT AND SOLACE TO YOUR LOVED ONES AND FAMILY.
Anthony Rokosa
March 2, 2007
To SGT Ford's Family and Friends:
I am deeply sorry for your loss. I had the honor of serving with him while he was with the CT National Guard, and I have nothing but fond memories of him. The times we played basketball together, debating who the best rapper was, but most of all, that smile of his. He was a special person, one that I learned so much from. It brings no solace to know that he died doing what he did best, and that was serving from the heart. He was truly a special person, one that had an impact on all who knew him, and one that will be sorely missed.
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