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Dennis Veater Obituary
Born in Quantico, Va., he was the son of Sgt. Maj. Donald G. Veater, USMC, ret., and Donna Veater, of Clarks Summit. Dennis moved to Reading; Vista and Oceanside, Calif., Okinawa, Japan, and then Clarks Summit before settling in Jessup with his young family.
Dennis graduated from Abington Heights High School in 2004 and attended Penn State Worthington Scranton, where he studied criminal justice, before joining the Marine Corps Reserves. He knew that there was the possibility of being deployed, but he wanted to serve his country like his father had before him.
Dennis loved with his whole heart and everyone who met him loved him the same. He will be remembered for his good-hearted nature, eagerness to care for others and fun-loving attitude. He loved being in the spotlight and entertaining his family and friends by creating songs and dances, making faces and cracking jokes. He truly was a family man.
Rest in peace on your fluffy pillow. Semper Fi!
Dennis is also survived by his fiancee, Angalene Snipes, and their 14-month-old son, Dominick Alan; his two sisters, Karen (Paul Walker), Old Forge; and Patti (Henry) Cowan, Fayetteville, N.C.; his three brothers, Donald P. (Stephanie), Scranton; Gregory, Clarks Summit; and his twin brother, Adam, Clarks Summit; his grandparents, Donald J. and Betty Veater, Clarks Summit; his grandmother, Albina Haight, Watertown, S.D.; and his great-grandmother, Violet Veater, Uniontown. He will also be deeply missed by his three nephews, Avery, Donald and Logan; his two nieces, Leila and an unborn baby girl; his uncles, aunts, cousins and countless other friends.
Dennis was preceded in death by his grandfather, Wilbur R. Haight, of Watertown.
A Mass of Christian Burial will be Saturday at 11 a.m. in the Church of St. Gregory, 330 N. Abington Road, Clarks Green, to be celebrated by Monsignor John H. Louis, pastor. Interment, Valley View Cemetery, Montdale.
Friends may call Friday, 4 to 7 p.m., at the Church of St. Gregory. Memorials may be made to Injured Marine Semper Fi Fund, 825 College Blvd., Suite 102, PMB 609, Oceanside, CA 92057; or www.semperfi fund.org. Arrangements by Lawrence E. Young Funeral Home, 418 S. State St., Clarks Summit.
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Memories and Condolences
for Dennis Veater
Adam Veater
March 9, 2025
18 years passed since the day my life took a turn. I can say it was a tragedy. Our loss of your life, will forever be the turning point in mine. I felt pain that I didn´t even know existed. I saw hurt that could crumble the strongest concrete and turn it to hello.
From that pain, it has brought me down a journey that has shaped me, and built me into the Man I am today. I have been through relationships that have came and gone, Loved and divorced, had happiness and sorrow, days of succcess and days of defeat. Had new beginnings, kids and new Love. There are times where I feel proud of my life and small accomplishments. There are times where I´m not sure I can push on.
I think often where you would be in your life if you were on this side of the dirt. Would you be wealthy, would you be successful, would you be uplifting, or just making it through. No matter what I feel day to day, no matter what how my life turns out, I will be forever Grateful for your Love. Grateful for your laughter, Grateful for friendship, and grateful for your sacrifice and Love for Others.
As always, continue to keep my Family safe. Keep a steady hand and Eye over Mom and Dad.
I will continue to live my life with your Love as my guide. Through the struggles of reality, I will get by with you behind me. I LOVE YOU and MISS YOU DEEPLY. Until we meet again Twin!
Dale Hinkley
February 17, 2022
I feel stupid typing this because I still can´t believe this happened. I don´t want to type this. I don´t understand why this happened to you. When I found out, it was a week after I got back to the states. I heard it happened on uranium road. I remember how slow our convoys rolled through there because of all the pot holes. I will never understand why you are not around to play with your son. I am so sorry bro. I don´t understand why. Rest easy bro.
Doc Ball
May 30, 2021
It is foolish and wrong to mourn the men who died. Rather we should thank God such men lived.
George Patton.
No truer words could be said for Dennis.
Chris David
October 25, 2020
Happy Birthday, Dennis. Thinking about you more today. I couldn’t remember for a second who was the older twin but I figured it out. Miss you, man. I’ll forever cherish the times back in Oki with you, Adam, Mark, Mic and the others. You kept most of us on the straight and narrow. Keep shining your light on us.
Jerome Copeland
March 2, 2020
There is not a day that goes by that I don't reflect back on those days training prior to leaving for Iraq. Met a lot of new brothers and sisters. We had fun and sorrow. Dennis will always be in the hearts of everyone who knew him and served with him. Semper Fi.
December 12, 2018
Unfortunately I had to recently attended a funeral for a high school friend and fellow Marine Chris Desando. He lost his battle with PTSD but was so proud to be a Marine. As I sat in the church I began to think back to high school lunch and study hall. Myself, Dennis and Chris were all good friends. We sat in study hall and lunch together. I can remember one snowy day sitting in lunch, when my twin sister wanted to bring her boyfriend to prom. He was 20 and unable to purchase a ticket. Dennis then says he will buy the ticket so she can have her boyfriend come. This was common occurrence for Dennis, he always looked out for his friends. I never got to say my final goodbyes to dennis, I was on a cruise when I heard he has passed away. I have the deepest regret and grief that I wasn't able to be there for his brother Adam who was also good friends in highschool. But I do pray for dennis often and wear his memorial band so it reminds me of the sacrifices fellow Marines have made. I also had the honor to serve in the Marine Corps with dennis and one thing he was proud of, was being a Marine.
Rest easy friend-
Sgt William Dubiak (USMC)
Matthew Brooks
August 19, 2017
It has been over ten years since but I never forget and always think about you. I always remember coming back to my hooch to see you playing pocket tanks on my computer. Miss you Brother. Semper FI
Brian Fall
May 27, 2017
Been 10 years now, I often find myself thinking about my last mission with you in February 2007, how we all smiled and were in such great spirits while we talked about our plans for homecoming. Hearing you talk about how much you were looking forward to meeting your newborn son always comes to my mind first when I think about our deployment. I wish your son could have met you because you were such a awesome, fun-loving, positive guy that everybody looked up to out there. I'm forever proud to have served with you.
Anthony Veater
November 9, 2016
Happy Birthday Marine! Dennis, you are missed so badly, we are all so Proud of you! I miss you and speak of you often, you will never be forgotten!
Semper Fi
Outstanding Marine and Nephew!
Adam Veater
December 12, 2015
Hey dennis,
A couple days ago my boss died. The same one I have had since you have been layed to your eternal rest. As soon as I saw the casket, that was it. Not only did I feel for my coworkers and their loved ones, but also brought back this other raw emotion from the day of your funeral service.
I try to do what I can and say what little knowhow I can to help them come to term with their loss. Remembering all the things I went through shortly and long term. So help me out up there and say hello to Leo.
I also went to New York today with Lindsay. We both wanted to go see Ground Zero. The place where it all began. I made sure to pray for all who have lost there lives in those attacks and for their families.
Dennis I still miss you day by day, and ask you to cast a special blessing and close eye over mom and dad this year...until next time, twin. I love you
Karen Veater Walker
September 25, 2015
Chris Barre, thank you dearly. It is comforting to know you were there. Please, share your stories here for we would be ever so grateful to hear any memory.
For you, I wish you comfort and peace. I cannot imagine how life altering this experience must have been for you. Please know you are loved and will always remain as such in our family. I hope that you've received the support you have needed to continue on your journey.
Chris Bare
September 23, 2015
I was sitting with LCpl Veater in Balad when he passed away. I stayed with him for those last few hours, holding his hand and crying thinking about how young he was and the life he still had to live. I also made the call to his 1stSgt to let him know LCpl Veater had passed away. It was the toughest day I had in Iraq. Family and friends, please know that I am sorry for your loss but alao know that LCpl Veater was well taken care of and that a Marine was by his side until the end.
August 22, 2015
Thinking about the hills and the sunset and the way the wind kisses my cheek. You are with me in the wind.
May 16, 2015
Dennis was a fun, yet serious, young man with a strong work ethic - a credit to his family. He will never be forgotten.
Bernadette Menendez
February 21, 2015
Eternal Peace to your soul. Bless your family
February 20, 2015
missing you... <3
Karen Walker
January 19, 2015
2015...here we are. Another year. Sometimes I wake up thinking we all must be dreaming, but I know this not to be true. We miss you. Really, we do. When I see reunions on TV, I become so jealous of those families. Love you.
April 25, 2014
Not a day goes by that I don't think of you
leila veater
March 1, 2014
its almost march 9th without you here its going to be a very bad day only the good die young... gone but never forgotten <3
Karen Walker
November 12, 2013
To the Marines that serves with Dennis, Thank you for your service to this great nation and the sacrifice that you and your families made. And, thank you for continuing to love and keep keep Dennis alive in your hearts. I pray that his death does not haunt your dreams, but instead that his life brings a smile to your face. May the love he had for his family, his country and his Corps be light during your dark hours. We have a love and respect for all of you. Semper Fi, Devil Dogs.!
Shane Lawler
November 11, 2013
Thank you for your service, Dennis.
Doc Ball
November 11, 2013
To the Family and Friends of LCPL Veater, that fateful night replays in my head, and I am sorry I could not save Dennis. I know the memories that everyone shared with Dennis and had with Dennis will live forever as will his Spirit. God Bless.
Shane Lawler
October 11, 2013
Dennis was a part of my unit while in Fallujah and I was the leader of the first response team that pulled Dennis from the hole that night. Holding his hand while he was being loaded into my truck, I prayed that he would survive the wounds suffered from the blast that night. The drive back to base with Dennis in my truck felt like an eternity even though I know the hand of God was shoving that truck down the road as fast as it could go.
There is no doubt in my mind that everyone involved in the the rescue that night (including Dennis) fought as hard as they could for his life. The recollection of the events that night has the ability to stop me in my tracks any day of the week even 6 years later.
My condolences go out to the entire Veater family, Angalene and Dom. I lost a friend that night, but you lost a son, a brother, a fiancée and a father.
Deepest respect to everyone affected by the loss of LCpl Veater.
"Law Dog to Rear Gun, come in, over"
Karen Walker
May 28, 2013
Memorial Day stinks without you and your silly antics. You are forever missed and always in my heart. Miss you, baby brother.
nin
May 25, 2013
Thinking of you today & everyday. I miss you. I'll come visit soon.
Gary Cook
April 20, 2013
Dennis, I just watch the end end of "The Killing Fields," and I'm reminded why great men like yourself fought for our way of life. I must thank you once again for your service to our country, for the sake of humanity itself.
Charlie Gili
April 6, 2013
Hello,
We would like to express our deepest condolences and also let the Veater Family know that we recently sent Care Packages to American troops in the war zones. Each box carried a dedication sheet that includes the name, service information and a photo of your loved one. We recognize that this is a humble tribute, but we wanted you to know that it is heartfelt and made possible by thousands of like-minded individuals in the youth hockey community and beyond. We will not forget. May God Bless you and keep you strong.
Sincerely,
Charlie Gili & Family
On Behalf of the US Hockey Players Support Our Troops Campaign
Dennis J. Veater US Marine Lance Corporal
Fellow Marine
March 24, 2013
Dennis, you are never forgotten.
Tom Richards
March 9, 2013
Semper Fi bro. Not a day passes that I don't think of that day I was with you! My prayers go out to your family!
March 9, 2013
Another year has passed since that dreaded day. We all love and miss you.
I am posting a verse from Eternal Father, Grant we Pray (Marines Verse):
Eternal Father, grant, we pray,
To all Marines, both night and day,
The courage, honor, strength, and skill
Their land to serve, thy law fulfill;
Be thou the shield forevermore
From every peril to the Corps
Eternal Father, grant, we pray,
To all Marines, both night and day,
The courage, honor, strength, and skill
Their land to serve, thy law fulfill;
Be thou the shield forevermore
From every peril to the Corps
October 25, 2012
Happy Birthday son. Another year and it doesn't get any easier. Just got back from North Carolina visiting your Patti and her family. You would fall in love with Samantha, she is 6 months old and what a joy she is. I am sure you know that though. Alot has gone on since last year. It seems the roller coaster ride goes on with extreme highs and lows. Thanks for looking out for us and keeping us safe. I love you and miss you as always. Momma
Lynne Neibert
May 5, 2012
Prayer Shawls 4 Fallen Soldiers ([email protected]) is an organization with groups throughout the country who strive to send handmade prayer shawls and/ or lap robes to families who have lost a loved one in service to our country. Members of Trindle Spring Lutheran Church in Mechanicsburg, PA would like to honor your loved one's sacrifice and memory by sending our prayers and comfort through a shawl which we will mail to you. If you are interested, please contact me at [email protected] with the names and addresses and what they would like to receive. We will send them as soon as possible. Also, if you know of any other families who are grieving the loss of a loved one who died serving our country, please pass along my e-mail address, as our organization can no longer get family contacts through the military. May God bless you and comfort you in the days ahead. Sincerely, Lynne
Karen Walker
March 18, 2012
Yesterday was the 5th anniversary of your burial. I love you and miss you each and every day. Our lives will never be the same because you are gone. All my love!
Peggy Childers
March 15, 2012
March 9, 2012
To the family and friends of Lance Cpl. Dennis J. Veater:
Always remembering Dennis. "Some gave all."
March 9, 2012
To family and friends of Dennis, I am sorry for your loss. This fine young man was taken far to soon. Cherish the wonderful memories of him; how he made you laugh, and/or maybe even cry. A day doesn't go by that he is not truly missed by all who knew him. As the Marine Corps motto states, "Semper Fidelis," (Always Faithful).
Peace and Love to you.
I will always love you.
March 8, 2012
Five years is way to long to be seperated. Miss you dearly every day my love... I love you. Always and forever in my heart
October 25, 2011
Today Dennis would have been celebrating his 25th birthday. Not a day goes by that your not thought about. You brought so many laughs, and good times to our lives. Happy Birthday in Heaven. I love you and miss you. Momma
L Neal
March 14, 2011
To the family of Lance Cpl. Dennis J. Veater:
Please know that just as your loved one remains in your hearts and minds; his sacrifice, and that of your family, remains with the people he died defending. Words cannot express the gratitude we feel for his bravery and selflessness, or the heartache we feel for your loss. God bless and keep you always.
Kathy Wanyo
March 11, 2011
Anyone defending us is a special person. For someone to make the ultimate sacrifice is someone extremely special. Bless your family on your loss of a true hero.God Bless you and hope you are healing.
Glenda O'Brien
March 10, 2011
When I thought about you yesterday Dennis, I also thought about your mother, Donna. I wondered, as I often do, how she continues to put one foot in front of the other, day by day, living with the greatest loss - the loss of one's child. But even as she mourns this incredible loss, she has been entrusted with something extraordinary - your legacy. You are her hero. Perhaps she carries on by knowing her part in the making of a truly special person; a guy who gave everyone he touched a smile and a laugh, a man who gave his family and friends someone to look up to, a person who can inspire others to live in his honor ~ to keep putting one foot in front of the other and to never let you be forgotten.
Thank you for your service and your sacrifice, Lance Cpl. Dennis James Veater. And to your mother and your father, brothers and sisters, nephews and nieces, and to your son, thank you for your sacrifice.
Richards
March 10, 2011
Here's to our brother we left on the battlefield who shall never be forgotten by those who will always remember him. We miss u V
Tom-
Peggy Childers
March 9, 2011
To the family and friends of Lance Cpl. Dennis J. Veater:
Please accept my remembrance of Dennis on the anniversary of his passing and know that he will never be forgotten.
Peggy Childers
www.IraqWarHeroes.org
March 4, 2011
SgtMaj and Mrs Veater,
Your son will never be forgotten by the Marines with whom he served. Few will appreciate the high price we have asked so many mothers and fathers, husbands and wives, brothers and sisters, sons and daughters to pay. Extending my personal sympathies is simply inadequate, but I offer it with greatest sincerity.
Semper Fidelis,
MajGen J. A. Kessler
November 11, 2010
Donald and Donna and Family: So good to know You; and I Thank Dennis for Serving Our Country and Giving His Life for Our Freedom. You can be So Proud of Him. With Lots of Love, Mrs. Kathleen Gregory
Doc Ball
November 11, 2010
Lcpl Veater,
Thank you for your service. Gone but NEVER FORGOTTEN. Thank you Dennis.
Gunny Hiles
November 7, 2010
I am Retired Marine Gunnery Sergeant Robert Hiles in Houston, TX. I am wearing Lance Corporal Veaters Bracelet.
Donna Veater
October 25, 2010
Today is Dennis' birthday. Another lonely day without him. I wish everyone had a chance to meet this fine young man, he was a terrific human being, he looked out after manking and never wanted anything in return. I wish more young men and women had his values.
Happy Birthday son, I love you, Momma
Timothius Robinson
July 21, 2010
Veater Family,
It has been 3 yrs since we lost Dennis and as I sit here reading the postings and thinking of you all, I often reflect back on how it was that Dennis and I met. The first time I met him was when I lived down the street from you here in Oki. While a student at Kubasaki, he went to school with my children. If that isn't fate enough, I was his SgtMaj when we were in Iraq, I currently work in the office where Donald used to work at Futenma, and now I live in the house you used to live in at Kishaba. I will never forget the day that my family and I came to your family's home in PA for Dennis' memorial. As I read these postings from your friends and loved ones Dennis, I pray that you can see that they loved you and they miss you dearly. For a young man of your few short years to have touched so many lives speaks volumes of who Dennis Veater was and will always be. I am proud to have served with a man of your caliber and will always remember you. Your entire family are always in my prayers. Each time I look at my CLB-5 stuff, I think of you and Sgt Carillo. I trust God will allow us to be in the same formation again some day! Until then, rest in peace my brother! Should your family ever need me, they can always count on me. Donald (SgtMaj), Donna it seems like only yesterday that I called you from Iraq after you received such unfortunate news. Stand proud and know that Dennis will live on in our memory for years to come and I too share in your missing such a special young man.
Mic Monroy
July 14, 2010
DENNIS!!!its me mike monroy, i'm in okinawa right now back home where you and me use to kick it and go through unforgettable memories together with your brothers too. I know you are watching down and watching your boys rip it on stage, we miss you over here, you live in our minds and hearts, We Love you and Miss You.
Heidi Harting
May 31, 2010
Donna, I think back to Okinawa and how you used to talk about your kids. You loved them so deeply as we all loved our children. We would bump into you all at the commissary or the BX or somewhere on the island, you would introduce your kids, and they like most teenagers would look like they would rather be anywhere else but talking to us "old" people, but wouldn't leave your side. Its true what they say, you can never go back in time, you can never pinpoint a moment and say, "take me there" if we could I would go back to one of those moments and get to know Dennis better, to know his time was brief and I would be cheated to not know him. From all I read about him many do know him and miss him, and although I am sure it brings you little comfort, he will not be forgotten by those who knew him and loved him and those who only know him as a hero who gave his life for us. I enjoyed the CNN video, I enjoyed seeing you in the background and hearing the SgtMaj and your daughter speak about your son. Thank you for sharing him with us all.
Heidi
Adam Veater
May 31, 2010
this is the 4th memorial day with you watching down on us...doesn't get any easier but cherish the memories more. i just got done watching that segment that cnn did on you and couldn't help but to shed a tear...the tears don't fall as much but the pain still endures in me daily....sometimes i wonder if i don't cry, people might think i'm over it...just a daily struggle to get my composure and function like an adult and keep going.
hope you can watch down on us today and everyday, but more so today as we all gather to remember and honor our fallen marine. love you and await the day to see you again....your twin-
Donna Veater
May 31, 2010
Dennis,
I remember growing up and thinking Memorial Day was for camping, fishing and waterskiing, this was the beginning of the summer vacation period. I knew why this Holiday existed but I didn't give it much more thought than that, which I am sorry to say. Three years ago brought a new meaning to Memorial Day, never had I gone to a Memorial Day Parade and now the Abington Heights Civic League participates in the Clarks Summit Parade and they proudly Honor "You," LCPL Dennis J Veater, USMCR. I as well as many are proud of you and strive to keep your memory alive.
We miss you so much. I think of you always. I love you, Momma
Karen Walker
May 30, 2010
Life goes on. The day you died, Logan was 17 months old, Dominick was 14 months old and Jaimee wasn't even born. Now, we have 2 girls, and Logan is in Tball. It has been the shortest 3+ years, but the longest too. So much for you to have missed, so much for us to have missed of you. I can only hope that you are watching over us. This is what keeps me honest, knowing that I have to do my best, or you'll see and I will have disappointed you. For as long as I live, I will make sure that your memory is alive as well.
I miss you so deeply! You should be here. You should be enjoying your son, your nieces and nephews. LOVE YOU, SO!
SCOTT CHAMBERLAND
May 29, 2010
Please accept my deepest sympathies.
Andy
May 29, 2010
Just watched Video about Dennis. Please know this American is grateful!
K Smith
May 29, 2010
Thank you.
-The brave die never, though they sleep in dust:
Their courage nerves a thousand living men.
~Minot J. Savage
May 26, 2010
Unable are the loved to die. For love is immortality. ~Emily Dickinson
Thank you. - Jonathan
Brian Pinterich
April 14, 2010
Veater Family,
There is not a day that passes by that Dennis does not cross my mind, along with many other people that are associatied with our High School Baseball program in Berwick. I never met Dennis but I cannot tell you what your son means to so many people. Many of you know that our Baseball team dedicated our 2008 season to Dennis and his fellow Marines for carrying our towels in Iraq. That team, with Dennis on our minds throughout the year, won our schools first ever Baseball State Championship. The picture of Dennis in uniform that Mr. and Mrs. Veater gave us when we met them in the summer of 2008 is still, and FOREVER will be, in our trophy case next to our championship trophy. Our Berwick Baseball program has only one hero..... Dennis Veater is our hero!!!
Brian Pinterich
Head Baseball Coach
Berwick High School
Aunt Susan Veater
April 1, 2010
Dear Dennis,
They say you can't go back in time, that you can only progress, moving forward. To me, moving forward means going back in time to make sense of you not being here moving forward with us. But there are no answers to be found here.
You hold the answers now. So until the time that our wounds will be healed, when God opens up his arms and brings us all closer to you, until then we move forward, holding close to our hearts, our memories of you. Happy Easter!
Karen Walker
March 10, 2010
I went to your grave site Tuesday, the 3rd anniversary of your death. It is probably the 4th time I've been there. I just can't stand to be there. I can't bear to accept that that is where you are, so I choose to stay away. But this time, when I was there, I noticed that the snow was untouched. It really bothered me that no one had been out to see you, but I cannot judge, as I cannot bring myself to visit. I tried to dig the snow away from your placard with my bare hands, but it was simply too cold. I wished that I would have brought a shovel to clear the snow away and make room for the signs of spring, the signs of life.
As I knelt beside where I imagine your head was, I thought, how fitting. Grandma had just told me the day before how much so remembered you loving the snow. She said that you would go jump in the snow without being dressed for it, might I add, just as a grade schooler would. Good thing that I didn't bring the shovel after all. That probably would've bugged ya, huh? Well, I just wanted you to know that I was and am thinking of you, ALL the time. Today, as we celebrated the birth of our little Cameron, I had joy in my heart, and an empty hole. How I wish you could have met her. How I wish you could have been here.
Oh, I also saw Dominick on Tuesday. He is so big and tall and looks so much like you (and Angie too), but a lot like you. It was great to see his smile. He was going swimming with his pop, but I'm sure you were there, watching the whole thing.
I LOVE you so very much. I miss you more with each passing day.
Linda Hughes
March 9, 2010
To the family of Dennis Veater,
Everybody at Elan still remembers Dennis and all the good times we had with him. I think of him alot and saw the sign at the Gourmet Diner today he will never be forgotten
March 9, 2010
Dennis,
It's been three years since we heard that dreaded news that changed all of our lives. I have replayed that day over and over, everything from your dad calling me at work and telling me to get home, to seeing your dad pull in the driveway behind me getting out of someone elses car, to the van pulling up in the driveway as I stood at the sink trying to remember how to make a simple pot of coffee (which I had done many times over), to the Marines and Sailor knocking on the door, to the total denial sitting at the dining room table just repeating, "no, no, no, this is not happening, this isn't true." Then I had to make phone calls to your siblings and my biggest regret is that I called Patti at work and didn't tell a co-worker to go in to the office and be with her as I had to break that dreaded news. I am so sorry Patti. Wow, how the news spread, before you know it total strangers were knocking on our door telling us they were sorry but thanking us at the same time for your commitment and honor. Everywhere we went some people would say the same thing while others just gave us that look with pity. Many people would demonstrate so much pride in having had the chance to know you personally. I guess one never knows the impact they make on others, what I didn't know then I know now you had a huge impact on many people. I never realized how close this family was adn still is, until this time, everyone stepped up to ease the process. Paul kept Avery, Leila, Logan and Donald busy while Karen completed her task of writing your obituary, Patti and Aunt Susan took care of the flowers. Henry was the strenght behind the force we (dad and I) needed to go make funeral arrangements. Stephanie took care of the motel rooms. Don and Greg kept watch over Adam to ensure he was taken care of. Adam took Angie out to get what would have been a wedding ring in less than 3 short months and he was at her side whenever she called. Melissa Vaccarro took on the job of going through pictures to put together some wonderful memory boards of your life. Friends took on the task of ensuring food was here 24/7 for the two weeks following your death at both our house and your Gma and Gpas house. Debbie P. and Sarah V. came over to put everything in order (to clean) my house. I had phone calls from cousins I hadn't seen or heard from in years. It seemed people came out of the woodwork to be with us and share with us their stories about you. I am so thankful for everyones thoughtfulness at that time and still today.
I miss you so much and wish this day was over with. Thank you so much for being a part of my life. Semper Fi son. I love you, momma
Peggy Childers
March 9, 2010
To the family and friends of Lance Cpl. Dennis J. Veater:
Remembering Dennis on the anniversary of his passing. May our fallen heroes never be forgotten!
Peggy Childers
"Don't Let The Memory Of Them Drift Away"
www.IraqWarHeroes.org
Darryl Zimmerman
February 1, 2010
To The Veater Family,
You do not know me but I know your son. I had the pleasure serving with him during our deployment to Iraq. Dennis was a part of my fire team while serving with serving in TS Company. I had a chance to have alot of one on one time with him and get to know him rather then just knowing who he was. He was an excellent Marine and always tried to be better. i will never forget that night nor will i forget your son. I want to tell you im sorry that i didnt do this sooner. I have been trying to find the words to say for almost three years now. I wish there was more I could have done. I want you to know my thoughts are with your family everyday. To his son, you father was a kind,a kind hearted man and he used to tell me about you all the time. He was so proud to be your father. I could see his eyes light up. He was so excited to start his family when he got back. Even when i was mad he would make me laugh. He was a one of a kind. Rest in piece my Marine Brother and My Friend
Mallory Valle (Morales)
November 4, 2009
Dennis,
Every now and then I still think about you. I remember how much you were important to me. You still are. You and Adam mean't so much to me more than you'll ever know. You guys were my bestfriends. Tasha and I still talk about you guys and how much fun we had together growing up. You are one of the most important parts of my past that I could never forgot. Being a fellow Marine, I feel like I lost my childhood friend and my brother. Sometimes I wish I could have known that this would happen when we were kids so I could have prevented you from going to Iraq. I wish I would have known. I know it sounds ridicilous. God we had fun didn't we? Remember when Adam dressed up like Cynthia from the Rugrats on Halloween? LOL. All he did was put hair ties in his hair! This was a good one! Remember when you and Adam had those big jackets and me and you and Adam and Tasha got inside of them and tired running down the street in them! LOL. We were so dumb! And the infamous WRITING GAME!!! I still have the papers and notes! With your handwriting on them...It's something I have of you that you wrote and touched. And it means so much to me. Dennis, I miss you. And I always will. I'm so grateful that I knew you. I will never forget you and all of our special memories.
Annie Veater Sorenson
September 21, 2009
I went online to find information about my great great grandfather James Veater and found out about Dennis Veater.
My brother, also James (Jim) Veater, is named after our grandfather James Veater, and his oldest son is named Adam Veater.
My GG Grandfather came to the US from Somerset, England and ended up in Utah with the Mormons.
I wondered if someone in this family might be able to tell me a little about your ancestry - where your line of Veater's came from. My line goes as follows:
James Veater from England
his son
James Morgan Veater in Utah
his son
Clark Veater in Utah (my father)
his son
James Veater (Jim) in Arizona
his son
Adam Veater
I am Annie Veater Sorenson.
Hope to hear from you soon.
Karen Walker
August 23, 2009
Here we go again. Another day, week, month, without you here. I think of you often and hold you in my heart always. School is just starting up for the year and I was remembering when I took you to Penn State for orientation. We both felt like fish out of water. I was so excited that you would be studying criminal justice, so proud of you. And you, you were wondering what and why you got yourself into. I wish every day that we could go back to that day and I could convince you not to join the Marines. But, I know that I would've just talked till I was blue in the face. That was in your heart, and you had to follow it. I'm so sorry. I miss you so deeply. Please, just come home
R.J. HARRELSON
August 7, 2009
i didnt know when i would be able to put into words how much i miss veater. i was with him that night and it plays through my mind every day. it feels like yesterday that we were playing texas hold'em. i miss my amigo. dennis veater you will always be my friend and hero. CPL Harrelson
R.P. Lawson
May 25, 2009
Just discovered this site. Thanks for organizing it and the video. A flood of memories came back when I viewed it.
I was the chaplain of CLB-5 during Veater's deployment. Each night I would pray for the safety of those who made convoy runs out into the area. The guys who made up TS Company really became my family. One of the pictures in the video includes me with the guys. To this day, I still often think of them.
I vividly remember LCpl Veater as a warm and kind-hearted person. I have a great picture of him displaying a big smile. I have his picture, along with that of another Marine, in my office. I show his picture to the public when I do presentations to groups as a way to keep his memory alive. I will never forget Veater and all the guys that served with CLB-5. They were all very special people.
I pray that God will bless the Veater family with grace and comfort during this Memorial Day weekend. May his life continue to bless all of his family and friends with warm thoughts of yesteryear.
Twin Brother, Adam Veater
May 25, 2009
this is going to be the third memorial day with you watching over us. still don't know which memory i like the most, but it didn't take too long to see that any memory with you in it, bad or good, are my favorite...its amazing that the family can continue to share stories and laugh about all the funny things you might of done.
i still play back the day of your death in my mind, as i was told it happened and the coming of events to follow...oh, how i would give this all up to give you one more hug and tell you i love u one more time...times still get hard without my sidekick, partner in crime, best friend, protector of my freedom, twin, Dennis.
on may 2nd, i couldn't help it, but to put my head down as i walked to the alter to get married to the women of my dreams...staring right in front of me was an oil painting of my best man...trying to fight the tears, i still didn't hesitate to hold my head high, just as you have always done and taught me to do, when times get hard. a couple of our boys came up for the weekend to share the special day with me and welcome hayley into there hearts. the night before, we went up to the cemetary...all of them felt they had to pay there respects. i was eased to have them get some sort of closure. the look on there faces said it all. it must of been weird to see only one twin and not the other, considering we were always together. but now they don't ask themselves, " where is Dennis?"...they seemed to know that you are always looking down...and are somewhere where the size of your heart can fit.
this day i remember all the service men and women, not just my own Lance Corporal Dennis J. Veater, and thank you for the services and contributions they have made.
Angalene Snipes
May 24, 2009
I sat there looking into these beautiful blue eyes God has blessed my life with seeing each day as a reminder of my love. I sat there and watch the tears rise and the lip quiver. I heard him say what I dread to hear, I felt my heart break way worse than ever. I knew, this wasn't going to be easy, but I didn't know that instantly tears would fill my eyes and I would hardly be able to speak. I watched so vulnerable as my son,the boy I want to protect from everything bad in this world, was attacked by the one think I can't protect him from. From missing his Father. As I fought through the tears and we sat on the stoop outside the garage. As the contractors worked behind us... He looks up at me with tears in his eyes and says.. I miss my Daddy. The contractpr came over to ask me something, thinking Dominick got hurt and then realizes what is going on walks away. we sat there for a good 10 min. Him saying, I want him to come down me. Me saying he can't. Both of us crying. Him asking what happened to Daddy's truck and if the the doctors fixed Daddy. Me explaing that Daddy booboo was to bad so the doctors needed God to fix him. Him asking if he had his booboo in heaven still and me saying no. His saying but I love my Daddy, I want him to come down. Both of us crying and hugging. Then me explaining, One day, and not one day soon, we will see Daddy again. But Daddy is taking care of us everyday. Then in his three year old mind he looks at me in terror, mommy, is there toys in heaven? He starts crying. I said Dominick there is more toys in heaven then there is in your room. But he cries and says but mom these toys are from Daddy. I half smiled through my soaked cheeks. God I love this boy. Dominick, I said, you will have the best thing when you get to heaven, your Daddy, he is the best toy. ... he looked at me smiling, mommmy I love you.
We miss you Denn, My God we LOVE you....
Chris Rivera
May 20, 2009
( The Marine’s Prayer) Almighty Father, whose command is over all and whose love never fails. Guide me and keep me true to my Country and Marine Corp. grant me the courage to do what must be done. Help me wear my uniform with dignity and let it remind me daily of the traditions which I must uphold. Protect my family and love ones so they may understand my loyalty to my country and the answer to my prayer. Death before dishonor! Semper Fi Corporal C. Rivera
Karen Veater Walker
May 18, 2009
Dennis,
I thought March was going to be so hard, but I think the distraction of having Cameron born so close to the anniversary of your death was a good thing. But, these past few days and weeks have been so hard. I have been brought to tears several times, just thinking of the hole that has been left because of your absence. Money is being donated in your honor to the Canine Corps, so the paper called me to ask questions about who you are, AND mom and I are going to a girl scouts meeting to tell them about you (they are marching in your honor in the memorial day parade). Its just so hard to "sum you up" in a matter of words. I love you so much and miss you more with each passing day. Many kisses to you, my baby brother. P.S. Logan asked who made the pears the other night at dinner. I told him, God did. So, later, he asked, what did Uncle Dennis make? - We all miss you!
Chris Rivera
May 16, 2009
my name is Chris Rivera aka Spiderman I was there with Veater Aka Menace in Iraq that sad night. I just found this site and I’m glad that there is some one keeping his memory alive! it hurts to think about that day! he was such a great guy always laughing with joy! I remember everyone that night was complaining because they had dropped there packs but NOT Veater! as he looked for his cover which some of the guys had hid from him that night. I’m so sorry that he didn’t make it home, too all the marines from CLB-5 1st platoon TS company I hope you all keep the Menace in your hearts. Semper Fi
Bruce McMichael
April 20, 2009
Our very deepest condolences on the loss of Dennis. We appreciate what he did for our country and for what he represents. I am from the Berwick area and appreciate what our baseball team did in honor of Dennis. We want his family to know that they have our profound condolences and prayers...he made the ultimate sacrifice so we can enjoy the freedoms that we all take for granted. May God grant you, his family, peace and consolation.
Richards
March 19, 2009
My husband was with Dennis the day he was taken away from all of us. I never got to meet Dennis but a year ago I was honored to meet his wife and son! Words cannot express how I feel that you have been taken from your family at such a young age. I pray for you and your family and hope that they find strength each and everyday... I know my husbands life has been foreven changed the day Dennis was taken from us and is a constant reminder how life is so beautiful and to cherish every moment we have together. We have a little boy a little younger than Dominick and they both played a year ago and it was so enjoyable to see two young children playing and living care free so sad that it was on the terms of a memorial for Dennis but yet again it was a joy from my husbands face that one of his brothers son and his played with happiness. I hope one day Dominick & my son will get too meet again and they will both know how wonderful and brave Dennis is! He truly is a hero!
You and your family are in our thoughts and prayers... RIP Dennis! God Bless you all...
Andrew Nelson
March 9, 2009
2 years ago, its still hard to believe. When I was having hard times your laughter always cheered me up and helped me make it through another day. I think about you everyday and know your looking down upon us. May you always be in Gods hands and we all will meet someday. Serving with you was one one of the best things I have every experienced and Ive never have met someone like you A dedicated Marine and yet very caring of others. For anyoe who knew Dennis they would say the same. Until we meet again brother may you rest in the presence of God.
kyle Ledbetter
March 9, 2009
You left us 2 years ago today brother...a day that plays over and over in me head constantly! I never stop thinking about you and cannot wait till we meet again. Thank you for all that you did..
Cpl Ledbetter
Peggy Childers
March 9, 2009
To the family of Lance Cpl. Dennis J. Veater:
Dennis gave the ultimate sacrifice and will be held in the hearts of Americans forever. I cannot and will not let our fallen heroes be forgotten. My deepest sympathy to you. "Some gave all."
Peggy Childers
"Don't Let The Memory Of Them Drift Away"
www.IraqWarHeroes.org
Kenna Larra
February 9, 2009
We love our Soldiers! We love our country and we cannot express enough love and compassion to the families. War does not discriminate – It breaks my heart to see the faces of the fallen. We want to give this gift to you. We are a 501c3 nonprofit organization! Over 1,400 portraits have been completed and shipped to the parents and or spouse - at no cost as this is a gift from one American to another!
Contact us directly at [email protected] or go to www.heropaintings.com. If you have already had a portrait completed, we pray that you are enjoying the portrait and God Bless You.
Sincerely,
Kenna
Lois Anne Stark
February 6, 2009
We share very similar pain in our losses.....If u ever need to talk...please write...It helps a lot...
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Angalene Snipes
November 14, 2008
It is strange how I find myself staring at these walls around me and wishing the only thing surrounding me was your arms. Here is something that is just like the many simple things we use to tell eachother when we were apart. I was sitting in Olyphant waiting for my mother to come out of Pop's shop. When a car came around the corner and it was a padiddle.. well then right behind that one was another one, but the other headlight. I lost it. I see them.. just when I need to see them, or even when I don't. When you called me and told me you saw one in Hondoras and in Iraq.. and you were so upset and said how at those moments you needed that and all you thought was "Angalene loves me". . I never knew how something so simple could leave such an impact. I miss you Denn. When you are with me in my dreams I can't express the anger that I feel when I wake. Here is something else I know you would laugh at me for and give me a kiss. Greys Anatomy... ok so her fiancee's name is Denny... and ok he is gone... well what the heck.. yeah I cried a lot and yelled. Like that really happens?! Denn if i could just see you... goodness... if I could only touch you ... lay my hand on your heart..that I miss so much. I think of those nights that I spent tracing my fingers over your face. . the silly things we said like , I want to remember your face incase i ever go blind. The way you would breathe just a lil heavier right before you fell asleep.. the way you smelled. I miss the notes.. the way i would find one every night and morning on my night stand or in silly places i wouldn't expect. There is no man like you out there. . I can't figure out why this all happened. I hate that our son is with out you. You two would have been inseperable... I see him looking at you and my heart breaks like I never knew a pain could feel so real. The fog my life was in for so long after losing you has began to lift slightly and my god it only makes it worse. How can it be that I will not see you, touch you , feel you again. how can it be our son has no father. how can it hurt so much and no matter what i do it hurt more each day. This is NOT ok. And I hate that I can't do anything about it. YOU didn't deserve this, Dominick didn't deserve this. I keep thinkin about the "should be's" and it kills me to think of where we should be as a family. My heart hurts. . I love you Denn. And this shouldn't have happened. I love you Denn.
Karen Walker
November 14, 2008
I cannot visit this site or read what others have written without feeling both an immense sense of pride and sadness. I feel compelled to share with others how truly important and special Dennis is. I know a lot of people feel that because there were 6 six kids in our family, losing 1 should not be that hard. At least, not as hard as if there were only 2 or 3 of us. But, Dennis is a unique and wonderful person. No one can ever take his place. No one can make us laugh like he did or have that spark that he had.
The last 2 days, I've been looking at all of the pics that we have between Mom and Dad, myself and Angie. Wow, I just am enthralled at how we have all grown, and at all I missed of your boys growing when you were in Japan and Patti and I were in CA.
Denn, I miss you so much. You will always hold a very special place in my heart that will NEVER be filled my another. Love you always and forever, semper fidelis!
Ruby Dennard
November 10, 2008
To The Veater Family,
Please accept my heartfelt condolence. My son, LCpl Kloyce Dennard went to high school with your son, Dennis. We were stationed in Okinawa, Japan. I had not met Dennis but my son told me, Dennis was a great person. I could not stop crying reading those sincere messages from everyone. Words are not enough to expressed our sadness for your lost. Please know our prayers are with your family to give you the courage and comfort you need to get through this tough times. May God heal your broken heart. I want to thank you for your son's ultimate sacrificed and Dennis is not forgotten. Tomorrow is Veteran's Day and American flags will fly high honoring The FALLEN HEROES liked Dennis. You touched many lives Dennis in many special ways. May you rest in peace Dennis.
May God be with your family...
Our flag in front of our house will be flying high tomorrow in honor of our FALLEN HEROES and to those who are still serving in harm's way. May God keep them all safe...
Karen Walker
October 27, 2008
Happy Birthday Denn! I was going to go by the gravesite, but I still can not bring myself to do it unless I have to. It just makes things too real for me. I prefer to pretend that you are happy and watching your son grow. But, you know what, you probably are.
I miss you every day, but every day I realize more that I will not see you again, for a long time. I long for that day when I can see you, give you a hug, and laugh at your silly antics. Please watch over all of us.
Oh, and you are quite lucky you weren't at mom and dad's to have the cake I made for you. It was a bit gross, gingerbread, and I burnt it. Ugh. I'm sure you were looking down on us, amused.
We miss you and do not worry, you will NEVER be forgotten.
Donna Veater
October 26, 2008
Hi Den,
I can't believe 22 years ago I was in the hospital giving birth to my beautiful twin boys, another birthday passed us by and we are left the same, with a big hole in our heart. I miss you so much and wish I could give you a hug like I used to when you where a little baby, a growing child full of laughter, a young man full of life. Your the best.
Your love of life still goes on and we will never forget. Happy Birthday, son. I love you, Momma
For those of you that were in Iraq with Dennis if you have any photos I would love to have some pictures of him. I came upon a video of Dennis when I googled his name. Whoever put that together thank you very much, I greatly appreciate you sharing this with others.
Patti Veater Cowan
October 25, 2008
Happy Birthday baby brother! I miss you today, everyday, and every moment of everyday. Waiting for the day that I can hug you again....I will see you in my dreams.
Sara V
October 23, 2008
Just saw a video for you one of your friends made on myspace, and I am so proud of you. You could always make me laugh...even when I thought it was impossible! It's great to see that you did that for those guys, too. I have no words to say how proud of you we all are...and how honored I am that you were my friend. Miss you soo much.
Jerry Manley
September 23, 2008
I heard Seal's kiss from a rose on the radio the other day and it reminded me of the times that Dennis, Justin, and I would sing R & B hits when they came on the radio at work. Dennis always knew all the words, Justin would pretend to, I'd sing the chorus. Miss you Big D, we all do.
Karen Walker
September 11, 2008
It is Sept. 11. I can't help but think that if that day never occured 7 years ago, you'd still be with us. We miss you more each day. Since my birthday, I've been thinking more and more about you. I've been thinking about how much I wish you could have been here with us to celebrate, how you will never get to celebrate "the big 3-0", and just how it is absolutely NOT FAIR. I've even coined a new phrase. When people ask me how it is or offer their condolences, I just say, "It sucks!" That just sums it up.
Everyday I wish you would just call me up and say, "don't worry about it Karen, its not that important." I don't even care what you say that about, I just want to hear you say it, say something. I miss and love you more than you could ever have imagined. Rest in peace.
Jennelle Burton
September 10, 2008
I still think about you everyday. I miss and love you!
August 4, 2008
To the family and friends of Lance Cpl. Veater,
I am so sorry for your loss.
My name is Maggie Selzer, and I am directing ‘Run for the Fallen 5K run/walk’ in Boalsburg, PA (just outside of State College) on August 24th, 2008. The event, held on the PA military Museum grounds, aims to keep alive the memory of all fallen soldiers, but particularly those from PA. All proceeds from the event will go to organizations that support the families of fallen soldiers and supports wounded soldiers.
I encourage you to learn more about the event at www.freewebs.com/runforthefallen5k/
index.htm.
The event is meant to keep alive the memories of brave women and men like Lance Cpl. Veater.
If you have any questions, or would like to send a memory of Lance Cpl. Veater to be included with the flag memorial that will be set up at this event, please contact me at (814) 571-8755 or [email protected].
First Baptist Church of Orlando Remembers
June 28, 2008
In memory of Dennis Veater, First Baptist Church of Orlando (Becky Rufrano)
June 28, 2008
Dennis' Flag
Becky Rufrano
June 28, 2008
Here are some photos from the field outside my church, and the flag I received with Dennis' name on it.
Thank you also for those of you that have contacted me, it has meant so much.
Becky Rufrano
June 21, 2008
You are remembered and respected. Thank you Lance Cpl Veater!
Becky Rufrano
June 8, 2008
To the Family and Friends of Marine Lance Cpl. Dennis J. Veater,
Hi, my name is Becky Rufrano from Orlando, FL and I just wanted to let you know that your son, brother, uncle, cousin, and friend has not been forgotten. On the Sunday of Memorial Day weekend, my church (First Baptist Church of Orlando) made available an American Flag with a Fallen Hero's name on it to everyone in the congregation to pray for. My flag said "Dennis J. Veater 3/9/2007" I immediately thought of you (his family and friends) and what you must be feeling and going through. I have such a heart for all the Fallen Heros of our country and for all the soldiers still serving over seas for us.
After 30 minutes of google.com & alltheweb.com I came accross this site. What an amazing guestbook you have put together here. I have read all 16 pages and never been more touched in my life. You had me laughing and crying. Dennis sounds like such an amazing guy and I'm only sorry that I never had the chance to meet him. I feel like I know all of you personally (weird, I know).
To Dennis -
You have such an amazing group of people, both family and friends, that love you and cherish all the memories they've had with you. I'm sure I don't need to tell you that though. It sounds like you're surrounded by brothers and sisters that love you dearly. I love big families and bet you had an absolute blast with them growing up. It also sounds like you have a fiance and son that will never forget you. I think that love is so awesome....and you're parents...it is evident that you will live on in their stories and memories they have stored in their hearts.
I could never thank you enough for the sacrifice that you made for me and millions of other strangers that you do not know....so many times we take our freedom for granted, but I pray that I never do, and if I ever start to that I am reminded of you, your family, and the thousands of other Fallen Heros that have given up their lives throughout. history.
~well, I think I have written enough for now, and I'm sure I have missed so much that I have thought about writing to you....please know that I will be praying for you.
God Bless America and God Bless You. In His love, Becky
The Few, the Proud, Dennis Veater
Karen Walker
May 27, 2008
Hi Baby Boy,
Just wanted to tell you that we think about you every day. We still miss you more and more each day. Even though it gets easier to "get through" the day, I know that time will never heal our wounded hearts.
Today, I'm going to a viewing of another member of the armed services that was lost, but this time in Afghanastan. Each death makes your passing more real, more painful. I hope that this will end soon; that no more brave (wo)men have to join you in heaven.
Strange story: Every night, Logan and Jaimee say good night to you. Well, one night, Logan sad goodnight to Boy (our cat) because we told him that he went to live with you. Well, the other day, Logan told everyone that we have 2 cats, Kizzy and Boy. Then we asked where Boy is, and he said that Boy Boy is with Uncle Dennis because Uncle Dennis needed a cat.
Don't worry, I will never let my kids forget you; the kids you were, the man you were, and the man you would have been.
I love you and in case I never told you, I've always been proud to be your sister.
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