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James Arnold Obituary
James L. "Jimmy"
Of Mattawan
Died in action Thursday, March 15, 2007 in Iraq during Operation Iraqi Freedom. Jimmy was born February 22, 1986 in Kalamazoo, the son of Phillip Arnold and Mary Ryan. He was a graduate of Mattawan High School (Class of 2004) and enjoyed playing hockey and paintball. He was also instrumental in developing the "Blue Crew" at Mattawan. Prior to going to Iraq, Jimmy was stationed at Ft. Hood, TX and was in Company B, 1st Battalion 8th Calvary Regiment, 2 Brigade 1st Calvary Division. He was preceded in death by his paternal grandparents, Olin and Evelyn Arnold. Surviving are his father, Phillip Arnold; mother, Mary Ryan; sisters, Amanda Arnold, Laura Arnold, Christy (Eric) Arnold, Michelle (Tim) Smith; maternal grandparents, Frank and Mary Ann Ryan; nephews, Ryan and Logan; a niece, Taylor; and several aunts, uncles and cousins. A service to celebrate Jimmy's life will be held 11:00 o'clock Monday at the Calvary Bible Church, 855 Drake Rd, with Chaplain Major James R. Chapin, officiating. Friends may meet the family Sunday from 4-8 PM at the Langeland Family Funeral Homes, Westside Chapel, 3926 South 9th Street . Interment will be in Ft. Custer National Cemetery with full military honors. In lieu of flowers, memorials may be directed to the Mattawan High School Foundation. 269-343-1508
www.langelands.com
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Memories and Condolences
for James Arnold
Derek Christensen
May 31, 2021
On this Memorial Day, I think back to the times we played hockey together in KOHA. I cant believe it has already been this long. We may not have been friends, but I will always remember your charisma. Your sacrifice inspired me to join the Army later in life, pay a visit to Afghanistan, and meet some of your battle buddies.
You will never be forgotten. What you did was beyond any level of bravery I can even articulate.
By the way, do they have hockey in Heaven? I’m getting a little too old and out of shape down here.
KM
March 19, 2021
Miss you always, glad I was able to visit today, it’s been too long.
Mary Ryan
March 19, 2017
Always in my heart...love you sweetheart.
Love Browntown
March 14, 2017
Hey, brother, we are getting together to celebrate your life and can not believe it has been ten years since you left for greater things. Miss you but still remember you.
Sonny & Fran Goebel
May 24, 2013
Though we did not know you personally, you are treasured.
Chad Horton
May 23, 2013
Jimmy you are thought of often and your sacrifice shall never be forgotten. You were truly one of a kind and as selfless an individual that I have ever met. Thank you
Peggy Childers
March 25, 2013
March 15, 2013
To the family and friends of Pfc. James L. Arnold:
It has truly been my honor to sign James' guest book these past few years. Unfortunately, due to complications from my Multiple Sclerosis, this may be the last message I'm able to write. Please forgive me and know that James will always be remembered in my home.
With love and respect ~ Peggy
January 6, 2013
MISSING YOU EVERYDAY DAD
Mary Ryan
July 19, 2012
I love you and miss you baby...Mom
Mary Ryan
July 18, 2012
I love you and miss you baby...Mom
March 15, 2012
No words can convey the gratitude we feel for the sacrifice your family has gone through. But our thoughts and prayers are with you. And we will always be in your debt!
Father of a Vet
Peggy Childers
March 15, 2012
To the family and friends of Pfc. James L. Arnold:
Always remembering James. "Some gave all."
Julio Rodriguez
September 1, 2011
To the families of our American Heroes,
I want to thank each of you for your personal
sacrifices on behalf of my family and America.
May God comfort your souls and bring peace in
your hearts that your loss is not in vain.
God Bless our valiant warriors families in the
ages to come.
RIP courageous ones!
Psalm 25:20
A greatful Veteran
MSgt USAF (Ret)
Vietnam 64,65,66,68-6
Peggy Childers
March 16, 2011
To the family and friends of Pfc. James L. Arnold:
Please accept my remembrance of James on the anniversary of his passing and know that he will never be forgotten.
Peggy Childers
www.IraqWarHeroes.org
March 15, 2011
Thank you for serving our country. Your sacrafice will not be forgotten. "A Viet Nam Vet"
L Neal
March 14, 2011
To the family of PFC. James L. Arnold:
Please know that just as your loved one remains in your hearts and minds; his sacrifice, and that of your family, remains with the people he died defending. Words cannot express the gratitude we feel for his bravery and selflessness, or the heartache we feel for your loss. God bless and keep you always.
Peggy Childers
March 15, 2010
To the family and friends of Pfc. James L. Arnold:
Remembering James on the anniversary of his passing. May our fallen heroes never be forgotten!
Peggy Childers
"Don't Let The Memory Of Them Drift Away"
www.IraqWarHeroes.org
Mary Ryan-Skolasky
March 13, 2010
Jimmy, on Monday it will be three years since we lost you in Iraq but it feels like yesterday. You are truly our Hero. Amazing people in this wonderful country we live in, many of whom we’ve never met, others whom have since become friends, have shown so much love and support and continue to honor you as an American Hero by keeping your memory alive through articles, memorials and dedications. We are truly blessed to have been able to share our lives with you even for just a short time. Your friends remember you as the fun-loving redhead, always making people laugh and helping others in need. Your fellow soldiers describe you as “Big Red”, a model soldier, caring, compassionate, enthusiastic, and a great friend.
I remember our talk in 2005 when you informed me that you had just signed papers to join the Army. Your determination in volunteering to stand tall and proud to defend our great nation and keep us free from terrorism was incredible. I never felt more proud of you. When you were little, you had a heart of gold, always making people smile. As a man, your heart was bigger than your 6 foot 4 inch stature, and according to your fellow soldiers, you continued on that path while serving in the Army. How much more can a person give than the ultimate sacrifice for their country?
Life has changed so much in the last three years but the overwhelming heartache from losing you remains strong. Other parents report that this is a pain that never goes away but the memories will help to get me through each day. They are correct … there isn’t a day that goes by that I don’t think about you … sometimes with smiles, other times with tears. I am saddened that I will never see you get married, or become the exceptional Dad that I know you would have been, or grow old with someone you love … all the dreams a Mother has for her Son. But when I remember all the things you accomplished in your 21 years on earth, the friends you made through school and hockey, the bravery and determination you portrayed as a soldier, and the lives you touched in so many ways, I feel proud all over again to have been blessed with the gift to share your life.
You have earned respect from your fellow Americans and will always be remembered for your courage, devotion to duty, dedication to serve your fellow man, and your selfless sacrifice to better our world. You are a Hero to all of us.
Rest in Peace, Jimmy, you have earned your place in Heaven alongside the Heroes who have gone before you. You will always be my precious baby and will live on in my heart forever. I miss you Jimmy and love you with all my heart. Mom
MARK SEGAL
March 13, 2010
DEAR FAMILY AND FRIENDS OF PFC JAMES ARNOLD. I KNOW THE LOSS OF YOUR SON AND FRIEND IS TERRIBLE BUT REST ASSURE HIS COMMITMENT TO PROTECT YOU AND THE ENTIRE US WAS HIS DUTY. I AM SURE HE PERFORMED HIS JOB GREAT AND DID GREAT THINGS TO PROTECT OUR GREAT NATION. ON BEHALF OF MYSELF, THE PATRIOT GUARD RIDERS AND THE ENTIRE US WE ARE PRAYING FOR YOU THANK YOU PFC JAMES ARNOLD
March 7, 2010
Though we never knew you, you are a hero in the greatest sense of the word. We are so glad to have this to help the world to remember you and what you did.
Sonny and Fran Goebel
Jimmy wearing his Kevlar 9/1/2006
February 26, 2010
Ree Millard
October 11, 2009
Hey Jimmy!! I hopeyou know how many lives you changed and how many paths were altered because you chose to serve your country and pay the ulimate price so that we , your friends , could live freely. I wear a bracelet on my arm everyday with your name on it so that you will never be forgotten. When people ask me about it, I tell them about you! You live on in all of us! Peace to you my friend!
Peggy Childers
March 15, 2009
To the family of Pfc. James L. Arnold:
James gave the ultimate sacrifice and will be held in the hearts of Americans forever. I cannot and will not let our fallen heroes be forgotten. My deepest sympathy to you. "Some gave all."
Peggy Childers
"Don't Let The Memory Of Them Drift Away"
www.IraqWarHeroes.org
Thomas Plite
February 12, 2009
I did not have the pleasure of knowing James,but I cryed for him and his family. You see I also lost my son on March 23,2003 In Afghanstan
SrA Jason Thomas Plite 21 years old
If you ever want to talk or you need anything PLEASE feel free to contact me and I will do anything I can for you. GOD BLESS YOU AND THANKYOU FOR YOUR SON!!!!!!
Kenna Larra
February 4, 2009
We love our Soldiers! We love our country and we cannot express enough love and compassion to the families. War does not discriminate – It breaks my heart to see the faces of the fallen. We want to give this gift to you. We are a 501c3 nonprofit organization! Over 1,400 portraits have been completed and shipped to the parents and or spouse - at no cost as this is a gift from one American to another!
Contact us directly at [email protected] or go to www.heropaintings.com. If you have already had a portrait completed, we pray that you are enjoying the portrait and God Bless You.
Sincerely,
Kenna
VICKI PICARD
January 23, 2009
Remember
Remember me when I am gone away,
Gone far away into the silent land;
When you can no more hold me by the hand,
Nor I half turn to go yet turning stay.
Remember me when no more day by day
You tell me of our future that you plann'd:
Only remember me; you understand
It will be late to counsel then or pray.
Yet if you should forget me for a while
And afterwards remember, do not grieve:
For if the darkness and corruption leave
A vestige of the thoughts that once I had,
Better by far you should forget and smile
Than that you should remember and be sad.
By Christina Rossetti
The Poetry Foundation
vicki picard
January 23, 2009
sorry to hear about your lost loved one i am glad he is in a better place now with the Lord and he is not suffering anymore .
The night we deployed... Arnold, Green, Prater, Ramirez, Brand
December 6, 2008
SGT Matthew Cresanto
December 5, 2008
You are still missed man. I can't remember a single day that has gone by in the last year and a half that I don't think about you, Ryan, Nick, Coon, Eddy, Terry, and Caleb... I sometimes see you on the street, or out and about, but have to catch myself before calling your name... it's hard ya know. Y'all were such a big part of my life. I'll never forget you, or that sense of humor and that voice that was all your own. Be at peace little brother, Ill see you again someday.
Jimmy Lee Arnold
July 21, 2008
I am very sorry for your loss. I read all about James. He was a very good person and a good soldier.
June 22, 2008
You are remembered and respected. Thank you Pfc Arnold!
the Buck family
May 9, 2008
To the family and friends of Pfc. James L. Arnold, our thoughts and prayers are with you in your loss. What he has done for our freedom will not be forgotten. May God comfort and bless your family.
Debbie , Kenny Coffey
March 15, 2008
Our continued thoughts and prayers out to the ARNOLD family.Knowing now what they have always known ,are one of many reasons that our HERO[S] shall NEVER be forgotten.Rest well brother as prommissed and in your honor that star spangled banner shall FOREVER wave.Your name stamped in steel is FOREVER clutched in the tallons ,as your spirit shall FOREVER soar high in the skies in the symbol of our great nation...THANK..YOU....Respectfully...HO..YAAH.....All Hard Chargers**If you are wonded I will carry you**If you are captured I will come for you**If you are K.I.A. I will FOREVER reamber you...We have all COME by NORTH**COME by SOUTH**COME by EAST**COME by WEST..We were all gathered and united on that great day as strangers,as we stood and upon those last [4] spoken words we are........FOREVER..BROTHERS...........SEMPER..FI........B.V.C.
Tami Nelson
March 15, 2008
To the family of James:
I want you to know that I am thinking of you today on the first anniversary of losing your son, brother, friend, grandson, nephew and especially one fine soldier. James you are a HERO and you will never be forgotten for the ultimate sacrifice that you gave to your country. THANK YOU. I know you are missed greatly by all that loved you.
Your memory will live on through the scholarship and all that has been done in your honor, and hopefully this will bring some joy to your family to give this scholarship every year. I lost my son PFC Andrew Nelson on Dec. 25th, 2006 and we started a swim scholarship in his name and it helps us. I know how hard it is missing our boys everyday but we have to hold onto that they are in a better place and they are at peace now. And for us that Andrew was living his dream of being a soldier. God Bless you and your family today and forever, may you feel God's loving arms around you. Tami (Gold Star Mother)
Joshua Adams
March 4, 2008
Jimmy, I am at a loss of words right now because my emotions now, almost a year later, are still too strong to contain. I can only think of the wonderful person you were and the countless lives you touched and forever impacted in the deepest way.
I remember writing you letters in basic and after you were deployed. All I can think of now is how I always used to tell you how proud of you I was for what you were doing and that you made the right choice and that you were doing the right thing no matter what anyone else had to tell you. As much as I want you back, it breaks my heart, brings tears to my eyes, and is the hardest thing to say now, Jimmy, you made the right choice. You did the right thing no matter what anyone else has to say about it. You knew you had a purpose, it was something you needed to do, something you were meant to do, your duty to this country for being able to call yourself an American. It brings peace to my heart to know the conviction you had and to know that if you could come back and do it all over again, you would. I love you brother and will always remember...
military photo
February 16, 2008
Jimmy and his sisters, with nephew Logan
February 16, 2008
Jimmy and his sunglasses, before deployment
February 16, 2008
Jimmy and his dad
February 16, 2008
Jimmy and his mom
February 16, 2008
playing dress up
February 16, 2008
Jimmy and sisters
February 16, 2008
paintball champion
February 16, 2008
Jimmy goofing with his Army brother
February 16, 2008
always a smile
February 16, 2008
Jimmy on his favorite tractor with his grandfather
February 16, 2008
Michelle (Arnold) Smith
February 16, 2008
Here I sit, Jimmy, one month before the first anniversary of your death, just a week before what would have been your 22nd birthday--your Golden birthday. As I sit here reading the wonderful things others have said about you, I remember all of the wonderful things that so many have done in your honor over the last year.
From fundraisers to start a scholarship in your name to a ceremony to retire your hockey jersey number, I have met and read about so many people whose lives you touched in your short time on this earth. It has been absolutely heartwarming to see all of these people, most who knew you and many who didn't, come together to remember your life. I am so proud to call myself your sister although it saddens me to realize that I never knew how you imprinted so many lives.
Five years your senior, I often dreamed about how much we would share when you settled down with a family of your own. I looked forward to seeing you become a dad, knowing that you would be an exceptional one. I couldn't wait to swap kid stories and marriage woes with you. I always thought that we would spend vacations and holidays together and enjoy teasing one another about nothing that mattered.
Although our time together was cut short and we will never get to do any of these things together, I find comfort knowing that everyone who knew you remembers you with a smile on their face and an amazing story to tell.
Nearly a year later, the pain has subsided a little, but my memory of you grows stronger with each new story I hear. I know how lucky I am that I knew you for all of your life. I will never stop remembering you and your memory will live on with my children. They will know their uncle as a fun-loving, warm-hearted hero who never stopped sharing himself with the world.
I love you, Jimmy. You will always be favorite little brother.
August 14, 2007
There is nothing that I can say or do to take away the pain or bring you peace in your time of sorrow, but I will offer you and your family my heart felt condolences. I also offer you my prayers that in time the pain will easy and the memories of your HERO will carry you through each day and night. I want to thank your HERO, for his/her selfless act of becoming a member of the armed forces, his/her willingness to defend the United States of America, all that we hold sacred and for the sacrifice that will forever be etched in the memories of all those who knew him/her. Though tears can never bring him/her back, we hope that our tears express our gratitude for the sacrifice that he/she made and our sorrow at his/her passing. I believe for every fallen HERO there is a star shining brightly up above to remind us of the precious gift we were given.
Your mission on earth is complete and you are now a member of GOD’s Heavenly armed forces. Stand down brave warrior and take your rightful place in Heaven with all the HEROES who have passed before.
I made a special promise to LE RON A. WILSON, a dear family friend who joined the Army with three other friends, one of whom is my son (Le Ron was killed in action on 07/06/07 at the age of 18) on the day he was laid to rest as I touched his coffin, that I would never forget him nor would I forget those that gave their lives for our country before him, with him and after him and so when I came across www.legacy.com, I thought what a great way to keep my promise to Le Ron, so I will continue to leave tributes in each guest book until the day there is no longer the need to leave these tributes to a FALLEN HERO.
REST IN PEACE, HERO, YOU WILL NEVER BE FORGOTTEN!!
PROUD MOTHER OF A U.S. SOLDIER
Currently stationed in Germany
Althea Barrett(Queens, NY)
August 11, 2007
Thank you for the sacrifice made by Pfc Arnold and the sacrifice made by everyone who loves and misses him! May God bless all of you!!
Amanda Von Eitzen
August 8, 2007
I'm heartbroken to see Jimmy's name here.
You were always making people laugh and helping others in need. You will always be in memory and in hearts of many. Thank you for being there for me when I needed you.
Bert Holler
July 15, 2007
We are so sorry for your loss. James will never be forgotten as an American hero.There is a museum for Michigan's fallen soldiers of foreign wars called Michigan's Own Inc. It is a military and space museum and they honor only soldiers from Michigan. We have visited it for several years now. It means even more now that we have lost our son-in-law in Iraq. Spec. Nicholas Brown was in 2/7 Cav and left behind a young wife and a newborn son. We pray for you and cry with you. Thank you,
July 8, 2007
As we offer prayers for your family in this time of sorrow, we will also offer prayers of thankfulness for the work and sacrifice of your loved one. God Bless your family, may you find joy in your memories of him, and peace and comfort in knowing that there are many military families keeping you in our hearts.
Ronn Massie
June 26, 2007
God bless the family and friends of James.
You will all be in our prayers.
Thank you James for being such a brave hero.
(In remembrance of Cpl. Joey Cantrell 4-4-07)
Lora Tedeman
May 30, 2007
Though I didn't know James, I am forever grateful for his bravery. To know that he and so many others have sacrificed their lives for our freedom and the freedom of others is quite amazing. I cannot imagine what you are going through, but please know that your family are in my thoughts and prayers.
ROBYN Garside
May 17, 2007
MAY GOD BLESS YOU AND YOURS. I HAVE JUST LEARNED OF YOUR GREAT LOSS AND WISH TO EXPRESS MY DEEPEST SYMPATHIES. PLEASE KNOW THAT THERE ARE PEOPLE OUT HERE WHO DO CARE AND YOUR HERO WILL NEVER BE FORGOTTEN. HOLD TIGHT TO YOUR TREASURED MEMORIES THAT HIS SPECIAL SMILE MAY CONTINUE TO SHINE. I PRAY THAT PEACE WILL FIND YOU ALL SOMEDAY. GODSPEED AND SEMPER FI.
A PROUD MARINE MOM
Lizzy Julian
May 15, 2007
I love you jimmy you were always there for me no matter the time or place and you always out everyone else first in front of you!!!i love you and miss you tons!!!
Glen
May 5, 2007
“Soldier”
Written to Honor the Service of Our Fallen Soldiers
Soldiers write history…they pay the price
Many miles distant, you live the life
Entered the Battle of our own free will
Out of Duty for Country, and we’d do it still
We hope and pray that all will find peace
In God, in the flag, in memories of valor
Gone now, our pride and courage you see
“An Army of One” our motto forever
Willing to risk all for love of our Brothers
We’re still Your Soldiers…and we showed the way
Our Lives too short, now pray for the others
Lived free died Heroes in lands far away
Deep within souls all cherished our Service
We’ll always have what some never know
Courage and Honor, our names forever
Lived life with purpose…just our time to go
We march in the Heavens with Honor and Glory
Missions accomplished we fought the Good Fight
Many years from now…we’ll tell the full story
Until that Day we will live in the Light
Our lives we laid down in a land far away
Still watching o’er you this night and by day
No need to talk…just know we are with you
There in your hearts and we hear what you pray
Yes we are your soldiers
Our lives we laid down
Still We guard o’er you
Still Duty bound
Entered the Battle of our own free will
Out of Duty for Country, and we’d do it still
We’ll always have what some never know
Lived life with purpose…it was our time to go
Dennis Sheppard
April 11, 2007
To the Family of an American Hero,
My sympathies on the loss of your soldier. We owe to you and James a debt that can never be repaid. I join with many Americans in saluting his service and sacrifice, and honoring his memory.
My own son is a 1-8 CAV engineer, and although I worry constantly for his safety, I take comfort knowing the caliber of soldiers he serves side by side with. My prayers are that you find comfort and solace in his memories, and pride, for your son stands head and shoulders above us. God Bless.
Tom Gugliuzza-Smith
April 11, 2007
My heartfelt sympathy to the Arnold family in the loss of Jimmy. I did not know Jimmy, but my heart is broken and I am saddened for your loss of such a fine young person and hero. May God bring you peace in your heart as you reflect on all the wonderful memories you hold so close. Please know that you are in my heart and prayers. My heart was touched by the many wonderful/beautiful things written about you. Jimmy you are my hero and you will NEVER be forgotten.
I send each of you a hug from the most inner part of my heart.
Love and Peace
Tom
"To live in the hearts
of those you leave behind
is never to die"
~Robert Orr~
Sandy Bonesteel
April 11, 2007
As the mother of a son (my only child) who is enlisted in the Army, I want to send my condolences.
PAUL
April 2, 2007
THANK YOU FOR ALL THAT YOU HAVE DONE.MY PRAYERS ARE WITH YOU AND YOUR FAMILY
Ron Mellon
April 1, 2007
In Memory;
I didn’t know Jimmy well enough, but I cried when my son, Jimmy, called and told me of his passing. I knew Jimmy as a quiet young man who contributed what he could to his high school and dedicated himself to Mattawan Hockey. I now realize that his dedication was much deeper than that.
I didn't know that Jimmy had joined our country’s armed forces or of his determination to insure the freedoms that make our lives what they are. I didn't know that he was in harms way in Iraq. I now know that Jimmy's quiet dedication extended selflessly to our country and to every one of us. It is so unfortunate that his role in that mission has ended. Like many, I struggle to understand why it has to be this way.
Rest in Peace Jimmy Arnold. Your example will not be forgotten and your contribution to our amazing freedom will forever be as valuable as your life.
In great sadness and with condolences to Jimmy's close friends and family,
Ron Mellon
Mattawan Hockey Photographs Attached
Jimmy Arnold, Mattawan Hockey Parents Night
March 31, 2007
Jimmy Arnold, Mattawan Hockey Asst. Captain
March 31, 2007
Judy King
March 30, 2007
Mary and Family,
I am so sorry for your loss. There are no words that can comfort in a time like this. Please know that my thoughts and prayers are with you and that you are loved.
Lisa Soule
March 28, 2007
Dear Arnold family
I would like you to know that MY family and I are truly and deeply sorry for you and your brave son.
I was standing outside a WMU with my fellow co-workers on Monday as you passed, and I tell you there has been a lot of pain in my past ,But this really takes the toll. I stood there and just watched and thought to myself. WOW what a brave young man. And this is somthing that was bothering me as I drove home that day. To my unknowing I wasunably to go to work on Tuesday due to a flat tire. So my husband and I both took the nice spring day and after the tire was fixed we went to the Fort Custer Cemetary. At first I was there to look for family. Then I really knew why I was there. I went to Jimmys grave and cryed and spent time. It is somthing that I had not planed to do, However it just happend and I am glad it did because seeing your faces as you passed WMU made me cry. So for the end I say Thank You for your son. I am so sorry
J D
March 28, 2007
This young man defines the real meaning of HERO! Thanks, I will never forget your sacrifice for your fellow man and country.
Frederick Kemfort
March 26, 2007
To the family and friends of Spc James Arnold, May god bless and look over each and everyone of you through this difficult time in your lives. God Bless
Sergeant Frederick E. Kemfort, III
United States Army
Fort Knox, KY
Military Honors Team Assistant NCOIC for SPC James Arnold
Kenny & Sue Welch
March 26, 2007
Phil & Mary,We are so very sorry for your loss, May the Peace of God be with Jimmy and your family.
Barb Scott
March 26, 2007
I met Jimmy when he was in Middle School and I was working in the Mattawan concession stand. Jimmy and Cody were always there, begging for food, being silly and that is how I still picture both of them today, even though I have seen what great men they have grown up to be. Jimmy always made me laugh and always had a smile for everyone. I will never forget him and I know no one else will either. He is a hero to me and I just want you to know that you and Jimmy are in my thoughts and prayers. God Bless.
Beth Torian
March 26, 2007
Laura and family,
We are so sorry for your loss. Please know that we are thinking of you. Matt, Beth, Hailee, and Ethan Torian
Michael and Susan Woodruff
March 26, 2007
Dear Arnold Family,
Our deepest sympathy for the loss of your son. I work at the Technology Center and did have the opportunity to meet your son a few times but did not know him well. My husband works at Pfizer with a friend of your family. Our hearts go out to you during the most difficult time in your life. We too lost our son in July 2005. Our son was a Marine who was killed in an accident just prior to being deployed to Iraq. We know the pain and suffering you are going through and hope that God will guide you and help you to find some peace. We believe our sons were special people for volunteering to fight for our freedom during a time when they knew it could be dangerous. Your son is a true hero in the eyes of many. I wish we had some words of wisdom that would help you cope with your loss. Just cherish your memories, no one can take those away. Not an hour goes by that we don't think of our son, but as time passes, our memories are what get us through. God Bless your family, we will pray that you will find some peace. I hope our boys have met up with each other in their eternal home.
(LCpl Mark R Woodruff)
Randy Kaelber
March 26, 2007
I didn't know Jimmy very well. The last time I saw him he was just a little boy. Our modern lives often disperse our extended families around the world and we don't get to know them or see them as much as we'd like to, or should.
When I heard he had died, I was moved much more than I would've expected to be. For the loss to my other family members, and for my loss. I will be poorer in spirit for never having the opportunity to get to know my cousin better.
My condolences, sympathy and love go out to my other family members who have suffered this incalculable loss.
Stuut Family
March 26, 2007
We honor the memory of your Son, appreciate and respect his service to our country. The "Junior" did stories will be missed! We will always keep you and your family close in prayer as you begin to heal from this tragic loss. Our deepest sympathies,
Linda Clifton
March 26, 2007
I am so sorry to see that we have another Fallen Hero. While your loss right now may seen totally overwhelming, hopefully time will heal your broken heart and you will be able to refect back on many wonderful memories with Jimmy. God Bless.
Sue Hallan
March 25, 2007
I am so very sorry for your loss.
PFC Ryan Lund
March 25, 2007
I trained with James at Benning I was in his platoon actually, I slept right across from him and I don't have a single memory of him that doesn't make me smile. Who would of thought at the time that I was living with a hero. I will never forget him ever or the memories that make me feel as though he is still next to me in formation
Butch and Beverly Cummins
March 24, 2007
We are truly saddened by your family's loss. And Jimmy, thanks for being a U.S. Soldier.
Carol Cline
March 24, 2007
Our thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.
m bourdon
March 24, 2007
to the loving family of spc. arnold,
my husband was apart of 1-9cav before it evovled into 1-8cav....i too know your pain, my thoughts and prayers are with your family now...may GOD BLESS your family during this most difficult time...
Lisa Hyet
March 23, 2007
Jimmy,
I will never forget St. Patrick's Day two years ago. Thank you for your bravery and service. You are truly loved and your spirit lives on in all of us that love you.
Joy Cottrell
March 23, 2007
Dear Michelle and Family,
Jeff Schaub called my husband and I the other night to let us know of Jimmy passing. I know that there isn't much that can be said that will make you all feel better, however, please know that our thoughts and prayers are with you during this very difficult time. Jimmy was a hero that gave his life for something he believed in. Please accept our deepest sympathies and know that we will always remember Jimmy as the hero that he was.
Bret & Joy Cottrell
Tara Butcher
March 23, 2007
To The Family & Friends of Jimmy Arnold:
My heart goes out to all of you. Jummy was a brave young man and I am grateful for his service. He was always a jokester...I loved playing paintball with him, he always was so serious about it but when it was break time he always made me laugh..talking crazy tatics and all that stuff...I am happy to have met such a great young man and his loving family. He will be missed.
Mandy Leeburg
March 22, 2007
Hey Jimmy,
I will never forget the laughs we had together. You are a great friend and will be missed. I look forward to seeing you someday again
Love, Mandy
Jan Wicke
March 22, 2007
Thank you Jimmy! It takes a special young man to serve our country at this time. I only knew Jimmy briefly, but he was special to our family. My sympathy goes out to his family and friends.
Gary Allain
March 20, 2007
Pfc. James L. Arnold
you are my hero
may god keep you in his arms forever.
Jeff Anderson
March 19, 2007
To the family of James Arnold. Not long ago our family lost our son and hero Spc Brandon L. Stout in Bahgdad Iraq. Like you we were devistated by our loss.
My wonderful Brother and mentor David Anderson held an ink pen while God wrote us a letter... that I would like to share with you for it brought us a comfort that only the love of our Father in Heaven can bring. This is what God wrote:
My Children, I know of your pain and loss, and aching emptyness. I know of your deep want to be close to your Jim, your son, your hero. I know of the distance you feel and the ache of your soul. I know where you are, My Son died also, My Son was killed by evil men.I know exactly where you are, I was there myself.
If I promise to never let go of you, will you trust me? Will you trust me that I know the way out from where you are? Will you trust me to have a plan? For good to come from this pain?
If I promise to hold your heart in My hands, will you allow My perfect plan and perfect timing to move forward? I gave you Jim as a blessing, but I called him to serve Me also. Jim has been my servant for many years now. While you have been raising him to be a good man, I've been using him for My Glory.
If I promise to heal your soul, will you give my Jim, that I might save many of my lost sheep and tell them of Me?
If I promise to let my Glory shine upon Jim for eternity, can I use him to call many, many lost sheep home to me?
When My son died many of My sheep came home to Me because of their pain and fear. I have the same plan now. Jim has been a very faithful worker for Me and My Kingdom. Many sheep will come to Me, because of Jim has shown them the way.
If I promise to have My Son hold your son, will you trust My perfect plan?
Bless you my children.
Don't ask why...ask what do you want me to do now Lord?
Jeff and Tracy Anderson, proud parents of Spc Brandon L. Stout. KIA January 22 2007.
Garnet Jenkins
March 18, 2007
Please know how Deeply Sorry I am, for the loss of
this Brave Young Soldier, Pfc. James L. Arnold,
As a parent, who has lost a daughter suddenly,
and as a sister, who has lost a brother to war,
I am aware of the deep and devastating pain
that you are experiencing.
The overwhelming heartache, seems to surface
through our shock, as the time passes.
Please hang on to your Faith and know that you will get through this.
Ever so softly and slowly, time does heal.
May James Rest Safely, in the Loving Care of God
and know that he Will Never Be Forgotten.
I pray that the Peace of God will be with the Arnold family.
I am the sister, of such a Young Hero, who made the Ultimate Sacrifice in Vietnam, many years ago.
"Cast thy burden upon the Lord,
and He shall sustain thee."
~ Psalm 55:22 ~
I sincerely hope that you can feel the thoughts of caring and support that surround you today and in the days ahead, as this Country Mourns with you, for Someone Very Precious to you, Who Is A Hero to all of us.
March 18, 2007
To the Family and Friends of this Soldier:
I will stand in grief with this soldier's family to honor him. For every fallen HERO there is a bright star that shines in the evening sky to remind us of the cherished gift we were given – even if for too short a time.
My heart breaks again as I sign yet another guest book of another courageous young soldier who gave their life so selflessly. I wish I never found myself in a position to have to sign another guestbook for the rest of my life, but I promised Brent that neither he nor any like him would be forgotten and so I will continue until the day there is no longer the need.
We lost our son SFC Brent A. Adams on 12/1/05 and it seems like yesterday. I wish so badly there were things I could say to you right now to make the pain you are feeling go away, but I know first hand there simply are no words that will bring you the comfort and peace your heart aches for. Just know that you are not alone. My heart, thoughts, and prayers are with you all as you go through this tragedy moment by moment and as you mourn this loss.
We don't know each other, will probably never meet, but will forever be united in the loss of our Heroes. We have, unfortunately joined a group none of us wanted to join, an ever-growing group of families in this situation. May God grant you peace and strength to get through this and be able once again to smile at a memory rather than have only the tears that flow so easily now. To be so proud of your loved one and so saddened at the same time is a mix of emotions very difficult to deal with as our hearts both burst with pride and pain together.
I am sorry that I never knew your soldier personally. While they can never be replaced, neither will they ever be forgotten. You must trust that sometime, someday the loving memories you have will help to sustain you and help you go on. This courageous soldier will forever be your Angel watching over you all for the rest of your lives. It's what brings me some measure of peace and comfort and I hope it will you as well.
To his family and friends in pain, I offer this comfort: When you find yourself in that dark sorrowful place, think not only of how you will miss him, but instead recall the years, days, hours and minutes gifted to you by his presence. The one thing that cannot be taken from you is your wonderful memories that now will mean more than ever.
If you ever want to talk, I'm only an e:mail away and would love for you to tell me more about your Hero.
God Bless this soldier and family who gave all and God Bless legacy.com for setting up this site where families can so quickly share their condolences and prayers with others like themselves.
Proud Parents of SFC Brent A. Adams, KIA, 12/1/05, Ramadi, Iraq
Pam and Bill Adams, Lancaster, PA
Fred (USMC Ret.)
March 17, 2007
It is with the deepest sadness that I ask the family and friends of this brave young Soldier to accept the offer of my most sincere and heart felt condolences. I hope that you know that your loss is shared and mourned by millions of Americans. Most of whom you don’t know and in all probability will never meet. We sincerely appreciate the sacrifices made by your patriot.
Freedom is not free; it is paid for by our heroes, and for those who fight for it, Freedom has a flavor the protected will never know! This soldier made the ultimate sacrifice for our freedom.
I know the pain parents feel when they loose a child. I lost a son 19 years ago. It is a pain that defies description. It is a pain that never goes away. It is a pain that will never end. It is a pain that is all consuming.
I will keep you in my thoughts and prayers.
May God Bless and keep you today, tomorrow and forever!
Rest in Peace brave soldier; you did your duty with great honor, dedication, distinction and in the highest traditions of our great country.
Semper Fidelis
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