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for Robert Montgomery
Retired Military Member
January 13, 2025
Thank you to the city of Scottsburg.
As military members we always wonder if our sacrifices and service is appreciated.
After reading the article in Esquire.
I can say that Sgt. Montgomery's sacrifice and service was appreciated.
Scottsburg's caring still effects me to this day.
Thank you folks.
Robert Montgomery
April 4, 2024
This is the first time, in written form, I will attempt to articulate how much I miss you. Approaching 15 years is absolutely unfathomable, so much time has passed. I can never express how much I have wished for this to just be a dream that one day would end and I would have my Dad again. I wish that you were here to guide me through childhood to become a Man. However.. reading so much about how great you were and seeing the appreciation of your sacrifice on display via these websites makes my heart a bit lighter. Nothing can replace you Dad, I'm just so glad you could put a piece of you into your poetry so I could understand you better.. I will never let your name be forgotten, I carry it everyday. - Robert M III (04/2024)
Michael Buettner
May 23, 2017
We will once again stop by to remember that sacrifice you made for all of us on June 10. It is always an honor to stand and recognize all you did and to support your mom and family. You are missed. Nine Inch Nails plays on, and Chris Jones continues writing great stories. You are NOT FORGOTTEN.
Christina Smith
August 25, 2014
I was in Iraq serving a few miles north with him although I didn't know him. I will be forever grateful for his service and sacrifice. I'm sorry to hear of your loss, I know he was a great dad, son, husband, brother, friend, and above all a great man who served his country so that others may live and enjoy freedom. Thank you again and may your family have joy and happiness aside from this tragedy.
Combat Navy Veteran
Iraq Jan. 2007- Jan 2008
Christina Smith
Hometown Louisville, Ky
July 4, 2013
On this day, July fourth, 2013. I thank you for the service you gave and the ultimate sacrifice. You will never be forgotten.
Peggy Childers
May 22, 2011
To the family and friends of Sgt. Robert J. Montgomery:
Please accept my remembrance of Robert on the anniversary of his passing and know that he will never be forgotten.
Peggy Childers
May 22, 2010
To the family and friends of Sgt. Robert J. Montgomery:
Remembering Robert on the anniversary of his passing. May our fallen heroes never be forgotten!
Peggy Childers
"Don't Let The Memory Of Them Drift Away"
www.IraqWarHeroes.org
Sean McConaghy
January 28, 2010
Monty, you are truly missed. All of us that think about you all the time and the days I just think that it cannot get any worse I think about how you made me laugh, and things seem to get a little brighter. Thank you for looking down on us from heaven and helping us all out in your own special way. You will always be in my thoughts brother. Mack
Michael Iezzi
May 22, 2009
Robert,
Thinking and praying for you on the 2nd anniversary of your passing into eternal glory. May God hold you in the palm of His hand. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
"Greater love hath no man than this, that a man lay down his life for his friends", John 15:13.
Peggy Childers
May 22, 2009
To the family of Sgt. Robert J. Montgomery:
Robert gave the ultimate sacrifice and will be held in the hearts of Americans forever. I cannot and will not let our fallen heroes be forgotten. My deepest sympathy to you. "Some gave all."
Peggy Childers
"Don't Let The Memory Of Them Drift Away"
www.IraqWarHeroes.org
Hale
April 25, 2009
Robert was our neighbor on fort richardson right before he was killed (were an army family too). I remember talking to him when I first moved in and joking around and winking at him when I was teasing him and my husband. He was really funny and so nice! His children are precious and he was very sweet. I was heartbroken for his family and was outside the day his wife found out he was killed. My heart broke for them that day and still does every day. You were a very sweet man and I know that you are missed. you are a hero!
Kenna Larra
January 22, 2009
We love our Soldiers! We love our country and we cannot express enough love and compassion to the families. War does not discriminate – It breaks my heart to see the faces of the fallen. We want to give this gift to you. We are a 501c3 nonprofit organization! Over 1,300 portraits have been completed and shipped to the parents and or spouse - at no cost as this is a gift from one American to another!
Contact us directly at [email protected] or go to www.heropaintings.com. If you have already had a portrait completed, we pray that you are enjoying the portrait and God Bless You.
Sincerely,
Kenna
July 29, 2008
you will never be forgotten. thanks
Becky Coy
July 1, 2008
Our thoughts and prayers are with you and we thank god everyday for brave men & women like your soldier for defending our country. We are building a wall in honor of all those who have lost their lives in Iraq & Afghanistan from Indiana. It's called Wall of Heroes. If you would like more information please contact me at [email protected].
June 27, 2008
You are remembered and respected. Thank you Sgt Montgomery!
Beverly Montgomery
June 5, 2008
To my dearest family, some things I'd like to say...
but first of all, to let you know, that I arrived okay.
I'm writing this from heaven. Here I dwell with God above.
Here, there's no more tears of sadness; here is just eternal love.
Please do not be unhappy just because I'm out of sight.
Remember that I'm with you every morning, noon and night.
That day I had to leave you when my life on earth was through,
God picked me up and hugged me and He said, "I welcome you."
It's good to have you back again; you were missed while you were gone.
As for your dearest family, they'll be here later on.
I need you here badly; you're part of my plan.
There's so much that we have to do, to help our mortal man."
God gave me a list of things, that he wished for me to do.
And foremost on the list, was to watch and care for you.
And when you lie in bed at night, the day's chores put to flight.
God and I are closest to you....in the middle of the night.
When you think of my life on earth, and all those loving years
because you are only human, they are bound to bring you tears.
But do not be afraid to cry; it does relieve the pain.
Remember there would be no flowers, unless there was some rain.
I wish that I could tell you all that God has planned.
But if I were to tell you, you wouldn't understand.
But one thing is for certain, though my life on earth is o'er.
I'm closer to you now, than I ever was before.
There are many rocky roads ahead of you and many hills to climb;
but together we can do it by taking one day at a time.
It was always my philosophy and I'd like it for you too...
that as you give unto the world, the world will give to you.
If you can help somebody who's in sorrow and pain,
then you can say to God at night......"My day was not in vain."
And now I am contented....that my life has been worthwhile,
knowing as I passed along the way, I made somebody smile.
So if you meet somebody who is sad and feeling low,
just lend a hand to pick him up, as on your way you go.
When you're walking down the street, and you've got me on your mind;
I'm walking in your footsteps only half a step behind.
And when it's time for you to go.... from that body to be free,
remember you're not going.....you're coming here to me.
Ruth Ann Mahaffey (author)
©Copyright 1998-2008
Safely Home
Michael Iezzi
June 4, 2008
Father we entrust our brother Robert to your mercy. You loved him greatly in this life: now that he is freed from all its cares, give him happiness and peace forever. Welcome him now into paradise where there will be no more sorrow, no more weeping or pain, but only peace and joy with Jesus your Son, and the Holy Spirit forever and ever.
May God hold Robert in the palm of His hand. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. My deepest sympathies.
Earl Carmer
June 4, 2008
To the Montgomery family;
Thank you for raising a son that wanted to and did serve our country above and beyond the call of duty. He was not forced into it and voluntered on his own. If all yong men were like him this country would never have fear of any enemy. Thanks is a small word but when said from the heart it means so very much. My family and myself thank him, and you his parents, for the sacrifice that was made. God Bless you for the gift you gave us.
Earl Carmer
WW II Vet
In Memory of Robert ~ (Debra Estep)
May 22, 2008
Holding you all in my thoughts and prayers.
The Wind on The Downs
“I like to think of you as brown and tall,
As strong and living as you used to be,
In khaki tunic, Sam Brown belt and all,
And standing there and laughing down at me.
Because they tell me, dear, that you are dead,
Because I can no longer see your face,
You have not died, it is not true, instead
You seek adventure in some other place.
That you are round about me, I believe;
I hear you laughing as you used to do,
Yet loving all the things I think of you;
And knowing you are happy, should I grieve?
You follow and are watchful where I go.”
(Written by Marian Allen during World War l )
Two lines that I wish you to keep near your heart…….
“You seek adventure in some other place.
That you are round about me, I believe”
I did not know Robert, but I am remembering
his service. He is my hero. !
~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~
The Other Side
i'm over on the other side
where life and death softly divide.
left my skin and bones behind
now i'm over on the other side.
can you feel me there with you?
my breath is gone but i'm not through.
loved you then and i still do
from over on the other side.
i can fly. really fly.
below the earth ... all through the sky.
tell em all i did not die.
i'm just over on the other side.
it's good here on the other side.
the sweetest songs...the bluest skies.
thank you for the tears you cried
but it's good here on the other side.
i can fly. really fly. below the earth...all through the sky.
tell em all i did not die.
i'm just over on the other side
the world is smaller than a needle's eye.
where life and death softly divide.
when you leave your skin and bones behind
i'll be waiting on the other side.
i can fly. really fly. below the earth ... all through the sky.
go tell em all i did not die.
i'm just over on the other side.
Song lyrics by Don Conoscenti
C Desert Muse/SESAC
www.donconoscenti.com
(Used with permission)
“I hope it brings great comfort to any and all.
Peace on you. DonCon” 4-2008
Visit this link to hear the song.
The Other Side –
http://tinyurl.com/3o8gol
Sincerely,
Deb Estep ~ Ohio
Proud Air Force Mom and MIL
Remembering The Fallen – Blog
http://tinyurl.com/3z8p55
Please contact me and I will email you back a copy of my
Angel and soldier drawing I have shared here.
David Walker
April 14, 2008
I have no right to say anything except for to humbly thank Sgt. Montgomery for his service and ultimate sacrifice. Please know that, for what little it may be worth, I will never forget it or ever take it for granted.
Peggie Writtenhouse
October 4, 2007
My deepest and most heartfelt sympathy to the family of Robert Montgomery. Thanks for your Soldier's Courage, Service and Dedication to our Country and Freedom.
The price he and his family have paid, will never be forgotten.
In the days to come if you find yourself feeling like you can‘t go on , recall the years and days you were blessed by his presence, this is the one thing that cannot be taken away from you are your memories, may you find comfort there and may God’s Peace strengthen you through the difficult days ahead and the emptiness in your hearts!
I am the Sister of a hero, who made the Ultimate Sacrifice in 2005 in Taji, Iraq and time does make it hurt less.
"And God shall wipe away every tear from their eyes,
there shall be no more death, nor sorrow, nor crying,
there shall be no more pain.
For the former things have passed away."
Revelations 21:4
NOW SERVING IN GOD’S ARMY
In His Memory,
Master Sgt James F. Hayes
1st Battalion, 320th Field Artillery Regiment, 101st Airborne Division Fort Campbell
August 15, 2007
Thank you for the sacrifice made by Sgt Montgomery and the sacrifice made by everyone who loves and misses him! May God bless all of you!!
July 31, 2007
If this person can stand in battle to ensure my freedom, then I will stand in grief with his/her family to honor him/her. For every fallen HERO there is a bright star that shines in the evening sky to remind us of the cherished gift we were given – even if for too short a time.
My heart breaks again as I sign yet another guest book of another courageous young soldier who gave their life so selflessly. I wish I never found myself in a position to have to sign another guest book for the rest of my life, but I promised Le Ron A. Wilson (a dear friend KIA 7/6/07, 18yrs old) that neither he nor any like him would be forgotten and so I will continue until the day there is no longer the need.
PROUD MOTHER OF A U.S. SOLDIER
Althea Barrett(Queens, NY)
Robert Rudd
July 13, 2007
God, i'm not sure who to address this to so i'm addressing it to the Monty I knew. I miss you every day brother. I miss all those words of wisdom you gave to me, and all the smiles you brought to all of us when it seemed like none of us could get along. You will forever be a part of all of your Charlie Troop brothers Monty. We think about you every day and look for to the day we'll see you in heaven old guy. We love you and miss you Monty. Have a few for me where ever you are buddy.
Robert K. Rudd
Crusader Troop, 1/40 CAV
1st Platoon
ROBYN GARSIDE
June 27, 2007
MAY GOD BLESS YOU AND YOURS. I HAVE JUST LEARNED OF YOUR GREAT LOSS AND WISH TO EXPRESS MY DEEPEST CONDOLENCES. PLEASE KNOW THAT THERE ARE PEOPLE OUT HERE WHO DO CARE AND YOUR HERO WILL NEVER BE FORGOTTEN. HOLD TIGHT TO YOUR TREASURED MEMORIES THAT HIS SPECIAL SMILE MAY CONTINUE TO SHINE ON FOR YOUR FAMILY. I PRAY THAT PEACE WILL FIND YOU ALL SOMEDAY. GODSPEED AND SEMPER FI.
A PROUD MARINE MOM
Marguerite & Jerry Terlizzi
June 26, 2007
We want to express our deepest sympathy to the family of Sgt. Robert Montgomery. We "adopted" his platoon thru the Adopt-A-Platoon organization and have been in touch with them since they were first sent to Iraq. We think of all of them as our sons & are heartbroken at the loss of one of them. We pray that you find comfort & solace in your memories. Blessed be.
June 21, 2007
“Soldier”
Written to Honor the Service of Our Fallen Soldiers
Soldiers write history…they pay the price
Many miles distant, you live the life
Entered the Battle of our own free will
Out of Duty for Country, and we’d do it still
We hope and pray that all will find peace
In God, in the flag, in memories of valor
Gone now, our pride and courage you see
“An Army of One” our motto forever
Willing to risk all for love of our Brothers
We’re still Your Soldiers…and we showed the way
Our Lives too short, now pray for the others
Lived free died Heroes in lands far away
Deep within souls all cherished our Service
We’ll always have what some never know
Courage and Honor, our names forever
Lived life with purpose…just our time to go
We march in the Heavens with Honor and Glory
Missions accomplished we fought the Good Fight
Many years from now…we’ll tell the full story
Until that Day we will live in the Light
Our lives we laid down in a land far away
Still watching o’er you this night and by day
No need to talk…just know we are with you
There in your hearts and we hear what you pray
Yes we are your soldiers
Our lives we laid down
Still We guard o’er you
Still Duty bound
Entered the Battle of our own free will
Out of Duty for Country, and we’d do it still
We’ll always have what some never know
Lived life with purpose…it was our time to go
another GOLD STAR FAMILY
June 15, 2007
To the family of Sgt. Montgomery,
Although we did not personally know your husband, his sacrifice hits all too close to home for us - KIA SFC. Steven M. Langmack - 6/1/05.
We are forever indebted to the "buddies" who ensured our warrior's return home.
Your husband's ultimate sacrafice is not taken lightly. Your husband's bravery, dedication & valor are what makes our country GREAT & FREE!
God Bless ~
Christina Morneau
June 8, 2007
Missy and kids, Our thoughts and prayers go out to you. I was sadden by the news of Robert death. You are a wonderful family and Robert will be with you always.He will be deeply missed.Missy if you need any thing we are here for you.I know the road ahead will be hard to travel. You are strong person and a wonderful mother.take care.
Shannon Williford
June 7, 2007
My thoughts are with the family of SGT Montgomery in this difficult time. May you find what comfort you can in his memories, friends, and other family.
Thank you, SGT Montgomery, for your ultimate sacrifice. You will not be forgotten.
Alan Ritzert
June 5, 2007
To the family of Robert, I wish to express my deepest condolences to you for your loss. I, like some who have posted here, heard about this story through the Nine Inch Nails fan club. I did not know him, but if I had known about the funeral, I most certainly would have attended to pay my respects to a wonderful person and soldier.
Steven D'Arcy
June 5, 2007
My Brother Micah, my heart and prayers go out to you and your family for your lost of a true American Hero.We will meet him again one day and know him by a firm grip of a hand, in the light of day or dark of night.I Love ya Brother.
Dawn D'Arcy
June 5, 2007
I would like to express my deepest sympathy to your family. Know that many people have your family in our thoughts and prayers.
William Hubbs
June 5, 2007
To the family of Sgt. Montgomery, I want to send my deepest condolences. I first heard about this through the NIN fan club. NIN fans are a closely knit community and when something like this happens we all feel it. Your son is a hero and will not be forgotten.
shari aka workingclasshero
June 5, 2007
When I read what a fan Robert was of NIN, i was deeply saddened. To be a fan...and that passionate of a fan, shows me that Robert was a very special man. Strong, loving and brave. I will do my best to share his story and preserve his memory. May you find peace.
Tom Gugliuzza
June 4, 2007
My heartfelt sympathy to the Montgomery family in the loss of Robert. I did not know Robert, but my heart is broken and I am saddened for your loss of such a fine young person and hero. May God bring you peace in your heart as you reflect on all the wonderful memories you hold so close. Please know that you are in my heart and prayers. My heart was touched by the many wonderful/beautiful things written about you. Robert you are my hero and you will NEVER be forgotten.
I send each of you a hug from the most inner part of my heart.
Love and Peace
Tom
"To live in the hearts
of those you leave behind
is never to die"
~Robert Orr~
Cathy Haselgrove
June 3, 2007
Please take some comfort in knowing that your pain is shared by more people than you can imagine
- a NIN fan.
carrol Probus
June 1, 2007
To the family of Sgt Robert J montgomery i would like to say thank you.
My family and i well forever be in debt to you and Joey for his courage and his sacrafice to keep us safe from harm and to keep the USA safe for all who live here.
what we hold in our hearts no one can take from us and though the body of our brother is not here to see his courage and loving caring actions and memories will forever live on.
May god bless you and keep you in his loving grasp.
scott bastean
June 1, 2007
I am so sorry for the lose of a every good men.I am a U S M C from chicago ill. My mother is from Madison Ind. My family and also my marine corp destactment 801 from lake county ill would like too pass on your condulenes. I also have bnephew who is the national guard stationed kentucky .best wishes
Amie Morrow
June 1, 2007
I did not know Joey or his family but you are in my families prayers. Your son gave his life so that my childern, husband, and myself can remain free and safe. In my family many have and do serve in the armed forces and as we pray for them and all the soliders, I will keep you, your son, his childern and wife in my prayers and in my heart.
May you find comfort in each other,your relatives, friends and even strangers that your sons story has touched as you try to deal with your loss. Joey may not be with you here on earth, but he will be with you in spirit and live on though his childern. God bless you.
Katie Amos
June 1, 2007
I love you Missie...I will always be here for you no matter what....I will always be here for those babies...I love them jsut as they are my own...Besafe...I LOVE YOU
Nolan Barger
June 1, 2007
To the Robert Joe Montgomery Family:
Since hearing of your loss on Monday, you have constantly been in my thoughts and prayers. Please accept my deepest sympathy.
Winnie Parker
May 31, 2007
I am so deeply sorry for the death of Joey. I am also so grateful to him and his family for the ultimate sacrifice he made for my continuing freedom. May we always remember that freedom IS NOT free.
To you, Gail, I know you will cherish the wonderful memories of your son and have the calm assurance that he is at total peace. May you, Missie, and the children rest in God's peace that passes all understanding.
With much love to you all.
Allyson Echols
May 31, 2007
My husband was killed in Ramadi in December. I just wanted to extend my sympathies to your family.
futures unlimited
May 31, 2007
condolence to your family joe was a hero to all of us at futures unlimited
donny curtsinge
May 31, 2007
sorry to hear about the los joey he was a good american hero
donny curtsinger
May 31, 2007
sorry to hear about the grief i know how you feel
Trudy Lowe
May 31, 2007
My heartfelt sympathies to your family. My heart breaks with each new name added to this list, and I am saddened by your loss. Know that you are surrounded by prayers, grace and the deep gratitude of all who live in freedom. My God hold you in his arms and grant you peace. Please find joy in the memories of your loved one and comfort knowing so many are holding you in their hearts.
jason collins
May 31, 2007
my thonght in pray with you and
the faimely
Lanny Belinda McIntosh
May 31, 2007
May Godbless you and bring you comfort. You and your family will be in our thoughts and Prayers
Tony Peacock
May 31, 2007
To Gail and family,
My thoughts and prayers are with you...I know how much you loved joey,that was evident every time you brought him up to Coonies,and we had this little rambunctious red head running around..he was a fine young man and i am proud of the way he served our country...with honor and dignity alongside his brother Micah.Again my prayers are with you and your family.
Sincerely,
shawnee (Austin, TX)
May 31, 2007
Do not stand at my grave and weep,
I am not there... I do not sleep.
I am the thousand winds that blow...
I am the diamond glints on snow...
I am the sunlight on ripened grain...
I am the gentle autumn rain.
When you waken in the morning's hush,
I am the swift uplifting rush
Of gentle birds in circling flight...
I am the soft star that shines at night.
Do not stand at my grave and cry-
I am not there... I did not die...
Robert and Doris Unger
May 30, 2007
We are sorry for your loss and send our deepest sympathy.
Robert, rest in peace.
don pruitt
May 30, 2007
Our hearts are with you in such a loss. You as his mother we will be praying for you and his wife and children will also be in our hearts. Don Pruitt and Lou white
Carol Cline
May 30, 2007
Know in your heart that Robert is a true hero and will never be forgotten. All gave some, some gave all. Rest in peace. You will be missed by everyone’s life you have touched.
To Robert's family, as the days and weeks pass, and as you return to life’s routine, may you continue to feel comforted by the love and support of family, friends, and all Americans for the sacrifice of one of your family members for our freedom. Our thoughts and prayers are with you. May you find comfort in the loving embrace of our Heavenly Father.
A Blue Star Family
May 30, 2007
We did not know your Joey but, like you, our son recognizes the importance of keeping our country free. We remind ourselves daily that there is no greater love than to give your life for your friends. The reality is always present, but we always pray for safety knowing that someone is paying the cost that day. We will certainly keep your family in our prayers and we are truly grateful for men like him. We salute a great American Hero. Semper Fi and may God grant you comfort in the days to come.
Stephanie
May 30, 2007
I did not know Joseph nor his family, what I do know is that this man gave the ultimate sacrifice so that my children my husband and I could sleep safely into the night without any fear. I and my family are very grateful. I am terribly sorry for your loss and hope that one day you will find comfort. My thoughts and prayers go out to the wife, children and family of this brave man who gave all to protect our country.
Phillip Bates Family
May 30, 2007
Our thoughts and prayers are with Joey's family.He will always be remember as our Home town Hero. May God Bless and Keep his arms around in the coming days. Remember Palms 23
God Bless
Kathy Jones
May 30, 2007
To the family of Sgt. Robert Joe Montgomery:
I just want to express my deepest sympathy to the family of this courageous soldier. As an American, I am thankful for these brave men who protect us and allow us the freedoms that we have in this great country. I have many relatives who live in Scottsburg. My mother was born and raised there and she knows the Graham family. I did not know Sgt. Montgomery personally, but we are all brothers and sisters in Christ. May God grant you peace and comfort during this difficult time. My prayers are with you.
SHIRLEY DONEY
May 29, 2007
REST IN PEACE MY FRIEND, TO YOUR FAMILY AND FRIENDS MAY THE MEMORIES OF THIS WONDERFUL SOLDIERS LIFE FILL YOUR HEARTS WITH BEAUTIFUL MEMORIES
GOD BLESS YOU
gary shadburn
May 29, 2007
sorry for your loss
Kidd Family
May 29, 2007
Our hearts go out to you at this time and in the days ahead.
Sharon Janson
May 29, 2007
It is painful to learn of the loss of another young soldier in this war. But I am also humbled by his bravery, the courage it took to take up arms in the face of such danger. There is such honor in that. Though I did not personally know him, I am part of this nation for which he fought. And for that, I am truly grateful.
Ruth Holland
May 29, 2007
To The Family Of Joey Montgomery.
Remember John 3:16 - Know that God is watching and understands your pain and loss. He will provide comfort at this terrible time - just ask and you will receive.
Linda Banker
May 29, 2007
Dear Ms. Bond and Missy and family and friends,
We lift you up in our prayers and are so sorry for your loss. Because "no greater have any man than to lay down his life for another" . . . because of your loved one's sacrifice, we and our children are able to walk in freedom. God bless you and grant you grace, courage and comfort int he happy memories you hold of your dear one. Phil. 4:13
Linda Banker, mom of a paratrooper
Joe Blanton
May 29, 2007
My thought and prayers are with your family at this time. You will be missed. May God be with you and your family at this difficult time.
Wes Palmer
May 29, 2007
Joe,
We love you and will miss you tremendously. Your kindness and caring will always be remembered. Your family is forever in our prayers.
Wes, Cheyenne, and Amy Palmer
Robert and Vivian Buckler
May 29, 2007
Our thoughts and prayers go out to all of the loved ones of Sgt. Montgomery. As parents with a son currently in Iraq, we can not imagine the heartache that you are enduring. May the warm memories of your loved one be of some comfort during this most difficult time. Our nation owes a debt of gratitude for the honor and service in which your loved one served. May God be with you all.
May 28, 2007
To the Family and Friends of this Soldier:
I will stand in grief with this soldier's family to honor him. For every fallen HERO there is a bright star that shines in the evening sky to remind us of the cherished gift we were given – even if for too short a time.
My heart breaks again as I sign yet another guest book of another courageous young soldier who gave their life so selflessly. I wish I never found myself in a position to have to sign another guestbook for the rest of my life, but I promised Brent that neither he nor any like him would be forgotten and so I will continue until the day there is no longer the need.
We lost our son SFC Brent A. Adams on 12/1/05 and it seems like yesterday. I wish so badly there were things I could say to you right now to make the pain you are feeling go away, but I know first hand there simply are no words that will bring you the comfort and peace your heart aches for. Just know that you are not alone. My heart, thoughts, and prayers are with you all as you go through this tragedy moment by moment and as you mourn this loss.
We don't know each other, will probably never meet, but will forever be united in the loss of our Heroes. We have, unfortunately joined a group none of us wanted to join, an ever-growing group of families in this situation. May God grant you peace and strength to get through this and be able once again to smile at a memory rather than have only the tears that flow so easily now. To be so proud of your loved one and so saddened at the same time is a mix of emotions very difficult to deal with as our hearts both burst with pride and pain together.
I am sorry that I never knew your soldier personally. While they can never be replaced, neither will they ever be forgotten. You must trust that sometime, someday the loving memories you have will help to sustain you and help you go on. This courageous soldier will forever be your Angel watching over you all for the rest of your lives. It's what brings me some measure of peace and comfort and I hope it will you as well.
To his family and friends in pain, I offer this comfort: When you find yourself in that dark sorrowful place, think not only of how you will miss him, but instead recall the years, days, hours and minutes gifted to you by his presence. The one thing that cannot be taken from you is your wonderful memories that now will mean more than ever.
If you ever want to talk, I'm only an e:mail away and would love for you to tell me more about your Hero.
God Bless this soldier and family who gave all and God Bless legacy.com for setting up this site where families can so quickly share their condolences and prayers with others like themselves.
Proud Parents of SFC Brent A. Adams, KIA, 12/1/05, Ramadi, Iraq
Pam and Bill Adams, Lancaster, PA
Stephanie (Nease)Holloway
May 28, 2007
I send my deepest and most heartfelt sympathy to Joey's Family and Friends.
To remember the ways Joey has touch each and everyone of our lives will never be hard to do, because if you think back he was on his skate board, or always drawing,or playing his video games, but no matter what Joey was a compasionate person who never hesitated to give a shoulder to cry on or just be there for a friend. Joey was a fun loving spirted person who seems to always make you laugh even when you didn't want to laugh.
Joey's love for Missy could never be put into words, but the faces of Skyla, Joe, and Ella sure shows the love and 15 years of togetherness.
I'm thankful to have had the chance to have Joey in my life.
The price he had to pay will never be forgotten, and he will live on in my heart forever.
May God's blessings be with the Family and Friend during these difficult times.
God Bless
Written With Love
Steph
Jacob Holloway
May 28, 2007
To the family of Joey Montgomery I send my deepest respect. I was a High School classmate and I will remeber him as fun loving spirit who loved art and lived life to the fullest. I thank him for his heroism. As a veteran myself I know what his sacrifices were. I'm truly sorry for your lost. May he rest in peace with God knowing he died trying to bring peace to a world who desperately needs it.
Ronn Massie
May 27, 2007
God bless the family and friends of Robert.
You will all be in our prayers.
Thank you Robert for being such a brave hero.
(In remembrance of Cpl. Joey Cantrell 4-4-07)
Sandy Bonesteel
May 27, 2007
As the mother of a son (my only child) who is enlisted in the Army, I want to send my condolences.
Garnet Jenkins
May 26, 2007
My Deepest and Most Heartfelt Sympathy goes out to the family of Sgt. Robert J. Montgomery, with a Multitude of Thanks for your Brave Soldier's Courage, Dedication and Service to our Country and for Freedom.
The price Robert and his family have paid, Will Never Be Forgotten. May he Rest Safely, in God's Care and may the Peace of God be with the Montgomery family.
I am the Sister of such a young hero, who made the Ultimate Sacrifice in Vietnam, many years ago
"Surely He hath borne our grief, and carried our sorrows."
~ Isaiah 53:4 ~
May you find comfort and strength, in the beautiful memories of times spent with Robert. Quietly and gently, may healing come, with each new day.
You are in my thoughts and my prayers.
SHIRLEY DONEY
May 26, 2007
REST IN PEACE MY FRIEND, TO YOUR FAMILY AND FRIENDS MAY THE MEMORIES OF THIS WONDERFUL SOLDIERS LIFE FILL YOUR HEARTS WITH BEAUTIFUL MEMORIES
GOD BLESS YOU
Henryk Zaleski (USN-Ret)
May 26, 2007
Rest in peace.
Gary Allain
May 26, 2007
you are my hero
may god keep you in his arms forever.
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