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Memories and Condolences
for Joshua Modgling
Jim Ziegler
May 26, 2025
I live in Irvine, CA near the Gratitude and Honor Memorial and received Joshua's name on a remembrance rose during the ceremony yesterday. though it has been many years, please know that you are not forgotten and that my thoughts and prayers go out to you his family. Thank you and God Bless you all.
John H Dufour
July 24, 2020
ou were and always be my friend and battle buddy you made basic fun for me with you awesome positive vibes and funny jokes I’ll miss you Josh you will forever be remembered.
C N
June 11, 2019
I miss you.. I miss all of you. I would give anything and everything if it meant I could spend one more day with the three of you.. my everything vanished when I lost the three of you. (P.s I haven't lost sight of what you said that day, I've gotten distracted for a few but never lost sight and I still plan on keeping my promise.) I love you big bro. Jay my heart hurts everyday missing you an grandma words can't express the amount of sadness I feel everyday you're gone. I miss you all so much it's still so raw. I know you're in a better place but selfishly I wish you never left me.
Jason Nelson
July 14, 2014
Every body was proud of you when u died. Ur uncle jay was proud of u when u learned to walk. I Helped raised you. I was proud of you when you maned up n went to that hell hole. I guess u find out who ur friends are
LoveYou... See you when I see you .
June 19, 2014
Seven years now. Still seems like yesterday. So much has changed. Grandma "G" is up there with you now. I miss her as much as I miss you and Ryan. Each day is a new struggle to get through it. But I'm sure you all are having a great time together. Just want you to know that I love you so much J9sh. And everyday I miss you more and more. I miss your laugh, the shuffle of your slippers, you sitting on the computer playing WOW lol. Just know you're always in my heart.
Always My Hero, Forever My Son!!
Julie Montano
October 12, 2013
Well baby,
We are living in Pahrump now. The whole family is together finally. Bet you never thought that would happen. It wouldn't have if it hadn't been for you and your stubbornness lol. Im still not happy, nor am I content. Im still very restless in my heart. But that will probably always be there til I see you again. Its time to sign this book and get it home with me. Where I can read all the beautiful things people have said about you. Just know that I love you with all my heart baby and miss you more than you will every know. You are always my Hero and Forever my Son!!
Love mom
September 1, 2012
Josh,
I havent been able to get on here in a long time baby. But I know you have always been close to me when I've needed you. I still miss you with all my heart, and I still break down in tears. But I can hear your laugh, and the shuffle of your slippers. I can see you in my dreams and hold you there. I can smile now at all our silliness and fun we had. I guess thats a break thru. I wish there were visiting hours for Heaven. I would be there everyday.
Your little niece Marisa is so beautiful as I know you have seen. She will absolutely adore you as she gets to know you. I am putting a scrapbook and pictures of you and Ryan together for her and will tell her stories and everything about you. Even the embarassing ones hahaha..There wont be a day that she doesnt get to know about her Uncles Josh and Ryan. She will love you like we do and still be able to share in the memories through us.
I love you baby and miss you so much. But I have learned to see you in the beauty of the world also. So I get to see you every minute of the day. *hugs & kisses baby*
Love Mom
Justin Phillips
May 1, 2012
Josh you were my brother and my hero I miss you man..We are all so proud of you..You might be gone in person but always here in our hearts and memories
Peggy Childers
June 19, 2011
To the family and friends of Pfc. Joshua S. Modgling:
Please accept my remembrance of Joshua on the anniversary of his passing and know that he will never be forgotten.
cathy martinelli
May 8, 2011
still missin you josh!!! it will be 4 years this year...still cant get over it!!! everyone loves and misses you!!!
Peggy Childers
June 19, 2010
To the family and friends of Pfc. Joshua S. Modgling:
Remembering Joshua on the anniversary of his passing. May our fallen heroes never be forgotten!
Peggy Childers
"Don't Let The Memory Of Them Drift Away"
www.IraqWarHeroes.org
cathy martinelli
April 2, 2010
i miss you so much josh!!!!! i still dont understand it...i probly never will though...we love you and miss you!!!!!
cathy martinelli
January 24, 2010
i miss you so much josh...its not even fair...why dd you have to go??? i wish i could see you just one more time!!!!!!
Karen Nelson
July 1, 2009
My dear Joshie,
It has been two years since you were taken home and I feel as if it was just yesterday. I miss you so much and think of you everyday. I read about all the young men and women that have given their lives for their country and know that you welcome them at heavens gates. No words can express my graditude for what you have given. Know always that I miss you Josh but someday we will be together again
Your loving Grandmother,
Karen M. Nelson
Peggy Childers
June 19, 2009
To the family of Pfc. Joshua S. Modgling:
Joshua gave the ultimate sacrifice and will be held in the hearts of Americans forever. I cannot and will not let our fallen heroes be forgotten. My deepest sympathy to you. "Some gave all."
Peggy Childers
"Don't Let The Memory Of Them Drift Away"
www.IraqWarHeroes.org
Justin Phillips
March 31, 2009
Josh i'll never forget you and the man you always was. Your life will never be forgoten and we all thank you for fighting for us.
I always looked up to you and will always consider you a brother to me
I miss you bro....
Kenna Larra
January 13, 2009
We love our Soldiers! We love our country and we cannot express enough love and compassion to the families. War does not discriminate – It breaks my heart to see the faces of the fallen. We want to give this gift to you. We are a 501c3 nonprofit organization! Over 1,300 portraits have been completed and shipped to the parents and or spouse - at no cost as this is a gift from one American to another!
Contact us directly at [email protected] or go to www.heropaintings.com. If you have already had a portrait completed, we pray that you are enjoying the portrait and God Bless You.
Sincerely,
Kenna
Julie Montano
January 5, 2009
My darling Josh,
Your birthday was here and gone so fast. Just like your life. But know that you have made such a difference in my life, even through your death. Everyday I am reminded of your love, kindness, and your selflessness. With everything I do or say, I feel your presence, and try to be the wonderful person you are.
You came to me in my dreams the night before your birthda. Thankyou baby. Seeing you and laughing with you was just what I needed. Your smile still shines bright. You looked so at peace and carefree. And it felt so wonderful holding you in my arms once again.
My heart still breaks each day, then I picture that beautiful smile of yours and the twinkle in your eyes. Only then can I lighten my heart and smile at the memories.
I love you baby and miss you so much that words cant explain my grief.
I'll see you and Ryan in my dreams again. Til then give each other a hug for me.
All my love to my 2 beautiful Angels..
Mom
Tabitha Burress
December 25, 2008
Merry Christmas Josh! I hope you and Richard are having a big party up there.
June 30, 2008
You are remembered and respected. Thank you Pfc Modgling!
In Memory of Joshua Stephen ~ (Debra Estep)
June 19, 2008
Holding you all in my thoughts and prayers.
The Wind on The Downs
“I like to think of you as brown and tall,
As strong and living as you used to be,
In khaki tunic, Sam Brown belt and all,
And standing there and laughing down at me.
Because they tell me, dear, that you are dead,
Because I can no longer see your face,
You have not died, it is not true, instead
You seek adventure in some other place.
That you are round about me, I believe;
I hear you laughing as you used to do,
Yet loving all the things I think of you;
And knowing you are happy, should I grieve?
You follow and are watchful where I go.”
(Written by Marian Allen during World War l )
Two lines that I wish you to keep near your heart…….
“You seek adventure in some other place.
That you are round about me, I believe”
I did not know Joshua, but I am remembering
his service. He is my hero. !
~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~
The Other Side
i'm over on the other side
where life and death softly divide.
left my skin and bones behind
now i'm over on the other side.
can you feel me there with you?
my breath is gone but i'm not through.
loved you then and i still do
from over on the other side.
i can fly. really fly.
below the earth ... all through the sky.
tell em all i did not die.
i'm just over on the other side.
it's good here on the other side.
the sweetest songs...the bluest skies.
thank you for the tears you cried
but it's good here on the other side.
i can fly. really fly. below the earth...all through the sky.
tell em all i did not die.
i'm just over on the other side
the world is smaller than a needle's eye.
where life and death softly divide.
when you leave your skin and bones behind
i'll be waiting on the other side.
i can fly. really fly. below the earth ... all through the sky.
go tell em all i did not die.
i'm just over on the other side.
Song lyrics by Don Conoscenti
C Desert Muse/SESAC
www.donconoscenti.com
(Used with permission)
“I hope it brings great comfort to any and all.
Peace on you. DonCon” 4-2008
The Other Side –
http://tinyurl.com/3o8gol
Sincerely,
Deb Estep ~ Ohio
Proud Air Force Mom and MIL
Remembering The Fallen – Blog
http://tinyurl.com/3z8p55
Angel and soldier drawing I have shared here.
http://tinyurl.com/6gey8b
Amy Eubanks
June 13, 2008
Well Josh,
Its Almost been a year since you've been gone. I was just sitting back reminiscing about the past and all the trouble You, Me, Chris and Rory used to get in to like when were living in Hawaii and we would sneak out of our bedrooms and run around the house...looking for trouble to get in too. You've missed so much since you've been gone your 1st nephew was born. I remember telling you the day you left for Iraq that I was gonna send you pics of him when he was born. I think about you all the time and i know you helped Xavier get through his rough beginning. He reminds me a lot of you always getting into trouble giving me a hard time. He's my Lil trooper. I wish you could meet him. Thank You for being apart of my life you help to make me who i am today. I love you and always will. Ill see ya in the future say hello to Dustin for me.
Your Lil Sis,
Amy
Tabitha Burress
April 15, 2008
Josh,
I never did get a chance to meet you. We were supposed to do that when you guys got home. Unfortunately, you and Richard went home to a different place than we had all planned. I'm sure I would have liked you because I love your mom and she is such a blessing to me. You two take care of each other up there and watch over the guys you left behind. Bring them back safely to their families!
Love,
Tabby
Michael Klasno
February 6, 2008
On behalf of the Gold Star Dads of America and American Patriots everywhere, we would like to send our condolences for the loss of your son Joshua. As an ex-Marine and a fellow Gold Star Father I know the pain and emptiness you feel. I also know the pride that wells up inside you, and rightly so.
Your son died as a hero and a patriot, as did my son Rhys. These young men and thousands of others like them will continue to show this country, yes, even the World that we will not stand idly by while watching our World become a place of evil.
Joshuas’ mission here on earth is done and I pray that God has a special place for him.
My family will continue to lift up yours in prayer asking God to comfort and encourage your hearts. We will continue to ask God to put his hedge of protection around the American soldiers and the Coalition forces and to bring wisdom to our leaders and the new leaders of a Free Iraq.
If there is anything that we can do for you or your family, Please don't hesitate to ask.
Respect & Honor
Gold Star Dad of America
shawnee (Austin, TX)
January 22, 2008
I would like to extend my deepest sympathy to your family. I didn't know your son, but I want you to know that I am so very sorry for your loss, and we grieve with you at the loss of another American hero.
Angela Rocha
January 22, 2008
Josh,
We love you and we'll miss you. Do you know the muffin man?
The Rocha's
Grandma has the camera again!!
January 22, 2008
My Soldier, My Son
January 22, 2008
Linda flannery
January 11, 2008
Remembering and honoring another of America's bravest. May the family of Pfc Modgling find comfort in their loving memories, and know America shares in your sorrow.
My flag flies in honor of this brave soldier.
Shirley Garcia
November 14, 2007
Dear Julie & Family,
I miss Josh so much. He was very special to me. I remember telling to go home, you have a good mom and dont be getting into any trouble here. The next thing I know you were in the Army doing what you wanted to do. You gave Your All!!
Love Grandma Shirley
Jason Nelson
October 10, 2007
to my brave nephew,
Josh, I spent a lot of time and tears thinking of the cicumstanses of your death, when suddenly I realized that was selfish. God gave us your big smile and your big heart for 22 years and I am truly honored to say, I am proud of you and you went out like a man.
I love you Josh,
Your Uncle Jay
Jeff Thomas
September 21, 2007
Keith, Sorry to hear about Joshua's death in Iraq. I thank you and him for his service to our country. Thanks! I hope every thing else is going well with you and your family.
Take care of yourself.
Gary
September 18, 2007
A true American hero.God bless Joshua and his family.
Julie Montano
September 13, 2007
My Dearest Josh,
Each morning I wake I see your face. Each night before I sleep I see your smile. They are forever in my heart. I'm lost without you Josh. You are my joy, my son, and my best friend.
Alot of people call you a Hero as do I, but you are now an angel, the most precious of ranks to hold. God shared you with me for only 22 short years, but its hard to give you back unselfishly. Only a mothers heart can understand that pain.
I'm so proud of you. Words cannot speak my pride. I'm holding on by a thread baby, but I'm trying to make you as proud of me as I am of you. Have patience. I promise to make it to heaven someday and take the seat you are holding for me. The time til then seems like forever, but one day at a time is a start.
I've been able to be there for you to make things easier while you were here. But I feel so helpless that I couldnt protect you while in Iraq and from your own death. I would trade my life for you if it would bring you home.But I know I cant.
I dont believe in Hell anymore. I believe hell is here on earth. The trials we must go through, the heartache and pain of loss. With your help and loving angel arms I have nowhere to go now but to Heaven.
I love you Jawa with everything that I am,
Mom
KAREN NELSON
September 13, 2007
WHEN MY GRANDSON JOSH WAS A YOUNG BOY, I WAS FORTUNATE TO HAVE HIM LIVE NEAR ME. I WAS ABLE TO SHARE IN HIS SCHOOL ACTIVITIES, HELP HIM WITH HIS HOMEWORK AND EVEN BE HIS SOCCER COACH.
JOSH LOVED SOCCER AND PLAYED HIS HARDEST DURING THE GAME. YOU COULD ALWAYS COUNT ON HIM TO MAKE A GOAL OR ASSIST ANOTHER PLAYER IN MAKING ONE, HE NEVER MISSED A PRACTICE AND WAS ALWAYS WILLING TO HELP A NEW PLAYER LEARN THE GAME. HE ALSO HATED TO LOOSE AND FELT THAT IF WE LOST A GAME THAT IT WAS DUE TO HIM NOT PLAYING HIS VERY BEST.
JOSH SHOWED THIS SAME ENTHUSIASM WHEN HE JOINED THE ARMY. HE FELT THAT THIS WAS THE BEST PLACE FOR HIM AND THAT THE ARMY WOULD GIVE DIRECTION TO HIS LIFE. HE WAS READY TO DO WHATEVER THEY ASKED OF HIIM.
WHEN WE WERE NOTIFIED THAT JOSHUA HAD BEEN KILLED IN ACTION I THOUGHT IT WAS THE END OF THE WORLD. HIS MOTHER, MY DAUGHTER JULIE ,WAS DEVESTATED AND THERE WAS NOTHING I COULD DO TO TAKE AWAY HER PAIN. AS HER MOTHER I HAD ALWAYS BEEN ABLE TO MAKE THINGS BETTER FOR HER. THIS TIME I COULD ONLY HOLD HER AND CRY WITH HER.
JOSHUA LIVED HIS LIFE TO THE FULLEST AND GAVE TO THE ARMY THE SAME ENTHUSIASM HE HAD FOR LIFE. ON JUNE 19TH 2007 HE GAVE UP HIS LIFE FOR OUR FREEDOM. ONCE AGAIN HE TOOK THE TIME TO HELP OTHERS. HE DIED OUR HERO
YOU WILL BE MISSED JOSHIE BUT NEVER FORGOTTEN . I AM PROUD TO BE YOUR GRANDMOTHER AND I WILL ALWAYS LOVE YOU. NO GREATER GIFT COULD YOU HAVE GIVEN THAN TO LAY DOWN YOUR LIFE FOR YOU COUNTRY AND FELLOW MAN.
I LOVE YOU JOSHIE
August 18, 2007
Thank you for the sacrifice made by Pfc Modgling and the sacrifice made by everyone who loves and misses him! May God bless all of you!!
August 7, 2007
I don't pretend to know what to say or do that would bring you peace in your time of sorrow, but I will offer my heart felt condolences. I also offer you my prayers that in time the pain will easy and the memories of your HERO will carry you through each day and night. I want to thank your HERO, for his/her selfless act of becoming a member of the armed forces, his/her willingness to defend the United States of America, all that we hold sacred and for the sacrifice that will forever be etched in the memories of all those who knew him/her. Though tears can never bring him/her back, we hope that our tears express our gratitude for the sacrifice that he/she made and our sorrow at his/her passing. I believe for every fallen HERO there is a star shining brightly up above to remind us of the precious gift we were given.
Your mission on earth is complete and you are now a member of GOD’s Heavenly armed forces. Stand down brave warrior and take your rightful place in Heaven with all the HEROES who have passed before.
I made a special promise to LE RON A. WILSON (KIA on 07/06/07) on the day he was laid to rest as I touched his coffin, that I would never forget him nor would I forget those that gave their lives for our country before him, with him and after him and so when I came across www.legacy.com, I thought what a great way to keep my promise to Le Ron, so I will continue to leave tributes in each guest book until the day there is no longer the need to leave these tributes to a FALLEN HERO.
REST IN PEACE, HERO, YOU WILL NEVER BE FORGOTTEN!!
PROUD MOTHER OF A U.S. SOLDIER
Althea Barrett(Queens, NY)
Rebecca Sargent
August 4, 2007
Sometimes we wonder why god takes those that we love, and although its painful to loose those that we love it is from within them that we find the strength to carry on. The world will never be the same without you Josh, but you will never be forgotten. You must take on a new journey now, so do that and know that you were loved. Rest in peace and thank you for doing what you do So that I can be free.
Michelle Modgling
August 2, 2007
Josh was my brother and I loved him dearly he was one of the best friends I could ever have and I truly will miss him. Love ya bro
sl
July 31, 2007
I wish I could say something more comforting, but please know this loss is felt. I am so sorry- he is missed.
Russ Montano
July 30, 2007
I met Josh only once when he first came to stay with Sef and Julie. Nonetheless, he was still my brother. He had a spark to him then and I have always heard that the spark never left. Josh is my brother and my HERO. I wanted to honor him properly so I had asked Julie if I could bring him home. I traveled to Dover and flew home with him. Julie and Keith, it was my honor and pleasure to be the one to bring him home. Your Son is a HERO to this Nation. He is my hero and the hero of the men and women he served with. Take comfort in knowing that he served with pride and honor. He will forever be missed but never forgotten. If you ever need anything you know how to find me.
Russ Montano
Boatswains Mate 2nd class USN
Charlie Braatz
July 29, 2007
May the love of friends and family carry you through your grief.
Stefani Kiefer
July 29, 2007
Now forever in heaven where war is unknown... Rest In Peace Josh.
Courntey Nelson
July 29, 2007
josh, my brother, i love you, you had a way to make every smile with just one little word..you were so proud of the army and that you were doing somehting good.. you definitely did something good bro.. you brought all of us together and made us realize how important family was.. thats the greatest gift anyone could ever give.. you will be missed but always remembered.
Christopher Modgling
July 27, 2007
SPC. Joshua S. Modgling
wasn't just a Good Soldier and a American Hero. He is my Hero and a fantasic Brother. He will always be remembered,loved,and in my dreams. No matter how bad I will ever feel I will always over come knowing he will always be by my side telling me that it will be ok...Josh I Love you bro. and will see you again later in life.Love You Always,and Rest In Peace...
Momma, I came home
Julie Montano
July 27, 2007
My Soldier, My Son
Time heals all wounds or so they say,
But a broken heart at my feet now lays.
Your brother came to take you home.
God tapped your shoulder
Once more I'm alone.
The pride for my soldier
In my heart I will carry.
As I shed my tears
For another I bury.
I love you Josh,
Mom
To those who signed their condolences
I want to thank you for your love and support for my son. It makes it easier to deal and go thru this agony knowing that he was loved and appreciated.
For those who still have family in Iraq, May God put his angels on their shoulders and bring them home safely.
For those who have lost a loved one, My heart goes out to you. May God carry your grief and sorrow on his shoulders and protect you as much as possible from the pain.
In Gods Love,
Julie Montano,
Joshua's mother
ROBYN GARSIDE
July 12, 2007
MAY GOD BLESS YOU AND YOURS. I HAVE JUST LEARNED OF YOUR GREAT LOSS AND WISH TO EXPRESS MY DEEPEST SYMPATHIES. PLEASE KNOW THAT THERE ARE PEOPLE OUT HERE WHO DO CARE AND YOUR HERO WILL NEVER BE FORGOTTEN. HOLD TIGHT TO YOUR TREASURED MEMORIES THAT HIS SPECIAL SMILE MAY CONTINUE TO SHINE. I PRAY THAT PEACE WILL FIND YOU ALL SOMEDAY. GODSPEED AND SEMPER FI.
A PROUD MARINE MOM
Tom Gugliuzza
July 10, 2007
My heartfelt sympathy to the Modgling family in the loss of Joshua. I did not know Joshua, but my heart is broken and I am saddened for your loss of such a fine young person and hero. May God bring you peace in your heart as you reflect on all the wonderful memories you hold so close. Please know that you are in my heart and prayers. My heart was touched by the many wonderful/beautiful things written about you. Joshua you are my hero and you will NEVER be forgotten.
I send each of you a hug from the most inner part of my heart.
Love and Peace
Tom
"To live in the hearts
of those you leave behind
is never to die"
~Robert Orr~
Joy Marsico
July 9, 2007
Dear Julie, Keith & Family of Fallen Hero PFC Joshua Modgling,
My deepest sympathy over the loss of your beloved son, Joshua.
Please know that Joshua gave his life valiantly so that others less fortunate could live in peace, free of terrorism. Please know that Joshua is a role model for Americans and in his twenty-two short years understood more completely the principles upon which our proud nation was founded.
Please know that Joshua loved his country so much that there was no price he would not pay to ensure his homeland remained great, and free.
I am most grateful for Joshua's supreme sacrifice. I pray you find comfort in knowing that Joshua achieved in twenty-two years what it takes others a lifetime to achieve. That is why God took him home. His work here is done, he has much to do elsewhere. He will never be far. In the still quiet moments, you can still feel his presence.
I did not know your son, but the similarities between your son & my own son are so many, that I am certain he had both eyes open & both feet planted firmly on the ground. I am proud to call your son my hero and I thank you most gratefuly for his selflessness and service to this country that I love.
I too, lost my 'only' son just four months ago on March 2, 2007. He was on his 2nd tour of Iraq and took his last breath in the Al Anbar Province of Iraq known as Al Qaim. I thank God for his merciful, swift death and live my life in the hope that we will one day again be reunited.
If you need me, call, anytime.
May the Lord surround you with His Love and comfort you in your great loss. May His blessings overshadow the sorrows & may he keep you close always.
With Deepest sympathy & respect,
Joy Marsico (mother of Marine LCPL Raul S. Bravo - killed in action 3/2/07 - age 21)
Michael Klasno
July 1, 2007
On behalf of Gold Star Dads of America and American Patriots everywhere, we would like to send our condolences for the loss of your son Joshua . As an ex-Marine and a fellow Gold Star Father I know the pain and emptiness you feel. I also know the pride that wells up inside you, and rightly so.
Your son Joshua died as a hero and a patriot, as did my son Rhys. These young men and thousands of others like them will continue to show this country, yes, even the World that we will not stand idly by while watching our World become a place of evil.
Joshua’s mission here on earth is done and I pray that God has a special place for him.
My family will continue to lift up yours in prayer asking for God to comfort and encourage your hearts. We will continue to ask God to put his hedge of protection around the American soldiers and the Coalition forces and to bring wisdom to our leaders and the new leaders of a Free Iraq.
If there is anything that we can do for you or your family, Please don't hesitate to ask.
Respect & Honor
Gold Star Dad of America
Cindy
July 1, 2007
I can only imagine the heartache you are experiencing. Our son is in Joshua's unit, and I'm sure he is also feeling the pain of his loss. Please know we pray for you and your family. Such a fine hero, Joshua will not be forgotten.
Kathy Baltierra
June 30, 2007
Rest in peace Joshua...Thank you for your service to our Country
Leslie Hunter
June 29, 2007
To family and friends of Joshua Modgling,he will be greatly missed and will be in our thoughts always. Knowing the person that Joshua was he was a great solider and now he will watch over us as an Angel in the lords army.
June 29, 2007
To the Family and Friends of this Soldier:
I will stand in grief with this soldier's family to honor him. For every fallen HERO there is a bright star that shines in the evening sky to remind us of the cherished gift we were given – even if for too short a time.
My heart breaks again as I sign yet another guest book of another courageous young soldier who gave their life so selflessly. I wish I never found myself in a position to have to sign another guestbook for the rest of my life, but I promised Brent that neither he nor any like him would be forgotten and so I will continue until the day there is no longer the need.
We lost our son SFC Brent A. Adams on 12/1/05 and it seems like yesterday. I wish so badly there were things I could say to you right now to make the pain you are feeling go away, but I know first hand there simply are no words that will bring you the comfort and peace your heart aches for. Just know that you are not alone. My heart, thoughts, and prayers are with you all as you go through this tragedy moment by moment and as you mourn this loss.
We don't know each other, will probably never meet, but will forever be united in the loss of our Heroes. We have, unfortunately joined a group none of us wanted to join, an ever-growing group of families in this situation. May God grant you peace and strength to get through this and be able once again to smile at a memory rather than have only the tears that flow so easily now. To be so proud of your loved one and so saddened at the same time is a mix of emotions very difficult to deal with as our hearts both burst with pride and pain together.
I am sorry that I never knew your soldier personally. While they can never be replaced, neither will they ever be forgotten. You must trust that sometime, someday the loving memories you have will help to sustain you and help you go on. This courageous soldier will forever be your Angel watching over you all for the rest of your lives. It's what brings me some measure of peace and comfort and I hope it will you as well.
To his family and friends in pain, I offer this comfort: When you find yourself in that dark sorrowful place, think not only of how you will miss him, but instead recall the years, days, hours and minutes gifted to you by his presence. The one thing that cannot be taken from you is your wonderful memories that now will mean more than ever.
If you ever want to talk, I'm only an e:mail away and would love for you to tell me more about your Hero.
God Bless this soldier and family who gave all and God Bless legacy.com for setting up this site where families can so quickly share their condolences and prayers with others like themselves.
Proud Parents of SFC Brent A. Adams, KIA, 12/1/05, Ramadi, Iraq
Pam and Bill Adams, Lancaster, PA
Keith Modgling
June 27, 2007
Thank you all the wonderful thoughts and prayers being sent by all of you. Joshua,is and will always be my Hero. As the Father of this great patriot,to know that my son has touch so many people, makes me even more of a proud parent. Joshua, will always be remembered by so many people, and thats more then anything a parent could ask for.Once again, thank you all for your wonderful comments and sympathy. From the Father of a Hero!
R.Goolsby & Erin
June 25, 2007
The loss of someone so close is difficult to bear. We share your grief.
Rebecca Murray
June 25, 2007
My husband is in his unit. Although I did not know Pfc.Modgling that well I feel as though I do with all the good things I have heard. My thoughts and prayers are with you. May God give you comfort. I know the guys loved him and he will be greatly missed. He is a true hero.
Henryk Zaleski Zaleski (USN-Ret)
June 23, 2007
Rest in peace among the angels.
Linda Clifton
June 23, 2007
My thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.
Sandy Bonesteel
June 23, 2007
As the mother of a son (my only child) who is enlisted in the Army, I want to send my condolences.
Donnie and Donna Eubanks
June 22, 2007
Keith and family,
We were so sorry to hear of Josh's passing.God bless during this difficult time. We hope it brings you comfort to know that he is a hero and died serving this great country
Linda Flannery
June 22, 2007
To the family and friends of Pfc Modgling,
I am so very sorry for the loss of this brave young soldier. May your loving memories give you comfort, and know that all of America shares in your sorrow.
Pfc Modgling, you are a true American patriot. You are our hero.
My flag flies in your honor.
Marine Mom
Carol Cline
June 22, 2007
Pfc Joshua Modgling & Family:
Know in your heart that you are a true hero and will never be forgotten. All gave some, some gave all. Rest in peace. You will be missed by everyone’s life you have touched.
To the family, as the days and weeks pass, and as you return to life’s routine, may you continue to feel comforted by the love and support of family, friends, and all Americans for the sacrifice of one of your family members for our freedom. Our thoughts and prayers are with you. May you find comfort in the loving embrace of our Heavenly Father.
valorie
June 22, 2007
My prayers and thoughts are with you.
I know how you feel losing a "HERO",Becoming a "Gold Star" Mother myself on 25 March.. The sacrafice our sons and daughters are making on a daily basis should tell us all..These young HEROS knew full well what they were doing and did it proudly When you hug your loved ones tonight.... Remember... We also hugged ours and now they are protecting you..We.. as Americans need to make the "Ultimate Sacrafice" by supporting all our military(HEROS)...the Proud Mom of SGT. Jason W. Swiger
5th Squadron, 73rd Cavalry Regiment, 3rd Brigade Combat Team, 82nd Airborne,Fort Bragg, N.C. KIA 3/25/007
Gary Allaijn
June 22, 2007
Pfc. Joshua S. Modgling
you are my hero
may god keep you in his arms forever.
SHIRLEY DONEY
June 22, 2007
REST IN PEACE MY FRIEND, TO YOUR FAMILY AND FRIENDS MAY THE MEMORIES OF THIS WONDERFUL SOLDIERS LIFE FILL YOUR HEARTS WITH BEAUTIFUL MEMORIES
GOD BLESS YOU
debbi rivers
June 22, 2007
My grief for the loss of you son is felt. I know what it's like to loose your child in war as my son was KIA 11/12/06 in Samarra, Iraq SPC Harry (Buck) Winkler III. It feels that your heart has been ripped from you and you don't understand why this happened to your child. I've felt all you will feel in the coming days and weeks and though I"m not close I am very close by email. I offer any support to you and your family that I can. It's with the Grace of God that I've gotten through each day and with His healing love and comfort that I've been able to once again sleep at night and not cry each day. Believe me I do know how hard it is. May God continue to heal you and your family and contact me when and if you are ever ready, even if it's to vent or cry. Mother of another fallen soldier
Ronn Massie
June 22, 2007
God bless the family and friends of Joshua.
You will all be in our prayers.
Thank you Joshua for being such a brave hero.
(In remembrance of Cpl. Joey Cantrell 4-4-07)
Garnet Jenkins
June 22, 2007
Please know how Deeply Sorry I am, for the loss of this Brave Young Soldier, Pfc. Joshua S. Modgling.
As a parent, who has lost a daughter suddenly and as a sister, who has lost a brother to war, I am aware of the deep and devastating pain that you are experiencing. The overwhelming heartache, seems to surface through our shock, as the time passes.
Please hang on to your Faith and know that you will get through this. Ever so softly and slowly, time does heal.
May Joshua Rest Safely now, in the Loving Care of God and know that he Will Never Be Forgotten and may the Peace of God will be with the Modgling family.
I am the sister, of such a Young Hero, who made the Ultimate Sacrifice in Vietnam, many years ago.
"Cast thy burden upon the Lord,
and He shall sustain thee."
~ Psalm 55:22 ~
I sincerely hope that you can feel the thoughts of caring and support that surround you today and in the days ahead, as this Country Mourns with you, for Someone Very Precious to you, Who Is A Hero to all of us.
You are in my thoughts and prayers.
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