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Eric M. Holke

Eric Holke Obituary

SERGEANT ERIC M. HOLKE of the California National Guard from Riverside died on July 15th 2007 while serving our nation in Iraq. He grew up in Riverside and Crestline. He graduated from Rim of the World High School in 1995. Eric was interested in helping children and becoming a Teacher or a documentary producer. Eric had been enrolled in college and worked as a Teacher's Assistant for the Riverside County Office of Education. He worked with autistic children in one of the Special Needs Programs, before this deployment. Eric had served two previous tours, one in Afghanistan and one in Iraq. Eric had been discharged after his second tour due to an injury he had received after returning from Iraq. Eric dedicated himself to get medically cleared to reenlist again in the California National Guard. He insisted that he needed to provide a good life for his new family and to serve his country. Eric was called up in December of 2006 to serve his country once again in Iraq. He is survived by his wife Cassidhe and son Steven, a very large family which includes but is not limited to; His Parents Jack Holke and Nancy Holscher, his sister Erin, his Grandmother Maggie, Uncle Chris and Aunt Monika Holke, their children Shaun and Sabrina and their spouses, Aunt Karen and Uncle Ron Hart and their children Danny and Jeremy, Uncle Matt and Aunt Debbie Holke and their children Ryan, Tyler and Jacob, along with the other family members of the Holke/Hart Clan. In addition he is remembered by a circle of friends who's size and devotion speak to the positive and lasting impact he has made in a life so short. Among, but not limited to, these friends are, Ken & Becky, Jake & Robin, Papa Bean, Jenny, Craig & Lori, Stewart & Janet, Eytan, Jim C, Laura & Shawn, Art and many, many more. Those wishing to make a donation to the family or send condolences may do so by contacting the family's Casualty Officer, Sgt 1st Class Ronald Mays at March Air Reserve Base at 951-656-2011. Services were held at 1100 on Sunday, July 22, 2007 at Evans-Brown Mortuary in Sun City, California. He was laid to his final rest in the Riverside Veterans Cemetery Next to a sapling tree. There are those in life whose mere existence makes our own better in ways that we cannot quantify or point to. It is not any specific thing they did, but merely the act of being themselves that was the gift they gave us. We know it, deeply and painfully when they are gone. Eric M. Holke was one of those rare souls. The hole in our lives his death has caused will never be completely filled, for only he would fit there.

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Published by The Press-Enterprise from Jul. 21 to Jul. 27, 2007.

Memories and Condolences
for Eric Holke

119 Entries

T Tran

July 18, 2017

One of the best soldier I have ever got to served with.
Thanks and God bless Holke!

September 15, 2013

In memory & honor of Eric. I will always be grateful to him for his service and sacrifice for our country.

Evelyn Jarrard

June 25, 2013

Eric was a great man I didn't really know him that while but I decided to join the military because I know that one day he will look down on me even though I am going into the navy and say great job you did it. Eric you are my hero I miss you more and more each day one of these days I am going to carry the army flag in your honor

Lane Thompson

January 3, 2012

Eric,

just a note to tell you that you are not forgotten. There isnt a day that goes by that I do not think of you. I hope your family is doing as well as they can without you. God bless.

Sgt. Lane Thompson

SPC Jimmy Rebossio-Burns, CA ARNG

December 31, 2011

Happy New Year brother... You are still remembered, never forgotten.

DANIEL CACOPARDO

December 30, 2011

HOLKE, NOT A DAY GOES BY THAT I DONT THINK ABOUT THE TIMES WE HAD IN TRAINING AND IN IRAQ. YOU WERE A GOOD MAN AND I HOPE THAT YOUR FAMILY IS DOING WELL. WE MISS YOU HOLKE AND UNTIL THE DAY WE MEET AGAIN JUST KEEP SMILING DOWN UPON US BRO!!!

Peggy Childers

July 15, 2011

To the family and friends of Sgt. Eric M. Holke:
Please accept my remembrance of Eric on the anniversary of his passing and know that he will never be forgotten.

Erin Holke

July 16, 2010

I love you Eric

Peggy Childers

July 15, 2010

To the family and friends of Sgt. Eric M. Holke:
Remembering Eric on the anniversary of his passing. May our fallen heroes never be forgotten!
Peggy Childers
"Don't Let The Memory Of Them Drift Away"
www.IraqWarHeroes.org

SSG Douglas

May 31, 2010

SGT. Eric M. Holke.

I remeber you buddy!

Kendra Moody

May 28, 2010

Eric, (Aka Gunter, Akaa Goonie-tar)

It has been some time since you were taken from us, but I still think about you often. I remember us sitting around the computer watching red vs blue. (They're just making up times!) hehehe! I remember us making your newest faire costume and your plans for your patchwork costume. There were so many good times, it is sad that they were cut so short. There is so much that has gone on since you were lost..so much I wish you were around to be a part of. I miss you goonie-tar. Thank you for what you have done for all of us and thank you for being a part of my life. I shall never again know a friend who is as memorable as you! I hope one day my son grows up to be a strong and caring man just like you were.

I love and miss you.
-Kendra

Daniel Cacopardo

August 3, 2009

Man its hard to believe thats its been two years since Ive seen Holke..I think about him all the time and what good memories we have before and during OIF.. I know hes still watchin over all of us. I still pray for his family that they keep there heads high and continue to praise his heroism!! WE MISS YOU HOLKE!!!

Eric & Cassidhe @ Koroneberg

July 19, 2009

Eric, Cassidhe & Otto

July 19, 2009

Eric & Cassidhe's Wedding Day 01272009

July 19, 2009

The Holkes at the Museum 2006

July 19, 2009

Peggy Childers

July 15, 2009

To the family of Sgt. Eric M. Holke:
Eric gave the ultimate sacrifice and will be held in the hearts of Americans forever. I cannot and will not let our fallen heroes be forgotten. My deepest sympathy to you. "Some gave all."
Peggy Childers
"Don't Let The Memory Of Them Drift Away"
www.IraqWarHeroes.org

Chuck Spitler

April 1, 2009

Hello Eric. a.k.a. Gunther,

This is your ol' friend, The Baron. As we are about to begin another Festival season at your beloved Koroneburg, just know that you are in our thoughts and that we will NEVER forget you. We know that you watch over us and your happy, beautiful spirit is among us. We love you, dear friend!

SSG Douglas

March 31, 2009

My best wishes for the family of SGT Holke. I served with him at the time (2nd Plt). I remember him as always having a smile on his face and in a great mood.

Michael Chambers

February 23, 2009

I just recently found out about what happened to Eric. I remember him from junior high and high school, we hung out a lot in junior high but drifted apart during high school. I remember him being my first friend when I moved up to Crestline in 7th grade. I was(still am) very shy and he was one of those to reach out when on my own I could not introduce myself and talk to anyone. He was a good person with a big heart. He was always nice and gentle to everyone.

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December 30, 2008

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Mark Boyer

December 11, 2008

My deepest sypathy to Eric's wife and family. I did not know Eric nor do I know his family, but I'm also from Crestline and I want to let his family know our thoughts are with them.

Jesse Silva

October 17, 2008

Eric its been too long since we shared joy in your company, I am proud to have served along side you and had the honor to say that I knew you. I wish your family all the best in hopes that tomorrow only gets better and brighter knowing your in good hands now. Till we meet again.
Sgt. Jesse E. Silva
A. Co 1/160th INF.

Cassidhe Holke

August 4, 2008

ONE MILE FOR EVERY SERVICE MEMBER KILLED
IN OPERATION IRAQI FREEDOM.

Beginning Flag Day, June 14, 2008, a dedicated team of runners will run across America from Fort Irwin, CA to Arlington National Cemetery, one mile for every Soldier, Sailor, Airmen, and Marine killed in Operation Iraqi Freedom. For ten weeks, team members will mark each mile with an American flag and signcard in an apolitical reflection of remembrance of each service member.

Please see this Website:

www.runforthefallen.org Look under "the service men" on the home page, his name and photo is on day 61 August 14

Mandy Joye

July 21, 2008

Eric, I have been sooo busy lately with planning the wedding that I havent been able to come on here and give some respect.

I have been thinking of you and you are remembered and very respected by both Me and Mike.

It was great to see your mom and family this last week you would be sooo proud of how strong your family is being, we all miss ya!

Big Dog

July 17, 2008

Thank you for your service to our country. May God bless you and provide comfort for your family.

Cassidhe Holke

July 17, 2008

My Dearest,

It was a year ago that you were taken from us. Your son had a very hard week as I did.

I think of you every day, every second. Not a day goes by where I do not cry for you, my love. We miss our prankster, Steven misses the bonding fights and tosses into the pool. I miss my knight in dented armor and co-conspirator.

Your dad, grandmother and your extended family which have kept in contact with me and our friends are all missing you.

'Til death do us part were part of our wedding vows; I may be separated from you now, but I will always be your love and you will always be part of our life. I love you and I always will.

Monika Holke

July 17, 2008

Our dearest Eric
This was a hard week, we miss and love you so. Your sister, mom, mandy, some of your dearest friends and your "aunt monika" all visited you on your birthday. My little angel we think of you everyday. Love your aunt monika

Chuck Spitler

July 16, 2008

Hello Eric,

It was a year ago that I heard the sad news. You are missed a LOT, and we know you watch over us always. We, your friends and your Koroneburg family, will NEVER forget you!

Love,
The Baron

Rebecca Fearn

July 15, 2008

Eric, it was a year ago today that you were taken from us. I'm missing you a lot today. I'm thinking about you.

I have told so many people about you. I am just so proud to have known you and I treasure the six years of friendship that we shared.

Good-bye and good luck to you, my friend.

In Memory of Eric ~ (Debra Estep)

July 15, 2008

Holding you all in my thoughts and prayers.

The Wind on The Downs

“I like to think of you as brown and tall,
As strong and living as you used to be,
In khaki tunic, Sam Brown belt and all,
And standing there and laughing down at me.
Because they tell me, dear, that you are dead,
Because I can no longer see your face,
You have not died, it is not true, instead
You seek adventure in some other place.
That you are round about me, I believe;
I hear you laughing as you used to do,
Yet loving all the things I think of you;
And knowing you are happy, should I grieve?
You follow and are watchful where I go.”

(Written by Marian Allen during World War l )

Two lines that I wish you to keep near your heart…….

“You seek adventure in some other place.
That you are round about me, I believe”

I did not know Eric, but I am remembering
his service. He is my hero. !

~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~

The Other Side

i'm over on the other side
where life and death softly divide.
left my skin and bones behind
now i'm over on the other side.

can you feel me there with you?
my breath is gone but i'm not through.
loved you then and i still do
from over on the other side.

i can fly. really fly.
below the earth ... all through the sky.
tell em all i did not die.
i'm just over on the other side.

it's good here on the other side.
the sweetest songs...the bluest skies.
thank you for the tears you cried
but it's good here on the other side.

i can fly. really fly. below the earth...all through the sky.
tell em all i did not die.
i'm just over on the other side

the world is smaller than a needle's eye.
where life and death softly divide.
when you leave your skin and bones behind
i'll be waiting on the other side.

i can fly. really fly. below the earth ... all through the sky.
go tell em all i did not die.
i'm just over on the other side.

Song lyrics by Don Conoscenti
C Desert Muse/SESAC
www.donconoscenti.com
(Used with permission)

“I hope it brings great comfort to any and all.
Peace on you. DonCon” 4-2008

The Other Side –
(To hear the song)
http://tinyurl.com/3o8gol

Sincerely,

Deb Estep ~ Ohio
Proud Air Force Mom SSgt Vince – Lackland AFB
Proud Air Force MIL SrA Dana – Randolph AFB

Remembering The Fallen – Blog
http://tinyurl.com/3z8p55

Angel and soldier drawing I have shared here.
http://tinyurl.com/6gey8b

June 30, 2008

You are remembered and respected. Thank you Sgt Holke!

Allen Kephart

June 2, 2008

I also wanted to mention that the Jamboree Days parade will be held in Crestline starting in top town and ending at the 7-11 on Saturday, July 5, 2008. If I get my way, I would like to set up at the Lake Gregory Coffee Company on Lake Drive. The parade starts at 10 a.m.

Allen Kephart

June 2, 2008

Eric, you are one of many heroes that has died in the line of duty to this great country. It was a priveledge to know you. I will be thinking of you when I announce the parade at the Jamboree Days Festival in Crestline. Unfortunately, due to the extreme fire danger (and the fact that there were two major fires that hit the area last fall) there will be no fireworks show over Lake Gregory this year. Too bad. I was going to mention you at the fireworks show. Maybe they will have one next year. The show was cancelled from 2002-2004 for the same reason. I hear also that the annual run for Sgt. Landacker, who was from nearby Big Bear and also died in duty of his country, will be held in September. I hope to participate in that in your memory this year.

Rebecca Fearn

May 28, 2008

Every year at the Koroneburg Renaissance Festival, we hold a ceremony on Memorial Day to honor our fallen. Our faire family contains many active and retired members of all branches of the military and those of us who have not served hold a very high regard for these brave men and women and for the love that we all bear for this country.
This year, the ceremony was held in honor of Eric. His wife, Cassie, was given a seat of honor for the proceedings. His good friend, Ken, who spoke at his funeral, carried the American flag, flanked by two sword-carrying guards. The five flags for each branch of the military were present, their flagbearers men or women who had served or are still serving in that branch.
The procession began at the front gate at a funerary pace to the slow steady beat of the battle drums and ended at the arena.
Eric's story was told and his wife was given a laurel wreath in his honor.
I was given the tremendous honor of singing a song I had written for Eric.
After the twenty-one gun salute, Eric's cannon was fired. Last year, he had been on the crew of that cannon of the Memorial Day ceremony. When the master of ceremonies had discovered he would be shipping out the next day, he asked that Eric come forward and be honored. He refused to leave his post.
Then "Taps" was played by two trumpeters. The procession left the arena and marched up to the front gate where the American flag was returned to its pole. It was raised quickly to the top of pole then sank solemnly to half mast.
It is the tradition that the planning and production of the ceremony is passed on to a new group each year. At five o'clock, the flag was hoisted to the top of the pole again then slowly lowered. It was folded and given to the head of the planning for the ceremony this year. She in turn called forward the captain of Eric's group, Das Heigilstrum Fahnlein, and the flag and the responsibility for the next year's ceremony was gifted to them. One of their active military members was presented the flag to carry. He was then flanked by the captain and second-in-command who drew their swords to guard the flag on the march back to their encampment.
Eric, you have not been forgotten by your faire family who love you and miss you terribly. We have done what honor we could contrive to do to our hero and friend.
And as your German comrades say when marching into battle:
NOCH VIETER!
(Ever Onward!)

Vickie Pilotti

May 25, 2008

Eric, My heart is heavy today especially thinking of you this Memorial Weekend. I have your picture at work and see your face every morning when I start my day. You are my hero! Thank you for all that you have done to protect us.

Your Aunt Vickie

Splintereye

May 14, 2008

Eric, the world won't be the same without you. We miss you and wish you were here at Faire with us!

Diego Ruiz

April 29, 2008

Dear Erik you dont no me but your friend Eric hill sended us a flag from iraq

Erin Holke

April 2, 2008

Eric I went to see you today and just wanted to say I love you and Miss you very much your sister Erin

Eric with some guys from his unit

February 4, 2008

Felix & Eric in Iraq

February 4, 2008

Ramon De Peralta

January 29, 2008

For SGT. Holke
You're always a good soldier who has a motivated will and a positive goal in everytime that you want to accomplished a mission or task. May your dreams follow you in Eternity with our loving Heavenly Father.

You will be missed.
God Bless to your Family.

Weeping may endure for a night, but joy cometh in the morning.” (Ps. 30:5.)

SGT. De Peralta, Ramon.
A Co. 1/160th Infantry
APO, AE 09327

January 15, 2008

Mandy Joye

October 31, 2007

I was really thinking of everyone today all the family and friends and wondering how everyone was doing? I wanted to let you know you are still in my thoughts and prayers!

Kimberly Rea

October 25, 2007

I first met Eric when I believe he had just turned 19. It was his first season playing at the Renaissance Pleasure Faire. I still remember how young he was and how shy. I knew Eric off and on through many years, and always remember the big goofy and highly infectious grin. No matter how much time had passed since I had least bumped into him, he always made me smile. I last saw him in 2005 as he was being discharged and was so surprised by how much he had grown in the Army. I am saddened beyond telling by the news of his death, but also so glad that I had a chance to know him all these years. It also saddens me to know he left behind a wife and child, but this pain too is tempered with how glad I am that he and his wife found some happiness together. I will miss him always.

Vickie Pilotti

October 24, 2007

I discovered this site today. I am one of Eric's aunts. I think of him everyday and am so saddened by his loss. You will be forever in my thoughts. You gave your life to protect all of us. I look forward to seeing your again.
Love always

Peggie Writtenhouse

October 4, 2007

My deepest and most heartfelt sympathy to the family of Eric Holke. Thanks for your Soldier's Courage, Service and Dedication to our Country and Freedom.
The price he and his family have paid, will never be forgotten.
In the days to come if you find yourself feeling like you can‘t go on , recall the years and days you were blessed by his presence, this is the one thing that cannot be taken away from you are your memories, may you find comfort there and may God’s Peace strengthen you through the difficult days ahead and the emptiness in your hearts!
I am the Sister of a hero, who made the Ultimate Sacrifice in 2005 in Taji, Iraq and time does make it hurt less.

"And God shall wipe away every tear from their eyes,
there shall be no more death, nor sorrow, nor crying,
there shall be no more pain.
For the former things have passed away."
Revelations 21:4

NOW SERVING IN GOD’S ARMY
In His Memory,
Master Sgt James F. Hayes
1st Battalion, 320th Field Artillery Regiment, 101st Airborne Division Fort Campbell KY

donna post

August 25, 2007

Eric, I am so sorry about this. I will keep your memory in my heart.

Al and Wannie Hart

August 21, 2007

Eric will always have a place in our hearts; for the little boy who grew up into a good man and for the great hero he became on behalf of his country.

August 19, 2007

Thank you for the sacrifice made by Sgt Holke and the sacrifice made by everyone who loves and misses him! May God bless all of you!!

Cynthie Hart-Vialpando

August 6, 2007

Eric, my brilliant cousin, we will miss you. You were always the one with all the "correct" answers. You are our hero and we will miss you always. To Cassidhe - we are blessed to have you as a part of our family.

Eric we love you and miss you very much!!

Andra Colman

August 6, 2007

We are so proud of Eric and his honorable service to this country. Eric will be missed.
James, Andra, and Logan Colman

Beth

August 3, 2007

I pray for God to bless his soul and give him peace. And for his family and friends to have comfort and the strength they need to go on with their beloved Eric.

1LT Keith Wolowodiuk

August 3, 2007

My condolences to the family of SGT Holke at this time, and to his wife and a long time friend Cassidhe. My platoon here has a few members that heard of SGT Holke's passing and we had a moment of silence for him during our train up before we head over. It's a loss for us all to have a fellow brother-in-arms removed from our ranks.

"Honesta Mors Turpi Vita Potior"

Hannah Collett

July 31, 2007

I am so very sorry for your lose! Eric was an amazing man and an amazing to friend to so many in Alpha Troop 1-17 Cav at Fort Bragg. He will be GREATLY missed and I know alot of soliders who are very hurt to hear this news!! I hope you all will be comforted by the many people who knew and loved Eric! May Peace be with you! Hannah Collett

Katherine Pugh

July 31, 2007

My only chance to know Eric was when he videotaped my daughter and son in law's (Allen and Hannah Collett) wedding in August 2004. He was very kind and wouldn't accept payment for his time. I am so very sorry for all the sadness you are all experiencing now. Eric is a hero to so many.

Daniel Cacopardo

July 31, 2007

Man there is so much to say about Sgt Holke. He was a very caring man and never once put anyone down. If anyone ever had questions about anything regarding the military they knew Holke was the one with all the answers...Its hard to say goodbye to a brother but I know that he is in our hearts and that he is watching over everyone of these convoys that roll out of the wire... Holke you will alwayz be remembered as a funny, smart, laid back and an outstanding solider. You will alwayz be remembered. To his family and his wife I am so sry that this happened to Eric. I was speechless when I found out. My thoughts and prayers are with you all everyday and everynite!!!! Holke I will see u again someday buddy!!!!!

Laurence Simpson

July 30, 2007

I dont know how to say how I feel. I am at a loss of words. Eric was like a brother to me and in my heart he always has a huge place. When he came to my uit he took me under his wing and started teaching me things that are crucial to working over here. Over 90 percent of what I know about the military came from him. I cried so hard being part of the honor guard and on the night that it happened. Eric I love you and will never forget you. To his family im so sorry for the loss of a great person and pray for your comfor every night. Knowing that Eric is watching over us on missions is a blessing. It makes me feel safer by a hundred times. I will never forget you and no will anyone who has ever met you. As long as you are remembered you have never left.

Terry Slaght

July 30, 2007

I knew and live with Eric for 4 years while we were in Ft. Knox and Ft. Bragg. We were like brothers. I thank god that I got the opertunity to spend time with Eric. He was one of the greatest men I ever known. I would trade anything just to see and talk to him again.

Gary Allain

July 29, 2007

Sgt. Eric M. Holke
you are my hero
may god keep you in his arms forever.

Gary Allain

July 29, 2007

Sgt. Eric M. Holke
you are my hero
may god keep you in his arms forever.

July 29, 2007

Eric is a sweet Angel walking the golden streets of heaven alongside my brother Tommy, a fallen Marine. They will always be happy, always be young and always watch over us.
May God Bless Eric's family and Friends. With Love, T~

Rebecca Fearn

July 29, 2007

I met Eric, or I should say Gunter, six years ago at the Koroneburg Renaissance Festival right before he was to leave for his first tour of duty. Over the years, he left and returned twice. This time he didn't come back.
I regret that I was unable make it back to this year's Koroneburg to see him. I couldn't make it to the funeral so this is my good-bye.
Eric showed a courage I have never seen, a willingness to return to war despite the risks to fight for what he believed in.
I wrote the following for him. It says everything far better.

MEETING AT THE CROSSROADS

As I walked one day
Down to the crossroads
I met a man
We walked together a while
And he talked of life
Of all he roads we'd tread
As we shared those dusty miles

And he said he took the road to war
Maybe ne'er to come this way again
So when the time came to go our seperate ways
We did so as good friends

And we parted at the crossroads
Good luck to you, my friend
I will think on you as I travel on
Until we meet again

Several miles
And years down the road
We met again
Our paths crossed once more
We both had changed
Yet he more than I
There was a grimness that he bore

But he spoke not of that road to war
Just said he went that way again
So when the time came to go our seperate ways
I said, "The best of luck to you, my friend."

And we parted at the crossroads
Good luck to you, my friend
I will think on you as I travel on
Until we meet again

Then came a day
On a distant road
I met a friend
Who wept full sore
And I asked him why
He said, "Our soldier friend
Will come this way no more."

For he fell on that road of war
He will never come back again
We have truly gone our seperate ways
Good-bye and good luck to you, my friend

Allen Kephart

July 28, 2007

To any family members who may be reading this.

I continue to pray for you and Eric's soul.

Allen Kephart

nancy holscher

July 28, 2007

May God protect you now, and may you bring laughter to the heavenly realms, we will miss you here, and try to get along with a big hole in our lives/ Your mom
Nancy Holscher

July 28, 2007

If this person can stand in battle to ensure my freedom, then I will stand in grief with his/her family to honor him/her. For every fallen HERO there is a bright star that shines in the evening sky to remind us of the cherished gift we were given – even if for too short a time.
My heart breaks again as I sign yet another guest book of another courageous young soldier who gave their life so selflessly. I wish I never found myself in a position to have to sign another guestbook for the rest of my life, but I promised Le Ron A. Wilson (a dear friend KIA 7/6/07, 18yrs old) that neither he nor any like him would be forgotten and so I will continue until the day there is no longer the need.

PROUD MOTHER OF A U.S. SOLDIER
Althea (NY)

Robin Margolis

July 27, 2007

When I think about Eric, the thing I remember most is the laughter in his eyes. He was a genuine person, what you saw is what you got and you immediately knew you could trust him. I knew Cassidhe first and my heart and the heart of many others leapt for joy when she found someone who would love her the way she deserved to be loved. Eric was that man and he will be truly missed. Save a seat for us at the Star Wars rollplaying table for when we all meet again :) Goodbye my friend.

Heath Kraynak

July 27, 2007

Our sympathy and prayers to Eric's wife and son, and to the entire Holke family. We are grateful for his service and honored to call him family.

Lydia Temmen

July 27, 2007

To The Holke Family,

My thoughts and prayers go out to you for your loss. I pray for these men and women every day. They keep us safe and protect us by putting their lives on the line. I just wanted you to know that someone who didn't know Eric Holke, really appreciates what he did for all of us.

Kelly Arevalo

July 26, 2007

My heart goes out to Eric's family and friends. Eric certainly earned the title of hero and will be remembered as such.

God Bless,
Kelly Arevalo
(Rim/95 Classmate)

Erik, Jammie & Aiden Hiller

July 26, 2007

We are very saddened at this tragic loss. Our thoughts and prayers go out to his wife, son and the rest of his family and friends.

Apryll Anderson

July 26, 2007

MEMORIES WILL GIVE YOU THE STRENGTH YOU WILL NEED TO PROCEDE!
GOD BLESS!

OUR FALLEN HERO!
SGT. JEREMY E. DEPOTTEY
KIA SEPT. 11, 2006

Monika Holke

July 26, 2007

Dear Family and Friends,
I do not know what to say. I loved Eric with all my heart, I will always miss him but I have to let my Angel go.
Eric's Aunt Monika

Jill Morse

July 26, 2007

My heart goes out to Eric's wife. His mother,Nancy,is a good friend of mine and my prayers are for the whole family.It was a beautiful ceremony.The Patriot Guard folks were wonderful and so honoring.I was proud to be able to attend representing my AirForce unit.

Daniel Wood

July 26, 2007

I didn't know Eric personally but I am honored to be invited to sign his guest book because he didn't know me personally either and he sacrificed his very life to keep mine safe. God bless Spc. Eric M. Holke.

Kat Conway

July 25, 2007

To my dearest Jack, we have worked together for a very long time and the one thing I always knew about you was that you had a wonderful son. Although, I never knew him I was always curious about what he was up to and was very proud to have known someone whose son flew to Afghanistan to protect our country after 2001. When he returned I felt relieved for you and just thrilled when he got married. I use to always tell people that my webmasters son fought in Afghanistan just after 9/11 which would always impress them. Your son was very patriotic and we need more men like that in our country. I am so sorry for your loss, but his legacy and the way he conducted himself in this life is something that can be very proud of!

Sergeant Eric M. Holke

July 25, 2007

Matt Hinkle

July 25, 2007

May the sight you have been given protect those who need to be watched over

Eric Barron

July 25, 2007

Lead the way. All the way. Erik was a man of action, not words. We will miss you.

Michael Flood

July 25, 2007

A great loss to all His frends and Loved ones

Ronn Massie

July 24, 2007

God bless the family and friends of Eric.
You will all be in our prayers.
Thank you Eric for being such a brave hero.

(In remembrance of Cpl. Joey Cantrell 4-4-07)

Sandy Ross (Beach)

July 24, 2007

Holke Family,

Growing up as an extended part of your family created many wonderful memories for me. I will now cherish all of those memories.

tricia luttrull

July 24, 2007

Thank you Spc. Eric M. Holke. You gave your all for my freedom. God bless your family.

Matthew Wimberley

July 24, 2007

Erin,I'm sorry about your brother..I only got to meet him once or twice and he was the nicest,most accepting person..My condolences and prayers are with you and your family..

Gena (Green) Runnels

July 24, 2007

Jack, Nancy, Erin and Family~ our thoughts and prayers are with you in this time of sorrow. Eric was protecting and serving our country, and we're thankful for him and the hundreds of thousands of other men and women who continue to do so. Eric will be their guardian angel flying along with them.

Tom Gugliuzza-Smith

July 24, 2007

My heartfelt sympathy to the Holke family in the loss of Eric. I did not know Eric, but my heart is broken and I am saddened for your loss of such a fine young person and hero. May God bring you peace in your heart as you reflect on all the wonderful memories you hold so close. Please know that you are in my heart and prayers. My heart was touched by the many wonderful/beautiful things written about you. Eric you are my hero and you will NEVER be forgotten.
I send each of you a hug from the most inner part of my heart.
Love and Peace
Tom

"To live in the hearts
of those you leave behind
is never to die"
~Robert Orr~

Erin Holke

July 24, 2007

I loved my brother very much and i am grateful i have my sister-in-law she is an awesome strong girl and my nephew i am glad you guys were in my brothers life and also in mine my brother touched alot of peoples hearts and will never be forgotten he was truly one of a kind and there will never be another one like him he is a hero and he was to before he joined the army because he was my big brother i miss him very much and will for the rest of my life I LOVE YOU ERIC YOU WILL ALWAYS BE IN MY HEART FOREVER

Captain Scott Laverty

July 23, 2007

Sergeant Eric Holke will forever be missed. In the short time he was assigned to the 1-160th Infantry, he changed the lives of many. As the 40th ID Commander, MG Combs stated, "he was a man who put others first, a soldier to be proud of". Soldiers in the 1-160th Infantry will be forever changed as will I.

shawnee (Austin, TX)

July 23, 2007

For the millions of Americans who don't have access to internet...I want to thank you for your sacrifice.
You are an American hero who will not be forgotten .RIP

Joel (Connor) Hill

July 23, 2007

I'm at a loss for words. When Ken called me and told me I didn't know what to say, just sat there in disbelief and couldn't say a word.

I still don't know what to say. I'm going to miss you. I'm going to miss talking with you during coffee, I'm going to miss fighting with you out on the battlefield.

Thank you for everything you've done. I'll never forget you.

Sabrina Lemmon

July 23, 2007

“The Final Roll Call”

We thought of you with love today
But that is nothing new.

We thought about you yesterday
And days before that too.

We think of you in silence
We often speak your name.

Now all we have are memories
And your picture in a frame.

Your memory is our keepsake
With which we’ll never part.

God has you in his keeping
We have you in our hearts.

Author Unknown.

To Eric’s father Jack, mother Nancy, sister Erin, grandma Maggie, Michelle, wife Cassidhe, Steven, and all of Eric’s aunts, uncles, and cousins My thoughts and prayers are with everyone.
There will always be a special place in my heart for my Cousin Eric Holke.

Mandy Joye

July 23, 2007

A Soldier's Prayer
(author unknown)

Do not stand at my grave and weep
I am not there; I do not sleep.

I am a thousand winds that blow,
I am the diamond glints on snow,
I am the sun on ripened grain,
I am the gentle autumn rain.

When you awaken in the morning's hush
I am the swift uplifting rush
Of quiet birds in circled flight.
I am the soft stars that shine at night.

Do not stand at my grave and cry,
I am not there; I did not die.

Eric, I can truly say was one of the greatest people that I have ever met in my life. His smile, dependability, loyalty and sense of humor was always 100%.
Eric was that kind of guy that was truly intrested in being there to help another person. Words cannot say how special he truly was. I have been a friend of his for little over 8 yrs now and am truly grateful as to have had him in my life for that time. I had such a peacful, yet sad feeling yesterday as I stood beside his resting place while they buried my friend because I know that he is going to go to a place were he is able to relax and watch over and protect us all at the same time it is hard to not be able to have another actual conversation with him again.
He really always saw only the best in people and really helped to show you the same thing. If Eric sensed that something was wrong or you were having a hard time with something he really wanted to help you work it out and would not leave until he knew that you felt better :) It is so amazing the amount of lives that Eric had touched and made a impact on, You cannot say that about to many people.
What a great friend that I and so many others will not get to see again for a very long time...
We will miss him and hold his memories close to our hearts.

Rayanne Kirk

July 23, 2007

Cassidhe, and the rest of the family, Eric will be missed by all who had even the least acquaintance with him. I am sorry for your loss.

Rhonda Wright

July 23, 2007

Cassidhe

I am so sorry for your loss. My son Spc. Laurence Simpson is in the same unit in Kuwait and is a friend of Eric's. He spoke often of your husband and referred to him as his "Buddy Holke". He asked me to send his condolences and to say that he is proud to have known Eric. I also wanted you to know how thankful I was that Eric befriended Larry and took him under his wing when they were on drills together. Larry had the honor of being a part of the 21 gun salute and service they had for Eric in Kuwait. He will be missed by all who knew him. Please feel free to call me if there is anything I can do for you and your son.

Sincerely
Rhonda Wright

Cindy "Rowan" McLean

July 23, 2007

I do not have words that can express how I feel right now. I am very sad to lose a good friend, even though I only saw him once a year since I moved to AZ. I am proud of what he did for our country and the way he treated his family and friends.

My thoughts and prayers go to Cassidhe and Steven. I am very sorry I missed his services this past weekend. I did everything in my power to try and make it out there. Unfortunately employers do not understand.

Eric, I will miss you. Rest in peace my friend.

Deanna -Antares

July 23, 2007

Eric will be very missed at Koroneburg... Cassidhe and Steven, you're always welcome in our camp, and will always have a place at our fire.

Cassidhe Holke

July 23, 2007

My husband was the greatet man I have ever known aside from my own father. He was an extremely intelligent, thoughtful and loving man, who always put us first from day one. He claimed my son as his own and was always there for Steven. Giving him advice on how to handle any kind of situation our boy might find. To say he was devoted to us is an understatement. I know I will never meet another man like him ever in this lifetime.

The two short years we had with him were truly a blessing. The only comforts in this horrible time are that he and I will meet again, I truly believe that.

My heart and prayers are with his family and friends. Without them I would have laid down and died when the Chaplain came to the house of our friend where we were having a birthday party.

Since that horrible day last week, the National Guard has been there to guide us through the process of bringing my man home and making sure my son and I were taken care of. I know that I have many more "brothers" and "family" than I have had in my life. Amongst our reenactment friends and family I now truly have the military family to rely on for moral support.

Thank you Chaplain for bringing me the news before anyone else did. Captain Laverty, thank you for bringing my man home to his family. Lastly, I send my thanks to both you, Captain Laverty and to Staff Sergeant Tsunokai for assisting me in finding his wedding ring; I only hope we will find it, so that I can rmemeber the happiest day of our lives.

I will never forget the love Eric and I had for each other, nor the outpouring of love and concern shown to us by his unit, and of our family and extended family members.

N Ringlee

July 22, 2007

I would like to post a quick note today, to be followed up with more detail in the next few days, concerning Sergeant Eric M. Holke. We buried Eric today at the Riverside National Cemetery with full military honors. In attendance were his family and many friends whom Eric had touched during his short life. The family and friends of Eric would like to thank the California National Guard for it's exceptional service in helping us all celebrate and remember Eric. Eric's elegy was delivered by Major General Collins of the California National Guard, and is a fitting testimony to the exceptional character and courage of this fine soldier. We will post some of the General's comments in a few days. He knew Eric and was able to give a touching, personal testimony of this fine soldier's service. Here are some of the comments from the program describing Eric's exceptional life:

Sergeant Eric Morgen Holke , California National Guard, from Riverside died on July 15th 2007 while serving our nation in Iraq.

He grew up in Riverside and Crestline. He graduated from Rim of the World High School in 1995. Eric was interested in helping children and becoming a teacher. Before his most recent deployment to Iraq, Eric worked with autistic children in Riverside and was enrolled in college. Eric had served two previous tours with the 82nd Airborne Division, one in Afghanistan and one in Iraq. Eric was discharged after his second combat tour with the 82nd Airborne due to an injury he received in Iraq. He dedicated himself to getting medically cleared to reenlist in the California National Guard. He insisted that he needed to provide a good life for his new family and to continue to serve his country. Eric was called up in December to serve his country again in Iraq.

Eric is survived by his wife Cassidhe and son Steven. In addition he is remembered by a circle of friends whose size and devotion speak to the positive and lasting impact he has made in a life so short. Among, but not limited to, these friends are, Ken, Jake, Papa Bean, Jenny, Craig, Stewart, Eyton, Jim C, and many, many more.

Sergeant Eric Holke was posthumously promoted to his current grade, Sergeant, and was awarded the Bronze Star for his service during the period June 1, 2007 to 15 July, 2007. Among his many other military awards are the Army Achievement Medal and the Distinguished Combat Infantry Badge.

We would like to thank all who have posted such kind and generous comments here.