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Laura Gonzalez
August 8, 2014
Hey Zach, here it is Aug 8th 2014, 7yrs ago today we put you in the ground, still miss you. Michael Hart came by with his wife Michelle to visit us here in Indy. It was nice finally to meet him after all that time we have been communicating by email. Nice young man and new wife. So glad he stopped. We talked lots about you and laughed too. He came for dinner and don't worry he enjoyed it, they both did. I love you, please keep praying for us.
MOH
Laura González
June 5, 2014
Hey Zach another Memorial Day has come and gone. Your boys came again for Gonzopalooza 2014, thats what they are calling it. It is so nice to see them each year. I sure do feel your presence so much during this particular holiday. I hope your proud of us son,for Opening our house to your boys. Its great they stay with us the whole weekend, I know it has been good medicine for us all. Z please pray for us
Love you and miss you so much
MOH
Laura Gonzalez
March 22, 2014
Michael, please stop by. I so much would like to visit with you, and pls when you think of Gonzo you can't help but laugh he was a funny guy. :) If you can come by Memorial Weekend that Sat May 24 @ 11-8:00 pm
MOH
Michael Hartman
April 16, 2013
Gonzo,
I found myself looking at some old deployment pictures the other day and wanted to drop by and tell you hello. As I was looking at them, I thought of you. Not only about what you did for your country and brothers and sisters in arms, but I thought of all of us gathered around a few desks we had put together in english class and you busted out the cards and we started playing poker. It was nice to think about you in all aspects of life. No matter how much we hated being in that class, you were always there to break the silence and add comic relief. I know that you did the same when you were deployed and made the men and women you were stationed with laugh as well. Each day on any military base or post or fort or FOB, the flag is lowered to signal an end to the day. Each individual outside wearing the uniform stands at attention and renders a salute. The salute is to the flag and country we serve and protect and as always, I want to thank you for what you did for both. I'll often want to leave you a message on here but can't find the words but please know you'll never be forgotten. I swear that the next time I'm home I will stop by and visit your parents. I've talked with your mom via email several times over the years and she's extended the invite each time I've told her I was going to be in town. As much as I've wanted to stop by and see them, I guess for me, stopping by and seeing them and your room and all that stuff is a reality I haven't been ready for. Hearing what happened to you as I was in Afghanistan and you were in Iraq was difficult to deal with. Keeping in touch with your family and leaving you messages on here has been my way of dealing with what happened and to visit your home would make it all the more real and I haven't been able to do that. Dealing with your passing and other friends I've lost while serving in the military has been tough but this next time I'm home, I think it's time to say goodbye in person. I miss you man and I'll be seeing your parents here in a few months.
Your friend
Staff Sergeant Michael Hartman, USAF
April 12, 2013
In memory and honor of Zac Gonzalez. We will always remember him.
Laura Gonzalez
December 20, 2012
Z, I miss you and think about you so much, especially during the Holidays. Ahhh yes at Christmas, how you would have a take back pile. Lol..... when you opened a gift you would look at it and if it didn't pass your standards, you would say holding it up and inspecting it, this goes in the take back pile. Lol.... you were so funny my son, miss your humor and miss you the most.
MOH
Katie DuBois
August 29, 2012
Hey Zach-
I've been thinking about you a lot recently. I just want to let you know that even after these past years... you are still very,very missed. I know you are watching over us because I feel it every day. I love you.
August 15, 2012
Gonzo,
Sorry I haven't checked in for a while, as I said last time, I moved from Guam and am now in Alaska. Started a new job in the AF so it's been a nice change of pace. To think that it's been 5 years just doesn't seem right. None of what happened is right but to think it's been that long has me wondering where the time has gone. No matter how much time passes, your life, service and sacrifice still lives on in all those who were fortunate enough to know you. Working in Alaska gives me a daily opportunity to work with the Army which hasn't happened for me for a while so it once again makes me appreciate all that you all do as fellow service members. When I was back in Indy before I moved up here, I didn't get a chance to stop by and see your parents but I will make it by the next time I'm home. As always Gonzo, take care brother and know you'll never be forgotten.
Staff Sergeant Michael Hartman, USAF
Cutting the cake Z
Laura Gonzalez
August 14, 2012
The Cake
Laura Gonzalez
August 14, 2012
retiring flags
Laura Gonzalez
August 14, 2012
Z boys out side May 26th 2012
Laura Gonzalez
August 14, 2012
Flag ceremony
Laura Gonzalez
August 14, 2012
Zach, I can't believe it has been five years. Time does not stop, it just keeps going on no matter what. So those of us who find it difficult to even comphrend saying good bye to a loved one, it still feels like yesterday. Well on a good note, every Memorial Day your boy's are trying to get the band back together. Dad and I are celebrating your life, and open our house and invite your boys every year. Last year four of your boys came, this year seven came and their is talk about more coming next year. I know it is hard for them, but I feel that it is good medicine for the both of us. Vid made the shirts this year Gonzopalooza 2012. Some pics of retirement of flags and cutting the cake with the boys. Z we sure do miss you, I know it is hard for your boys to see us and as we gather for the ceremony I know they reflect on their life with you. Z pray for us.
Love you
MOH
Peggy Childers
August 1, 2012
July 31, 2012
To the family and friends of Spc. Zachariah J. Gonzalez:
Always remembering Zachariah. "Some gave all."
Katie DuBois
April 21, 2012
Hey Zach-
I was thinking of you today. The years pass but we still miss you so much.
Laura Gonzalez
August 27, 2011
Happy Birthday son, we will continue to celebrate the day you arrived and blessed us on Aug 23. We sure do miss you son. Marina baked your favorite pineapple upside down cake and Jake brought the blue bell. Yeah can you believe it Indy finally got blue bell ice cream hooray....We had a nice dinner. Jake keep telling me to make stake for dinner that night that you would have wanted it, I said really? I made crusted talapia, my famous salad and spanish rice all went well and all was good. We sang Happy Birthday Uncle Zachie.
MOH
Zach, Ryan helping Riley blow out your birthday candles on Aug 23.
Laura Gonalez
August 25, 2011
August 3, 2011
Gonzo,
Work has been busy the past few weeks and I wasn't able to get around to dropping by to leave you a message. Another year has now passed and as always your sacrifice still lives on through so many. Your actions and who you were as a person continue to motivate me on a daily basis and I thank you for that. I'll be back in Indy in a few weeks as I PCS to my next base, and I really hope I can stop by and see your parents. I really wish I had been able to do a better job of keeping in touch with you after we got done with school, I can honestly say that school wouldn't have been as memorable if we hadn't had the same schedule. Well, I have to get back to work now, but take care and rest in peace my friend.
Staff Sergeant Michael Hartman, USAF
Laura Gonzalez
August 2, 2011
Hey Zach, I know your doing fine, but it is still hard for us to let you go. We will never forget you and you will always live in our hearts now and forever. We had a celebration in honor of your 4th anniversary with Christ. Seth was here and some family came too. Riley wanted to cut your cake, she always thinks it's a birthday cake and gets excited. We sure do miss you Zach, pray for us.
MOH
Martha Kleinworth Brauer
August 1, 2011
I had a dream about Mary Agnes last night. She was so pretty and happy. It made me think of your son, Benny, and I guess the timing makes sense. I know Zachariah had to be an awesome person. I never met him, but I'll always remember him and be grateful for the sacrifice he made for all of us.
Peggy Childers
July 31, 2011
To the family and friends of Spc. Zachariah J. Gonzalez:
Please accept my remembrance of Zachariah on the anniversary of his passing and know that he will never be forgotten.
DONNA GRIEGO
July 31, 2011
Hi Zachariah, I just dropped in to say that I remember, although I did not have the honor of knowing you, your sacrifice is not forgotten. God be with your loved ones as they remember you, on this the anniversary of your passing.
Laura Gonzlaez
May 30, 2011
Hey, Zach your boy's came by this Memorial Day weekend 2011. Egli, Danielle and their kids, Vidler,Warner and Williams. They stayed at the house with us. Vid slept in the Hero's room. They were all glad to see each other and come to see you and meet us and the rest of your family. Adam, is doing a lot better then the first time he came out to visit. I know it is hard for all of them saying good bye to you and seeing all that they did. Zach they truly love you and miss you. Zach you impacted their lives and I know that they will never forget you. They kept hugging me and dad and calling us Mr & Mrs Gonzo it was very indearing to us, we really felt your spirit here as we always do. This weekend was really special and we let the guy's know that, them being here made us feel even closer to you because you spent the last 14 months with them and spending time with them was good medicine. Zach I hope next year more of your boy's can come by to see you and can help them heal. Miss you so much and Seth being in Afghanistan at this moment isn't easy for us. Love you son.
MOH
November 12, 2010
Gonzo...
Happy Veteran's Day brother. Sorry I'm a day or two late, it was really hard to find the words that would be fitting to leave for you on here. You paid the ultimate price for the country you loved and that won't ever be forgotten. There's not a day that goes by that I don't think about your sacrifice for us as I put on my uniform and really think about what that means. Take care and rest in peace my friend.
Staff Sergeant Michael Hartman, USAF
Laura Gonzalez
November 11, 2010
Hey sorry I just couldn't go to mass at Chatard today, I wish I could have but I didn't have the strength. I guess I needed someone to go with me and some of my friends were busy and others I didn't want to ask. I know being there would even make me feel weaker since you attended most of your H.S. years there. I guess I was just thinking about me and not you. Sorry but this isn't easy at all. I pretty much didn't do a whole lot in the morning I just felt sorry for myself. Then later I spent most of the day in your room going through all your stuff and papers all over again. I think I will be better tomorrow I hope. Thanks Zach for your sacrifice, I miss you terribly. Good night son I love you and please pray for us.
MOH
Ashleigh DuBois
November 11, 2010
I love you and miss you terribly...today being Veteran's day makes it especially difficult. I love you.
RG
August 28, 2010
"AMERICAN People sleep peaceably in their beds at night only because “COURAGEOUS” rough men stand ready to do violence on their behalf."
Thanks for Protecting us and our way of “LIFE”.
"When it hurts to look back & you are too leery to go forward, look beside you and your LOVED one will be there by your side every step of the way."
Peggy Childers
July 31, 2010
To the family and friends of Spc. Zachariah J. Gonzalez:
Remembering Zachariah on the anniversary of his passing. May our fallen heroes never be forgotten!
Peggy Childers
"Don't Let The Memory Of Them Drift Away"
www.IraqWarHeroes.org
Zach we will never forget that freedom has a price,thank you son.
Laura Gonzalez
July 24, 2010
Hey just wanted to say thanks to everyone who will be stopping by to pay their respects to Gonzo this third anniversary. Thanks for befriending him, for honoring him, for loving and respecting him. It doesn't necessarily get easier as time passes,how can one ever forget a loved one? you can't but you sure can honor him and honor his heroism for what he did and what he stood for. One way of honoring Gonzo would be to of course laugh and not take everything so serious. Another is to do good by him and be ever so grateful that you had the opportunity to meet a fine young man/soldier. So next time you are feeling blue or not with it. Think of a favorite Gonzo moment, I do and it stops my crying and makes me laugh and if you listen you can even hear him laugh, the way he did even that was funny. I loved hearing him laugh he enjoyed it so much he actually laughed with such heart and when someone laughs like that they are in a good place and at peace. Thanks again to you all and God Bless you and to those who served along aside of him. Thank you for protecting him and serving our country.
MOH
I Love You Zach
July 20, 2010
Hey Zach. Almost three years man and I still remember sitting in a bunker in Afghanistan getting rocketed when I found out you had fallen. You are a true inspiration to so many, even those of us who serve. You won't ever be forgotten. Rest in peace man.
Staff Sergeant Michael Hartman, USAF
Laura Gonzalez
July 18, 2010
God Bless you son and continue to share your light with loved ones.
MOH
Memorial for fallen Soldiers in Indy/second name from the bottom
Laura Gonzalez
July 18, 2010
Monument of Soldier dedicated to the fallen in Indy
Laura Gonzalez
July 18, 2010
Hey son it is coming up on three years and it is still very difficult to believe. The pain is still here it comes and goes and I guess it will always be that way until I see you again. Here is a monument that put up on the east side of town here in Indy. A soldier and all the fallen soldiers names from Indy etched in glass. Riley waves when we pass by the cemetary. She say's kauckie just the way Jake use to call you when you were little I couldn't believe me ears haaha. Well son I miss you so very much please keep us in your prayers.
Gino,Debroah and Carmen came up and celebrated memorial day with us. Love You
MA
MOH
Mom G.
November 11, 2009
Hey, Zach went to mass this morning at your old school. Bishop Chatard, Ashleigh invited us so it was me, Marina, Riley, Ash, and Mrs DuBois, oh and yeah can you believe it Drew is a Junior! unbelievable how fast time goes by. Riley behaved her self for the most part, she did make some noise I guess she had something to say. Oh Sr. Louise came up to me to say hi, that was nice I haven't seen her in awhile. I wanted to stop by and say Happy Veterans Day and thank you so much for your sacrifice for our country. We are doing what we can and trying our best. Hey say hello to Aunt Mary Agnes and Grandpa for me.
I miss you so much............and I love you very much. Keep an eye out for us and pray for us.
Love
MOH and FOH
P.S. That Riley she is always smiling so I call her Smiley Riley...she is a happy baby, thank God for that.
Laura Gonzalez
August 15, 2009
Hey, I think aobut you and miss you every single day. Zach I don't visit What If Land, because it is what it is! and you can't undo what has happened, so why would I waist my time and energy going there when I know nothing will ever change, and wondering there is not going to bring you back. Besides your with the big chief now, the big G (God) so there is no need for me to ponder anything more. Oh yeah your sister gives me grief from time to time about my hair or if I change something, she say's Ma! Zach told me he does not like your hair and she laughs chuckle chuckle hahaha. Then I just amuse her and say oh really that is funny he just told me that he liked my hair and that it looked good. When she disagrees with something she automatically say's Zach said no he doesn't like that. Funny how she is always putting in your two sense, but don't worry Zach I know and remember when you told me Ma! everybody puts in their two cents, but you put in a buck 25 ($1.25) hahahaaa still miss you terribly.
Love Ma!
MOH
A Soldiers Armour
August 11, 2009
A Warrior
August 11, 2009
Ron Egli
July 31, 2009
Ben, Laura, and family:
I know you are feeling the loss of Zach today, on this second anniversary of his passing. You have been such an encouragement to us in that you don’t “sorrow as those who have no hope.” You know where Zach is and that he left this earth a HERO, and that he was welcomed “Home” by the hero’s who went before him. You are all in our prayers today
Peggy Childers
July 31, 2009
To the family of Spc. Zachariah J. Gonzalez:
Zachariah gave the ultimate sacrifice and will be held in the hearts of Americans forever. I cannot and will not let our fallen heroes be forgotten. My deepest sympathy to you. "Some gave all."
Peggy Childers
"Don't Let The Memory Of Them Drift Away"
www.IraqWarHeroes.org
Wenddy Jairala
July 30, 2009
Dear Zach,
Passing by to SALUTE you on the 2nd anniversary of your passing. Thank you for giving your life for this country HERO. May your soul be in the light of the Lord.
DAVID LONG
June 7, 2009
I never new you but you are still our HERO ...
A true American Hero who sacrificed it all.
May 21, 2009
Adrian Quattrocchi
May 21, 2009
my thoughts and prayers are with the Gonzalez family forever. I went to grade school and part of high school with Zach. The Gonzalez Family is a wonderful family, and Zach is a true hero.
All My Love,
Adrian Quattrocchi
Virginia Hamby
May 15, 2009
Laura, Ben and family, I am so sorry. My prayers are with you.
Henryk Zaleski
March 19, 2009
Rest in peace.
What a true American Hero 01-29-07/Operation Iraq Freedom
February 19, 2009
Laura Gonzalez
February 19, 2009
I miss you son!......... I think about you every single day. I know you are doing better then most of us why wouldn't you be after all you have arrived in true PARADISE! Keep a look out for us here we need your prayers and most of all your strength so we can be courageous just like you have lived your life. I Love you so much it hurts, it is true that true love does hurt just like God sacrificed for us out of true love you also sacrificed for us all so that we too can have the freedom to choose. My heart is not broken why would it be if you are with God and will have eternal life in Glory, I just miss you.....
MOH/Mother of Hero
Jennifer Carrillo
January 31, 2009
Hey Gonzo, it's Jenn. I think of you often, but more so today, a friend of yours contacted me (and others) to ask that we share stories and memories about you, I have so many great ones, but I decided to share the one when we were at the Warner's and you were teasing me about the spices in the in the salad I had made that night... good times! That's now my special "Gonzo salad." Miss you, watch over us k!
luz elena gonzalez
January 5, 2009
Laurita no se cuando veas esto pero hoy pense mucho en el angel que tienes en el cielo y en lo feliz que estara con su sobrina
Kenna Larra
December 29, 2008
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Sincerely,
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Wenddy Jairala
November 11, 2008
Dear Mr. Gonzo,
Wanted to pass by and let you know that I am remembering you today. My dear veteran you should be honored every single day for giving the ultimate sacrifice. Thank you for keeping us safe and free. Always remembering you
Michael Hartman
November 2, 2008
It's crazy that a year has already passed. I was in Afghanistan when I heard that you had fallen. I won't ever forget our days back at Chatard. You'll always be remembered man. RIP.
SrA Michael Hartman
Wenddy Jairala
August 3, 2008
Dear Mr. Gonzo, just wanted to let you know that I remembered and prayed for you on the one year anniversary of your passing. How could I not remember one of the hero's that was with my brother Al. You are always remembered in our family and your sacrifice will never be forgotten. Hugs and kisses to you in heaven.
Always remembering you,
Ron and Gail Egli
July 31, 2008
Ben, Laura, and family,
It's hard to believe that your hero has been gone a year today. There isn't a day goes by that we don't think of you and your loss. Although we know where Zach is today, I know he is still missed.
We will continue to pray for you.
We have grown to love you as family, and are thankful to have you as a part of our lives. Your strength and faith have been such an encouragement to us.
Thank you for your sacrifice for our freedom.
In Memory of Zachariah ~ (Debra Estep)
July 31, 2008
Holding you all in my thoughts and prayers.
The Wind on The Downs
“I like to think of you as brown and tall,
As strong and living as you used to be,
In khaki tunic, Sam Brown belt and all,
And standing there and laughing down at me.
Because they tell me, dear, that you are dead,
Because I can no longer see your face,
You have not died, it is not true, instead
You seek adventure in some other place.
That you are round about me, I believe;
I hear you laughing as you used to do,
Yet loving all the things I think of you;
And knowing you are happy, should I grieve?
You follow and are watchful where I go.”
(Written by Marian Allen during World War l )
Two lines that I wish you to keep near your heart…….
“You seek adventure in some other place.
That you are round about me, I believe”
I did not know Zachariah, but I am remembering
his service. He is my hero. !
~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~
The Other Side
i'm over on the other side
where life and death softly divide.
left my skin and bones behind
now i'm over on the other side.
can you feel me there with you?
my breath is gone but i'm not through.
loved you then and i still do
from over on the other side.
i can fly. really fly.
below the earth ... all through the sky.
tell em all i did not die.
i'm just over on the other side.
it's good here on the other side.
the sweetest songs...the bluest skies.
thank you for the tears you cried
but it's good here on the other side.
i can fly. really fly. below the earth...all through the sky.
tell em all i did not die.
i'm just over on the other side
the world is smaller than a needle's eye.
where life and death softly divide.
when you leave your skin and bones behind
i'll be waiting on the other side.
i can fly. really fly. below the earth ... all through the sky.
go tell em all i did not die.
i'm just over on the other side.
Song lyrics by Don Conoscenti
C Desert Muse/SESAC
www.donconoscenti.com
(Used with permission)
“I hope it brings great comfort to any and all.
Peace on you. DonCon” 4-2008
The Other Side –
(To hear the song)
http://tinyurl.com/3o8gol
Sincerely,
Deb Estep ~ Ohio
Proud Air Force Mom SSgt Vince – Lackland AFB
Proud Air Force MIL SrA Dana – Randolph AFB
Remembering The Fallen – Blog
http://tinyurl.com/3z8p55
Angel and soldier drawing I have shared here.
http://tinyurl.com/6gey8b
July 1, 2008
You are remembered and respected. Thank you Spc Gonzalez!
Becky Coy
June 30, 2008
Our thoughts and prayers are with you and we thank god everyday for brave men & women like your soldier for defending our country. We are building a wall in honor of all those who have lost their lives in Iraq & Afghanistan. It's called Wall of Heroes. If you would like more information please contact me at [email protected].
Daniel Sledge
March 24, 2008
The Gonzales family is in my prayers.
Yes, i will always think about u, later zach.
February 14, 2008
I will never forget zach!!!!!!!!!!!
February 14, 2008
Gonzo was a damn good friend.
February 14, 2008
It was always us three!!!!!!
February 14, 2008
My best friend
John Peoples
February 14, 2008
Katie DuBois
October 22, 2007
Still missing you Zach...
Peggie Writtenhouse
October 4, 2007
My deepest and most heartfelt sympathy to the family of Zach Gonzalez. Thanks for your Soldier's Courage, Service and Dedication to our Country and Freedom.
The price he and his family have paid, will never be forgotten.
In the days to come if you find yourself feeling like you can‘t go on , recall the years and days you were blessed by his presence, this is the one thing that cannot be taken away from you are your memories, may you find comfort there and may God’s Peace strengthen you through the difficult days ahead and the emptiness in your hearts!
I am the Sister of a hero, who made the Ultimate Sacrifice in 2005 in Taji, Iraq and time does make it hurt less.
NOW SERVING IN GOD’S ARMY
In His Memory,
Master Sgt James F. Hayes
1st Battalion, 320th Field Artillery Regiment, 101st Airborne Division Fort Campbell KY
Michelle McClelland
September 27, 2007
Benny,
I'm so sorry for the loss of your son. You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers.
Michelle Carker McClelland
Martha Kleinworth Brauer
September 18, 2007
I am very sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your wife, Benny and with all of your family.
Ashleigh DuBois
September 17, 2007
I love you Zachary, I will NEVER EVER forget you. You have my heart.
Rosemarie Dill
September 7, 2007
I wish to thank the family of Zack, for providing such a wonderful, brave son to help to protect our freedoms, that we all enjoy. I know what you are going thru, I suffered the same loss in 2005. If you want to talk to a mother who knows how you feel.send me an E-Mail. Again tks for your sacrifice. Sincerely SFC Muralles, Mother
Amelia Contreras
September 4, 2007
Sorry for your loss. I sure would of like to have know you and you my family. I am your cousin (Amelia
Ramos Contreras) live in Houston,TX
I loved your grand father Robert.
My uncle,who gave me my first
job. Also taught me the love of flowers. He would of be proud of you.
As I know your father (Benito) is
proud of you. My prayer and affection go out to your family.
Your another angle looking down on us all.
Your cousin,
Amelia Contreras (Tia Lupe daughter)
debbi rivers
August 27, 2007
To the parents of Zachariah, I would like to extend my heart felt sorrow as I know what you are going through and what you will yet go through in the coming weeks. I too am the mother of another fallen soldier and with God's continued support in my life I try to reach out to other who might need the support of someone who has been where you are. I want to offer you the support you may need to contact me anytime so that you may vent, talk or just seek comfort I am here for you. As a Gold Star Mother I've reached out through God's blessings to many across the country and we have a good support group. May God continue to give you and your family the love, comfort and healing that you need. In memory of my son SPC Harry (Buck) Winkler III KIA Samarra, Iraq November 12, 2006
Dave Wallace
August 23, 2007
I am so sorry for your loss. Although I didn't know Zach I can relate to him because I too am in the Army Reserve. No one can explain why bad things happen to good people. You must be very proud of him. Peace.
Tom Gugliuzza
August 22, 2007
My heartfelt sympathy to the Gonzalez family in the loss of Zachariah. I did not know Zachariah, but my heart is broken and I am saddened for your loss of such a fine young person and hero. May God bring you peace in your heart as you reflect on all the wonderful memories you hold so close. Please know that you are in my heart and prayers. My heart was touched by the many wonderful/beautiful things written about you. Zachariah you are my hero and you will NEVER be forgotten.
I send each of you a hug from the most inner part of my heart.
Love and Peace
Tom
"To live in the hearts
of those you leave behind
is never to die"
~Robert Orr~
Cindy Greene mother of Sgt. Jeremy R. Greene kia 4-28-07
August 21, 2007
To my dearest family, some things I'd like to say...
but first of all, to let you know, that I arrived okay.
I'm writing this from heaven. Here I dwell with God above.
Here, there's no more tears of sadness; here is just eternal love.
Please do not be unhappy just because I'm out of sight.
Remember that I'm with you every morning, noon and night.
That day I had to leave you when my life on earth was through,
God picked me up and hugged me and He said, "I welcome you."
It's good to have you back again; you were missed while you were gone.
As for your dearest family, they'll be here later on.
I need you here badly; you're part of my plan.
There's so much that we have to do, to help our mortal man."
God gave me a list of things, that he wished for me to do.
And foremost on the list, was to watch and care for you.
And when you lie in bed at night, the day's chores put to flight.
God and I are closest to you....in the middle of the night.
When you think of my life on earth, and all those loving years
because you are only human, they are bound to bring you tears.
But do not be afraid to cry; it does relieve the pain.
Remember there would be no flowers, unless there was some rain.
I wish that I could tell you all that God has planned.
But if I were to tell you, you wouldn't understand.
But one thing is for certain, though my life on earth is o'er.
I'm closer to you now, than I ever was before.
There are many rocky roads ahead of you and many hills to climb;
but together we can do it by taking one day at a time.
It was always my philosophy and I'd like it for you too...
that as you give unto the world, the world will give to you.
If you can help somebody who's in sorrow and pain,
then you can say to God at night......"My day was not in vain."
And now I am contented....that my life has been worthwhile,
knowing as I passed along the way, I made somebody smile.
So if you meet somebody who is sad and feeling low,
just lend a hand to pick him up, as on your way you go.
When you're walking down the street, and you've got me on your mind;
I'm walking in your footsteps only half a step behind.
And when it's time for you to go.... from that body to be free,
remember you're not going.....you're coming here to me.
Ruth Ann Mahaffey (author)
©Copyright 1998-2007
August 20, 2007
Thank you for the sacrifice made by Spc Gonzalez and the sacrifice made by everyone who loves and misses him! May God bless all of you!!
Katie DuBois
August 19, 2007
Zach, you were the older brother I never had.I will cherish all the memories that you gave us, from the "chocolate incident" to "taking one for the team" while tubing. We could always count on you for a good laugh. You will be missed so much and you will not be forgotten. We love you Zach.
August 16, 2007
To the Family and Friends of this Soldier:
I will stand in grief with this soldier's family to honor him. For every fallen HERO there is a bright star that shines in the evening sky to remind us of the cherished gift we were given – even if for too short a time.
My heart breaks again as I sign yet another guest book of another courageous young soldier who gave their life so selflessly. I wish I never found myself in a position to have to sign another guestbook for the rest of my life, but I promised Brent that neither he nor any like him would be forgotten and so I will continue until the day there is no longer the need.
We lost our son SFC Brent A. Adams on 12/1/05 and it seems like yesterday. I wish so badly there were things I could say to you right now to make the pain you are feeling go away, but I know first hand there simply are no words that will bring you the comfort and peace your heart aches for. Just know that you are not alone. My heart, thoughts, and prayers are with you all as you go through this tragedy moment by moment and as you mourn this loss.
We don't know each other, will probably never meet, but will forever be united in the loss of our Heroes. We have, unfortunately joined a group none of us wanted to join, an ever-growing group of families in this situation. May God grant you peace and strength to get through this and be able once again to smile at a memory rather than have only the tears that flow so easily now. To be so proud of your loved one and so saddened at the same time is a mix of emotions very difficult to deal with as our hearts both burst with pride and pain together.
I am sorry that I never knew your soldier personally. While they can never be replaced, neither will they ever be forgotten. You must trust that sometime, someday the loving memories you have will help to sustain you and help you go on. This courageous soldier will forever be your Angel watching over you all for the rest of your lives. It's what brings me some measure of peace and comfort and I hope it will you as well.
To his family and friends in pain, I offer this comfort: When you find yourself in that dark sorrowful place, think not only of how you will miss him, but instead recall the years, days, hours and minutes gifted to you by his presence. The one thing that cannot be taken from you is your wonderful memories that now will mean more than ever.
If you ever want to talk, I'm only an e:mail away and would love for you to tell me more about your Hero.
God Bless this soldier and family who gave all and God Bless legacy.com for setting up this site where families can so quickly share their condolences and prayers with others like themselves.
Proud Parents of SFC Brent A. Adams, KIA, 12/1/05, Ramadi, Iraq
Pam and Bill Adams, Lancaster, PA
Shari Douglas
August 15, 2007
Zachariah, I never met you but know many that knew you. You have touched the lives of so many people. Your courage is unforgetable. May GOD keep you in his care and watch over you for your many sacrafices. May HE also be with your many friends and family through their time of loss.
Stan Slavinsky
August 10, 2007
I can't begin to imagine the pain you must feel, yet, you must be very proud of such a brave son. Ben, you and Laura did an excellent job. Thinking of both of you, from Magnolia Texas
Stan and Debbie Slavinsky
Basilio Reyes Jr.
August 9, 2007
Zachariah,
Thank you for your service to our country. Our thoughts and prayers are with you. God grant you his peace in eternity.
Patricia Gonzales
August 9, 2007
Dear Benny & family,
I give you my deepest sympathy. You are in my prayers. He is with my angel in heaven. I am Alfred & Marie's daughter Patricia. God Bless you and your family.
Whitney Townsend-Brown
August 9, 2007
Zach,
I am so proud of you and who you have become. All I can think about is how much fun we had at St. Luke. Remember when you dressed up like a girl for lip sync? You always could put a smile on people's faces. My deepest respect and sympathy goes out to you and your family. The world has lost a hero.
Ronn Massie
August 9, 2007
God bless the family and friends of Zachariah.
You will all be in our prayers.
Thank you Zachariah for being such a brave hero.
(In remembrance of Cpl. Joey Cantrell 4-4-07)
Ashleigh DuBois
August 9, 2007
Zach you were my world and I will always love you, you are my heart. I will be strong and help your memory live on and I will be seeing you...one day.
Billie Kasin
August 9, 2007
Gonzo, You are a hero in our eyes. My husband worked along side of you and had nothing but good things to say about you. Before you left for Iraq we were invited to Scotts family's house and we had you guys write on yellow ribbon and put it on the tree so when you returned you could cut it off. We will do it for you. You were helarious, You and the other guys were playing volleyball and you split your pants and had to wear Scotts pants, that were way to small. I just want the kamily to know if you need anything just give me a call, I will do what I can. He is a hero, and we will miss him extremely. The Kasin Family 253-964-1204
Ali Pournourbakhsh
August 7, 2007
Dearest Zach,
We never knew each other, but because of you and the actions of men and women like that I am a free man. Rest in peace my brother in Christ. Heaven is rejoycing tonight. May your dream of having your own restaurant becomes true by fixing a mean dish for our Lord. May God bless your entire family for raising such a lion.
Parvin Dr.Carter
August 7, 2007
Dear Zach: You will never die,since you live in everyone's heart. Your legacy will continue with all the years to come.If I could paint the world for you and your family Ben,Laura,Jake,Marina,Seth; I would paint with brightest colors. You have already painted the sky with brightes star. I remember you as sweet ,kind,quiet child whom went to school with my son Robert..and as a patient in my office.We will have the warmest and appreciative prayers for you always as you were and are now forever. Loving thoughts. Dr.PARVIN CARTER
August 7, 2007
Benny and Family:
Please accept our deepest condolences. We are very sorry for your loss. We know that Zach gave the ultimate sacrifice and we are thankful. May the Lord give you peace during this very sad time. Lean on him for he is your strength. You are in my prayers. Please let us know if we can do anything for you or the family.
Love,
Lala and Family (Houston, TX)
Dana Aunt of a Soldier
August 7, 2007
A Multitude of Thanks, to this Brave Young Soldier,Zachariah Gonzalez, who gave his life for our Country and for Freedom. With so much gratitude for his Courage, and his unselfish Dedication and Service.
Rest In Peace now, Zach, in God's Loving Care and may the Peace of God be with the Gonzalez family.
Ron and Gail Egli
August 7, 2007
To the Gonzalez family,
Please know that you are all in our thoughts and prayers. You have paid the highest price for our freedom, and for that I say, THANK YOU.
Our son, Adam, was in "Gonzo's squad, was wounded in the attack. He will never forget the friendship they had, and will never understand why it happened the way he did, but please know that he loved Zach like a brother.
We will continue to pray for your family.
If there is anything we can do, please contact us at 678-965-5910
The Simpson family
August 7, 2007
Our family thanks Zachariah Gonzalez for his service to our country. In all aspects, he sounds as if he was a fine, upstanding citizen, and his parents are to be commended for raising such a giving and exemplary young man. May God comfort you all at this difficult time, and may He hold Zachariah in the palm of His loving hand for all eternity.
Andrea Poirier
August 7, 2007
Zach, rest in peace. your and your family are in my thoughts and prayers. we're all helping them in any way we can, being there for jake, seth, marena, and your parents. you are loved and will be deeply missed. you are a hero to us all and a very good man.
elly alavi
August 7, 2007
I thank the good Lord for your son and his service to our country---may HE give you comfort which surpasses all understanding during this time!!
Carmen Castillo
August 6, 2007
My condolences, as well as my family's, goes to you, Laura and your husband and your family, as well as your parents Luis and Josie Galan. May the Lord comfort you all and May He give you all His peace. Your son is a hero and it is through him that we have freedom. I honor him. I be praying for you and your family.
Eddie T. Rendon
August 6, 2007
To the Family,
I didn't know your son, but he belonged to a brotherhood for life. As a former Marine(1968-Khe Sanh, Tet Offensive, Republic of Vietnam). I deeply feel for your lost. In our society today, people do not understand what sacrifice truly means.I lost two brothers in Vietnam so I understand the pain your going through. I will pray for your son. I'm sure he was an outstanding young man. Duty/Honor/Country Eddie T. Rendon
SHIRLEY DONEY
August 6, 2007
REST IN PEACE ZACH, TO YOUR FAMILY AND FRIENDS MAY THE MEMORIES OF THIS WONDERFUL SOLDIERS LIFE FILL YOUR HEARTS WITH BEAUTIFUL MEMORIES
GOD BLESS YOU
Rick Langenbrunner
August 6, 2007
To the family and friends of Specialist Zachariah J. Gonzalez I offer my deepest sympathy. Know in your hearts he died a Hero to a greatful nation, doing what he wanted. Although I did not know Zachariah, I know the type of man he was, a Great American. May God bless and keep you during the difficult days ahead.
I memory of our son PFC Richard P. Langenbrunner April 17, 2007 Rustimiyah, Iraq.
Juanita Jurries
August 6, 2007
Laura and Family,
I am so sorry about the loss of your son. My prayers are with you and your family.
Esther Case (Jurries)
August 6, 2007
Laura, Benny and Family,
I am so saddened by the loss of your sweet son. I am so proud of his service in the military and know that because of precious people like him I can live free. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family at this time.
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