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Fernando Santos Obituary

SSG Fernando Santos entered into rest on August 2, 2007 in Baghdad, Iraq. He was born March 31, 1978 in San Antonio. Survivors include his wife, Adonia; children, Paul, Daniel, Iliana and Victor; his father, Gilbert Santos; 6 brothers; Gilbert, Jr., Eric, Leroy, Anthony, Diego and Joseph; 1 sister; Genesis; an uncle, Daniel Santos; numerous nieces and nephews. The family will receive friends from 6:00 p.m. to 9:00 p.m., Monday, August 13, 2007 at Roy Akers - Zizik Kearns Funeral Chapels. Funeral services will be conducted 2:00 p.m., Tuesday, August 14, 2007 at Roy Akers - Zizik Kearns Funeral Chapels. Interment will follow at San Fernando III with Full Military Honors. Roy Akers - Zizik Kearns Funeral Chapels.


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Published by San Antonio Express-News on Aug. 12, 2007.

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David Freeman

June 7, 2020

To the family of my beloved brother SSG Fernando Santos. He was one of the best soldiers I had the privilege of serving with. Though I was in 2nd platoon and lower enlisted, he was never to proud to greet me with a what's up and a reassuring smile that made me forget my worries. He is loved, he is missed, his service and sacrifice will never be forgotten. See you on the other side my Patriot brother. Hail Victory.

Spc. Freeman, David, J.
Aco 2nd Plt. 2-3 Inf. 3SBCT 2ID

Adonia Santos

June 26, 2013

This is Adonia Santos. I just found out about this book. So I do apologize for not responding sooner. I thank you all for your prayers and kind words. I miss Nando very much. The kids and I have had a very hard road to travel on. But we have gotten over the bumps and are avoiding any other speed bumps. We plan on moving ahead and will do great on our owen now. I wish I had known about this guest book sooner and I would have responded sooner to each of you. I feel him by my side every day. He will always be my one true love and my hero. I love you baby and I miss you very much. Just keep looking down on us and guide us as long as we all shall live.

amanda bradlaw

August 5, 2012

Thank you Peggy. Our brother was truly a one of a kind person, he is forever loved and missed

Peggy Childers

August 3, 2012

August 2, 2012
To the family and friends of Staff Sgt. Fernando Santos:
Always remembering Fernando. "Some gave all."

amanda bradlaw

March 29, 2012

It's your birthday this weekend big brother, I wish so badly you were here....I love you so much

Peggy Childers

August 2, 2011

To the family and friends of Staff Sgt. Fernando Santos:
Please accept my remembrance of Fernando on the anniversary of his passing and know that he will never be forgotten.

Peggy Childers

August 4, 2010

To the family and friends of Staff Sgt. Fernando Santos:
Remembering Fernando on the anniversary of his passing. May our fallen heroes never be forgotten!
Peggy Childers
"Don't Let The Memory Of Them Drift Away"
www.IraqWarHeroes.org

Killa Will

June 11, 2010

It's me Sarge, Williams. I'm still here thanks to you. You gave me that day off and I never got to thank you. You saved my life, allowing me to be here with my family. I have never forgotten you and never will. I love you as my big brother, say hello to Salinas, Mowl, Rojas, Deroo, Johnson, Hester, and Sgt. Long. You are all still missed, never to be 4gotten.

GARDEH BLANTON

August 17, 2009

THIS TRIBUTE SHOULD HAVE BEEN HERE A LONG TIME AGO. ADONIA YOU KNOW I LOVE ALL OF YOU GUYS AND THINK OF THE ENTIRE FAMILY EVERYDAY. NANDO WALKS WITH ME EVERYDAY, AND I WILL NEVER LET PEOPLE FORGET HIM..3rd SQUAD FOR LIFE..
~TROUBLE~

Peggy Childers

August 3, 2009

To the family of Staff Sgt. Fernando Santos:
Fernando gave the ultimate sacrifice and will be held in the hearts of Americans forever. I cannot and will not let our fallen heroes be forgotten. My deepest sympathy to you. "Some gave all."
Peggy Childers
"Don't Let The Memory Of Them Drift Away"
www.IraqWarHeroes.org

john smith

May 22, 2009

I miss you man,you taught me alot you are always in my thoughts, and will always be there. I miss you man!

Kenna Larra

December 17, 2008

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In Memory of Fernando ~ (Debra Estep)

August 2, 2008

Holding you all in my thoughts and prayers.


The Wind on The Downs

“I like to think of you as brown and tall,
As strong and living as you used to be,
In khaki tunic, Sam Brown belt and all,
And standing there and laughing down at me.
Because they tell me, dear, that you are dead,
Because I can no longer see your face,
You have not died, it is not true, instead
You seek adventure in some other place.
That you are round about me, I believe;
I hear you laughing as you used to do,
Yet loving all the things I think of you;
And knowing you are happy, should I grieve?
You follow and are watchful where I go.”

(Written by Marian Allen during World War l )

Two lines that I wish you to keep near your heart…….

“You seek adventure in some other place.
That you are round about me, I believe”


I did not know Fernando, but I am remembering
his service. He is my hero. !

~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~

The Other Side

i'm over on the other side
where life and death softly divide.
left my skin and bones behind
now i'm over on the other side.

can you feel me there with you?
my breath is gone but i'm not through.
loved you then and i still do
from over on the other side.

i can fly. really fly.
below the earth ... all through the sky.
tell em all i did not die.
i'm just over on the other side.

it's good here on the other side.
the sweetest songs...the bluest skies.
thank you for the tears you cried
but it's good here on the other side.

i can fly. really fly. below the earth...all through the sky.
tell em all i did not die.
i'm just over on the other side

the world is smaller than a needle's eye.
where life and death softly divide.
when you leave your skin and bones behind
i'll be waiting on the other side.

i can fly. really fly. below the earth ... all through the sky.
go tell em all i did not die.
i'm just over on the other side.

Song lyrics by Don Conoscenti
C Desert Muse/SESAC
www.donconoscenti.com
(Used with permission)

“I hope it brings great comfort to any and all.
Peace on you. DonCon” 4-2008


The Other Side –
(To hear the song)
http://tinyurl.com/3o8gol



Sincerely,

Deb Estep ~ Ohio
Proud Air Force Mom SSgt Vince – Lackland AFB
Proud Air Force MIL SrA Dana – Randolph AFB

Remembering The Fallen – Blog
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Angel and soldier drawing I have shared here.
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July 2, 2008

You are remembered and respected. Thank you Staff Sgt Santos!

Peggie Writtenhouse

October 4, 2007

My deepest and most heartfelt sympathy to the family of Fernando Santos. Thanks for your Soldier's Courage, Service and Dedication to our Country and Freedom.
The price he and his family have paid, will never be forgotten.
In the days to come if you find yourself feeling like you can‘t go on , recall the years and days you were blessed by his presence, this is the one thing that cannot be taken away from you are your memories, may you find comfort there and may God’s Peace strengthen you through the difficult days ahead and the emptiness in your hearts!
I am the Sister of a hero, who made the Ultimate Sacrifice in 2005 in Taji, Iraq and time does make it hurt less.


NOW SERVING IN GOD’S ARMY
In His Memory,
Master Sgt James F. Hayes
1st Battalion, 320th Field Artillery Regiment, 101st Airborne Division Fort Campbell KY

Deirdre Burrell

September 9, 2007

There is a special place in heaven for your husband & father. I wanted to let you know that I appreciate his sacrifice-he is a true patriot and America is lucky to have had him and all the other soldiers and Marines that defend our nation.God Bless.

HECTOR DOMINGUEZ

September 3, 2007

THANK YOU BRAVE, VALIANT, TOUGHT, U.S. SOLDIER! THANK YOU FOR THE FREEDOM THAT MANY OF US TAKE FOR GRANTED. THANK YOU STAFF SGT. FERNANDO SANTOS!!! GOD BLESS YOU AND YOUR FAMILY! PROTECT US FROM ABOVE!

HECTOR DOMINGUEZ

September 3, 2007

THANK YOU BRAVE, VALIANT, TOUGHT, U.S. SOLDIER! THANK YOU FOR THE FREEDOM THAT MANY OF US TAKE FOR GRANTED. THANK YOU STAFF SGT. FERNANDO SANTOS!!! GOD BLESS YOU AND YOUR FAMILY! PROTECT US FROM ABOVE!

debbi rivers

August 27, 2007

To the parents of Fernando, I would like to extend my heart felt sorrow as I know what you are going through and what you will yet go through in the coming weeks. I too am the mother of another fallen soldier and with God's continued support in my life I try to reach out to other who might need the support of someone who has been where you are. I want to offer you the support you may need to contact me anytime so that you may vent, talk or just seek comfort I am here for you. As a Gold Star Mother I've reached out through God's blessings to many across the country and we have a good support group. May God continue to give you and your family the love, comfort and healing that you need. In memory of my son SPC Harry (Buck) Winkler III KIA Samarra, Iraq November 12, 2006

Patricia Florence

August 26, 2007

Thank you Brave Soldier rest in peace. Much love and prayers to the family God will strengthen all of you be strong in the Lord always Amen

Ann Puttmann

August 22, 2007

I'm so sorry for your loss. My prayers will be with you and your family. Ann Puttmann Terre Haute Indiana

Ronn Massie

August 22, 2007

God bless the family and friends of Santos.
You will all be in our prayers.
Thank you Santos for being such a brave hero.

(In remembrance of Cpl. Joey Cantrell 4-4-07)

Tom Gugliuzza

August 22, 2007

My heartfelt sympathy to the Santos family in the loss of Fernando. I did not know Fernando, but my heart is broken and I am saddened for your loss of such a fine young person and hero. May God bring you peace in your heart as you reflect on all the wonderful memories you hold so close. Please know that you are in my heart and prayers. My heart was touched by the many wonderful/beautiful things written about you. Fernando you are my hero and you will NEVER be forgotten.
I send each of you a hug from the most inner part of my heart.
Love and Peace
Tom

"To live in the hearts
of those you leave behind
is never to die"
~Robert Orr~

Veteran and family

August 22, 2007

Our condolences and gratitude to the family of this brave soldier, and particular thanks to him for his noble sacrifice on behalf of us all.

August 21, 2007

Thank you for the sacrifice made by Staff Sgt Santos and the sacrifice made by everyone who loves and misses him! May God bless all of you!!

Libby Fowler

August 21, 2007

To the family and friends of Staff Sgt. Fernando Santos please accept my heartfelt sympathy upon the loss of your son. I cannot tell you how my heart aches each time I read of another young soldier lost in this current conflict. Please know that I am now and will continue to pray for your peace. Staff Sgt. Fernando Santos, you will not be forgotten for paying the ultimate sacrifice to a grateful country! Please keep my son, Spc. Crockett Fowler Butler, in your prayers as he awaits deployment from Ft. Sill, Ok.

Nick Terrazas

August 20, 2007

I'm very sorry for your lost .Our thoughts and prayer's are with you. Nick Terrazas and family.

Veronica Trevino

August 16, 2007

My condolences in your time of loss of a great Solider, Take comfort that you have a guradian angel to watch over you and yours. My Prayers are with you and your family. God bless. Proud Wife and Solider of the U.S ARMY.

August 16, 2007

To the Family and Friends of this Soldier:
I will stand in grief with this soldier's family to honor him. For every fallen HERO there is a bright star that shines in the evening sky to remind us of the cherished gift we were given – even if for too short a time.
My heart breaks again as I sign yet another guest book of another courageous young soldier who gave their life so selflessly. I wish I never found myself in a position to have to sign another guestbook for the rest of my life, but I promised Brent that neither he nor any like him would be forgotten and so I will continue until the day there is no longer the need.
We lost our son SFC Brent A. Adams on 12/1/05 and it seems like yesterday. I wish so badly there were things I could say to you right now to make the pain you are feeling go away, but I know first hand there simply are no words that will bring you the comfort and peace your heart aches for. Just know that you are not alone. My heart, thoughts, and prayers are with you all as you go through this tragedy moment by moment and as you mourn this loss.
We don't know each other, will probably never meet, but will forever be united in the loss of our Heroes. We have, unfortunately joined a group none of us wanted to join, an ever-growing group of families in this situation. May God grant you peace and strength to get through this and be able once again to smile at a memory rather than have only the tears that flow so easily now. To be so proud of your loved one and so saddened at the same time is a mix of emotions very difficult to deal with as our hearts both burst with pride and pain together.
I am sorry that I never knew your soldier personally. While they can never be replaced, neither will they ever be forgotten. You must trust that sometime, someday the loving memories you have will help to sustain you and help you go on. This courageous soldier will forever be your Angel watching over you all for the rest of your lives. It's what brings me some measure of peace and comfort and I hope it will you as well.
To his family and friends in pain, I offer this comfort: When you find yourself in that dark sorrowful place, think not only of how you will miss him, but instead recall the years, days, hours and minutes gifted to you by his presence. The one thing that cannot be taken from you is your wonderful memories that now will mean more than ever.
If you ever want to talk, I'm only an e:mail away and would love for you to tell me more about your Hero.
God Bless this soldier and family who gave all and God Bless legacy.com for setting up this site where families can so quickly share their condolences and prayers with others like themselves.
Proud Parents of SFC Brent A. Adams, KIA, 12/1/05, Ramadi, Iraq
Pam and Bill Adams, Lancaster, PA

Mr & Mrs Charlie Terrazas Jr

August 15, 2007

With heartfelt condolences, to the Santos Family, for your Great loss. Our hearts go out to you in your time of sorrow,We pray that God enfolds you during your journy through grief.

Anna Abrego

August 15, 2007

My deepest sympathy to you and your family. I would like to say that I knew Fernando as a kid, my grandmothers house is three streets down from his grandparents house. The last time I saw him was in 5th grade. I was shocked to here about your loss and my thoughts are with you at this difficult time. I thank you for this American Hero.

J Taggart

August 14, 2007

To the family of this decent and courageous young man, may you have solace and peace. I am humbly grateful for Staff Sgt. Fernandos love of country. You are in my prayers.

Melissa Rodruguez

August 14, 2007

My deepest sympathy to you all in your time of sorrow. My thoughts and prayers go out to the family and to our fallen HERO.

Frank & Cynthia Quiroz

August 14, 2007

Many prayers go to your loved ones during this difficult time. My family and I are grateful and proud of your service. God bless you and THANK YOU!!

Liz Garcia

August 14, 2007

Prayers and sincere condolence for the loss of our AMERICAN HERO. I can't even fanthom the pain of your loss and for some it's a double loss. Many regrets are in my heart for being deprived the opportunity to have grown up along side of my cousin whom I now know, IS A GREAT MAN. I know pride shines bright in the eyes and heart of ALL of his FAMILY. CON MUCHO OGRULLO, PRIMO, I SALUTE YOU!

Rozlyn Perez

August 14, 2007

My thoughts and prayers are with your family in their time of need. I did not know Fernando but I would like to thank him for fighting for our freedom. He gave the ultimate gift. You will always be in my prayers.
God Bless!

Pauline Rymers

August 14, 2007

I was sorry to hear of your loss. On behalf of The Rymers and Alcantara Family we would like to extend our deepest condolences.Thank you for serving of country. You will be greatly missed.

Pauline Rymers

August 14, 2007

I was sorry to hear of your loss.On behalf of The Rymers and Alcantara Family we would like to extend our deepest condolences. Thank you for serving our country, you will be greatly missed.

David P. Rodriguez (Retired Park Police)

August 14, 2007

I was so sorry to hear of your loss. The thoughts of many are with you at this time of sorrow.

Angela McDowell

August 14, 2007

I was so sorry to hear of your loss. The thoughts of many are with you at this time of sorrow. Fernando will be greatly missed. He was a good friend.

Connie Bergara

August 13, 2007

I do not know you or your family, however I am from San Antonio and I would like to extend my deepest condolences and utmost gratification for the huge sacrifice that you and your family have made. I just attended the funeral for Cpl. Jason LaFleur on Saturday in Lockhart. There are no words to describe the emotion and pride I felt for having known this young soldier. Your son is a hero too, and we will forever be endebted to him for our freedom. May God hold you in the palm of his hand.

JOE L. REYNA

August 13, 2007

MY SYMPHATIES AND SORROW GO OUT TO THE SANTOS FAMILY, I HAVE TWO SONS IN COLLEGE AND RESPECT THE SERVICE OF A MILITARY MEMBER.ALSO I PERSONALLY HAVE SUFFERED THE LOSS OF A SON AND KNOW THAT THAT LOSS WILL BE TAKEN TO THE GRAVE BY THE PARENTS. GOD BLESS THE SANTOS FAMILY AND I WILL PRAY FOR THE SOUL OF THEIR SON.

FLORENTINO ESPINOZA DUENEZ

August 12, 2007

Just want to say that I dont SSG.Santos but would like to say that I want to say Im sorry for the loss of a american solider. Im in the military, the Texas Army National Guard. And I have been in the service for the past 18 years. I have been in Desert Storm in 91 and also have been in Noble Eagle in 2003 in San Antonio at Fort Sam and in Kosovo 2005-2006. It's hard to see a fellow soldier gone. Specially from your home town. God Bless the Hole Santos Family.
SPC. FLORENTINO E. DUENEZ

Gary Allain

August 12, 2007

Staff Sgt. Fernando Santos
you are my hero
may god keep you in his arms forever.

Marina Garcia

August 12, 2007

I'm sorry for your great loss. We are greatful for his sacrifice for this country. My God show You His Love and Mercy. Sincerely, Marina Garcia

Rheuben & Barbara Hair

August 12, 2007

Our prayers and thoughts are with the Santos Family.
May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.

Nelda Martinez

August 12, 2007

My deepest condolences to the family of SSG Fernando Santos. May the memories you carry in your hearts of our American Hero, comfort you during this time.

SSG Fernando Santos, THANK YOU for serving as a Soldier and Hero. God bless you.

sally martinez

August 12, 2007

I am so sorry for the loss of your son, brother, husband, and father. I do not know your son. I just want to thank you because your son was out there protecting the american citizens and i just wanted you all to know that. May God Bless You all and keep you all in his loving arms.

Rosie Chavez-Martinez

August 12, 2007

Our hearts go out to the family of this wonderful soldier. We do not know the Santos Family personally, but we share the loss with you. Thank you so much soldier, for all you did for our country.
With love and respect,
Martinez family

Angela McDowell

August 10, 2007

My deepest sympathy and prayers go out to Fernandos family...I knew Fernando when we worked together at Bill Millers for a few years. He was a funny, kind, and caring man. Im sure he made his family proud. He is in heaven now and will always be missed.

VANESSA ANDERSON

August 10, 2007

FOR:STAFF SGT. FERNANDO SANTOS

TO:HIS FAMILY

THANK YOU

ROBYN GARSIDE

August 8, 2007

MAY GOD BLESS YOU AND YOURS. PLEASE ACCEPT MY DEEPEST SYMPATHIES FOR YOUR GREAT LOSS. KNOW THAT THERE ARE PEOPLE OUT HERE WHO DO CARE AND YOUR HERO WILL NEVER BE FORGOTTEN....HOLD TIGHT TO YOUR TREASURED MEMORIES THAT HIS SPECIAL SMILE MAY CONTINUE TO SHINE. I PRAY THAT PEACE WILL FIND YOU ALL SOMEDAY. GODSPEED AND SEMPER FI.

A PROUD MARINE MOM

Linda Clifton

August 8, 2007

Our thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.

Sandy Bonesteel

August 8, 2007

As the mother of a son who is deployed, I want to send my condolences. Please know that there are many, many people who grieve with you.

valorie

August 7, 2007

My prayers and thoughts are with you.
I know how you feel losing a "HERO",Becoming a "Gold Star" Mother myself on 25 March.. The sacrafice our sons and daughters are making on a daily basis should tell us all..These young HEROS knew full well what they were doing and did it proudly When you hug your loved ones tonight.... Remember... We also hugged ours and now they are protecting you..We.. as Americans need to make the "Ultimate Sacrafice" by supporting all our military(HEROS)...the Proud Mom of SGT. Jason W. Swiger
5th Squadron, 73rd Cavalry Regiment, 3rd Brigade Combat Team, 82nd Airborne,Fort Bragg, N.C. KIA 3/25/007

Renee Owens

August 7, 2007

Please accept my deepest sympathy for the loss of your Hero,and my sincerest gratitude for his service. The state of Texas mourns for the loss of another of it's sons. May God grant you peace and strength.

The Land of the Free, Because of the Brave

Aunt of a Hero
PFC Chase Edwards, USMC
KIA 06Apr2006

Carol Cline

August 7, 2007

Staff Sgt. Fernando Santos & Family:

Know in your heart that you are a true hero and will never be forgotten. All gave some, some gave all. Rest in peace. You will be missed by everyone’s life you have touched.

To the family, as the days and weeks pass, and as you return to life’s routine, may you continue to feel comforted by the love and support of family, friends, and all Americans for the sacrifice of one of your family members for our freedom. Our thoughts and prayers are with you. May you find comfort in the loving embrace of our Heavenly Father.

SHIRLEY DONEY

August 7, 2007

REST IN PEACE FERNANDO, TO YOUR FAMILY AND FRIENDS MAY THE MEMORIES OF THIS WONDERFUL SOLDIERS LIFE FILL YOUR HEARTS WITH BEAUTIFUL MEMORIES
GOD BLESS YOU

August 7, 2007

Please accept our sincere condolences on the loss of your loved one and our deepest gratitude for the sacrifice both your family and he made in service to this country. May God bless each family member and friend with peace and comfort. May you feel held in
the prayers of a grateful nation.

In loving memory of our nephew
US Army Spec Philip "Cody" Ford
C Co 3rd/509th Fort Richardson Ak.
KIA Baghdad Iraq 12/10/2006

USN/AME1 (SEL) Ron Baker & family

Garnet Jenkins

August 7, 2007

Please accept my Deepest and most heartfelt sympathy regarding the loss of Staff Sgt. Fernando Santos.
The price this Brave Young Soldier and his family have paid for this country and for freedom, Will Never Be Forgotten.
There is so much thanks to be given, to these young heroes, for their Courage, Dedication and Service.

May Fernando rest safely now, in God's Care and may God's Loving Grace Bless the Santos family.
I am the sister of such a young hero, who made the Ultimate Sacrifice in Vietnam, many years ago.

"Wait on the Lord, be of good courage
and He shall strengthen your heart"
~ Psalm 27:14 ~

May the Peace of God and your treasured memories of Fernando, remain in your heart always.
May this give you comfort and strength through the difficult days ahead.
You are in my thoughts and prayers.

August 7, 2007

I don't pretend to know what to say or do that would bring you peace in your time of sorrow, but I will offer my heart felt condolences. I also offer you my prayers that in time the pain will easy and the memories of your HERO will carry you through each day and night. I want to thank your HERO, for his/her selfless act of becoming a member of the armed forces, his/her willingness to defend the United States of America, all that we hold sacred and for the sacrifice that will forever be etched in the memories of all those who knew him/her. Though tears can never bring him/her back, we hope that our tears express our gratitude for the sacrifice that he/she made and our sorrow at his/her passing. I believe for every fallen HERO there is a star shining brightly up above to remind us of the precious gift we were given.

Your mission on earth is complete and you are now a member of GOD’s Heavenly armed forces. Stand down brave warrior and take your rightful place in Heaven with all the HEROES who have passed before.

I made a special promise to LE RON A. WILSON (KIA on 07/06/07) on the day he was laid to rest as I touched his coffin, that I would never forget him nor would I forget those that gave their lives for our country before him, with him and after him and so when I came across www.legacy.com, I thought what a great way to keep my promise to Le Ron, so I will continue to leave tributes in each guest book until the day there is no longer the need to leave these tributes to a FALLEN HERO.

REST IN PEACE, HERO, YOU WILL NEVER BE FORGOTTEN!!

PROUD MOTHER OF A U.S. SOLDIER
Althea Barrett(Queens, NY)

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