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Hugo Mendoza Obituary


SPC Hugo Victor Mendoza, 29, born on March 23, 1978, a son, brother, and friend who was quick to share his infectious smile; an honorable Soldier; and a devout man of faith, passed on Thursday, October 25, 2007 in Afghanistan while bravely recovering a member of his parachute unit. Hugo was born in Harbor City, California. He attended El Paso's Hanks High School until 1996 when he moved to Phoenix, Arizona, where he graduated from Trevor Browne High School in 1997. Hugo enlisted in the Army in 2005. His unit deployed to Afghanistan in support of Operation Enduring Freedom when the Lord called him. The dust returns to the earth as it was, and the spirit returns to God who gave it. - Ecclesiastes 12:07. His forever, only His: Who the Lord and me shall part? Ah, with what a rest of bliss. Christ can fill the loving heart. Heaven and earth may fade and flee. Firstborn light in gloom decline; But, while God and I shall be, I am His, and He is mine - Assurance and Joy of Salvation - Loved by the Lord. "Duerme en Cristo, hijo." Hugo Mendoza is survived by his parents Mr. Jesus Carlos Mendoza Sr., and Mrs. Sara Mendoza, as well as his two brothers Jesus Carlos Jr., and Esteban "Stevie" Mendoza. The Mendoza family will hold a Memorial Service for Hugo Victor Mendoza at the Mt. Carmel Funeral Home Chapel at 1755 North Zaragoza, El Paso, Texas, from 5:00 p.m. to 9:00 p.m. on Monday, November 5, 2007, with a Prayer Service at 7:00 p.m. Funeral Service will be held at Mt. Carmel Funeral Home on Tuesday, November 6, 2007 at 10:00 a.m. and interment will be at Fort Bliss National cemetery at 12:00 noon with full military honors.
Published by El Paso Times from Nov. 4 to Nov. 7, 2007.

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Katrina S Monti

March 29, 2022

Mendoza, you are not forgotten. You and your brothers who left us too soon are always in my heart. I try to live my life in a way that honors you all, to be grateful for what I have. You are part of the fabric of my life. RIP.

Carlos

October 25, 2020

13 yrs. It feels like today, all over again. I miss you!

Charlie Gili

February 5, 2018

Hello,
We realize that we are very late to express our deepest condolences, but we wanted to let your family and friends know that we will be sending Care Packages to deployed troops this week and we'll be dedicating several of these to your loved one. Each package will carry the name, photo and the hometown of Hugo V. Mendoza US Army Specialist. We realize that this is a small tribute, but we do this with all respect and sincerity and we want you to know that it is made possible by thousands of like-minded individuals from across the American youth hockey community. We will not forget. May God Bless you and keep you safe and strong.

Sincerely,
Charlie Gili & Family
On Behalf of the US Hockey Players Support Our Troops Campaign

Carlos Mendoza

October 25, 2017

My Hero, It's been 10 yrs since all of our lives were forever changed. Your entrance into Heaven broke many of our Hearts. It left us with a pain in our Souls that we've never truly recovered. Unfortunately we are not the only ones feeling this way. We became part of the Gold Star community, so we know we are not the only Family with our struggles. You're Forever missed and cherished. Every day! We will ALWAYS speak your name. My Grandson, as you know as you've been around us, knows so much about you. Knows your your story. Knows your name. As time passes and we get older, we will eventually join you. We Will Meet Again. We will laugh, hug, play and joke again. But only God knows our true plan here on Earth. Today, we are home with Mom and Dad. We went to Ruidoso to celebrate your life, to play and enjoy as we did as kids when our parents would take us. Now in our home that we remember, where we made so many memories. Today, I cry more than any other day, I know you know why. It feels like yesterday, it's been 10 yrs. You're my Hero. You'll ALWAYS be my Brother. I'll see you in my dreams. Until we hug, laugh and meet again. I'll always love you! Your Brother....

S Zentner

December 22, 2015

The way I found out about your passing has taking me by surprise. I remember the day we met and the day we had to say goodbye in San Antonio. We told each other to continue chasing our dreams no matter what and from reading articles about you, I see you were accomplishing yours. The short time we spent together was a time I will never forget Hugo. I am so very sad to have found out about this so late. I send my condolences to your family and friends and may you RIP.

Gloria Mendoza

October 31, 2014

Well here I am just writing a few words to you babe. You are always in my thoughts andddd I'm here sitting in my office staring at your picture imaging of how it would be if you were still here. I can't cry because I am getting ready to attend a meeting so, I miss you lots and I know your in a much better place. I hope that you are watching over us especially the kids! OMG I said I wasn't going to cry! Ok punk, love & miss you lots!

Gloria "BABE" xoxoxo.

Espen Hansen

October 26, 2013

RIP friend

Patty Peterson

October 25, 2013

Missing you always!

Milena Zepeda MSG(R)

June 15, 2013

SPC Mendoza - It was only recently, I found out, about your passing and it really tugs at my heart. You were an awesome Soldier, and I am proud to have been your Drill Sergeant. RIP
SPC Mendoza.

Patty Peterson

March 23, 2013

Happy Birthday Hugo!! We celebrate your life & remember you every day! I miss you & love you Hermano.

Gloria Mendoza

February 18, 2013

Hugo,everyday I think of you and I still feel so empty. The pain and sadness that is everyone of us, because we all love you so much. Our family isn't the same anymore! We do our best to celebrate every year and it's only for you! I know your at a much better place. The kids miss you so much! Love and miss you babe!

Brett Perry

December 7, 2012

Doc, I miss the heck out of you right now. I still break down every once in a while when I think of You, Brennan and Ski. As the years pass by I realize more and more how lucky I was to have known all of you guys. As much as it hurts to have lost you all, I am so proud to say that I knew you. Please watch after me and the rest of the boys. I love and miss ya, buddy.

John Brennan

October 26, 2012

To the Mendoza family my heart aches for the pain you feel today. May God Bless our loved ones. I know there so much in our heart on this anniversary. It truly is there anniversary into heaven and for that I'm grateful. God Bless all the Mendoza family. You are truly special.

Patty Peterson-Montejano

October 25, 2012

I agree with Crystal. I think we all feel the same way. 5 years and it seems like yesterday. The sadness that is in each one of us, because we love you and we just want you back! We are so very proud of you and i know you are watching over us. you know our hearts and you see right thru us! Family is just not the same with out you. But we can make traditions and celebrate you every year! It's never a happy occasion, but having the rest of us there, together should make it a little easier. I love the whole Mendoza clan and i hope we can start making traditions and enjoying all those wonderful stories we all have:) Missing you and thinking of our family today and always. I love you Cousin

Carlos Mendoza

October 25, 2012

Hugo, It's been 5 yrs since all our lives have changed, yet at times it feels like yesterday we heard the news. Nothing has been the same without you. We are here in El Paso today to be with you physically, but we know you're not here spiritually. It's just I need to sooth my aching heart. There is not 1 day that goes by your not thought of or missed. I miss your smile, your voice, throwing the ball around, our times together, and our Holidays that have never been th same.I remember the good times often, and talk about you every chance I get. I know God needed you more than we did, but we all still hurt. At times I still do not accept your gone, trying to think of what you are doing at that moment then get slapped with reality and I break down. I miss when you called me Daddy, our big breakfasts we'd have, how you would go out running to get and stay in shape, our games of Pictionary or the times we'd go to a ballgame. All good times and treasured memories. Our family has always had a different belief of what is valuable, it's not money or jewelry, it was that, Our Family. Now what we have is Memories and Pictures of our family that's incomplete without you. Bobo, I MISS YOU..... LOVE & MISS YOU BRO

Luz Mendoza

October 24, 2012

Its been soooo long since I last looked at this guest book yet alone wrote in it..

I can't believe tomorrow is going to be 5yrs since you were taken from us... It still feels like it was yesterday that I last saw you, last hugged you and heard your voice.. Its hard around the holidays knowing it just wont ever be the same.. I feel an emptiness within me from the loss of you Bobo.. I miss you dearly and cherish n hold all our memories close to my heart.. Not a day goes by that I don't think of you.. To see you fall down the stairs in the middle of the night, or seeing your car in the driveway, or you getting my mom sooo good with the snow ball you threw at her face.!!. LoL. Man those were great times full of love and lots of laughs! I know you are looking down & watching over us now but I'm still selfish and wish you were still here with us instead.. You were a great honest man and I will never forget you Bobo.. Thank you for making such a selfless act of courage to fight for your family, friends and people you never even met.. You are a true hero and I know God needed you more then we needed you.. I love you Bobo.. Please keep watching over my grandma and grandpa.. Loosing you affected our lives and at times, it gets very hard to accept your gone.. Only time could heal us all.. Te quiero mucho bobito..

Forever in my heart,
Your niece.

Jessica Small

April 12, 2012

To the family of SPC Mendoza... I met you all today at the naming of the Mendoza clinic. It truly brought me to tears while speaking with and hugging his father. It is a horrible thing to loose your child, but never forget that his sacrifice will be forever remembered. I am grateful for the sacrifice that he made.

Christy Ramirez

November 30, 2011

Always in my heart, thoughts and prayers. Till we meet again....God Bless.

Robert Balzli

November 22, 2011

RIP SPC. Hugo V Mendoza. Today an OpsCore fast helmet was donated to the medic of my adopted special forces platoon in honor of your service and your families sacrifice Hugo. You are a true hero! Your legacy will be carried by your brothers! Our Great Nation stands on the shoulders of heroes like you. Your picture is on my Wall Of Heroes as you are the noblest of men! May God Bless the Mendoza family.

Gloria Mendoza

November 16, 2011

Babe,
Everyday I think of you and how much I miss you. I'm sitting here in my office at work staring at your picture wishing you were here with us. My kids miss you so much! Love you always!
Babe

Peggy Childers

October 26, 2011

October 25, 2011
To the family and friends of Spc. Hugo Mendoza:
Please accept my remembrance of Hugo on the anniversary of his passing and know that he will never be forgotten.

john brennan

October 26, 2011

to the mendoza family. having lost josh and hugo together brought us together because if this horrible experience. i'm very honored to have met your family. you are very special people and i know hugo and
josh are looking down upon us. out of bad comes good and my family and myself are very happy to share this special bond with your family. god bless hugo and your family.

Patty Montejano

October 25, 2011

Time has come & went and you are so very much missed and thought off every day! I love you and miss you with all of my being. Life and our family arent not the same with out you. Until we meet again my brother.

October 25, 2011

Today has been 4 yrs 10/25 & I still miss you so much!! Came to spend this day here next to you, even though you are not here but every where and in my HEART. Bobo we miss you deeply... I want another hug, another talk & most of all a smile from your face I miss so much. You are thought of every day! Keep an eye on us from up in heaven, all of us.
Love You, your bro, Daddy

Timothy Bistline

June 20, 2011

RIP Mendoza, few men can aspire to be of your caliber.

Diana Werner

May 30, 2011

God bless Hugo and the Mendoza family.

Gary

May 30, 2011

God bless Hugo,RIP sir.

vincent mendoza

May 29, 2011

Mendoza family. We here in California are Mendoza's. and we feel the sorrow in your hearts. We are extremly honored the service your son and bropther has given for all of us. May God bless all of your family.

Paul Farrell

April 27, 2011

You are in our thoughts and prayers.

Paul DeHaven

January 2, 2011

Dear Mendoza Family,
Please accept my sincere sympathy over the loss of your son. He was a wonderful example of all that is right with our country. I can only hope my family's thoughts and prayers on your family's behalf can provide a speck of comfort.

Faustino Mendoza

January 1, 2011

Dearest Mendoza Family. I want you to know I'll keep your son in my prayers. Reading some of the messages posted from family, school buddies, friends and military brothers he was so special. With a heart of oro SPC Mendoza, doc Mendoza made the ultimate sacrafice to protect and care for his comrades.

I to was a medic, different war (Vietnam 1968), I am proud to call him my brother! May God bless all of you.

Trudy Roley

November 19, 2010

Dear "Mom" Mendoza,
We were with Paul (the Medevac pilot that flew Hugo out from the battle zone) recently as the news that Sgt. Giunta was being considered for the MOH. Once again, we remembered the day that Hugo laid down his life for his friends.
I think of you often, and pray that our dear Savior's grace is ministering healing to your broken heart, and bringing beauty from ashes. I am grateful to know you as my sister in Christ. Remember, the honor of hearing, "well done, good and faithful servant" from the lips of Hugo's Savior, is dearer than any earthly reward.
Well done, Doc Mendoza, thank you for serving your country and the Lord Jesus Christ, with all your heart!

Nancy Cunningham

November 17, 2010

Dear Mendoza Family, Our thoughts and prayers are with your family. I was deeply touched by the friendship of Hugo and his military platoon and depth of their commradship. What a tribute to your son and to those who fought by his side. May God rest in each of you.

Gary

November 14, 2010

A true American hero.God bless Hugo and his family

Sarai Mendoza

November 13, 2010

I'll Always Love You Uncle Hugo.. I Remember How You Told Me To Never Do Something Id Be Ashamed Of Telling You Or My Parents.. It Works.. Rough Times Come And Go.. But I Just Know That God Has You In His Keeping And I Have You In My Heart.. I Love You, I Miss You..
Love Your Niece Sarai Mendoza

Becca Bryan

October 26, 2010

To the Mendoza family,

I will keep you and your son in my prayers on this anniversary.
It takes a special kind of person to enlist and serve their country. Not many Americans have what it takes to do what Hugo did. He died protecting us and his buddies. There is no greater honor than that.
With warm respect.

October 25, 2010

To the Mendoza family,

My family and myself have been thinking about you and your family on this 3rd anniversary of Hugo and Josh's death. You are in our prayers and I hope you can find some peace in your heart. I look forward to meeting you in Washington DC. Your son was a great man who died trying to help his fellow soldiers. May God bless Hugo and the entire Mendoza family.

John Brennan and the Brennan Family

Peggy Childers

October 25, 2010

To the family and friends of Spc. Hugo Mendoza:
Remembering Hugo on the anniversary of his passing. May our fallen heroes never be forgotten!
Peggy Childers
"Don't Let The Memory Of Them Drift Away"
www.IraqWarHeroes.org

Patricia Montejano

October 11, 2010

I miss my Cousin Hugo! I cannot believe it will be 3 years, seems like yesterday. My family & i still Mourn his death but he lives on with us for ever. I'm very proud of him. Thanks for every one that comes to this page and sends there warm prayers and wishes.

Paul Reilly

September 21, 2010

I admire a man like yourself, dedicated to helping others at your own loss. Thank you Doc.

September 18, 2010

First of all we'd like to thank you for your condolences.

In regards to the questions in peoples minds regarding our son's sacrifice on that fatal day, we felt that it was important to clarify that our son Spc. Hugo Mendoza was recognized for his valor and bravery during that day's mission. There's been several versions of the events in which our son was killed. Perhaps we'll never know for sure which one was true.

We are very happy to see that Mr. Guinta is being presented with the highest military honor. At the same time, we are very proud of the selfless sacrifice our son did that day by running to save the life of another soldier. The way he fought during the time he was in theater, demonstrated his character as a soldier and fierce warrior, traits consistent with his heroic actions during this and other missions. In his efforts that day, he was hit and the result was that he could not continue in the battle. As we move forward with our enormous loss, we stand proud of our son Spc Hugo V. Mendoza, not only for his selfless act, but also as a wonderful son, brother, and human being. Respectfully, Proud parents of Spc. Hugo V. Mendoza "Doc Doza"

Patrick Hamilton

September 14, 2010

With the announcement of the Medal of Honour for Staff Sergeant Salvatore Guinta, I wanted to know more about the story. It was then that I learned of the selfless heroic act of Spc. Hugo Mendoza in his efforts to save his comrade Josh Brennan. That Spc. Hugo Mendoza put his life on the line to save another is testament to the incredible bravery and enormous strength of character Spc. Mendoza must have possessed. As a Canadian, I recognize the enormous sacrifices American families have made to keep North America a safer place. I offer my condolences to Spc. Mendoza's family, and I wish them peace.

Maureen

September 11, 2010

Just read of the enormous bravery of Spc Hugo Mendoza. I am sorry he is gone but his sacrifice will be forever remembered by grateful Americans. He did what he felt was right. A selfless, brave young man indeed and excellent role model. May he rest in peace.

Andrew Bejarano

September 11, 2010

I am sorry for what happend to your son. He must of been a very good man even though i dont know him. But i look at SPC HUGO V. MENDOZA as a role model. Now this is why i want to join the Military becuz of your son. god bless. he's in a better place. Hooah!

Abraham Muniz

June 17, 2010

Miss u Homie

e. thomas

June 17, 2010

I am so sorry for the loss of your son. My brother was deployed in the same area and told me about how brave your son was and how they all loved him. Words cannot be spoken that can give you comfort, but he is with Christ and you should be proud of what a great man you raised.

Luis Lopez

May 30, 2010

Siguiendo pensando en ti primo. Que Dios te tenga en sus brazos. Te queremos mucho.

May 23, 2010

This is to thank each and everyone of you who have expressed their condolences to our family for this tragedy and standing beside us in this time of sorrow.

Even though our soul is deeply wounded, and our grief still overwhelming, by faith we believe our son, brother, cousin, friend, and hero is sleeping in Christ.

We are grateful to God for giving us Hugo as our son; for having been so important people in his life. Hugo is not gone, as he continues to live in our hearts forever. Thanks again from everyone in our family. Doc Doza will never be forgotten - our hero, our son and brother...

Teri Kempf

October 25, 2009

My son Rob was in the same unit with your son. I was talking to him earlier today when he told me it has been 2 yrs today. I would bet he doesn't know my b-day or many other dates so that shows me the respect and friendship he felt with your son. I remember when they were deployed I was talking to Rob on the phone and he and "Mendoza" were going back and forth goofing around about some cold medicine Rob had asked him for. They were just babies and it is so not fair what they had to endure. I hope and pray that time is healing some of the pain you must feel. I just hope you know how much your son meant to my son, they actually had plans to go bowling when they got back to the states. Spc. Mendoza is a hero and I am so glad he was their and a friend to my boy. Take Care and know what a beautiful youngman you raised, be proud, I am.

Patty Montejano

October 25, 2009

2 years ago today we got this horrible news. I wanted to share that these 2 years have been very difficult for myself and my family. No matter how long it has been, its fresh, it hurts. These feeling will never go away, and even though Hugo is in a better place, we miss him dearly. I want to let my tia & tio know that i am here thinking of you and praying for you. My pain is also with yours. I love you Mendozas!

david Kelso

September 9, 2009

Doza What is up? I have a few thoughts and just wanted some one to listen. I am very nervous about this deployment with out all of the 2/503rd and the ones we lost last deployment I wish you were here to give me some advise. I know you will be watching over me and i am very glad of that Just a friend stoping by for a few words Doc Kelso

David Kelso (DOC)

June 20, 2009

To the family of Doza. We had a few good times together and you was family to me. Us medics have a strong bond and i am proud to have served with you. When i get to the gates of heaven I know you and Josh will be waiting for me. I you talk to the man at the gate and tell him i am not perfect but I do fight well. And with that I will spend the Rest of my LIFE fighting and bringing our brothers home.

David Kelso (DOC)

June 20, 2009

To the family of Doza. We had a few good times together and you was family to me. Us medics have a strong bond and i am proud to have served with you. When i get to the gates of heaven I know you and Josh will be waiting for me. I hope you talk to the man at the gate and tell him i am not perfect but I do fight well. And with that I will spend the Rest of my LIFE fighting and bringing our brothers home.

Isabel Francia

May 27, 2009

I have been thinking about you all week. No one should ever forget you, your life and your sacrifice. May you rest in peace and may GOD give peace to your Mom and Dad,your brothers, and the rest of your family, I'm sure they miss you alot.

hansen

May 26, 2009

hey brother, i lit a candle for you in the cathedral notre dame in france... i'll see you on the high ground.

Patty Montejano

May 24, 2009

I remember you always.. I Miss you so Very Much... Today is not a easy day, memorial day.. It's one of the times to thank all of our soldiers and to remember the ones that left us.. Your always around us.. I know cause i hear you singing.. I love you Primo...

Fernando Rios

April 28, 2009

To those that don't know me. My name is Fernando, and I am from El Paso, TX. I meet Hugo during my last year of high school when I moved to Phoenix. We became very good friends. In 2001 I moved and lost contact of him. All this time I have been trying to find him, but didn’t want to find him this way. My heart and prayers go out to the family. I wish that I would have found him sooner. The time that I Knew Hugo was great. I learned so much from him and had great time’s hanging out with him. I remember the time that he got his Chrysler Sebring convertible and we drove around that night trying to show off. Good time’s it was. I am proud to know that Hugo served our country. I will always have him in my thoughts. I know for a fact that he is in a better place. Miss you much....

Kati Salinas

March 31, 2009

I still often think about you and all the others. You are not forgotten.

Ceci Hinojos

March 30, 2009

Mendoza Family,

I am at a loss for words, my deepest sympathy to each and every one of you. I was browsing the memorial section because today marks my nephews 3yr anniversary, he was Chris and Tito's age. I came across Hugo's name and had to really sit and stare just to make sure this is really Juice, it's been about an hour, and I am just getting enough nerve to write, because it is all so unreal. I wish I could give you all great big hugs right now, but even I know it will never be enough. You guys took such great care of Hugo when he came to live with you, I remember his high school graduation and feeling proud as if he was my own little brother. Again, my sincere condolences.

Juice, I remember when you bought that Chrysler Sebring at a dealership in Tempe. I thought, wow, I hope he isn't over his head, but another part of me was, Yeah, you can give me rides to Mervyn's, and I can look cool for about the five minutes it took to get there. I remember sitting in the convertible with you and Stevie. It was nighttime, and we were just talking and staring up at the stars until Carlos told us to get inside. It takes a very brave and special person to do what you did.Extremely brave. I am proud of you and I wish I could have told you that.

Carlos and Gloria, what an amazing job you did with all of us, each and every one of us you took into your home to take care of. Although we would rather have our loved ones by our side, we, who believe in the Most High, know that we are not of this world. Our true treasures are in heaven. LOVE and MISS YOU ALL!

Gloria Mendoza

March 23, 2009

Hey Babe, I just wanted to let you know I think of you everyday. I know you already know this, but your nephew received an autograph from Sgt Tommy Riemann, yesterday at the Luke Air Force Air Show. It was awesome. He took of picture with him. As you know, Tito killed the most ememies in his group, which was "BRAVO". So they awarded him for the most kills out of the entire mission group. I thought another guy was going to get it. They had old men and young men playing in this mission. I played too, I couldn't tell the difference who was our enemy and our guys. But we are so proud of him BABE! He did an awesome job, he received an action figure of Sgt Tommy Reimann. Anyways, we miss you and you are always in my heart. We love you and Happy Birthday! Your sister in law
Gloria Mendoza

Patty Montejano

March 19, 2009

It's Going to Be your 31st BdAY iN a couple of days and it sucks that U are not here... Every year is just a reminder of how are deep are pain is.. I miss you cuzz

Patricia Montejano

December 31, 2008

It's been yet another year of sadness. This time last year we were feeling the pain of lossing you. Now this year we are in pain for lossing the woman that gave us her blood. Our Grandmother...
Today is the last day of 2008 and i have to say it has been the worse 2 yeaRS if my life. I am graTEFULL for a lot, but my heart still aches for the loss i feel..
time doesnt heal anything.
its all just a myth.. all I can say is that i pray every day for faith that God has a great and better plan for us in his kingdom. He will reunite all of us and will be complete..
I miss you cousin and there is still not a day that goes by that i dont think of you.. Love you and miss you very Much. words cant express the pain we still carry in our hearts. Now you are with Grandma and i know you will keep her company and she will make you laugh..

Luis Lopez

December 12, 2008

Hey, primo. Hoy nuestra familia se esta reuniendo otra vez en la misma casa para estar cerca de nuestra Abuelita Mariquita. Nosotros sabemos que la sangre que corre por nuestras venas vino de esa gran mujer que es ella. Vi a tu Mama y se ve mejor, se que tu le estas ayudando desde el cielo. Nuestros tios y primos estamos rodeando a nuestra abuelita Mariquita y se que tu tambien estas ahi con nosotros para sentir que la tenemos y que a ella le debemos nuestra existencia. Nuestra Abuelita ha sido una mujer fuerte y siempre ha sabido cuidarnos y estar al pendiente de todos. Te queremos mucho, nuestra Abuelita Mariquita te quiere y Dios sabe que nuestro heroe nos esta cuidando a todos tambien.

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December 9, 2008

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ISABEL FRANCIA

November 24, 2008

I HAVE KNOWN SARA AND CARLOS FOR MANY YEARS SO I KNEW HUGO, STEVIE, AND CARLOS SINCE THEY WERE VERY YOUNG. SARA HAS ALWAYS BEEN VERY PROUD OF HER CHILDREN, ALWAYS TALKING ABOUT THEM. SHE WOULD ALWAYS GET US ON THE SPEAKER PHONE AT WORK TO CALL THE KIDS AND SING HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO THEM, THEY WERE BARELY AWAKE AND I'M SURE THEY WOULD ROLL THEIR EYES WHEN THEY HEARD US OLD GALS SINGING, ESPECIALLY AS THEY GOT OLDER.

ONE TIME, WHILE WATCHING THE LATE NIGHT NEWS, I SAW HUGO AND STEVIE, THEY WERE TALKING TO THEM ABOUT THE HOCKEY GAME AT THE COLISEUM, THEY WERE ALL EXCITED AND "WOO HOO'ING". I REMEMBER HUGO WITH HIS BIG SMILE AND ACTING SILLY.

THIS IS JUST TO LET SARA KNOW THAT HUGO IS STILL IN OUR THOUGHTS. EVERY CHANCE I GET, I TELL PEOPLE ABOUT HIM, NOT SO THEY CAN BE SAD BUT SO THEY CAN BE PROUD OF HIM JUST AS WE ARE.

*LOVE YOU MUCHO (*SARA)

C

November 10, 2008

In looking for the song "Heaven was needing a hero" I came across about Hugo and Brennon......What glory they must have received in heavens gates!
Our son was in Iraq at the beginning and we are so blessed to have him return safely.
What pride you must all have for your soldier. Our Prayers and pride for all of you--the ultimate sacrifice for our freedom to continue.

Trudy Roley

October 25, 2008

My dear sister Sara,
You have been in my mind and heart this past week, and especially today.

Hugo will forever be connected in my memory, as closely as my own son.
Hugo is my dearest present-day hero of the faith. He not only heard the word of God, he actually fulfilled it. He actually put the interests of others before his own, and ultimately, laid down his own life for his friends. He literally did for his friends, what His own dear Savior had done for him!

" For now we see obscurely in a mirror,
but then it will be face to face.
Now I know partly; then I will know fully,
just as God has fully known me.
But for now, three things last-
trust, hope, love;
and the greatest of these is love.
Pursue love!
I Corinthians 13:12-13

My prayer for you today, dear sister, is for Papa God's healing oil of mercy and grace to be poured out upon your heart and the hearts of your dear family. Thankfully we are blessed by our Comforter and Helper Who knows our deepest pain and will place His healing touch where it hurts the most.

In His precious love, Trudy

Patricia Montejano

October 24, 2008

One day a year ago today all of our lives changed for ever.
I love my Hugo. I love my family and my prayers and thoughts and tears are with all of us today. I love you grandma and I'm with you in your pain..

Peggy Childers

October 23, 2008

To the family of Spc. Hugo Mendoza:
Hugo gave the ultimate sacrifice and will be held in the hearts of Americans forever. I cannot and will not let our fallen heroes be forgotten. My deepest sympathy to you. "Some gave all."
Peggy Childers
"Don't Let The Memory Of Them Drift Away"
www.IraqWarHeroes.org

Lydia Courtright

October 10, 2008

Hey Mendoza Family. This is Lydia Courtright, my mother, Rachel, took care of the Crystal, Carlos, and Chita, and sometimes Hugo, at her daycare. I would just like to say that I am sorry for your loss and I wish I would have gotten to know Hugo because he sounds like he was a great guy. I know Hugo is missed everyday, but I also know he is in a better place. It's good to know that he didn't die in vain and the way he died is an honorable and brave way to go. God Bless Hugo and the Mendoza Family!

Doc Doza

September 3, 2008

Greg Schad

August 15, 2008

ive known Yugo for around 7 years. We use to work together at Swisher. Then we later met up at Tri City. He was a good kid.Still had the innocence of a kid. i enjoyed being around him,always brought me up when i was down.He will always be in my heart. God bless.

Doc Doza

July 10, 2008

As a man

July 10, 2008

As a baby

July 10, 2008

High School Prom

July 10, 2008

Hugo & Mom

July 10, 2008

Hugo & Dad

July 10, 2008

With Crystal & Suzie

July 10, 2008

Hugo & a siamese twin growing out of his back

July 10, 2008

Me and my favorite nephew

July 10, 2008

Hermanos Mendoza

July 10, 2008

Lakers Rule!

July 10, 2008

Me & my trombone

July 10, 2008

Hugo & Carlos

July 10, 2008

4 months old

July 10, 2008

A young handsome boy

July 10, 2008

July 5, 2008

You are remembered and respected. Thank you Spc Mendoza!

Suzanne MacDaniel

July 4, 2008

To the Mendoza family,

Thinking of all our soldiers today.

...For you every single soldier
Those who served so honorable
Your life was forever altered
While I’m home safe and free
I stand with grateful admiration
I stand respectful and so proud
I know I’m only a civilian
And I don’t even know if it’s allowed.

But I salute you; allow me the honor
to salute you with permission let me say
Even though I hold no rank know that from my heart
My humble gratitude comes from the deepest part.
I salute you.

Suzanne MacDaniel
A Proud Aunt
Sgt. David M.Fisher
KIA 12/1/04

Patty Montejano

May 31, 2008

There is this void in my life.... your not here.. it's still a daze.. a unreal feeling in the bottom of my heart... I miss you my angel.....
:(

Jesus Carlos Mendoza Jr

May 26, 2008

Bobo, Today is Memorial Day, 5-26-08, and I'm here in El Paso with Mom and Dad. It's been just over 7 months since your calling into Heaven, and it's still so hard everday. There has not been a day that I've not shed a tear in thinking of you. I still remember all the good times with a smile, but.......those are times we will never be able to have again. At least not for a long time-God willing. Only He knows when it will be my time. The Memorial service at Fort Bliss was nice today, but that's a time I'd never thought I'd be going through. I still remember your last phone call, your last message. Yes Hugo, Mom & Dad are home now. But there is a big void left in all of us. We all know we are not the only one's going through this nightmare, it's just so hard. Getting to see all your belongings, things I'd help you buy or move from time to time, just wish you were here!!!! I MISS YOU BOBO!!!!! We have your camera you had last, the one you and I bought with my discount. We got to see the last pictures you took, and the last picture taken of you 4 days before you left us. I just lost it. I get home from work and see your car in my driveway, and I want to go up to the room and get you so we could see the game. Whichever game is on. Tito now sleeps in your bed, and Chita on your mattress, just so that we all get a little piece of your memory. I'm trying to be strong like you, It's hard. It's still very hard on Mom & Dad. On all of us. I hope to see you again. I LOVE YOU ALWAYS, MY BROTHER===DADDY

Gloria Mendoza

May 8, 2008

Babe, I am here thinking about you and missing you so very much. We put your bed together this weekend and your nephew is sleeping on it. I open the door wishing I can see you sleeping in it and it kills me to know your not here. My kids miss you so much. I dream and keep having the same dream that I am trying to reach you in time to warn you about that day your life was taken.....all you do is smile at me, you give me a hug and look at me so peacefully and you tell me it's okay BABE! I miss you babe. We have your car and I haven't been able to get in it. I can't. My son tells me he will take good care of it. I have no doubt. Love you babe, always will. My tears won't stop....sorry. I know..... I know your at a much better place.
MISS YOU!

Patty Montejano

May 4, 2008

te extraño mas que nunca y no se que hacer
despierto y te recuerdo mal amanecer
me espera otro dia por vivir sin ti
el espejo no miente me veo tan diferente
me haces falta tu

la gente pasa y pasa siempre tan igual
el ritmo de la vida me parece mal
era tan diferente cuando estabas tu
si que era diferente cuando estabas tu

no hay nada mas dificil que vivir sin ti
sufriendo en la espera de verte llegar
el frio de mi cuerpo pregunta por ti
y no se donde estas
si no te hubieras ido seria tan feliz

no hay nada mas dificil que vivir sin ti
sufriendo en la espera de verte llegar
el frio de mi cuerpo pregunta por ti
y no se donde estas
si no te hubieras ido seria tan feliz

la gente pasa y pasa siempre tan igual
el ritmo de la vida me parece mal
era tan diferente cuando estabas tu
si que era diferente cuando estabas tu

no hay nada mas dificil que vivir sin ti
sufriendo en la espera de verte llegar
el frio de mi cuerpo pregunta por ti
y no se donde estas
si no te hubieras ido seria tan feliz

no hay nada mas dificil que vivir sin ti

Happy New Year!!!

May 4, 2008

With cousin Fernie on last CAli Trip...

May 4, 2008

Back in our teenage dayz

May 4, 2008

Hugo V. Mendoza

April 30, 2008

Hugo & Dad

April 30, 2008

Luz Mendoza

April 27, 2008

Its been 6 months since you've been gone... It's been so hard bobo. I always think of you... I try so hard to smile and remember the good times we had but deep down I just want to cry all day. I can't believe your gone. I wish you would just pop up and say, "I'm home!" as if you pretended to die just to be here with us. I know its selfish of me to want you here but I'm only human. I miss you so much. If I wasn't crying right now I'd write more but right now I am lost with words... I can't think straight anymore... I miss you bobo. I love you...

Your niece

Hugo & Mom

April 24, 2008

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