Lance Cpl. Derek L. Gardner

Lance Cpl. Derek L. Gardner

Derek L. Gardner Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers on Jan. 28, 2005.
In the year before his deployment to Iraq, Derek L. Gardner moved in with his girlfriend, April Ornelas. On Christmas Eve, he asked her to marry him when he returned from overseas. "One of the things he said before he left was, ''This isn''t goodbye sweetheart, this is hello to our new beginning,''" said Ornelas, 18. The 20-year-old motor vehicle operator from San Juan Capistrano, Calif., was killed Sept. 6 by a car bomb in Iraq''s Anbar province. He was stationed at Camp Pendleton. A pro wrestling fan, Gardner came from a military family. A great-grandfather fought in World War I, his grandfathers served in Korea and World War II, and his father was a Marine in Vietnam. "He was a proud Marine," Vickey De Lacour said of her son. "He walked like a Marine, he talked like a Marine. He was just doing his job." Other survivors include his father, Ken.

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Nanette Sagastume

September 6, 2023

I will always remember this date. Know Derek is not forgotten. Hugs to the family for so many years without Derek.

Phyllis Carter Family

September 6, 2014

I woke this morning to the strains of the Marine Corps Hymn running softly through my mind. May God continue to hold the hearts of your family and friends through this tenth anniversary year.

Nanette Sagastume

September 6, 2014

Ten years ago today. Such a long time to miss someone. Thinking of you and sending love.

Luc Rodrigue

February 11, 2013

Well I got here by mistake. Yet I just had to read on and see. I don't know you, yet I must say something for I too I have served and know. Maybe in a different country with a different uniform, and while I might have never seen war up close, I stood ready and have heard so much about men like you. I always wonder for how long would they remember if it was me? Would it make a difference? Everyday I live in freedum, it is because someone has paid the price for me to be free. I don't know you, but thank you. I guess I should stive to be a better man always so that your sacrefice can be repaid in kindness to others. Yet, your family has paid the price too. I keep telling my grandson every rememberance day, that behind every crosses in the cemitary, there is a family too. Sorry

February 8, 2013

In memory and honor of Derek Gardner. We remain indebted to him for his service and sacrifice.

Phyllis Carter

September 6, 2012

Every Labor Day and every September 6th we remember and honor you and your family once again in our hearts.

Peggy Childers

September 7, 2011

September 6, 2011
To the family and friends of Lance Cpl. Derek L. Gardner:
Please accept my remembrance of Derek on the anniversary of his passing and know that he will never be forgotten.

Phyllis Carter

September 6, 2011

Seven years today for seven sets of family and friends, and only a few days from the tenth anniversary of 9/11; that day that changed all our lives forever. Ten years ago last week or so, I was at Camp Pendleton watching my young 2/1 Marine graduate from boot camp, with pride that he had made it through the tough thirteen weeks. Didn't have a thought of what was to come; that the six hundred new young Marines I watched on parade would be a number soon surpassed in military losses. Some of these seven young men we remember today likely joined after 9/11, willing to make the ultimate wartime sacrifice if they were called, as we now know they were. The years pass, but it still seems like yesterday to me, so I can not imagine what it is like for the families. But we remember and I'm proud to call their names from memory, with a thought as well to the brave Iraqi interpreters who died with them on September 6th, 2004.
Michael Allred, Mick(Nygard-)Bekowsky, David Burridge, Derek Gardner, Quinn Keith, Joseph McCarthy, and Lamont Wilson. We have searched them each out and brought them to life in our hearts. Gratitude, prayers and blessings to each family member and friend.

Peggy Childers

September 6, 2010

To the family and friends of Lance Cpl. Derek L. Gardner:
Remembering Derek on the anniversary of his passing. May our fallen heroes never be forgotten!
Peggy Childers
"Don't Let The Memory Of Them Drift Away"
www.IraqWarHeroes.org

Phyllis Carter Family

May 30, 2010

As I join my former Marine for his university graduation this week, we will both be remembering these brothers from that deployment and their family and friends.
I have shared this story with the teen boys I work with, and encouraged them to seek out a fallen soldier to carry in their hearts as one inspiration for serving others with their own lives.

Phyllis Carter Family

September 11, 2009

So long and yet it seems like yesterday. These seven Marines and their loved ones from that dark September 6th have been in my mind all month and particularly over Labor Day weekend. It was a trip back in time to my hometown, complete with fair and patriotic rodeo grand entry with a tribute to those who served. New to me was the sold out concert the night before, and everyone was talking about how the entertainer had sung a patriotic theme and then brought a group of Marines in dress blues up on stage to receive a large toys for tots contribution. The crowd gave the Marines a standing ovation and wouldn’t sit down. It was a good feeling to know that across the country similar celebrations of gratitude were happening. And despite the thrill of dress blues, we all know it’s the hot sweaty dirty guys out in the grit and sand in digital camos and desert boots that we are cheering for.
Then I came home and opened the e-mail forward with the u-tube video showing the signal motion for gratitude to our service men and women; hand over heart down to open hand, so natural and unobtrusive. Bless who ever came up with it.
So we remember these sons and their families and friends with gratitude and honor once again.
May God Bless You All, heart to hand.

Peggy Childers

September 6, 2009

To the family of Lance Cpl. Derek L. Gardner:
Derek gave the ultimate sacrifice and will be held in the hearts of Americans forever. I cannot and will not let our fallen heroes be forgotten. My deepest sympathy to you. "Some gave all."
Peggy Childers
"Don't Let The Memory Of Them Drift Away"
www.IraqWarHeroes.org

Kenna Larra

September 4, 2009

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Sincerely and Respectfully,
Kenna

In Memory of Derek ~ (Debra Estep)

September 6, 2008

Holding you all in my thoughts and prayers.


The Wind on The Downs

“I like to think of you as brown and tall,
As strong and living as you used to be,
In khaki tunic, Sam Brown belt and all,
And standing there and laughing down at me.
Because they tell me, dear, that you are dead,
Because I can no longer see your face,
You have not died, it is not true, instead
You seek adventure in some other place.
That you are round about me, I believe;
I hear you laughing as you used to do,
Yet loving all the things I think of you;
And knowing you are happy, should I grieve?
You follow and are watchful where I go.”

(Written by Marian Allen during World War l )

Two lines that I wish you to keep near your heart…….

“You seek adventure in some other place.
That you are round about me, I believe”


I did not know Derek, but I am remembering
his service. He is my hero. !

~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~

The Other Side

i'm over on the other side
where life and death softly divide.
left my skin and bones behind
now i'm over on the other side.

can you feel me there with you?
my breath is gone but i'm not through.
loved you then and i still do
from over on the other side.

i can fly. really fly.
below the earth ... all through the sky.
tell em all i did not die.
i'm just over on the other side.

it's good here on the other side.
the sweetest songs...the bluest skies.
thank you for the tears you cried
but it's good here on the other side.

i can fly. really fly. below the earth...all through the sky.
tell em all i did not die.
i'm just over on the other side

the world is smaller than a needle's eye.
where life and death softly divide.
when you leave your skin and bones behind
i'll be waiting on the other side.

i can fly. really fly. below the earth ... all through the sky.
go tell em all i did not die.
i'm just over on the other side.

Song lyrics by Don Conoscenti
C Desert Muse/SESAC
www.donconoscenti.com
(Used with permission)

“I hope it brings great comfort to any and all.
Peace on you. DonCon” 4-2008


The Other Side –
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Sincerely,

Deb Estep ~ Ohio
Proud Air Force Mom SSgt Vince – Lackland AFB
Proud Air Force MIL SrA Dana – Randolph AFB

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July 11, 2008

A Prayer For Our Soldiers ~~

DEAR FATHER UP IN HEAVEN
WE COME HUMBLY TO YOU TODAY,
THINKING OF OUR SOLDIERS
WHO ARE VERY FAR AWAY........

WE ASK FOR YOUR PROTECTION LORD
PLEASE KEEP THEM SAFE AND WARM,
AND WHEN EVIL LURKS AROUND THEM
KEEP THEM FROM ALL HARM........

BLESS EACH FAMILY AND THEIR CHILDREN
WHO GO THROUGH DRED EACH DAY
WONDERING IF THEY WILL COME HOME
OR ARE THEY GONE TO STAY.......

GOD PLEASE PROTECT OUR SOLDIERS
WHO FIGHT FOR OUR COUNTRYS NAME,
PLEASE DEAR LORD KEEP THEM SAFE
AND BRING THEM HOME AGAIN........

OUR COUNTRY STANDS FOR FREEDOM
WE FIGHT TO KEEP THE CAUSE,
WE MUST ALL STAND TOGETHER
NO MATTER WHAT THE COST......

SO DEAR FATHER UP IN HEAVEN
WONT YOU HEAR OUR PLEA,
BRING PEACE TO EVERY NATION LORD
SO OUR COUNTRY WILL BE FREE........

D Wes

July 11, 2008

It is heartbreaking to read of your terrible loss. As the days and years pass by, I do hope that you are receiving comfort from our God who promises that if we "throw our burdens on Him, He will sustain us" (Psalm 55:22). I hope that you all, including Derek's fiancee', can find peace and that the promises of God at Revelation 21:4 is something you hold dear. My deepest sympathies.

Kim Straker

July 11, 2008

I hope that the years since the death of this fine young American have been kind to those who loved him, and that they've had more peaceful times to share their special memories of happier days together. Rest in Peace L/Cpl. Derek L. Gardner. Your service and sacrifice are honored and you are remembered. Semper Fi Marine.

Safely Home

Michael Iezzi

July 11, 2008

Father we entrust our brother Derek to your mercy. You loved him greatly in this life: now that he is freed from all its cares, give him happiness and peace forever. Welcome him now into paradise where there will be no more sorrow, no more weeping or pain, but only peace and joy with Jesus your Son, and the Holy Spirit forever and ever.
May God hold Derek in the palm of His hand. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. My deepest sympathies.

Suzanne MacDaniel

July 11, 2008

To the Gardner family,

I know there are no words to say, except how sorry I am for your loss. May you hold Dereks' memory in your heart and please remember he shall never be forgotten.

...For you every single soldier
Those who served so honorable
Your life was forever altered
While I’m home safe and free
I stand with grateful admiration
I stand respectful and so proud
I know I’m only a civilian
And I don’t even know if it’s allowed.

But I salute you; allow me the honor
to salute you with permission let me say
Even though I hold no rank know that from my heart
My humble gratitude comes from the deepest part.
I salute you.

Suzanne MacDaniel
A Proud Aunt
Sgt. David M.Fisher

Sharon Koon

June 26, 2008

Dearest Derek,
We think of you daily and miss your great smile. You will never be forgotten. You are our Hero.

April 19, 2008

You are remembered and respected. Thank you Lance Cpl Gardner!

Quentin Jennings

September 18, 2007

You will not be forgotten Derek.

Phyllis Carter

September 3, 2007

I can not sleep, even though it’s been a wonderful evening. Candlelight yard and great friends, great music and all my small world is well, and at peace. Yet, the names go through my mind and faces and smiles and the national news on that fateful Labor Day morning. Michael Allred, Mick Bekowsky, David Burridge, Derek Gardner, Quinn Keith, Joe McCarthy, Lamont Wilson, God Bless your families and friends, and know you all are not alone, we remember, and these lost sons bring meaning and purpose to life well lived, knowing that life is a privilege. And yes, the Iraqi interpreters whose names we have never heard, we remember you.
Labor Day, September 6th, 2004.

August 6, 2007

I don't pretend to know what to say or do that would bring you peace in your time of sorrow, but I will offer my heart felt condolences. I also offer you my prayers that in time the pain will easy and the memories of your HERO will carry you through each day and night. I want to thank your HERO, for his/her selfless act of becoming a member of the armed forces, his/her willingness to defend the United States of America, all that we hold sacred and for the sacrifice that will forever be etched in the memories of all those who knew him/her. Though tears can never bring him/her back, we hope that our tears express our gratitude for the sacrifice that he/she made and our sorrow at his/her passing. I believe for every fallen HERO there is a star shining brightly up above to remind us of the precious gift we were given.

Your mission on earth is complete and you are now a member of GOD’s Heavenly armed forces. Stand down brave warrior and take your rightful place in Heaven with all the HEROES who have passed before.

I made a special promise to LE RON A. WILSON (KIA on 07/06/07) on the day he was laid to rest as I touched his coffin, that I would never forget him nor would I forget those that gave their lives for our country before him, with him and after him and so when I came across www.legacy.com, I thought what a great way to keep my promise to Le Ron, so I will continue to leave tributes in each guest book until the day there is no longer the need to leave these tributes to a FALLEN HERO.

REST IN PEACE, HERO, YOU WILL NEVER BE FORGOTTEN!!

PROUD MOTHER OF A U.S. SOLDIER
Althea Barrett(Queens, NY)

July 12, 2007

Thank you for the sacrifice made by Lance Cpl Gardner and the sacrifice made by everyone who loves and misses him! May God bless all of you!!
Aunt of a Lance Cpl about to deploy

Shannon Cowen

July 3, 2007

I will always remember Derek as being a caring and dedicated friend. He was so proud of being a Marine. I am still in shock that he was taken from this world.

Nanette Sagastume

May 28, 2007

Thinking of you on this Memorial Day. Derek is not forgotten.

Phyllis Carter

May 28, 2007

Remembering you and your loved ones and Marine brothers this Memorial Day.

Cpl.Devin Orrin U.S.M.C.

February 26, 2007

Always on my mind."Sparky dog".

Albert Barrera

November 13, 2006

It's been 2 years since Derek left this world. I remember him since back in LHHS days when we used to hang out during lunch along with some other friends. He was great friend that would make us laugh, have a good time and was a great football player. I miss him, even though I lost contact with him before he left to join the Marines. When I found about his fate, I regret for not keeping in contact and now that he's no longer with us, my thoughts and prayers go to Derek's family. May the lord give them strength and bless them. We miss you Derek, you are our hero!

Garnet Jenkins

September 6, 2006

Remembering this Fine Young Marine. Lance Cpl. Derek L. Gardner, with a Multitude of Thanks for his Service and Dedication to our Country and for Freedom.

May Derek rest in God's Loving Care and know that he will NEVER BE FORGOTTEN.

May God's Grace and Comfort, continue to be with the Gardner family.

From the sister of a Fallen young hero, who made the Ultimate Sacrifice in Vietnam. KIA~1967.



" Some people spend an entire lifetime wondering if they made a difference. The Marines don't have that problem." ( President Ronald Reagan)



Thoughts and prayers of a grateful Country continue to be with you today and every day.

Nanette Sagastume

August 28, 2006

My thoughts and prayers are with you on this difficult weekend

Nanette Sagastume

May 27, 2006

I am thinking of all of Derek's family on this Memorial Day. I would imagine his loss is still (and probably always will be) such a raw wound in your hearts. I think often of Derek and the other six Marines killed that day. Derek is not forgotten--even by someone like myself who never knew him. My thoughts and prayers are with you all.

Nick McCleary

May 15, 2006

Nick McCleary (Derek's cousin)

Tom Gugliuzza-Smith

May 9, 2006

My heartfelt sympathy to the Gardner family in the loss of Derek. I did not know Derek, but my heart is broken and I am saddened for your loss of such a fine young person and hero. May God bring you peace in your heart as you reflect on all the wonderful memories you hold so close. Please know that you are in my heart and prayers. Derek it has been 20 months since you were taken. My heart was touched by the many wonderful/beautiful things written about you. You are a hero and you will never be forgotten.

I send each of you a hug from the most inner part of my heart.

Love and Peace

Tom



To live in the hearts

of those you leave behind

is never to die"

~Robert Orr~

Quentin Jennings

April 21, 2006

I remember all the good times we had in Iraq playing vollyball. I will never forget Derek.

Raymundo Guillen

April 21, 2006

My condolences go out to the Gardner family. I was with derek through boot camp until we got to camp pendelton. From there we went to seperate platoons. He was a great person, and will always be remembered by his friends. From truck company.

Jessica Hatfield

January 18, 2006

Thank you to Lcpl Gardner for his very honorable service. I am a sister of a Marine 2/6 Echo currently in Fallujah Iraq. To the family--your in my prayers always. Being a part of the Marine family is bitter sweet at times but there is nothing like the bond--nothing. May God bless and keep all our Marines till they ALL come home. Thanx to all Marines and soldiers everywhere. Stay strong

--MarineSISTER

Phyllis Carter

September 3, 2005

Sending condolences and wishing your family and friends comfort this first anniversary week. I'm sure this year has been filled with daily "last year..." memories of your times together. May God bless you all and hold you close in this imperfect world. Know at least that unknown Americans scattered across the country will remember Derek with honor.

Nanette Sagastume

September 2, 2005

To the family of Derek Gardner, The first "anniversary" of Derek's death will be in a few days, and my heart is still heavy with knowledge of the pain you must experiencing all this long, excruciating year. I didn't know your son, but mine was in the platoon that your son was accompanying that day. Derek's death touched all of us whose sons were there. Everyday I think of your son and the others that were killed last Labor Day. All the young men will be in my heart forever. I just wanted you to know I am thinking of you especially this week with love.

Phyllis, Darrell, & Dawn Carter

April 2, 2005

Derek Gardner, we will remember you and your service and ultimate sacrifice. We will remember all of the seven Marines from that Labor Day of sorrow and the Iraqi interpreter who died with them outside Fallujah. Fate placed you in the company of Marines from the 2nd Battalion, 1st Marines that day, so you find yourself adopted into the hearts of many 2/1 parents. My son Darrell also served with the "2/1",though in a different company, and I am in an informal e-mail group of 2/1 parents who supported each other for those seven long months. Every one of us remembers the national news that fateful morning and the chill that came over our hearts. We just knew, and then came the phone calls from the Fox company surviving sons and we mentally ticked off who was accounted for and the waiting began. The doorbell passed us by, but several of our sons were on the scene and will bear the memories of their brothers always.

So Derek, we come to know you only by internet searches for your name, where we find your story. We send condolences to your parents, family and friends and hope they know they are wrapped in a virtual circle of thoughts and prayers from afar. The 2/1 represented states across the nation and the seven, a true cross section of America. CNN's Paula Zahn Now show did a feature on the men of Fox company,"Pale Rider Three." Copies are available from the CNN site. Pictures of the seven closed out the show. Derek is joined by Michael Allred, Mick (Nygard-)Bekowsky, David Burridge, Quinn Keith, Joseph McCarthy, and Lamont Wilson. We have searched them each out and brought them to life in our hearts. Please forgive my presumption in telling this story second hand and any misinformation or mispelling. We did not know these sons in life but we can list their names from memory and every Labor Day will call September 6th, 2004. Derek, we will carry you and your brothers in our hearts always. You have made a difference to millions and someday soon Iraqi children will dance in freedom on the sands you walked.

Jose and Clara Castro

September 18, 2004

We are Parents of Jose Castro from 2/1 Echo Co. 2nd Plt currently serving in Fallujah. We wanted to give you our deepest sympathy for your loss. Thanking you for his Bravery and an honor to have had him serving for our Country. May God Bless your family through these hard times.

rita haskell

September 17, 2004

I am a mother of 2/1 echo 3rd plt - our hearts are breaking with you - I know my son considers it an honor and a privelege to have served with your son. You are in our prayers.

Mary Jo Johnston

September 17, 2004

Please accept my personal thank you's first for being the family of one of the brave who chose to keep this the land of the free...My son is also with the 2/1 in their BAS unit... He often reminds me that we will not be the home of the free if good brave men do not protect it...You are in my prayers and thoughts each day..Bless you in your time of need..Gratefully yours, Mary Jo Johnston

Debbie White

September 17, 2004

My deepest condolences to your family. I am a 2/1 Mother. You are in my prayers.Thanks to your son for serving our country so we could have freedom. I am so sorry for your loss.My son is serving in the 2/1 H&S Trailer Co. in Fallujah, Iraq. Keep Praying, because threw prayer we can get threw anything.

My deepest condolences,

Debbie White, Mother of Lance CPL. Seth D. Walling, 2/1 H&S Trailer Co., Fallujah,Iraq

Angie Lewis

September 17, 2004

I am so very sorry for your loss. These boys are the bravest, strongest most courageous I've ever seen. The loss of any of them comes as a terrible blow. My deepest sympathies for your family in this time of pain and grief. My brother is in 2/1 also and he prays for your family as well. Blessings to you.

Susan Brewer

September 17, 2004

Know that your family has been in my thoughts and prayers. My son served with yours in the 2/1. He is in Weapons Co. He was a special young man to volunteer to serve his country.

David Norris

September 17, 2004

I AM SORRY FOR THE LOSS OF YOUR SON

WORDS CANNOT EVER BEGIN TO EXPLAIN.I KNOW THAT BEING A MARINES

GRAND POP AND FROM MARINE THAT I HAVE FELT GREAT PAIN FOR YOUR FAMILY

I KNOW MY GRANDSON A MARINE WHO WAS WITH 2/1 IS UP SET AND MOURNS THE LOSS OF YOUR SON AND THE LOSS OF HIS OTHER MARINES BROTHER

TO YOUR SON FROM A FROM MARINE THANK YOU FOR KEEPING US FREE AND A JOB WELL DONE SEMPER FI.

GOD NEEDED FEW GOOD MEN HE IS WITH JESUS IN HIS MARINE CORPS

DAVID AND LINDA NORRIS GRAND PARENTS OF L/CPL.ZACH FINCANNON WITH 2/1

Lynn and Richard Place

September 17, 2004

Sorry just doesn't have enough meaning for what we are feeling for you all. We will keep you in our prayers. Our son Ethan is with the 2/1. We are all parents together. May God bless you and wrap you up in His love. Lynn and Richard Place

Martha Gullett

September 16, 2004

I am so sorry for the loss of your son, words cannot even begin to explain. I know that being a Marine Parent, that I have felt great pain for your family.

I know my son is upset and mourns the loss of your son and the loss of his other Marine brothers.

Please know how much we appreciate him for fighting for our freedom.

We will continue to keep your family in our thoughts and prayers.

Try to hold on to the Faith, "Hebrews 11"



Randy and Martha, Parents of Daryl Gullett 2/1, H&S Co. Trl.Plt. Fallujah,Iraq



Randy and Martha Gullett of Grand Prairie, Texas

Phyllis, Darrell, & Dawn Carter

September 16, 2004

Our deepest condolences to your family and friends. We are a 2/1 family, with Darrell on his second deployment as a 2/1 Marine, though a different company, alongside the seven whose lives we now honor. I wish we could have known Derek. Our sons across the country could have grown up together, so close in age. Know we will always hold you in our hearts from afar.

Nanette and Mario Sagastume

September 15, 2004

I am so sorry for your loss! I didn't know your son, but I am so grateful for his sacrifice. I thank you and him...I know my son is devasted and mourns the loss of your son and the loss of his other Marine brothers. You are in our hearts and in our prayers.



Nanette and Mario, Parents of Daniel, 2/1, Fox Company, 3rd Platoon, Fallujah

Ron and Judith Peters

September 14, 2004

Keeping you in our thoughts and prayers during this most difficult and sorrowful time.

The Millican Family

September 13, 2004

We pray for God to help you thru. We cannot reconcile losing a child for any reason and the pain you are feeling must be immeasurable. Our prayers are also with April - so close to beginning a life full of love. God has Derek now and he will wait for you to join him, in time. Our love to you all.

Stephanie Holloway

September 12, 2004

Although I did not know you, I am grieving your passing, grieving the passing of all our brave young men and women who have been protecting our freedom, and making the world a better place for all humankind. Your ultimate sacrifice will be forever remembered - thank you for your selfless service to our country. To all family and friends - may God comfort you in his loving arms during your time of need. My thoughts and prayers are with you.



God Bless America, and Semper Fi

christina

September 12, 2004

Thank you for giving us your loved one. He protected all Americans and gave the ultimate sacrifice. Thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time. A true HERO is how he will be remembered.

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