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Carl Williams
1943 - 2004
Carl Williams
1943 - 2004
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BORN
1943
DIED
2004
Carl Williams Obituary
Memorial service 2:00 p.m. Monday, September 27, 2004 at Donnelly’s Colonial Funeral Home Chapel.
Don't grieve for me, for now I'm free.
I'm following the path God has laid you see.
I took his hand when I heard Him call.
I turned my back and left it all.
I could not stay another day.
To laugh, to love, to work, or play.
Tasks left undone must stay that way,
I found that peace at the close of the day.
If my parting has left a void,
Then fill it with remembered joys.
A friendship shared, a laugh, a kiss,
Oh yes, these things I too will miss.
Be not burdened with times of sorrow,
I wish you the sunshine of tomorrow.
My life's been full, I savored much.
Good friends, good times, a loved one's touch.
Perhaps my time seemed all too brief.
Don't lengthen it now with undue grief.
Lift up your hearts and peace to thee.
God wanted me now; He set me free.
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Gareth (ZG77 Farclas)
September 19, 2024
What a great bloke, pilot and a real gent. I miss you OP.
Gareth (ZG77 Farclas)
September 19, 2023
OP was a brilliant pilot, a great bloke and a real gent. I miss him and still think of him. Salute Carl.
chris podd
September 19, 2022
I miss you old papa
yuri kamata
May 29, 2018
From Japan, I came to see a nostalgic friend.
kamata_26AC
2018/05/30
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Elizabeth&Amber Contreras/Smith
June 21, 2006
i just wanted to say that i miss papa carl a whole bunch. & i still thk about him 24/7 & try not to cry, because at least i know that he sees me & he smiles while i shouldnt be cryin. i feel like the only one there for me is amber & she actually knows how i fills. It easy talkin to someone my age instead of hearing the comfort from the older people. amber miss her mom & her grandpa very much.
Brooke Contreras
May 31, 2006
I know I should have signed this a long time ago when I first discovered it while searching my name on google (yeah, I was pretty bored that day), but I couldn't. I didn't want to, as mean as that sounds. I just didn't want to relive the memories of that horrible week. But, I do relive those memories. Everyday. And there's nothing I can do to stop them. Although, it's gotten easier with time to deal with them. And I'm doing this now, because I feel I should. All I want to say is that I took advantage of the time I had with him. I didn't appreciate it as much as I should have. That is the dead truth, and I'm not just saying it. He taught me something I should have learnt when I was very first told: "You never know what you have until it's gone." That has never been more true or clear to me until I was told he was being taken off life support. Time is a very precious thing and you should value it. You should enjoy every moment of life and treasure it. Don't fret over the little things. And as hard as it is to believe, I now believe that there is a good thing to everything bad. This is the influence his death had on me in later time. I appreciate my life now and don't obsess and complain about every problem I am having. I am a much more optimistic person now (although it doesn't seem that way to a select few), which I'm very grateful for, having looked back on how I was in the past and not liking my old selfs ways. I smile a lot more and laugh, too. Weekdays used to be horrible for me. I hated school. Now I get up and think about all the good things that will happen that day. I try not to let anything ruin my happiness, no matter how bad it is. True, there are days when I am the complete opposite of this, but I look more on the bright side now. And it is because of him that I changed. So, even though we all miss him, something good did come out of this, I have become a better person that what I was.
Ron Costa
March 23, 2006
Carl was a fine man.
He was and still has a speacil place in my memory and heart.
I really loved when he came to NY with Paula to see him so happy and I had the great honnor to give him his first NY hat.
I really do miss him, the squad has never been the same.
Teri Smith
March 21, 2006
Time does help us deal better with the pain of losing a loved one. But they always remain alive in our hearts as long as we hold them close and never forget them. I do believe they are up above watching over us and sending us ways to ease our broken hearts because they don't want to see us hurt. Sometimes we don't always see those signs or sometimes others think it might be wrong for us however each of us has to find our own path to healing or we can never come to peace with the lost. Carl will always be loved and remembered. And he will always have his own special place in my heart and therefore he will remain with me till I have the chance to see him again. I love you Carl. Keep flying with the angels and helping the sun rise each day.
ZG77_Hunter
March 20, 2006
Carl "Oldpapa" Williams is loved and missed by many. Although most of ZG77 and all of papa's online friends never got to meet him personally, he still managed to make them all feel as a dear friend.
I am one of the few lucky ones that did get to meet him and Paula when they came to New York. We had the greatest time and it was an absolute joy to be in their company.
I too miss papa very much as does the whole online community that he was a special part of.
When I think of papa it brings good memories and thats what I'll hold onto forever.
Brandon
March 19, 2006
Blair, I know sometimes it seems nobody cares anymore but everyone does care and will never forget. Just some people handle it differently. There is no right way nor is there a wrong way. Nobody just get's over it, we just learn to deal with it. So when you feel nobody cares anymore, just remember that they DO care and still miss Carl a great deal. And always remember, he is and always will be alive in your heart and in your memories as long as you never forget. I am really glad that you and Blake talk about your papa and I think he hears you both and I'm sure it brings a smile to his face. As I had engraved on Lisa's headstone "memories are ours forever". Just remember there are certain memories that just you will have and NOBODY can take those away.
Time does march on but the memories remain.
Blake Contreras
January 5, 2006
I miss my grandpa a whole lot. When every I am filling sad me & my Sister Blair alwayz talk about him and what we would say before he died. It makes us fill better if we talk about about him sometimes. I love my grandpa.
Blake
Elizabeth(Sissy) Contreras
January 5, 2006
I just want to say that grandpa was the best. He alwayz defended me and my cat James when we would be made fun of. I would say that I fill that me, nanna & James r cats miss him the most. Or that is what I at least see now. I thk about him everyday. And I pry to God & Him if I am filling down or just goin to sleep. I miss him very much.
Elizabeth Blair Contreras (Sissy)
chris podd
September 28, 2005
Papa.His brotherly friendship and fatherly caring way ,sharing good and bad things.I miss him . kes
ZG77 HUNTER
September 10, 2005
To all of papa's friends and family, ZG77 invites you to come visit the tribute page we have dedicated to Carl Williams, known to the virtual world as ZG77_Oldpapa.
Please visit the webpage at...
http://www.zg77.com/zg77/ZG77-OldPapa/aboutpapa.html
and post comments in his guest book and if you have any pictures you wish to post, there is a section where you can upload your pictures to share with all of us who loved papa.
A. G. Villarreal
September 9, 2005
I have met your wonderful sister, Rosie. She has brighten my life. She shared pictures of you, I do she loves you very much, and misses you. Thank you for brighting her life...may you be in a better, wonderful place. Take care.
John Leadbetter
September 7, 2005
I do not fly in the virtual world near as much as I used to, but when I do, and I happen to come across a P-39, I immediately think of the warmest, kindest, and most sincere individual I have ever met in the virtual world, ZG77_OldPapa aka Carl Williams. I still miss him, and I am sure he knows it....ZG77_JBoy aka John Leadbetter
Rosemary Williams
September 6, 2005
My sweet little brother, oh how I miss you. I miss your terrific sense of humor. I miss your creativity. I miss your supportive words when trouble comes my way. I miss your unfailing honesty of word and deed. And, most of all, I miss your gentle, loving ways. I always will. Sis
Joe Marzan
September 4, 2005
My dearest papa, I come here today to pay my respects to you my friend. Although we originally met online and only met once physically, you have become one of the closest friends I have ever had. I have pictures and memories of you that will last forever,and everytime I look at the pictures, or remember us playing games, it will always bring a smile to my face and a touch of love to my heart. I miss you and will never forget you. Keep smiling down at us papa with those wide open arms of yours for it gives comfort to those who loved you. ZG77 has added a page on it's website devoted to you. We will always honor ZG77_Oldpapa. Anyone with pictures of papa can post them there and sign his guestbook.
Ron Costa
August 29, 2005
It will be a year soon of Carls Passing.
We still miss him and still talk about him, how he was a big part of out famliy.
How Carl was the heart of our squad.
We miss you buddy we miss you much.
OzZ
The Morins from MA
November 20, 2004
Wow. Its November 20-ish and I just read the thread on Old Papas' passing. Our deepest condolences to his family and friends. He will surely be missed.
Wayne Warner
November 19, 2004
Papa: Oh papa.....my lord I'm so broken beyond words.God carry you in his arms my friend.You were the best friend and man a fellow could ever know,your laughter and sense of fun,spirit and adventure will remain with me forever.I only wish I could be as shining a member of the human race as you.
Never good bye but see you later sir.Oh man this hurts.
Sunshine Menden
November 9, 2004
Sorry for the delay in our finding out of OldPa's passing we have both been working.
We were blessed in meeting OldPa.
He touched our lives.
He comforted me on days I knew flying was not for me.
He made us laugh until we cryed.
We will miss you OldPa
Sunshine (Bunns) and Denys (Mundo)
Menden
Andrew Sivley
October 26, 2004
The Sivley family extends our deepest condolences to the Williams family, and the ZG family will truly miss our old buddy, OP. He always kept me laughing, sometimes to tears, and was always a great friend. We miss you, OldPapa, but are thankful you are in a better place.
ZG77_YoYo7
October 23, 2004
ZG77 Papa was strickly TOP SHELF, as an individual, and in the air.
My deepest condolences to the ZG77th and to Carl's family.
Aguada
ZG77_Vics Victor Lee
October 23, 2004
I'm without words to describe my feelings and grief to the passing of our friend and college Carl. He was without a doubt a great man with a heart of gold. I will truely and sincerly miss him. My condolances goes to the Williams family and all the loved ones he left behind.
Skyghost
October 23, 2004
I was only told today that Oldpapa passed away.
Oldpapa, Carl, was one of nicest guys I’ve ever met on the virtual world.
I remember well, some 5 years ago, when I first met him and when I invited him to join what was then my squadron, the BNB.
Countless hours of fun, amusement but also some serious talks, when one of us felt the need to talk, we were always ready to listen, to cheer… And Carl always found the right words to cheer with his good mood, his willing to help.
I’ll never forget his laugh.
The way he used to laugh on RW or on Ventrilo, the crowbar history, you guys remember, whack, whack, whack, wait he’s still moving, whack, whack, whack again, it still makes me smile and laugh… Or the way he used to scream on my ears “ Sky, you no good bandit, get out of my tail!!!” or “ I got you Sky, HuuuHuuuuu!!!!”…. I’m going to miss it.
You’re going to be missed Carl.
I will miss you.
You had your health problems, but you never gave up, you always kept fighting it with a smile on your face.
Now you left us, but I know you will be somewhere in the blue sky, between the white of the clouds, flying your spit, spanking guys with your crowbar and smiling.
I just hope the sadness of this moment let me smile back at you.
Goodbye Dear Friend.
We will see us again sometime
Skyghost
ZG77_Schnell (Steve Snell)
October 21, 2004
Words just cannot describe how I feel. I will miss him dearly, as others have already expressed. I can take comfort in that he is in a place better place, with is wings on. See you in the future OP.
Mark Kerfeld
October 20, 2004
A great man to have known. We will miss him. Paula, may God comfort you and your family.
Mark (aka ZG77_SHIVER)
October 20, 2004
I know I'll never forget Carl, or Oldpapa as we know him. Though I've only known him a few years now, it was sure easy to see what type of man he was. Alwayse had a laugh, alwayse had a smile, alwayse had something nice to say; he was a great friend. I liked to hear the stories from his trucking days. My condolences go out to his family and friends. Though he will be missed, he won't be forgotten.
Cole Sibley (ZG77_Lignite)
ZG77_Nagual Christopher Morey
October 20, 2004
Carl (we knew him as ZG77_Oldpapa) touched the hearts of everyone who knew him. Even in the virtual world of the Internet is wonderful Humour, Intelligence and Love shown through. He is dearly missed by all of us, but the empty place in our hearts cannot but be filled with joy whenever we think of him.
the Dennis family (TIREBOY)
October 19, 2004
Our condolences go out to the William’s family on the passing of Carl.
Carl, known to my family as Ol’Papa, has been a friend for many years. I only knew Old’Papa from the virtual world, but he was the kindest man I knew. He liked everyone and everyone liked him. The world, both virtual and real, grieves for the loss of Ol’Papa. Heaven is a better place with Carl there.
Salute! ZG77_OLD PAPA, may we fly again someday!
Joe Maserik
October 15, 2004
I express to your family my deepest sympathies for the loss of a terrific cyber companion of whom I can only imagine the endearing and kind place he occupies in your hearts. I knew him joyfully as "OP" and was always thrilled to see his name and hear his voice in the many evenings of his company. May God grant you His lasting comfort and grace.
Paul Williams
October 9, 2004
I just can't believe my brother Carl is gone. I am so relieved though, that he chose to believe in Jesus Christ, accepting the free gift of life in heaven with Jesus. I will miss him and remember all of the good times that we had together. I am thankful that all is not over and I will be with him myself someday, because I also have chosen to believe and receive Jesus.
Cody Carpenter
October 2, 2004
663rd_Shadow
And may God help you though your Lost
Teri Smith
September 30, 2004
Carl was such a special person to me and also to many others. He never met a stranger. When I arrived in the family there where no questions of my past, just the open arms of love and joy. Carl is now in a much better place than us because he is now enjoying the peace and joy of heaven. He is now with loved ones that have gone before him and I bet he is having a wonderful time. My thoughts and love are with all of us that are left behind in this world to continue the daily grind, but keep in mind that one day we all be together again! Time does help us accept the lost of someone we love and the memories do help us go on, but the thought that we will all join together one day keeps my heart light. To Paula, Kelli and Chris please know that my love and thoughts are with you in this difficult time and always. Love you all.
chris podd
September 30, 2004
My sincerest condolences to Carl`s family.
Carl was Papa to me and my son little kes.I met Papa online several years ago and allthough we never met in person (we planned to) we got to know each other well,meeting up most every day.We played games laughed and joked and talked about many things.My son little kes played with him and loved him to bits.
Papa helped me through some rough times,he leant me his ear and shoulder to lean on,a kinder and more giving man I have never met.If I had a father I would have chosen him.I am lucky to have known this man,Papa was my friend and I miss him so much
kes
ZG77_kester
Ed & Josie Davis
September 29, 2004
Our thoughts and prayers are with you. May God bless you.
James Hallows
September 29, 2004
Hey ZG77_OldPapa, don't bother resting in peace bud. Have a blast up there! You've got the ultimate energy advantage now!
Nutty_663rd
Brandon Smith
September 29, 2004
No words can truly express the feelings I have for Carl. He was not only my uncle but was a true friend. He has helped so many including myself in ways I can’t even begin to list. There is no telling how many others he helped along his journey in life. He will continue to help us all as long as we keep him in our hearts. When we are faced with certain situations just ask yourself “what would Carl say” and if you know him as I do, you will know what he would say. So see, while he may be gone from this earth, he has not left us. Some say time heals but from experience, time does not completely heal but time does allow us to learn to deal with our losses. Never forget or try to bury memories, keep them alive. But in life we all must move on. Don’t forget him, but don’t live in agony or despair. I sincerely believe that is what Carl would want each and every one of us to do. Remember this, we all will pass from this world someday and if we believe and trust in God, we will all be united again when it is our time. So to Carl I say, save me a spot in your new computer room and I’ll be there someday.
God bless us all!
Randy Wise
September 28, 2004
Viper::ZG77_OldPapa::
I will miss Carl. But I know I will see him again one day. He loved his wife and grandchildren dearly. He was the best computer-fixer, HHH rider, Half-Life map-maker, WWII pilot and Team Ops player ever known to man. But most of all he loved the Lord and he knew that's what really counts.
P.S. Say hi to the Cowtown Goatroper for me.
Dave & Kathy Brittain
September 28, 2004
Condolences from us to all of yours. 663rd_Tbull
John Patterson
September 27, 2004
I love this ole cowboy.. I miss him so badly.... I thank God he was able visit us in NY. He and his lovely wife came to comfort us after 9/11... save me a seat Pappy.
Rover
Larry Clark
September 27, 2004
May God bless and keep Paula and the family, for He already has Carl by his side. Salute, OP, you will be missed.
Gareth Batchelor
September 27, 2004
I knew my friend Carl as OP and we had such great times online together. He really was a top-hand, a great pilot and wonderful comrade. He was my friend and I shall miss him very much, but I can't help but smile when I think of him.
Best wishes and sincere condolences to Paula and the family.
Dave Fowler
September 27, 2004
Pappy was always happy and saw only the best in everyone; I did not have the good fortune to meet him in person which I regret very much, but when I needed help, Pappy would always send me an e-mail helping as much as he could. I have enjoyed his company very much over the short but good times I have shared with him.
My condolences to Paula, family and friends.
Dave Fowler,,,,,ZG77_GUARD
Gayle Thayer
September 27, 2004
May God watch over you and yours. And may sweet memories prevail.
Loretta
September 27, 2004
Paula & Family -
I am sorry for your loss. Know that he is at peace. Keep your memories alive in your heart.
Loretta
Chris Koller
September 27, 2004
I will always remember him as an outstanding personality and great friend. He was one of my first acquaintances and and I will never forget him.
My sincere condolence to his family and friends.
Chris
Sylvia Bush
September 27, 2004
My thoughts and prayers are with you Paula, your children, grandchildren.
God be with you all.
Tommy & Laura Dodd
September 27, 2004
Our thoughts and prayers are with you in your loss. God bless you all and may you find peace. Laura & Tommy Dodd
Lin Livingston
September 27, 2004
Paula,
We, at American Airlines, are so sorry for your loss. Our thoughts are with you. May God give you the strength to walk through this with peace and serenity.
Yuri Kamata
September 26, 2004
It was waiting for the day which flies in both the skies of the Internet.
Sad news is very regrettable.
Thank you for the recollections pleasant until now.
The thing of Carl (ZG77_OLDPA) does not forget.
kamata26_AC
Jim Grant
September 26, 2004
My condolences and deepest sympathies to his family and to his squadmates and friends. Our thoughts and prayers will be with them through this difficult time.
663rd_Olds
Mark Massicotte(ZG77_Manicoti)
September 26, 2004
Heaven just got a whole lot brighter now that it has been graced by your presence. I'll be thinking of you while i'm flying the skies and am that much closer to you at 41,000 ft. I'll be looking for you off my wing.
I miss you OP!!
663rd_BlindOwl
September 26, 2004
My deepest condolances to the family and friends.
Someday when my last line is written.
Someday when I draw my last breath.
When my last words on earth have been spoken.
And my lips are sealed in death.
Don't look on my cold form in pitty.
Don't think of me as one dead.
It will just be the house I once lived in.
My spirit by then will have fled.
Rest In Peace.
Jaedon Sell
September 26, 2004
My condolences. Carl (OldPapa) Williams was a good pilot, and a better person. My prayers are with his loved ones
=SF=CH David Chachava
September 26, 2004
Rest in Peace
Darrell Presley
September 26, 2004
Its without a doubt that Carl was a breath of fresh air to interact with in any area or setting. I treasure all the entertaining moments we spent as friends. He had a gift of fun and laughter like no other. I am thankful to have known him for he never met a person that he did not like. We could all take lessons from this lovable man, I know I have.
Claude Morris
September 26, 2004
I will truly miss Carl(OldPapa). He was an inspiration to all of us in ZG77.His humor and skill impressed me beyond words. I never met him in the flesh but I count him a true friend. Salute!!
Claude Morris aka ZG77_VonKat
Vinny 'Mapo' Paul
September 26, 2004
Carl was an outstanding member of the community, always happy to help others and a great friend throughout all the years I knew him - He will be sorely missed by his friends and acquaintances alike. My sincere condolences go out to his family,
On behalf of all at 61ShAP,
Dennis Sanders
September 26, 2004
My condolences to the family Carl aka "Old Papa" was a true friend and will always be in my thoughts. Folho_663rd,303rd
Mark Ward
September 26, 2004
I’ll always remember Carl (OldPapa) for his humor. He had a way of making the mundane humorous; that combined with his infectious laugh made him a joy to be around.
We'll miss you OP.
Stefano Strani AKA ZG77_Pasta
September 26, 2004
There are not words for this, but I would like to let my family condolence to you all. I miss a true friend like him.
Michael Nelson
September 26, 2004
My deepest sympathy to OldPapa's Family and his Squadmates. It was part of our blessings to have known him. May God comfort you and provide His grace and strength. Thanks for the memories...
tcas_663rd
Antonio Castro
September 26, 2004
My condolences to his family. Oldpa i will miss you. I will never forget you.
Salute! Oldpa
Antonio "Darth" Catro
Carrie Austad
September 26, 2004
I never had the pleasure of meeting Carl in person, but as fellow internet flying enthusiasts we had many hours of fun in the virtual skies over Belgium. Carl was known to me as ZG77_OldPa and he was one of the nicest and tolerant people I flew with.
A true gentleman indeed, he will be missed.
Carrie Austad
Miss*Strega
Don Thursby
September 26, 2004
Thank you for all the good times we've shared in online air combat. Thank you for all those bullets and the times you've shot me down. It has been a pleasure and an honor knowing you, I will truely miss you. Till we meet again old friend, God bless.
___ TFS*Niles
Joe Marzan
September 26, 2004
Our deepest condolences to the family and friends of Carl Williams, known to me as papa. He has captured the hearts of many and will never be forgotten. May he rest in peace.
Ron Costa AKA ZG77_OzZ
September 26, 2004
I will miss you my freind, You are and will be my OldPapa. You laugh you funny words and the time we talk for hrs and played online as well. In the air and on the ground. The day we went all over NY with you and Paula. Your first NY hat. You told me you wore it out I sent you aother one. I will miss you so much Carl. I really will.
John Leadbetter
September 26, 2004
I am truly saddened by the untimely passing of Carl (ZG77_OldPapa) Williams. We never met except in the virtual world, where Carl's always present warmth and kindness was there for the world to see. He truly was a man among men, and I will always remember him fondly.
Warmest personal regards, John Leadbetter aka ZG77_JBoy
Elizabeth Parr
September 26, 2004
I remember Carl as the little brother who was interested in the "grown up" antics of his big sister Rosemary and me, as we tried to leave him behind. In this passing, he has left us behind. May he rest in peace.
Rosemary Williams
September 26, 2004
Dearest little brother--Bobby and I miss you more than words can ever express.
stuart berry
September 26, 2004
To the memory of my dear friend Carl, whom i have had the privilege to know, never heve i met a bigger heart than you.
I will miss you Papy.
From Stuart Berry
AKA:ZG77_Beard
Donnelly's Colonial Funeral Home
September 25, 2004
Offering our deepest condolences during this difficult time.
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