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Pamela Hilger Obituary

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Pamela Hilger (PC)

Of Los Gatos lost her courageous battle with cancer on April 16th at the age of 50. She was the beloved mother of Nicholas and Christina. Daughter of Betty Kohler, preceded in death by her father Gerald Struzan. She was the loving sister of Jim, Linda, Charlene, Susan, Nancy, Kenny and Michael.Pamela lived most of her life in the Bay Area. She enjoyed reading, cooking, animals and on-line journaling. She will be missed by family and friends for her inspirational courage and humor.A memorial service will be celebrated on Saturday, April 22, at 12 Noon at Peace Lutheran Church, 885 Pomeroy Avenue, Santa Clara. Donations may be made to the Humane Society.

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Published by San Jose Mercury News on Apr. 19, 2006.

Memories and Condolences
for Pamela Hilger

Sponsored by Karen Cahall.

116 Entries

Pamela

April 13, 2024

I knew Pamela through AOL Journals. She was very strong and had such great courage. Most of all she kept her sense of humor. Rest in peace Pamela. God Bless.
Signed,
The other Pamela

Amy Donahue

April 13, 2023

Her light still shines in my memory.

Caitlin Tarpening

April 10, 2014

I miss her so much! I love you aunty! <3

Psychfun

July 12, 2010

Wow, 4 yrs it doesn't seem possible. I still think of her often & think of how she is now a true angel in heaven looking down & guiding & protecting all of us. I had an aunt how died of lung cancer in her early 50s. I too am very happy to hear you have a copy of her journal. She was such a blessing to us all. I miss her terribly.

Vince Deabler

July 11, 2010

I'm so relieved to hear you have a copy of your Mom's AOL Journal. I'll never forget her.

April 16, 2010

I still think of and miss Pamela so much. I don't remember the exact date of her passing but I know it was on Easter so that is when I remember it most. She was such a sweet woman.

My on mother passed almost 2 years from lung cancer. We had less than 2 months from when we found out until she passed.

I am so glad you have a printed copy of her journal. It meant a lot to her for you to have it.

You and your brother are still in my prayers

Christina Hilger

March 28, 2010

Dear All,
I am so thankful to be reading this guest book right now. My names Christina Hilger, and I am Pamela Hilger's daughter. I can't believe she has almost been gone for four years. April is always the hardest time of month for me but I always know I'm going to make it. These four years have been the toughest but I know my mother is guiding me wherever I go. I thank you all for your prayers and wishes, I hope to continue my mother’s memory and know she was loved by so many people. I do have a fully printed copy of her AOL journal, and I will hold into it forever. Thank you all again. God Bless you all.

-Christina Leigh Hilger

Stephanie

June 15, 2006

Pam was an amazing woman. She touched so many lives as she fought her battle with grace and dignity. I will keep you in my thoughts and prayers. May God give you the strength to overcome this time of saddness. Realize that while Pam is gone from this earth, she is not gone from your life. She lives on in your heart and in the hearts of the thousands of people she touched across the world!

Meg Brown

May 17, 2006

Pam Dances

This Easter, Pam dances with a freedom untold
How she touched our souls with her heart of gold.
Her wonderful charm, her words of wit
Through her valiant fight, she never quit.

She shared her life, her grief, her pains
She shared her loves, her joys, her gains
So brave and funny; scared, yet strong
Her spirit upon us as an unsung song.

Here but a season, like her accidental garden,
Until she took God’s hand as she gained His pardon
Now, Pam dances…with joy, and peace too
Our Marshmallow Pam, J-Land misses you!

Rest In Peace Pam
~Meggy

Kasey

May 11, 2006

May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.

Deb Ballard

May 8, 2006

My sympathy to Pamela's family..I know what you are going through..I lost my maternal Grandma to this disease in 1984, my wonderful Mom to it in Feb. this year, and just found out that my M-I-L also has been recently diagnosed w/ it, too. I stumbled upon Pam's Journal just after my Mom was diagnosed last year (8/05) and I was very much impressed w/ how Pamela handled it all...my mom was spunky like her, too (only about 24 yrs older!?) but Mom didn't have the advantages to try to treat hers like Pam had, and DID TRY to do??! I applaud Pam for that! She never gave in or gave up?! I never was able to chat or mail her like most, but I was fortunate enough to read her journal postings and get a better understanding of it...if you're going through it yourself, in some way, it is a bit 'different"..?!- I'll never forget my Mom,of course...but I won't forget Pam, either! She was truly an inspiration to ALL of us!!! :)

May God Bless & Keep You All...

Debbie

Kristina Pitts

April 29, 2006

She was a gifted person who touched the lifes or all she crossed and she will be missed. My condolences to her friends and family.

Lisa Stradley

April 29, 2006

Pam was an inspiration and a gift to all of us who knew her through journaling. She was a strong fighter, loving and kind person and she touched so many lives. We should all be so loved. I wish you all peace as you deal with the loss of your special loved one. May she soar with the angels in perfect peace.

Nicole Guajardo

April 27, 2006

Pam was an amazing woman who made such an impact on everyone she crossed paths with. I consider it a privilege to have known such a wonderful woman. My heartfelt sympathy goes out to you and the entire family. May each day that goes by lessen the pain to those left behind, but oh the joy that Pam's pain is gone! Remember that you have a very special angel watching over you all!

Celeste Holloway

April 26, 2006

I look outside today and saw the beginnings of an accidential garden. Pam, you will always be remembered and loved.

Regina

April 26, 2006

What a wonderful gift from God Pamela was. I will miss her.

Darlene Johnston

April 26, 2006

Pam was one of the first journals I started reading. I loved her humour and spirit. At first I didn't even realize that she was sick until I started reading her previous entries. She was always so full of life! Rest in peace, dear Pam. You are a wonderful inspiration to us all in J-Land! We love you.

Leslie Hyde

April 24, 2006

I never met Pam. We only knew each other through our journals over this last year and a handful of emails. I don't really know what to say. I miss her very much, and I pray for her family and friends. She was adored and will be sorely missed. A truly wonderful lady who carried herself with grace and dignity.

Christina Brown

April 24, 2006

Pam...

Never will a garden look the same again and weeds will always have the possibility of more. Thank you for that magic, my dear. I miss you everyday, but not nearly as much as your children and your family miss you.

Until we meet again, kiss God for me.

xxoo

Juli Schwartz

April 24, 2006

I have to say that I never met or knew Pam. I came across this in one of the forums that Tracey and Randomacts were commenting on. I was curious about Pam. My mother in law passed away a week earlier do to the same form of cancer. I can relate to everything being written here. My MIL, didn't have a journal. She could barely sit up. But, she never complained about it. So, Pam is in my thoughts and prayers, even though I didn't know her. My thoughts and prayers are with all of you as well. Juli Schwartz

Tracey Pike

April 23, 2006

I was introduced to Pamela through Randomacts. She writes a few journals here, and I followed Pamela's fight. I was so saddened today to hear of her passing. My admiration for her is endless. Here was a woman who shared her battle with us all. The ups, the downs, and all the in betweens. May you rest now Pamela, free from your pain. My condolences must go out to her children, who have lost a wonderful Mother, and to her family and friends.

Yvette Madrid

April 22, 2006

We met Christina and Pam when they enrolled for Neighborhood Christian school in Santa Clara, Ca.. I was the school secretary and my husband was going to be Christina's fourth grade teacher. I will always remember the family. We were fortunate to get a little kitten from the Hilgers in May of 2001. Pam would update me as we anxiously waited for Shelby to be old enough to be given to us. Pam was a very kind hearted person. I will never forget her smile and tender heart.

Our prayers go to the Hilger family. Christina, I will always remember you sweetie!

Much love and prayers,

Mrs. Madrid

Ann (Ayn and all) Garvey

April 22, 2006

Pam was a spirit that resides now in all of us. I will hold it eternally as one of life's blessings. I will miss her diligent ability to love unconditionally every creature that walked or wagged his or her tail.

God Bless you Pam and God Bless your family and friends.

All our love,

Us

Lynda {auntie lyn}

April 22, 2006

Pam, I know that you are well now, and safe from fear and harm. You touched more people's lives than you could have ever imagined with your gentleness and honesty. You made each of us believe that there is Grace in all things, including cancer. I thank you for your demonstration of Love. Nicholas and Christina, I pray that you feel your mom's presence at all times, and in all situations. Take good care of yourselves, as the two of you were her reason and rhyme for living.

Karen Cahall

April 22, 2006

Pam was such a strong person. She touched so many people.

We are so lucky to have Pamela been a part of our lives. Pam will live on in our memories forever.

To Pam's childen: Stay strong for your mother. Her biggest concern was for the both of you. You are very lucky to have a mother like Pam.

To Pam's family: Be so ever proud of her.

Jeannette Oatley

April 22, 2006

Pam was a very special lady. She shared her trials and tribulations with us on her journal and the whole journalling community do and will miss her very much. Courageous, inspiring, loving, caring and always keeping her sense of humour.

My deep condolences to her beloved family and friends and God help them in their grief.

Pam is shining in Heaven right now, a new star in the sky. We will never forget her. Love you Pam.

Graciela Marques-Hahn

April 22, 2006

Your contagious laughter and much joy for life has touched so many around the world...mine is brighter because of your touch.Thank you for your courage and love. May you rest in God's loving arms. NCC families

Nancy

April 21, 2006

What a loss for all who's heart she touched....

And what a gain, and a gift, for those very same people.

We are all a little better, because of Pamela.

Tara Floyd

April 21, 2006

Pamela was such an inspiration, such a gift and filled with such love. Because of this, she'll always be with us, forever in our hearts.

My deepest sympathies to her family. She was loved by so many. I will deeply miss my dear friend.

Andrea {floralilia}

April 21, 2006

...without ever having touched her hand, or looked into her eyes - she knew our soul, and we knew hers...

how perfect is that?

~Children, do not despair - she is with you in all things and at all times, for love alone prevails.

Rest well, "mah lettle marshmallow" - you so deserve it. Thank you for all that you taught us.

Margaret Mariscal

April 21, 2006

Nick and Christina, I am so deeply sorry for your loss. I know that there are no words I can say to comfort you in this time of grief. Know that your mother now rests in peace...and in Time, you too will find peace. Allow yourselves to feel your loss and pain whenever those emotions stir. Don't push the feelings away...we must feel to heal. In TIME, she will sooth you with a blanket of Love and Peace.

Your Mother was blessed to posses the greatest gift of all...a heart filled with LOVE. Keep the soul of her spirit alive by letting her live in your hearts and lovingly live through you.

My heartfelt condolences to all of Pam's family, friends and loved ones.

Though my interactions with Pam were few and far in between, the most vivid memory that comes to my mind is that incredibly amazing smile of hers. Everytime I saw her, she was wearing it. Dazzling! Brings a smile to my face just thinking about it.

Kate

April 21, 2006

I am heartbroken to learn of Pam's passing, her kind heart will be missed. Indeed she is an angel watching over all of us. I knew her from her supportive entries in my journal and by reading hers. Pam stuck by me through tough times and always had a positive outlook on life. She was always there with a kind word to pick me up when I was down.

I now give to others what she gave to me... when times are tough, "Hope".

She will be missed and is loved by every life she touched. <3 My thoughts and prayers are with her family.

Rose

April 21, 2006

She was taken way too soon . . . I was only getting to know her through her aol journal. My heartfelt condolences go out to all her family and caring friends.

Gem R.

April 21, 2006

Pam,

You have made a difference.

Thank you.

Tammy Scruggs

April 21, 2006

We have lost a friend and gained a guardian angel. Until we meet again.

Sandra Doscher

April 21, 2006

I can't express how sad I am over Pam's passing. My heartfelt condolences to her family and friends. God must have needed another angel....

Brenda Spears

April 21, 2006

Sometimes a person never knows what to say at a moment like this. I'm sorry for the lost. But I'm happy to have had a glimpse of her and the life that she led. Best wishes in this time and tomorrow...

Cat H

April 21, 2006

It's all been said so perfectly. Pam will continue on through all the love she doled out...

No one will forget her and most who knew her will continue carrying on her wishes in helping through Chemo Angels, donating to Humane Societies... and planting accidental gardens for those who need one :)

Thank you, Pam, for sharing with us. Thank you to her family for reaching out to us virtual friends...

She is at peace now.

Penny Oaks

April 21, 2006

Pamela, you helped me to quit my nasty habit once and for all. You were one of the first persons to greet me in JLand and to teach me in JLand. I cannot fathom the courage it takes to reveal such a personal and devastating journey but I gained strength and inspiration from you. Your heart, your sarcasm, your joie de' vive are what I will always remember best...

Jodi

April 21, 2006

Sending my thoughts and prayers...I am sure Pam was sure to give plenty, along with the smiles. I have always been inspired by Pam her courage and enduring strength. More so, she passed it along to those she held close and dear.

An incredible woman.

She will be greatly missed.

Missie Ruth

April 21, 2006

Pam has been an inspiration to many who read her online journal. She will be missed. Her family will be in my prayers that they may find peace and healing.

Nelishia Wood

April 21, 2006

You will be missed by so many. I PRAISE GOD you are not in pain anymore and you are at peace. I pray for your family's strength. You touched so many here.

Nelishia Wood

Barb

April 20, 2006

My deepest sympathies to Pam's children, family and friends. I guess I am one of the few people who did not know her on AOL's Journals. I am saddened by the fact that I did not. It seems she was a friend to many & loved by all. I pray that God's love and grace will comfort you in the days to come.

Debbie (Psychfun)

April 20, 2006

Pam is truly now an "Angel Girl". Pam's journal inspired so many. She was so brave & strong & faced the demon cancer with dignity & humor. I will miss Pam's spirit but I know she will still be with us in our hearts & watching over us. I will always try to have an "accidental garden" in her memory each year.

To her beautiful children who she loved with her whole heart, my prayers are with you each day that your mother's spirit will help your heart heal and grow stronger with each day. I know as you continue in life her spirit will be with you & she will watch over you. She will smile on you with each event of your life. She is & will continue to be proud of you.

To the rest of her family I also hope your hearts heal soon & her spirit can smil through them.

Diama Opher

April 20, 2006

Pam,

I feel so hurt and angry with myself you leaving and going to a better place shocked me. I checked in occasionally even if i didnt know you but knowing things were going well made me feel good for some reason then i thought things were execellent i stopped giving you encouragement and hope and then this. I hope you know that even though i didnt know you i will miss you a fighter is what you were and still is in this teen's eyes and i look up to you and i to fight my disease and will never give up because you are a fighter and always stayed strong.

With much love pam ~Diama~ Rest in peace

Cheryl

April 20, 2006

Pam, you will be missed by many, many more than you could have ever imagined. Your smile, your courage, your sense of humor, your strength has inspired all of us. God bless you and your family.

Shelly Mundy

April 20, 2006

Pam was a true inspiration to so very many people and she will be deeply missed. My sympathies are with her children and family.

Katherine Fisher

April 20, 2006

Pamela was a personification of so much that is good in the world. Her readers have all been touched by her ability to face what life dealt her with grace and wit and candor. Her strength and her good nature was truly inspirational. I know she left many of us forever changed....and her spirit lives on in all of us who loved her.

My deepest sympathy to her children, her siblings, her mother, and the rest of the family. She will always be with you in your heart.

Penny Perez

April 20, 2006

Pam has been such an inspiration to so many of us. I feel inadequate to write of her many great charactaristics. She had more optimism in her little finger than I will ever have in my whole life. For nearly a year now, my family and I have been praying for her. Our prayers continue for her family, this extended journaling family and friends. You rest in His arms now, Pam. I just know he said, "Well done, good and faithful servant."

Myra Pucilowski

April 20, 2006

As Pam entertained us with her wit, sometimes sarcasm, but always courage in her words, she now entertains yet another audience...in heaven. Truly, she made a difference in so many lives. Pam's truest accomplishment was being a mom, and much more important than her own pain. My deepest condolences to her children, siblings and mom.

Rev. SUGAR Lewis

April 20, 2006

Please accept my heartfelt sympathy, know that my prayers are with the family that you may all find some peace amidst you grief. Pam is in Heaven now, carried there in the arms of an Angel. She was so brave, but suffered terribly, she is no longer in pain but enjoying her rewards by the Father.

MAY GOD BLESS!

Deb Ross

April 20, 2006

To the family i am so sorry for the loss of your mom, daughter, sister. Pam was such a wonderful inspuration to me rest in peace sweet lady

Pamela Lofstrom

April 20, 2006

Pam will be missed by so many people. She was a strong woman and was a great inspiration to many. My prayers are with all of you.

Christi Gray

April 20, 2006

Pam was--and will continue to be-- an inspiration. Her courage and her humor in facing all that came her way will stay with so many of us forever. Many blessings to her family and loved ones.

Rest well, Pam. You've more than earned your wings.

Rose

April 20, 2006

To Pam's family,

May you find strength and courage in this time of great loss. Your mother, sister, and daughter was a GREAT inspiration to so many of us and will be GREATLY missed. I will never forget her. Thoughts, prayers, and sympathy to you all.

Kari Kempf

April 20, 2006

She is now one of the most brilliant stars in the heavens, which brings such comfort to me. I am sending prayers of healing and peace to her family.

katie smith

April 20, 2006

my deepest sympathy to pams children and family. A angel on earth a angel in heaven.God bless you pam.

Angela

April 20, 2006

It seems so strange to have no new journal entries from Pam. She wrote with such honesty about her illness, her family and her life. I never actually met her, but I sure do miss her.

regina

April 20, 2006

thank you for stepping into my life even though briefly....you made it a better place to live. now go, my sister, and have the rest you so deserve.....you will be terribly missed.........

Amy Donahue

April 20, 2006

To Pam's family, I am so sorry for your loss. I have had the honor of reading Pam's words since Dec '03. She was so full of wit, love, gratitude and joy, no matter what life threw at her. I hope it is some comfort knowing how many lives she touched and will continue to touch through the wonderful example she set for all of us. I will miss her.

Suzy Colorado

April 20, 2006

My deepest sympathies to Pamela's family for their loss. I met her at J-land and used to think Pam was already part of God in her abilities to reach people. I loved her witty attitudes and courage in the face of this ravaging disease. Her ability to touch so many people is a testimony to the special qualities she possessed. She wanted to make her life have meaning...

just look at the trail of sad people and you know she had the deepest meanings in her heart, hands and mind. Now she can rest with the angels in Paradise. AMEN!

tracie gullette

April 20, 2006

My thoughts and prayers go out to the family. I am so sorry for your loss.

Shadie Rush

April 20, 2006

I never met Pam in person, but she touched my life with her words. She will be missed.

Carol

April 20, 2006

Pam was one of the bravest people in the whole world. She will be missed by sooooo many of us who got to know her through her journal. To her children and family, you have my deepest sympathy. May she rest in peace...

Donna

April 20, 2006

Sending thoughts and prayers to Pam's family. She was a remarkable lady who touched so many. A beacon of hope, a pillar of strength, and a ray of sunshine. She will be missed!

Vincent T, Deabler, Ph.D.

April 20, 2006

Pam was one of the happiest, most courageous people I`ve ever known.

Prayers.

Cynthia

April 20, 2006

Pam's loss has been felt around the world. She was a remarkable lady.

E. Joseph Bevacqua

April 20, 2006

With Sincere Sympathy on the loss of your Mother, Daughter, Sister and Friend. An Angel on Earth an Angel in Heaven. We will always miss you. We will never forget you. God Speed dear friend.

Diana Linden

April 20, 2006

My deepest condolences to you all. She was a wonderful lady and will be hugely missed by me and all her journalling friends all over the world. Her daily entries were a source of inspiration and her hints, tips and recipes were simply brilliant. She was kind and so generous with her time and an immense help when I was struggling to give up smoking. My thoughts and prayers are with you and for this Saturday when she will be lain to rest.

Diana

Hampshire, United Kingdom

Carly Gordon

April 19, 2006

Dearest Pam

I miss you so much. I was thinking about you today, and I remembered your beautiful voice and lovely laugh. I thought about the first time I heard it...and had to smile myself. I will remember your sense of humor and joyful nature. Thank you for the friendship you gave me, you will always be in my heart.

Love, Carly

Barbara Masters

April 19, 2006

Pam was a true inspiration to a lot of people. She helped me accept the loss of my little sister Christi who also was taken by lung cancer. Thank you Pam for showing me the love and laughter that is called life. And say hello to Christi for me. She is gonna love you! Barbara

Dawn Miller

April 19, 2006

Pam you touched my life.

Until we meet again...

Aol J-land won't be the same...

Lori Helms

April 19, 2006

I will miss her humor and wit.

Cassie P

April 19, 2006

I am sorry for your loss.

She was an inspiration to all of us.

Tina Clark

April 19, 2006

I am typing through tears... I am so sorry for your loss. Although I only knew Pam through AOL, I feel like I have lost a part of my very own family. She was a great inspiration to me. She always had a beautiful smile and was so very courageous. She will live forever in my heart.(((Pam)))

~Tina

Dianne Bishop

April 19, 2006

Pamela had a great many friends, and though we morn her loss here today, we can all look at the great good she did and know that she made a difference. Bravo, Pamela! Bravo!

Michelle Van Kleeff

April 19, 2006

As a loyal reader of her journal, Pam certainly made such a positive, amazing impression on me, one I hope to always remember. I didn't know her in the traditional sense but I certainly feel much sadness for the passing of this wonderful woman. God bless her family and friends and I know she is in a warm, loving, peaceful place.

Kathy Pent

April 19, 2006

Gosh how I loved to read her journal! She was one of the bravest ladies I have ever known and you had to love her! God bless her and her family

Rhonda Yankey

April 19, 2006

Pam was the most wonderful, and brave Lady that I have ever met. She taught me how to face adversity with pride and dignity. I will miss her more than words can ever say. I send my condolances to her two wonderful children and all the rest of her family. She will be missed by many. (I love you, Pam!)

Coy Slaton

April 19, 2006

Pam's story and courage have

been such an inspiration to so

many of us in her journaling community.

Her presence will be missed.

*** Coy ***

Tawnya Gregory

April 19, 2006

I haven't known about Pam very long, but I have lost people in my life to cancer and I am so sorry for your loss and she will be missed greatly.

Anne Allen

April 19, 2006

We were all touched by Pams life. Her battle was courageous. Her wit was sharp. She loved her family. We were all blessed to know her, me, through her journaling. She spoke of her children with love. She is in pain no more. May your hearts be healed by knowing how much she was loved and knowing she made a big positive impact in this earthly world.

Jo L.

April 19, 2006

What a wonderful and brave woman Pam was. Please accept my sincere condolences for your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you all. God Bless.

Lisa Anway

April 19, 2006

Pam was an inspiration to all of us who followed her journal on AOL. She was so loving and giving.....i am so sorry to hear of her passing.

Melania

April 19, 2006

I will miss Pam.. although just an online friend she was to me a real friend and inspiration.

Carolyn Green

April 19, 2006

With greatest symapthy to the family. I only knew Pamela through her journaling. She was an inspiration to many. She fought the good fight. Peace to her.

jennifer g.

April 19, 2006

Your mother, your daughter, your sister was one of the most special people to ever grace this earth. Her inspiration was awe-inspiring. Her strength was beyond description. I like to think that she was a friend. And I will miss her spirit terribly.

Please accept my sympathy for the loss of this glorious lady.

Jennie S.

April 19, 2006

I didn't know Pam, but only through her journal. She was brave, thoughtful, loving and it showed in her writing. I pray her family and friends know the peace she will have now and hold her memory close to your hearts until you can all be together again

Andi Klee

April 19, 2006

What will the world be like without Pam? I don't know yet, but there will definitely be another bright, shining star watching down from heaven. I am so sorry for your loss. She was a wonderful friend to me, and many, many others.

Connie

April 19, 2006

Pam was a very special lady. She will never be forgotten.

~Connie

Susan Taylor

April 19, 2006

Pam taught me so much about life and courage and spirit. I am so sorry we had to lose her to this stinking disease. She really loved those kids, and she will live on through them. I'll never forget what she taught me. Thank you, Pam.

DIANE WIGHT

April 19, 2006

Can't tell you how sorry I am of your loss, She will always be remembered in many hearts.....

Jeanie (JJ) James

April 19, 2006

My heart goes out to Pam's children and family. I am so sorry.

I am one of those online friends that Pam touched. She was an amazing woman who always handled everything with a wonderful wit and grace. She touched so many lives. She will be missed by so many.

AJ Rainey

April 19, 2006

Pam, what a special lady she was, always so upbeat, caring about everyone, a joy to read her Jland sites always. Even with the health problems she was going through she always kept a positive attitude, such an inspiration to all of us who got to know her through her site. Never has anyone touched so many lives as Pam did and she will truly be missed, but she'll always be kept in a special place in my heart. I didn't know her personally, but was always touched when she'd send me a personal note, she had such a caring heart. Pam will always be held as a "Special Sister" in my heart, I'll never forget her as won't her many Jland readers and friends. God calling her home on Easter just confirms how special she was. She's now a special angel watching over all of us. Pam was not just a beautiful person on the outside, but in her heart also. Thanks for sharing your life with all of us, we all felt you were part of our families and loved you.

My special thoughts are with her children and family.Through Pam we got to know you and knew how much she loved each of you. God bless all of you.

Anne Dallas

April 19, 2006

I have read Pam's journal and pray for her well being since she discovered her cancer. My admiration knows NO boundaries for her spirit and strong will. We grieve for ourselves, not Pam, she is in a MUCH better place now. Thanks to you, her children and her family for sharing her with all of us.

Brandy Parks

April 19, 2006

Pamela was truly an inspiration to many and her love for her friends and family showed in everything she did. I'm terribly sorry for your loss. You are all in my thoughts and prayers. Brandy

John Fontenot

April 19, 2006

I am sorry for the loss of Pam. She was indeed a remarkable lady.

June

April 19, 2006

Rest in peace Pam

You will be greatly missed

Theresa Miller

April 19, 2006

I am still in denial of this loss! I really am at a loss of words! Pam was a great person with the soul of an angel and she will truly be missed! She was a fighter, and now she is pain free! As she will be loved and her family is in my thoughts, prayers, and hearts!

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