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Philip O'Connell Obituary

Philip Raymond O'Connell, a loving and devoted husband, father and grandfather, died peacefully on January 26, 2009 at the age of 80 in Naples. Phil was born in Woodside, Queens, NY, son of Michael J. and Ann Blaney O'Connell. He was married to Joyce McCabe O'Connell, originally of New York City, who survives him after 51 years of marriage. Phil graduated from Bishop Loughlin High School in Brooklyn, earned an undergraduate degree from Manhattan College, a juris doctor degree from Columbia Law School, and completed the advanced management program at the Harvard Business School.
Phil was a proud veteran of the United States Navy, interrupting his studies at Columbia Law to serve in the Atlantic and Pacific fleets during the Korean War. He devoted 39 months to serving his country, principally as the executive officer on the USS Chilton and USS LST-883.
After returning to civilian life from his service in the Navy, Phil graduated from Columbia Law and joined the New York City firm of Dewey, Ballantine, Bushby, Palmer & Wood where he practiced for several years before moving into executive roles in the business world. Phil was an expert in corporate governance and held many titles in his career before retiring in 1990 as senior vice president and corporate secretary of Champion International in Stamford, CT. His achievements during his law career include being admitted to the Bar of the Supreme Court of the United States, serving as a member of the NYSE Legal Advisory Board and long time service as a member of the board of directors and chairman of the American Society of Corporate Secretaries.
In addition to his record of business success, academic achievement and service to the country he loved, Phil was a champion runner in high school, college and master's competitions. Among his many honors, he was a member of Manhattan's Penn Relays championship teams in the distance medley and four mile relays. Phil also ran on two national AAU championship two mile relay teams and an IC4A cross-country championship team for Manhattan. For his achievements on and off the track as a Jasper, he was inducted into the Manhattan College Hall of Fame in 2000.
Running competitively as a master, Phil won championships at distances from 100 meters to 800 meters at the Connecticut and Rhode Island Senior Olympics. He also finished third in the 400 meters at the U.S. National Masters Championships in 1999.
Phil is survived by his wife, Joyce; son, Michael O'Connell and his wife, Mindy of Dallas, TX; daughter, Kathleen Peloso and her husband, Raymond of Fairfield, CT; daughter, Jennifer McCormick of Newark, DE; and son, David O'Connell and his wife, Lauria of Lincolnville, ME; as well as his 11 grandchildren, Sam and Charlotte O'Connell, Meredith, Maddie and Caleigh Peloso, Kathleen, Matthew, Megan and Riley McCormick and Grace and Aidan O'Connell.
A Mass of Christian Burial will be celebrated on Saturday, January 31, 2009 at 10:00 a.m. at St. Luke's Church in Westport, CT. Interment with military honors will follow in Assumption Cemetery, Greens Farms.
In lieu of flowers, please make contributions in Phil's name to the Coalition to Salute America's Heroes, Two Church Street, Suite 101, Ossining NY 10562 or at http://www.saluteheroes.org/ways-to-give.html.
Arrangements are under the direction of the Spear-Miller Funeral Home, 39 South Benson Road, Fairfield.
To offer an online condolence please visit www.SpearMillerFuneralHome.com.

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Published by Naples Daily News on Jan. 29, 2009.

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Gene Lavan

February 22, 2009

Joyce: What a shock! I just learned of Phil's death on the internet. We were teammates and best buddies all through high school and college. We socialised together for many years after that. I always looked forward to his annual Christmas card and occasional phone call.
Please accept my deepest sympathy for you and all your family. I'm sure you will all miss him as I know that I will.

Barbara & Jim Reilly

February 8, 2009

Joyce: We just learned of Phil's death, and send you our sincere condolences. Please know that you and he will be in our prayers during Sunday Mass at St. Luke, and weekday Mass at St. Thomas.
Jim and Barbara Reilly

Jack Joyce

January 30, 2009

My prayers are with you at this time. I have good memories of being with Phil at the Forum Club. I will remember him at Mass at St. William

fjohn reinke (mc1968)

January 30, 2009

The Manhattan College alumni community shares the grief, and is now praying for our fellow alumni and the family at this time. The Alumni Office has been informed. As well as the Jasper Jottings community that I personally can reach. We are all a little poorer now. "No man is an island, entire of itself … any man’s death diminishes me". We are sorry for your loss.

Denise Hunter

January 29, 2009

Ray,

My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family during this time.

The Staff of Spear-Miller Funeral Home

January 30, 2009

Offering our deepest condolences during this time.

Bruce Girola

January 29, 2009

Ray,
Offering my deepest condolences to you and your family duirng this time.

Renita Weed

January 29, 2009

Ray,

I extend my condolences to you and your family in your time of need.
God Bless

Renita Weed

Stephanie Marcus

January 29, 2009

Kate (& family),
Please know that you are all in my thoughts and prayers and I hope your sorrow will turn into joyful memories one day soon. Lots of love, Stephanie Marcus

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