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Joan Henkel Obituary
HENKEL - Joan (Oakes), of Mystic, CT, passed away after a brief illness on Monday, June 30, 2008. Born in New York City, on December 2, 1917, she was the daughter of the late Alexander Morris and Helen (Buckman) Oakes. She was preceded in death by her husband, William Henkel III, who passed away in 1975, and by her daughter, Alexandria Nicosia who passed away in 1972. Joan was also recently preceded in death by her brother, Rodman Oakes. Joan had been a resident of Long Island for most of her life, moving to Mystic last year to be closer to her beloved nieces and nephews. She will be remembered most for her enthusiastic laughter. Joan was a devoted and caring family member; a person of great intelligence and integrity; and a dear friend for many who knew her. A memorial service was held on July 8th at Stoneridge in Mystic. Memorial contributions may be made to St. Jude's Children's Hospital.
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August 6, 2008
Lori Joyce
August 6, 2008
Dearest Joan - So many wonderful years have been shared with you. Our family will miss you so very much. Your laughter, your encouragement, your hospitality are the memories we will always hold close to our hearts. I am smiling about your reunion with Joe! Love you dear Joan, Lori Joyce (Chris, Adam & Ruth too)
Rose Provinciano
July 29, 2008
I am so grateful to have met you, Joan. I miss you & will always remember your warmth & bright smile.
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