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John Matier Obituary


MATIER - John R., of Mount Sinai on August 4th 2008. Beloved husband of Mary Jane, father of Catherine, Kevin, John, and Paul. father-in-Law of Lorraine, and grandfather of Connor and Heidi. Beloved brother of Jeanne Lavelle and James and Candice Matier and brother-in-law of Irene Matier, and Ann and John Clancy. Other survivors include Tracey and Cher and many nieces and nephews. Retired Teacher of Ward Melville HS, where he was known as "Captain Jack" to his students. Family will receive friends at Bryant Funeral Home, 411 Old Town Road, Setauket, August 7th 2-4pm and 7-9pm. Mass of the Resurrection will be celebrated on Friday August 8th at 10:00am at Infant Jesus Catholic Church, Main Street, Port Jefferson. In lieu of flowers, the family requests that donations be made to the Jack Matier Education Fund at Hope House Ministries at PO Box 358, Port Jefferson, NY 11777-0358 or on the Hope House website at http://www.hhm.org. For more information, please visit http://www.matier.com.

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Published by Newsday on Aug. 6, 2008.

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Peter and Joyce Paciolla

August 30, 2008

Mary Jane and Family - We were so sorry to learn of Jack's passing. We have so many fond memories of Jack. He was truly a "gentle man" and he will be missed.

Roger Mehrtens

August 13, 2008

Jack was always the elder voice of reason and beacon of light and truth as we, "The Edgemere Four",struggled through our early years. I pray our Lord brings comfort and solace to his family

Jose' Concha & Family

August 8, 2008

I feel honored and fortunate to have known Jack Matier.
He has enriched the lives of many. Our thoughts and prayers are with The Matier Family.

JENNIFER LOWENHAUPT

August 7, 2008

I was so sorry to hear of your loss. The thoughts of many are with you at this time of sorrow.

Kathleen Conklin

August 7, 2008

To the entire Matier Family,
Our hearts go out to all of you at this tough time. God Bless all of you! The O'Donnell Family

Andi DePalma

August 7, 2008

Dear Cathy,
My heart goes out to you and your family at this time. Remember the good times and know he will always be with you.

Elizabeth (Betty) Matier

August 6, 2008

My thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.

JOHN SHAPIRO

August 6, 2008

TO THE MATIER FAMILY , OUR PRAY AND THOUGHTS GO OUT TO YOUR FAMILY. JACK WAS A GREAT MAN WHO WOULD HELP ANYONE AT ANYTIME AND I KNOW HE WILL BE MISSED BY ALL. GOD BLESS JACK MATIER. SINCERELY JOHN SHAPIRO & FAMILY

Kate Matier

August 6, 2008

What a great man. He will be greatly missed. He was full of wisdom, and I will miss his stories and life lessons he shared with everyone.

Dad in 2007 at a picnic

Catherine Matier

August 6, 2008

We thank everyone for their kind words and hope to see you soon to honor our father.

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