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Ruth Ressmeyer Obituary

RESSMEYER - Ruth Bretscher, 85, Greenport, NY on October 26, 2008. Her loving husband of 64 years Reverend Henry F. Ressmeyer predeceased her by three months. Beloved mother of Christa Ruth Klein, Ph.D. (Rev. Leonard), Georgia Jo Ressmeyer, J.D., the Rev. Canon Victoria Grace Sirota, D.M.A. (Dr. Robert) and the well-known photo journalist Roger Henry Ressmeyer. Loving grandmother of Maria Hollenbeck, Nicholas Strauss- Klein, Renate Klein, Jonah and Nadia Sirota, Ryan and Rachel Ressmeyer and great-grandmother of five, dear sister of the Rev. Dr. Paul G. Bretscher, the Rev. Carl W. Bretscher and Dr. Manuel M. Bretscher. A Phi Beta Kappa graduate of Washington University, St. Louis, she also studied at Concordia Teachers College, River Forest, IL. and Adelphi University, NY. An early deacon of the Evangelical Lutheran Church in America, from 1985 she ministered to the sick, assisted with worship and taught Bible classes, after years of service as a kindergarten and preschool teacher at Grace Lutheran Church, Malverne, LI and St. Paul's Lutheran Church, East Northport, LI and a guidance counselor at Lutheran High School, Brookville, LI. An accomplished author, she wrote "Neither Male Nor Female" and other Bible studies, poetry, a spiritual biography and a family history. As a musician she served as a soloist, choir member and church accompanist. She is remembered for her gentle spirit and generous heart. Family to receive friends on Tuesday from 2-4pm and 7-9pm at the Horton-Mathie Funeral Home, 735 First Street, Greenport Village, NY. Liturgy of the Resurrection, Wednesday 11am at St. Peter's Lutheran Church, Main Rd., Greenport, NY. Committal to follow at East Marion Cemetery. Donations in lieu of flowers to a church or charity of your choice.

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Published by Newsday on Oct. 28, 2008.

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Carolyn Darr

October 30, 2008

All of you are held deeply in prayer.
Your Mother is at peace. I give Thanks.

Phyllis Scherer Wilkendorf

October 30, 2008

Christa, Georgia, Vicki, and Roger,

Jodey forwarded your mom's obit to me and then we chatted about the many memories that we shared with your family. The vacations in East Marion when we rented the Steege cottage, visiting with all of you and sailing with your dad were always a treat. And we can't forget the gatherings of the Big Six when they were held at our house. How much they all laughed and had a good time. We enjoyed our times with your family so very much.

You have my sympathies in the deaths of your parents. They were good people.

I hope that all of you are well and that God will put his loving arms around you and give you His peace.

Christa Ulich

October 29, 2008

Aunt Ruth will always be remembered for her kind, gentle ways, her thoughtful insights and personal notes. She will always be in my heart.

Sandy Adams

October 28, 2008

I will always appreciate the many, many years that Ruth conducted San Simeon's Bible Study sessions and her organ playing during services led by her husband.

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