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Joseph Gentile Obituary

GENTILE - Joseph, of Glen Cove, NY on December 6, 2007. Beloved husband of Sherilyn. Loving father of Joanna and Jaime. Loving son of "Guns" and Mary Ann. Loving brother of the late Eleine Stanco. Cherished uncle of Michael and Ashlee. Dear friend of Ken Swenson and Jimmy Capozzi. He is also survived by many aunts, uncles, cousins and dear friends. Visiting Saturday Dec. 8, 2007 from 12-4 and 7-10pm Whitting Funeral Home, 300 Glen Cove Avenue, Glen Head, NY. A Memorial Service will be held at 8pm Wed., Dec. 12 at the funeral home. Interment private. In lieu of flowers contributions may be made to Hospice Care Network, 99 Sunnyside Blvd., Woodbury, NY 11797 or Interfaith Nutrition Network, 211 Fulton Ave., Hempstead, NY 11550.

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Published by Newsday on Dec. 7, 2007.

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May 4, 2016

Joe

Miss you and Elaine so much - I am trying to take care of your children as best I can.

Love, Mom

Jaime Gentile

November 26, 2011

Daddy,
It's been almost four years since you passed away. I can't even believe it sometimes, it still seems too unreal. We had Thanksgiving dinner at Grandma's house on Thursday and I couldn't stop thinking about how you should have been there. Every time I walk into that house, I'm overwhelmed with memories. I feel like a lot of things fell apart when you passed away and nothing is really the same. I miss you more than you could ever know and I love you so much. You were a great father and I will never forget you. I hope I'm making you proud.

I love you, that'll never change

Imogene Culver

September 13, 2011

May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.

Joanna Gentile

September 12, 2011

Still doesn't make any sense to me why you had to go.. I wish you were here to watch me grow up it was too soon.. I love you and miss you.. Im trying to make you proud... Thanks for watching over me

December 5, 2009

DEC. 5. 2009

Joe - It is 2 years since you left us. Your father and I think of you often. I told Joanna that If she or Jamie need anything to please call us.
They are so grown and beautiful and you would be very proud of them.
I wish that there was more I can do to let them know we are here for them. We miss you so much. The holidays are not the same without you and Elaine.

Love you always

Mom & Dad

Joanna Gentile

December 4, 2009

Dad...so many images come to mind
whenever I speak your name;
It seems without you in my life
things have never been the same.

What happened to those lazy days
when I was just a child;
When my life was consumed in you
in your love, and in your smile.

What happened to all those times
when I always looked to you;
No matter what happened in my life
you could make my gray skies blue.

Dad, some days I hear your voice
and turn to see your face;
Yet in my turning...it seems
the sound has been erased.

Dad, who will I turn to for answers
when life does not make sense;
Who will be there to hold me close
when the pieces just don't fit.

Oh, Dad, if I could turn back time
and once more hear your voice;
I'd tell you that out of all the dads
you would still be my choice.

Please always know I love you
and no one can take your place;
Years may come and go
but your memory will never be erased.


It's almost been two years and I miss you more each day. I'm finally close to the end of high school, going to be out in the big world soon and I wish you were here to see it. I love you so much, rest in peace.

February 20, 2009

Words cannot describe how much I miss you - I know because I have tried.
Tears cannot express how much either - I know because I've cried.

You are truly missed & will never be forgotten. I think of you everyday & I am glad you are alright. May you rest in peace and until we meet again, I will remember you.

Love always.

December 18, 2008

You will always live in our hearts and prayers.

September 9, 2008

Joe
Dad & I really miss you. I helped Sherry to move and had them over to dinner last week. I know this will make you happy.
I really wish you were here.

Love from your mom

Jaime Gentile

June 19, 2008

Next week is my 8th grade graduation. I got two tickets, and I cried. I miss you.

Jaime

Joanna Gentile

June 19, 2008

I have finished school now daddy.
I didn't do as well as I could have I miss you. I will try harder next year.
Mom is OK, she is sad sometimes, but she is taking good care of us. Casey is sad and Maddie is lost without you. This summer is long, but we are moving. I will take your picture and put it in my room.

Miss you Joanna

Monica Magor

June 19, 2008

Dear Sherily: Regretfully, I now know how you feel. I do hope your wonderful memories of Joe will carry you through this most difficult time.
With deepest sympathy,
Monica

Imogene Culver

April 12, 2008

Thinking of Joe today, remembering who he was involved with Mass on his front lawn, with friends. He invited me to imagine that I was there with him, and I did. A special song, entitled "Stand Amazed in the Presence of Jesus the Nazarene" reminds me of Joe, as he, too, is amazed in the Presence of Jesus, too.

Joanna Gentile

April 11, 2008

missing you today.......... I love you daddy!

Sherilyn Gentile

March 2, 2008

Happy Birthday Joe. Couldn't write yesterday, too sad.

We miss you

Joanna, Jaime, and Sherilyn

March 1, 2008

Joe - today was a difficult one since it is your birthday. Dad & I miss you so much.

sherilyn jaime and joanna gentile

February 14, 2008

Happy Valentine's Day Joe. The girls missed the flowers and balloons you sent to them at school, and the cards you picked up at the last minute that always said the right thing.
We would have been married 21 years ago today at 7:30. Today, Joe, we really miss you

Sherilyn, Jaime, and Joanna

Michele Grazioso

January 27, 2008

My dearest cousin joe. U are now in peace from all the pain & suffering. I always laugh cause no matter how sick you were, you would always come & visit us. Say Hi to Elaine for me. Love your cousin Michele

Sherilyn Gentile

January 17, 2008

Mary Clark called me today. She got to know Joe in conversations with him as he was on his walks. She told me of their friendship, and reminded me of how Jow had a way of making people feel special and appreciated. He was in tremendous pain, but he remained optimistic and
upbeat as he went on with his struggle.

I miss Joe, more so today, as I hear another recall how much they miss him.

Mary, he is at peace nowm out of pain and into another journey. Thank you for helping him by comforting him and being his friend.
It meant alot to him.

Sherilyn

Sherilyn Gentile

January 13, 2008

Our daughter is 16 tomorrow. Joe wanted so much to be with her on this special day. He is. I see him in Joanna's eyes, her speech, her mannerisms, her sense of humor, her inability to sit still, and more.

Joe was a wonderful and loving father. Joanna and Jaime will always know how much he loved them by the memories he left them with.

Joanna is a wonderful legacy to Joe.
He was very proud to be her dad, and she is proud to be his daughter.

Sherilyn Gentile

Sherilyn Gentile

December 31, 2007

This year is ending on a sad note. Joe will be missed beyond measure, but as the sun comes up tomorrow morning, let's all try to smile for Joe. He is beyond pain, transformed and enjoying his reward for a life well lived.
Joe did not die, he passed into a new life. He is with us now, I can sense that.

As the new year comes, let's make Joe proud. Honor Joe's memory with
laughter, great conversation, empathy for each other, and do what he did so well, hold each other up.

Joe, Happy New Year. We Love you and miss your physical presence, Help us remember to be kind to each other and ourselves.

Sherilyn Gentile

Linda Boler

December 30, 2007

My Dearest Nephew....as a new year approaches know you will be missed beyond anyones ablilities to put your loss just into mere words. Your gentleness, caring, and laughter will be in all our memories and our hearts. Our love to you and your dear sister, Elaine. It was a privilege to have shared your lives.
Lovingly,
Aunt Linda

Sherilyn, Joanna, Jaime Gentile

December 25, 2007

Merry Christmas Joe. I know how badly you wanted to be here, and you are. We can sense your spirit all around us.
The girls and I went over the Ken's house last night, and people smiled when they spoke of you and the memories they have of your life. You touched so many lives, and you didn't even know it. You are loved now and always

Sherilyn Gentile

December 21, 2007

Joe has been in Heaven for two weeks and two days now. I miss his sense of humor, his presence, I know he is in a better place and is enjoying the conversations, totally pain free. It will take some time for the color to come back to our lives, right now everything seems so very monochrome I will never understand why Joe was picked for this journey,
but knowing he is without the horrible cancer brings me some comfort.

Mickey Trimarchi

December 13, 2007

Joe's drive and determination will forever remain an inspiration.

Diane, Renee, Jessica Roodvoets

December 12, 2007

Joe is now in his heavenly home, surrounded by God's Love, Peace, and Joy. God is with us here too filling us with His Love, Peace and Joy. Through God, we have this wonderful connection to Joe now...and will be drawn back together when we too pass into the wonderful eternal home that awaits us. Thank you Lord for creating Joe and sharing him with us!

James Capozzi

December 10, 2007

When he shall die take him and cut him out into stars and he shall make the face of heaven so fine that all the world will be in love with night and pay no worship to the garish sun.

Carmine & Mary Anm Gentile

December 10, 2007

Having Joseph as a son was one of the best things that happened to us. Elaine was the other. Now Joseph and his sister are together. The pain of losing them is almost unbearable but they left us with their legacy, their children. They are a source of comfort to us. Joe helped us a lot after Elaine left us and was always there to help. We will miss him so much but he must know how proud he made us for the time he was here.

We will love you always,
Mom & Dad

Greg and Joanne Culver

December 9, 2007

Our sincere condolences and heartfelt thoughts and prayers for Joe's family. We hope that you too, will be at peace while your beloved husband, father, son, and friend rests in the peace of the Heavenly Father.

Jaime Gentile

December 9, 2007

Daddy. I miss you more than I could ever explain in words. I regret not showing you how much you ment to me in the time we had together. I knew this would happen someday, but never in my wildest dreams did I ever imagine you passing away so soon. Dad, you will never be forgotten, I will always love you, not one single human being on the face of this earth will ever, or can ever replace you. You ment and still mean so much to me, I love you always and forever, You're in a better place now. And I know, even though I may not see you, or hear you, you'll always be right next to me.
I love you daddy,
I'll never let the memories fade.
March 1st 1956- December 5th 2007.
RIP

Anne Rendell

December 8, 2007

Heartfelt condolences to Joe's family and his friends at this difficult time. He was a beautiful person who will be missed by all.

John J's Complete Landscaping, Inc.

December 7, 2007

I only got to know Joe this past summer. He was a strong man to go through what he did. Whenever i saw him he was always in a good mood and came out to chat with me. He was a great guy. He is at rest and in a better place. Rest in peace Joe.

Imogene Culver

December 7, 2007

So long, Joe! It has been good to know you. You fought a good fight, and now you are in a place where pain and sorrow no longer exist. My condolences to your family and friends, especially my daughter, Sherri, granddaughters, Joanna and Jaime, and your parents, Carmine and Mary Ann. May you rest in the arms of our Lord. Maynard Culver, your father-in-law.

Imogene Culver

December 7, 2007

Joe had a heart of love, compassion and Grace! I enjoyed, especially, his phone calls and the items expressed of his love for us, his family and his daily concerns, as he focused on his Journey of living. Jean Culver

Maureen Hamilton

December 7, 2007

Our deepest sympathy to all of you at this difficult time. It's comforting to know he's at peace, without pain, but heartbreaking none the less.
Know that we loved Joe and will miss him dearly.
Lyle and Maureen Hamilton

Joanna Gentile

December 7, 2007

daddy, i miss you so much! you were an amazing person and i know you're in a better place now,without cancer & thats what you deserve.you are the bravest person i ever met and i know you loved me.you will forever be in my heart,as well as everyone elses and you will remain to be my inspiration.i love you so much and rest in peace.

Sherilyn Gentile

December 7, 2007

I had the privilege of sharing the life of this wonderful man for 22 years. He is by far the bravest person I will ever know. The love he felt for his daughters, his family, and friends was limitedless. He told me he was going home, and he did. The cancer took his body, but never his spirit. He is with us today and always, and the gift of the lessons he taught my daughters and I will be remembered for a life time and beyond.

Know that he loved each of you, and he is with you now, I can sense that
Love each other for Joe. Watch Notre Dame and ignore the losing season, bet horses based the the name, talk about food, throw the ball to your dog when you are too tired to move, have random acts of kindness, that would make Joe happy.

Rick Ceriello

December 7, 2007

growing up with you was so much fun.You will be missed.
Your cousins Rick and Gary.

vin chopard

December 7, 2007

My thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.

The Whitting Family

December 7, 2007

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