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for Norman Allinder
Debbie Allinder
January 9, 2009
Well its nearly time for the guest book to close. I will be printing this out for the family and if anyone has anymore kind words to put in there for the family please do. Norm is so missed my myself, the kids and granddaughters so any words are a big help to us all.
Butch thomas
December 25, 2008
thank you . & a merry christmas. to you ! !
Debbie Allinder
December 4, 2008
Where has this year gone? I looked up and you have been gone from us for a year now. It seems like yesterday you were sitting here telling us jokes. Some of them we have heard so many times. How I wish we could hear them again. I love and miss you so very much.
Richard Heyman
November 6, 2008
We are sorry to learn of the death of Norman, he was a member of our Group, the 364th Fighter Group Association. We wish his family fond memories and good health. Sincerely, Richard M. Heyman, Colonel USAF, (Retired) Secretary of the 364th. Creswell, OR.
Dee Dee Wheelan
September 4, 2008
Norm was a great guy, he will be missed by all of us
Judy Harrington
August 31, 2008
I miss Norm every day as I know you do Deb. he was much loved. I miss his humor,and his love of life. I keep you in my heart and mind every day deb,knowing how hard it is to just live with out him. My love and prayers are with you .
Debbie
August 30, 2008
Not a day goes by without thinking and missing you more and today is no exception. There will be a drink or 2 in your honor today.
Meredith
August 30, 2008
This day couldn't go by without a "Happy Birthday" to our sweet Norm.
DENA PARK
May 11, 2008
Norm was a very special friend and a great influence in my life. It was his courage that gave me the strength to play the part in his funeral as he ask, to become the first female ER as he said i could do, and his belief in my abilities has now helped me through a very challenging first 45 days as ER. I loved Norm, and I love you too Deb!
PATTY BROMLEY
May 9, 2008
From the first time I met Norm, at my first tournament in Del City, I knew he was special. In knowing Norm I saw the better side of life
and Thank God for this.
He truly left a better place for all.
He is missed but not forgotten.
Larry and Laurie Conley
May 3, 2008
Debbie;
My name is Larry Conley and I am greatly saddened to discover the loss of one of my military friends. I have been trying for years to find Norm and just happened to stumble onto this web sight, my wife, Laurie, will also be sadened when I tell her of our loss. May God bless and comfort you.
Becky & Richard Bowers
April 21, 2008
Debbie, Norm always told "it" like it was. I miss seeing him in the cafeteria and yelling "Norm!!" He was always there with solutions for Richard but most of all Norm was Norm....we still talk of rememberances of him. May God bless you Debbie and give you strength to continue as Norm would want you to.
Trish
April 20, 2008
Well Norm,Debbie has her hands full and with prayers from all of her friends and family it will sure help her out Love you Deb
Sheila Fogarty
April 11, 2008
I am so sorry i was not there for you
i had no idea i guess i was so wrapped up in my own loss we all loved norm and sure go back a long way i can,t even thing what its like in heaven now with Bob and Norm and Jo B all being togather again hope they are better then they were in Iceland lol
Deb if u need any thing just call god bless you and yours
love Sheila Fogarty
Andy and Joan Pratts
April 4, 2008
Debbie, just sitting here trying to put into words all the positive things we knew about Norm would take many pages; so we'll say this, we enjoyed knowing and being in his company. With great comfort we know he's pain free and at peace.
Sincerely,
Trish Baer
March 31, 2008
Well Norm, I promised I would help Deb out and I am keeping that promise. Just got back from Vegas with her and had a great time. We missed you I Miss your smile,your sense of humor and you just being there. I will always be thinking of you
Joe Avent
March 16, 2008
Norm was the kind of man you met and felt you had known him for years. Gracious, friendly and always helpful to the very end. I wish I had had the privilege of knowing him longer. Norm is greatly missed and will not be forgotten by those honored to have known him.
My sincere condolences to the Allinder family. May God comfort and bless you.
Debbie Allinder
March 4, 2008
Its been a month since anyone has signed the book. It has also been 3 months since Norm left this world for a better place and I miss him more everyday. I do know he is in the arms of God and he is waiting for the day we can reunite.
Billy Johnson
February 4, 2008
GOD Bless!
Elliot Segal
February 2, 2008
Debbie,
Although I only had the opportunity to meet Norm and make his acquaintance through the Elks for a few short years, he was always gracious and mentoring towards me -- truly like an older brother. There are no words that I can utter that have not already been said about your loss in this Earthly world we are in now, that would bring you anymore solace or comfort. If there were I would present them immediately. May the L-rd bless you and keep you, and until such time, reunite you with Norm. In the meantime, life here moves on and I pray for you to have the strength and support to move on, one day at a time, and bring the love, compassion, and wisdom you have to others from having experienced the blessing of a husband like Norm.
Dick & Dee Kanenchen
February 2, 2008
Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. Norm will be sorely missed. He was one of the truly driving forces of not only the Elks lodge, but also the American Legion.
Dave & Susan Goodwin
January 28, 2008
Deb, I am so sorry for your loss. Though we didn't know Norm all that well, he was always had a smile, a warm greating, and friendly way.
Chris O'Neill
January 24, 2008
I will truly miss you Norm. You will always have my deepest respect and admiration.
Love
Chris
Dwight Oaks
January 17, 2008
Deb, I am so sorry about the loss of a very dear friend and husband to you. You know if there is anything I can do, all you have to do is let me know and I will be there. Love you
Raymond Lee
January 15, 2008
I dont think I knew him as I am new to the Guard Dogs, have only recently started coming to the American Legion here, but I still wish to say I am sorry for your loss, may he know a peace unlike anything he knew on earth..
R.I.P Norm..
Pat Scully
January 15, 2008
Debbie, I am so sorry to hear about Norm. I know that he was so special to you as you were to him. My thoughts and prayers are with you. He was a terrific guy with a wonderful since of humor and I have great memories of you and Norm together at the lodge.
Bob Pierce
January 15, 2008
Deb I am so sorry to hear of your loss. Norm was a great guy,If I can do anything just let me know.Guard Dog.
John Bargas
January 15, 2008
I was so sorry to hear of your loss. Please let me know if there is anything I can do to help at this time. Guard Dog.
Cindy
January 10, 2008
I was so sorry to hear about Norm. He was a great man with a huge heart & he'll be deeply missed. He will always be in my heart.
Denise Martinez w/MDA
January 2, 2008
Debbie, I am so sorry for your loss. I had no idea. What a wonderful and caring individual he was, we will all miss him greatly.
Dave & June Dunagan
January 1, 2008
Debbie, we are so sorry we were out of town and could not attend the services for Norm and be there for you. I hope you know how special both of you have always been to us.You are in our thoughts and prayers.
Don Stephens
December 31, 2007
Debbie,
I know the sorrow is heavy, but I hope you remember all the GOODS times you had with the MAN. I cherished his friendship and humor, and will sorely miss him.
December 31, 2007
To the family of Norman, you are in out prayers.
God Bless
Jack & Sharon Hepler
Eileen Stremlow
December 31, 2007
I knew Norm from the time he got stationed at TAF, He was a great friend and would do anything for anybody that needed help. Will really miss him. Hang in there Deb. Love You
Mike Black
December 30, 2007
Norm was a true gentelman and friend he will be really missed! CHEERS TO NORM! LOVE YA! BUDDY! LOVE YOU DEB! I know he is in a better place! AMEN! Mike Black
Lisa Hailey
December 30, 2007
Even though i'm signing this a little late you know my thoughts and prayers have been with you. You are so very special to me and Norm was such an incredible person. He is and will be sorely missed. God is with you and He is holding you close in His arms through this time. I loved Norm and I love you Deb.
Lisa
Donna & Steve Goodwin
December 30, 2007
Our thoughts and prayers go out to Debbie and her family. We will never forget Norm. He was a sweet man and always made us laugh. Laughter is the best medicine.
Janell Barrios
December 30, 2007
Debbie,
Mike and I are saddened to hear about Norm.
Your friends always,
Janell and Mike
Sheryl Stephens-Leachman
December 30, 2007
I am so sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you at this time. He was such a wonderful, jovial, and very outgoing person that will be missed.
cindy dees
December 30, 2007
im so sorry ti hear about your loss will miss norm and my prays are with ya
Stan Mills
December 28, 2007
Deb, Going to miss Norm a lot, he was a brother. I will miss doing the Christmas Baskets with him. We are always here for you.
Jill Moon
December 28, 2007
My husband, Scotty, and I both graduated with Norman from CHS. He will be missed. Our thoughts are with you and your family.
Frank James
December 26, 2007
They say time heals all pains due to a lost of a love one, so Debbie we pray that time moves fast for you and your family.love Frank and Tammy
Al & Kathy KLuckner
December 25, 2007
Deb, Our thoughts and prayers are with you on this Christmas day. Norn will be missed by so many on this special day.
Phyllis Dorough-Barker
December 21, 2007
Dear Debbie - my most sincere sympathies go out to you and your wonderful family. You are in my thoughts and prayers and you know I wish you only the best. Just remember the great times and the fun you two had together. You can do it Girl! I'm here for you any time.
Thomas J ( T.J.) Troxell
December 19, 2007
You know our prayers are with you
T.J. And Maggie Troxell
MILBURN (CLEM) & SHIRLEY CLEMENTS
December 19, 2007
DEB. AS YOU KNOW WE WILL ALL MISS THE MAN (NORM), AND ALL THAT GOES ALONG WITH IT. ONE OF THE NICEST PEOPLE THAT I HAVE EVER MET,
LOVE YA
MILBURN (CLEM) CLEMENTS
December 19, 2007
DEB. AS YOU KNOW WE WILL ALL MISS THE MAN (NORM), AND ALL THAT GOES ALONG WITH IT. ONE OF THE NICEST PEOPLE THAT I HAVE EVER MET,
LOVE YA
Laura and John Stewart
December 19, 2007
Debbie,
We'll miss that special guy. We were lucky to have known him. Our thoughts and prayers are with you during these sad times.
Shainah Soule
December 18, 2007
My thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.
Judy Wright Anderson
December 18, 2007
I graduated from Conway High in 1967 with Norman. He was a great guy. My deepest sympathy to his family. May memories help you through this difficult time.
Dan Ratliff
December 17, 2007
Norman, was a classmate from the Conway Class of 1967. He was a friend. God Bless you and your family at this time and in the future.
Dan Ratliff
Jerry Reynolds
December 17, 2007
I graduated from high school with Norman in 1967. He will be sadly missed. My thoughts and prayers are with all of his family.
Janet Ledbetter
December 17, 2007
My prayers are with the Allilnder family. I went to High School with Norman. He will be missed.
randy glover
December 17, 2007
Our thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.
Linda Rogers
December 17, 2007
I graduated from Conway High School in 1967 with Norman. He was such a fun guy and we will miss him. May God bless you in your time of loss.
Karen Matthews
December 17, 2007
Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your during this time.
Ron (1967) and Karen (1968) Matthews
Edd & Donna Erbach
December 17, 2007
Our thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.
Kenny Smith
December 17, 2007
I was a classmate and friend of Normans.He was fine friend and outstanding person. God Bless his family in this time of sorrow.
Tyrone scott
December 16, 2007
My blessing to the family of Norm
Sylvia Bailey
December 16, 2007
I graduated with Norman from Conway High School. He was one of my friends who shared many hours cruising around town having so much fun. My condolences to you and your family. May God bless you and bring you wonderful memories of the love of your life.
Georg Brewster
December 16, 2007
Debbie, my thoughts and prayers are with you and your family at this time of sorrow. I was a classmate of Norman's.
Sam Southerland
December 16, 2007
Norman was our Conway High classmate and a good friend. God bless his family and friends.
Wayne & Jennifer Scott
December 14, 2007
Debbie, you and your family are in our thoughts and prayers daily. Norm is no longer in pain and is at peace. He will be watching over you as you go through some tough times ahead.
Norm and you will always have a special place in our hearts. He was a good man, husband and elk. He will be greatly missed by all.
mike hodges
December 13, 2007
My thoughts go out to the family, Norm will be missed.
Gregory Bean
December 13, 2007
Our thoughts are with you Debbie and the rest of the family. Sorry that we could not attend the memorial service, but the weather just turned to sour. Greg and Dee
Sally Phillips/Goff
December 13, 2007
My thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.
Twila Bourlon
December 12, 2007
Debbie,
My thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time. My deepest regrets I was unable to be there for you Sunday. Norm was a great Elk and you and Norm are my dear friends, if you need anything, just ask
Bethany Anderson
December 12, 2007
My grandpa was the world to me he made alot of people smile.. He love have a good time but most of all he loved his family.... Now that he is gone we know that he will be in are hearts....... NORM
Susan Tallchief
December 12, 2007
Norm was a really great guy and it was my privelge have him for a friend, even though it was too brief an acquaintance. He will be sorely missed.
Herman Dave Sanchez
December 11, 2007
My thoughts and prayers go out to the Allinder family.
Gregory and Dolores Bean
December 11, 2007
Deb We have knowen you and Norm for a long time and he will be miss so much. The good time we have had and the bad one too. Norm could always keep us up and going no matter what happen or when it will happen.
He will be miss and you are in our harts as well.
David Owens
December 10, 2007
It was a pleasure working with Norm for several years. Bless the family.
Bert Wheeler
December 10, 2007
Norm, I know you're in a better place now, free of pain and suffering, in the loving arms of our savior and Lord. When you came for your interview with Karta in July of 1996, in your auto mechanics uniform, I was initially hesitant to hire you for a very important (to Karta) position. After we started talking about your understanding of the aircraft maintenance world, I felt very comfortable and hired you on the spot. What a break for Karta! We will all miss you Norm. Save a place for me up there.
Pat Pittman
December 10, 2007
Debbie,
Norm was a great friend and a great Elk. He will missed by all that knew him. My thoughts and prayers are with you
Millie Correia
December 10, 2007
Deb--Norm was like a brother to me, a great friend, and traveling companion for several years with AREP. I knew I could always count on Norm to get the job done that lay before us. You were the light in Norm's life--he always spoke highly of you. I enjoyed knowing and working with Norm--he was a great guy. I pray that God will send you protection, peace and comfort as you adjust without Norm by your side. He is without pain and suffering in his new life with our Heavenly Father and our Savior, Jesus Christ. God Bless You and your family.
Melissa De Los Santos
December 9, 2007
To the Allinder family my deepest sympathies. You are all in my thoughts and my prayers.
Matt & Stephanie Nichols
December 9, 2007
Norm was a great friend, great co-worker and all around tough old bird...Now he flies with angels and he will be sorely missed...
Angel Henson
December 9, 2007
Deb you are in our prayers and thoughts...
Mike Aston
December 9, 2007
I first got to know Norm when I went to work for Karta. In just the short 16 months I was there, I became very aware of who Karta's number one employee was... not only from the Karta aspect, but from the Tinker aspect too. Norm, being a retired Chief knew how important the job was and not just to the Air Force but to our Nation. Norm was a good man and well respected among his peers. We all loved him and will miss him
May God Bless Your Family and bring you peace and comfort
Mike and Barbara Jo Thomas
December 9, 2007
Debbie, Our hearts and prayers go out to you at this time and during the upcoming Christmas season. It was a pleasure to get to know you and Norm during his VP year.
Cindy and Debbie Wroe
December 9, 2007
Deb our thoughts are with you at this difficult time. You need anything please feel free to call us.
Krystal Persicketti
December 9, 2007
Deb for so long Norm was like a dad to me. Because of him I got all the cherrys in my coke at the Planit Club. I just wish he could have known my husband and kids. They would have loved him like I did.
Betty Cox
December 9, 2007
The love and friend ship we had will always be with us. Norm was a wonderful person. He will live in our hearts for ever. We will be here for you and the kids if you need us
Bryan Cox
December 8, 2007
we will miss him
Barbara Admire
December 8, 2007
I read the entries in the guest book, what a tribute to Norm. There's not much more I can add. I worked with Norm at Tinker for about 3 years. He made me laugh and was always there to give me advice or cover my behind when I goofed. ha He will never be forgotten.
butch thomas
December 8, 2007
deb our prayers are with you
butch thomas & connie odom
Gene & Sherrill Lewis
December 8, 2007
When the ritual is over, the shock of the loss is dulled, your days feel empty while the day-to-day minutia steps in to crowd your heart, remember that Jesus knows exactly what you are going through. He promises to hold you steady through these rocky days ahead.
Gene and I feel blessed to have shared Elk VP time with you. Norm will be missed, truly.
You are held in prayer, today and in the days to follow.
ruby kirk
December 8, 2007
Dear Deb,
May God hold you tightly in his arms at this sad time, you and your family are in our prayers. and Norm will always be with you, in your heart, forever, with our sympathy and love.
Dan & Ruby Kirk
Gregg & Sheryl Cockerill
December 8, 2007
Norm and Deb helped put on a great tourney in Del City. They tried to see that folks had a good time. Norm will be sadly missed. Our thoughts are with Deb and family.
Marty Shepard
December 8, 2007
Please accept my deepest sympathies.
Robyn & Glenn Thompson
December 8, 2007
Norm was truly one of the good guys...he will be missed more than he realizes...
paul batchelder
December 7, 2007
deb our thoughts are with you. paul and mary ann batchelder, chickasha
George O'Brien
December 7, 2007
So very sorry to hear of Norm's passing.
Rick & Tammy Smith
December 7, 2007
Our prayers are with you and your family. May God wrap his loving arms around you and comfort you.
Gaylia & Pete Clements
December 7, 2007
Debbie,
Our prayers are with you and the family. We will miss Norm (the ol' contractor) so very much. He always had that great personality and was always willing to be there for anyone in need of help. He was truly an example to all ELKS.
We love you.
Kathy Yingst
December 7, 2007
My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. Norm will be missed,
Earl and Phyllis Clark
December 7, 2007
It was indeed a pleasure to have known Norm. He is a good man who will be missed by many. Because we care your sorrow is ours.
Thomas and Rosemary Overton
December 7, 2007
Our Prayers are with the family at this time of thier loss.
Judy & Marvin Harrington
December 7, 2007
We shall miss Norm, Deb but He will always be in our hearts and minds,as a great friend. Our prayers are with you and yours at this time. love you always,
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