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Raymond Lamoureux Obituary

Raymond P. Lamoureux, Jr.

"For I must be travelling on now, 'cause there's too many places I've gotta see…Bye, bye, baby it's been sweet love, though this feeling I can't change. But please don't take it so badly…" -Lynrd Skynrd, Free Bird
Raymond P. Lamoureux, Jr., 52, passed away peacefully surrounded by family and friends at his home in Mechanicsburg, PA, on December 19, 2008. His engaging smile, courageous spirit and kindhearted nature will be missed by all.
Born on May 13, 1956, in Chicopee, MA, he was the son of the late Raymond P. and Elizabeth "Betty" (Hoar) Lamoureux. Ray graduated from the United States Military Academy in 1978 with a degree in computer science. In 1981 he was awarded The Army Commendation Medal for outstanding meritorious achievement in defining a rapid procedure for software development in the Telecommunications Automation Directorate. While on active duty at Supreme Headquarters Allied Powers Europe (SHAPE) in Belgium, he earned his MBA through an extension program of Boston University. In 1983 Ray was honorably discharged from the U.S. Army, holding the rank of Captain.
From 1991 to 2003 he worked for IBM Corporation, where he designed, launched, and directed the global e-business strategy and design practice. To this day, the members of Ray's e-business project team remain linked by the closest of friendships. Most recently he was a partner with CSC Consulting in Manhattan. During his twenty plus years as a management consultant, his charisma and leadership abilities naturally lent themselves to his being a strong mentor and good friend to those who worked with him.
In 2003, Ray took a brief break from consulting to pursue a lifelong dream and opened his gourmet traiteur, catering and personal chef business, "Who's the Chef?" with his wife, Ann.
In addition to his loving wife of 18 years, Ann "AT" (Spade) Lamoureux, he is survived by his daughter and son-in-law, Dawn M. and Nathan Davis of Scranton; his daughter, Sara B. Lamoureux of Garrison, NY; his son, Alex T. Lamoureux at home; his step-daughter, Gabrielle R. Trucco at home; and his loving granddaughter, Little Miss Madelyn Marie Davis. He is also survived by his father- and mother-in-law, James F. and Elizabeth Y. "Vonnie" Spade of Mechanicsburg; his brother and sister-in-law, Michael and Betty Lamoureux of Massachusetts; brother- and sister-in-law James F. and Ann M. Spade of Camp Hill; close friend and sister-in-law Cindi Hagy-Spade of Dauphin; brother and sister-in-law Stephen T. & Felicia Spade of Fort Wayne, IN; several nieces & nephews; close friends Dottie Ross of Mechanicsburg, Harold Getz & Brian Hurley of Carlisle, Toren Hall of Mechanicsburg, and Jay Abadie of New York.
Raymond Lamoureux was a musician, an animal lover, a swimmer, a Blues Brother, an art collector, a rock 'n' roller, a chef, an adventurer, a "bid-nit-man," a loyal New England Patriots fan, a warrior in the "World of Warcraft," a friend to many, a father to a few, and a husband to one.
Memorial service will be held Saturday, December 27th, at 3 p.m. in Neill Funeral Home, Camp Hill. Visitation will be from 2 p.m. until the service commences. Burial at the convenience of the family at a later date in St. Joseph's Cemetery, Danville. Memorial contributions may be made to the American Cancer Society, 1500 N. 2nd St., Harrisburg, PA 17102, or to the Compassionate Care Hospice, 301 N. Union St., Middletown, PA 17057.
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Published by Patriot-News on Dec. 23, 2008.

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Dawn Davis

December 28, 2008

My dad was a special man and will live forever in our hearts and influence our lives everyday. I am so happy to see all of the people that he touched and loved him. Thank to everyone for your support during this time.

Carol Hank

December 25, 2008

Ann,
I am personally blessed to have met Ray and will always remember the wonderful company and conversations. The love you shared will be in your heart forever. Ray will live on for many, many years in the minds, hearts and souls of those who had the opportunity to have met and known him. My deepest sympathies to you and the entire family.
Carol

Helen Estep

December 24, 2008

Anne,Please know that my thoughts and prayers are with you and your family during this sad time. I am so glad that I finally got to meet you and Ray this year. You are very special people.

Matt and Anita Davis

December 23, 2008

Our prayers and deepest sympathies to our sister Dawn and the entire Lamoureux family. Living in RI we did not get to enjoy Ray’s company as much as we would have liked, but anytime we did, it was a pleasure. Ray was a great father, father-in-law to my brother Nate, and one of the best grandfathers I ever knew. Our family will truly miss him.

Matt, Anita, Brittany and Garrett

christy

December 23, 2008

To Rays Familyand friends:
My sympathies on the passing of Ray. I always enjoyed talking to him while he was exercising away. He will be missed.

Gail Blake

December 23, 2008

Ann, my deepest sympathy to you and your family, especially at this time of year. I lost my Dad on Christmas Eve in '06' and it will forever be linked to what is usually a very joyous period. I'll miss my political conversations with Ray. He and I were always on the same wave-length. I feel glad and honored to have spent the time with him and with all of you off and on over the years. I'm here if you need me. You have always been in my prayers. May you find comfort in God's embrace in the coming days. Love, Gail

Deborah Vance-Hamme

December 23, 2008

Ann - I love you. I'm so glad that you've become a part of my life (through by best girl, Helen II). I got to know you before I really met Ray. But just a couple of summers ago I had the chance to sit and talk to him (and you, Jess, Bernie, and The Pretty One...our own little Ross Reunion right smack in the middle of Mechanicsburg). We talked forever into the wee hours of the morning and it was fabulous!! Dear God....I loved his stories! He is so funny, so smart, so charming, so loved, and such a lover of life himself. He rocks!! I am so glad that I had that chunk of time with him; it was pure and substantial, and left a vivid impression on me. I didn't get to see him much later on especially after the move to NYC, but every memory of him is full and happy and delicious. He is such an impressive and gifted man. I am grateful beyond expression that I was able to know him just a little more before he left us. Much love to you and huge hugs to you and your family.
Love,
Deborah (and the Senator)

Debbie and Mundo Cisneros

December 23, 2008

I met Ray through my sister, Dottie Ross, who was a true friend. I didn't know Ray very well, but I do know that he was an intelligent and gracious person. May he rest in peace.

Nathan Spade

December 23, 2008

I knew Ray for nearly 20 years, as both my uncle and friend. Our family is blessed with countless memories of him at holidays and other gatherings. What I will remember most, however, is the zest for life that characterized his every waking hour. A kind and gentle man has gone to his rest, and we are all the better for having been loved by him.

Diane Lower

December 23, 2008

I did not personally know Mr. Lamoureux...however, with working with Gabrielle I felt that I did know him. My deepest sympathy to the family and my prayers are with you all.

Carol & Joe

December 23, 2008

Ray will be remembered by us for the fun loving guy that he was and the wonderful husband/best friend to Ann.

STEVE JOERN

December 23, 2008

Ray was and will remain important to many people, and espeicaly to me.

Thanks for the opportunities and many memories.

Bernie Zmitrovich

December 23, 2008

Ray is in our hearts forever! What wonderful memories we carry with us! Thank you for everything, Ray!

Becky Fischer

December 23, 2008

Ann,I really came to know you and Ray over the last two years, but what memories we have. What a sad day for all who knew Ray.Love to you and your family.

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