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T. Wade Ashburn SUFFOLK - Thomas Wade Ashburn, 28, died Aug. 16, 2009. Wade never knew a stranger and will be greatly missed by his family and friends. He was born in Suffolk, the son of Robert D. and Debbie C. Ashburn of Suffolk. Wade was preceded in death by his grandparents, Thomas and Janet Ashburn and Johnnie and Elizabeth Cook. He was the assistant superintendent at the Suffolk Golf Course and was a member of the Suffolk Golf Association. Wade was a member of Western Branch Baptist Church. He was a graduate of Virginia Tech and a member of the Alpha Gamma Rho Fraternity. Besides his parents, he is survived by his brother, Brian James Ashburn of Suffolk; cousins, Jeff Griffin and wife Amanda, Carolyn Ferrarao and husband Mike and their daughter Ashlyn; Shannon and Holly O'Berry, Alison Stevons and husband Tim and their son Cooper, Kevin Gray and wife Kristi and their son Hunter, Craig Gray and wife Michele and their children David, Mitchell and Hugh; aunts and their husbands, Theresa and Leonard Provost, Marian and Kenneth Gray, Carolyn and David Shannonhouse, Vickie and Jimmie O'Berry; great-aunt, Rita Stubbs and husband George; great- great-aunt, Judy Massey. A funeral will be conducted Wednesday at 4 p.m. in Western Branch Baptist Church by the Rev. Tim Rawls and the Rev. Micah Voight with burial in the church cemetery. The family will receive friends in the R. W. Baker & Co. Funeral Home & Crematory Tuesday from 7 to 9 p.m. Memorial contributions may be made to the T. Wade Ashburn Memorial Golf Scholarship Fund at Lakeland High School, and sent to Western Branch Baptist Church, 6952 Old Myrtle Road, Suffolk, VA 23434. Condolences may be registered at www.rwbakerfh.com.

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Published by The Virginian-Pilot on Aug. 18, 2009.

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Jim Maloof

August 23, 2009

Bobby and Debbie,

I am so sorry. I still remember Wade so many years ago, always running wide open. I will always remember him that way. You are in my prayers.

Jackie & Johnnie Langston

August 22, 2009

Bobby, Debbie and Brian, I just wanted you to know we are thinking of you at this very difficult time. We will keep you in our prayers.

Jessica Hall

August 20, 2009

Wade was truly a special person and a one of a kind friend. He is deeply missed and will be forever. My thoughts and prayers go out to his family.

Randall and Shawna Provost

August 20, 2009

We were so sorry to hear of your loss. The thoughts of many are with you at this time of sorrow.

Lori Encke

August 20, 2009

My thoughts and prayers are with you at this time.

The Ryan Family

August 19, 2009

Brian, Mr. and Mrs. Ashburn,
We are deeply sorry for your loss. Our prayers are with you during this very difficult time. God bless.

Robyn Williford

August 19, 2009

Although Wade only crossed into my life for a few years during middle and high school, he was a wonderful person then, and sounds like he stayed that wonderful, nice and always-smiling Wade. I am so lucky to have known him and he will truly be missed. My deepest sympathies go out to his family and close friends. Just remember that Wade is with God now and there is no better place to be. He would want everyone to put a big smile on their faces, just as he always had.

Carolyn Gwaltney

August 18, 2009

My deepest sympathy to you all. There is nothing more painful than the loss of your child.

Janet Parker

August 18, 2009

Dear Bobby, Debbie, and Brian,
I was so sad to hear of your great loss. Wade was a wonderful little boy, who grew into a wonderful man. I will never forget him. My heart goes out to you all. There are no words to express the loss I know you are feeling. I pray that God will bless and care for you as you try to move on. God has Wade with him now and he is safe.
Love,
Janet

Richard Crain

August 18, 2009

I am so sorry for your loss. I knew Wade from the Suffolk golf course and he will truly be missed. I consider myself lucky for having known him.

Shaunna Allen (Uhl)

August 18, 2009

Wade you will be truly missed. You have touched some many lives. You and your family are in our thoughts and prayers. We will see you again one day. GOD Bless you and your family!

Marcy Robertson

August 18, 2009

I am so sorry for you loss. Those who knew Wade will never forget how he always had a smile on no matter what the situation. He will be deeply missed by all. What a wonderful opportunity to know someone so special. I am so thankful I had the opportunity to know Wade. He was a wonderful person. You and your family are in our thoughts and prayers. God Bless.

Morgan Stinson

August 18, 2009

My thoughts and prayers are with everyone who was ever touched by the life of Wade Ashburn. He will be greatly missed and Never forgotten!

Cindy Lowe

August 18, 2009

My dear friends Bobby and Debbie, My thoughts and prayers are with you both. God blessed you with such a wonderful son, It was a gift to have known him. We will never forget that beautiful smile and the kindness he showed everyone. Love to your family.

Alicia Bailey

August 18, 2009

you will be missed and forever remembered Wade. There are so many lives that you touched here and so many who will forever hold you dear to their hearts. May you rest in peace and meet again with those who you love!

Todd & Sandy Rose

August 18, 2009

Our thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.

Joey and Sue Copeland, Sr.

August 18, 2009

Ashburn Family and Friends,
Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your families at this time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort. Many prayers surround you at this time. God Bless...

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