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Marilyn Silva Obituary

WILBRAHAM, Mass. Marilyn Ruth (Abry) Silva, 82, of Russell Road, died Sunday, July 13, 2008, at Baystate Medical Center in Springfield, Mass. She was born in Hudson Falls, N.Y. on Sept. 12, 1925, to the late Mary (Roth) and Claude Abry. Marilyn was brought up in Hudson Falls, graduated from Hudson Falls High School and has lived in Wilbraham, Mass., for the past 40 years. She was a communicant of St. Cecilia's Church. Marilyn was formerly a member of Quilters' Guild in West Springfield. She was the beloved wife of 60 years to David H. Silva; loving mother of Kathleen Grandy and her husband, Elroy, of Wyandotte, Mich., Carol Armitage of Palmer, Johanna Madden and her husband, John, of Durango, Colo., Susan Skinner and her husband, Steve, of Union Grove, N.C., Paula MacNiece of Yarmouthport, Thomas Silva of Wilbraham, Nancy Wagner and her husband, Scott, of Graniteville, Vt., and Matthew Silva and his wife, Jennifer of Monson; devoted grandmother of 16; great-grandmother of nine; and she leaves several nieces and nephews. There will be a Memorial Funeral Mass celebrated at 11 a.m. Saturday, July 19, at St. Cecilia's Church, Wilbraham, followed by a burial at the Woodland Dell Cemetery. Calling hours will be held from 4 to 7 p.m. Friday, July 18, at the Wilbraham Funeral Home, 2551 Boston road, Wilbraham. In lieu of flowers, donations in Marilyn's memory may be made to the St. Cecilia's Church Building Fund, 42 Main St., Wilbraham, MA 01095.

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Published by Post-Star on Jul. 17, 2008.

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Raymond Randall

July 31, 2008

Dave and Family
I have an awful lot of fond memories of the short time you spent as my neighbor on Russell St. in Hudson Falls. I remember how much fun I had when Marilyn took care of me and playing with Cathy, Carol, Johanna, and Susan. I am so sorry to hear of Marilyns passing. I can still see her smile and hear her laugh after all these years. Always thinking of you all.

Janet Deschler

July 24, 2008

Sue,

We are sorry for your loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.

Marlene Sharak

July 19, 2008

Uncle Dave and all my cousins- I was so saddened to hear of the loss of Aunt Marilyn - she was a wonderful person who is part of my very earliest memories. My thoughts are with you at this sad time. Marlene

Phil, Michele and Ethan Silva

July 19, 2008

Uncle Dave and cousins: Michele, Ethan and I were saddened by the news of Aunt Marilyn's passing. She was a kind, gentle and caring soul and the model of the "good mother" whose ability to adapt to any happenstance was amazing to see. You are all in our prayers.

Thomas MacNiece

July 19, 2008

Dear Dave and family,

Very sorry for your loss. Marilyn was a wonderful mother in-law. She will be greatly missed.

Randy Watkins

July 18, 2008

All of your family will be in our thoughts and prayers.

Margaret Keras

July 18, 2008

Paula and Drew,
Please know our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family during this difficult time. The Keras Family

Lorraine Kruger

July 18, 2008

Sue, I am thinking of you and saddened by the loss of your dear mother. We are never quite prepared for this, but I know you are thankful to have had her for so many good years and for your recent time together. Lorraine Kruger

Reynolds and Reynolds

July 18, 2008

Sue,
Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.

Brian Carey

July 17, 2008

Paula and family please know that you and your family are in our thoughts and prayers. Keep your family close. God bless you and yours.
The Carey family

Susan Saurette

July 17, 2008

Paula and Drew and all of Mrs Silva's family I am so sorry to hear of your loss and our prayers are with you all. With Deepest Sympathy for all of you. The Saurette Family of Yarmouth

Sharlene Silva

July 17, 2008

Uncle Dave and Cousins,

Aunt Marilyn was always one of the gentlest spirits in my life and I will greatly miss her. I will always remember our family reunions and how she was the most "pro camper" ever. My heart and prayers are with you all. Love, Sharlene

Cathy Paris

July 17, 2008

Paula and family, I'm so glad I got to meet my Mom 10 yrs. ago. My love to you and Drew and all my other sisters and brothers. Give Dad a hug for me too.
Cathy

Marianne Abry

July 16, 2008

Dear Uncle Dave and Family,

"Trust that there will come a time when precious memories will change your tears to smiles."

With great empathy and love,

Dianne Wallace

July 16, 2008

My deepest sympathy, you are in my thoughts and prayers.

Valerie Silva

July 16, 2008

Dear Uncle Dave & everybody,
My sweetest memory of Aunt Marilyn is at Johanna's wedding, when they held the dance where all the married couples went out and then slowly cleared the floor as they announced the number of years people had been married. As it became clear that Uncle Dave & Aunt Marilyn, as grandparents of the bride, would be the last ones out there, Aunt Marilyn gave a little smile and put her head against Uncle Dave's shoulder. I just have this sweet picture in my head of them dancing together that evening, that I will keep with me, happy and together with so many members of their family.
You are all in my prayers.
Love, Val

Vivian Cameron

July 16, 2008

Dear Mr. Silva & Family,
Our deepest sypmathy, Mrs. Silva touched many lives and has left behind a wonderful family that loved her very much. You are all in our prayers. God Bless.

Ken & Vivian Cameron
(Johanna's in-laws)

Daphne Foster

July 16, 2008

My thoughts and prayers are with you during this time. God Bless.

Sue Scheive

July 16, 2008

Dearest Sue and family,
Our deepest condolences to all of you. You are in our prayers during this difficult time.
Sue - your kindness and generosity of spirit must be a reflection of your Mom whom I have never had the pleasure of meeting. May she rest in the Lord's arms.
Love,
Sue & Randy Scheive
Ruth Schaefer

BOB , HALEY , KYLE HASTINGS

July 15, 2008

We never met Marilyn but she touched our lives by bring Paula into our lives! Marilyn I thank you.God Bless

Mary & George Holman

July 15, 2008

Dave and Tommy,
Our sincerest sympathies. Marilyn was a lovely lady. I am sure she will be well remembered by all. Our condolences, Mary, George and Max

Patricia Hadley

July 15, 2008

Marilyn has left a wonderful legacy in her children and family. God bless you in this time of sorrow.

Gwen Cunningham

July 15, 2008

Dear Sue, your mother's legacy of children, grandchildren and great grandchildren is awesome. I'm sure she was truly a great lady. Our prayers are for you and your family.

Gwen Cunningham & your friends at
Gwinnett Place Honda

Chris Sofia

July 15, 2008

What an amazing person and beautiful family! Celebrate the wonderful life of Mrs. Sylva and remeber all of the great times you had. She is in paradise now smiling down on all of you. I will keep all of you in my thoughts and prayers! God Bless

Michael & Michelle Patrick

July 15, 2008

Dear Silva Family:

Our thoughts and prayers are with all of you. Our deepest sympathy. Mrs. Silva was such a sweet lady and she will be missed by all who knew her.

B. Howell

July 15, 2008

Our thoughts and prayers are with you all.

Karen A. Godard

July 15, 2008

No bond is as great as that between a parent and child. Our deepest condolences are with you as you grieve.

Beth O'Connor

July 15, 2008

Mrs. Silva was a great lady! She will be greatly missed. I'm so sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you all. Love you

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