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MESSICK, CYNTHIA VI (COSSABOON), 39, - of Cape May Court House, passed away on Tuesday, August 12, 2008. Born in Bethesda, MD, she was a longtime resident of Cape May Court House. She formerly worked at Westside Market in West Cape May. She enjoyed bingo, motorcycles, horses, penguins, and her music. She loved being a mom to her children. Cindi is survived by her husband, Paul; her children, Dutz A. Bonus, Sandra M. Bonus, Zachary J. Williams, and Amanda M. Messick; her mother, Florence Cossaboon; her brother, C. Wayne Cossaboon, Jr.; her sister, Susan E. Bland and her husband, Eric; her grandmother, Mary Cossaboon; and many aunts, uncles, cousins, nieces and nephews. She was preceded in death by her father, Calvin W. Cossaboon, Sr.; and her grandparents, Albert and Viola Hand, William Cossaboon, and Mary Dougherty. Funeral services will be held on Friday, August 15, 2008 at 7:00 p.m. at the Radzieta Funeral Home, 9 Hand Avenue, Cape May Court House, where viewing will begin at 6:00 p.m. Interment will be private. Memorial donations may be made to the American Cancer Society, 626 North Shore Road, Absecon, NJ 08201. Condolences at www.radzieta.com
This obituary was originally published in The Press of Atlantic City.
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Zachary Williams
July 3, 2014
9th grade I mean! Lol
Zachary Williams
July 3, 2014
Guess what?! I'm going to 8th Grade Mommy! Love you and Miss you soooooo much!!!!
Zachary Williams
May 13, 2013
As I look back on these memories, I shed a tear.
But its a happy tear, because I know gods keeping you in a good place!!
I miss you so very much, I love you so very much!!
Love Zach
Zachary Williams
September 5, 2012
Well, I'm a 7th Grader now. I bet you were laughing when I couldn't get my locker open....hahaha I love you Mommy!!!
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Zachary Williams
December 24, 2010
merry christmas 2010 mommy. i think about you every day and i miss you alot.
August 12, 2010
its 2 years today mommy since god made you a angel. i know you are ok up in heaven and watching over me but i wanted you to know that i miss you and always will. make sure you let jesus know that i am being good. i love you.
Zachary Williams
July 19, 2010
i'm going to be in 5th grade next year. i hope you are proud of me. daddy is working hard to take care of me just like he told you he would do. do what jesus says and be good for him. i love you and i miss you.
zachary williams
June 18, 2010
it's your birthday mommy. i wish you were here but i know that god needs you. i love you and i miss you too. be good for god up in heaven.
Zachary Williams
March 26, 2010
I'm doing good in school mommy. I miss you and I think about you and I love you.
Zachary Williams
December 24, 2009
Merry Christmas mommy. I love you.
Thomas Williams
October 17, 2009
Zach and I still miss you.
Summer 2005
May 8, 2009
GAIL HENKEL
March 12, 2009
IT HAS BEEN 7 MONTHS TODAY AND I MISS TALKING TO CINDI, SHE WAS ALWAYS THERE FOR ME TO TALK TO. MY BIRTHDAY IS COMING UP AND I KNOW SHE WOULD OF BEEN THE FIRST ONE CALLING TO GET ME TO GO OUT, WELL I WILL HAVE ONE FOR HER AND THINK OF HER WHEN I DO CINDI I LOVE YOU AND MISS YOU SO MUCH!!!
YOUR FRIEND
GAIL
Cindi, Zach, Sandi, & Dutz. 2002.
October 17, 2008
Hayride at Rea's Farm, Cape May, NJ. 2003.
October 17, 2008
"Sisters" Pennsylvania, 1997
October 3, 2008
Tera Keen
September 23, 2008
I think I met Cindy in 1993 when we worked at Taco Bell ,together .We became friends instantly,she was such a funny person,she started selling Party Lite with me, and I will always remember haveing to stop at WaWA to get chocolate milk for her.Time passed and we lost touch w/ each other.however we ran into each other at schools open house.every year at middle elem #1.And always said "we were gonna get in touch" and for some reason or another never were able to.( dont' ever let time come between friends cause this is when you relize that you don't what you have till it's gone) I learned about Cindy's passing just on Monday,Sept 22nd when I ran into her daughter at Arby's,and I said to her,is your Mom's name Cindy?She said Yes,and then she told me the horrible news,I felt such a bad feeling in my stomach and I felt my eyes starting to swell,I did cry on my way back to work.She will never be forgotten .. "Love ya,Cindy"
Summer 2005.
September 7, 2008
"Wow, thats COLD". (Summer, 2005)
September 7, 2008
Zach & Mommy at his Christening, Wildwood Crest, NJ. 6-10-2000.
September 2, 2008
Thomas Williams
August 17, 2008
Cindi gave me a beautiful son and I will treasure her for that always. I will make sure he grows to be a fine and worthy young man and I will never let Zachary forget how much his mommy loved him. Zachary and I will keep her memory cherished in our hearts forever. I know that you will be guiding me from above.
Love always,
Tom.
Lisa Klecz
August 16, 2008
She will truly be missed. My thoughts and prayers are with Dutz, Sandi and the family.
SUSAN BLAND
August 16, 2008
I WILL MISS YOU FOREVER. I WILL TALK TO YOU OFTEN, I WILL MAKE SURE THAT YOU ARE NEVER MORE THAN A THOUGHT AWAY. I WILL ALSO MAKE SURE THAT ZACH IS TAKEN CARE OF. I LOVE YOU LITTLE SISTER.
I BELIEVE THERE ARE ANGELS AMONG US!!!!
Renee (Taylor) Negin
August 15, 2008
Though I hadn't seen Cindi in many years, her emails always made me smile. She will be missed my so many. My thoughts and prayers are with her family.
Stephanie Seitz
August 15, 2008
Until that day I'll think of you,
the love we shared, the memories too.
Until that day I'll think of you,
I'll try so hard in all I do.
Until that day I'll find out why,
you had to leave with no "goodbye".
Until that day this is so,
your family misses you, more than you'll know.
Until that day You'll be with him,
your God, your Savior, and new best friend.
Until that day I see you there,
you're in my heart, you're everywhere.
Until that day.
I love You Aunt Cindi!
Show Your Father What Butterfly Kisses Are!
Myrna Shurr
August 14, 2008
Cindi was'nt a quitter. She fought to the very end, and even then she was worried about everyone else.
If anyone deserves to be in a wonderful place, it is Cindi.
I love you Girly Girl. I am so proud of you.
Love,
Aunt Myrn
Kelli Campbell
August 14, 2008
I have only known Cindi for a few short years but the time that I have known her she was a funny, very caring and loving woman who put up such a courageous fight right up to the end. I only hope that I could have the strength one day that she did. I will miss her greatly. I love ya Cindi.
Zachary Williams
August 14, 2008
I miss you i miss your smile and i still shed a tear every once in a while even though we're different now your still here some how my heart will let you go i need you to know i miss you.
I love you Mommy
Donna And Ron
August 14, 2008
To the whole family of Cindi she will be missed and my hearts goes out to each and everyone of you i will never forget the times we had together,Cindi love was like no other truely one of my best friend and she is up there flying with her wings just like the butterfiles she loved so much we love you
Ed Barber
August 14, 2008
Cindi was a strong person. She had a beautiful smile. I will miss her deeply. My thoughts are with her family.
John&Emily Gorman
August 14, 2008
Cindi was a good friend.I know her for 11 years now.I babysat little Zachary when he was a baby and she was there for me when I find out i was having my first Baby and i will never for get that.She was always there for me and my husband John.We will miss Cindi will all of are heart. and so will her Bird Nikki.
stella, john, lou grogg, gorman,elbertson
August 14, 2008
Cindi was a fighter never gave up on anybody .Cindi was always there for me and my boys.we will miss her greatly . no one will miss her as much as i will .she was a true friend.
Amy Thum
August 14, 2008
Cindi was a fighter she never gave up. She lived life to the fullest and smiled even when it was rough. She had the strength that some could only hope for. She will always be remebered and I will miss her. Those who knew her were blessed.
Christina Muller-Kelley
August 14, 2008
I've known Cindi for many years and I am very sad that she is no longer with us. My heart goes out to her entire family and I hope you find comfort knowing that she is with the Lord above and also with her father, cousin Albert and other family members now. Cindi was always alot of fun, and was always there as a friend when you needed one. No words can express how much she will be missed, she was a terriffic person and I will never forget her.
Sincerely,
Chrissy
Janie & Bill Adair
August 14, 2008
Cindi will always be remembered for her huge smile that she always wore. I'll always remember her as the "Silver Dollar" which was when we first met over 10 yrs ago. Memories of BBQ's, horseshoes, and LOUD singing will bring smiles to many!! Crazy, fun times at the bank will be remembered forever....and so will Cindi. She put up a great fight & she will be missed by all of those who knew her.
Lorraine Overcash "Belton"
August 13, 2008
I will always remember the fun trips back and further from school in her brown and tan chevy chevette. Always had such a beatiful smile on her face and knew all the words and sang her heart out to all the cool tunes. Always and forever be in my heart
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